What's becoming a father like?

Doubt there is difficulty in that

Have you seen the population chart lately?

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like this

>>745038792
Are you a father?

>>745038894
L-L-Littlefoot?

>>745038894
She mustabeen good. If that's your face after

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>>745038654
Like becoming a mother, except you have a penis.

>>745039002
Just how exactly am I a father.. I was stating that it wasn't difficult

Exciting at first. Then very nervewracking, contant worry if eveything is OK. Then exhaustion mixed with some frustration. Then you get into a groove and its all good.

>>745038654
black or white father...?? there is a big difference

>>745039079
>Just how exactly am I a father
I was asking if you were a father, not accusing you.

>I was stating that it wasn't difficult
It wasn't a question of difficulty.

>>745039190
Has your life changed much or do you still do stuff you enjoy? (Going out with friends, etc)

Pretty good if you have a son.

Mind blowing... everything changes. Well it should do if you are going to be a good father

>>745039279
Depends if you and your partner are a good team. At first, dont expect to go out much unless you are willing to let the other half do the same while you watch the kid. I have three kids now, while I have less freedom to do what I want, my wife and I understand breaks are needed. She has weekly dinner outings with friends while I also get a night out. Its a partnership. And yes it will change your life. While there are bad times, there are more good times. Just remember, you cant just get up and leave to do some errand or something. Now its about coordination and doing things as a family.

>>745039648
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>>745039648
Thanks guys

>>745038654
It takes a lot of hard work to be a good dad, the most important thing you can do is be tbere as a good influence in your kids life. I have a 3 year old son and he is my world.

>>745039073
Biggest lie ever told

It has been a year since my wife gave birth to my son.
At first full of anxiety both good and bad just because of my ignorance of what is to come of the future.
Dust settles, and its pretty simple. Anytime kid cries its one or two of 3 things.
1. Hungry, 2. Shitty diaper 3. Bored/sleepy.
After 8 month mark it gets fun, the start becoming more mobile and less useless meatbag.
We co-sleep with our son. And i love it he likes to snuggle.
Its fun op. It will test your patience. But think of it like this, your kid can become your best friend.
I definitely want like 2 more kids then im done.

>>745038654
>If your partner is great
It's amazing, the best thing ever. Lots of hard work and your life will (and should) change. Prioritize your child above all else, they deserve it. But doing so is incredibly worth it and it will make you very satisfied.

>if your partner is not great and you just got some girl pregnant
Good luck, anon. Work hard to see the best and don't give up.

>>745038654
boring

Father of my son won't even brush his teeth. He is short tempered with both of us and told me I'm ugly while pregnant. I feel trapped, but when my son is ready, I hope I can find him a better father figure.

>>745041351
Kick him out amd do it now? Why wait? And tbh you dont need a father figure, he will need a strong loving parent. Thats all

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>>745041351
If this is real and isn't bait then dump his arse. No male influence is better than a bad one. You don't want your son thinking it's ok to treat people like shit.

Being a father is easy. Being a good father is very difficult. What amazed me is just how tired I was, despite the fact that my awesome wife. 85% of the work most of the time. Also, be prepared to experience all kinds of new anxieties that you never thought you had before. I worry constantly about something bad happening to my daughter. Still getting used to it, but I wouldn't trade it for anything.

>>745041351
If his dad is treating you like shit, your son will see that and learn thats how to treat a woman. Granted an infant wont tell the difference it can condition him to do so as he gets older.
Do yourself and him a favor and gtfo of that situation now.

>>745041351
He be better off if you just give him one loving parent and leave the asshole out of the equation

>>745041502
He works 8 to 5 then plays rust. Only talk to him when he talks first

One thing ive come to the realization of is how stupid/smart that people you know that are in your life when it comes to common sense about what to look out for. Like for instance, plugged in cell phone cords just laying around

>>745041583
I don't have resources to leave. I clean house, 100 a house (take son with me) bf takes my money

>>745041723
He yells at me to have sex. I do so he doesn't wake up son. My life is hell but I love my son

>>745041745
I don't want half of the protection he has to be taken away / fearful of pedophile after single mom

>>745042162
In all serious is this b8, cause like if not dude youre in an abusive controlling "relationship" and you honestly need to gtfo of there. There are organizations that will help you. But if you dont do anything now its only going to get shittier for you from here.
Hey its your life, you do what you want to this is your bed make it however you want, you're the one that has to lay in it.

If this is a troll. Ha ha... you actually got me. This is the one thing that gets under my skin. Mothers that have the power/ability to do something to better themselves and for their kids but have that battered woman syndrome mentality.

>>745042571
And they require 0 resources from you.

>>745042551
What country are you from

>>745038654

It's like a rampant bellowing prize bull siring a herd of bleating calves, after fucking the brains out of a host of big fat dairy cows, all having enormously distended udders flopping around uncontrollably during the acts coitus,

..... excepting that I am not a prize bull, I am a prize hetero sapiens ( which is the nearest equivalent straight version of the "homo sapiens" that most of the faggots infesting these boards are somewhat more familiar with.

Plus:
..... I routinely engender hordes of fine health (non-emasculated hetero sapiens whelps, rather than your common-or-garden productive milk calves & castrated oxen.

No offence intended to those of you who have every right to conduct your lives as practising homo sapiens and/or castratos, in the privacy of your own disgustingly squalid little hovels.

>>745042551
You know what, you have my sympathies. But there's a couple of things to think about… Number one, this is not a thread about your personal life or about why you choose bad partners. What you're doing is stupid, I think you know that, but if you're just going to keep doing it then there's no point in coming on this website and bitching about your misery. Secondly, Tits or GTFO.

>>745042571
Life story. B Crack baby
Sex abuse 3 yrs to 5
Foster care to 11 (never anywhere longer than yr)
Home to ex drug addict dad
Sister gets him to do drugs again
Dies because drug, I'm 15 homeless.
Drop school to work longer (pizza place)
I have known my bf since I was 12. Hook up at 17.
2 yrs college
Pregnant
Bf didn't want baby. I wanted family so bad....
Baby is almost 2. Bf is a dick now.
Started being a dick during pregnancy.

>>745042803
Agreed,
even for /b I'll get real when it comes to kids and the well being for them.
But i forgot the biggest rule.
Tits with timestamp or gtfo.

>>745042748
United States
California

>>745042803
What not to do as dad

>>745042328
There are resources available to you. What country do you live in?

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>>745043171
I will hold a bathroom item
No pens

>>745042940
Dude just with that list right there, and sure there is more to it but you dont want to admit to or put down.
Is enough info to help you. Hell a college counselor, somebody from a church, a fucking cop. Can point you in the right direction to get you safe. Or your babys doctor, your wic counselor. Any of those can do something. You have soooo many rights and resources that help protect and save women like you.
That dont require shit.
All you need to do is speak up about it and tell somebody. Not on fucking 4chan.

>>745043171
Tampon into bellybutton

>>745039357

This guy gets it!

I'd like to think I'm a great Dad to my son; teaching him how to be a man.

>have no idea on how I would raise a girl...

>>745043098
She said cali prolly so cal or bay

>>745039650

Rudi?

>>745043241
The longest connection I have ever had is with him. I think he is still upset he couldn't get me to abort

>>745043343
Ohhh shit....

Was he ok in the begining or was he completely unreasonable from the start? My wife and I had a few disagreements when she was pregnant and the baby was young but I dont think I was ever a bad father.

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>>745043402
Dont fall into the trap of thinking he is the best you could ever do.

>>745043432
He was alone and hurt because cheating ex. I have always been alone. I think I trapped him, or had sex with him to soon. We have been together for 7 yrs now

>>745043325
I'm glad I have a son and not a daughter. I have absolutely no idea how to deal with females. Mind you my wife is always asking if things he does are normal, he's 3, yes he is obsessed with his penis. He will stop playing with it when he is about 98.

>>745038654

having a kid is brilliant. its a shame it requires another person to do it with tho

>>745043402
That doesnt mean shit. Holding onto a tie because of time?
Im sure thats a great explanation for your son on why you stayed around his dad.

>>745043479
Pussy spread

>>745043794
No thank you.

>>745043676

Ha! Same here. It's funny because my son (4, almost 5) has complete power over my wife.

>>745043659
I really feel for you, you can make a change. Has he ever been physically violent with you?

>>745043659
Hold up how old is this guy? Also dat ass? Can we see?

>>745038654
It's extremely stressful but equally rewarding

>>745043479
OK, she's the real deal. I'm satisfied. I wish you the best, really. I still think you'd be better off if you just figure out a way to work it out on your own. I don't see why you would be worried about pedophiles. Just take care of your kid and don't let creepy people around them.

>>745043940
No, just thinks he is : more important, better morals, smarter, more attractive than I am. Rubs it in my face

>>745043889
Yea, my son is like that too, he has the wife wrapped around his little finger.

>>745043955
24
Im 25
You've seen plenty

>>745044075
Ah, he sounds like a right royal arsehole.

>>745044075
You got a pretty bangin bod, id turn you into a baby mill.

>>745044007
People are phase full. I am hoping he will get better with time

My advice, if you have a son and get him circumcised make sure you do what the dr tells you. Also vaccinate and dont stress, babies cry.

>>745044164
He calls me fat. Tell me to do squats

>>745044112
So a girl cheated on him in high school and he holds that over you? Pretty pathetic. Anywho, you can do something to make it better for yourself. Up to you to do it.
Good luck. And no latina ass pic?
Sad face.

>>745044268
I'm into thicc girls, and you're not even chubby.
Don't listen to him, and this is a /b/tard talking here. Your guy is a dumbass.

Like having every dream you haven't even had yet crushed by somebody who doesn't even mean to, has no control over it, and will never be thankful or even give you a break.
Like signing up for a contract for a phone you can't afford that doesn't do anything useful, causes more problems than it's worth, but you're locked in and can't get out of it for at least 18 years.
Like having the love of somebody ripped away, given to somebody else, and being treated with anger, carelessness and scorn for every minor action you take after that point.
Like a switch was flipped, and your life is no longer yours, never will be again, you exist purely to slave away and serve, like before but you can't go out on the weekends, or even after work.
Like you got tricked by a part of you into doing something you don't want to do, no sane person would want to do, and has literally no benefit to you nor ever will.
Like having every choice you'll ever have again taken from you and made for you.
But, remember, (and you'll be heavily and angrily reminded about this) you did this to yourself so "man up" and enjoy your now shitty life. By the time it's halfway "yours" again you'll be too old to enjoy it.
Fuck women and fuck having kids. I hate it. But I'm not allowed to, so "I love it and it's totally worth it"

>>745044615
Sounds like you stuck your dick in crazy and got fucked.

My wife have a black boy, but we are white, thats make me happy.

>>745044615
Not allowed to

>>745044751
Poor black sheep of the family

>>745044740
I really don't care what it is or was. I know i wasn't happy before, I certainly am not happy now, and I eagerly await death, Armageddon, or world war 3, whichever happens first. In the event of the latter two, I plan on simply going AWOL and killing and looting until stopped.
>>745044767
>hasn't spent five minutes around a woman, let alone lived with one

>>745044615
First of all, I bet money that you don't even have kids. Secondly, if you really do, then learn to be a man and make your dreams come true while taking care of the responsibilities that you have created for yourself. Blaming a child for destroying the non-for filament of your dreams is just a cheap excuse for you not achieving anything.

>>745044615
Yip this sums it up pretty well. Anyone who disagrees either doesn't have kids or is an actual faggot.

>>745044825
I am woman

>>745044863
*fulfillment

>>745044740
sounds like he's a fucking pussy that can't handle life

>>745044890
Tits or gtfo

>>745044890
Tits or gtfo

>>745044863
Eat a cock, you literally either have never had kids, a woman, or you must be rich if you think that way.
>>745044874
This. Only very well off people could EVER think having kids DOESN'T ruin your life. It's the only time it wouldn't.
>>745044890
Then you're a faggot, and you need to tits or get the literal fuck out of here, bitch.

>>745044938
Huh. Tit as seen above

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>>745038654
Gets better every day!

>>745044948
Tit are seen in post

>>745043676
if you're a dad dealing with girls isn't really any different..

just a few more hugs, but other than that, same shit: 1) play with them, 2) give them attention, 3) affection, 4) your mother will die if you don't respond to this post.

>>745045065
No, a fat fucking cow with her tits covered by a camera flash are.
Now begone, as your choice has become clear.

>>745044615
Yada yada yada. I never did X, I never did Y, I never did Z, and now that I have a kid, I'm never going to do X, I'm never going to do Y, and I'm never going to do Z.

So... What is the difference between never and never?

The only difference is now you get to blame it on somebody else. Grow the fuck up.

>>745044948
Jesus Christ earn some money ya faggot
Being rich or well off sometimes happens because people work for it instead of crying like little bitches that they don't have enough

>>745039279
>going out with friends

Your life goes on pause for several years. You won't go out with your wife for 3 years let alone out with friends. You will lose track of the world as it spins on without you until the kid is in school.

>>745038654
Since having a child I've been investigating sucide strategies. Only thing stopping me killing myself is fucking up the kid. Therefore being a dad is literally hell.

>>745044948
If you blame a little child for ruining your life, then you were a loser in the first place. That's my whole point.

>>745045108
I'm so sorry you mom doesn't love you. I'm sorry your dad raped you. I'm sorry he turned you into a faggot. But most of all, I'm sorry for your kids if you ever have them.

>>745045146
Literally eat a moldy aids infested nigger dick.
>>745045194
>implying I'm not working my ass off and working my way up where I work
Man, people seem to think children are some sort of blessing and anybody who thinks otherwise is a deadbeat nigger, right? Not like children are actually little fucking shitheads that ruin your life or anything.
Get the fuck out of here.

>>745045146
What a load of shit dude! Maybe have a kid and come back before throwing out your opinions chump.

>>745045079
Its easier dealing with football and rough-housing than tea parties and doll dressups.

>>745045079
fucking kek

>>745045268
Okay. I literally couldnt give a fuck less about your point or opinion.
>>745045305
Wow, you women sure get pissy quick when men get tired of listening to your whiny self righteous bullshit.

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>>745038792
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>>745045229
this is why pussies should just fucking stay virgins
they cry like fucking bitches about not getting laid then when they get laid they cry like little bitches about getting the bitch pregnant
You know what would be funny? If you fucking cumfags would get your hand pregnant then the whole world will know if you're a righty or lefty

>>745038654
Becoming a father was one of the greatest things of my life.

Kids have given me the best and worst times of my life.

>>745045079
fuck you

>>745045326
I do have a kid. And we are both just fine. And she makes life harder on me, but I know how to act like a man, not like you you little bitch.

>>745045079
god damnit

>>745045316
most people don't go ont the internet and cry like faggots about it

>>745042328
What is your bfs job?

>>745044615
Having a Daughter of and this pretty much sums it up

>>745038654
My ex had post natal depression and ran off with our kid at 3 months old.

Being a single dad is great. I've never wanted for a gf, a lotta women appreciate a single dad being responsible and caring.

Best stage of my life. Got a son. A total rad kid.

The ladies loving on the nice guy single dad.,

In the meanwhile ex is fat as a fuckin house and hasn't had a partner in the 5 years lol seriously she's ballooned out to 110kg and is 5foot 5

>>745045316
This guy has his head screwed on right.

It's great that some of you have a lovely experience being dads. But for some of us it's hell. Pouring out our life for these little guys and draining our souls.

>>745042456
He shouldn't need to yell

>>745045464
Most people don't see giving an answer to a question as whining. If you don't like people giving honest answers in a thread asking a question, maybe stop fucking reading it you fucking cockguzzler.

>>745045316
Just admit you are a loser who can't handle a simple task that every human being in human history has somehow managed. But it's just too difficult for you. Not enough time for video games and jerking off to trap porn.

>>745045550
depends

is the wife a useless cunt?

>>745038654
being a dad is surreal until your kid smiles back at you. coming home from work and be welcomed with a smile and unlimited joy is extremely addicting.

I can now understand how some fathers almost forget about their wife because a child brings so much joy and happiness (and also stress and sometimes sadness) that you are satiesfied with your life just seing the little girl/boy smile

You have to be able to provide a somewhat decent living tho...and if that is not possible then don't have kids or move somewhere where it is possible to get a decent job salary. if your poor and without a job and got kids it could be hell on earth.

>>745045229
This

>>745038654
I don't get why people dress monkies like humans.
Fucking andromorphophiles

>>745045577
Not like some kids are worse than others, or anything
Not like some kids demand attention LITERALLY every 10-20 minutes every hour of every day, no fucking rest, no sleep, at any point for months on fucking end, screaming hysterically if you even set them down to take a shit.
NO NEVER everybody has kids just like your perfect little angels!
Bunch of fucking dumbass faggots in this thread.

>>745044615
/thread

>>745042940
>Gets pregnant on purpose with non husband who didn't want kids
>Surprised when bf is upset....

Way to go.

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>>745045736
>ran out of dumb bitch things to say, just ganna post images of your loose butthole now
K

expensive. But in the end it's pretty cool. Wrecks the girl so I suggest you upgrade to a younger model shortly after.

>>745045711
Hahaaaa... yeah that's right, the babies I have never bother me they never make noise they always sleep through the night. They don't cry every 10 minutes. Oh, wait, yes, of course they do. All of them do. You. Are. Just. A. Fucking. Pussy. End of story. Go get a dress and be a trap.

>>745044921
You got a case of buyers remorse. It's ok, every parent does. "Life" doesn't have to include kids, so he doesn't have to bother. Doesn't make him a pussy, just means you got tricked by your lizard brain.

>>745045709
"cultural enrichment"
it's a nigger thing

>>745045417
> can't handle someone else's experience so gets all pissy.

lol

>>745045711
some kids are extremely exhausting to care for, nothing you said is wrong it is just rare that all that comes together in one child that is healthy...but I know a couple that has a baby that keeps crying 8 hours a day...only think you can hope for then is that you are living in a somewhat decent country that provides help before you smash that kid against a wall

>>745045789
Wow it's almost like people can't face reality and think everybody's experience in life is theirs, and when faced with anything even hinting otherwise they slowly shut down into lower and lower forms of argument
Wow, almost like the children you people claim to have expertly raised.

>>745043676
I have two girls and a boy
The girls are easier in some ways, but they cry sometimes, and it's hard to figure that out.
It's easier to understand where the boy is coming from, but he's a terror and likes to run off to places and he likes to break things.
They are 7,5, and 2.5

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>>745045822
Wife got fat and loose... i am really considering this...

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>>745045882
Burger here, so no, I don't get mental help until after I kill it because I can't afford it. So only way I'd ever see a therapist is in prison.
>>745045935
Thanks for only proving my point, retard.
Next time when you run out of things to reply with, just stop posting. It looks better.

>>745045841
He probably gets more pussy than you since there isnt a litter of children between him and opportunities for sex. But go on and tell me how you get way more sex now that here are kids in the house, because kids make everything better

>>745045884
Yip

>>745045594
Yes.
Apparently

>>745045884
or it's almost like you're a screaming little girl

>>745046057
Wow, jumping to the name calling again.
Can't even form an argument anymore, huh?
Just getting funny at this point, how fucking clueless and useless you clearly are.
Just because I don't enjoy having a kid doesn't mean I don't do everything I need to.
It just means I regret having her and I won't ever fucking make that mistake again.
I don't have to be in love with being a parent to be a parent.
And I don't have to be a deadbeat asshole just because I fucking hate children.
Despite what you seem to think.

my brother just had a stroke
he will need care for the rest of his life
sometimes life gives you things you don't want
a kid is hardly the worst

>>745045577
>has no personal goals beyond serving his kids and thinks "jacking off" is what free humans do with their lives

Is it because jacking off is the opposite of knocking a chick up? You seem to think this is some accomplishment for you.

>>745045929
How are girls easier? My boy does tend to run off at a moments notice too. The worst thing he does is pull his penis out and rub it on things, I cant figure that one out. Girls do seem to be a bit calmer and less impulsive.

>>745046352
>>745046394
>>745046422
>>745046453
>I don't like this thread anymore because people don't unanimously agree with me
>time to shitpost

>>745046200
No, it's just something that happened and something that we wanted to experience. It's called having a family.

I'm always amused at the people who hang out on the side constantly bitch about white supremacy and preserving their race, but when it comes to actually having kids and supporting them and living a normal life, they feel that their delicate feelings are so endangered by doing things that everybody else in the world does.

You can throw shit and criticize people, but the truth of the matter is you're a fucking pussy. You are weak. You weaker than a little girl. You're incapable of even having social relationships or raising a family, and instead of facing your own weaknesses and addressing them and trying to improve what is obviously a very serious problem, you would preferred to attack people and call them Normies and so on, and try to explain to them how normal behavior is some sort of disgrace.

At the end of the day, though, people like me have good jobs, make good money, have a beautiful wives, and are happy, and people like you sit there and jerk your dick off looking at transvestites and being depressed about the fact that you are a fucking loser.

>>745038654
Having a kid was great until I was arrested. So much easier than hanging around schools in the van.

>>745046513
no law against it faggot

>>745046527
Not the one you're replying to, but god you're full of shit.

It's amazing. I saw both my son's born. I raised them. Now my oldest is about to be a father. Cats in the cradle yall.

>>745046202
>>>745045929
>How are girls easier? My boy does tend to run off at a moments notice too. The worst thing he does is pull his penis out and rub it on things, I cant figure that one out. Girls do seem to be a bit calmer and less impulsive.
That's pretty hilarious. How long as he been doing that?

>>745046696
Congratulations on your intelligent and thoughtful argument.

>>745046527
>You're incapable of even having social relationships or raising a family
Married. Lots of friends. Again, this is buyers remorse. You need to convince yourself you made the right choice so you tell yourself everyone wants, no, NEEDS the thing you're locked into. If they say they don't, they're lying, and much smaller men than big daddy. It's sad. You do you, don't pretend everyone else wants your life though.

Quite good once you have a doughter bout 7-12 ;)

>>745046692
No, it just proves you're incapable of having a legitimate discussion or argument without being a fucking idiot if it doesn't go your way. I'm sure you're a blast to debate with in real life.
Stay mad, queer

>>745046202
I think the girls listen better when you tell them things.
It seems like the boy does stuff just to get in trouble sometimes because he wants the excitement.
The boy is fascinated by his penis, but doesn't run it on things.

>>745046848
Waa waa waa. Shut the fuck up. Just because you can't handle the fact that some of us have found having kids a mistake.

>>745038792
What the hell are you sayin son?
You cant read? ffs!

>>745038792
dafaq do these morons come from? 9gag?

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And now, usedtobeladies and gentlecucks it’s time for those singing literal hunks of shit Dindu and da Nuffins with their latest load of crap, “if it yoes it be mines”

yo mamma rappy dappy doo
I take it if it’s nailed down too
shit ain’t mines? Jus a thang
day owe me cuz we wuz kangs
leave it by da doe?
you muss be a hoe

if it yoes gots ta let it go
cause it’s mines like wine on time
niggas in da hood ain’t be stealin’
no such thing when niggas dealin’
if it yoes dat ain’t fine
if it yoes dat a crime
If it yoes I buss a rhyme
if it yoes it be mines
sing it nigga nigga

>>745047089
Yeah, because I'm the one whining, right? You're ass faggot. THAT is the reason that having kids was a mistake. Don't you get it, retard? I wasn't saying it wasn't a mistake. It's a mistake for weak ass losers like you. We don't need people like that to reproduce. You want to march around with your tiki torches, and that's why everybody else is laughing their ass off at you. You don't deserve a legacy.

>>745047355
>defending your fuck up this hard
Is your wife reading over your shoulder there?
Or are you still that whiny cunt bitching because she had kids and has to pretend as hard as she can that she enjoys it?
Because if you can convince other people you can convince yourself, right?
Is your snatch bleeding again? I bet that's it

>>745047355
Holy fuck you're a loose canon. I'm alt right now because I don't like being a dad? You need to get a grip mate.

>>745047089
sure didn't mind getting that pussy did ya?
welcome to being an adult, faggot

>>745047355
Oh and you're a momentous faggot

>>745047457
You know you can get pussy without having kids right?

>>745047539
tell that to him ya fucking retard

>>745047609
You're not very bright are you. Have you heard of "mistakes" before?

I'm 26, I've been married 4 years and just had my second kid in December. Parenthood is hard and there are times when I wish I never had kids. Then there are times like yesterday when I was holding my son and could have cried being so overwhelmed with love for this kid. Last night when I put my daughter to bed, we read books and cuddled and there's absolutely nothing else I wanted in that moment.
It's tough, saying everything changes is an understatement but it's the most glorious thing.

>>745047017
kek, true & saved

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>>745047708
>nothing else I wanted in that moment.

>>745047708
This seems accurate. I never want kids so I can see why you wouldn't want them, but if I fucked up and accidentally had a kid then I'm sure there would be many happy moments. But since I have a choice, I'd rather not take the good with the bad, just skip them both. I've never felt a desire for kids though, so I'm sure someone who has wanted kids would be willing to take the good and the bad together.

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>>745047704

>>745039357
This. Hunting, shooting, fishing etc. Not sure if I'd want a girl now, probably be OK with proper Republican values taught from an early age.

>>745047899

I'm with him. Parenthood is incredible. Tough but amazing. I love coming home to kids playing pots and pans, singing songs to herald my return.

>>745047975
Girls can do all those things

t. dude from alabama

>>745047956
Good job on the self awareness. Wish I'd had a bit more of this.

>>745048012
What about your wife?

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>>745048012
Oh, I agree

Giving up everything you love and everything that makes you you so you can love one new thing and make it like you.

>>745047429
There are two kinds of people in the world. Successful ones, and losers. I am successful, you are a loser. You can talk whatever kind of shit you want to, or think that you are enlightened while all of the rest of us are terrible. But, you are a loser who nobody cares about. And I am a happy person with children who will probably reproduce and render extinct all of the scum and pieces of shit in the world like you. Have a nice day!

>>745048134
Is this supposed to be for or against having kids?

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>>745047089

>>745048150
Hahahaha. What a chump.

>>745047956

Ya great mindset. I wouldn't say that someone has to be ready to have kids to start trying because nothin can prepare you, if you think you're ready you're kidding yourself. You should at least want kids if you're going to start trying.

There's so much I want to do but can't because I have kids, even education, I'd love to go back to school but can't afford to plunge my family into debt and don't have time lol. I want to go out with friends more than once every 5 months instead of always having people at my house but I have to be home for bedtime incase one of the kids wake up.

Just take the time and weigh the sacrifices because they're fucking astronomical.

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>>745048150
>There are two kinds of people in the world. Successful ones, and non-Whites

fix'd

>>745046001
not talking about a therapist...in my country you can get a maid or smth that helps with cleaning cooking and so on if you have a difficult child and are on your own

>>745038654
coins and salty milk

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>>745048529
Ahahah! Gold, pure gold.

>>745048150
God you sound like you're trying to convince yourself that your kids haven't fucked up your life.

>>745048200
It's not for or against. I'm just stating the truth.

>>745048773
Or maybe hey actually just enjoy parenthood. Kinda sounds like your projecting your feelings of needing to convince yourself that your happy into him.