cant get hard for gf, no problem getting hard because im calm

You gotta train yourself out of getting stimulated by the ritual of porn only. Try to watch porn but don't fap and see if you can get hard. Then imagine plowing your girlfriend as a form of release. Repeat until you have retrained your dick

>>737303900
checked...

tho the dick in the pic looks pretty hard to me....i dunno go see a doc i guess? you tried those smol blue pills?

>>737303900
does she smell good to you? maybe if she whispers some dirty talk into your ear it might help, ex got me diamonds begging for it in a playful way.

>>737303900
liar liar

>>737303900
Stop viewing porn and jacking off every day. It's not good for you physically or psychologically.

>>737303900

anxiety buddy, try not to think about it, relax.

>>737304018
a successful rewiring and im good, how about it fails?

>>737304021
not a hard dick at all since the condom is winning over my boners density. i was thinking about either some benzo for the long run, or just use viagra once here and get it over with

>>737303900
>getting hard in a condom

You are getting hard BEFORE you roll a condom on right?

>>737303900
im gettin diamonds on any occasion.
try viagra, limp dick.

>>737303900
Get cheaper viagra generic. Take it to get used to normal not porn stimulation..go down in doses from 100mg to 25 mg or less. Then stop taking it completely. Worked for me. You are welcome

>>737304074
haven't even noticed her smell, so no. and she is a horrible dirty talker, gonna experiment a bit here

>>737304158
got it, what do you think about >>737304018

>>737304220
hard to relax when your whole life has been a fucking fight, she told me to stop thinking so much it gets you worked up, i guess my mind wont take a break

>>737304158
as much as I dislike this comment, it's actually fairly close to true.

Masturbating alone to porn all the time is very different than having sex, and by doing it you're training your mind to react to certain stimuli.

Go a few days without any pornography or masturbation before having sex with her. You'll probably blow your load very quickly the first time, but you should have no issues getting hard.

Do that regularly until you get equal or better reaction from her than from porn.

>>737303900
Stop porn. It works. Tested.

>>737304252
>feel horny
>watch porn
>get hard
>struggle to put on condom (it digs into the shaft)
>boner instantly dies

>>737304346
will look into a dosage rutine

>>737304354
you might also see if she'd be willing to do some of the things you like in porn, to get you there.

if all that fails, definitely see a doctor - it's not a shameful thing at all, and it happens to more men than you'd think.

I have a similar issue. I haven't whacked off or watched porn in 2 months, and my wife is a fucking whale. I have a bit more feeling in my dick but it doesn't do much good when you're not looking at a pleasant sight. My doctor gave me Xanax and now I can get it up without too much of an issue. It's just hard to cum now. I spent 4 hours having sex one day, non continuously. My dick was raw for days after that. Wife hates me now. I think we're getting divorced at the end of the year.

>>737303900
Can you get hard without a condom on and fuck her? or its for both ways, if its only condom fuck it just go in raw yolo

>>737304482
>>737304482
Suggesting 100mg first because when it works it will boost your confidence and after few failures u need that. Still u need to do something with porn, hard porn - > soft porn -> then no porn or ocassionaly like with your gf

>>737304554
fucking whales

>>737304682
she doesnt want to do it raw
>pills?
doesnt want to do that either
cant even get hard from her hands

>>737303900
Damn OP, I have the same exact problem. I can fap 2 or 3 times a day, no prob. I've been single for a while so hasn't been an issue. However, I just met a girl last week that's coming over on Saturday to hang out and stay the night. I really like her and am *very* concerned I'm going to bork it up. I've tried viagra in the past with other gfs but doesn't do anything.

QUIT PORN
>QUIT PORN
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QUIT PORN
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>>737304482
If the condom digs into your shaft then you need bigger condoms

>>737303900
have had same problem before during foreplay
>going down on a girl.
>Fucksake, realise nothing stirring my end.
>embarrassment/frustration then kills everything

For me a mixture of over-stimulation from porn and history of anxiety problems, not being in the moment, jst gotta find a way to stay relaxed and maintain a relaxing environment/atmosphere

>>737303900
Don't use condom? Like for real.

Drink lots of water through out the day.

>>737305539
people said that was bullshit and i was stroking my ego

>>737305545
exactly what went down the last time i was with her.
>eating her right
>she wants to return the favor
>not stiff at all
>we fight because she thinks that i dont find her attractive

>>737306201
how much water is avarage?

>>737306259
Half a gallon through out the day at least. Staying properly hydrated will help if you aren't doing that already

>>737304482
You need a bigger condom, friend.

>>737303900
That's your arm

>>737305545
Yep. Always happens. I lose focus and then it's worse when she thinks it's her.

>>737303900
Maybe it's time to be honest and try men anon...

>>737304482
Get a bigger condom, fucknut. Jesus.

>>737303900
I used to have the problem with condoms, was diamond otherwise. In the end simply getting bigger ones solved the issue for me. They were too small. And the whole "hurr durr derp, they fit over my foot" thing is retarded because it ignores that your penis does not have an actual bone in it and reacts differently.

i sometimes experience the same thing. as a male you have to learn to be passive. we are so used to be the active role in sex that sometimes we get to stiffy and can't boner anymore.
it's harder than ever to learn being passive, because you will be scared that you will never ever have contact with girls anymore if you don't deliver them action and offensive behaviour.
but that's my cure. funny thing is, that i now have sex again, since i've learned to be more passive and having more of a "take from women"-mindset, rather than "how can i impress her"-mindset.

>>737306576
listen brother i wasnt taught that. i was told to stop being so fucking needy and get a normal one like the rest

>>737306360
>>737305539
>>737306667
thanks for the advice and the nice words

>>737306215
Maybe you don't?
I'm fucking diamonds around attractive girls when we escalte to sexual topics of conversations. If she were to put her hand in my pants there is no way I'd get soft... have yoy checked your testosterone levels??

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>>737303900
shit, you describe just me, 10 years ago

The answer to all your troubles is: find true love. If you have to fear about not getting hart, she is not the right one for you.

can even be a 5/10 to get started.
> pic related

>>737306672
also:
in porn you get exactly what you want. in reality most girls are so passive, that you don't get what you want, which makes it hard to boner sometimes.
but the current woman i have sex with also enjoys if i don't have a boner. she says that the penis also feels good if it's not stiff. she likes to play with it. she is the type of woman who likes hours and hours of foreplay, so sometimes we just wait until i get hard without forcing it.

>>737306215
yeh had similar situation a few months back, ended v awkwardly.

Hadn't had that before, but in hindsight wud say give it a minute, go back to making out with a lot of bodily contact and something might happen, instead of getting pissed off and deading it

>>737303900

From the looks of it start with buying bigger condoms. Narrow condoms will get you limp whatever you do.

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>>737306934
and one get's trained to that.
today, fapping, I usually have a really hard boner for 2-3 min only, just before I cum.

your body learns and is responisve to situations.
Being (without condom though) inside a vago, I keep rock hard through 2 h easily

>>737303900
Maybe if your fat ass GF took a shower more than once a month you would find her attractive enough to boner.

>>737307189
Opposite problem for me, stimulation is to low to cum and no it's not because she's an used up roastie. She was a virgin before we got together. So I usually start thinking about various stuff, from fucking other girls, to knocking her up and worse.

>>737306714
Would you buy a car without test driving it first? No, you gotta see if it runs right, and is what you want, so you can get from A to B.

Same with condoms, bro, you gotta test 'em first. Gotta be comfortable getting from A to V.

>>737307364
It's called abs, if she doesn't have any no matter how virgin she may be she'll still feel like a loose sock inside.

>>737303900
nofap for 2 or 3 das and try to use lager condoms for a better bloodflow. Greetz from DEUTSCHLAND.

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>>737303900
It's not too much masturbation. It's not too much porn. And by the way, that's shit that only a virgin would say. I beat my meat everyday and can still nut in my gf nightly. Your problem is you're just not into your gf. I dated a chick once who was in love with me. Well not really...she was in love with the idea of being in love because for the 9 months that we dated, if she couldn't tell I quit being sexually attracted to her after like the first month, she was an idiot. I liked hanging out with her. She shared a lot of my passions for gaming, the nerd life, etc. But when it came to sex, she sucked at it but was too proud to let me teach her how I like it. She was on the hairy edge of what I'm attracted to in a chick physically. The kind of edge where other aspects could possibly make up for it, which I was initially willing to explore. But that really wasn't working because I just couldn't get hard when she would literally beg me for sex. We ended up going out separate ways still remaining sort of friends. We have common friendships, anyway.

But I don't have that problem with my current gf. Because I'm into her. She meets all of my needs physically and emotionally, and we're more compatible sexually. I've never had a problem getting rock hard for her. And I watch porn and beat my meat everyday during the 3 hour window between when I get off work and when she gets off. Then at bedtime when she reaches for my cock, it's gets diamonds in seconds.

Dump that girl and find one you're into. Don't settle. That's why your cock won't get hard.

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>>737307364
she is your ally
talk with her
Then do this

* you don't fap for a month
* daily cuddling, naked, no sex allowed
* just fingering. she shall stroke your dick.
* you don't fap
* try thinner condoms
* let her rub your dick between her butt cheeks
* do nice and private stuff, massage, kissing
* no sex!
* you don't fap, never!
* she must start taking the pill
* you two will have to wait an other month
* not a fucking single thought about sex
* don't touch your weiner
* last step, after two month. pet her clit with the tip of your penis

remedy given
thank me later

>>737306828
nope havent done that

I got the opposite problem I nut way too easy. What the fuck do I do about that?

>>737307625
I guess. Thing is she is actually thin, almost too thin. So she doesn't consider herself out of form/unfit. And apparently she does enjoy herself. So head cinema it is for me.
>>737307862
Fucken hell, I get sex every two days and it's torture already when I'm with her. I wouldn't be able to survive two months while having a girlfriend without sex.

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>>737308672
the #1 reason for uncontrolled speed nutting is a hidden fear of women
can be cured by finding the right one.

>>737308864
>Fucken hell, I get sex every two days and it's torture already when I'm with her. I wouldn't be able to survive two months while having a girlfriend without sex.

than you are still not desperate enough to get things fixed

>>737307364
Stimulation is too low probably because of the grip you when you fap. A womans pussy, no matter how tight, cannot match that grip.

Dont fap. By all means have sex but dont expect to cum from it for at least a month or month and a half

>>737308672
>I got the opposite problem I nut way too easy. What the fuck do I do about that?
How about start your own fucking thread?

>>737307723
wow i am not into my gf huh.

>>737307723
i thought maybe the sexual portion of the relationship is compensated with an emotionalbond between us, when reading this i feel like im checking in boxes in my relationship

>>737303900
Go vegan. It'll clear our the fat and cholesterol from your veins. And your dick especially needs blood circulating. Every study there is shows that vegans have better sex, and perform better. Men and women alike.
Lasting longer, more intense orgasms.
Besides you'll get rid of the excess ultra-hormones from milk and meat!
Gogo !!

>>737310349
Rock solid dicks!

>>737310392
You are what you eat!

>>737303900

theyfit.co.uk

custom fit condoms

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>>737310453

proof i believe in my suggestion

>>737310349
>Every study there
What a fucking tool. Wanna cough up some of those studies?

>>737310453
>theyfit.co.uk
thanks g

>>737306871
Comment just to insult masie

>>737303900
What about if she gives you head? U also have this problem sometimes but that works for me bro

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>>737310974
I kinda wanted to help and to insult Maisie at once for efficiency

>>737311269
i think i mentioned that she wont give head if im not hard

>>737311522
Sounds like you need a new bitch. I use my girl's mouth and I'm hard as diamonds immediately.

>>737311597
i might

>>737303900
You're gay

>>737311597
/thread anon, sorry I didn't read. Your girl must not want you to fuck her that much, because mine is way down for whatever

>>737303900
Couple of things you need to look at

Your anxiety/anger/paranoia

Your relationship

Make an environment where its OK no matter whether you hump or not. You can do that by talking (just tell her, 'look I'm a bundle of nerves, wound up and shit, can't help it). Get her off with your hand or mouth every day. Ask her to whack you off, but don't put any pressure on her. Keep it chilled, make it relaxed and fun.

The anxiety is self feeding so you need to break it. Don't fap for a while, ask her to do it. Dont have a set time, change it up so theres no build up to get wound up about.

Once you are both in tune and relaxed you will be fine.

>>737313548
she just dont want to suck a loose cock

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>>737303900

Drink one glass of beer. It might relax you enough to overcome your anxiety. If it goes south and she keeps bringing it up at like parties, blame it on the beer. Picture related.