I kinda miss being single. My girlfriend is pretty cool most

Cries for the rest of the day? That's beyond clingy, that's mental illness. Run before she decides to fuck your life up.

>>738688275
Exact same situation here man, I love my gf, been with her nearly 2 years, but she's super clingy. She barely lets me talk to other girls, even in 100% unavoidable situations like university group projects. I very rarely see my friends and she won't let me visit them without making me text her every 2 mins whilst I'm there. I just miss being able to play Vidya with the boys or just going to the pub for a few cold ones.

i feel ya bro, my gf gained 70LB and I'm right close to kickin her out of my apartment

>>738689416
but I guess she's really cool otherwise, man, what a pain

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I wish my gf were clingy. Sometimes she doesn't speak to me in days. She's only sweet when she's on her period.

>>738689365
if you allow this behavior, you are a cuck. get your shit together

>>738688275
you know the rules. post a pic of ur gf

I wish my girlfriend was clingy.

She treats me like a stray dog. There is always this conceited air around her, as if she thinks "you are soooo lucky that I'm your girlfriend"

She's constantly emotionally cold and she disrespects me in front of my friends.

>>738689365
yeah but at least you get your dick wet

>>738689507
make her know that you wont be taken for granted. if she doesnt give you that response, leave her. life is to short to spend on a fruitless relationship

>>738689557
sounds like she needs to be cheated on

NUDES

>>738689557
maybe she is right

in anyway you should leave her and meet somone who loves you

>>738689609
honestly I can feel just as good from jacking off.

>>738689609
Yeah tbf we fuck at least 4 times a week, she loves sucking dick, loves anal, and loves bdsm so it's not all bad

>>738689557
you gotta stand up for yourself brother. show her you have some self respect

>>738689557
dump her in front of your friends.

>>738689557

wtf, dump that bitch, show some character dude

>>738689507
I sometimes think the same way, my gf makes basically no effort to see me, but I suspect anything beyond the minimal level of clingy would be terrible

>>738688275
i forgot this bitches name sauce on name plz

>>738689637
Did that already. She always comes back begging and then goes cold a few days later. Loving her is complicated makes me want to.kill myself

>>738688275
all you do is whine
>be happy faggot

>>738689793
>>738689609
losers

>>738689557
>There is always this conceited air around her, as if she thinks "you are soooo lucky that I'm your girlfriend"

American detected.

>>738689844
She's clingy only on her period and I hug her all night. Wish her period lasted forever...

>>738689885
sounds like she has borderline or something. maybe you should live abit "loose" try flirting with otther girls

I just got out of a 5 year LTR, so I'd rather be in your shoes than be as lonely as I am now..

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>>738689365
>>738688275
>>738689557

You guys have shit gf. 2 of you have got the crazy gf who treat you like crap so you can't have other friends, stopping you from having a separate social life and regular friends, while the other guy has a crazy gf who thinks she's hot shit and needs to be taken down a peg.

I've been single 2.5 years now and it sorta sucks as I don't get much attention either. Had flings time to time for a few weeks. But when I look into all the girls I've had any mild thing with, turns out they all had their issues and glad it didn't work out.

tl;dr - don't be taken if your gf is an asshole, but being single isn't mega great as it takes time to find the right girl

>>738690027
I don't wanna leave her. I would feel really guilty, I wish she would actually be diagnosed by a pro. But then I would feel even more guilty leaving her with her mental illness. But loving someone so cold is hell

>>738690134
Who ended it and why?

>>738690027
I try flirting with other girls but she gets crazy jealous. It's good to see a response but I can't flirt with other girls forever just to get a glimpse of emotion

>>738690281
You can't not break up with some one because you'll feel guilty, there's rarely a 'good breakup', she's gonna be upset anyway and you're just prolonging it and making it worse. As previous poster said, you're wasting your time on a fruitless relationship

Same position here bros. GF has gained alot of weight since we got together years ago, and is super damn clingy. I never get time to just play vidya or just smoke some weed in the rec room, without her having to be around every moment possible.

On the other side of things, I am so used to her kicking half for our rent and other bills that breaking up with her would be financially difficult. She would be so devastated if I ever tried to break up with her, it pains me to even think of the scenario. I really miss the single life, but I do not miss being poor and the house never clean.

>>738690446
Does she ever tried to do crazy things after a "breakup"?

>>738690604
Seems more difficult than the other guys situation, more invested and all that.

Breaking up with my gf of 4 years (2 years casual, 2 legit) was probably the worst and most difficult thing I've ever done, tears and driving her home and just ... fuck man, it sucked so much

>>738688275
fucking same exact situation. we're 3 weeks away from leaving to her home country and an adventure throughout the world, and I'm thinking about dumping her with her family.

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>>738690003
you make me think of this retard

oh man do i miss being single.

remember just being able to go to a bar solo meet up with some people you know and get lost for a weekend? Shit my goody goody wife would be mortified to be in a stranger's car going to someone's house to do coke all night or running into some people and driving across the state to a party and waking up on someone's couch or in a random bed.

I've come close to breaking things off, but shit man I love her and that would kill her. But some days I start up my bike and I think about just hopping on and disappearing.

>>738690658
She would get really pissed. She would get really sensitive and tell me that I don't love her. I give in and I tell her I love her. 3 days later she goes back to her cold self. I thought she would change but she acted like nothing happened. Back to.her cold self. I think I'm losing my sanity

>>738690889
Kek I don't know who that is but the filename is hilarious

>>738690374

She did, and because I made some fucked up decisions over the course of the last year.

But she wasn't exactly an angel either, so meh. It's probably for the better.

>>738691139
It's a Dota 2 Hero called Bloodseeker.

>>738691009
holy shit this is exactly what is happening with me and my gf. i can't help it if she doesn't like to let loose

>>738691044
She's probably crazy, but either way that's emotional abuse, saying stupid shit to control you and she's gonna keep doing it if she knows it works. Either gonna have to call her bluff on it and get her to change or call it off and leave her.

In my exp, they don't change

>>738691044
With "Cold" do you mean behaving like you two are less than friends?

>>738690281
Learn to not give a fuck about others.

>>738691044
Probably she won't change even if you keep repeating this loop of breakups, if she doesn't try to do something reeally crazy like self-harm it's basically a thot

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your girlfriend is your hand

>>738691225
If you really want out don't move in with her, and definitely don't marry her. Remember sex gets boring and she really better be your best friend because you're going to be connected for a long while.

>>738691445
No I mean it's just this dry kind of love. No clingyness, no "I love you babe", its like I have to emotionally abuse her to get some love

>>738691280
Sometimes.I.wonder if its BPD

>>738688275
OP, Humans can never be satisfied by anything they do. They always want everything. They want something better. They have mostly the chance or ability to get something better. But they forget how these little things or details could make us long term happy. With other words what I want to say: I would kill, only to be in your position. COnsider yourself lucky, because that would make u long term happy. If that is not the case, then get single, but dont complain about being single too long and longing again for a relationship. Its always these variety people want, but thats the thing it makes you most depressive. Either be with that woman for the rest of your life together or be single for the most of your time. Just dont be a douche, I wouldnt leave her. She seems kind of nice.

>>738690889
KEK

>>738689365
play with her vidya then. Also, why should you be talking with other girls? You already have a relationship.

all I want is to fuck a lot of nice pussy and not have kids and live alone

:)

:)

also few 100mil$

>>738692252
>why should you be talking with other girls? You already have a relationship.
shit dude maybe he wants friends, don't come to me with any fucking ladder mra shit

>>738689885
>>738689885
Damn, I have the same kind of a girl.

I thought of four possibilities:

-Killing her, because she damaged my whole life too much at this point
-Trying to focus on myself and ignoring her, then breaking up if I feel like it.
-Trying to approach her very positively and show her "unconditional love", so maybe she realizes how much I want her and she does the same.
-Dont leave her, but it stays the same way with ignoring each other most of the time. Thats the bad ending in my eyes and she is respnsible for it. I told her many times how communication is important.

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buy her a strapon

its what you really want!

>>738688275

If that's your GF then i'd have to say that you're nuts... or a fag.

>>738692252
I do play with her but she has a standard mid range laptop, and I have a £1500 gaming rig that I built and paid for with my wages. Obviously her laptop gets hot as fuck and has shit frame rate so it just ends in her whining and guilt tripping me into swapping with her so I end up on the laptop. And I don't have a burning desire to talk to other girls but I want to be able to make small talk or discuss a uni project without being made to feel like a horrible person, also this:
>>738692469

>>738688275
if you are done with her, i'll take her.

>>738689735
record yourself doing everything you want to with her and then break up

>>738689416

That's about 50 pounds too late.

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>>738691177
Femanon here

Girls rarely choose to be single. If we are single, it's usually a result of us getting dumped. If she's already dating someone new, it's very likely she had sex with him several times during the last week of your relationship and he made it clear to her that her boyfriend transition would be seamless.

>>738692792
Nothing is working man... Just kill me already

>>738691139
where did you grow up?
under a fucking rock?
fucking 10year olds in /b/

>>738693124
so its ok for guys to cheat

>>738693124
>it's usually a result of us getting dumped
either you are a trap or some fat sjw in your mothers basement posing as a femanon on the internet because you're a fucking faggot.

>>738691009
do it

>>738693124
Tits or GTFO

>>738693026
This.
Anyone who starts gaining significant weight is worthless.
As soon as you start gaining weight you should be making lifestyle changes to fix the problem before it gets out of hand.

>>738691044
Dude, I commented already on a comment before, but you and your girlfriend are totally me and my GF, damn. I know how you feel. Its such a disgusting feeling you have....it just seems she doesnt really love her, but you love her to the most. You try to breakup with her, but you also realize how much you love her, expecially because of the good past you both shared. Thats the case for me. And I also dont know what to do really. I really want her, but she doesnt change. She doesnt change when I break up. She doesnt change when we have a one month break up. She even cheats on me on that break up. And I feel like a cuck. I really want to kick her ass for that, but you cant because you love her. Damn. Some weeks after these she makes so many presents, handmade mostly. But then she changes again...and again..I feel like you. Being on the verge of becoming insane. But what will I do next when I go insane?

>>738691280
what do you mean with bluff on it?

>>738690604
she'd be over the break up in 1-3 months max and then you'd find out one of your friends has already been fucking her before you broke up

>>738688275
She is hot. Want nudes

>>738692842
>not recognizing her instantly

Welcome to the internet, kid.

>>738688275
I know what you mean sometimes but, after a week or so of my girlfriend visiting family elsewhere I definitely see the short comings of bachelor life

>>738688275
Is this your gf?

>>738693806
Call me autistic but I literally wanna grab her by the neck and scream WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME! And like I said even if I do dump she'll come back crawling again. This shit is gonna destroy my life

>>738693939

I spend 0 time on social media and other bullshit like that.. so no I prob wouldn't.

>>738692469
You have yet to realize that there cant be any friendship between male and female most of the time.

>>738692893
Ok, I understand. Maybe try to gear up both in some near future or play some older games, which dont lag that much. And yes I agree with you on that uni project stuff or casual small talk. Try to make that point clear to her. But you have to unterstand her. She only wants you to stay away from potential danger, aka "cheating by accident with a girl you know well". Try to establish rules with her.

>>738690889
ULU

>>738694412
Bump, hate when girls do that shit but have guy friends like "oh he's been my friend since "insert timeframe of womb till whenever tf u want"

>>738693124
Why do you speak for most woman? Only because you are a woman who didnt even showed her tits? Your argument is invalid from many persepectives. Also, many dumb whores dump their boyfriend or just deserved to be dumped. Dont state it like its "the poor woman" again.

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>>738688275
What do you actually do besides browse 4chan?

I wish I had a clingy girlfriend. It's not like I hang out with people anyway.

>>738693304
I will try my luck with my plan, We just have to cope some day with it and do our best.

>>738688275
stfu you probably never touched a woman before
go to bed, OP

>>738688275
Jasper? lol

>>738688275
>>738689365
Whiny ass bastards, I would gladly take them off your hands. Post pictures so I can choose between the two of them, You Beta Cucks.

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>>738694070
Yeah right.

>>738693124
I'd fuck you. Post contact info. With timestamp.

>>738689416
holy shit the exact same thing, If she had some fucking self control, I looked up what to do a while ago and it said to set an example so ive started working out and eating healthy and have gotten pretty much in shape and she is still a fat piece of shit, I'm about to end it if she gets to 100lb heavier than me

>>738694103
Its really difficult to understand that. But I already thought of the possibility of her being mentally ill.

>>738694860
Yes, thats why that should be on both sides regulated. Especially woman should never have any male friends. They are mostly to dumb to realize how many of them are just their "friend" to fuck her. I told my GF after one month she should abandon all male "friends" and she did. But she did still shit behind my back, so whats the true solution? Kill her.

>>738694412

This. ^

>>738695510

That was an issue with me and my now ex, She had alot of guy friends, I told her I wasn't comfortable with it and she tried pulling the whole "I've known them my whole life, blah blah, best friends, blah blah like a brother" bullshit... and a few of them I met and was fine with, but she still decided to try to make more guy friends who even clearly wanted to be with her, and she still didn't care. Then now after we've broken up, she blames me for "alienating" all her guy friends... when she didn't! We hung out with them a few times, I just told her I wasn't comfortable with these random guys she got messages from who wanted to hook up or wouldn't respect our relationship.

So it's whatever. It's a double-edge sword, Guys have female friends pisses off their gf / wife, and women with guy friends bothers the guy.... it's never really any solution the issue.

It's all about trust, I guess. Once I met the "like a brother" friends I was less worried, and most of them were in relationships already anyways (Not saying that'd stop them) but I was still uncomfortable with it.

>>738695297
BPD?

>>738693500
lol, you sound like a horrible person to be around. skinny =/= healthy. Which is not to say i think obesity is healthy, but skinny people aren't healthy either. the key is moderation, as with all things. Having some bodyfat is a good thing. Just because society tells you that being skinny is the best thing ever, doesn't make it true. Just look at strongman competitions.

>>738695510
I respect that theory and from one cuck to another.. SAME.. AS . FUCK. Bitch gets mad at me for laughing with one of my female friends about a joke but she thinks it's fine to go smoke or drink with a guy or guys. She's about to have a family reunion with my forehand and backhand

>>738696211

>>738696211

Borderline Personality Disorde

>>738696490

Disorder.

>>738688275
I don't want to be single anymore.

I'm watching myself waste away. Gaining weight, doing nothing on the weekends anymore, etc.

>>738696794
Sounds like a problem fags normally deal with. Gl carli

>>738696794

Only you can change that, No one else.

>>738696490
You sure about that?

>>738697157
carli?

>>738697221
yeah good for me

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>>738692842
>>738693938
>>738694070

How do you people not know who she is?

>>738698051
>implying people jerk off as much as you lonely faggot

>>738698266
Kek

>>738698266
>>738698338

I would never jerk off to her. I love her too much.

>>738697820
Instead of charley, cuz anon is fag

Any of you /b/ros in a happy, loving relationship, but still can't help but fantasizing about cheating on your lover? Honestly, I've been trying not to think much of it, but sometimes, i just can't stop imagining myself fucking other girls instead

>>738699182
Tfw I'm crying because i feel the same

>>738699182
>>738699480

samefag

>>738698266
you do not belong on this board fucking normie REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>738699480
>>738699591
Tfw she makes you happy and you make her happy so much, and she's loyal, with an acceptably degree of clingyness. And you just know that she's the 'one' even if the notion of the 'one' was formerly a foreign concept to me

I should be satisfied, but I don't know what else is there I need to be satisfied

I know it may have a hand that gf and I haven't had sex at all since we met, but I'm fine waiting a couple of years first

>>738699182
Thats me but it always happens when i have a long time gf... with mine 3.5 years. She wants to get married. I wanna fuck young chicks although i know she is a great catch.

>>738693938
Summer

>>738699770
i wish i was a normie shit man

>>738688275
I've been dating for like 3 years now and I'm getting bored, can't even try seduce her anymore because I stopped caring and she has like no sex drive. Idk, I look at girls on my way to work and just wanna fuck all of them. But she's faithful and loyal. Idk what to do. Cheat?