I just found out this morning my gf (of 3 years) cheated on me

>>736829247
Walk away right now OP
Never respond to her
Never speak with her
Never acknoiwledge her
EVER
AGAIN
Stop thinking like a faggot and go and slay some pusy

Hang in there faggot. Being a little bitchboi isnt so bad. Buy yourself a little dick cage and a large bottle of tequila. You'll feel better soon enough.


Or...you can do the right thing and dump her ass.

Or you can go into an open relationship and keep her around for sex and company until you can find someone else.

>>736829548
thats the thing I just keep getting stuck on. I mean after 3 years you cant just turn off feeling for someone, but everytime I think maybe I should give it another go I feel like I am just allowing myself to be made a fool of.

>>736829247
cease all communications, do your best to fuck her over, work on improving yourself and find a better gf.

Dump her ass

everyone I have know that has stayed has had that person cheat on them again

Just dump her and go hit on women at a bar

Leave her now. I promise she'll do it again. Move on, you will find some better. Otherwise, each time you fuck her you will think of his cock in her

>>736829714
She was able turn her feelings off for you so she could go have another guy fuck her pussy and cum on her face

>>736829247
Faggot, walk away, don't look back, and post those sweet nudes for payback

>>736829247
you shoud get revenge and post some pics

>>736829247
leave her srsly, sorry though

>>736829426
This.
>>736829247
I have experience, kept on dragging on with the relationship for a year. You'll only make things worse. You are on a sinking ship. Get off a.s a.p.

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>>736829247
just post noodz OP
shes a bitch make her pay

>>736829247
>>736829714
Yeah bro, it's hard. It will be difficult.

But you must walk away.

These are the situations that end up defining us, and if you react to your feels instead of pushing through you'll find yourself giving in like that all the time.

The trick here is to not let this person know or understand it hurts. Don't be a dick. Don't be dramatic. The only real power you have is to cast her aside without it seeming like it hurts you. If you're whiney or cry about it, or if you stay, you define yourself as someone to be walked upon. Don't be that guy OP.

>>736829871
I guess that's true.

And it pissed me off a bit how when she confessed (after I'd already found) out she was crying and shit when I'm the one who ought to be upset.

But I haven't had a huge amount of experience with girls in my life... and the other side of I just keep thinking maybe at least having someone who doesnt really love me or respect me is better than being alone.

I understand what people saying are right, I should leave, and she will do it again, and letting her will just demean me even more... I dont know. I just wish she hadn't done it.

It is always the same question. Would she react in a kind way, if you had cheated on her? Or just leave you

>>736829247
The relationship is already over.

Staying will show her she can continue cheating with no consequences.

>>736830476
not going to post any pics of her. If people can look her up then they'll look me up to - and I've had enough humiliation for today.

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>>736829247
>your girl cares about other guys penis more than about you

top cuck imo its really better to be alone rather than to be with such trash, but its your decision. As for you, my advice - introduce her to the BBC. That way she'll experience the big cock and you will experience more pleasure than you can imagine.

>>736829247
Break up. If she did it once, she'll do it again, and you fucking know it.

>>736830701
Im not knocking people who are into that sort of thing although I dont understand it myself - but the thought of my gf (if I can even call her that now) being fucked by someone else doesnt give me any pleasure, trust me.

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>>736829247

Taking the piss is an English phrase so you are probably British or maybe Australian. So she is probably banging a BBC refugee. You have no choice but to let her continue her escapades or you can end up in jail. You might as well embrace your new sissy cuckold lifestyle by getting some pretty clothes and a cock cage. She is probably fucking more than one guy, more likely it is three to five. So now your job will be to suck them hard so they can fuck your girl. And while the others are waiting you will let them fuck your ass so they stay hard. Then since condoms are haram when one is finished cumming inside your girl you will have to lick her pussy clean so the next may fuck her, because it would be gay if their dick touched another mans cum. Get used to only cumming from a man fucking you and the closest you'll be getting to her pussy now is to lick cum out of it.

Tell her you'll take her back if she'll let you fuck her sister. Otherwise never talk again.

You're better off leaving her. Take it from someone who was in the same boat, she will cheat again. For all you know she's already cheated with other guys.

>>736829247
OP does a murder

>>736830701
Oh look, it's one of these faggots again. How many threads have you made today, cuccboii?

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>>736829426
This is exactly what I do when I break up with a girl. Works like a charm and makes you feel powerful over them.

Leave that cunt, OP. Go out and destroy her friend's use and make sure everyone knows it.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, you're gonna get fed to the niggers after I rip out your spine and flog you with it.

>tldr ditch the Bitch

>>736829247
make her think its all fine and good - 2 weeks from now dump her and disappear without reason

>>736830574
>And it pissed me off a bit how when she confessed (after I'd already found) out she was crying and shit when I'm the one who ought to be upset.

Cunt of an ex did this to me when he'd cheat. I swear it was to distract me from beimg upset myself as the natural instinct was to comfort him.

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>>736830656
>implying anyone give a fuck about you
your the most beta anon we can find we'll not do anytin except fap to you girl just post them

>>736829247
She WILL do it again, I promise you.

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>>736830927
>Go out there and destroy her friends use
>destroy her friends use
>her friends use
>her use
>use
>u
>u wot m8

>>736830963
Best :ddddd

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>>736830908
dunno - many
I lost the count as the only person making such things is me

>>736829426
Bounce.
Don't look back.
Get out.
She doesn't respect you

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been in same situation... i got mad as fuck when i found out. Joke is on her.... i cheated on her with +30 others, multiple hookers, multiple secret tinder sexdates. All she did was suck off a guy and kiss with 2 others.. I guess i am the bigger problem. Never told her and never will. I continue to cheat when I get a chance

>>736829247
if you don't walk away you are cuckold, if you dont walk away you ENJOY that she cheated.

>>736829247
Legit just fucking leave her man, a cheating ho is always a cheating ho, they never change their fucking ways, happened to me before and it happened again after I stayed with her. Best bet is trying to get another girlfriend

>>736829247
Post more pics

>>736831054
go and have a wank over some random pics of girls and pretend its her if it makes you feel better mate, I'm not going to post any pics of her.

>>736831251
>hohoho merry cucksmas

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Hey op
my gf of 1 year cheated one me and literally stopped caring about me. im a mess and never recovered. i dont have any advice for u

>>736831040
Yep exactly.
And I kind of did, because its just in your nature if someone is there crying in front of you - but the whole time I was thinking "why am I hugging you, I'm the one who's been fucked over."

>>736829247
Fucking dip, bro. She's not worth it

>>736830574
I had a girl who cheated on me and t hurt, and I cheated on another girl who never found out, but it still makes me feel shitty. People who love each other sometimes do shitty things to each other. Just make it a part of what you've experienced and try to have a relationship that you feel is worth having. Friendship or lovers, whatever is appropriate for who you really are to each other.

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>>736831272
i know why she did cheat on you OP, your the most beta cuckold ive met, and ive seen some shit on the internet

Walk away right now OP
Never respond to her
Never speak with her
Never acknoiwledge her
EVER
AGAIN
Stop thinking like a faggot and go and slay some pusy

What he said..donthe be a fucking sub par human,man up you cunt

>>736829247
pretend to be nice to her for as long as it takes to get any of your shit back, if you want it. then tell her to fuck off. never talk to her again, and find someone who respects you.

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Cuck thread now to celebrate OP's new found fetish.

>>736831454
The best thing was, after having seen both sides of it, I dated someone else who had also seen both sides, and we were really honest with each other about when we would break up and see other people and when we would get back together. It was nice dating someone more mature and being more mature myself.

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>>736831477

>>736829247
Look at it from her point of view.

If you cheated on her and she forgave you, would that not be an admission that you could do it again and get away with it? What would you think of her if she did just brush off the fact that you fucked another girl several times? Would you respect her? Would you admire her? Or would you lose respect for her and believe she was a pushover? Do you want her to feel those things about you? Do you want to be with someone who does not respect you?

I wouldn't. But you may. Life may teach you self confidence and self respect if you are open to the vagaries that it will throw at you. And you will find on that day that you have no time for people who treat you like that.

>>736830574
Dude, you will find someone else. No matter how much you feel like you are destined to be alone, you're not. Dump the bitch and a better one will come along.

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>>736831198
true love - caring about giving benis / receiving benis from strangers more than about your relationship, your soulmate's feelings, honour, and broken promises.

Shit quality of people we have on this world... ad its only getting worse with time

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>>736829247
I'm speaking from my experience here, brother. If she cheated on you, she liked it. She liked the idea of fucking another dude, had fantasies, and all that shit. So she's a fucking slut/doesn't really find you interesting anymore, even if she says the opposite. So just DON'T fucking talk to her anymore, for your own good. You'll find plenty of fucking girls dude, which are cute and won't cheat on you, it's easy filtering those from the sluts/the girls who are living more on the "lust" style.

>>736831792
Actually. This is the best advice yet.

>>736830872
why would you go through the effort of writing this bullshit?

>>736829247
A cuckold is the husband of an adultress.

You fucking morons need to stop this shit.

>>736831739
obviously using the word "cuckold" in the original post was a mistake. I am not into this shit. But I suppose I did invite people to take the piss and make me feel worse...

>>736829247
/b/ cant give you advice on this. You have to decide how big of a cuck you are, and act accordingly

>>736831931
This

>>736829247
You are not a literal cuckold. A cuckold is a man whose WIFE cheats on him, not his gf.

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>>736831889

That's a normal relationship in England now. It also didn't take much effort to write.

>>736831750
I dont know - I never even considered cheating on her. I think she'd just dump me. I guess thats the point youre making - if I dont then the relationship will always be unbalances and unequal.

I know what people are saying is right (other than the femdom fetishists) I guess I just am trying to talk myself into doing what I know I have to if I dont want to make a cunt of myself

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>>736832058
convince yourself anon

>>736832191
Nothing to do with convincing. Simply a matter of understanding what words mean.

Well, a cuckold requires being married in the most technical sense
Also you didn't know, and presumably it doesn't turn you on

If it does then you kind of are a cuckold but whatever

She has no respect for you, and neither will you if you stay with her

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>>736831948

You came asking /b/ what to do to an obvious question. Any normal man would have broken up with her on the spot. Since you are conflicted the only option is you wanna see Mahmoud's large powerful penis pounding into your girlfriend. You should marry her so it really does make you a cuckold.

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>>736832257

Two options

1. Just say nope. Break up, clean break, don't have any further contact. But there's no need to be a dick about it. Be a real man and just say, that's not acceptable, and leave.

2.tell her you want a threesome that she has to arrange. Do that, enjoy it, then break up with her anyway.

Once a slut, always a slut

>>736831792
I guess, then why is she begging for another chance though? Just do make me feel even worse? or does she just want to leave on her own terms?

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forgive her - just to use her as fucktoy untill you find non-whore girl.
stop treating her so good, give no new emotions towards her as she is unworthy with rotten cheating soul. She already values other cock more than you, all her memories with you, and all the time you invested in her.
Use her like tool she is now, plan your vengence carefully and realize it then you finall find a real gir as goodbye gift. Shit in places she that she will never find your dump, cum in her food, piss on the sofa, and let the whole world know what a whore she is.

>>736832387
It's not that difficult to look it up in a dictionary

>>736832453
Option 2 is a solid choice

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>>736832343
>>736832257
if your not married and be with a girl for 10 years while shes getting bangged by other dude your not a cuckold
That make sense to me

>>736832360
well who is normal. I have to admit that this stupid shit you are chatting is actually starting to genuinely annoy me now - but what difference does it make for that?

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Get practicing Op.

>>736829247
Here's what you do:

kick her to the curb
don't shit talk her to other people.
if other women see you treating yourself with self respect but not being petty and shitty about her mistakes your social value goes up. A lot of guys make the mistake of publically shitting all over their exgirlfriend. That only lowers your social value.

>>736832519
>>736832519
Hey, I'm not arguing that OP isn't a fag, he totally is

But when we start ignoring the actual meaning of words we may as well all speak gibberish

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>>736832360
>>736832584
try to be kind anon :'(

>>736832469
Yeah... if you are the type of person to do this shit over something like being cheated on, you're not going to find a good girl. They'll all stay the fuck away from you, or run away once they realize what an immature idiot you are.

>>736829247

Walk away. Being single is still doing better than being a cuckold. If she cheated once, she'll do it again.

>>736832665
look I'm not complaining - I knew some people would take the piss when I posted this, I'm just saying what good does it do this guy pissing me off further?

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>>736831948
Just post pictures of her we will be kind after that

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>>736832466
Simple, girls hate being seen as sluts.
She just wants your forgiveness just to not feel guilty.
She'll continue fucking other dudes from time to time 100%, but if that's ok with you, go with it.
At least go fuck other girls (even if you decide you're staying with her), and don't think of it as a serious relationship.
Be a confident, independent man because that turns girls on the most

>>736829714
She will cheat on you again in the future. I can guarantee you that.

Dont be a cuck and move on. Its gonna be tough, but it will be for the best

>>736830063

This.

Once, maybe that could be forgiven, but multiple times? She is only sorry she got caught.

She WILL do this again. Hell, she'll probably even get angry with you when you next catch her at it.

It will be hard, but leave and don't look back.

>>736832846
>Admitting that the trolling is getting to you

Gee anon, what next, stab yourself with a knife in shark infested waters?
Walk around with your wallet hanging out in harlem?

>>736832469
I dont think I can do that.

Honestly even now I couldn't hate her and I dont want to hurt her. That might make me beta or whatever else but its just how it is.

But I do think I need to walk away. She lives in my house for nothing, contributes next to nothing to the bills, she probably only is sorry cos she doesnt want to go back and live with her parents. If I take her back I'll be accepting what she did.

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>>736833039

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>>736832764
whats worse in relationship than cheating?
its called justice
you can avoid all of this with one simple trick - not cheat. Is this really too much to ask from a relationship? You talk as if all girls were cheating whores. Fuck you, only literal cuckold would forgive

>>736833093
>She lives in my house for nothing, contributes next to nothing to the bills, she probably only is sorry cos she doesnt want to go back and live with her parents. If I take her back I'll be accepting what she did.
Kick
Her
The
Fuck
Out.

You can rid yourself of a dead weight.

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>>736832846

Because it will either make you shut up and go dump her like you should have originally done.
Or the pics could give you some ideas on what you will be doing now.

>>736833039
obviously it would get to me. and I suppose the silly twat will keep posting his porn images... what I was saying is it doesnt mean anything. If annoying someone who is already pissed off gives someone a thrill then congrats, I can confirm I have been further annoyed.

>>736829247

I am near the end of dealing with a marriage in which this happened. We lived apart for work, turns out she was banging a lowlife and ended up moving in with him / watching his shit when he went out on coke binges.

I tried to be the bigger man and take her back, but that was the death spiral.

Trust me, anon, you're lucky you're not married. You can just walk away. I still have to see her in court.

I have been fucking mad bitches off of Tinder in the meantime, though. The first vag you nut in afterward will feel like heaven.

>>736829247

>I kind of don't feel like I can do any better

She cheated on you. You could do better very easily.

Also: when my first gf broke up with me (no cheating involved), I felt sort of the same. She was an 8/10 on a bad day, amazing sex, fun, caring, ... I was devastated and convinced I'd never do better.

With hindsight fifteen years later, she was only the first of a string of fun, good looking women, and my fiancee now is amazing and much better than my first girlfriend or any of the ones in between.

Tl;dr: If you managed to get with a nice woman once, you can do it again.

>>736833093
Well then, you certainly care more about her than she cares about you - even after being cucked by her. Thats sweet, but sad. Honest advice for a beta male unable to take vangence on her? Tell her to fuck off and wish her best, you'll simply regret if you don't later on and will feel 10times worse

>>736833597
youre a degenerate

Id rather be me for however fucked up my situation is than have ever been in a situation where I saved this pervert shit to PC you keep posting.

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>>736833273
find a painfull way to suicide OP, your the most beta fagget on /b/ and thats annoying..

>>736831792
My biggest regret, when I broke up with my slut, was not guilting her into sending me pictures of her sucking and fucking every new guy she was with. She's still a slut and I love when she gives me head, but it's been years since I've seen her and my fantasy whore memories are getting a little thin.

>>736829247
This will help you, advise from rap:

Alright calm down, relax, start breathin'
Fuck that shit, you just caught this bitch cheatin'
While you at work she's with some dude tryin' to get off?
Fuck slittin' her throat, cut this bitches head off!
Wait! What if there's an explanation for this shit?
(What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his dick?)
Alright Shady, maybe he's right Grady
But think about the baby before you get all crazy
Okay! Thought about it, still wanna stab her?
Grab her by the throat, get your daughter and kidnap her?
That's what I did, be smart, don't be a retard
You gonna take advice from somebody who slapped Dee Barnes?
What you say? (What's wrong?
Didn't think I'd remember?)
I'm a kill you motherfucker!
Uh-ah! Temper temper!

Mr. Dre? Mr. N.W.A.?
Mr. AK comin' straight outta Compton y'all better make way?
How in the fuck you gonna tell this man not to be violent?
'Cause he don't need to go the same route that I went
Been there, done that, aw fuck it
What am I sayin'?
Shoot 'em both Grady, where's your gun at?

>>736833647
This guy gets it.

>>736833647
thanks fam, I guess that's true - or at least it could be.

>>736833093
Listen, I ended a three year relationship because she kissed a friend of hers. Two years later, she had been with one dude but fucked me and several of my friends on the side.

Cheaters are cheaters and there isn't anything that you're going to do to make them change. Your best bet is to kick her the fuck out and stop all communication for a minimum of six months. Even after that point, don't actively seek her, and by no means take her back.

It's going to hurt like hell, and you're going to want her back. Unfortunately, the very best thing for yourself is to grin and bear it until someone better comes along. In the meantime, tinder offers all kinds of chicks who want everything from coffee to cock.

>>736833219
Whats worse in a relationship than cheating?

Murder, severe abuse, molesting the children. Those seem like worse things in a relationship than fucking someone else.

It's not called justice, what you are talking about is childish retribution. Justice is letting her go and finding a good life with someone else while they sit around and wonder why they hurt you when you were so awesome to them.

And fuck you, you mongoloid child. I'm not one of the people endorsing forgiveness. I'm one of the people telling him to get the fuck out. And no, I dont speak as if all girls are cheating whores. You are projecting.

I'm saying you are an idiot, nothing more, nothing less.

>>736833703
as I said, I'd rather be me than you.

>>736832670
here you go OP, you know what to do

A person has one shot. If you cheat you prove you are able to do so and do so again.

Been in the same situation op,but u have to get over the bitch,she is gonna make it again,if u really are that cuckold it's ur call mate

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>>736833880
the guy crying cause he getting cucked, and ask for advice on /b/
Damn i missed something ..

>>736833835
well I havent done anything of those things - nor do I want to hurt her or have been talking about hurting her. I just want to salvage some kind of self respect. I loved her, and I feel like she threw that away for the sake of fucking some other guy

>>736834070
I guess that sums up your life - missing things and missing things.

>>736834103
It's not a feeling dude, that is precisely what she did. If you want to salvage your self respect, you should be telling her to pack her shit and to get the fuck out when she's done.

>>736831362
underrated post

>>736834103
That was a reply to the linked post, not you OP. You just need to cut your ties with the girl and move on. My disagreement is with the twat-waddle that keeps telling you to plan some ill-advised revenge plan that will make her angry at you which will override any guilt she feels at what she did.

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>>736833698

Funny story. I didn't normally have cuckold stuff saved on my computer but one night 2 large Mexican men broke into my house, armed with a very angry Chihuahua. One held me to my chair and pulled down my shorts exposing my dick. In a strong Spanish accent the one with the dog said, "Amigo, yous need to google 'Cuckold captions' and start saving as many pictures as you can find." Before I could protest he let the dogs head get close to my dick and it started gnashing and barking. I could feel its hot breath on the tip, as specks of dog drool started splattering on my dick. "Or Senior Loco here gets to chew yous dick off!" So I downloaded a shit ton and they laughed and left.

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>>736834219
not sure if bait or just beta

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>>736830574
Dump her, block her out. Have your first revenge by being a better version of yourself. Once you're over her you'll be a better man and feel sorry for her, because you know she'll always be a slut and you're awesome.

>>736829247
its gonna be rough man but you gotta end it, your obviously gonna have strong feelings for her after 3 years but you cant cave, theres literally billions of women out there you can get another one, plus now you have a pretty god sobstory for other bitches

>>736829247
if you accept her infidelity youll never quite truly be happy with her.

just let her go. youre better off alone /b/ro

>>736833835
murder, severe abuse, molesting the children is not a part of relationship but a degenerated interactions beetween humans. It can happen without any relationship at all.
>Justice is letting her go without any punishment neither emotionall (same she inflicted on you) or on property (pee on couch) - all you can do is making her jelly later on
top kek
begone mental-cuck, not good enough punishment is exactly why bad things happen in this world
you are one big black cocked smelly nigger from tumblr

>>736830574
>I just keep thinking maybe at least having someone who doesnt really love me or respect me is better than being alone.

Dude that's messed up. We all deserve to be with people who love and respect us. Don't settle for less in your search for that person.

>>736834497
yeah I know mate. I guess I just had to talk myself into it.

>>736834103
If it's revenge you're after, this is the absolute worst thing you can do to any woman, and believe me, It works.

You simply kick her out, and as she's begging for you to reconsider, you calmly say this: You are the worst person I have ever met.

And that is the end of you saying anything to her. It will tear her apart on several levels. She will insult you, she will cry, She will say shit just to try to hurt you. This is her true nature, and everything she says at this point will be something she has thought about you in the past or even up until now.

Cut her off 100%, and let that one sentence do all the revengening that you want.

>>736829247
Even if you "forgave" her and tried to carry on in the relationship you'll never fully trust her again. Even years from now the thought will be always be eating away at you in the back of your mind. Get out soon, what you guys had has been soiled and there's unfortunately no undoing that

>>736829247
walk away nigga. walk away. it won't feel that great but its the best thing for you.

>>736829714
what a faggot

>>736834712
yeah I know. Three years is a lot to give up on is all, but I dont think I could ever 100% trust her now

>>736832089
wtf are you chattin' bout mate

>>736834342
>Have your first revenge by being a better version of yourself
This. >>736829247 do this. Do it.

ÖP is a fucking newfag.

Even if you had bothered to lurk here for one fucking week you would know how all of these threads turn out. Almost everyone agrees you need to ditch that whore right the fuck now and break all contact with her, permanently.

>>736830574
Seriously don't take her back. She will cheat again. There is millions of women out there. You are young.

great quote:

"Don't brood. Get on with living and loving. You don't have forever. ~ Leo Buscaglia"

>>736829247
Youll feel better if you have the self respect to walk away now. If shes been seein this dude regularly and you forgive her, shell just know she can get away with it. Ditch, and take some time being happy by yourself.

>>736835038
only newfags call people newfags

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>Still no pics of OP gf
>139 replies

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>>736829247
>been there done that

Short answer : if you take her back she will cheat again.

Medium answer : each time you'll take her back your value decreases in her eyes, starting a hell loop where she want to mate more and more with other guys appearing more valuable than you.

Sorry pal, your relationship is doomed.
I know there us few chances you'll listen to me, but if you do you'll save many years of slow burning hell.
Took me about 3 years to me to figure this out...

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>>736829714
>it's true?
>Watches at $ 0?

>>736834950
How fucking old are you? 3 years is nothing.

>>736835190
because if I post pics of her someone will reverse image search somehow, contact her, and make me feel more like a cunt than I already do. As I said go and have a wank over one of the fb/ig threads if it makes you feel better.

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>>736835190

Hey at least I'm posting cuckold fetish pics for the OP to get used to.

>>736834509
You seem to be implying that cheating is part of a relationship. Perhaps you are the cucked one.

>>736835298
Im 28

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>>736835319
>implying nude pics of her are already over the internet
you cant be cucked this hard OP

>>736835319
So are you gonna stay here and circle jerk with the rest of us or are you actually going to go kick her ass out of your now ended relationship?

>>736834950
if you even feelt like making this thread there's uncertainly - there's a little cuckold deep inside you and he wish that she regret what she had done and will seriously promise her faithfulness to you. So...
Act like you are mad to tell her its not okay, but then forgive her, trust me I'm a doctor (lennyface)

>>736834950
I was in a similar situation with a gf of 2 years, left her after a month of trying to get past it. It just delays the inevitable

>>736835434
she's staying at her parents house tonight. Gonna meet her tomorrow for lunch. Realistically if I dont end it then I'm just consigning myself to more of this... she was saying today how much she loved me, bit if she did she wouldnt have done this.

>>736829247
Two things leaving her will do:

1. force you to better yourself; career, education, fitness

2. build your character


NEVER SACRIFICE THIS FOR ANYONE, NOT EVEN FOR A PRETTY FACE

>>736835339
kek

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>>736835579

Ask her to marry you so you can do this.

>> 736835402
You can not cuck someone without being in a relationship, simple as that you dense black male.
And if theres one thing that does not deserve forgiveness - its cheating

>>736835584
^ What this guy said 100%.

post her nudes OP and leave her

>>736835579
>she was saying today how much she loved me, bit if she did she wouldnt have done this

This...
She doesn't love you anymore, you're just a prop she would like to keep around.

>>736835700
>>736835402

>>736835145
fuck off m8 i've been here all summer

>>736835403
Mate, you've got like 50 more years of life expectancy left. Move on and don't look back.

My life expectancy has dropped thanks to this cancerous whining you're doing. You know to drop her but you're trying to justify staying because you think you can't get better than you already have and if you just overlook the cheating, you'll be happy again.

Fuck that shit, ditch her arse, move on to a better woman that doesn't like cock more than her boyfriend and you'll forget this piece of shit in no time.

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OP - penis enlargment is your last chance to keep her away from cucking you

Shut your bitching up and dump her. There's tonnes of other girls out there. You should of ended it with her the second you found out and she admitted it.

>>736835579
Well it's easy, her actions are hers, if she tries palming any guilt for her cheating onto you, politely give it back with "If you actually loved me, you would have never done this".
Meet up with her for lunch, tell her that you won't be able to forgive her, that she can come and get her stuff at her first convenience and then to kindly leave you be forever.

>>736835145
thats not true, i call people newfag and im not considering myself as a newfag, im pretty sure only a newfag would say that only newfag call pople newfag, newfag.

>>736829247
found out and broke up instantly. She cheated on me once during a festival I wasn't at.
Have principals and selfworth or have nothing at all.
If you take her back, I highly suggest you don't, make sure it doesn't "empower" her by seeing you as weak and malleable.

>>736835985
How much fag would a newfag fag, if a newfag could fag newfags?

>>736835985
>"I'm gonna be new and a fag and you can't stop me".

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>>736835734
jesus, no nudes, but will you shut up now?

>>736836084
The word you wanted was principles.

>>736831272
She cheated on you and you won't even present the world with a warning of the harlot?

>>736829247

Once a cheater, always a cheater. That's the end of it. She's done it more than once, she's gonna do it again. You can't trust her anymore.

Seen it a hundred times, and it's not gonna stop any time soon. Don't let the bitch make a fool of you, because she will. I promise. Dump her and move on.

>>736836187
He's worried someone will reverse Google search her, let her know OP has posted thread and she'd post the pics of the strapon buried in his arse on his facebook

>>736836266
i think im starting to like the idea of being cucked
ps : Im OP

>>736836141
That's a pretty average looking chick that you've put on a pedestal there op.
Girls who look decent like that are a dime a dozen.
Go flirt with a bunch of similar chicks until you find one with a personality you like.

>>736829247
Right im going to explain very carefully the do's and don't, this has happened to me and i walked away, which is the right choice, however women are evil beyond belief.
If you have a small dick, she will tell everyone, if you ever did out of the norm sex, she will tell everyone, if she knows where you work, she will tell your co-workers, if you have a decent sister her age, she will beat her to shit because you can't.

>>736836375
Can't you go somewhere else to very poorly try to brainwash people?

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>>736836141

Was she born near a nuclear power plant? Its like the right side of her face is melting. Damn no wonder you don't want to leave her, I can't imagine how ugly your ass must be.

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>>736836167

>>736829247
Grow some fucking balls and get pity laid later by some bitches. You'll feel better. Being a cheater is a frame of mind that will never change. Cheaters will always cheat and peop;e that won't cheat will never cheat. Simple

>>736836406
>>736836406
>That's a pretty average looking chick that you've put on a pedestal there op.

She must suck cock well. All that practice behind OP's back.

>>736836500
The fuck?

>>736829247
Start practicing on like bananas and shit until she feels like you're ready to properly gobble her boyfriends knob. I mean that's where this is going.

>>736836468
obviously she knows where I work

>>736836500
I'm just tired of seeing people bringing up school administrators, when what they're actually trying to convey is a sense of self worth and pride.

>>736829247
Once a cheater always a cheater OP, run fast and dont look back. I took my cheating ex back just to be cheated on again. Ditched her ass and now im happy and settled down with a loyal woman who sucks me dry and does my housework. Life goes on.

She doesn't love you and betrayed you already. She's garbage and you will do better.

>>736836472
im not sure if OP is a master of bait or just a whiny fagget

>>736836496
to be fair at least youve stopped annoying you - youre just trying to hard

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>>736836472

You know there is more than one person being an ass right? All my posts have been accompanied by a picture. I wouldn't resort to same fagging my own posts. That is almost as pathetic as being conflicted over dumping a cheating girlfriend.

>>736829426
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE listen to him.

Once she's done that, she no longer, nor will she ever, RESPECT or look at you the same way EVER again.

And that is fact, we've all learned that the hard way so listen.

You WILL do better I fucking swear I was heartbroken for a year after my slut ex cheated and never thought I'd do better.

I'm now engaged to a girl way hotter, loyal and best of all smarter and with more drive than she was.

Girls do NOT respect pussies who let them walk over them, think about it, would you ever respect a bitch who let you treat her like shit and fuck her best friend??

Nothing is ever the same believe that, and no, you are not the exception to the rule.

Everyone thinks they are, but its simple logic foo.

Now understandable, have a nice day.

>>736829247
If she cheated on you she doesn't care about you enough. Also they are always sorry after, means nothing. Move on, instead of going back into the cycle.

>>736836708
I'm pretty sure that wasn't op though.
Seemed more like a cuck fetishist or a troll trying to derail.

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>>736836720

See I knew the pics would help. Now they aren't annoying you, soon you will like them, and then next you'll be watching your girlfriend get gangbanged while you cock is locked up.

>>736836624
Then if she has any "dirt" on you, she's gonna blow the place up, be prepared, this happened to me but my co-workers stood by me, though i was the talk of the office because my 4.5" pecker, i wouldn't change my decision for the world though
I bumped into her in the street months back and she was in a state and came crying to me so i bought her coffee as she spilt her soul about her current lover being abusive and life being shit.
I told her how my life is doing great since we broke up, paid and left her there - it felt great.

>>736829714
Every time you start thinking that, remind yourself of the amount of deceit and the kind of feelings she had for you every time she had his dick inside her. Every time she secretly texted him to meet up and have sex, or possibly even worse, to explore an actual possibility of a relationship. Every time she took his cum on her face, the thoughts she had when she was stroking his dick as he came all over her hits, so she could wipe it up and come home to you. It wasn't an isolated incident, where she was some drunken ho that made a mistake. She deliberately went out of her way multiple times to lie to you, and betray the trust you had. There were nights recently she had just fucked some guy and then came home to you.

These are hard things to think about, but the reality usually is. You can't live with an ideal, you must love with reality. I had a girl of 8 years do this, and I tried to fix it. It never ends well. She already betrayed your trust in a major way, multiple times. Think about it, she was either looking for a steady fuck, which means you aren't giving her want she wants, or her prospective relationship didn't pan out and now she feels badly only because she doesn't want to lose this one as well.

She's manipulating you anon. Just think aboiut what kind of man you want to be, and you know your decision.

>>736837073
I dont know Id ever feel happy for her to be feeling bad... I think I just have to stop thinking about her at all

>>736829247
Walk away b/ro

>>736837501
Im not gonna say your a cuck for letting her stay, i know the feeling, but she will do it again and the cycle will continue until you give up fighting her about it, it's at this point you will mentally shut-down and let her do it because your so attached to her and don't want to be alone. Just break up with her man, if she's not loyal now she won't ever be - she's experienced the "thrill" of having forbidden sex, the least you can do is take that feeling away.

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>>736837501

Dude, you sound like an Omega. You should just marry her and do all thus cuck shit I've been posting.

>>736829247
Similar but not the same situation (semi-open relationship), after 3 years we both went to a party and she broke the rules and gave a dude a bj "backout drunk" supposedly. I forgave her and stayed with her, but I watched her like a fucking hawk for the first month to make sure she wasnt just a cheating whore. It's been 4 years together, a year and a few months since and no incidents. She doesn't know it but I have the ability to track her and occasionally do just to make sure she's not stepping out. So I mean if you stay you have to understand that you will always think she might be cheating again, anytime she isnt around. Being alone would be better in my opinion since it wasnt a one and done thing, she evaded your discovery for months. You dont pay enough attention and therefore cant handle her. ALL WOMEN CHEAT, unless the man she is with is watchful enough and satifying enough.

>>736837928
I dont want to live my life spying on someone. I think youre right I wont trust her if I take her back and I'll just get paranoid and controlling.

I know I have to leave her I guess.

>>736829426
/thread

>>736829247
Kinda late now, I've been in this situation before, in my case was a girl with BPD.
We had an open relationship (we still had sex and lived together) until both of us found suitable partners. It was kinda nice to have her as a "wingman" also she helped me find my current girlfriend. We still text once in awhile.

>>736838629
Im definitely not up for an open relationship

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>>736838332

Being a cuck isn't that bad OP, just give it a try.

>>736838764
grotesque even as a joke

>>736838332
Word of advice then, if shes the needy type don't block her number cause she'll turn up at your house constantly, its damn fucking annoying, just text her saying "We done, stop texting me." and await the generalized hate texts, which turn into "love you, need you" texts dont fall for these.

>>736838764
honestly I just feel sorry for you.
this kind of degeneracy cannot be faked

>>736837121
This OP, this.

Ok guys you convinced me. Don't know if I can but I'll just try to forgive her. Maybe I wasn't giving her enough attention so she felt lonely. We have been together 3 years that means something- I think its worth a shot. I love her and she love me, moment of confusion isn't worth destroying it all. Thank you all for your help.

So she's been doing it for the past 3 MONTHS!?
If it was just the once, I'd say to ditch her for a while, make her feel what losing you is like then take her back after a good talk, let her realize how much she wants you, etc.

But this bitch done it continuously, over and over again. She is a pathetic slag, tell everyone she knows, that you broke up with her because she cheated. And never look back.

>>736838724
Well, she used to be a cam model. Kinda open to everything, idea was to be just fuck buddies and we kinda started to like each other, ended up in a 2 years relationship. Until she had sex with an old friend (used to do things on cam with him, kinda understandable) she knew how I was feeling and decided to do that. Honestly, best experience ever.

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>>736829247


it will make you feel better if you post her nudes in here trust me so do it now please

>>736839043
this isnt me.

>>736839043


"moment" of confusion?? You mean multiple moments of confusion seeing as how she has been cheating on you for months? Believe me op take it from someone who always cheats on their girlfriends, once a cheater always a cheater. Whether it takes 6 months, a year, 4 years or 20 years she WILL cheat again because eventually she will crave that adrenaline rush again after she gets bored with you eventually for a second time...dumbass.

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>>736839390

You sure that isn't you?

>>736838764
Why do you have all these saved dude?

>>736829247
DUMP DUMP DUMP. never go back.

>>736839628
because he's a pervert

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>>736839628

I told my story all the way back here.
>>736834296 Was a crazy fucking night.

>>736829247
Move on you spineless twat.
Just move on.

>>736829247
Being alone is better than a cuck

>>736829247
Fuck her one last time, cum on her face, take pic, put clothes back on. Never speak to her again.

>>736829714
OP is a faggot who will die a literal cuck Gg faggots gg.

Is OP even still here?

>>736839752
Alright your story made me laugh, but seriously, why would you save all this trash man

>>736829247
if you give her another chance, she'll take full advantage of your trust again. I mean, it's not like she only cheated the once

also, HOW you found out is important, too, like if she was deliberately keeping it a secret, she's not sorry she did it she's sorry she got caught

It's times like this that remind me that b is full of immature little boys looking for creep shots and wondering if jackin' it over traps makes them gay.....

>>736840014
yes, but Ive kind of come to terms with it all now.

/b/ may be full of cunts but to be fair its probably the best place Ive ever found to get genuine advice from people. I just needed to be told what I already new (albeit the femdom porn wasnt necessary)

>>736840203
Ok well I kinda disagree with everyone if you wan another point of view?

>>736840160
my sister's bf saw her out with him having lunch in a pub, I asked her where she'd been cos I called her office and she lied about it - and then I let on that I knew and it all came out.

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>>736840072

Schenfraude. Sometimes I like to jack it knowing that there is some humiliated guy out there doing the shit for real in these pics. Never denied I was degenerate. Also helps piss people off in threads like this so hopefully maybe you'll remember all the comments and me being an ass with the pics so tomorrow at lunch you can dump your girlfriend. Because staying with a cheating partner is like this poor puppy.

>>736840289
really, or just more of these pics?

the other side I keep seeing is that what if I end up alone, what if she is really sorry and wont do it again... but in my heart I think what people said here is right - that she'll do it again, and that if I let her do it to me our whole relationship will be based on mistrust and lack of respect going forwards.

>>736840672
Nah genuinely, that's all bs, I've been there on both sides before. I won't bother going into it if you're not interested though.

>>736841022
whats the other side?

>>736841022
I want to leave her and I know it's the right thing to do, but idea of spending rest of my life alone is devastating. I'm not that strong.. I'll just try to be the best man alive so she wont cheat on me again

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>>736840672

A scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The frog asks, "How do I know you won't sting me?" The scorpion
says, "Because if I do, I will die too."

The frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream, the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown, but has just enough time to gasp "Why?"

Replies the scorpion: "Its my nature..."

Cheaters are always cheaters.

>>736841140
As in been the cheater and the cheated

>>736836739
>Conor

>>736840595
I'm not OP, but that's good. I was imagining something like that, but it was just hard for me to believe you would have a folder expressly for this very specific situation. or that you put the effort into searching out those all just now. But there's everything on /b/ I guess.

>>736841258
That's fair enough if that's what you want, you'll always bounce back, always, you've just got to realise when you're at rock bottom and not an hero but realise that if you're at the bottom, shit will get better. It'll take a while but you will. Just don't let the fact that she cheated on you be the reason. You either want to be with her or you don't

Bro. No contact, its hard but its the best way. Went through pretty much the same thing, still kinds fucked 8 months later but trust me you dont wanna be with a slut like that. You will find better, you just dont know when. I'm still single.

>>736829247
Watch some hardcore bdsm punishment videos, learn from the them. Then make her completely submissive to you. Only way you can keep a bitch on a leash.

>>736841696
I'll try not to think about it, all on what I will focus on is the fact she wont do it ever again, I will act in such way she wont look on another guy with lust anymore by being perfect to her. I'll hit the gym and start being positive about life too

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>>736829247
>>736840672
>>736829247

You must be young. This is something every oldfag has been through. It hurts. It suuuuuuuuucks. Your mind plays tricks on you.


Walk away. The next one is ALWAYS better than the previous one(s). After my first ltr break up, I too asked myself the same questions. All my doubts were cast aside the minute I healed and loved again.

Been in love-filled long-term relationships 5 times. Going on 6. Each was different and better than the last. You won't even compare them like that. Trust me.

Time heals all.

Slay that pussy when you've healed from this.
You'll never move forward if you keep looking back.

>>736831040
Tits or gtfo

Tell her you want to fuck one of her friends or you will leave her

>>736842441
>Tell her you want to fuck one of her friends or you will leave her
Bumping for "equality".
Not even a friend, some random chick she'll never get to meet.

>>736842164
Why do you think that will work? Have you asked her why she cheated? If you don't know why then you don't know what's wrong. People break up over many things but breaking up over cheating is just bs, there's always an underlying issue that's usually never tackled as people prefer to run away than to question why. Also, if you're going to hit the gym and try to be perfect, you gotta do it for yourself and not to impress anyone else. It just won't work otherwise. #1 rule about being single at times like this is to get comfortable being who you are and do what you want and not be who you think other people want you to be.

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>>736842198
Saved man. I'm going through something similar to OP and this helped a lot.

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>>736842630
to be perfect is to be flavless. So the reason why she cheated before will be completely irrelevant. I will be so good to her that I'll accept even black guys if she will bring them to my home. If it will by on my eyes and consent that will not be considered cheating and she will love me more

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>>736829247
Stop being a faggot and dump that cunt.

blowmeuptom.com

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>>736842164

Dude, if you are really OP then you're fucked. When you forgive her and eventually end up marrying her. You'll come home early as a surprise and walk in on her on your second anniversary and Jamal and Tyrone are spit roasting her. I want you to remember that pervert asshole that posted all those cuck pics and realize I was right, and you are now the cuck.

>>736831272
Cuckity cuck cuck cuck

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>>736837121
>>736829247

this.
listen to this anon, op.

/thread

>>736829247

There's only three things that are 0 tolerance for me.

1) Snooping though my cellphone, texts, pictures, social media, etc. It shows there's no trust and if there's no trust, then there's no relationship. The minute she goes through your shit, that relationship is already over.

2) Cheating. Pretty self-explanatory. The best feeling ever is to show some cheating ex how much better you can do, and go out there and get an even higher caliber gf.

3) Won't do anal. Who the fuck... Just no dude, no...

>>736843758
why would she do such things behind my back (risking relationship by cheating) if she could do all those things with my consent and presence?
you can't be a cuck if you know about your girl intercouses beforehand