My wife cheated on me, feel pretty fucked up about it... what to do?

>>737123457
the most civilized thing you can do is divorce her, maybe destroy her makeup set / clothes when she isnt around

>>737123457
>>737123545
or cheat on her, try and film it and show it to her

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>>737123457
>what to do?
You're not going to do a damn thing about it you beta, cuck faggot.

>>737123708
OP; prob not, any suggestions though?

>>737123457
Ask if you can watch next time

Just start being emotionally abusive.

>>737123903
OP; makes no sense, gimme somethin good you ignorant fuck

>>737123457

Marriage is over. Throw her out, change the locks.

Keep in mind that a .45 and a wood chipper are both less expensive and more satisfying than a divorce attorney.

>>737123998
OP; you sure, there's no happoy ending for this one?

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>>737123792
leave if you have some dignity

oh, you're posting on /b/ about your cheating wife

>>737123457
pack your bags and leave, simple. No turning back. Send the divorce papers and get it over with. Cry and hurt for a few months but eventually get the fuck over it and start the next chapter in your life.

>>737123457
Become swingers, at least your beta ass might get pussy that way.

>>737123457
Cheat on her and make it good

>>737123457
Leave and delete everything that reminds you of her.

My date who lived with a 'friend' of hers sent me pictures of both of them kissing.
Blocked the cunt instantly, I ain't no cuck. I'll never trust girls who live with their male straight friend.

Gather evidence. Do you have children? Gather evidence of her failing as a mother so that you win custody of them. You can't hurt women using physcial pain or violence. You have to hurt them emotionally.

>>737124222
OP; helpfull shit I'm getting. Getitng pussy ain't the problem.

>>737123457
Take the high road and post nudes of her on /b/

>>737123792
You divorce, you fucking retard, and you try to consume as much less legal and illegal substances until you feel better about dodging a bullet, get going pal.

>>737123457

Since you're now a massive cuck, heading over to /pol/ is usually the next step.

Ask her to tell you about it during sex

>>737124519
kek

>>737124565
OP; intruiging. No one had a similair experience?

Seems like OP is a massive chuck. What are so afraid of? Why are you scared to take action?

>>737124639
OP; just turn around and never look back. Abandon my children?
Like that?

actually be glad you did nothing wrong so you can be in peace with yourself over this.
then be glad she took the decision for you to leave her and showing that she isnt the right one.
what else is there to do?

>>737124419
2nd this
>>737124770
no, dont be a retard. take everything thats yours. clearly, she isnt yours. everything else now is though.

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>>737124770
I'm interested in what /b/ comes up with since my GF is married... with children.

fuck her in the ass real hard, make it painful, then divorce her.

Kill yourself for letting it get to this

>>737124770
No! What sort of role model do you want to be. Do you want to be a doormat dad or someone who took a stand? You don't have to leave but you do have to stand up for yourself

>>737123457

See:
>>737124392

Also, transfer any real state you have to third parties.

And then, you divorce.

>>737124877
OP; who's to say I did nothing wrong?

>>737124948
How would you react if you were the husband?

>>737125014
OP; touche. How does this standing up for yourself look like?

>>737125051
Did you? Do you deserve to have your marital vows broken?

>>737123457

is this a troll thread?
you post teh noods fool

>>737125139
OP; not for me to judge. Didn';t cheat on her though

>>737125131
Depends on what you want. What do you want from your relationship?

>>737124636

I'd stay. Try to turn it into some fetish, to enable yourself to deal with it. Then you get to be around your kids. Wait until they are adults, then leave her.

>>737125237
OP; trust

>>737125155
This is /b/
All threads are troll threads.

>>737123457
publically shame her on facebook

>>737125331
OP; anything useful that doesnt involve revenge?

>>737124222
This. If you were a good husband, treat her right and she cheated on you, simply leave her. Dont even talk to her. You shouldnt lose your shit, since she cheated on you.

>>737124636

nope, but i had women tell me about their previous bfs while i was fucking them

>>737125393
>>737124313

Do you have kids? If so then enter an open relationship until the kids are old enough to understand issues.

Probably the best option for the children. When they are grown you can be a real man and get your cheating slut of a wife divorced.

>>737125409
OP; define good husband then...

>>737125194
You disgust me faggot

Even if you beat the shit out of her and banged a pair of whores on her birthday, that would not justify you sticking around and moping about how maybe you deserved it. Have some self regard.

Women are loyal to evil, rotten men all the time. What disgusts them and makes them look for other dick is weakness.

>>737125479
OP; 2 kids, love them to death. can never leave them...

>>737125479
horrible advice

>>737125131

tell her you're fed up with her bullshit and she needs to move. you're staying put, you've done nothing wrong.
are there children involved?

Let's have the story. How did you find out she was cheating, who with and how long? Green text it so I can fap

>>737123582
and lose everything in divorce, you are fuckign stupid anon.

>>737123457
As hard as it may be, get a divorce. You seek therapy and learn coping techniques. Surround yourself with friends and keep yourself busy. Don't sit around the house getting drunk by yourself. I feel for you OP.. my ex wife did that to me 17 years ago.

>>737125613
OP; details are irelevant. She cheated, I found out. has been 5 monts now, still feel like shit.

>>737125535
Some truth in this. Women generally want the seed of a strong alpha who can provide for them while they raise their kids. Sounds like OP Woman settled below her league, which is why she is fucking around now. She probably wishes that the father was someone with a bit more grit, not weakling we are being exposed to here.

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>>737125613
>Green text it so I can fap

>>737125751
Does she know you know?

>>737125674
lol you're a real lawyer huh?

>>737125909
OP; yeah, she kown I know. Terrible mistake this and that, drunk...

>>737123457
buy a chair and think why you bought the chair in the first place

>>737125843
OP; glad to see you know me so well

>>737125289
Well.. that shit is gone. So get proof, get rid of her, and get on with your life. You should be able to get custody of the kids since she cheated. Unless you're an asshole in ways you haven't told us about.

>look her deeply in the eyes until she feels uncomfortable
>if she tries to look away, smack her and make her look at you again
>if she speaks, start yelling over her until she stops
>if she tries to run, shoot her
>repeat until the end of time

>>737123457
hey OP i feel ya man sorry that happened, do you have any money or future at all? if not try to focus on that instead

also its not that hard to get away with murder if ur not a complete retard just plan carefully

>>737123457
Pics of wife?

>>737123457
You want an advice I applied on my divorce after she cheated on me?
Focus on yourself. This is an opportunity for you to see that you dont have to depend on anyone and no one can make you happy but you.
In the end I understood that it subconciously I gave the consent of this happening and not only this. Control your thoughts. You are what you think, thought creates. Your world is like a chewing gum, itll take the form of your chewing.

Also post few nudes. wanna see if shes even worht it.

>>737125979
So it happened only once? Fucking let her off then. If she done it twice then you'll need to put your big boy pants on. Suppress that pain into a tiny little brain tumour and get on with your life.

I'm kidding. Have you tried to address the issues which led to the fuck party?

>>737126216
OP; she ended up meeting withn him one more time.

>>737126216
OP; issues are being adressed

>>737126469
>issues are being adressed
What about the issue of you being her bitch?

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>>737126158
>she came home drunk one night and brought this bull from work with her. He was much bigger than me. He charged through the door, my wife over his shoulder and threw her onto the sofa.

>"get me a beer faggot!" He shouted at me. The command in his voice made me obey. I literally ran to the fridge o my to get back to see my wife on her back, head over the arm of the sofa and this guy fucking her face. I'd didn't know she could deepthroat such a massive cock....

>>737126469
>wife cheats
>gets the reward of dictating her husbands behavior

How long after you found out did she start trying to make it all your fault?

When you find yourself at the bottom of a hole, the least you can do is stop digging.

>>737126700
OP; yeah, I know

>>737123582
she already established that she doesn't love him. How would that hurt her at all?

>>737123457
Kill yourself. You're obviously a beta and your wife wanted a real man.

>>737126800
OP I hate you. You deserve this pain for being such a beta faggot.

Now grow a backbone and post some fucking nudes!

>>737125570

this

>>737126916
women can still love someone and cheat on them

they're mass thots

>>737127010
OP; hate me? for showing my hurt?

>>737126916
He gets to keep his shit!! Dumbass

>what do
Fuck whoever she fucked.

>but it's a guy
Did I fucking stutter?

Imagine the reaction if you tell her you fucked that guy in the ass.

Okay buddy, seasoned faggot here with some advice:

Don't just take it, and don't ruin your life.

>Don't take it
If you turn the other cheek and just nicely leave and divorce her, you'll get lots of props from friends and family. You'll also hate yourself forever.

>Don't ruin your life
If you kill her, kill the guy, assault either of them, destroy her property in a documented way, or defame her, you risk ruining your life.


You're at a crossroad, and you need to decide RIGHT FUCKING NOW what kind of man you are, and what kind of life you're going to lead.

I recommend swift divorce and getting revenge in a way that won't fuck you long-term, and then AGGRESSIVELY rebuilding your life. Work out, find a better girl, save money, and be better. Is there something you don't like about yourself? Now is the time to change it.

I took the above advice many years ago when I was in a similar situation, and I'm worlds beyond the weak man I was before.

>>737127145
OP; now thats fucking hilarious

>>737126443
>she ended up meeting withn him one more time.
>>737126469
>issues are being adressed

tell her to get the fuck out of your house.
make her know you're not going to put up with it
or you will be her cum covered door mat the rest of your sad sad life

>>737127171
OP; appreciated

>>737127135
You deserve it, to be fair.

>>737127171

this is good advice

>>737124237
I second this. Me and mine have sex with people outside of marriage from time to time. Plus it keeps it interesting

>>737127288
OP; based upon?

>>737123457
Kill yourself

>>737127196
Anon. There's no going back.

She didn't do it once, she did it multiple times.
She's made her choice.

It's going to keep happening, no matter what, because this is what she wants.
That's not to say she doesn't want you but she doesn't value you more than she values sex.

That's it. She values sex more than she values you. If that weren't the case, she never would've cheated.

Also, you shouldn't have gotten married in your 20s for fucks sake. She can't be trusted because this is now the way she lives.
Even if it wasn't that guy- it would've been someone else.

Because it's not the guy- it's her.
It's absolutely her choice and she choose all the consequences that went with it.

She knew she was doing something wrong and did it anyway. So. With that in mind, just divorce and move on.

Ask her if it was because she loves him or just for sex, is its just for sex, then meh (it means you have a small dick) but if its for love then just divorce her and get everything she has :) (Or u can kill her and then kill yourself)

>>737123457
Realize that you're free to do whatever the hell you want as marriage is only a connection through pen and paper. And she is acting on human nature, so should you. Go out there and fuck!

>>737127135
No not for your hurt, for your inaction.

>>737127552
OP; did I forget to mention they didn't actually fuck? Just a little kissing and fingerbanging...

Any joint marital assets or kids? If not then dance a jig like you just won the god damned lottery. No blood no foul. Wrap it up and start over.
if there are joint assets then write up an amenable agreement post haste. Get it signed and call it a day.
Honestly, no one gives a fuck. it's over. Just be thankful you didn't get further down the path. And whatever you do...let the other guy have her. It won't last a year and who cares anyway. Lots of better ass out there that doesn't cheat.

>>737127671
You're an idiot if you believe that. No grown woman just kisses and fingerbangs if they're going to risk it. Fuckin dumbass.

>>737127516
Yeah this is definitely true.

Looking at it from a different angle, you'll never trust her again and you'll always resent her. Even if she never did it again and was a model wife, you'll always still hate her deep inside.

It really sucks, but happy marriages need trust. Sticking with her now will lower your separation pain temporarily, but won't make you happy long-term.

The lure of comfort and the known can be powerful, and you'll find yourself almost overwhelmingly drawn toward staying with her. This is normal, but it's also a recipe for bitterness.

>>737127671
Oh in that case you can solve it all with anal. Demand she degrade herself as recompense and you are good to go

>>737123792
What country do you live in? If it's not working and she has done that then you need to divorce her.
Having had a divorce i know that feel of hoping it all works out but it won't in hindsight i wish i'd started the process earlier. Plus i met someone new within 6 months and it's going really well with her.

>>737128035
OP; you reckon? she did swear though...

>>737128358
OP is a troll or a fucking moron

>>737128358
Stop hoping it will work out. Time to move on OP. Sorry but that's the truth of it

>>737123457
start having raw sex with men then go home and cum inside her.

>>737128358
Be emotionally abusive. When she brings it up. Blame it all on her cheating.
Drive her to the brink of suicide, but reel her back in just enough by spewing you love her or something.

Then fuck her in the ass and not look at her afterwards.

>>737128448
OP; little bit of both. I believe her when she states that's all that happenend. Still hurting though...

>>737128791
Good advice. Anal is the best way

>>737128791
OP; assfucking, been there and done that...didn't help bro

>>737129171
well you can still be emotionally abusive anon.

>>737129171
What >>737129288 said

You don't know how soul crushing it could be once she realizes you only use her to dump your cum inside her ass.

>>737123457
Dude. Bail. Srsly. Don't divorce, just bail. Walk the fuck out the front door, wipe out the bank account and roll out. Take off for anywhere you have EVER wanted to go. Ditch your current phone. Sell the car if you go abroad. Just bail. She can't stop.you from using any joint accounts. She can't get a divorce unless you don't contact her for more than 6 months at a time. Join Peace Corps. Volunteer abroad. Then she looks like the crazy bitch while you are working through your shit and giving back to the world. You'll prolly meet someone way better than you deserve and more importantly you'll realize you don't need pussy to be complete.

>>737129288
I'd say just divorce her and move on.

Keep tabs of her online and wait for her to get into a steady relationship with another guy, and then catfish that guy with irresistible bait.

Next, send her proof of the indiscretion anonymously.

Repeat these steps forever. Force her into a life where she can never have a loyal partner. Ultimate justice.

SEND HER TO THE SLAUGHTERHOUSE
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

post her nudes
and Divorce her. No second chances

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Murder them both

This is a blessing dumbarse, I love my wife and I stay with her but if she cheated on me Id dump her in a heartbeat and start fucking hookers, Sex with my wife is good be she wont let me do the perverted shit I want to do

>>737129727
This

>>737128793
I'm going with moron. You said her excuse was drunk or whatever, but it happened more than once. With the same guy. He most definitely fucked her.
More than once.
More than twice...

>>737123998
What a fucking pussy a
>.45 and a wood chipper
Use your fucking hands and a blade she's your wife you need to butcher that butch up tie her up gag her and record it because that would truly be the most intimate the a husband and a wife could to

She needs to know how she made you feel make it last long and keep her awake because giving birth to her was painful for the mother so her death must be just as painful
Do it
Do it
Do it

>>737126916
Because he'd be cheating on her with the guy she slept with.

>>737123457
Gather evidence of her betrayal. Divorce her in a way that ensures she gets barely anything.

Then move on with your life and find someone decent. She sounds like a complete nigger.

>>737123545
>>737123998
>>737124221
>>737124222
>>737124313
>>737124456
please consider what these guys are saying - don't underwrite the culture of whoredom by tolerating whorishness in your own wife

>>737127516
So much truth

show some nudes

>>737130177
Naw man, don't fuck over OP like this.

If someone HAD to take someone out, they should take them on a "reconciliation trip" to a third world country and just come back alone. "I dunno where she went; we went home separately from a bar and she never showed back up at the hotel".

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>>737130693

You should fake the death of the guy with whom she's cheating and when she comes to his funeral you stab her

>>737123457
With whom? Some random guy, a friend/coworker, or someone shes been seeing?

Get some pussy and send her a picture of it. Then take your kids and go to Argentina forever.

>>737124636
The only time i was cheated on was in my early 20s. We might as well have been married. We went to sleep one night and i pinned her down and pissed all over her face and in her mouth. I packed up all my shit, made her come with me to the bank and emptied her bank account. I made her sign over the title to her car (which i torched) to me for wasting 2 years of my life. I told her that if she ever contacted me again id kill her family. That was more than 10 years ago, i have seen her once. She literally abandoned a full shopping cart at a lunds foods in minnesota and ran out of the store. The day and a half of terrorizing her was some of the most glorious of my life. Fuckin whore.

>>737128358
>>737126443
>>737125979

You really need to take a step back and take a long hard look at yourself. She has cheated on you, not once, but twice. She will never admit the truth of what happened, because she realises that she fucked up and will try to lighten her sentence.

She did not think of your kids, she did not think of you. She is the one who has destroyed all the trust which has been built throughout the years.

If a thief repeatedly stole from you, you would never trust them with your money. Your wife has repeatedly broke the trust you placed in her, you should never place that trust in her again. You are a victim and it is not your fault, no matter what people say. If there were issues, they could have been worked out for the kids. She chose the nuclear option and there is no going back, there is no working it out.

BE A MAN.

Be the man that she regrets losing for the rest of her life. OR be the man that she chooses other men over again and again. The choice is yours.

It's simple

>1. Pretend to forgive her
>2. Have make-up sex and come in her ass
>3. Immediately afterwards file for divorce
>4. ???
>5. Profit and +1 dignity

>>737123457
She is your wife. If he fucked with another man just fuck her harder and cum deep inside

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I'm fucking a guys wife right now and he doesn't know. I have mixed feelings about it. She wants to leave him.

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>>737123457
an eye for an eye anon, kill them both

>>737123457
Pay one of your friends that shs doesnt know to beat her almost to death. Then move out while shes in the hospital.

>>737123457
call yourself an idiot for getting married, to a whore, divorce the slut, and move on with your life

>>737132800
Why have any feelings about it. Just dont actully hook up with her.

>>737125553
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how old are the kids? speak with a lawyer, there might be implications down the road for not starting the divorce process immediately. for instance, if you decide in a year or two to divorce, the judge might overlook her whoring and rule in her favor to take all your shit.

>>737126469
who did she fuck and how?

OP is gone. Hopefully he is packing her shit up and putting it on the front lawn.

>>737123457
Ask friends with AIDS or other disseases to give you blood and inject it into her while she sleeps
Will fuck the guy up as well

>>737125978

Are you actually retarded?

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>>737123457

If you still have any semblance of positive emotion for her, couples' counselling. If you don't love her at all anymore, a divorce. But if you intend to divorce, make SURE that you don't let her know at first. Go to your lawyer, get the facts in order, make sure that you are able to present in the case that SHE was the one who sabotaged the relationship by cheating. Divorce courts tend to favor the woman, unless there is sufficient reason to favor the man. Make sure you have that proof line up, in order, and ready to display.

Good luck, Anon.

>>737133821
holy shit, this guy's a genius!

very familiar with literature

>>737123457
Divorce, take the kids and everything else you can. TAKE EVERYTHING and leave her to dwell alone in shame her entire life. You got the upper hand now to completely fuck her shit up, if you do anything other than exactly that then you are a fucking idiot and deserve everything that's coming to you.

>>737133578
Naw man, the guy would most likely not get the aids from her.

The best estimates I've seen for a man to get HIV via normal unprotected sex with a female is around 1%.

He'd have to fuck her 100 times normally, or fewer times anally, assuming neither of them have cuts at the same time.

>>737134324
this

>>737123457
Get proof.
Get lawyer.
Get divorce.
???
Maybe not profit, but you'll be better off.

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Become a cuck. It's the only way.

Plus you get to eat hot, tasty creampies and fap to your own wife on a regular basis.

>>737123457

Here are my suggestions.

1) Prepare for a devorce. Don't mention anything to your wife and find a lawyer that is specialised for these cases. He will guide you through this process and will help you salvage as much as possible.
2) Cut off her hair + beat her
3) Rape her
4) Fuck hookers/other women hotter than your wife, film it and show it to her.

>>737134919
>>737134588
>op become a massive faggot who likes to look at cock all day like me

OP here: yeah no pal go advertise elsewhere. my wife might be a whore but im not putting up with it.

>>737128358
This is bullshit. LOL
No actual husband would ever think this.
I haven't fingered a girl since the 6th grade.

>>737127196
That wasn't a joke op.

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>>737135160

I don't stare at cock all day at all. Just my wife's creampied pussy and bruised tits.

All women cheat and lie. Go ahead and be a madfag about it, it'll just turn you gay in the end because you'll never trust.

Accept the truth. All women are cuckoldresses.

>>737123457

post more on 4chan.

that'll show her you aren't the loser she thinks you are!