Need advice /b/ >Be me 33yo, 6 years together with my girlfriend

Don't fucking talk to her. She's toxic, got bored, and thought she could do better. Deserves whatever new dicks put her through

I'm an 18 year old kissless virgin and even I know what to do in this situation, cmon OP!

>>738046310
be nice and don't do anything you will regret, but throw your gf in that salty bitch's face

>>738046431
This

>>738046310
Don't talk to her. She left you to go ride some others guy's cock and then came crawling back when it didn't work out. She's toxic and she'll take what you have now and leave you with nothing. I know it hurts, but you can't change your current life for an ex who clearly doesn't want to be with you that badly.

>>738046310

Say nothing. If she wants any of your attention, make her come crawling back to get it. And then tell her you want nothing to do with her.

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Depends how happy you are not with your new girlfriend if you think hooking up with her again is better than your current relationship try it, she's probably just had an argument with her boyfriend or some shit and feels like she's not getting enough attention. If you're happy, block her. Do what you want, all girls are crazy. Except for you Megan, I'm sorry for everything.

You're a stupid ass if you text back.

I mean, see what she wants?
be civil
make it seem like you're an open person
subtly keep her at arm's length
always say you're busy, never meet her in person again

>>738046431
>>738046621
I agree with these anons. OP she ain't worth it. If you're happy now, leave her on read and delete the messages. Don't even acknowledge it. It isn't worth the broken heart.

>>738046431
fpbp

>>738046310
Post her nudes OP

ignore her, shes jelly you have a new gf

>>738046310
Just ignore her. If you ask why she left, she'll just give some bullshit excuse. She's no longer a part of your life and she needs to know it.

ex was clearly cheating on you and had cold feet about marriage to begin with. Dont go back to her

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>>738046310
Do not talk to her. Block her on all communication lines and erase her from your life forever.

There is no reason to talk to her. Move on or you will get screwed again.

>>738046310
Dont leave corrent gf, for that toxic bitch. If you won't hurt your gf, you can try to have revange, but that's your call. Dont invest any emotions in her.

Ignore her. Whatever guy she left you for didn't work out. Now you're plan b. You have a gf now. You've moved forward. No going backward now.

>>738046310
the new guy has a cock bigger than you...kill him

Don't reply.
CuntAnon here, I don't usually post replies or when I do I don't reveal being a chick but I gotta tell you, I can assure you that she's only messaging because things either didn't work out with her new guy or she's bored with him and she's counting on you being a sucker and taking her back.
Either way, DON'T REPLY.
Block her so she gets the message clearly.
This is toxic and it'd also hurt your new gf if she found out, and we always find out.

Dont answer anon. Fuck that ghosting cunt. You will never have closure, but you will have your self respect as a man. Don't be a beta. I know you probs still care, but just remember that she ghosted you. That shows a level of cunt hag at max. There is no win position, instead just grab your 20year old and spend the next few hours slammin that pussy. Embrace your new life.

>>738046745
Literally retarded cuck.

OP here
honestly I dont think Im answering her.
even replying with another Hello could mean a lot, its better to avoid contact. If she is still with her current bf I know she is hiding him she is texting me, so she keeps cheating in some way.

Im currently happy with this new girlfriend, maybe she isnt the final one, but theres no need in going back again.

Can almost guarantee you once the 20yr old either turns 21 or finishes schhool u can kiss her ass good bye...

Ignore ex. Post both of their pussies and let /b/ guess which is which

>>738047005
That's best OP. Even just a hello would definitely give her the wrong idea.

>>738047005
I think that's a smart move OP

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>>738047005
smart

>>738046310
this is exactly what happened to me, months later when i had gone trough all that pain i had my life set with some one new, x tried to come back and open that door i noped my way out blocked her and just moved on f that self respect bro you already have a new gf be happy

>>738046310
Op, be civil, but at a distance. I would not meet her, period.

>>738046956

Also, for a woman over 30 to ghost on a good guy is INSANE. Like really, completely crazy.

If she was hot and in her early 20s, she has plenty of time to find another dude even if she fucked around like this. Early 30s though? Very different story. No man old enough to date her is going to want to deal with her shit.

OP, stay with your new girl.

>>738047005
Proud of ya, OP. Keep your head up.

>>738047005
If she didn't say who it was in the message and there was nothing identifying about it(not a facebook message or some shit, but a text,) just say "Who is this?"

When she responds, hit her back up with "lol, no. bye." or don't even respond after that.

Believe me, this will make her salty as fuck.

>>738046310
Say nothing. She decided to kill all communication, so all communication is dead. She doesn't get to sit you down and pick you back up whenever it's convenient for her.

Don't answer op, post nudes tho

If you are exclusive with the new chick- ghost the ex.
If not keep her around as a slam pig- do all the vile things to her she wouldn't let you do when you were dating. If she gives you any grief, or shows any resistance, put her on the shelf for a week.

>>738047317
Fucking this, be an alpha OP

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>>738046951
being a chick is irrelevant you attention slut. all humans act like this.

Yes, she got cold feet.
Yes, she left to see if she can do better.

Put her on your phones / messaging "Block" list.

But you may run into her in person, be civil, offer WARM HANDSHAKE ONLY, not even hug, nor cheek air kiss...

IT WILL TEAR HER UP INSIDE, YOUR REVENGE.

If she asks why you dont text nor call, just tell her truth:
"I am involved with a lovely woman, I.m not the kind to cheat on her nor talk secretly behind her back"

women are such fragile creatures when it comes to verbal communications.

playing it cool, aloof, unreachable and non-chalant, will tear her up inside.

YEARS later, if you want to talk to her, act like it was no big deal, keep up with the "only 1 woman at a time" story, and that you dont call nor text ex's when in a relationship.

>>738047180
yea im dating a 28-29 year old she puts up with alot of my bs lol because she knows its the end of the road

>>738047005
send her meme
or link to this

no, dont send her link nor meme.

women are fragile, the cool aloof unreachable not a care in the world response will kill her inside

>>738047169
but bro it depends how much self control OP has because i know for a fact I have to cut off the head so the body dies, i love pussy that's why i blocked my last x too many feelings there

>>738046310
>Hey long time no see! I'm doing good, other than missing you so much *^__^
>plz come back

this is the only true alpha response

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block her
/thread

>>738046431
THIS RIGHT NOW
I'd do it out of pure spite

>>738046431
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>>738047005

FUCK YES. doing the right thing OP.

>>738046310
She doesn't like that you've found someone else. Women are selfish whores, and would rather you be sad over them than find and be happy with another woman. Don't let her get in the way of what you've got now, just ignore her

>>738046310
Dont fuck with the old bitch. New girl doesnt deserve the same pain you felt, and old girl sounds like a hoe who left you for someone else only to realize she fucked up. Let her live and regret that fuck up her whole life. Put salt in her wounds by doing better and being happier than you ever were with her. Fuck the hoe.

reply with "never reply to me again"

>>738046431
this

>>738048090
Never try to contact me or my childrens again

>>738048090
Don't give her the time of day

DO. NOT. REPLY.

Ignore, post tits if you got em though.

>>738046310
Your ex is a fucking coward and you should tell her

OP, not replying actually shows her that she still matters. Be civil but aloof. Don't ve an asshole, that's what she wants. Reply with delays to show you're busy and uninterested. Once you inevitably get her back in bed take photos when she least expects it, say it's a little souvenir, then leave.

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OP once again

Im surprised everyone else thinks like this, I was expecting the "cuck meme" or other kind of replies, but honestly, I like no matter which part of the globe are you from, cheating and women are the same.

I deleted the message. As you said, new gf doesnt deserve this. Exgf had its time, she fucked it up, I cant go back and keep doubting about her all the time.

At first I thought about giving her a single Hello, but as I said before, that wouldnt help. Its better to leave things as they are

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>>738046310
Isn't it obvious? You let us roll dubbs.

>>738046310
She was obviously cheating on you for months with a fuck boi he left her ass & now she might be trying to get you off the rebound
I'd say just question what she wants and ask her what happened to her fuck boi

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>>738046431
only right thing to do
also bann her nummber

>>738048558
you sir, are a hero

>>738046431
this.

>>738046777
Trips of truth

>>738048592
Sauce, I feel like I recognise those tits.

>>738046310
Tell her to fuck off

"Who is this?"

>>738049031
mom?

>>738049031
The sause is 4chan.org/random/

some anon posted his gf, there's not any more, sorry bud

>>738049145
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph56f994d509b94

I thought for a min it was more of her but ye

>>738046310
Like other anons have said, block and ignore the whore. She made her decision, now enjoy watching her trying to live with it from afar.

>>738047438

be less like the way you are. thanks.

>>738046310
tell her to fuck off and kill herself. I recently did the same thing, after agonizing about my ex for a year. She's toxic OP, tell her how much you hate her and move on with your life.

>>738048558
OP. You did the right thing. But be honest with your current gf. Tell her you heard from the ex and deleted the message so she knows you have no intention of talking to her.

You don't want the ex calling your current gf and blindsiding her. Be open and honest with your current gf, just as you expect her to be that way with you.

>>738046431
This, just ignore that bitch, unsless it's your fault and you're not telling us something, but if it was for no reason. dump that bitch like a turd

>>738046951
>we always find out
I thought South Park was joking about how funny women could be. I've been proven wrong.

>>738050175
This