Who do you have a crush on/feelings for, Anon? Go on, be honest

This amazingly sweet girl I met through mutuals. She funny, kind, flirty, watches anime and plays games with me all the time.

I'm crushing hard but I am way too shy, even though I think she likes me too

Gave up after I accidently dated a tranny, so no-one.

>>735253975
My cousin but she's in love with someone else so I just don't give a shit anymore.

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Honestly, nobody. Whenever I'm not in the privacy of my home, I do not have any sexual thoughts of women, even ones that I would consider hot. I feel empty.

>>735255379
Feel ya there anon, I really hope it's not permanent.

No one. They are all dead to me.

>>735253975
A woman who likes other richer/intelligent men, but it's cool, I hope you make a move on the ounce a week gig

>>735253975
She must have a shit work ethic to get one day a week

>>735253975

well my recent crush outright ignored my feeble attempts at texting so im not chasing anything atm

>>735255378
murrica in one post

>>735255497
redpilled

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>>735253975
I'm a fag for crushing on some Italian dude.
But it won't happen, slowly it's getting a bit easier moving on at least.

>>735255696
this feel

>>735253975
She's cute and nice but she's a sonicfag deviant-artist I don't think she's a furrie though but what are the changes she might be crazy/too weird?

>>735255606
She probably has multiple jobs

I met this girl, and after like a week of knowing her I just she was the one. I was overwhelmed with emotion and we immediately clicked so well I felt like I'd always known her.

15 years later, we're married and still very much in love.

There's always a "but" though. In this case, it's that I despise her family, in particular her mom who is a horrible, horrible person who even now 15 years later tries to break us up and tells my wife that I'm not good enough for her daughter.

I wish my wife would just stop trying to make us into this integrated family that loves each other because it just isn't going to happen. I wish death upon them at this point.. There's no foundation to build on.

My wife thinks that if we just don't give up and keep trying....ugh. I'm getting myself mad just thinking about it.

>>735255161

I believe man, at least try to take her on a real date.

>>735256051
>what are the changes she might be crazy/too weird?
9:1 odds

>>735256123

I can understand this, i'd say for her suck up any meetings she wants and be the bigger man at the end of the day. It's something precious to her, and if you are able to stomach it, she'll love you forever.

>>735253975
I am a 19yo beta virgin with a shitton of money. I never kissed nor had any remarkable contacts to woman. And even if I liked somebody there would be zero chance. I waste my life with work and 4chan. My existence is a sad excuse for a well educated human being.

>>735256928

You need to stop with that thinking and get out there and actively talk to others, it's completely doable, I didn't have a gf/sex till I was 21 because of similar reasons, I just decided I was done with feeling alone and started widening my circles, you can do it.

Don't have any social life outside of work, so honestly just have feelings for one girl that works in my department but she's definitely not into me.

>>735253975
My wife. She's the greatest!

>>735256180
Would it be worth it? Is the don't stick your dick in crazy expression just a meme or a real thing?

>>735257184
I've stuck my dick in seven women, and it turns out I'm attracted to crazy. Every one has ended in some weird ass, nonsensical way, and has hurt me.

The term don't stick you dick in crazy isn't a rule, it's a warning. Be more observant and careful if you catch any whiff of crazy, act accordingly

same crush over 4 years, now is just an obsession. kill me please

>>735257073
You're such a fag.
>tfw I've the same answer honestly..

>>735257184

Depends on the crazy, if she gives off subtle vibes of being over reactive to things, or maybe being quick to get violent or angry, i'd keep your distance. My roomy brought home a crazy once. Pretty sure she was still using meth at the time but she never had any on her when we pretty much baby sat her for 2 days till we finally got her to leave. In that time she was stringing between happy go lucky and crying, walked around our house nude most of the time, and tried to sleep with both of us/suck us off. Not sure if he partook but seeing the way she was acting I hastily refused. Gotta know what you don't want pretty much.

>>735257011
I dont feel alone. Its more of unfullfillment of expectations. And besides talking to people wont change my toxic ideology and how much of an asshole I am.

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Mamaruh

>>735257184
/bro, crazy is fun. But, it's with a crazy person. That shit can absolutely have consequences. I've had one stalk me and leave gifts on my car, as well as another trying to drop a tv on my head. You were warned.

>>735257368
What are some negatives I can expect or watch out for? Btw I'm 100% sure she's a virgin if that matters at all

>>735257789

Try using it to your advantage, i'm an asshole myself, but I play it off with witty jokes that mask it. You sound like you're expecting the worst, really you can't go in thinking that.

>>735257870
The first thing you mentioned sounds like it will be kinda cute but I can see how it can turn scary. This girl just seems to be a bit weird but I don't mind that but there's the chance she turns out be crazy once I get to know her more. This is is what I'm dealing with
>>735256051
>>735257990

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this is probably super fucking autistic but I'll say it anyways

there's a super cute person who posts in the drawthreads here named eva, idk if it's a dude or a chick but I love their work and mannerisms
i have a real crush

>>735258154
I am not a jokes guy. I write computer code most people wouldnt even comprehend while writing books in university professor vocabular. Expectations dont change facts.

>>735257990
Means you're still young, so go for it. Nothing like learning it firsthand, I always think. Do be careful to use a rubber every time, and try not to get terribly attached. They're all just lovely (or not) pages in your book, friend

I had a crush on a wonderful woman named Ellie. She had a rad open heart surgery scar going down her chest. Easily the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Was suppose to take her to a local show a while back but dropped it because the way I figure it, I'm gonna kill myself anyway. And even if I wasn't, I genuinely don't see myself as a good person and wouldn't dare wanna hurt her.

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>>735258810
sorry to break your heart but pic related

>>735253975
no one, I've tried to have crushes before but it always feels forced

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>>735259151

Ah, well, it would be wouldn't it

still a fan of his work, though. seems like a cool dude

>>735258652
Well, I dunno about all the sonicfag and deviant-art stuff, I'm normie and mostly come here to laugh at people...no offense, for once. That being said, when I was young (35 oldfag) sailor moon was huge, and my stalker girl loved to pretend she was sailor moon and wrote fanfics. I was all 'ok neat, w/e', she was hot so why not smile and say ok...

My mistake was not appreciating that I felt not in sync, and not being honest. I tried to be the nice guy; I should have been honest even if it hurt her feelings, same with tv-on-the-head girl. If I'd been honest, it'd been better, even if they weren't happy for a moment.

Tl:dr have fun, and be honest. There's lotsa fish, and she'll get over it if you want to quit. Do not string a girl along...that shit is always a mess. Or be me and learn the hard way.

>>735258924
thx for the advice anon

>>735258906

If you just shoot down plausible ways to keep your mentality then you're setting yourself up for your own unfulfillness. Widen your general topics of conversation then. Just because I study math and computer engineering doesn't mean it's the only thing I have to say. You need to be willing to open yourself up to other things and emotions, you sound like you're trying to bottle yourself away.

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>>735259465
there are plenty of real qt3.14 girls who are single and draw, they just never post in draw threads

no one on 4chan is a girl

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>>735259700
>checked

also yeah I figured. both of my last girlfriends were artists. I gotta stop falling for them, quite a lot of them are not very mentally stable.

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>>735253975
I've had the same irrational attraction to this one girl since high school. After 4 years, even coming to terms with the fact that I don't like her personality hasn't erased the years of obsession. It's starting to get in the way of viable relationships.

Confessed my feelings to her the day before she left to live in Japan for 18 months. Working hard now so I can be a man who is worthy of her affections when she returns. I miss her though

>>735259500
>pretending to be sailor moon and fanfics
That wouldn't have bothered me unless it led to very cringy moments in public but anyway thanks for the advice that's exactly what I needed to hear.

>>735259571
Listen I talk about many things its just the fact that I dont change for anybody or anything. I am a rationalist with no acceptance for idiocy.

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no one anymore; my last crush got increasingly touchy with me, held my hand, locked arms with me, sat on my lap, and pressed her tits up against me constantly... then made a fast move on my friend

hard to get away from sluts, y'know

>>735253975
I have only had a serious crush on one girl back in high school. She was beautiful, funny, and had a lot of the same interests as me. I was too much of a pussy to ask her out and eventually she moved to a different school and we stopped talking. Since then I haven't had a crush on any woman. I still find women attractive but I am just not interested in a relationship.

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>>735255228
Top Kek

Coworker.
I feel like I've lost a whole year with this embarrassing secret obsession. I've never been the type to fixate so it weirds me out.

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I've only had a single crush in my whole life and that was when I was 12. I've never been in a relationship but I also have not felt like I would like to get in one with anyone I've met since. Is this usual for males, not having crushes?

>>735260303

Idiocy is surface level living of people, I agree that you shouldn't put yourself into a situation with those kinds of people either, when you are trying to connect with another you're looking more at a one on one and trying to see if a personality and ideology of a person are something in them you truly enjoy. Unfortunately you are changing every day that goes by, that's life. If you can't embrace positive day by day change you're just going to stay stuck in a stagnate life of everlasting disappointment because you deny constant change.

Hell I don't even know if it's change, I take each day like a lesson, and ponder what I was able to learn about myself for that day. I look for new things that i've gained and know that there are somethings that haven't (Such as the populous idiocy). I've been doing this for a year and have felt better about how I am evolving as a person and it's begun to make others that I communicate with that do articulate proper thought and understandings of life see me as a better and more positive person. If you want to shell away the world because of the normalcy of idiocy you're free to do so, but you're just going to be sheltered and alone.

>>735260857
Ok I guess its usual after reading this
>>735260629

How to get rid of oneitis?

>>735255161

just ask her out

Met this girl back in Junior year of high school.
I'm 22 now, she's 20.
I've talked to her many times we've been very close friends. But shit never works out

At first i had feelings for her, but she was dating a guy back then,(massive asshole. I told her that he was but she didn't believe me, then he hit her and she got out of that relationship real fast)

When she got out of that relationship she had feelings for me that she was finally going to persue.... but i was in a relationship.

recently,i re-established contact with her. We've got pretty much the same mental issues going on, and we're finally both single. But she's in Florida and i never moved.


Every time i see her pictures on social media, or talk to her. I can't get over it. Don't think i ever will.

>>735260948
I'm in the same situation so that's three now in this thread

>>735260303
>rationalist
>no acceptance for idiocy
>"I play 728d chess no one can understand me hurr durr"

>browses /b/

>>735253975
My best friend. Hes nerdy, cute, blonde, funny, and not as much of a dick as he thinks he is.

Too bad hes straight.

>>735253975
I'm still in love with my 22 year old, ill ex-girlfriend who left em a month ago. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to make it without her. I think about her all the time, man, even though a prettier girl is already chatting me up.

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Been crushing on this guy for years now. Met him on popular MMO. Taught me how to play the game, helped me level, and was just a really cool guy. Time passes and neither of us still play the game but we talk occasionally. We flirt with each other and soon we started talking, everything was going so well. But as time went on he still refused to talk to me on the phone despite the fact that we talked on skype when we played the game back then. We texted regularly but it wasn't enough for me. I can't read his feelings or emotions...too confusing. I became frustrated. Things ended poorly... I'm to prideful to fix it.

Picture is the last message.

>>735257184
Seriously, dont. My dad got with this woman who was batshit insane. She moved in and started treating him like shit, then she started treating me and my sister like shit. It took like 2-3 years for my dad to finally break up with her and it could not have come any sooner. She was emotionally abusive and i think she may have physically abused my dad. I thought she at least loved her biological children (my half siblings) but then she falsely accused my dad of sexually abusing them, indirectly harming said biological children just because she wanted a way to get back at my dad. Shits crazy i tell you.

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Some girl I just messaged on facebook.. think I met her before cashing my child support check..

>>735261447
lol I have a friend like that, I think he was checking out my ass last time we played pool tho :/?

>I'm not into him at all

>>735261669
YULAVA DUBA DUBA YALLLLLAAAAAAAA

>>735261799
>>735258652
It doesn't seem that she's crazy just kinda weird but due to some her interest I'm preparing for that possibility

>>735261938
You sound like the absolute opposite of me. I cant resist the cute, nerdy type. For some reason ive also got a thing for straight guys, which is some very cruel irony.

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first real crush in a long time.
beautiful Latina chick w green eyes
newish at job, so playing I'm cool, and chatting when we can, getting to slowly know her.
so far the signals seem pretty promising.

Then as well I met this client tonight who is this late 20s half asian white chick, who is undercover smoking! and shy and nice and giggly and shit too.

Fuck I love chicks

I've been engaged for a year but secretly love my best (female) friend who's been married for 2 years and I have a huge boner for her sister too. I also have a thing for my fiancee's lesbian friend and secretly wish shed try and get some dick from me. We're all in our mid 20s.

>>735253975

* 1 girl from HS
* 6 girls from college
* 1 neighbor girl
* 1 coworker girl
* 2 girls employees of my lawyer
* 2 sisters of 2 male coworkers
* at least two dozens female anime characters

full oneitis mode.

will I ever be able to date one of them IRL ?

will I stay kissless hugless virgin for life?

will my BMI get lower than 30?

>>735262189
>latina with green eyes
Sure they aren't contacts? They're usually contacts

I'm in love with someone i met here on /b/'s drawthreads

>>735253975
W-well, y-you see anon, the person that I have a crush on is-is its y-you!

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>>735253975
been crushing hard on this girl from work. Known her now for about 2 years and we both have a lot of mutual interests that we can talk about for very long. She's pretty similar in a lot of ways. Both introverts and we've hung out a couple of times outside of work, went to movies and recently she invited me to her birthday which she hasn't celebrated in years and I was like one of 8 invitees. I -think- she has feelings for me too but I'm too scared to ask and we're both a bit awkward when it comes to stuff like that so it's hard to get a read of the situation. Either that, or she thinks I'm her gay best friend lol

TBH, i just wish i was gay at this point. i fucking hate trying to date women because it feels like all it does is highlight some new shitty part of me. i just wanna find someone i can plow in the ass and cuddle with, i honestly dont give a shit if it has a vagina or not, i can get porn from the internet.

i've been debating getting a fleshlight/onahole or whatever, but its not something i can cuddle with, nor something i'd want to cuddle with.

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>>735266079
This p much. I just want someone to cuddle with as well

>>735266287
would be nice but is hard for me bc i hate being touched

Fuck

>>735266388
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-zJLqOsoCA
jump to 1:10

Close friend of mine gf. Even he has said it's weird how similar we are. Same personality type, similar hobbies, independent liner types. This was only a recent development. She asked to start hanging out with me more and I started to really like her. Realistically she's only about a 6 or 7/10 on a good say, but I always thought she was pretty.

Great personality too. Damn I wish he never introduced her to me. Can't get her out of my head.

>>735253975
A few women I see almost see everyday that I fantasize about raping.

She's beautiful, funny and intelligent and I've been trying to man up and ask her out for the past few days but I keep pussying out.

>>735253975
A few girls in the past, no one ever gave a shit about me though. Now foreveralone basement wizard.

>>735253975
>have fling in high school with a girl
>get along with her really well but she gets into drugs pretty bad
>don't talk for 5 years
>meet back up with her last year
>off the drugs after crazy shit happens cuz of them
>get along even better now
>now she's married so can't advance on her
>fml

>>735253975
After constant rejection the idea of being in a relationship is just unappealing to me. I've literally never had a good experience with a girl. I've kissed a few and got to second base, sure. But I can't look back on those memories with anything but self hatred and cringe. Now I can honestly say I'd prefer to be alone.

>>735256928
>19yo
>wasted my life

kek, OK bud.

>>735253975
My 11yo cousin. Though I think my infatuation with her is caused by realizing her and not really being close to her.

>>735269060
Same, but 30 and even kissless.
Just love could change my mind.

>>735259089
I feel you on that last part. I feel it wouldn't be right of me to let someone fall in love with me due to my radically inconsistent personality. Once the get to know me they'd realize I'm not the person they fell in love with.

i have a crush on my current boyfriend

> went thru some tough petty shit
> almost broke up
> havent seen each other in almost a month
> communication has been steady but very cold
> distance makes the heart grow fonder
> harder building trust from a distance

it makes me feel resentful that he has a lot to worry about to worry about me

>>735269377
I don't think that'd be possible for me. I'm the most boring person you'd ever meet. Chemistry is impossible, let alone love.

>>735269060
>>735269377
>>735269397
>>735269647

Lmao bunch of losers this aint a feels thread. Maybe if you spent less time bathing in self pity and more time meeting women, you'd be happier.

>>735253975
no one, I don't know how to crush on someone

>>735269647
I bet I can be more boring. I offer the same company of a broken radiator.
But hell, if physically there's a small, infinitesimal chance I could pass through a solid wall, why give up on love?

Well,

This one girl i met when I moved to a new city, extremely fun to be around and talk to, was with her once already but we both think it was a little rushed so we had to split and now I'm trying to do what I can to get her attention again.

She said she still cares and all that but I don't think me sitting around and waiting will help shit.

>>735270067
It's good that you still have hope. Hold on to it. For me, hope is pain.

>>735270067
Are you the same guy who said he's 30 and still kissless? Why are you on 4chan right now? If you have hope you should go out and act on it. You wont find love here!

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I have a crush on this fine woman right here

>>735270567
Maybe wait til morning though, people might get the wrong idea

>>735270567
I tried multiple times in the past, I'm so fucked up that when I don't bore girls to death I push them away because afraid of get too close and rejected again. I have some hope left only because I know someone was attracted to me in the past, but I was to stupid to get it.

>>735270605
Eh, she looks pretty two-dimensional to me.

>>735270887
I feel almost the same man. Keep on keeping on.

>>735253975
My best friend who thinks of me as a brother. We've been friends since 8th grade and since 10th grade I've had feelings for her. We're gonna be flatmates in college probably since we're both smart and want to do the same thing.

There's this girl at my local bakery and she's hella cool but her coworker that's always there always starts talking to me so I never get a chance to talk to my crush. I can't really shoo her away without looking like a dick but I don't really want to continue talking with just her because she might get the wrong idea(that I like her)

I just asked her out but didn't get a straight answer back.
What does it mean /b/ros?

>>735272250
You better start now before you hear her in her room with somebody else. You reallllyyyy don't want to go through that