RELATIONSHIP ADVICE THREAD got something on your mind? share

>>740926176
My fuck buddy is always accusing me of sleeping around whenever I don't want to hang out with her. How do I get her to stop thinking like this?

>>740926336
how long have you been fuck buddies?

>>740926336

What do you expect from a "fuck buddy" type relationship.

Tiny dick reporting. 4 inch hard. Will my gf of 2 years leave me eventually? She's fucking herself more lately with a dildo/vibe than bothering to fuck

test

>>740926336
>>740926492
Like 6 months.
>>740926513
You know, just being fuck buddies, not getting in each others business.

>>740926541
Sounds like it's already happening. Time to become her cuck, or leave.

>>740926541
have you tried going down on her?

might suggest doing that, or finding other ways to penetrate with other objects but you be the one doing the penetration and then also putting in your junk too, just make it 50/50 between you and whatever you are using

>>740926568
usually in fuck buddy relationships eventually 1 party starts getting more attached. another question is have you given her reason to question the time that you arent with her? things going through my mind are : maybe she wants it to be more serious, maybe she is just controlling, maybe she doesnt want stds, maybe she just doesnt like sharing

How to get fuck buddy? Like what actions should I do to make this obvious without being a creep

>>740926336
Chicks that do this do it because they have cheated (or currently cheat) themselves. Naive girls don't act like this.

>>740926568
>>740926822
Damn. It's probably ALL those things you listed. Oh well, she buys me shit all the time too, that's probably why I've been putting up with it instead of ditching her completely.

>>740926541
Probably

>>740926176
i cant hardly get it up with my gf. thinks feel numb except for blowjobs. im 21 and in better than average shape, for an american at least. skinny fat i guess. my dad has ed, but i dont think i'd get it this early on. i also jerk off way too much and have been trying to stop or at least cut back for years. its always accompanied by porn. ive made significant progress after going 5 days without doing it and deleting my 800gig stash. my dick does feel slightly better.

i guess im just looking for reassurance i didnt entirely destroy myself with 8 years of fapping

>>740926997
>>740926964
But I don't even care if she fucks someone else, as it wouldn't even be cheating. We're not in a true relationship.

>>740927037
Stop jerking off and work out more.

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Ok guys, I need your help/advice.

So I started talking to this girl that my cousin once dated briefly. We hit it off at first and were facetiming every few days + snapping each other contently. Then, she gave me the cold shoulder despite us hanging out only days before. I told her how I felt about her, and she said that she only saw my cousin when she looked at me, and for that reason, we couldn't be more than friends. We stopped talking a few weeks ago and now she blocked me on snapchat. What should I do, if anything??

>>740927050
Fair enough. Just say "don't be ridiculous" and change the subject. If she's texting you while you're out - ignore

>>740926729
>>740926822
Well eating her out is what she likes best but she pushes me that direction more often than penetration sex. All I do is eat her out. I could try the toy tho during see if that works when I get the chance

>>740927037
-_- stop fapping, seriously.

If you do, fap with your opposite hand or something. Nerves + fapping before sex = bad combo.

ITT experience

>>740927173
> I told her how I felt about her
This is your mistake. You never do this pre-smash in modern dating

>>740927235
Another piece of advice: make her cum first. It's rare for a guy do that, and if she knows that, she'll appreciate it.

>>740926938
both parties are interested but dont want to commit. you cant really convince someone to be a fuck buddy, especially if you try to tell her that yeah lets be fuck buddies, because then that would come off as quite shallow. usually chicks that have fuck buddies tend to get around so maybe not the best idea? thats just my opinion

>>740926997
you may want to either think about committing, or pull out. up to you, but you need to figure out what you want. its a tough call, though, if it helps, think of it like this. imagine your kid saying: daddy how did you and mommy get together? well bobby it all started when we became fuckbuddies

not so flattering but whatever

>>740927037
find out when you guys are going to meet or whatever occasions you think you will do it, then on that day or maybe 2-3 days before hand dont masturbate. if you must, DONT CLIMAX but if you do that youre just going to fool yourself and climax anyways so try not to

usually this anticipation of sex should help

>>740927309
You really think so? What was I to do? Just fade away?

>>740927447
Yeah, you blew it. It happens, and it's good you learned this now instead of later.

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>>740927037
didn't ruin yourself but I'd continue going the route you are, if not extra.
Continue no fap at all unless its with her. Avoid as much porn as possible.
And talk to her. Don't have to go into much detail,but try hinting at or expressing what you like.
I'm 25 and I'll have a day or two where I feel like fapping but not going so far as to have sex with my fiance. Then some days all I want to do is fuck her. Find what works for you. Typically what gets me going is messing with her in public. Nothing crazy, just slapping her ass, wedgies, pinching her nipples and other playful stuff in public or close to it.
But also you're 21 and I can promise you if you feel tied down to her its silly. 21 is a weird chemical period in all humans brains. make sure you don't feel stuck in your relationship when you're that young. A lot of my friends fell into shit ruts for that exact reason.

Sorry for the wall of text

>>740927235
maybe be more aggressive, or dominant. yes use toys more, or something else that is stimulating that she cant just do herself. the fact that she cant go down on herself is why she needs you in that dept. so think of other things that she cant do solo
make yourself unique and a sexual outlet to do things she cant do on her own

>>740927447
I know so. As for steps forward, probably fade away. Just act normal and MAYBE it might turn around for her if you're handsome enough, but I'd forget about this one

I have been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years now, but he has a major drinking problem. He is literally on probation for dui, therefore on alcohol and drug urine tests, with the threat of jail time over his head, yet he is still drinking.
Can anyone shed any light on this kind of behavior? He has gone for weeks staying completely sober, then suddenly drinks alcohol all day for months on end without eating, then becomes physically dependent and tells me he can't stop. It has been a cycle, and extremely frustrating, but other than this problem, he really is a great guy and I can imagine a future with him... I just wish we could get this under control somehow.

>>740927540
That makes alot of sense. Ty anon that's really useful.

>>740927570
You're probably right - I'll be leaving the country soon so it wouldn't have been a long term thing. Still would've been nice to have some company.

Early in the relationship my BF had sex every day, often multiple times. Now about 1/2 year in, we do it only few times a week. Recently he said "I'd be okay with having sex twice a month"... Is it a redflag? We're both 20& I have an idea where this might be going.
I hate cheating, but I'm not getting enough sex & it seems like the frequency will decrease even more. Should I leave?

>>740927711
He needs rehab. Is his family close?

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>>740927502
I also apologize for the drunken autism holy shit

>>740927499
I'm not sure if I should be upset about it, she now works at the same place as my cousin again. Should I just forget about her or should I keep tabs on her?

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>>740927094
>>740927305
>>740927362
thanks anons. i should mention up until a few months ago masturbating was a multi hour thing for me. ive since found a job and dont really waste my time with 3 hour faps anymore. ive had some bad weekends, but im getting better.
>>740927502
been with her for 5 months, my longest relationship. she got with me while i was unemployed, a fucking miracle i know, and i really dont wanna fuck it up. she knows about the possible ed and is nothing but supportive. im not gonna propose tommorrow or anything crazy, so i wouldnt say im tied down, but i really do love her

here, have a gif you kind bastards.

>>740927793
> Early in the relationship my BF had sex every day, often multiple times.
Very few people will do this more than a month or two into a relationship
> Recently he said "I'd be okay with having sex twice a month"... Is it a redflag?
Yes
> Should I leave?
Probably youre only 20

>>740927711
Hmm, I read this and recognised my own ex-bf somewhat. He would go into binges of drinking and smoking weed for two weeks about once per 2 months.

Had a possesion charge and was forced to go to rehab, there the shrink said he was bipolar and that he was subconsciously trying to self-medicate the depressive stages. I called it hus "man period" :D

>>740928013
Cheers for lasting 3 hours mate.

Need motivation for no fap...Just like the anon before, hard to get it up when it's time for actual fucking. I can go 2-3 days before I gotta rub one out. Worse yet the gf is always horny but im at a shitty point where I almost want to masturbate instead fucking...Im I a lost cause?

Don't get married... Period.. fuck buddies are the way to go... Best advice an old fuck like me can give... Heed it.. you have been warned..

>>740928025
Shame though, he's pretty great. :(

>>740927173
should move on because someone so shallow isnt worth your time and thats a pretty gay excuse

she's interested in someone else or just doesnt want to deal with you/your family anymore

>>740927757
no problem anon, good luck to you, oh maybe look on adamandeve for like sex games? that could be fun, just a random thought

>>740927711
he has addiction, and also withdraw when he tries to quit. in cases like this yes rehab is a possible outlet because there he is forced not to drink and cannot obtain any alcohol so the system controls his habits for him. does he have other relatives who drink extensively as well? if this habit has been going on for years, it will take a long time to recover. in some cases, it is best for the partner to move on rather than be sucked into taking care of a person that could never give back and therefor reduce the quality of life for the now partner/ caregiver

>>740928141
Not quite - it really depends on what type of porno you're watching. What kind are you watching anon

>>740928120
thanks? i was up and down a lot. most of that time was spent trying to not cum so i can keep finding more shit to download, then letting myself finish when i got hungry or thirsty. i wanna say 6 hours was my longest. im not exactly proud of it

>>740927793
think of it like candy, if you give it often, then it looses its attraction. to regain it, you be in control of when he has the goods, other thoughts are:

he has some people he is talking to on the side
he has some issues going on
he is having second thoughts
he just doesnt really have much interest in sex

>>740927803
Thanks for the response. He has actually gone to an inpatient rehab for 20 something days about a year ago, but checked himself out early because he said it was pointless and he didn't need it. Needless to say, he was drinking about a week later. He sometimes wakes me in the middle of the night, "we live together) and starts crying telling me how he is desperate to stop and how he wishes he could be normal, but I am not a professional and have no clue how to help him. I just tell him I love him and I'll be there for him, be he needs to talk to a professional. He never does. I get so mad at him due to this problem, but I also really feel bad for him sometimes. It seems he wants to stop, but then that all goes down the drain when he gets into the usual cycle again.

>>740927793
>>740928025
I think it will be hard to find a boyfriend who can keep up with every day/multiple times a day until you get old. Sounds like you are you might have a problem really, I would talk to a shrink or doctor

I am not attracted to my gf and do not want to be with her. We live together and house is in her name. She'd be financially ruined if I left, no longer covering my half of bills, but we are becoming repulsed by one another. Do you have any thoughts on what I could/should/shouldn't do?

>>740928327
Referencing what you posted earlier, I have like 800gb of hd porn on my hd too, would you recommend deleting most/all of it?

>>740928418
Have you two been fighting? Or are you just bored?

>>740928180
was kinda in the same boat where i didnt want sex as often as my gf

now roles have switch and she doesnt want it as often

sucks

>>740927952
Let it go
If she tries to talk to you again then talk to her

>>740928384
NP but what is the family situation? Does he have support from them?

>>740928234
Nothing too crazy honestly almost anything sets me off. I'll open up /b and just get carried away right away for like a 2 hour session.

>>740928418
How long has this been going on (both relationship and the troubles)

There is this one girl I like a lot and she's kinda in a abusive relationship right, but I have to be careful about saying anything or she'll break down. Idek if she's interested in me either because I always reach out to her. Idk maybe it's her bf or she's scared but wat do

>>740928484
There is massive baggage, we fight, she has put on 150lbs since we got together, and I have the means (something new in my life) to afford independent live.

HELP PLS

I'm in love. Like, balls deep in love. I've known this girl since she was a loli, we fuck and stuff, but she's afraid of commitment so we've never been a "couple." She tried to kick me out of her life for literally no reason, but keeps getting back to me when she needs help with something. I'm a boy toy. I know she was in love too, about 4 or 5 years ago, but not anymore. But I do love her and don't want to lose her. Any advice, /b/?

inb4 kys beta fag

>>740928574
Same situation here about browsing /b. Honestly, if she's your girlfriend, try to be as amicable as possible and try to see things in her eyes. In fact, put yourself at a (temporary) submissive role to her in terms of daily life. Then, once she see's you've changed to suit her, regulate yourself to balance both life and finances happily.

>>740926176
the fact that you're in a relationship tells me you're beyond help because you've essentially submitted to a woman in order to gain sex.

>>740928418
i would have a sit down talk

in it, admit your flaws and faults and apologize, while also pointing out things that she has done or said that have not been good either.

then follow that by saying that you recognize things have not been going smoothly and that you think that maybe you guys arent compatible as you had both thought. you would like to leave but dont want to screw her over either so how can we try to fix this? maybe find some room mates for her instead so she stays in the same place

>>740928634
Four years. Trouble has lasted nearly entire time for me, and time got away from me.

>>740928390
I'm not saying "until I get old", also not saying multiple times on workdays.

I'm a healthy 20 year old, no kids, and it's normal that my libido is high - I'm at the peak of reproductive age.

He's like... Always tired, does nothing but watch Netflix after work, on weekends he just does the same or sleeps, if we're not going somewhere. He works 9-7, which is on the shorter side in my country.

Like seriously dude. He's 20 but often acts like he's already 40.

i replied to the wrong person, but these general rules still stand.

>>740928384
Your not going to want to hear this but I was him... The only way he will get better is to hit his bottom.. no one... And I Mean NO ONE. can tell him different.. it's like a kid touching a hot stove.. you can grab his hand and stop him.. save him from being burned.. but he will learn nothing until your not there to stop him and he burns his hand and finally learns on his own.. just pry bottom happens before he physically hurts himself or someone else in the process. That's what got me straight anyways...

>>740928730
You need to fall out of love. Try fucking other women

>>740928678
Go for an independent life if you feel like you'll be better off. Plus weight gain is a sign of mental weakness. Dump her as calmly as possible and lead yourself into a new chapter of life!

>>740928789
You might need to cut and run

>>740928556
Will do. Thanks man.

>>740928191
His dad died in his 40s due to drinking I think, but he hasn't really gone into detail about what exactly happened. He also says his grandpas on both sides were alcoholics, and his older brother is a heroin addict, so I guess addiction runs in his family. His mom on the other hand, is the nicest woman I have ever met, and I am sometimes able to talk to her and we can give advice or bounce ideas off one another. I really don't want to leave him, because I know he will start to destroy himself even worse than he already is, but I'm reaching a breaking point with all of the empty promises of stopping. He is 23 and has been drinking heavily for 8 years, so I understand it can be very hard to stop since it has been all he has really known.

>>740928446
yes. all of it. the simple answer is that it isnt healthy. i got rid of it all in one go. occasionally i'll have a thought of an image or video and miss it. that thought is then followed up by holy shit thats really bad im a god damn addict, then some remorse. every time ive kept a few favorite files i couldnt find online anymore, it would slowly lead to me rebuilding the collection.

deleting all of it also gave me tons of free space to fill with pirated video games and movies.

>>740928730
kek

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>>740928531
I feel ya, bro. Have a condolence ass.

>>740928821
Okay, but it will probably be like this with most men you meet, if you want passionate sex every day.. You probably need to keep switching boyfriends to keep the spice up.

>>740928640
dont do anything, they will break up and then you will come in to be supportive. dont be too present in the relationship. just stay relevant and just there for things but not in her business. the more you inject yourself into that mess right now, the more you decrease you chances in the future

>>740928944
>23
>been heavily drinking for 8 years

ABANDON SHIP!

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Ready to call me a faggot cuck, boys?

So I've been talking to this girl for nearly a year. In that time we've fallen in love, but the issue is shes 3k miles away (from OR to NC) but we're working with it since we feel like we're literally made for eachother.
She's cute, loves one of my favorite all time games, we like the same music, she memes, she makes fun of gays and niggers and jews, and is really sweet to me.
But the only thing Im worried about is her going in to college. Shes getting a dorm with another chick so thats fine but who knows if there's gonna be other guys she meets. Shes told me many times that I have nothing to worry about and that nothing will happen and she loves me alot, but you just never know what can happen. For reference shes going to some liberal arts college even though she thinks the concept of liberal arts is retarded and her major is computer science, if that counts for anything. We also talk about meeting alot.

ANYWAY, do I have any fear of being cucked or nah?

Funny story that might help you out...so I was the kind of guy to jack off multiple times to milf porn, right? It had gotten to the point where I'd only fantasize about older women and the only action I got was from bored 40+ year old women who wanted some 22 year old dick. Anyways, like it always seems to go, when I wasn't exactly looking for an age appropriate girlfriend I happened to come across one who was really into me and chased me like crazy. I decided to take a leap of faith and give her a shot because she was pretty, smart, funny, and really nice overall as a human being...the first time we tried to have sex I could NOT get it up at all. It had taken us three tries before I could even get a boner, and even then I wasn't able to finish despite her trying everything she could. I was stressing out like crazy, trying everything from aphrodisiacs to not even thinking about sex with people other than her. Finally...after a couple weeks of not smoking, jacking off, watching porn, or eating shitty food, along with using revitalizing lotion on my dick twice a day, I was able to get boners and bust fat nuts with her no problem. Today, after 5 months of sex 2-3 times a day nonstop INCLUDING the days when she's on her period, it's never been easier to get hard and finish in my life. You'll get there, just get over your nerves and RELAX.

>>740928998
youre too kind

>>740929065

I'll most likely get multiple FWBs. It's very hard to find someone who is "boyfriend material", even more so when they realize I come from money (I'm not obvious about it at all).
Or I could buy myself a fuckboi. (EW)

>>740928640
You REALLY want to do this? You need to realize that women enjoy branch swinging (be with guy A, things go south him, Line up B Guy while still with Guy A, Break up with A /or cheat on A with B, then be with Guy B. Be fun, laidback guy who does fun things around her. Don't try and talk about her relationship or anything, pretend it doesn't exist. Just be social and fun and positive. If it is true she is in an abusive relationship, her time with you will slowly but surely be what she looks forward to. Then BAM

>>740928888
Nice quads.

Yeah I've tried but she's literally perfect. Bisexual model. Hot, fun, wrote a novel, acts, sings, is smart af. I dunno man.

>>740929141
> ANYWAY, do I have any fear of being cucked or nah?
Good chance you're being cucked as we speak

>>740928861
Wow, anon.. thank you for the advice. You seem pretty knowledgeable on the subject, and this is what I have slowly and painfully been discovering about him and this situation. I have tried everything, from screaming at him, to crying, to showering him with love. But nothing is changing. Would you mind to share a bit about your story?

>>740929456
You're right

>>740928861
If she's not a virgin, then you're fucked

>>740929356
She doesn't love you though, you see. You REALLY want to do this? Your only chance is to get someone else (doesn't have to be an LTR) and hopefully it makes her jealous. Quads have chosen me as the relationship master. Believe me

>>740928944
sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones YOU have to make in order to preserve yourself based on things that are out of your control. he is addicted. outpatient rehab leaves too many opportunities for him to fall back into his drinking. the only one who can influence his drinking is not you, but himself. but why would he ever change when he needs the bottle more than anything/ one else? he will change when he realizes that his life isnt free, he is tied down both financially and emotionally to alcohol. then he will be faced with a choice, but either way, there is not much you can do except for watch. you can be there to support him in his recovery but the time for you to take care of yourself is now, not later, you have a tough decision to make but remember life isnt meant to be endured, its meant to be lived

>>740928178
Im only 20 and I've realized that. unfortunate.

>>740928861
Also don't think it's hopeless, my girlfriend at the time.. who is now my wife felt the same as you.. and stood by me through my worst and it gave me strength to want to be better for her.. light at the end of the tunnel.. and she help guide me through all of it.. but it is a very high price she had to pay but to this days she swears I was worth it.. I thank God to this day for her or I never would have found my way out of that dark abyss.

>>740929456
>>740929492
expected this from /b/ tbqh

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OMG stop being beta as fuck. Fuck buddies are just that, fuck buddies. You need to keep your distance from any female fuck buddy. If you give them just a little latitude, they will be clingy and stalky. Keep your distance m8t.

>>740929151
>Today, after 5 months of sex 2-3 times a day nonstop INCLUDING the days when she's on her period

My envy is strong

Been distant with my girlfriend admittedly for the past year or so because I've been giving another girl from school more attention than her. Im a piece of shit yes but I've never actually cheated just some light flirting. Recently my girlfriend got really drunk and handsy with one of her male friends and according to someone I know that was there at that moment she kissed him and they passed out together after some drunken flirting. Am I wrong to be pissed about this? I know I kinda deserve it but she was apparently all over him plus the kiss. I know she loves me and I love her but we're definitely in a rough patch. We've been together almost 4 years. She doesn't know I know about what happened and she's super "nice" lately to me and im not sure how to feel about it all.

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>>740926176
How can I blow my load more times a day?
3 rounds of sex is the most I had. Reload time is not an issue, I'm good to go after 15-20mins.

>>740929314
Ok, then what's the point of this discussion? Why did you even ask when you already made up your mind?

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>>740929141
You can't get cucked if you've never met. Honestly dude, if you haven't even seen her in person, its not a real relationship. Fortunately for you, no pussy means no gonnahrea!

>>740929559
You're right. I'll make you proud, master.

>>740929999
nice quads

maybe its not the number of loads
but the quality of the loads?

>>740929970
>Recently my girlfriend got really drunk and handsy with one of her male friends and according to someone I know that was there at that moment she kissed him and they passed out together after some drunken flirting
More than that happened prolly
> Am I wrong to be pissed about this?
No, dump her

>>740929151
more stories anon

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Depends on what you want to do. The Alpha thing to do is rub her nose in it, bring her down to size and keep her under your watchful eye...while...still doing what you do with the other girl. Girls respond well to a little competition and will work harder for you affection. But if you love her, make it right. If not, cut her loose or keep her dangling. Pussy is pussy m8t.

>>740930076
See it's win-win. You might actually like new girl and forget about old girl. Or the plan works. I've done this more than once and had both outcomes

>>740930038
It's always uselful to hear what other people think, in case there might be a solution my upset mind hadn't thought of.

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It depends on preference. I'm married but still have a g/f on the side. I like the challenge. I like the danger.

>>740926541
Go down on her and make her come every time before you fuck. Start fucking her ass whilst she dildo her

>>740930077
3rd load is already a pain to get out. One sweaty hour of countless pumps. Gf definitely enjoys it, but I want my own pleasure as well lol

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Are all women thots /b/?

>>740930407
maybe you should pace yourself

>>740930349
Disgusting

>>740930278
Doubt it, you probably want to hear people agree with you, so you feel more confident in your already made up decision

>>740930447
60% are. all eyes open lads.

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If you can make a girl cum, you can make her do anything. And I mean ANYTHING.

I'm interesting to know. How many of you lads think it's acceptable for a bitch to showcase herself online, nude, when she's in a relationship with you? Or at the very least, post lewds / sexually suggestive clothed photos?

I'm asking because I personally see this as disrespectful towards the male and the boundaries of the relationship. But I see most men being totally complacent with it.

Is this more proof that "cuckery" is becoming commonplace throughout society at multiple levels?

>>740929489
All can say is my own experience.. for what ever reason the drinking started.. it's an excuse.. mine was hiding from pain I couldn't bare.. you justify numbing yourself.. it works good at first.. but at some point.. the alcohol controls you. It makes your hormone balance go out of wack. Your body sees it as poison and counteracts it with chemicals so you can function.. but the chemicals that counter act take longer to get out of your system then your body removing the alcohol so you swing the other way and get the shakes.. so you need alcohol to balance the body's chemicals to "get normal" it becomes a viscous cycle.. leads to huge depression.. Which causes more drinking to numb it witch makes it all the more worse.. sad thing is it physical and can kill you.. period.. only way to break through is medical withdrawal through rehab.. but until he is so sick of who he is he will not seek help because all he cares about is not having the physical pain of withdrawal.. it is so bad you will steal lie Rob to not feel it.. that is till you hit your bottom.. question for you is does his good out way his bad.. us he worth fighting for?

I've only had sex with 4 women, my girlfriend has had sex with 10 guys. Is the relationship doomed?

>>740930575
WEW LAD

>>740930447
Given the right circumstances, absolutely all women are thots.

Some just don't appear to be because they haven't met the right circumstances yet.

They haven't evolved to be able to overcome their instincts, and it's their instincts that make them thots. They've evolved to follow their instincts and use them to get what they want, hence why they're generally so selfish and self-absorbed, and act like spoiled little princesses.

So yeah, don't be fooled. They're all thots.

>>740930575
>10

Anon the cutoff for a reliable long term relationship girl is 5, shes at double the limit so yes its doomed unless you know how to warp all that extra sex energy in your favor

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>>740930563

Depends on the guy. ME personally. It depends if this is my main girl of my sloot. If its the sloot, then I don't care because I want her to be slooty. I wouldn't take it from the main girl though.

>>740930575
The more sexual partners a woman has throughout her life, the less likely she is to be happy in a long-term relationship.

FACT.

Your relationship will eventually end, no matter how much you try to please your woman, she will begin to look elsewhere and eventually fuck you over (and likely play the victim, making out she had to do so because you weren't fulfilling your end of the bargain in the relationship).

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My girlfriend of one month (almost 2, also my first girlfriend) has been complaining about her body image to me alot, every conversation she just fishes for compliments. She always points out how cute other couples are and she tells me she wishes her bf was like that. I don't know what to do, I try my best but my job/college gets in the way of everything. She lives 30 minutes away and it makes it hard for us to see each other, I feel conflicted because I don't make her happy and that's all I want to do

>>740930744

Oh. Well that's fine I guess. Guess I will just enjoy it while it lasts then find a better one later.

>>740930763
She sounds insecure and yeah i wouldnt put money on a girl 30 minutes away working out since it borders mid distance relationship. Its a pain in the ass to fix even if you truly like her, but it can be fixed

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Gf has been complaining that I don't love her or spend time focused on her after spending a 8 hour day hanging it out at my house with her. Been going on for the last few months and I'm about to go nuts

What do?

>>740930731
interested*

Good lad.

Same here. If it's a slut I don't care. I prefer her to openly be a slut so I know to not get attached.

I was once involved with a girl though, that was clearly gearing up to wanting to be in a relationship with me. And I was considering getting into a relationship with her at some point. But there were two major problems.

One being that she would consistently post lewd photos of herself on her social media, obviously craving attention from random strangers online (obviously mainly male attention considering the content). I'd express my disapproval and why, even going as far as to getting into the psychology of it, and she'd claim I was trying to oppress her basically.

While at the same time she'd actively berate me day-in-day-out for speaking to female acquaintances that I'd known for years or liking / reblogging photos with female imagery (even art) on Tumblr.

Now she's with a dude who actively encourages her to show off online, and her content is getting much more sexually suggestive. So he's allowing her to seek male attention elsewhere while being in a relationship with her, even actively encouraging it.

And I think this is the height of disrespect for him and the relationship on her part, regardless of whether or not he's complacent with it.

Just a hoe, and he's a cuck.

>>740930932
Shes being clingy, slowly back off the dosage and focus on whatever the fuck she thinks is missing its usually something stupid and inconsequential. Also is that jet black hair? Nice

Gf seemed fine and said goodnight but is now retweeting sad shit on twitter, what do?

>>740930827
My advice to you mate, is don't seek any relationships. Just do your own thing, live for yourself and look to achieve as much as you can.

Women are just distractions and parasites who want to benefit from your success or achievements. They have only two purposes for a man, two benefits, sexual release and procreation. If you consider women to have any value other than these in terms of a relationship, you're fucked, and you'll essentially be a slave to pussy, only to be tossed away when your master / mistress is bored with you or gets a better offer.

>>740930906
But what do? She sends me pictures of necklaces n stuff saying she wants me to buy her clothes but I'm a poorfag. Don't know what do.

>>740931124

But she fucks and sucks me and cooks and cleans and I don't even have to pay for shit. You sound beta mate, no offense.

>>740930932
same boat as you. I hang out with her for like 6-12 hours every day and she gets upset when I say I want to spend the day alone. How long have you been dating?

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>>740931024

Dood, she had self esteem issues. Hard to date girls long-term like that. I feel for ya but she would eventually fuck someone else and shit on your heart.

This is why I pick girls with low self esteem and self worth for my fuck buddies and pick the serious well rounded ones for relationships.

>>740930932

It's one of two things.

1) You spent shit tier quality time together and she is left feeling as though you had no real connection at all.

2) She is emotionally demanding due to her upbringing and the minute you leave she is back to square one.

I would say it's probably a combination or the two.

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>>740931034
That's probably true. Do you nean I should spend less time with her but more time focused on doing whatever she likes? She actually mentions that she just wants to spend time alone together.. just pissed me off that's she's this clingy after 2 years

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>>740931354

I agree but I think she is too needy. I'd part ways or keep a distance or you will find your rabbit ont he stove in a pot.

>>740931354
shit anon, im in a similar situation as him and you got the nail on the head for me, nice work

>>740928730
Sorry if I'm late, I've been in the same situation. Distance yourself while you can, I say this from experience. stop seeing her and stop fucking her

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>>740926176
How do you abuse daddy issues and turn them to your advantage?
I know it's a broad term, but still...

>>740929141
Hey my dude, I went to college after being in a LDR for four years and we broke up after my first semester because I found someone else, I hate to be that person but honestly you're so young, go out and have fun and meet someone in your area. It's brutal and I know you won't want too, but I literally wasted so much of my life looking back on it.
we thought we were going to get married, just sucks I realised how much I missed once we moved in together ..

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>>740931643

Easy. dude. Tell them to do something like... send you lewd pictures and then reward them. Tell them you love em. Then... ask her to buy some slutty underwear... send photos..reward her.. Then, let it progress. They crave the love and attention that daddy couldn't give.

>>740931196
I sound beta?

You literally just admitted that you're attached to the benefits your woman provides you with, that is literally being beta. Because the second you feel as though you need your woman or what she provides you with, is the second you essentially submit to her. Even if she does all the things you claim and you don't financially support her, she's the dominant force in the relationship because she knows you need her. So she is likely controlling you subtly via those benefits she knows you love.

Women do this all the time, they give you everything you want, or that they think you want, they will make you feel like you have the best deal you could ever possible have, while covertly they're manipulating you by giving you what you want, so you give them something they want. And then usually, eventually, the dynamic completely switches. Those long years of being provided for sexually and in whatever other ways becomes a debt you need to repay to your woman, and she calls on that debt when she has you on lockdown via a child or marriage or whatever else. And guess what? On top of that, the benefits she once provided you with end, so everything becomes one-sided, and in favour of her.

Sounds like your woman is luring you into a false sense of security so she can completely overtly dominate you at a later time.

And you say I sound beta haha.

>>740931423
That changes a lot, at about two years a long term relationship either fades away or becomes even more serious. (dont have to put a ring on it but you get the idea) Sounds like shes doubling down and has actually begun to see you as truly long term material and now she wants to make sure you feel the same way either out of fear or comfort or both.

Alternatively shes doing this behavior to hide that shes cheating (yeah i know)

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>>740931354
I might be stubborn sometimes but I take her out once a week to somewhere really nice and we go for the usual dinner/desert almost everyday. Granted working on my project car has probably annoyed her a lot plus the fact that her family is messed up contributes to it.

I'm just so overwhelmed and can't take it for much more as I have to treat her like a baby and take care of her too much. Shes a smart person but way too dependant on people unfortunately

>>740930563
I agree, would never post dumb shit like that online, don't want other guys thinking about me like he does. If I wanna take a sexy/suggestive pic I'll send it to him

>>740930645
This
I've seen pure virgins turn into complete whores overnight because they started getting attention from guys.
also feel like a lot of girls have daddy issues so that doesn't help

so /b/ need heavy advice, long story short
>20 years old
> Been obsessing over a girl for 7 years prior to my current one
> this summer manage to get a girlfriend
>Miracle.gif
>Dating for only almost 2 months and shit is intense
> havent missed a day we havent met up
> Constant sex ( sometimes 7 times a day)
question is how do i know i actually love this girl without the usual "time will tell" or that shes just making a 20 year old (until recently) virgin feel special n shit ? sorry for bad england

>>740930563
I'm with the other guy. Would not allow for long term prospect, but short term fling or girl in permanent side slut status, sure.

>>740929141
Ahh, no. Prepare for the worst my guy. College always kills LDR unless she's anti-social/a little ugly. Sorry buddy, but the best you can do is mentally prepare and get tons of nudes.

>>740932045
Yeah, it's like I heard someone say one time, if you're not in business, don't fucking advertise.

The way I see it, sharing nudes / lewds / sexually suggestive content online is essentially a mating call. Showing off the goods to get people interested. And it's indicative of a female wanting to find a stepping stone (a higher status male to hop on to from whoever they're currently with).

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>>740932243

All things change in time. Fucking is natural, so chemistry is there. That's a start. If she continues to do nice things for you, then she feels man.

>>740932243
>question is how do i know i actually love this girl without the usual "time will tell" or that shes just making a 20 year old (until recently) virgin feel special n shit ? sorry for bad england
Love is just about dopamine in the brain. Time will tell is really the only advice because you don't know if you can stand her without the constant dopamine rush. If you still tolerate her in two years, yeah sure. Bear in mind this is your first relationship and she's the first to empty your nutsack. Just when until you discover all girls can do that

>>740932165
Yeah same here, but you know what I see more of nowadays?

Women thinking they're some kind of fucking goddess the second they mature and start getting male attention.

Men worship women far too much nowadays and as a result, women are becoming way more monstrous than ever before.

>>740931195
if she's asking you to buy her shit and you've only been dating a month, cut it off tbh. She sounds super needy emotionally and material wise. My bf and I have been together over two years and I jokingly mentioned he never buys me jewelry so he made me a ring out of a piece of grass and a candy wrapper
Sounds gay as fuck, and it is, but him joking around/trying/making his own thing meant more than any bought item could

>>740932360
she tells me she loves me all the time but not sure to trust or not. if its any indication i came inside once ( not intentional) and she didn't freak out at all if anything she became more lovey dovey, did talk her into plan b though

>>740931759
Thanks for being honest anon. I really truly want to stay happy with the way it is but I've been preparing the second she told me shes going to college. I'll keep you in mind if it goes to shit /b/ro.
>>740932287
Im trying. I've been trying to get her to send my nudes for a long ass time but she isn't. thats the only reason I feel fairly secure is bc if she wont sent nudes then why would she hook up with someone else?

>>740931786
You are a fucking beta. You're terrified of half the human population, and you're scared women will take your money that you're just going to spend on video games and cartoon memorabilia/erotica, which you can't let go of because you're an anti social cuck failure.
Beta bitch

>>740931267
it's important to set boundaries, she's gunna bitch and whine and get sad, but if you've literally been doing everything you can to show her you care and it's not enough then there is something else going on

>>740930575
Go get some pussy ASAP

>>740929970
It's your way out, I have no idea why you arent taking it... if you're not that butthurt already isn't that telling you something?

>>740932357
>The way I see it, sharing nudes / lewds / sexually suggestive content online is essentially a mating call. Showing off the goods to get people interested. And it's indicative of a female wanting to find a stepping stone (a higher status male to hop on to from whoever they're currently with).
It's that, but there is another layer. If you live on planet Earth you will find out most chicks are insecure, and oftentimes the pretty ones are the most insecure. This is just a way to validate their existence, even when they are not actively looking to branch swing. Put another way, for most chicks today taking away the ability to post cute pictures of them for men to fawn over (and rival chicks to be jelous over) would be like taking away masterbating for men

>>740929151
Or you can just get a 40+ woman
Worked for me

>>740931024
this

>>740932422
Holy fuck this is too true

>>740932529
I'm gonna assume you're the dude I responded to.

If so, your second response tells me I'm 100% correct in my evaluation of your particular situation, hence the outrage.

Just take what I said into account, reflect on it, and remember it when she does what I've warned you of.

P.S. look how submissive you are to her. You'd rather embarrass yourself online and show your emotional immaturity and just how much she has you hooked by raging at a random person online for warning you about the dangers of women giving you what you want. You have literally proven my point. You are addicted, she has you right where she wants you.

>>740931932

Have you specifically asked her what things you do together that make her feel good and feel as though you genuinely connect?

I feel as though going out for dinner/dessert is what a lot of couples do when they have nothing else to do. It's just filling time/something to do.

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>>740932506

Dude, love is full of ups and downs. Eventually you will get your heart stepped on. Its all about picking up and continuing on. Some times, you gotta take a chance.

>>740932422
> Men worship women far too much nowadays and as a result,
We always worshipped women, we were just too busy doing shit like warring and coal mining and fishing and shit
> women are becoming way more monstrous than ever before.
this is true, and that's because they're also not as busy as before because they aren't getting pregnant constantly due to contraception. Now they can use their sexuality well into their 40s

>>740929141
read one sentence and deemed you a faggot

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>>740926176
okay call me a faggot cuck or anything you want

but the thing is ive always been afraid of getting a GF because i fear that someone is going to like hit on her and she is going to devalue me over him. basically im not all that attractive and i got a small dick

This has plagued me so much that when i had a 10/10 girl i lost her to that anxiety or maybe i didnt even had a chance from the get go idk

>>740932612
I kind of agree but tbh, masturbation for men is just overcompensation for not having a woman for their use. And a massive part of a good amount of men not having a woman for their use is the fact that it's so easy for women to seduce men via the use of social media. All they have to do is post a single pic of their ass or whatever and they literally have hundreds if not thousands of men collectively showing their appreciation for that photo, and then that woman essentially has the pick of the bunch, and this is on every single post they make, and even on "normal" posts, men are constantly chasing women at every opportunity and this has become so much more obvious with the advent of social media, and women, becoming far more aware of this, have corrupted their view of their own self-worth, self-ascended to godhood and as a result, completely sexually ostracised a good amount of men. With such an excess of men accessible to women due to these factors, they now tend to wait around for someone who's the full package even when the woman in question is average at best. Which lowers the chances of anyone who isn't of that calibre at achieving success in their pursuit of sex.

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>>740933047

I agree, this is why I make girls work for it. Ultimately, they still want to be dominated by an alpha.

>>740932516
Getting nudes in an LDR really depends on the girls personality, then a bit of mental manipulation/guilt. My mistake was doing it when she was 16, and considering Im well into my twenties now, just felt fucked to keep them.

>>740932770
/b/ is a really good example of this.

There are so many threads essentially worshipping women.

They have such an elevated sense of self-worth now because men focus on them so much it's gotten ridiculous.

>>740933047
yeah I agree. but it's also because until recently, we were never bombarded with so much sexually suggestive content as we are online for example. and the attitudes of women in general were far more conservative until recently, now, most women are whores, and 90% of the time they are actively seeking to be sexually appealing to the opposite sex, which puts men into a certain mindset when they see these females parading themselves around as they do to achieve this. That mindset being one that is essentially dominated by the libido. So yeah, while I agree, I also think part of the problem is that women are actively seeking to be desired by men, therefore attracting the attention of men far more than ever before, using mediums such as social media to maximise their exposure (pun intended).

>>740933168
This whole post is besides the point. You indicated social media sluttery is a mating call. I think it's more than just that. Its also satisfying women's NEED of gratification. Their need to have men find them attractive (even if the woman doesn't act on it, because they don't most of the time) is AS important as our need to empty our balls frequently. We just wouldn't function otherwise, like them.

>>740933268
Her thot phase is over but shes been in two long term relationships so shes had the hell fucked out of her but I've seen literally 0 lewd pics of her on any social media. Shes more conservative now for what ever the fuck reason and its actually sorta making me mad. Why could she do it with her 2 bf's and other faggots when she was thotting around but not for me yknow?
I know what you mean though

>>740926822
are you anons really discussing rights on fuck buddy's relationships? that's like not wanting any other dude to ever ride your rented car

>>740933153
first off, how easily do you pick up girls, seeing as you don't think you're good looking, but had a "10/10"?

>>740933537
sending lewds that is

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I sometimes still think of my first love. It feels fucked up considering im in a relationship going on 5 years. Earlier in the relationship I would still talk to her via text, and once via phone.
We've stopped talking, but during the convos I did flirt, and so did she. Sometimes I still occasionally wonder, what if? Which leaves me feeling guilty as fuck. The bitch moved on, why am I still thinking of her?

im 24 years old and never kissed or had even a long term platonic friend who was a girl.
never had any female attention growing up so i isolated myself socially and am fucking depressed and awkward.
i constantly dream about women and sex and when i wake up im still on the strong path towards wizardy

is there any hope or is it too late?

>>740927711
I once knowed someone who was metaphorically on probation for a dui.

>>740933658
It's human to do this occsioanlly. its only a problem if it is preventing you from getting other pussy or dating etc

>>740933687
it is never too late, lose virginity by a decent escort

>>740933687
akwys hope. try exercise. Take up running as a hobby.

>>740933506
Yeah I agree with that, but a woman should be submissive to her man and only care about her man desiring her, nobody else. This is why women shouldn't have the freedoms they have today, the advent of social media etc. Because the second you give them access to all of the males who have an online presence is the second you devalue any male that the woman in question is in a relationship with, because if she can't get what she wants from him in way of being desired, she'll get it from someone else. And even if she is being desired by him, it likely won't be enough because women are vain creatures and enough is never enough. That's the problem. "Enough is never enough." And being complacent with online sluttery is essentially enabling these women to proliferate that vain mindset that is both devaluing men and making women spiral down a path of self-destruction, and also influencing such things as the destruction of the family unit, because if a man is devalued, so is the family unit. This is why traditionally speaking women were socially pressured into taking traditional roles within the family unit, because if left to their own devices, they become vain, greedy creatures that have absolutely no respect for themselves or anyone else and essentially just become flesh robots seeking their next fix of validation.

>>740933861
i dont just want pussy though im a total simp beta loser. i want to connect with a female on a deeper level. im just terrified of them.

>>740928531
She's at the very least losing interest in you and might already be thinking about cheating or has done it dude.

At least 50% of all relationships cheating happens.

You just need to manipulate your wife's desires in an ethical way. If she isn't down , then you just make her feel better. Give her a neck/back rub and just compromise on a blow job. Do something nice for her so that if she is actively resisting you emotionally , it will make her feel guilty and less likely to not want to be passionate with you.

And if she still withholds affection from you even though you treat her well , then you just need to move on and break up cause that relationship is never going to last.

Relationships is about sacrifice and having legitimate love for one another and trying to make the other person happy.

>>740930744

Dubs speaks the truth.

>>740931643
bump

>>740933658
because the mind softens the bad memories over time, plus she moved on. Makes her more desirable, idk why you two broke up, but it happened for a reason.

if you're happy n you current rltnshp then be appreciative, but if you dwell on this, you will end up fucking over whoever you're with now. it'll just keep nagging at you until you cheat on this girl or treat her like shit.

>>740933947
Also, the more vain a woman becomes, the more she actually ironically devalues herself, because the more she puts herself in a base, low mindset, and the less valuable she becomes to society as a whole. So it's actually not in her best interests in the long term to be allowed to whore herself out online. It's damaging both socially and psychologically.

>>740933602
it really depends the only way i can pick up girls is through my personality apparently im really funny and nice, but like idk if they're for real

>>740933602
also the 10/10 we were just friends btw

>>740933687
>>740933949
join one of those meetup groups. on meetup. /com or w/e. when I was breaking out f my shell it helped to meet people even more awk as i was, as weird as it sounds. and many girls that go to those things are weird, but friendly and will talk to you

>>740933949
Blah. Get over that shit. There is no deeper connection.

>>740926176
Should I get back together with my ex?

I broke up with her, but every now and then she messages me to spark a conversation.

She was always playing mind games is why I broke up with her in the first place.

>>740934293
well im not very attractive and my cock isn't big so getting pussy is virtually impossible

>>740934336
no dont, do not trust that roastie

>>740934090
Socially I kind of doubt it. Cucking culture and open relationships are kind of continuing to rise.

Women being more sexually active with multiple partners is pretty much at this point has to be an accepted trend, since I don't really see that paradigm shifting.

>>740933947
I agree. It's just not the point I was making. Social gratification to women is like breathing to them now.

>>740934131
>>740934170
well be confident,because the first step is getting a gf...then you can worry about keeping her.

Girls are 100% attracted to confidence, and if you're thinking she'll leave you, even if its not for another man it'll happen because its a major turnoff.

idk if you're ugly or decent but THINK you're ugly, but until you realize that a DECENT female, not a hoe, will stay loyal as long as you are attractive to her (not just in looks, but CONFIDENCE) she will remain loyal.

plenty of the homies are rat looking mf's as far as i know, but have loyal girls attached to them because they are confident.

>>740934336
No. And beware trying to fuck her casually. She will continue those mind games nd fuck with your head. Ignore her messages

>>740934336
bitches who play mind games DO NOT "grow out of it" it's best to cut her loose.even as friend she will fuck up your life and future, believe you me.

>>740934428
Thanks anon

>>740934460
Yes and look how society is degrading as time goes by. And it's going to get worse.

And I think the paradigm will shift at some point. Just not for a good while. I think with social trends like MGTOW growing, and men diverting their attention from women to more important things like philosophy, or personal achievements will eventually get to the point where women will have little choice but to behave and look to appease men once again. But of course, that's assuming that the west sorts out the issue of immigration, and women aren't given the opportunity to transfer their attention away from western men to eastern men for their fix of gratification and resources.

>>740934401

Confidence beats attractive. And small cock just means she might be disappointed afterwards, not that it won't happen.

>>740934494
I mean this might be true in some cases that girls could cheat cause a guy isn't confident.

But cheating is common place man and for the most part it always has been. In cultures of the past , you had women viewed more in a property sense in ancient times of society and then Roman society where there was factions of nobility that was promiscuous and then the backlash against it.

But even in the religion dominated parts of western society, you had the harlets and prostitutes and whores.

People just cheat man. It's more about having a real bond with someone and finding someone who values commitment and sacrifice.

But more people are going away from traditional relationships that have dominated that last 100 years mostly because relationships in society are not biological entirely, they are affected by just the cultural and societal implications. There's a social media culture and media/entertainment and there's a pushback on this idea of women being "free" creates a paradigm where women only engage in things that make them happy.

>>740934494
Thanks anon ill try idk if it will work

>>740934561
>>740934593

Yeah, that's kind of what I was thinking.

I figure if I already broke up with her it was for a reason and would probably happen again.

And yeah I've pretty much cut her, although she won't take a fucking hint. Almost at the point of blocking her number.

Thanks for the advice anons

A few months ago me and my girlfriend sought to find a threesome. Her and I both agreed that it should be a female (she always wanted to fool around with girls and I'm not going to watch my girl get fucked). So, we found this girl that she worked with (already a bad start). However, this girl was bi and she seemed pretty down for my girlfriend. Problem was she wasnt down for me. So, we broke it off and i asked my girlfriend to please stop associating with this girl (she quit her job for unrelated reasons already). She said she would. Well about a month later I see that my girlfriend is STILL texting this girl (nothing sexual but I still felt betrayed). I didn't break it off with her as I really do care about her and she was very apologetic (she didnt delete any conversations they had so thats a plus). However, even a few months after the fact this is still in my mind. I love this girl I really really do. You think the thoughts will go away /b/? Btw diagonsed with anxiety.

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>>740934824
Also, I wish the myth about big cocks would drop. Take it from someone who is just above average, not even super big, bitches will actually complain sometimes of you being too big, especially asians.

Only girls with big floppy vaginas need bigger cocks, but most tight girls like when you're not too too big...maybe not below average tho...nothing micro

>>740934824
>she might be disappointed afterwards
that would be a terrible blow to my already low self-esteem

how do you make a girl enjoy sex with you? there can't be a general guideline...or is there?

>>740935018
im like 5.5 inches and not thick or anything

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