can a long distance relationship work out? my boyfriend lives

nah.

>>744744834
Where does he live? How long until you can move?

>>744744834

It really can't. One of you will break. Been there, done that, just fuck around while you guys are apart, then move to each other.

>>744744905
in the states, i dont live in the states. and probably not for another year or two. we still facetime everyday tho

>>744744834
yes it can. unless you're a faggot and gay. then i don't know, but i would imagine you promiscuitive faggot whore are not to be trusted.

Anything is possible Anon

>>744744834
Long distance relationships rarely work (if ever)

Now post tits

>>744744962
well, hes my first long term relationship and im not a promiscuous whore but thanks for the input i guess

>>744744953
what a bullshit advice, you fucking weak worm.

>>744745009
r u saiyan ur a dude?

>>744744834
Absoluty no. I tell you for experience.

It won't work, now you're single show tits or gtfo.

>>744745075
im not posting my tits and im not going to gtfo

henlo, smol OP here, just looking for some good advice from people that dont know me so it wont be biased

>>744744834
Op i got broken up with from a LDR , mind you it was only 150 miles but still
it's hard for one to get the feels right and keep the feels going

>>744744834
3 years long distance, 1 to go, and still doing pretty well, so yeah, there are chances of it not breaking down on the way

>>744745021

Chad will be grinding on her in the club one night, and she won't be able to help herself. Stacy is drunk and ready to go in his apartment. It happens. It's great if you love the other person so much that you're willing to deny yourself pleasure and other opportunities at possibly better relationships for, possibly, years on end, but that's really not even a good idea.

>>744744834
What is the point of being gay if you can't even have anal sex whenever you want?

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>>744745075
Who cares?

>>744745021
This.


For OP, the key is communcation, dedication, same life goals and faithfulness. I would say just invest into an LDR only when you can move out and/or afford travelling.

>pic not related

>>744745111
but... how dare you... heretic!..

>>744744953
>>744745105
>it didn't work for me which means it won't work for anyone, ever

I'd beat the shit out of you, you mentally ill sacks of shit

>>744745169
well, when we first met it was over the internet so our situation now isnt that different from when we first met, we eventually met irl and became close, but now hes gone and im p scared

>>744745274
just talk with him, face time, video call, bridge the time you see each other irl again with stuff like that
or vidya together , watch videos together

it's hard but not impossible so give it a go i'd say

Communicate and be honest with eachother. Also, it doesn't hurt to fuck her brains out whenever you get the chance.

>>744744834
>boyfriend
Tits or Gtfo

>>744745228
we have so much in common its uncanny and our backgrounds are actually strangely similar too, so really, im hopeful it'll last

>>744745323
this sums up the my last 3 years in a relationship

>>744745323
we sync up movies and watch them together a lot, usually they're horrors because he thinks its funny when im terrified

>>744745386
still in it, anon?

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>>744744834
Are you a guy? If so fuck off faggot & if you're a chick, you know the rules. No tits no advice

>>744745367
well, it'd be more like him fucking my brains out, but advice still appreciated

>>744745414
still at it, anon, still at it

>>744745447
nice, how much distance is there between you both and how old are you?

>>744744953
I tried long distance as well. GF became difficult to be around, and never truly cared about my problems, so I dumped her. It was the biggest mistake of my life.

>>744745415
you must beat your meat to femanons tits all the time, so technically, considering you're always rubbing a dick, doesnt that make /you/ the faggot?

>>744744834
Does either of you have money or can get money? If the answer is no then it won't work out.

TITS or GTFO

>>744745371

Don't want to crush your dreams anon, just want you to be realistic. I've had long distance relationships before, lasting nearly a year in a couple cases, and it's been a lot like you've been describing. It can be really hard to find someone who shares your worldview and thought process, so if you think this guy's the one, keep communicating. Don't smother them, of course, but communicate regularly. Have him update you on what he's doing, through photos if possible. Try to phrase it in a way that doesn't sound like you're testing his loyalty, that'll obviously make him feel judged.

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thanks for all the advice, i really appreciate it, any input is helpful<3 i just need to make up my mind on what to do

>>744745474
right now its 580miles (715km) between us, it has been fluctuating these past years
I am almost 26 and my partner is 23

>>744745480
>GF became difficult to be around, and never truly cared about my problems
this is exactly what happened to me and she dumped me..

do you make nude camera shows for him? if yes your answer is no, if no there is a chance.

>>744745560
i can be kind of a bitch sometimes and he knows that, and im super clingy but i try not to smother him and he says he doesnt mind my clingyness cause its cute

>>744745480
but maybe it had more to do with her not giving a crap about you than the distance that separated you

I suggest finding a good balance with everything you do with the relationship. Be independent but also know that he is there for you. This way you both will grow no matter what happens. Also I believe communication is key with any relationship, so being in a long distant relationship really has its perks that way.(you guys obviously communicate well other wise the relationship wouldn't work out at all) I think long distant relationships that work out are the really strong ones, because you know the other person so well before you actually get to be with them, Both of you will have that appreciation in each moment once you guys get through this. You will have your doubts, it is only natural, but if this person is really genuine to you then I think you would regret not toughing this out with him. Just keep in mind that everyone is going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones worth suffering for.

>>744745605
that is a lot but if it has worked out so far that's great anon

>>744745624
i dont give him nude camera shows, he says he doesnt like nudes and neither do i, and yeah i can be suggestive but i'd never go nude on the internet

>>744745637
these are words of wisdom

>>744745483
I'm married, my wife beats my dick for me. You're boyfriend is balls deep in back page pussy as we speak. Sage

>>744745713
god, were i your wife i would have got the rat poison out while cooking for you by now

>>744745637
>Just keep in mind that everyone is going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones worth suffering for.
had a ldr with my ex, she broke up out of the blue
thing is, she was about to move from 150 miles apart to 50 miles in a couple of weeks...

>>744745637
this was so sweet and its definitely going on to my sticky notes, thank you anon c:

>>744745629

> bitchy

There's nothing that turns a guy off quicker than a bitchy girl. Unless he's into some femdom stuff, anyway.

> clingyness is cute

It can be, but he's more than likely just saying that. Just text him at least once a day, no need to be in constant contact, that's how the passion burns out.

It kind of sucks, because girls are all about finding a quality mate, and then obsessing over them, whereas men mostly just care about having the hottest girl they can get, or fucking as many girls as possible. This leads to some incompatible relationship dynamics.

>>744745802
yeah, i know bitchyness isnt a good trait, but its rare, its just moreso when im bitchy im a mega-bitch, but im usually only bitchy every few weeks or so, i cant help it

and i get what you're saying about the clingyness, we talk at least once a day but i dont smother him, he has other friends and i dont make him do stuff with me all the time, usually we would just play games on steam or watch movies

>2017
>autistic faggots dont follow rules and demand tits or gtfo
>this is not /b/

>>744745228

the thing with homosexual men is that they're
a) exceedingly jealous
b) generally rather promiscuitive.
a and be don't combine well, ldr's gonna be difficult. that's why i was asking.
(what you referenced saying "this" was also me)

>>744745897
jealousy is true, however the promiscuitive part isnt

No hope of long distance relationship.

Now, tits or GTFO.

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>>744746006

>>744745199
first of all: checked.
second: "possibly better relationships" - you can't tell, until you try. cost for trying is a) being a lying piece of shit (unless you're in an open relationship) and/or b) fucking up everything you have. if your partner makes you feel great, then this cost is not justifiable. but this is a matter of values, and every person weights them differently, so it is not very fruitful to debate about this.

>>744745637
WTF?!? Spending time typing this rather than demanding tits.

>Just keep in mind that everyone is going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones worth suffering for.
>suffering for
>suffering

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>>744744834
It can but it takes a monumental amount of faith in one another. I was in one for literally 4 years. Then i moved to her with a stroke of luck and we have been together for now 11 years and are raising our first son. Image related, its me and her about 3 years ago in the game we met on. Ragnarok Online, I played that shit on and off for literally 12 years...

>>744746188
thats so cute~

>>744746188
checked. the moving in and the son are also in-game, amirite??

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>>744746188
Stay strong anon, I know its painful and sometimes it doesn't matter but it does! That bond you have is special, Someone around the world loves you in such regard they are keeping themselves for you. More of us.

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>>744746385
Do we look fake to you anon?

Bold move here showing my face but idgaf, its for love BABY!

>>744744953
Agreed. I've been in this situation many times, with the other party always breaking.

>>744744834
the only thing that work on long distance is a sniper, not a relationship

>>744746558
<3 adorable

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>>744746647
Booo stop being a Debbie downer and act like an adult.

More of me and my wife. Also sole old friends we had a long time ago.

>>744745111
well nothing to see here then, sage goes in all fields

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>>744746558

>>744746730
Shame... oh well, thus is the nature of this website.

Cheers..

Also Op, stay strong. Love always prevails in the end, and if it falls through at least you did the right thing.

>>744744834
It worked out for me and my girl she used to live in Frankfurt and now lives with me

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>>744745111
tits or gtfo whore

>>744745009
... Exactly what a whore would say...

>>744746916
wher do you live

>>744744834

Sure. Like having an outdoor cat. You can buy a cat bed, litter box, and food, but atleast they know they can go to you when they can't find somewhere to sleep, somewhere to shit, or no mice to hunt.

Also if anyone else can pet your cat is it really yours?

>>744746953
good thing i didnt make a post like "hurr durr, I'm a girl" retard.

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>>744744834
Hey OP, I'm currently in an LDR of 4 years. We have never seen eachother irl and won't for at least another 2 years. I live in Australia, she lives in the US. We have been doing this for so long and we are still going so strong despite never seeing eachother irl, I absolutely believe our relationship will work out and she does too. Just keep strong and hope for the best, talk as much as possible even if you don't want to. I'm sure your relationship will work out if you try. I hope for the best for you

>>744747120
>I'm currently in an LDR of 4 years. We have never seen eachother irl and won't for at least another 2 years
uhm.....

For how long?
My gf lives 2000km away from me. We've been like this for 4 years, but she is finally going to move to my house next year

>>744747120
personally, i think it will work as long as you know you're not being catfished

>>744747196
known him for like 2 years? been together for a year and wont be able to move to him for 1-2 years

>>744745637
those are some nice words, anon. but like another anon told me the other day: a relationship should make both of you feel good, not drain all the energy from one to make the other feel better.

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Going through the same thing, my girl is in the states and there's a 3 hour difference, if you love the person hang in there, if it works out then it will be more than worth it.

>>744747151
>>744747291
We Skype every week

>>744746558
aight man, my bad. you look nice together, all the best to you.

>>744747120
>things are getting pretty serious
>inb4 lafawnduh

>>744745622
Sorry that happened to ya, man. Stay strong
>>744745632
That might be true. But the long distance was definitely a factor

>>744747379

Haha, how old are you roughly?

There's no way in hell a 6 year dry streak is going on on both ends.

Besides how do you think you're going to "be with him" if he's in the States and you're not? The expense in getting there and the problems with staying for any period of time longer than 3 months is staggering.

You can visit, but then that's it. You'll be apart again and back to waiting. It'll break, it's inevitable.

>>744745895
>so I can't help it
Bullshit. Your period is no excuse to be a bitchy cunt, stop using it as one. Millions of women aren't raging bitches monthly - take some fucking Midol, keep your cuntish trap shut and stop using it as an excuse to be a complete bitch.
I'm in pain 24/7 from a workplace accident, I don't take it out on others just because I feel miserable all the time, so stop using fucking excuses.

>>744747594
>Stay strong
only thing left
sure miss the anticipation i had when we talked about what we'd do the next time we'd see each other

>>744747790
while i generally agree with you, you need to understand, that it's not the pain that makes them go craycray, but the hormones that mess up their psyche during that period (pun not intended).

>>744745895

Bitchy? Yikes

A guy has no self esteem if he charges head-on into a bitch, this is 10x the case if he's not even getting his dick wet in said bitch.

You say every few weeks, but that's probably bullshit. It probably manifests somehow every day with controlling behavior and emotional blackmail.

You defending your shitty personality is proof it's worse than you're letting on, it won't change and you just want validation

He probably sits in his room too weak and scared to say "shut the fuck up you stupid cunt". He probably hates you, but won't admit it. LOL you're fucked. It won't last.

>>744745895
how can you even get a "mega-bitch" without seeing him you piece of shit cunt? if you only meet him in fron of the screen for a limited period of time, why can't you suppress your urge to be a fucking bitch for that time? what do you mean by "i can't help it"? are you talking about your strawberry days? or are you saying that it's your character? because then, i wish your guy was in here right the fuck now.

>>744748579
also, it sounds like both your clingyness and your bitchiness are an expression of your low self-esteem. we men loooooove bitches with low self-esteem. (translation: we do not. you're a royal headache).

>>744745681
bs :/

>>744750020
rood

>>744748222
Bullshit - women have been using that excuse for centuries.
They want equality and all that bullshit - well welcome to "stop being a cunt who uses her monthly as an excuse since none of the rest of us do."

>>744744834
I made a long distance relationship work for about 3 years. They can be pretty rewarding. Just be aware that if people close to him don't want you around they will have direct access to them where you won't.

>>744744834
My girl is 16 hours away from me and we are working out. Everyone on here trying to get your tits is living in their mothers basement or are Chads themselves so don't let them get to you. The best you can do is ignore them and trust each other. I had to write an essay about this for my college writing class and I did well on it, I know what I'm talking about from personal experience.

>>744745415
Fuck off yourself idiot

>>744745897
Generalised bullshit

>>744750752
i'm not arguing that they don't. i mean in addition to that.

>>744751544
is it generalized? yes, that's what i said. is it bullshit? it may be in individual cases. are you a faggot? absolutely. did i check your half-hitlers? absolutely.

>>744744834
Me and my gf have a long distance relationship it's hard but works i travel to visit her everytime I'm free from work longer than a week and we usually talk everyday on the phone

>>744746558
You kinda both look a like

>>744747063
damn you look ugly lol

>>744746558
You both ugly af. Cant see anyone else wanting either of you. I'd say your paired for life.
Also consider a murder suicide pact?

>>744744834
Long distance relationships are for losers. No one would resort to it if they could get a boyfriend/girlfriend where they live.

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>>744744834
it can work if you are ok with it hope they're loyal thou because most aren't theyl get the grass is always greener bs and once they start asking questions if its ok to "take time off" ya lost them