How's your breakup going anon

>>744783161
I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy

>>744783618
How long has it been

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She's on her way to my house to break up with me right now

>>744783828
2 months. We were together 4 years.

>>744783161
Pretty good. She was abusive and I was too nice to notice/care. Now I know and now she's gone

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>>744783161
Its rough, man. Just took down all of our pictures together, and boxed some of her shit up.

Go for a run.

Make dinner for the week.

Call buddies if you have any, go out for a drink, but get back into bed around 10.

Go see a movie.

Relax, everything will be good.

>>744784242
What hapened

No girl no problem

>>744784576
I travel alot for work. I'm prior military, and i'm at the point where i've lost most of my civilian friends and still trying to stay tight with my brothers I served with, which is hard because we're all either still in or across the map.

Drinking doesn't help the situation really. Never has.

>>744783161
She keeps fucking coming back.

>>744783161

How's my breakup going?
Well, I dated a couple dozen girls, moved away, got married.
I suspect I'll be over her in 10-20 years or sol.

Actually quite well, didn't even have to jack off to cope

separated in april, will be oficially divorced in october, everything's get tasty again, jeez

>>744783161
exactly like your pic

>>744784810
I'm gonna assume you have a problem anyway

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>>744783161
I keep on having dreams about her can anyone help me I don't want to wake up crying

Fine, it was a good decision to end it after 4 years. After not finding happiness with her I discovered she is a very good friend. Now my expectations are different and we get along well. I miss cuddling, and I miss not seeing her everyday. But it is for the best and I'll find a new cuddle partner soon.

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Broke up one year and a half ago, still recovering, still slightly depressed and self sabotaging.
Starte smoking, stopped working out, still fit but moslty low energy and no strenght.
Fucked 2 chicks in the summer, i hated it so much.
Everything reminds me of her, so i left most of my habits good or bad, and got some new ones.
Some good memeories, some regrets, sadness and loneliness mostly.
Still dont know the solution.

>>744783161

>>744783161
>implying i have a girlfriend
i stopped chasing bitches after highschool
havent had a girlfirned for 11 years now
and i dont plan on having one anytime soon

Sucks hard, smoking a pack rn half way finished

>>744783161
>Implying I've ever been with someone
Oh, damn, now I feel sad... I guess there'll always be my left hand.

>>744785024
And yet you still jack off anyway, right?

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>>744783161
kek... we used to read watchmen together...

Welp doesn't matter she's a dickhead anyways...

>>744785680
>staying friends
Enjoy seeing her fuck other men for the rest of your life.

I give it a year or two before you two are either in the sack again or not talking.

Together for 12 years, married for 10. Two kids. Love of my life. Never felt anything remotely like what I felt for her. She met someone else. Heart was in pieces. Old life completely over. I've lost my home, my wife, my family, my lifestyle. Hurt like shit for four months or so. Started climbing, started dating as a hobby, lots of journaling, lots of outdoors. Feel pretty good now. Genuinely looking forward. This is six months on.

One more day and i'll be happy

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>>744783161
quite shit actually. We are still together.

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>>744784242
that sucks...

thank god my last GF brokeup with me b4 it got serious.

Been 4 months, still slightly depressed, I left her but she replaced me after a week or so

I have to go back to uni and start going out again, summer is always slow and empty for me, dated 2 girls for now, kissed one, I'm not happy but I want to fuck.

I don't want to stay with her after how we broke, I don't want her in my life cause I know it's bad for me in the long run. But we left too suddenly and we haven't talked, I know everything about my life and I'm a control maniac, not knowing exactly what happened is really pissing me.

>>744787982
How often do you get to see your kids?

>>744784508
Are you ever planning to throw her shit out that you boxed? I boxed some of my memories with her in a box... haven't took a look at it for years now, but I still have it around... I miss her tho

Had a dream last night where we were talking about the break up. It's been about 10 months since then. Over all I'm doing good though, moved to a new city making new friends talking to more people but a part of me still misses the ex. But overall I'm optimistic about the whole thing

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>>744783161
Good, its been almost 10 years ago so im pretty much over it. on the flip-side i might as well be a virgin because i haven't gotten my dick wet ever since.

>>744785642
exercise, nothing mad like /fit/, just something that helps you sleep at night. i wouldn't of believed it, but really friend it works,

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>>744788126
don't worry anon. once uni starts you'll be fucking in no time.

t. anon who broke up with ex of 2 years, got replaced a month later, but then started school and acquired a qt latina gf

>>744783161
i've never been in a relationship to have had someone to lose

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>>744783161
bad, how the fuck do you think?

>>744785642
I've started watching long youtube videos at night to keep her off my mind... Nothing really helped me to totally forget her...

>>744788142
Several times a week. I live nearby now and, cunt that she may be, she doesn't want to damage my relationship with them. Thing is, I don't miss them as much as I thought would.

>>744783618
I would, I don't have any empathy for my enemies.

I dated an emotionally abusive and manipulating girl for about a year and a half. Broke up with her 6 months ago and let me tell ya anons, it is so liberating to be single. If you're between the ages of 18-25 and have a steady girlfriend and don't see other people, you're living life wrong

Truth be told...at the moment we are in 2 different countries...supposedly she was in a car accident but her family I feel is hiding me details and I kind of feel it's a ploy for her to break things off with me...don't know what to do...my trip back to her country is in 2 weeks...I just feel aweful

I'm fine, you don't miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

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>>744786337
it took me about 4-5 years to get on my feet... I feel you bro...

>>744788622
Mate, I'm 38 and single life is still great.

>>744788491
That's good that you can still see them. And your kids are what, 6 to 10 years old, I think I can understand why you wouldn't miss them that much, haha.

>>744787972
>>744787972

yea... being a cuckold with emotions, sux

>>744788902
5 and 9, yep!

>>744788819
Good to hear. I plan to be single for quite a long time

COREY WAYNE

This guy's videos helped a lot during my initial break up

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>be me
>been 7 months since breakup
>was with her for 8 years
>was going to pop the question on our 8 year anniversary
>I was saving for a house
>she was still in school
>both of us living with our parents since neither of us wanted to waste money on apartment and she still needed to finish school
>she stops coming to see me one day
>I keep calling but she won't answer
>she only texts me back
>keeps telling me she's coming over, then blowing me off
>after over a MONTH of this I finally ask her is this her way of breaking up with me
>says she wants to break up because she's upset that 4 years prior I gave her a choice between being with me or her two slut friends after she and the others got naked at a party and was groped by some loser dude. Supposedly they didn't fuck according to someone who was there, but who knows.
>this party happened two weekends in a row where the same thing happened
>find out a month after she breaks up with me that she fucked a dude at a party 11 months before, and then had recently been fucking another dude for 3 months almost every weekend before breaking it off with him

>pic related

feels bad man

>>744788306
yeah i know that (or i hope so)

she was my first gf and i lost my virginity to her, i was 21 and she's a year older. started in the friendzone without knowing anything about girls and decided she was the one, lost 9 months trying to have her and did it.

at least now i know what to do with women, of the 2 i dated i know i could've fucked 5 but didn't want to, now that the dust has settled and i'm going back in my favorite town everything will be easy.

i was just hoping to stay friend with her but hearing from her that she was dating another guy made me crazy, i took her to my home and gave her back her stuff.

only meaningful conversation we had since was 5 minutes to my biggest job opportunity (i'm a 22yo video student and i was going on air at 9PM on the first italian channel) when she wrote me an evil message about how i didn't congratulate for a friend of us graduating. gave a more evil answer and that was it.

what a bitch.

>>744784797
Moved 15 hours away for vet school and didn't wanna do long distance. There were other issues to we couldn't resolve before she left. Her family never really liked me, said I wasn't good enough for her and she shouldn't marry me, etc. Which was bullshit because I did everything for her and treated her better than she deserved honestly, but they never saw all the things I did for her because they lived 4 hours away. She said she loves me and I'm her best friend, but we just aren't meant for each other in the long run.

>>744788126
Dude, I am having the exact same problem like you.. i feel ya

>>744789550
write it down then, it may help

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>>744786337
i know these feels

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>>744783161
It has been almost a year right now. I've hang out with her for 4 months. She's 41 (I'm 29). We work at the same place. Right now I've been dating with another girl for 7 months. The new girl is cool, but, every time I see my ex at work, my feelings start spinning fast and can't get her out of my head.

>>744790901
that's comforting, so even if i find a new good girl she'll still be in my head?

>>744783161
Applying for a paternity test as my ex claims the baby ain't mine. My ex is bipolar and a real freakshow.

>>744785642
When you wake up sad, try to sleep just a bit longer. Your subconsciousness will find a way to cope and your next dream will move you forward. At least it does for me...

>>744791127
it's different for everyone

>>744789240
Ghosting someone out of the blue after cheating on them for months!
That's a fucking evil way to end a long term relationship.

>>744789240
Wow what a trash person. I know it hurts right now, but based on your story this is whats best for you. Stay strong my friend

>>744789240
well at least she's ugly, sorry i know you loved her.

but i'm good at judging people at first sight and i'd stay away from her

>>744791127
Yes, but the feelings won't hit you as hard as it was at the moment when you broke up. You'll feel it but it won't overrun you.

It was over a year ago but I still miss him.

>>744791996
good to know...
>>744792375
talk about it, i want to hear stories and i'm not even OP

>>744791157
Jesus, good luck with that man.

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>>744791503
Yea, it almost destroyed me. Worst time of my life. Spent a solid month getting blackout drunk everyday.

>>744791716
Trying to. Got a good job, exercising, trying to improve my life and move on. It still hurts, but it's getting better.

>>744791806
>well at least she's ugly
I've heard a lot of people say this when I post her pic. I never thought she was bad looking. I will say she's certainly ugly on the inside though.
Looking back on it all now, I can only think of how terrible of a person she really was and how well she was able to hide it any play it off.

>>744783161
Kind of okay I guess. In fact, the worst thing about it is not what I felt for her or what we had, but what I would have felt for her and we would have had if we gave it more time and that she ended it, because she panicked and I realize that she's worse off like that, as am I, but I care about her quite a lot so knowing that is a pain.

>>744792702
Yeah no shit. She once tried to steer my car off a bridge, was violent (multiple bites, slaps, throwing crap, etc). Im almost completely over it. Why'd I keep coming back? The baby. And the pussy. Yep, I know...

>>744792638
He was the first man I ever dated. I truly loved him, still do. twords the end of our relationship he became progressively more distant. After month of only seeing him twice he broke up with me. I think he found another man. In his defense at that time I was a bit of pill head.

So at my brother's party I met this girl, cute 8.5/10, ass 9.5/10, tits 5/10. We started talking for a while, all day non-stop. I realized she was into me but I didn't really made a move because of the stress I was having on school. 6 months later after I met her, I asked her if we want to be in a relationship, she gladly accepted. We were so happy being together, although we lived far from each other. I ve been with her 4 months and it's the girl I lost my virginity to, she didn't like sex very much she would rather suck my dick all night long. The last one month was weird as she was always wandering around friends I met her (bad decision). The last three weeks of our relationship was the weirdest, she probably did something with a close friend but didn't want to tell me and she was telling me that the other guy has a gf and she would never do such a thing to me. The second last week of our relationship I kissed another girl and the last week I fucked a Bi. I feel sorry for her for not telling her but I don't have that courage, because I wasn't that person before. Anyways 2 weeks have passed now and we decided to stay as friends, its sad tho. Now that we broke up she hangs around all the guys I met her to and especially that close friend of mine. Last thing, I am always finding my self looking pics of her or some of her actions she being doing on fb. I can't recover. What can I do?

>>744788154
Not him, but maybe this qualifies as advice. I've kept stuff of my ex for years until I realized that the only reason I didn't throw it out was to remind me that someone loved me and that it then can happen again. I kept it because of what I hoped would lay before me, not what was behind me and that made it more difficult to get what I desired. If this sounds even remotely familiar, throw it out.

>>744788154
I threw every memory of her out

>>744792800
i feel alone after a year and half and i'm full of things to do and friends to meet, i can't imagine how it can be after 8 years. be strong and keep in mind that there must be good girls out there, go get them
>>744793054
yeah, i think it's way better when you get if someone is becoming distant. i see a lot of relationships going for months or years and that's when it can easily hurt you. i'm happy i ended with mine when it started going bad

Turned a corner and doing great

https://www.dothethingneedsdoing.com/start-doing/know-your-frame

Shit man, been over 4 years.
Ready to move on, but the dating game is fucking weird now. No game/10

>>744783161
GF of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago, haven't stopped crying since, she's already moved on to a new guy.

>>744793111
I forgot to say... I just started going to a college and I am a freshman and I very stressed about the whole senario. On top of that I got the depression because of my ex

>>744793111
"friends"? how you can be "friend" of someone who never was really your friend? She was your gf, but not anymore. So, she's nothing right now.
Apply the "no contact" rule. Delete her from fb, any social media. The less you know from her, the better. Like someone said: "love is like a drug", just stop giving yourself "shots" of her and find new activities.

is it ok that i want to make her a gift for her birthday?

she participated to most of my friends birthdays paying for presents and once or 2 complained about the fact that no one was going to make her a present (at the time we were planning to split in 2 cities, in the end we just broke up). and knowing that she was right pisses me, so i want to make her a gift.

she has a new bf now but i think he's too much of a pussy to harm me

>>744793940
She was fucking him long before she ended it bud.

>>744793623
Thinks for me started getting weird before he stopped contacting me. He'd ask weird questions regarding like how I feel about open relationships, and poly shit.

it feels like someone has their hand soo deep in my chest that theyre pulling my spine out through my rib cage

>>744794372
ouch.

>>744794242
Please, don't do that. It'll kill any chance of getting her back.
There's nothing that give much desire in a woman than to have something out of reach. So, keep going with your life... and maybe she will appear in the future...

>>744794652
I could over look the cucking but I think just wanted to move on.

>>744794237
But Anon gf= girl(friend). Also, i don't really know what to do at that point. Deleting her on fb or any other social media might solve that but it might not aswell. I am doing my best to keep her out of my mind but it doesn't really work. I tried finding new activities and such but still it won't work

>>744783161
shes banging other guys and im struggling to get a second date

>>744794352
Probably, she was talking to him on snapchat, I'm gonna fuck her friends and her sister though so i'll be alright.

>>744794762
who said i want to get her back, i don't, i don't want her in my life anymore.

but i always liked the idea of fucking with other people's mind and i like when people tell me they can't figure out who i am (and that happens a lot, i'm very careful about this). i act the way i think it is correct and leave people trying to understand.

i feel like i need to make her this gift and not to please her but because i kinda said that this was going to happen, but this is not what anyone could expect and that'll kinda ruin her week

also i have the perfect gift and i want to throw some money on it, it would be a shame to waste such a good idea

>>744794852
What friends do? They comfort you, they make you laugh, they want the best for you and they will help you in order to achieve that.
So, being honest, is she your friend? Really?

>>744783161

its ok

me and crippling loneliness were pretty close friends. He's always bring the beer. Since getting married and having a family I'm starting to think everything is pretty bearable.

>>744786337
mah nigger! ;(

>>744783161
Really bad. I'm nothing without her, I can barely get enough strength to get out of bed. I should just end it all.

>>744783161
I was depressed with her aswell, wont change anything.

>>744795302
IMO, you are losing time with her.
And it is clear that you still have her present on your mind.
You want to be rude with her? Take her out of your mind. Erase her. Like if nothing happened between you both. And think of her like a stranger who you don't give a fuck.
That WILL fuck her mind

>>744795638
You are right Anon. I was deep lost.. I couldn't control my feelings. The main reason we broke up it was because of the distance mostly and when we broke up she said something about us being friends with benefits after the break up. Anyways, thanks Anon for making me realize the truth, you are a true hero.

>>744796250
but that's so fucking predictable

>>744783161
Been about 9 months out of a four year relationship. I have more time and spare cash, but everything feels quite underwhelming. I miss my cat probably the most, but other than that, glad it's over. I seriously only missed it once it was gone. I'd fuck anything with a pulse besides her, though.

>>744796521
Stop losing time. Life is too short to spend time making others life miserable.
It's always more entertaining making new stories, than revolving the dead ones

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>>744788064
I get your feel anon. I'm waiting for the right time to break up with her.. I know I'm not supposed to, but I just can't drop her after a big death in her family..

>>744793203
>not what was behind me and that made it more difficult to get what I desired. If this sounds even remotely familiar, throw it


But what if I throw it away and still fail and now I don't even have the proof.

>>744797167
here it comes the fun police

(just kidding, you're right and i know you're right, i just want to do something stupid and i'm bored as fuck, i can't wait for septemeber to end)

>>744783161

4+ years ago. Only been with one girl since, she left because she could tell I didn't like her as much. Really have to cut that shit out

>>744783161
Its been over nearly 7 months now.
Broke down because I was unsociable and too afraid to fuck up. So I did nothing. And fucked up my best chance so far at happiness

>>744783161
Good, honestly. I feel a lot more relaxed and happy. She's still trying to get me back, but for now, I'm not really having it.

It's been seven years.

Haven't even tried to find another girlfriend