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how do you get girls to approach you in public? tired of being lonely

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how do you get girls to approach you in public?

tired of being lonely
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>>740665884
>Go to clubs
>Be hot
>Dance hot
>Get denied by every slut
>Score
>Go to hotel and fk
>Wake up alone
>Do it again
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Be alpha and good looking
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>>740665884
Bathe.... regularly
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>>740666334
Fuck me dude, don't make OP go and kill himself
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>>740665884
Wear a fedora.
Tip it when you pass a girl and say, "M'lady."
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>>740665884
Clothe yourself in currency.
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that's not how the world works, males have to do the approaching
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>>740665884
Either ur hot, or rich. Otherwise ur fucked.
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>>740666496
Kek
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>>740665884
Women are passive and emotionally inept children. They don't do that. You have to go to them.
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Harleys work well. You'd be surprised how many women will approach you.
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Honestly? Being good looking is like a book having a good cover. We're always told not to judge books by their covers, but people do it all the time.

That said, eat right & work out, develop your own sense of style when it comes to how you want to portray yourself to the world, and be confident socially, and eventually you will land yourself in a relationship or one-night stand. Guaranteed.
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>>740665884
who is that?
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>>740666664
True
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>>740666664
Bullshit.
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>>740666664
Not OP, but, I'm recently single after a 7 year relationship. My ability to read the social cues of women has gone to shit. I'm sure women give clues as to whether or not they want to be approached by you but I'm not sure what they are.

When a girl throws a glance or two your way, that's gotta mean something right?
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>>740666519
I've been approached loads of times.
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>>740666618
>Harleys work well. You'd be surprised how many women will approach you.
This. I'm an old anon and I still get approached by women of all ages when I'm with my bike. But pull into a parking spot in my Volvo and I'm invisible.
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>>740666925
That's because you're a cashier.
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Casanova once said ' be the fire , not the moth '. If you arent being approached then you are simply not hot enough for girls. Its the 80/20 rule.
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>>740667096
>That's because you're a cashier.
Under-age faggot detected.
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>>740667110
So either be hot or commit suicide
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>>740666716
ring-360 fruit is the name of the porn
>>740666904
do those glances mean anything?

idk i feel like from my people watching i've observed girls hitting on guys and initiating, but it's never once happened to me. feelsbad
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>>740667110
so if i'm not being approached, basically i should just give up?
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>>740667621
or grow some balls and approach yourself
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>>740665884
be handsome and they just gravitated to you, i should go outside get a girl before i die of old age.
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>>740667766
>grow some balls and be the moth
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>>740666616
they do do that.
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>>740665884
I recently got bored and did a stupid haircut. I've noticed an uptick in random girls walking up to me.
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>>740667812
they tend not to just walk up say hey lets fuck, but they will strike up a conversation.

>>740667779
>>740667812
>me
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>>740666567

Sorry, even the "hot" guys will get passed up by "hot" women. They will go up to the skinny or fat Chester Bennington/Fred Durst douche canoe.Then move onto the next clone the following week

Want women to come up to you

Rule one - don't be a threat to them. Be the biggest cuck loser you can be but still show you can offer what they want. Women these days are the reasons why we have such an increase in aspiring serial killers and murderers.
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>>740667903
well or they start dancing with you. but at this point you have to do something and not just stare like a dumb fuck
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>>740667903
I've never experienced this. Sounds kind of annoying actually. I hate it when people strike up conversations. It's always so lame bullshit small talk.
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here's the thing, anon; going out looking for a girl is a trap. Do shit you like, and if you don't like to do anything social, do something you've always wanted to try.

Do you best to be positive. have good manors and good hygiene. be presentable and approachable, yes, but the biggest thing is you have to actually enjoy whatever you chose to do. passion is attractive, and it honestly just feels good anyways. The ladies will come once you find something you're passionate about.

just get out there and don't be afraid of talking to people.
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>>740667965
>you have to do something and not just stare like a dumb fuck
Stil working on that part, usually im completely shell shocked when ppl start talking to me.
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>>740667698
thank you
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>>740668136
>be presentable and approachable
What does that entail? I don't look for people to approach so I don't know what that looks like.
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>>740668125
Usually, but it's how people meet people.
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>>740668343
It's exhausting to just think about. Maybe I should just be alone. Keeping my time and money to myself seems like the simplest option.
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>>740665884
If you're attractive the best you can hope for is friendly banter here and there, and you'll probably have to initiate it most of the time anyway. This is increased in situations where you have other reasons to be interacting anyway (ordering a coffee.. in the same yoga class etc)

It is extremely, extremely rare that a girl will, unprompted, approach some guy in public and start making conversation, regardless of how good looking you are. That scenario exists almost exclusively in the fantasies of lonely men.
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>>740666904
It doesn't matter? If you're in a socializing place and someone looks at you a couple of times, that's a good enough reason to go talk to them.

Just treat people like people. Know how to take no for an answer. Don't get attached to being around anyone at all until you're sure they're into it/you. Many will not be interested, some will be. Just be interesting and fun to be around, and eventually someone will want to be around you.

If you don't like bars, hit up some friend(s) and tell them you're trying to get back in the game, ask them if they're hosting some sort of party soon. Good friends will try to help you out and host something while inviting single women they know. These situations usually pan out better than randos in public, because you've already been vetted in the woman's mind, since their friend(s) trust you enough to introduce you.

Other than that, just expand your friend circle. Go to every event you hear about. Talk to people. If they're not interested, move on. Billions of women on this planet and a huge chunk of them are single. You'll be fine.
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Go to the GYM, see what Alphas look and try to build your body like them.
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even if you are approached by plenty of girls, you should learn to do it yourself too because one day they might stop doing it. be in control of your love life yourself, don't let it depend on others.
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>>740668125
>Ugh women wanting to have a conversation sounds so annoying how do I get them to just immediately jump on my dick then cease to exist otherwise

You're talking about 50% of the population here. Maybe you'd learn something from them by having a simple conversation or two?
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>>740668336
basically just wear clean clothes and try to be friendly.

for example, when you go rock climbing along, you'll need to ask someone to hold the rope for you while you climb. Nobody wants to ask the guy with greasy hair, stained clothes, and a slightly noticeable smell to them.

just simple stuff. clean and friendly goes a long way for first impressions. then you can start talking and hanging out with them.
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I could easily be lying, so I guess take everything I say with a grain of salt.

I'm 19, I'm overweight. Maybe like a 6/10 if that. And I have absolutely no problem with women approaching me. It's how you conduct yourself in a social setting. Be the interesting one leading conversations with your buddies. I was at an amusement park with some friends last year. We were standing by a water slide. I was joking, talking about some random shit. But the fact was, I was laid back, speaking upbeat, chill and slow body language, leading the conversation, making my friends chuckle. Took five minutes for a 9/10 to come up to me and ask if I wanted to go on a ride with her. Display yourself as the alpha male, but not in an intimidating way; a fun way instead. Bitches will flock.
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>>740668515
Actually, at parties or bars I often find women asking me to dance with them, and it's easy to move forward from there. If there's some good excuse for them to make a move on a hot guy, they often will. I'm not even a 10/10. More like a 7. But they're often there for the same reason you are.
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^^^ Agree, brother in law is ugly as fuck, fat and gets mad pussy
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>>740668790
This.

Being alpha has nothing to do with being a dick and everything to do with being someone that people actually want to be around.
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>>740668678
I renamed my toilet "The Jim" from "The John," so I can tell people I visit the Jim every morning. People are so impressed that I'm regular.
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>>740668454
Just so you know, that won't last. If it does then it's probably a pathology you ought to do something about.
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>>740668790
do the truffle shuffle
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>>740668845
Yeah I totally forgot bar/club settings because I'm a shit dancer.

I like to get drunk tell jokes though so I typically don't have that issue at parties. I find that it's really easy to include people (a qt in this scenario) in group conversations too at a party so they've got that going for them too. Plus booze obviously.
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>>740668790
this. be fun, smile a lot. being relaxed around other people is something women will detect.
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>>740665884
OP have you tried Tinder? I realize matches are rare for people who aren't very attractive but at the very least it's a way to 'approach' girls without knowing them at all.
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>>740668970
Why should I change it though? It's not like there's anything wrong with that.
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Puppy, kitty, instrument, large official looking camera, motorcycle.

Same shit since 46'.

Also it helps to not ooze desperation and it helps not to creepily eyeball fuck them into scarcity.

Start working out. Get confident. Get a tool of the trade and stop vaping faggot.
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>>740669227
On paper there isn't, but it's highly likely that you will get lonely.
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>>740667912

well this is terrible advice
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>>740669270
"Don't vape" is probably the best advice in this thread.
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Get a fidget spinner.

Once I started spinning in public I seriously cannot keep the pussy off of me.
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>>740669035
Well yeah, I'm of the mind that it's easier for the guy to initiate for a ton of reasons, just saying it's not that odd for women to make the first move when they feel they can or have to to get your attention. I've also met plenty of women in one place and gone nowhere with them, and later had them come up to me randomly and invite me to shit or tell me I'm cute. Women make moves too, is all I'm saying.
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>>740667790
>be the mothball
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>>740669227
Don't then. But you will because of
>>740669279
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>>740669372
>ask girls if they want your mothballs in their mouth cuz they fyre
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>>740669279
I've been told that I'll be a lonely old man. I've spent 28 years being a lonely young man so I'll have lots of practice and hopefully I'll just stop caring.
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>>740666502
Can confirm this works
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>>740669345

In that sense he also needs a wolf sweatshirt
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>>740669554
35. I did your bit a while back. I've done six or seven bits since then.
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>>740669554
Life begins at the outside of your comfort zone.
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>>740669467
Best advice so far..
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>>740669554
There's a difference between solitude and loneliness. You need to be able to exist in solitude most of the time, it's about being independent and loving yourself/ enjoying your own company (how will anyone else love/enjoy you if you can't even do it?), but loneliness will always seep in sooner or later. The only way to actually fix that is to bond with someone fun.

It's really not that hard once you know how to do it. Just hang out with friends and expand your friend circle so you have something to talk about that's not just inane. Have similar hobbies. Meet new people through those friends and meet new people through those new people, keep expanding. Eventually you'll meet a qt who's not taken and interested.
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>>740666334
Do you have tips that any of us can realistically achieve?
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>>740667912
> Worse
> Advice
> ever
That includes the "kys faggot" replies to things like "Chinese take out or pizza?"

Being a cuck is a step below a fedora wearing fat neck beard.
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>>740669974
At least wipe your ass until there's no more poopy showing up on the paper.
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>>740667812
>do do
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>>740668520
I find it insane that there are billions and yet I've only ever had one girlfriend, and have just a few female friends. I'm not a fedora or anything, I guess I just look unnaproachably serious/angry all the time. Shit sucks, I have zero game like that 7 year guy.
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>>740669270
All these tips work.

Most women will approach and talk to you.
Find what makes you feel ok, so you can talk back to them, exchange contact info. (phone number OR facebook OR what ever chatservice you use, don't try to give all, its not a business meeting.

Keep talking to other humans, males and females, listen to them and lean from them, even the ones you don't want to fuck, there are lessons to learn.

I know its a cliché, but I actually do have autism, but "high functioning" so social contact for me is a fucking constant effort.

That said, I get hit on, attractive people talk to me and laugh at my jokes and flirt, I swap contact info with them and meet them again.
> I'm not super attractive,
> I often don't bother shaving for days
> Sometimes if I'm outside I sweat and am notably smelly due to the sweat.
> I dress in cloths I like, so don't look wealthy or fashionable.

There really is hope for ANY Anon on here.
> Also not to brag, but have had multiple threesomes with average to attractive people, both the opposite sex.
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>>740668454
>>740668970
Jup, you will grow old, lonely and sad with out the ability to change as your world has become so limited.
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>>740670214

What's worse? The ballcap sports jersey wearing clones are getting waaaaay more pussy than the trenchcoat cloaked fedora wearing faggots. Women go up to the douchebags because theyre easily manipulated and not a threat. They talk a big game but once they see a little cleavage, they're willing to dump their entire welfare checks for them. And we're not talking about quality women, we're talking about the low hanging fruit OP wants that are gonna get dick every week one way or another.
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>>740670913
Not everyone experiences loneliness.
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>>740666616
True.
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>>740665884
So you're a shy loser who wants super hot chicks to approach you so you so not have to make the first move?

I think "loser" may be your problem. Go fucking talk to women.
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Look I know this is hypocritical but. As someone with tits, finding out a dude visits 4chan regularly is a huge turn off so keep that in mind
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That's not how it works. You're the one who's supposed to approach them. Just find someone hot who's sitting alone and sit down next to them and try to talk with them.
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Go do something actually productive for once.
Just having felt you have done something properly gives you a boost of confidence.
Try and overcome your fears. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations enough times until you no longer are uncomfortable any more.
Begin the day with a walk in the woods.
Learn more about psychedelics if you haven't given it a try.
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>>740665884
Aim low and eye contact.

/thread
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>>740669348
>Women make moves too,
When women do its not clear at all, they just talk to you and you are supposed to get that hint.
Did not understand that until i grew lonelier and older.
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>>740665884
>get girls to approach

don't be a β faggot.

>approach them
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>>740665884
>Waiting for girls to approach you.
Fucking KYS, your whole generation is shit, please stay alone and die out.
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>>740665884
Go up to them faggot. Be confident, don't act autistic and above all be charming. Don't fucking over-do it, don't smell, look nice, keep good posture and bingo. You may find some success in talking to girls. Congrats.
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>>740666277

Pass out at three wake up at ten
Go out to eat then do it again
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>>740670265
Do I stop before blood?
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>>740671241
talk shit post tits
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>>740666277
>Can only get sluts.
Enjoy your fail. Better luck in the gay-bar for you.
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Wear a wolf shirt.
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>>740667812
Only the whores, enjoy your fail though.
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>>740669554
>I'll just stop caring.
Wont happen, recognizing the loneliness in the men of the senior home i work at is devastating knowing i most likely end up like them.

on the other side most women their husbands died already most likely nagged to death.

it is sad yet funny to see men come in the senior home and for the first time in their life start to be players.

it is sad because they are getting more action then i do.
For the record yes. i could get as much elderly pussy as the old lonely dudes tasting life for the first time in life, being a player in the senior home.
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>>740670554
Honestly? My game improved 10 fold when I started openly telling people I'm bi. I started getting hit on by guys. It was an awful experience. Guys are definitely creepy af. Invasive and possessive. I found myself saying "Holy fucking shit, THAT'S what we sound like?" They think "confidence" means "act as if you have some claim to their time or body," but actually it means the opposite, in "act like you don't care if you get access to their time or body."

I'm not saying you should tell people you're bi or gay to see what I mean, but definitely find some way to empathize. "Having game" isn't about being smooth or acting like that guy from the Dos Equis commercial. Game is just about being able to treat girls like people and interact with them in a way that there's no pressure, while you hint that you'd like to be more than friends and understand when to take that next step or when to back off. Maybe talk to the few female friends you do have and ask them what kind of stuff creeps them out about guys, and what kind of stuff works for them with guys.

Dudes have to worry about the girl looking fatter than in her picture or the girl not liking him. Chicks have to worry about being raped, murdered, and buried under a back porch. Understanding this will help you eliminate any creep factor pretty quickly. And as long as you're not creepy or unclean, girls will be interested.
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>>740665884
Buy a DS-DollSweet sex doll and call it quits. You won't be lonely or needy then.
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>>740669630
fucking good appliance of that picture / comment combo
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>>740671752
Fuck off faggot. The internet is not for you.
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>>740671588
Depends on if there is still poo. If you bleed, wipe til there's no more blood on the paper too. No girl will want to eat out a bleeding asshole, but scabby is okay.
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>>740666925
By men, please just kill yourself faggot.
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>>740671752

Lurking oldfag here. This is solid gold advice. Take heed.
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>>740670554
You are awkward and boring, deal with it. Accept you lost in life.
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>>740671241
Well I lead off with the fact that I regularly browse /b/ every time I meet a girl and I pull insane amounts of pussy. You're just mentally ill, clearly. Projecting your own issues onto other people and making them suffer for it, smh.
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>>740671063
Yes you fucking do, maybe not all the time when you are busy and distracted but you will have moments of absolute desolation.
Even when busy you feel like you should have shared that moment with some one at times.
Sometimes it is nice to have some one else whom you trust assisting you.
Those moments you want to ask for help support or just some one to give you a hug are absolute killers.
>source: no social contact for the past 16 years spotty the 16 years before that with some activity in the middle
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I got a gf without even trying that hard and I fucked up once while talking to her because she had a picture of her and her mom in the bathroom taking a selfie and I don't know what led to me asking "you have an older sister?" On kikebook and she ended up telling me that's her mom and she still took me kek
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>there are BILLIONS of females on earth
>0 (ZERO) have ever hugged me

i want to stick my head in the microwave
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>>740671752
I was kinda thinking about what confidence is, but you enlightened me. Thanks for sharing
im not op btw
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>>740665884
have a personality. honestly i dont have one, womans belittle me and call me a baby
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Make them laugh. Talk to them as they are normal people. Make the pussy the last thing on your mind. It will flock to your cock. Pretend you dont care.
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>>740672115
TOP KEK, a fucking wrinkly old faggot, why havnt you died of aids yet? Those fucking ARVs.
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>>740671434
Sometimes, sure. Not always, but soberly sometimes. In my experience it's usually a random compliment about my appearance or an invitation to go somewhere/ do something. Those are pretty universal "I'm interested" signs.

You've just gotta be ready to accept invites and make moves from there. But don't take a mile when you're given an inch, and know if/when you've gone too far. After just a little practice it all becomes obvious, and you'll realize how stupid you were before.
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>>740671726
>Only the whores
yeah, turned those down.
i do regret turning some nice faced fatties down tho.
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>>740672309
Yeah idk man. I just don't get any comfort from other people at all. I can't imagine being able to trust another person and I certainly wouldn't expect someone to trust me back. And you keep telling me what I will experience even though I've been experiencing things for 28 years.
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>>740672404
Microwaves don't work like that. Try a gas oven instead.
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>>740667096
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If you cannot get a woman just by being yourself, then consider that yourself is shit and you ought to change. Fake it til you make it.
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>>740665884
Be in the "Top 10 richest men in the WORLD!"
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>>740672115
>Lurking oldfag here. This is solid gold advice. Take heed.
Replies on >>740671752
>Honestly? My game improved 10 fold when I started openly telling people I'm bi.
>openly telling people I'm bi.
>telling people I'm bi.
>I'm bi.
>bi.

You fucking faggot.
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>>740673315
You are an idiot.
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>>740673315
>>740673480
Girls, girls. Remember where you are. We're all idiots and faggots here.
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>>740672309
>implying I have moments to share
I don't think you understand how empty and uneventful life can be.
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>>740672650
>I just don't get any comfort from other people at all.
i loved one on one time with some ppl
> I can't imagine being able to trust another person
Not with the ppl of today
> I certainly wouldn't expect someone to trust me back
Trust yes, them being able to rely on me, fuck no

>And you keep telling me what I will experience even though I've been experiencing things for 28 years.
You haven't been loved anon
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>>740673480
>You are an idiot.
At least i am not the one sucking dick
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>>740673685
>You haven't been loved
So what? I feel like that's something that's been made up to sell shit.
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>>740671885
lol I'm being a faggot on the internet and no one can stop me

boy I sure do love dick

>>740672423
No problem, anon. I'm awkward as fuck but I just play it off with humor, and I can get girls any time I put some effort into it. I think most people are actually flattered if you're flustered/shaking a little bit when you're talking to them and trying to get their number or something. Again, it's not about being smooth. Tho that'll come naturally with more experience dating. But the trick is to make them comfortable around you, without being a total doormat. Don't metaphorically kiss the ground they walk on, but be polite and engaging and fun, and make your interest clear. But if they make their lack of interest clear, shrug and move on. There's another girl you can try it out on in the next room. Even if you never see that first girl again, she'll appreciate that you walked away and weren't one of the obsessive creeps following her around the club. And it saves you so much time, too. Obsessing over rejection takes a ton of time and emotional energy. If you haven't been dating for at least the better part of a year, why stress at all over being rejected or dumped? lol. Just learn from the experience and move on to the next.

That's confidence: the knowledge that you'll be fine without them, and they'll be fine without you.
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>>740673847
>So what? I feel like that's something that's been made up to sell shit.
No that would be the channeling of the inner desire of wanting love in to the purchase of products.
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>>740671508
Yo i get it. I appreciate your referance.
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>>740666904
It means you either look so amazing they have to look twice or so horrible they have to look twice. You'd probably be able to figure it out on your own which one it is.
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>>740673984
I suppose that's true.
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>>740671752
i dont have a back porch
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>>740665884
>how do you get girls to approach you in public?
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>>740673315
>this mad that a faggot pulls more pussy than him
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>>740671612
why would you want to get girls who aren't sluts?
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>>740674093
yeah i watched a documentary on it.
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>>740674106
Oh good, she can worry about being buried somewhere else or being dissolved by acid and poured down the drain, then.
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>>740674311
Century of the Self?
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>>740673819
Neither am I, I am not bi or gay. You missed his point, which was seeing men from a womans pov. You are an idiot.
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>>740674193
ARE YOU STUPID, he is not a faggot.
Well he is, but he just said that he was bi to see how dudes (faggots) would approach him.

fucking newfags
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>>740674369
Nah, he's just baiting, anon. You've gotta either bait back or ignore him.
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>>740665884
You dumb fucker. You approach them. MODS, underage summer anon sighted
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>>740665884

Be handsome, ideally tall and well dressed, carry yourself well.
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>>740665884
Become gay or bisex OP, this will solve your problem faster
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>>740666334
this and shave

Met two grills so far on the train when I was going to school. One tried to rub my dick with her feet, but I got scared and changed the cabin. The other started a random conversation, but by the second sentence she was talking about fucking so I stopped talking and pretended she wasn't there and walked to the other end of the platform.

I pussied out both times. It's just so fucking strange when girls approach you.
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Approaching is for fat chicks and 5 belows
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>>740674454
Actually I am very much bi. I've just never actually been with another guy because I've only had bad experiences with them. Been with many girls, and most of my friends are girls, because I just like them better. But I'd totally suck a dick if I liked the person attached to it, and I fap to gay porn/ traps all the time.

You're right that it's beside the point tho. But I think you just replied to trolls trolling trolls.
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>>740671752
Women are the last ones you should ask. They say they want one thing, but respond to another.
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>>740668125
I have a feeling this is most niggas real problem when they start threads like this. People, in general, are more perceptive than you give them credit for. You look and feel unapproachable, so they don't.
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>>740674366
engineering of consent and the start of propaganda or the now so called "public relations"
pretty interesting to see the progression of the field coinciding with psychology.

Freud and his brother inlaw were at the beginning of the advertisement science in america, he advised his inlaw closely who was part of big industrial corporations creating the first marketing
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>>740675050
Idk if you're talking about Century of the Self but it's a BBC doc about the same thing. Everyone should see it.
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>>740674791
It's not that they don't want the thing they point out, just that they don't always have the words for *everything* they want. Or society has put them in a corner and it's hard for them to openly admit what they want. And some girls are way better at communicating about this stuff than others. It's like we're all human or something.

The point is to not be creepy, and to learn what makes a guy creepy. That alone will help immensely with your game. Other than that, you can really only be varying degrees of yourself, so you need to find someone compatible with your sense of humor, your hobbies, etc. Do that and "be confident" and you shouldn't have many problems.
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>>740675267
>hobbies
Kek
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>>740666904
When women throw a glance my way, it's usually followed by nervousness on their part.
I must admit though, I look like a biker or some type of felon.
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>>740665884
Be attractive smart funny and charming
Don't be desperate sad ugly or mean

It's so easy
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>>740675267
My hobbies involve shooting and killing things according to whatever it is the season for.
Most chicks don't dig my hobbies.
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>>740667728
>i'm not being approached

The only way you'll ever be "approached" by a girl is if you look like kellan lutz or whoever. I've seen girls approach guys and it's always the case that the guys in those cases are 9/10 or 10/10 in the looks department.

I did an experiment once on a dating site where I grabbed a picture of some studly looking guy and wrote the most inane profile I could muster and guess what? I got dozens of girls responding. Chicks are retards but they'll always go for the good looking guys first.
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>>740675771
>shooting and killing things
you have a lot of anger issues
girls don't like guys with anger issues
be less shitty
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>>740675401
>>740675771
"Compatible with" doesn't mean "shares." It just means they need to be okay with/ supportive of what you do.

But never show a girl your porn. It never turns out the way you'd like it to, and she'll never look at you the same. Fucking hell, especially if it's loli/shota.
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>>740675766
>smart funny and charming

I've been all those things on multiple occasions and got nothing in response. But, yeah, being desperate, depressed, or weird will not work.

And being good looking trumps everything else. Even good looking retards get more attention than middle of the road looking cool guys.
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>>740675771
Come to the Northwest, that's all we do out here and women participate in the outdoors too.
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>>740674772
go 2 of my comments back. oldfag calling himself oldfag is a fucking faggot for suggesting to take advice from a faggot.
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>>740675829
>Chicks are retards but they'll always go for the good looking guys first.
so basically i should just kill myself
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>>740676355
No just start with ugly bitches and work your way up.
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>>740665884
save a little bit of money.
spend it on generally better quality hygiene products for yourself.
go to a great barber - get a great haircut.
out here means a pretty close fade on the sides combover and if you have a shit ass beard - have them line it up and trim it down for you.
buy some clothes - they dont have to be super expensive, but nice pair of levis - some jordans - and a nice polo shirt or some shit.
get a decent watch too but dont go too cheap.
lowest probably go is a gshock - dont go lower.
find your target market of pussy aquisition.
typically I go for latina pussy because they are horny ass fuck machines, so I tend to go to bars or clubs in inherently hispanic communities.
youd be surprised at how much brown mexican women you can get with white privilege.
by this time op your 90 fuckin percent there. the other 10 is actually just fuckin chilling and being a good lookin dude. maybe dance with a few or what i do is buy a few of my targets a couple of drinks and when they dont seem interested in giving it up i reacquire other targets in the danger/cum zone.
this technique works for me bout 80% of the time. oh and pro tip: if you have a mexican gf be careful because chances are one of her cousins named fuckin isabel is going to take a picture of you smoking a cigarette with a girl and send the picture to her and your going to get kicked out your own house for a week giving some faggot ass op a lesson on how to get pussy.
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>>740675992
>never show a girl your porn

Never let a girl see you cry.
Never let a girl know you ever paid for sex.
Never discuss other girls you might be interested in.
Never forget that girls become completely irrational when PMSing.
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>>740674772
>But I think you just replied to trolls trolling trolls.
yeah, but im trolling, so i am a troll who trolls, who trolls trolls, trolling.
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>>740665884
You approach them you little bitch
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Be more Mooch
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>>740676355
No, just understand that it's customary in Western culture for men to approach women, not the other way around. I've been around women I KNEW were interested in me but they never approached me, they just wait for me to approach them.

That's just the way it is unless you're a rock star, ridiculously good looking, or obviously affluent.
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>>740675168
>Century of the Self
jup thats it im guessing. its long as fuck but a awakening https://youtu.be/eJ3RzGoQC4s
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