>>736434953 Meh I dated a chick who was fucking insane. I'm talking tried to throw herself out of my car while doing 45 mph insane.
HOWEVER. I did pretty much what ever I wanted to do with her sexually. Fisted her, anal, ass to mouth, throat fucked. Filmed a good bit of it too. The whole 9 yards. Had her talked into a 3 way but never got to it since I dumped her.
The sex was awesome, would do it again if I weren't married.
Anon, I only hope you are not talking about my ex. Listen to this advice, although we all know you won't: don't do it. You are asking because the girl is hot or appealing in some other sexual way, otherwise you wouldn't even picture dating her, and at some point your lust will make decisions for you
>>736434953 I've done some things that cause of this I wasn't able to sleep in nights. I really want to kill myself a lot of times. I have nothing in life. I just want to end it all, I really don't know why I'm alive. A lot of times in my head in public places I think how i would kill all of those people are around me and I start laughing so so so hard. I think someday I will do something to someone. I also wish that someday someone hit me on the face cause I would be able to smash him hit him destroy all her face into the ground as a " self defense " also I thinked to kill all my family before. I never hurt someone I never argue nothing clearly I never argue my bully enemies also i never cried on a funeral weathever if that was or no family, while all my family screaming me "OH MY GOSH CAN YOU JUST CRY PLEASE!!!". I just want to hurt a lot of people before I die .
Listen to me /b/ro. I married crazy. Pussy runs out. Crazy never does. Even after a divorce, she didn't go away, bee-yatch kept coming back with all her problems and bool sheet. Finally, she went nuts at work and her mama had to put her in an institution. That was years ago and she still crazy. Quit coming after me since I moved far, far away. Pussy aint worth the long term hassles.
Yeah, once i've been with a chick whose dad was sick so she was always emotionally unstable af. Chances are that if the girl or boy is in a difficult time in life, things will end up badly, as they did in my case. She cheated right in front of me at a party and started crying right after. Stay away from crazy girls or guys.
>>736434953 Every woman is fucking crazy,thats how a woman is. You will alllways have good times and times when a single stupid fucking comment or action will trigger an unreasonable monster that you need to handle in order to keep the relationship and that is a fucking bother. But again thats woman, in exchange for that we fuck them, get their blowjobs and eat their cooks.
Perhaps just make sure that the level of crazyness does not imply suicide/killing you at some point in that case get the fcuk out, but otherwise I think you should not put that into the equation for deciding whether to get into the relationship or not.
I dont have a huge experience, but i can say out of 8-10 more or less serious relationships I had all of them involved the girl being fucking crazy at timess, different stuff and personalities but you dont avoid it.
Currently in a "relationship " with one. Best head and great in bed. I like selling her a dream of settling down and raising a family but I do it just to see how far I can push her. I like seeing her cry and how long she can ghost me before running back. First chick I ever got to cut herself. Don t know why but I derive enjoyment from her misery. But yeah, don't breed, just enjoy.
>>736434953 It's like rolling the dice. You might get that crazy chick that can realize it's just sex, be the most wild and fun pussy you've ever had and be fuck buddies from then on... or the fuckin lunatic that blows up your cell, stalks you, tries to get to know your friends and stalk and follow you through them once you boot her psychotic ass.
Worst case scenario for me, was she started fucking one of my friends and turned him against me. Then when he realized she was nuts, she came after me with a knife. Restraining order filed and she broke it once even.
>be a junior in high school, just transferred to new school >get put into the same german class as this fatass blonde weeb >annoying but her tits are huge though and she's loose enough to let me touch em >ask her out, she says yes >start going to her house after school, meet her family >they're poor but they're really nice, have me over every day. >over the course of a year, I become a part of a family that's not my own. >feeling is indescribable. genuinely start to love these people >the girl, however... not so much >shes more of a weeb than I thought she was. >katana collection >pocket knife collection >vidya gremlin >disgusting room and even grosser eating/cleaning habits >never cuts her nails and refers to them as "claws" >we wrestle sometimes because I get to feel her up while we do, but she starts to bite me >tell her to stop, but she does it more and more often. gets off on me fighting back and telling her no >leaves huge ass hickeys, bite marks, scars all over my face and chest that I can't explain to my parents or teachers >starts to actually punch me, kick me in the balls, etc >get fed up and threaten to break it off if she doesn't stop that shit. >goes ballistic >locks herself in the bathroom, screaming and crying as her mom tries to get her out >her moms boyfriend and I chill in the front room until she comes out >dude is cool. knows that is gfs daughter is an annoying bitch >when she finally comes out, she locks the door to her room >cruddy lock, easily able to get in with my ID card >shes sitting alone in the dark as I try to talk to her >as I manage to cheer her up, her mom calls me out in to the hallway >hey, anon? can you come out here, please? I need to have a word with you." >shrug, go out to see what she wants. >gets in my face and says; >"you know I could kill you if I wanted to, right?"
Nodded, went back into the room, broke up with gf and went home. Don't do crazy, anon. It's never worth it.
>>736434953 It's a mixed bag. Last one I was with lasted 7 months. She was fine when she took her meds, but utterly incapable of functioning as a person otherwise. She'd get near to the end of her meds, and not get a refill, spend the next week freaking out over everything, break down constantly, and cry over everything until I convinced her to get her refill. The sex was great of course, but because she was crazy and fucking hot, I had to put up with everyone trying to get with her, her friends, my friends, any place she worked. The moment she put her FB status to single her phone basically exploded, every person came out of the woodworks to give her the sympathy line and try to get with her. Even before that it was a constant fight of having to get her off her fucking phone when we were out doing shit together.
Dated a Bi-Polar chick for 2 years. She was hot, but an ex-drug abuser as well. Was pretty great for like 6 months, then she let her more crazier half show more and more. Would be completely angry over nothing. Would always complain about her family, then rage out that I didn't console her, or react, in the way she thought I should. Would always say I owe her money for X reasons. Would barely sleep and see shadow people. Would never get off of instagram, and constantly fantasize about becoming an Instagram Model, or personality. would say that I beat her, and try to make me own up to it -to which I would say, "you're a crazy fucking bitch." and ignore her, so she would threaten to leave. Never would get a job.
The list goes on and on. One day she just disappeared on me and started spreading to everyone that I was some abusive, horrible dude. It made me feel shitty at first, but it's actually extremely relieving. Now I'm with a girl that is in College, and doesn't have any mental issues (aside from general womanly stuff)
It depends really if you are searching for real bitter sweet love and drama than a crazy chick is perfect for ya. Crazy love (grills with borderline, anxiety and shit like that) if fully developed is a roller coaster of the highest emotions out there. im talking about: way beyond your best mdma trip. Its a state where death doesnt matter, just fullfilling the other ones needs and getting that high love spike. If you want to bond for life than go ahead and be warned. If you just want to fuck up another life, see how she cuts herself infront of you and texts you at 3 am that shes standing on a building and will jump in a sec. That well do it too for the giggles if youre tough enough
I am just some anon guy what can i even tell you to do?
>>736434953 I was in a relationship with a borderline girl from 4chan for a couple of years. Sex was really good and frequent. I had the best orgasms of my life with her and haven't had any nearly as good since. We also had all of our retarded nerdy interests in common so spending time together during the honeymoon phase was a blast.
She cheated on me more than once, left permanent damage all around my home, flirted with my friends, refused to meet my family, kept me away from my friends, refused to lift a finger around the house, wasted tons of money, was a loud and obnoxious radical anti-male SJW and proud bitch.
Overall I still gained from the experience. I was a depressed thirsty virgin before and now I don't care about sex or women anymore and I'm enjoying life by myself. If I had known what I know now I would have never ever gotten into that mess though.
DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT FUCK IT DONT DO IT JUST TRUST A BRO
100% true story, i dont give a fuck not greentexting its not meant to jack off just the fucking truth
I dated a borderline personality girl for about a fucking year, AMAZING sex, fucking crazy in bed, and hot as fuck (Pic related)
As soon as i crossed her in any fucking way, she would build up inside and at some point exploded, but i didnt see it she just did stupid stuff like mix my sugar with my salt, break my phono needle, fucking sucking a dude she knew just to get back at me because i forgot to call her or something.
At some point she told me she would like to suck dicks off craigslist for a little side money??? Wtf she came from a rich family, she is rich and im doing pretty fucking good too.
>>736434953 No relationships with them if you have anything they want. Hell I'm only 19 but family has money. Once I told her we should stop talking. Next night. She's saying that she's Prego. I got mad and she got a test. False. BESIDES I NEVER CAME BITCH
When I was 26 I started banging a Filipina chick who had JUST turned 18 and graduated high school. She moved into my apartment pretty quickly and would wear nothing but her high school gym shorts with the football team mascot on them to bed. She was a black belt and had the body to go along with it.
At first things were OK but they quickly got weird. Then semi-violent. She started accusing me of things that were absolutely paranoid and bizarre. Her mood would be all over the place. I finally kicked her out.
Then a year later I found out she had been homeless afterward until hwr family found her and put her in a hospital. I saw her again and she was saying that she had met God and aliens would talk to her.
Too bad. The sex was so hot. But ultimately... not worth it.
>>736438666 A very high percentage of women in real life have emotional and mental issues to some extent that stem from childhood abuse or early introduction to sex. Getting molested or experiencing sex at a young age messes women up for life and it happens a lot more frequently than you would think. The most common types of crazy you run into in the wild are actually extremely egocentric and desensitized to romance and sex. Attractive yet clingy and virginal women don't exist in real life because they either get diddled and automatically grow into turbosluts or they are spared and get engaged to Chad right out of highschool.
Girls with borderline actually experience emotions very intensely so they "fall in love" fast and can appear very empathic. They can make you feel amazing because of how into you they are and how strong they come on, but it's all selfish on their part. They only care about their own feelings and just want as much attention and validation as possible but they don't care where it comes from. Quantity over quality. They don't respect you as a person and your opinions or feelings have no value to them. When I was dating my ex, whenever we went somewhere together she would constantly talk about her previous boyfriends and how she did the same thing before with them. She would even go into detail about the sex she had with other guys. At one point, she just flat out hooked up with a guy from okcupid while we were still dating. She casually told me about it like it was nothing.
If you want fiercely loyal, you actually want a sane girl with common sense and real empathy and kindness.
23 now, there was this chick who has been messaging me for 3 straight months every 2 or so days with messages "hi", "how are you", "are you doing fine", yada yada. One day randomly i brought that shit during a convo i had with a friend on facebook and he said "yeah dude, go for it, whats the worst that could happen" and hoo boy was i wrong, let me green test what happend next my dudes >chat with her regularly >notice something was off about her >tell her yo im into you too gurl >she starts spamming that shy face on facebook (bleh!) some time passes by >start hamming up romanic shit >shes really into it >tell her "yo i want you to b my gurl" >ask her to meet up (jesus) at the bus station, and heres what i saw >4'5 feet, she could pass as a 12 year old in height >nappy curly hair >crazy eyes >clothes obviously from 10 years ago (o jesus what have i done) >go out on a date >doesnt mutter a word, kinda twerling her hair and laughing randomly as i talk >go to her place (because i dont want to fuck up) >kiss passionately >have sex multiple times (yikes!) next morning >get 40 texts (not kidding) a day from her >"i want to marry you and have babies with you" >get creeped out >ignore her for a couple of days >she starts texting people from my tagged pictures on facebook, asking me if im dead or something >tell them to fuck her off >next day >she doxes my parents >sent like 23 messages to my parents >my parents dont know what is going on, havent seen them in 2 years this was april, still trying to get her off me
trust me crazy is not something you want, believe me
Don't. Especially if they're borderline. Not trying to offend, but the at the heart of the disorder is developmental arrest, lack of being able to truely love and compassion. They're dependant on drama and do whatever it takes to ruin their own situations, accepting no fault.
I fell in love with one, became engaged and moved to Houston six months ago to live with her. I gave her all the energy and love I had, and helped her through a lot. But it turns out she cheated on me, and didn't stop or care about it until I proposed to her. To her she did nothing wrong, and I'm the awful one became I left the same day I found out, and didn't fight.
It's not worth the trouble. Don't become their toy. They're not your problem, and the only one that can do anything in their lives is them. Don't waste your compassion, don't invest in someone too self absorbed with their own issues to love you, because to a borderline, it's just four letter word that distracts them from the emptiness and neverending, crushing feeling of being defective. But no one ever believes the warnings, I know I didn't.
But I will tell ya how to deal with crazy. Treat her like shit. Make sure she's always below you in every way. Never ever give her the upper hand in anything. If she wants fucked don't do it. She fucks when you want to. Get her to open doors for ya and stuff.
>>736435091 This is still treading dangerous waters. I tried it once, told her multiple times that we're only fwb buy she kept wanting more ad to be the center of my attention. She's not in my life anymore
Yep, same here. I used to see threads like this when I was a 25 yo kissless virgin and think to myself "these guys are just shallow and picky, I'd love a mentally ill gf forever and never give up on her"
Now I'm 3 years into the relationship and I just want out. She has cheated on me more than once but I didn't want to end it because I was stubborn to see it through and I like my inlaws and her friends a lot. Now that we live together I'm a constantly exhausted doormat. We still have great sex every night but I've lost contact with my parents who I used to see weekly, my friends have all but given up on me. I haven't played any video games in months. All I do is work, come home to a dump, fix dinner, clean, have sex and sleep. Meanwhile she keeps e-cucking me and draining my money but somehow she managed to keep me believing that she loves me.
I'm working up the courage to have the break-up talk now. I can't wait till my life settles down again. 18 year old me would have never believed what a pathetic cuck I grew up to be. At least it's been a learning experience.
>>736434953 Have crazy exwife Cost me 10 good years of my life and had to start over from nothing because of her Cost me half my sanity Ruined my career, went from being an engineer to working a deadend job
Pump and dump, sure. But never fall into the relationship trap with crazy chicks. They will lure you in with the hottest sex you've ever had but it's never worth it in the end. They are always more trouble than they're worth.
>>736449425 I'm so sorry for you brother. I would say the best option is to leave as soon as possible, delete and block. To try to talk with her would just be to feed her even more. She'll make more false promises, make you feel guilty and defective. Leave a note wishing them the best and know that you did an exceptional job.(But learn to respect yourself more) Your good will was wasted, and although they didn't deserve a lot of it, you did a good job. Know that, accept the pain that'll come and keep your life busy after a day or two of drinking. There are people who care about you, without twisted desires past the norm. And there are others that will love you from their hearts, not their plague.
NOOOOO anon. NO! BAD ANON!! >date friend >had mental problems >depression, anxiety etc. >oh well i know how to deal with her and help her calm down >she regurlarly abused me physically and verbally >couldn't do anything bc she literally gave herself a black eye and said if i say anything shell pin it on me >literally feared for my life >also threatened to kill herself if i left her >"im not goind down alone" she said >only way we broke up is because she tried kill herself and ended in a mental hospital DONT DO IT YOU FUCKIMG DUMB SHIT, women can get away with so much more. And they are patient. Theh will wait till you sleep, till you let yoir guard down. They will wait months if necessary. DONT DO IT
When i was 20 i met a girl which 3 months into dating suggested a trip only the two of us, she started flirting in front of me with some dude (i forgave her at the time because she told me she had cancer and was going to die in one year [months later she told me she did that because she wanted to look cool or some other insecurity-based bullshit]). She often mixed up things like "you don't answer me in time - then i go out and get passed out in some random 'friend' house". She left me, roughly, 50 times. Talking back to me a few hours after she said she'll never talk to me again (she left me for stupid shit like not letting she cut my hair or not wanting to get engaged at 4 months into the relationship [at this time i was still thinking i was a fucking cuck back from the trip thing, still hoping she'd had some explanation]).
She was bulimic, she once pretender to have killed herself the first time i attempted to leave her (when i finally put all the pieces together and found out she wasn't going to die of cancer and told her). She gave me an apology about lying about dying of cancer 4 fucking months later.
6 months in she started to say that if i saw my friends she'll stop talking to me. And reaching the end of the relationship (18 months) she went out a full weekend with her friends, from friday to sunday. By that time i was just fed up, asked her for an explanation, obviously didn't got more than excuses and shittalk about how sometimes i want to do my things and not be with her, not even a fucking apology for not letting me see my friends in a whole year. I blocked every way of communication with her and that was it.
Again it's not worth it. Those people don't recognize you as an equal. You won't get their respect. There whores will fuck your head and if you come back they'll act like nothing happened. They'll avoid ANY form of responsability over their acts, infurating you until the point of no return.
>>736434953 not worth it bro. I spent 7ish years with a crazy chick and it almost killed me literally. cheating and screaming are always on the edge of your mind. It's fucked up my ability to function in a normal relationship. On teh upside, I got to do ALL of my seriously fucked up sexual things to her. Holy SHIT it was depraved, but still not worth it. I left her so many times but always got sucked back in. Only escaped because she moved thank fuck
>>736440729 A borderline girl led me on, I literally fell for her, she was a ten in my books, has so much in common but I don't think she ever wanted anything to do with me in a serous way, shit fucked me up, especially seen her flirt with a friend right infront of me.
Do it but don't invest yourself if she's crazy she will likely cheat or fuck you up somehow so if you get into the relationship not giving a fuck, then you can get all the sex you need, when she leaves or whatever it doesn't bother you
>>736434953 The sex is good. But the headache and heartache that comes with dating a crazy chick ain't worth it, at least in my experience. My ex, whenever we argued, would ignore me for weeks at a time. Then I'd go on IG and see that she was going out to parties and getting shit faced. For me, it was a cycle of spending time with her and fucking her for about two weeks, then we'd argue over some stupid shit she started, then I wouldn't see her for a week or so and she'd be out partying. Then after awhile, she'd text me saying she wanted to see me. And the whole cycle started over again. Not worth it.
if you're not crazy yourself to the same degree it'll never work unless she's actively trying to get help and is mature enough to see her craziness.
I'm a borderline dude and I spent a good while dating nothing but crazy chicks because I felt like no normal girl would put up with me. The stress of my own bullshit on top of another persons was too much, I don't know how many times I nearly pummeled half of my ex's to death because they'd try to endlessly up the ante to get me to prove how much I wanted them. I ended up meeting this quiet little nerd girl in a cafe and have been with her for like 4 years now, she knows i'm borderline and she works through it with me, never abandons me, and I try my best to do right by her.
don't date crazy unless you purposely want the excitement, they aren't all bad people, but if they seem immature, it's not gonna work.
I don't regret ending my first and only relationship. When I get horny I really miss pussy but my life has gotten a dozen times better in every other area. Probably not going to seek out another relationship any time soon
>>736453038 I've noticed they either love drugged out band looking dudes or hyper masculine buff looking guys. if you can pull either off, youre probably set. I was always comically aggressive any time I could tell a chick was a crazy one. like just straight up telling her to come to a bar with me level of aggressive. They're always weirdly submissive at first.
I know that's not as helpful as it seems, but it always seems to be a mutual attraction of some kind, crazy seems to attract crazy for some reason.
>>736434953 old(as in age)fag here, no. Your life will be completely derailed and you can't imagine the amount of destruction a crazy person can cause in your life. Don't even bother with depressed women if you care about your career or finances.
Fuck that. Not worth it. Beat your meat and move on. Imagine the worst fucking crazy bitch and X10. I'm with one right now she will latch on to you and suck the life force out of your soul. You try to leave and she will threaten your job, family, friends and all you hold dear. Not worth anon
Idk jaja this sounds insane. I had a guy stalk me though but i never stalked a guy before and after break ups i move on. Ive seen women key guys cars though or attacking them in public but i never tried any of that. And yes some small comments do piss me off but if i told my bf the same thing he gets mad too so i dont think all girls are crazy
Recently moved in with new roommates, this is my story:
>Hung out with my trans friend (male to female) since jr high >2/10 >no attraction >hang out with her because she's the only person in my area who's good at melee >real grills are bad at videogames >doubles >practice buddy >good shit >she gets a gf >stops talking to me >ok fine >would message her and be left on read >never meet new gf >she from Idaho so not even in the same state so they're not even seeing IRL >Only see pictures of this APM stealing succubi on facebook via shitposting groups we both mod >lookatthisfuckinthot.jpg >also 2/10 >ugly people beget ugly people >never get a reply out of her >when I do she bails on me to talk to her gf on the phone >no more doubles >no more practice buddy >passion dies
>fast forward few months >need to find a new place to live >old house keeps getting wasps >fucking wasps all the fucking time >beta af >i can't fight wasps >landlord won't do shit >need to move >message trans friend >"Hey, you need a roommate?" >find out bitch gf has moved in from idaho >oh fuck >but its a REALLY nice CHEAP apartment in downtown >close to where I work >decide "fuck it" >after signing the lease they pull me aside and tell me gf has Borderline personality disorder >ohfuckohfuckohfuck >2 days after moving in gf declares love for me >wtf
>>736434953 Don't I've made that decision twice it fucking sucks just broke up with the second one she has tried to kill herself and now is in the metal hospital same as the one before now the first one is dating my used to be best friend and is cheating on him with another one of our friends she also cheated on me multiple times sex was amazing with both they really wanted to do a lot just fuck them and don't look back
>Turn her down >my 6/10 looks too good for this fuckin thot >has a "split" >in borderline this means she goes from "normal human being" to "torture the neighbors cat". >walks out of her room 2 hours later with hella cuts everywhere >this woman is 27 >ignore her >friend works one week on one week off and her on week is 70 hours >fast forward a few days >still in the middle of her work week >me and gf still alone in house most of the day >get home from work >exhausted >try to nap >she has the fucking worst cackle-filled laugh of all time >sounds legit like a fucking witch cackle >it pierces every corner of the apartment >stfu >keep it to myself and struggle to sleep through it >don't want to end up a murder victim >One day >bring random chick home >go to my room >gettin my dick sucked >mid suck the cackling starts >girl stops >wtfwasthat.jpg
Sorry, writing this as I go seeing as most of this one happened a few hours ago
>tell her it's my roommate >girl shrugs it off >luckily cackling doesn't continue >fuck her raw >bust inside >she's her own kind of crazy >another story for another day >afterwards cuddle and nap >insert cackling >Try to sleep through it again >girl is pissed >message gf over facebook >"Stop laughing so loud please" >Insert split >replies "fuck off" >hear doors slam >she leaves out the front door >friend isnt there >fuck >I can't just do nothing >do nothing >girl I brought home is concerned >tell her it's fine >not fine >comes back in 10-15 minutes later >HOLDING A FUCKING TREE SHE BUSTS DOWN MY DOOR >outside of my apartment they planted partially grown trees >she had fucking ripped one out of the ground and brought it inside >I'm naked >girl is naked >angry fat girl is breaking down my door with a fuCKING TREE IN HAND >Throws the fucking tree at me >everyone is screaming >she leaves out the front again >hasn't come home since >friend asked me wtf happened >Been pleading with her to get rid of this psycho bitch for hours >other girl is still fucking sobbing
Don't put your dick in crazy anon. I have a few crazy bitch stories of my own but none of them have been as crazy as this chick
>>736454624 - blew some dude she met a few weeks before in a bar because i didn't have time to call her for a few days, had lots of job to do and when the day was over i wanted to relax, not deal with her shit.
Next thing i know i get a txt roughly translating to : Would have been you if you were here followed by this pic
>>736434953 Fuck. I was engaged to a chick who came from a broken home. She lived with me for a year before we broke up. Then she stalked me for months before breaking into my home and attacking my neighbor who was visiting. She's a total fucking headcase who now lives in and out of low income apartments/homeless shelters and has like a half dozen kids with different fathers, all of whom were seized by the state. Fucking cunt. Worst time of my life. If I'd married her before she flipped her shit and revealed her true colors I probably would have killed myself.
>>736464113 The best thing to do is fuck her and leave... I've seen this work for only one person so far >>736437848 other than him, I'm not going to do it. Normal relationships are good, and why would I fuck some crazy bitch when I could date someone level headed and still good-looking?
Broke up with a girl who was on drugs. 24 Hours later my car was covered in keymarks my tires we flat, my dog was very sick. Even if it wasn't that girl it means she has a friend or family member 100% nuts.
This relates to me but I'm not seeing any advice on a situation too close to mine.
Flirting with the idea of getting into a relationship with a "crazy" girl. Not a girl who has a tendency or two, but a clinically diagnosed manic-depressant who's on some pretty solid anti-psychotics. Purse is half full of anti-psych scripts and anti-anxiety meds.
She's aware she has some shit. She manages it. She's self-admitted "crazy." Something about that is attractive as hell. Just that type of self awareness. I've been with vapid girls who's hobbies don't extend past "I like my hair to look good." A girl with a story is typically more developed. More mature.
In our time hanging out, she hasn't done anything that has made me worry she's dangerous. We're both in college. We haven;t fucked, but I feel like that's where it's going. I'm 22, she's 20.
Here's the issue: She's actually pretty amazing. We are both majoring in the same field. She's fucking brilliant. Makes me look like a dunce. She's HILARIOUS. She's fun. She's interesting. She's hot as all hell.
I'm into all of this. Any chance this goes somewhere?
>>736465108 Amending this post. Someone in this thread mentioned "finding a girl with empathy" etc. She has that as well. She avoid inconveniencing other people at all costs. She's just as kind to strangers as family. Not flirtatious with them, but just shows basic human decency and kindness that is beyond believable.
>>736465108 As long as she's in control of herself it should be fine. But if she stops taking meds or forgets that could be worrisome. Also, monitor her relationship to you. If she starts to get too dependant or if she begins to manipulate (won't allow you to see friends or family, blows up about stupid things, holds double standards, wrongly accuses you of cheating) then you're in deep shit.
Dated a fucking crazy bitch for 2 years. Not worth it. She actually used to say "if you keep doing those things you do [by which she referred to life things, like study groups, hobbies and shit] you're gonna meet someone else and leave me" so she wanted to control me.
>>736434953 Define "crazy". Is she actually crazy, or is she just really, really different from you?
Either way it probably means more responsibility and more of a "high maintenance" relationship. You could probably do it, but you had better be really patient.
If you're just doing it to get laid, I'd make that clear. If she's actually crazy, you don't want to fuck her over that hard. She'll turn on you, or maybe herself. Either way, you don't want any of that shit.
>>736434953 Don't do it OP. Two of my friends dated crazy bitches long term, it was sad and hilarious at the same time. Friend 1: Best friend steals girl from his friend after years of best friend flirting with her super hard and her leading him on without any sign of breaking up with her bf. They finally get together. After a few months, friend 1 moved in to her parents' house and she just starts berating the shit out of him over stupid stuff, texts multiple guys constantly, flirts with all his friends (me included). At some points we'd all hang out at her house and she'd go in the bathroom and come out in nothing but lingerie or bikinis. Some of their mutual friends would sometimes come over, 6/10 were guys, and she'd cuddle with them on the bed and shit with friend 1 facing the opposite direction. At some point, one of my friends who's a 6'3" nignog somehow ends up hanging out with all of us, friend 1's gf loses her mind and is all over him. The bitch brings nignog around all the time, without any of the rest of the friends, and is constantly talking to him on the phone and all that. Cont.
>>736465959 At some point they start fucking like every night, friend 1 moved out because he cannot put up with her shit anymore. Friend 1 starts ghosting her, but he hasn't dumped her. She goes insane, shows up at his house, constantly calls him, gets angry and leaves angry voice messages with autistic screeching on every word. He keeps ghosting her, she's super infuriated that friend 1 isn't fucking her, while she's getting railed by nignog every night, and also getting railed by several of our acquaintances. Friend 1 knows she's getting railed on the regular, and one day nignog's girlfriend tells friend 1 that nignog is fucking the brains out of his girl. He calls her, breaks up with her super calmly, I hear nothing but screeching, he hangs up, and we go get drunk. Friend 1 tells me that he knew she was being a slut, and kept letting it happen so that he could dump her and not feel guilty. Basically cucked himself. Before resorting to the cucking he attempted to dump her numerous times, but failed because she would emotionally break down, or angrily attack him and all this other shit. She's like 4'10" and friend 1 is like 6' and nearly 300 pounds. That little midget broke friend 1's head. He's completely different now. They were together for about a year and a half.
>>736465726 You get a free pass. Hanging out is a pretty common term. Talking after classes. We went to a concert together. We went longboarding (she's actually better than me). We hang out. Does anyone give a shit about context on that? We hang out. That's basically all the info you could need on that subject.
>>736465108 My mom is a nurse practitioner in mental health. I also just finished a 2-year IT job at a health clinic recently, where we had some mental health specialists. Also also, I just recently got out of a relationship with someone who was on antidepressants.
I hate to sound like a white-knight "famlad" or whatever the fuck kids say now, but hear me out. She probably has a pretty fucked time in relationships. She probably gets toyed with emotionally by dudes who decide she's cool enough for a few fucks and a pretend relationship, and then dump her after a while because she's too emotional at times or has off-days more often than most. I mean shit, you're asking this question on /b/ and most dudes on HERE are even telling you she's not worth it.
So that in mind, I'd honestly say only go for it if you're confident in your own patience and ability to understand. My lady and I dated for about a year, and I can honestly say it was the best relationship of my life. Her diagnosis gave her a level of empathy that most will never have.
You know this girl better than us. If you're serious about her in a way beyond sex, I would advise not rushing things. You need to be around her on some of her worse days. It's a noble idea to be her emotional punching bag if she just has really moody days. But you don't need to sacrifice your love life for an abusive relationship. So try it out and see which it is.
I even think it's totally acceptable for you to talk to her about this. You deserve to know what you're getting involved with. It's okay to ask about her experience in relationships with her diagnosis. If she is insulted or doesn't want to tell you, then she's not being open and honest enough for a serious relationship anyway.
>Be friend 2, 19 yr old anon >anon meets 9/10 blonde >Exchange numbers >Turns out they have mutual friends >Texting turns into dating >She's a waitress >Blonde never lets anon see his friends >Anon eventually moves in with blonde at her parents' >Blonde answers his phone when I call >Blonde never lets anon go out except for work >Anon is only allowed to talk to 4 friends >Anon and blonde have insane sex >Blonde hates when anon talks to her mom >Anon drifts away from family and friends >Anon wakes up with knife to his neck because lesbian friend said hi to anon over phone >Anon attempts to leave, get into heated argument instead >Blonde threatens to suicide >Anon takes it back >They continue their relationship >Arguments over small things get super heated >Anon is now afraid to ever disagree with blonde >Anon executes nofuxgiven.bat >anon leaves despite Blonde's crazy scene >blonde calls anon's friends crying looking for him >No one tells, anon is screening calls also >Anon goes into 4 month party/alcohol/drug binge >Gets over blonde >Blonde gives booty call >Anon accepts >Blonde smells anon's dick before sex >Wants to know if he fucked other women >No communication after >Year later blonde marries Chad who looks like anon's lost sibling >Blonde forbids all her friends and family from talking to anyone who may be acquainted with anon.
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