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Hi /b/ I feel bad, I am 22 years old and married to my husband

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Hi /b/

I feel bad, I am 22 years old and married to my husband who I love, only to be overwhelmed by the feelings of wanting other people.

I know I'm probably going to get called a slut, but I need to ask.. is this normal? You ever get these feelings? We have been married 3 years. I cheated on him once and I feel like a bitch for doing it.

Ok, I'm here because I've always had mental health problems, I was bullied and Craig is the only guy I've ever had sex with... Well other than that guy.

I just feel like i wanted stability in my life and he took care of me. But at the same time, I feel like I'm missing out. I sort of get horny and want new adventures but I feel selfish.

Craig is oblivious, but I do love him but I feel like this is something I want to do. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't want to split up because he is the only guy I wanna be with romantically and if he knew this he wouldn't want to be with me.

I'm so confused, do you suggest I split up with him or whatever?

Pic is me and him.
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>>734030313
Didn't even bother reading this shit, show me some titties or gtfo.
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>>734030313
Jesus Christ , you're a wreck.

Don't cheat you whore.
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>>734030512
This.
You don't deserve it.
End it and don't waste his time or yours.
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>>734030512
I am not a wreck..

I just don't know what to do. Sensible answers please.
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I understand. Ive been with my girl for 2 years and i love her but im bored with the sex. I want to try new weird things but she doesnt. So i get it
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>>734030313
TBH it's pretty normal. Just don't do something that would make you regret it. Would you miss what you have now if it were gone? That's all you should think about. Don't punish someone who doesn't deserve to be punished.
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>>734030685
Now. I'll give you a sensible answer because i am in the same situation but i found i way to cope with it.

First though, tits or gtfo.
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Just flip a coin, whatever you hope it will land on while it's in the air tells you what to do, put him down easy though when you decide to see other people, treat him nice, give him a goodbye blowjob.
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Break with him for him . If you really love him break cause your getting more pain and then your partner too.
Sorry 4 my bad english
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This is a troll thread but.

Don't be a fucking pussy. If you want to fuck other people, get a no contest divorce. It's cheap, and you'll thank yourself later.
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The mistake you made is marriage. I bet now you feel forced into it and feel confined so you want different people subconsciously knowing you cannot have them
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ok as i see no one as being helpful, i'll step in. first of all, i absolutely understand where you're coming from and this is definitely a tough situation. definitely do not cheat on him, that really hurts a man although you already know this seeing as you said you have done it before.

it's really a choice you have to make between the romantic relationship with your husband or sex? which is more important to you?

there is no correct answer, and do NOT feel bad about yourself for whichever one you choose. just don't cheat on the guy. if you decide sex is more important, talk it over with him and end your relationship in a civilized, respectful and understanding manner.
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>>734030313
actually if you get his consent there is a relationship where you can have another partner (polymorphic relationship) hope it helps, if not then ask him if he wouldnt mind a thresom every now and then :)
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Idk why ppl get into marrige if not fully confident that they will be fully loyal and if that is what they want. Also if u are more into polygamy idk what the fuck are u doing with a husband
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>>734030313
tits with timestamp or GTFO
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>>734030313
You're 22. If you're already married, you're an idiot. All I have to say is you had this coming for marrying someone at 19
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>>734030313
Just leave him you selfish cunt. He's a good man and it's not right that he should have to be with you a shit woman.
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not you, also sage
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Just get a divorce. You're not being fair at all so just let him move on with his life and you yours.
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>>734031030
Yep
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>>734030701
So, I sort of feel this void in my life and there's not much we can do?

>>734030731
That's the thing, I tried to split up with him once shortly after cheating and I broke down so bad, that I asked him back the next day and he told me if I ever pulled that shit again we're done. I really do love him, it's just I need to know if cheating on him is the right thing.
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lmao coming to /b/ for relationship advice and not posting nudes come on u know the rules
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>>734030313
Ill fuck the shit out of you and I wont say a thing to Craig.
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>>734031080
This
>pic says James
>post days Craig
Hmmm really activated my almonds
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>>734030313
Typical. You found a guy who treats you right and you cheat and sleep around behind his back.

You are a bitch.
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>>734031152
Wow, you're fucking awful. Of coarse it isn't right you selfish cunt.
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>>734030313
You are an idiot for getting married so early. Literally as a teenager. That's what is coming back to bite you now.

Don't fucking cheat. If you cannot not cheat then
1. You are a bitch, seriously what the fuck?
2. You should split up before you wreck both of your lives.
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>>734030313
Fucking slut. Split up with him before you hurt the guy. Show me your snatch and tits while you're at it like the good whore you are.
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>>734031238
Im scared of /b/ okay, I used a fake name because I don't want people to find my profile. I forgot I named that pic. I wish I could delete that filename.
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>>734031001

this desu
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>>734030313
tits, timestamp and sharpie in pooper or gtfo. No free advice here.
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>>734030313
You see? That's the problem, you got married very young and you didn't have the time to live new experiences with other people.
Kids these days, shaking my fucking dick.
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>>734030313
Dumb slut. Marrying at 19 yrs old? Come on now lmao.
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>>734031478
> But he is the love of my life!
Said every teenager ever.
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You idiots. Replying to this dumb bitch w/o timestamp? I'm out. By the way you're a slut OP.
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>>734030313
Don't get what's so hard
Just talk to him about it, he is your fucking husband after all...
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>>734030511
Well done brother, well said.
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>>734030835
That's the thing I can't.. I love him too much.

>>734030866
You ever had depression, I found happiness and I wanted to grasp it and make sure it never went away and now I feel like I'm trapped... But also not.

>>734030916
I'd say they're just as important as each other. My depression is sort of coming back making me moody, why is cheating so bad when it keeps everyone happy? I mean, why is it such a bad thing?

>>734030938
That's actually really helpful... But how do I bring this up without offending him?
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i would recomend you a swinger club
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>>734031865
>everyone
Everyone but your bf. Quit your bullshit and leave the man at peace
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>>734030972
Because I didn't know what I wanted, I only started getting these sexual feelings after I lost my virginity like my libido went up. I don't know why it's so hard to understand the concept of marriage.

Also... .i am not selfish, I am sorry okay I'm trying to make things right.
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>>734032118
Copy that
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OP u ve been discovered. but it does not matter. its normal for women to dream of life whenever they had the freedom. But u could not handle the the unsafetey, so this is where you are at.. Feel free to do whatever u want. its ur life.
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>>734030313
just leave him
you're only making his life worse
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Most likely bullshit troll, but in the off chance you are legit, I hope he's at least had several opportunities to pelt your face with semen. It's also a good bet he rubs his ham candle while thinking of other women. Your thoughts are not exclusive, but your self-absorbed cunty nature won't let you believe otherwise. In any event, your life is doomed and nothing will ever turn out the way you imagined with your Barbie dolls and EZ Bake.
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>>734030313
>I am 22 years old and married
That right there is your problem. You are too young and have chosen to ignore your biological urges and try to live by Disney-level BS about love conquering all. Newsflash, humans are NOT monogamous, no ape species is and we are apes and, no, love doesn't conquer shit, you will still have your biological urges and they will make your life a living hell if you try to repress them and pretend they don't exist. Specially at such a young age when your hormones and your body is full ready for reproduction and has extra energy for sex, getting married or into stable relationships is more than dumb. That's why divorce rates are so high among people who marry young while they drop dramatically among people who marry in or after their 30s since you basically already dealt with all your urges and you can now settle down with a peace of mind knowing you already enjoyed your sexual liberation. So my suggestion is that you talk to your husband and convince him to have an open marriage using scientific facts as to why it will be better in the long wrong.
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Damn girl you'd make a good cum dumpster. Ever considered doing porn?
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>>734030313
Ok OP. I'm going to tell you like it is as a sensible answer.. Craig is not the right guy for you. What you did was completely wrong, and you can't change the past. So we can only work with what we know within the moment right now. Here's what you need to do. Cut Craig loose. You may love him and have strong feelings for him, but it sounds like he is not the right guy for you. When you meet the right guy, you won't desire other people. Trust me on that. It's because the other person completes you. Craig does not complete you. In fact, he is lacking something in a partner that you need subconsciously, and you may not even be able to figure out what it is exactly because it's an abstract feeling. Please OP, let him go. I know it's going to be sad. You both deserve somebody else, and if you continue the relationship, I fear that it may only go downhill from this point forward. Oh, and always remember that cheating is never the right thing to do. Don't ever do it again. You're not only hurting him deeply, but you're hurting yourself too if you really think about it. I hope this helps.
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No. Timestamp first. Then we'll talk
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>>734030313
Pic is you and Craig huh?

And james.jpg? Who's that?

How goddamn dumb do you think we are you retarded faggot?

I hope you get raped by meth-crazed Somalis.
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>>734032649
Refer to

>>734031403
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>>734030313
Do him and every good man a favour and leave him. He deserves far far better than this. You're giving into temptation. Now hurry up and leave him, fulfill your desires by having the worst sex of your life with strangers and then beg for him back while he takes a true lady into his life.

Also tits or gtfo, you know the rules.
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>>734032533
Don't listen to this, this is BS. There's not such thing as "the right guy" or "the right girl". There is the right guy or girl for a moment or a time during your life but everything wears out, including relationships. The moment we start living in the real world and stop trying to think reality works like a fairy tale is when we can avoid many unnecessary suffering. So what if a person was everything for you at one point but not anymore? You still lived amazing moments with that person and will remember them so why not accept that things, including feelings change, and that people need to move on to different things like contexts or other people? Just grow the fuck up.
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Cheating is never ok. Would like you like it if he fucked the cute blonde he knows?

If you want to fuck other people then break up first so he can go fuck other people or so he can find real wife material and live a truly happy life.
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>>734032705
Lies lies and more lies.

You're scared of being found out so you change the filename of a PHOTOGRAPH?

If you don't realize how fucking pointlessly retarded this attempt at trolling is I change my mind; I don't just want you to get raped by meth-crazed Somalis, I want them to also sell you into the underground snuff trade after smashing out all your teeth.
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>>734030313
You need to get weird with your husband but slowly. Try new shit so that you are constantly sexually engaged. slowly introduce him to kinkier and kinkier acts. Then start having threesomes, swinging etc. Be sexually liberated together. If he isn't into it and you still feel bored you need to leave.
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>>734032965
Nobody cares, especially me if you believe me or not...

I was just telling you as it is. I am not trolling.... I named the pic James ages ago on my desktop and forgot to change it to Craig and didn't notice . What does it matter? You're probably a teenager who thinks 911 was a conspiracy.
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>>734032906
wrong, there are "right" people out there for everyone, and even as feelings change, nobody is willing to work on their relationship anymore, which is why relationships fail these days... nobody sticks together anymore and its truly sad
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WHY THE FUCK DO YOU STUPID FUCKS GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS THEN FUCKING CHEAT. ITS NOT LOVE ITS CALLED LUST THEN YOU RETARDS. For fuck sakes you guys are morons. If you truly fucking loved someone you wouldn't cheat on them. You all dont deserve to be in a relationship. Kill yourselves please. Its ridiculous already.

>craig treats me so well, he cared for me

>he is so perfect

>time to cheat on him

Please off yourself you complete fucking selfish bitch.
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>>734033160
You are one stupid faggot.
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id fuck craig in the ass and make you watch, whore
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>>734033293
I'm upset now, wanna see my tits?

It's Samantha.halliwell at Gm ail
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>>734030313
TITS OR FUCK OFF YOU NIGGER BITCH
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>>734032533
I agree with this post. Especially the part where anon said "Craig is lacking something"... leave Craig and let him meet a girl who he deserves and she deserves him... you will meet a guy in the same way too
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>>734033186
I second this
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>>734030313
You're being a typical selfish American who needs to grow the fuck up and take responsibility. Stop treating your husband like garbage.
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>>734030313
You got merried too early. You should live first. So fuck around, enjoy and take care that you don't get cached.
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>>734030313
Why the fuck would you marry someone in your 20's the fuck did you expect you dumb cunt you deserve theese feelings
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>>734033184
BS. There's no person in the world that can give you everything you need. That's a fairytale mentality. You will always need others to really live a fulfilling live maybe not this year but probably next or in a decade. Marrying a persona and thinking that person will supply all your needs for the rest of your live is like having spaghetti for food for the rest of your life without eating anything else. Sure it will keep you alive but, even if spaghetti was your favorite dish, you will always need other types of food to really enjoy and develop your tasting potential and to be, overall, healthy. So fuck off with your Disney-based theories.
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Lame. You tried to get the name "Craig" as close as you could to "Chad" without spoiling the troll. Right Becky?
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>>734030313
You got married at 22, thats your problem. Its called settling down for a reason.
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>>734033511
>>734033528
>>734033584
>>734033186

/thread
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>>734030313
I'm engaged. It's normal people will tell you otherwise because they never experienced it. Can't go through life eating big macs everyday. One day your gonna want to the try the whopper. Or Dave's hot and juicy never frozen beef.

Also tits or gtfo
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>>734030313
>james.png
>Craig is the only guy I've ever had sex with

Get the names right at least next time.
Sage
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>>734031001
No that's when your supposed to get married but we live in a time of the death of the adult.
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>>734033601
wrong, we aren't talking about spaghetti, were talking about a fucking human being... it takes hard work and effort to stick together, and people do change, but that isn't enough to break an unbreakable bond between two people who truly love each other... like my grandparents... and I don't believe in Disney-theories. I go off of something that I have seen evidence for that I know exists... and yup, this is reality, not a fairytale
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>>734030313
>I split up with him or whatever?
Whatever? You should have been more confident in your decision to get married. Either suck it up, talk to him about it or do some dumb shit you'll regret which would result in splitting up. Which would be an absolute waste of time, especially with the divorce papers.
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Thank you. You've reminded me that I dodged a bullet and didn't marry a whore. Close one though.
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You just can't get rid of stupid bitches on /b/.
Nobody cares, kys OP. Sage.
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since you only ever had sex with one guy your puss wants something different, so you cheated, when one is horny they cna do weird things but hte moment they come, they feel bad, its a human trait..now that you know that you will feel bad after you cheated on with your husband, DON' o it again...once is OK, twice makes you a whore, 3times makes you a SLUT.
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>>734030313
There's an option of going on a short break and understanding yourself. You can always break up but coming back together is a different story. When I was reading your text, there were too many "but"s which tells me you are quite lost. Live alone, without him - understand whether you can do it or not. Maybe if you try what you desire so much - you will get over it after a few times. You never know until you try.
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>>734030313
You're a piece of shit. Kill yourself.
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can anyone track down this girl?
and ruin her life if possible
WE CAN DO IT 4CHAN
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>>734034135
This.
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>>734030313
Yes, it's normal. By today's standards, 22 is very young to be married, and wanting to play the field and get more experience is understandable. It might very well be something you regret if you don't do it. Not saying you need to, you have to make your own choice. It also might be the kind of thing that destroys the relationship later on down the road as that desire you ignored comes back undeniably, and then it's even a bigger deal than it would be now.
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>>734033981
You can love someone forever. As a human finding you need to satisfy your own desires is normal. Shameless fun sex with a woman or man shouldn't be frowned upon. It satisfies that desire that's been eating at you. What's better going through life not full filling desire or holding your self back
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>>734030313
>Hey, /b/. This guy I keep on stalking on social has a lovely woman by his side and I'm feeling distraught because I'm a homo faggot and I am so desperate to jerk off to whatever shit you guys want to say about the girl or him because I secretly wish I was either of them!

Go back whence you came, degenerate.
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Would you anyway show your titts to us?
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>>734034296
>By today's standards, 22 is very young to be married

Buy todays lack of standards, rampant degeneracy and perpetual adolescence yes.
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Currently running an image match scan across facebook and a few other sites, once I find the source of the image I'll be sending your husband screenshots of this thread. Enjoy, you little slut.

TBH I'd tear your little ass up as you're pretty hot, but gotta back a bro on this one.
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HUSBAND???

TITS OR GTFO you disgusting piece of shit.
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>>734030313
ITT someone jealous of Craig is posting as his wife out of beta frustration, and most of 4chan who replies is too fucking stupid to see that
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Fakeandgay
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I wasknow reading almost everything posted in this thread, and I assume youre stuck on choosing what you want

your husband or sex?


why not both? tell your husband you have other sexual desires and let him do that, ask for threesome or whatever, have a sexual adventure with your husband
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>>734030685
chick, you just didn't want to hear that answer, that doesn't make it less sensible.
that dude is right, how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot
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What has 4chan become? Why are we starting to accept women who don´t show tits?
Why is the TITS OR GTFO rule ignored so often nowadays?
Has feminism beaten 4chan?
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>>734030313
Your husband is pretty, any nudes of him?
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who the fuck writes this shit seriously how fucking retarded are some of the people on this site
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>>734034668
>how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot

Implying that whores have empathy.
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>>734030313

You want to know if you really feel remorse?

Give him legally viable evidence that you cheated on him and give him the option to divorce your bitch ass without losing half his shit.

If he does it, you've only gotten what you deserve.

If he doesn't, then you've got a guy who really cares about you.

If you don't give it to him then you're just a whore and bitch - but you don't feel bad about it. You just want attention.

Either way kill yourself.
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>>734030685
Don't do it you could get some of them STDs or pregnant with someone else's child and become more of a wreck you aren't missing out on anything
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>>734030835
Hello, Brazil.
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>>734030313
>TITS

>OR

>GET

>THE

>FUCK

>OUT

Also, break up with him and let him get with someone who'll actually love him properly without feeling the need to stuff her hole with other men's cock (which selfishly endangers him due to STDs and the like.
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>>734034807
damn, you got me there
whores don't have empathy.
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>>734034865
Soooo fucking much this!!
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>>734032509
>getting into stable relationships is more than dumb
hahaha
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You huge fucking retarded faggots. If you cant see this is bait just jab some fucking utensils in your eyes because you are useless trash.
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>>734034346
Ok then, forget marriages and bf-gf relationships and let's just all run around like bucks and does and fuck each other. Sounds like you belong with the chimps in the jungles of Madagascar. There's a reason why people pair-bond for life dude. But I do agree that it isn't for everyone, and it's blatantly obvious that you are one of those people.
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>EVERYFUCKINGBODY ITT
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>>734030313
You seem really dumb desu.
Your story makes me angry because you make Craig out to be a nice guy.
Keep your shit in your pants, and live with your life decisions.
The sensible thing would have been to marry someone when you were ready, which you clearly didn't as evidenced by the fact that you've already cheated on him and want to do it again.
In my opinion you deserve the train wreck that is inevitably coming to fuck up your entire relationship either way.
Good luck.
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You autists continued to post your retarded comments without a timestamp? I wish some oldfags could have regulated you all before giving OP so much attention.
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>>734030313
>gets married age 19

Probably your first problem right there. Go ahead and dump him. Destroy yet another honest and great man. Go right ahead. Who cares?

Might as well be selfish in life. Take the one blessing you have and completely fuck it up so you can fulfill sexual needs. That's human nature, after all.

I say to you femanon, to go ahead and do it faggot.

You won't be the first or last.
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>>734030313
Just talk to him about it, you can be in love and fuck other people, too much stigma attached to swinging, need to separate your sexual lives from your relationship, it's not for everyone, but it would make you both happier, im speaking from experience
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>>734035088
>Posting in a bait thread
Sage goes in all fields, fuck face.
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>>734030313

You're right, we are going to call you a slot. You're a useless fucking whore. And honestly, he needs to get rid of you since your total trash.
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>>734031152
>it's just I need to know if cheating on him is the right thing.

It's not, You know it, you're looking for someone to tell you other wise so you feel less crapy about it.
But cheating on him is not acceptable.
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>>734030313
So his name is Craig but the pic says James?

Kys
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>>734030685
You got married too young. Divorce him, you'll be happier and grow and learn from the experience. /thread
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OP is a fucking cunt. That is not you and your boyfriend. You're a fat fucking whale in real life and we all know this. Tits and time stamp or get the fuck out
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>>734030916
You're a fucking faggot.
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>>734030685
that is a sensible answer you fucking faggot, stick to your decisions
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>>734036710
>le oldfag army

Been there forever, tits or gtfo was never really a thing.
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>>734030313
You are a fucking whore. kill yourself so he doesn't have to deal with your bitch ass
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>>734030313
Same pic same bullshit copy/paste

kys OP sage in all fields
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Why the fuck d'you get married at 19? you dumb bitch. should've fucked around and lived a little more, now he's going to find out and leave you, and all you'll do is fall in a circle where you girgle on cocks every other day.
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>>734030313
KYS fucking cheating cunt.
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>>734037935
>acting like tits or gtfo wasnt a thing
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>>734031865
>why is it such a bad thing?
Spoken like someone who has never been cheated on. Skets like you should hang
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Fake there are no more tits here
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>The beta-ass faggots in this thread telling someone to stay in a relationship they're unhappy with

I hope you all get cheated on for being such selfish twats
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>>734030685
>/b/
>sensible answers
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>>734030313
Picture file name says James, you claim hubby's name is Craig. Obvious bait.

But grill is pretty cute, post more pics of her for anon....
Sage
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>>734038207
She should definitely break up with him, but she is the selfish one here for not being decisive. If she wants other people she should be willing to leave him behind but she won't. She just wants him there as a safety net, because humans fear rejection.
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>>734030313
You will have a "good life". :-)
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>>734030313
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Tits or GTFO
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ITT: Autistic betas who are easily baited and don't read the thread
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>>734038430
You're a fucking idiot
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>>734030313
I think it's time you talked to him and then go from there. There is a strong possibility that you'll lose him, but in the long run that might be best for both of you. I do think you may have married too young and this is the consequence of that. I suggest you talk and consider a trial separation and possibly a complete break.
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Cheating fucking whore. Kill yourself
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Even if this wasn't bait, any woman who comes to an imgboard full of misogynist virgins who do not belong in society for "advice" about relationships is a fucking cretin.
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>>734030313
>wanting other people.
You are a terrible person, be truthful with him in the divorce.
>is this normal?
No it is not, you chose the wrong man to marry and there is no other possibility other than it ending badly and you screaming at him because "HE IS THE BAD GUY" due to your own failure.
>I've always had mental health problems
YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN MARRIED, all it does is punish him with your mental illness.
>but I feel selfish.
You are selfish.
Start seeing a psychiatrist, and gradually be less affectionate, until you present divorce papers and reveal you're under psychiatric care.
Fast solution is suicide. NOT homicide or murder-suicide, HE DID NOTHING WRONG.
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>>734030313
>is this normal? You ever get these feelings? We have been married 3 years.
There is literally an entire film about it you dumb skank, which includes one of the most iconic cinema moments of all time. Of course its normal.

>I sort of get horny and want new adventures but I feel selfish.
well at least you have the self awareness to realise it'd be selfish to cheat. I know its setting a pretty low bar but you'd surprised how many women don't even get that far.

You know what you do about it? EXERCISE SELF CONTROL, JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. Jeesus. It's not rocket science.

If things are getting boring in the bedroom try getting some handcuffs or something. I promise you, if you leave him you'll enjoy a few months of exhilaration as you fuck everything that moves and enjoy they attention. Then the crushing loneliness will set in and you'll realise how incredibly shallow that all is, and that you destroyed your one chance at true love. (If you do go with that option, post updates on /b/. I love watching dumb cunts crash and burn.)
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tits and timestamps or fuck off slut
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>>734030313
You're basically gonna be with him for the rest of your life. Unless you choose to end it. That's what you get for marrying. Yanno, how are you communicating wise? Why not talk to him? It might be hard, but sure the least painful way of dealing with it.
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You took a vow. Fucking live with it.
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>>734030313
I knew girls like you in high school. You always had those brown kids who were a little more sophisticated than the rest of their age peers flirting with you all the time. They all went into trades, and some of them were married with two kids when they were 19. I don't know where I'm going with this except to say that I'm glad I was white and my parents were middle class. Nice eyebrows, too, you fucking minority.
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>he is the only guy I wanna be with romantically

Translation: he is your free ride to an easy life and you don't want to lose that ATM.

Kill yourself OP
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>>734031865
stop being such a selfish cunt and get mental help.
Also, tell the guy everything and let him go.

You're only doing al lthis for yourself, and that's wrong, regardless of what twisted logic you will try to apply to it.
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>>734030313
You aren't a terrible person unless you married him knowing these things. If you did that then yes, you are manipulative and a bad person.

If you realized these things after marriage then you realized you are unhappy in your marriage and should end it if you want to be honest with yourself and your husband.

Cheating on him was def a shitty thing to do and that honestly does make you a bad person. It breaks down trust, it shows how little you care for someone, and it proves you are selfish and don't care enough about your partner to take their feelings into consideration.

Being bullied is a terrible excuse and so is blaming it on mental health problems. I was bullied severely mentally and physically, have mental health issues, but I made a choice to never treat people like how I was treated very early on in my life.

With that being said, you can become a better person but you need to reflect on your actions and habbits. It would probably be a good idea to see a mental health specialist and also have them help you on being a better person if that's what you want.

TLDR. In short, yes, your actions have made you a bad person, but you can change and act like a better adult if you want. It's all up to you.
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No Tits.

fuck you all.
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>open thread
>tl;dr
>scroll down
>no tits
>wat
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>>734031248
this is an underrated answer
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>>734030313
Can you post a pic of your panties? Specifically the inside crotch with that white stuff on it
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>>734030313
who the fuck marries at 19? who the fuck marries in 2017? WHO THE FUCK MARRIES IN THE 21ST CENTURY
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>>734031248
/threads

and this is why you don't get married. if you get married you assume your destiny as a cuck.
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>>734033391
Trap?
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Sage. Not even a timestamp and 4chin fell for dis. sad.
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You don't deserve him. You don't deserve anybody. You deserve to be on your own for the rest of your pathetic days.
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>>734030313

listen up bitch. everyone in relationships finds other people attractive. everyone gets horny and fantasizes about other people. including craig. but craig has the decency and loyalty not to act on his impulses, out of respect for the commitment he made to you.

if you are so weak willed that you choose to cheat and act out your impulses / fantasies, rather than remain loyal to your husband, then you should first of all, end the relationship with him. secondly, you should probably just fucking kill yourself because you are an unfaithful disloyal piece of human filth.

here's how it works for decent human beings: when you make a commitment, aka MARRIAGE, you keep your word, you keep your promise, and you remain faithful to people who you love. if you have cheated one someone, you don't really love them. if you think that feeling your calling love is real love, you're mistaken. you're probably incapable of genuine love, people who truly love someone are FAITHFUL, that is how love works.

so, you're young, and want to fuck a bunch of people.. join the fucking club, that's how we all feel. he WILL find out, he will know eventually, and you WILL be alone. you might jump from one guy to the next and get to fuck plenty of dicks, but eventually, in less than 10 years, you will be past your prime, and then you will be a worth less used up whore that no one will want.

women who choose to be whores and choose not to be faithful when young, end up alone and miserable and that is exactly what they deserve. kill yourself whore, and also TITS OR GTFO!
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>>734043311

^ exactly.
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Just be discrete and don't be with people he knows and whatever he doesn't know, won't hurt him. Keep him ignorant.
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>>734041320
B8 thread. But this
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>>734043721
You're a faggot, if she keeps him in the dark, nothing bad will happen to him, so what is your problem. People have different needs.
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>>734030313
You jumped into this too early. Shouldn't have gotten married at 22. I'm sorry OP, but it's not gonna last. If you were really into this you wouldn't stray and if you two really had a bond and communicated you wouldn't be in this boat. You would've been able to address these feelings.
But then you're both young and immature, and you got hitched at an irresponsibly young age. Odds always were you'd grow apart as you entered adolescence.
Make a clean break and bail.
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>>734031152
>I really do love him
You can love people and not have them.

>I broke down so bad
You're gonna need to specify your condition.
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>>734030313
You're only human, you're going to desire other people. The important thing is if you act on it or not. If he's a cuck go right ahead, if not you need to either be faithful or gtfo and save that guy a lot of trouble down the road.
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>>734030313
yes everybody does, show self control and dont do it. Get off social media.
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>>734044051
She's hot as fuck who is she?
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ITT: Betas who never heard of polyamory
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didnt read past your second sentence and just scrolled through thread and didnt see one pic with tits or timestamp, im out.

you are losing lots of people here OP, next time post tits in the OP if you want people to take you seriously
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Wow
There's a special place in hell for females like you
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>op is gay probably b8 pls kys for being a cheating whore, also hope he browses /b/
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>>734030313
Gr8 b8 m8 whore
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>>734033371
lol a gf from a while ago wanted me to fuck other men and women in front of her. she even went around asking them and managed to convince a few. I turned down the "opportunities" and finally told her to GTFO
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You are all responding to bait. Summer indeed
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>>734030313
all that shit about mental health problems are just excuses. it's normal to have feelings of wanting to try something new, but if you love someone you learn to suppress that. if you can't handle that then you shouldn't be committed to someone because all you're doing is using them.
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literally kill yourself. you're not welcome here and you're a disgrace to your race, people, coubtry, planet, dimension. you are literally the biggest mistake ever. I hope this eats away at you and either gets you caught or with an std. just go die
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>>734030313
cheated before

You're currently in a proces of ruining someones life.

i hope he fucking ends up killing you.
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>>734031001
stfu, meeting people above the age of 25 are most of the time fucking damaged and have been with a hundred people so fuck off with this bullshit. meeting young and growing together is more important.
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Yes it's normal. You need to fuck other guys.
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Wanting other people isn't terrible, acting on it is. You cheated on him, that makes you a terrible and evil human being.
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>>734046264
That's exactly why marrying young is ridiculous.
It's a Disney concept that blows up in the face of reality. It's incredibly naive to think you've got yourself figured out at 19.
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You clearly don't love him if you cheated on him.
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So who's going to find this bitch so we can let her husband know he's married to a dirty whore?
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>>734047098
The fucking thread is b8, you fucking moron
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>>734030313
Larping Faggot!
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>>734047348
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>>734047348
>>734047390
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>>734047348
>>734047390
>>734047435
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Fucking kill yourself you dumb bitch fucking slut
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>>734030313
Tell him you might be poly/ ask if he would be interested in non monagmous romantic relationship
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>>734030313
Fuck you slut.
Youre fucking immature.
I hate women like you.
*girls
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>>734030313
Fcuk these other phaggots. Keep fucking the other guy and keep your man happy too. Learn to be happy.
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>>734031152
Do you fucking hear yourself right now?
Honestly, if you cheated on him once, you don't deserve him, because thats selfish as shit and you should be fucking ashamed. If you love him, then leave him, Because sluts like you don't just cheat once. Get a job as a hooker if you want sex with other men so badly, you disgusting waste of human skin.
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>>734030313

>"Craig"
>femanons don't post on 4chan
>even if this was real she wouldn't use his real name.
>post seems way too broad and genetic in order to get into the average mans fears in a relationship

I'm sensing a very lonely neckbeard who is really jealous this couple is genuinely happy. Prob doesn't help the girl is very attractive.
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>>734050000
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>>734030685
For starters, cover your hair immediately and delete that picture. You whore yourself out everytime you show it in public, you disgusting subhuman.
Second, every time you get such thoughts, you need to get a patch or barbed wire or other portable jagged metal and squeeze it in the center of your palm. If your weak willpower won't save you, severe pain will.
If all else fails, take a drive far out of town to a body of water, rent a boat and go as deep as you can. Then throughly tie a cinderblock around your ankles and jump overboard.
As painful as these alternatives may sound, it is nowhere near the amount of suffering you will face in Tartarus should you not succeed.
Glad I could help.
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>>734030997
This.
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>>734049999
Quads has spoken
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>>734037720
alt. possibility she divorces him and ends up wishing she never had, but can't take back the decision
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>>734030313
It's normal to want other people from time to time, because we're wired to be sexual. Unless by "want" you really mean uncontrollable, entertained lust. Which, by your cheating tells me that's almost certainly the case.

I'm not even trying to be an internet jerk, so I won't call you a slut or tell you to drink bleach. But you are selfish–not for being horny but for wasting this guy's time and cheating on him.

If he's been as good to you as you claim, then I feel sorry for him that it took you this long to figure out you married him chiefly to feel taken care of.

>and if he knew this he wouldn't want to be with me.

If he knew you wanted adventures? If he knew you'd cheated?

Even if those weren't the case, you're already keeping fatal relationship flaws from him. You've said it yourself. I don't like to seed doubt for no reason, but you've given yourself three here. You cheated, you want excitement, he'd want to leave if he knew.

Never forget that it takes more than real love for a person to make a marriage work. At a minimum you should tell him everything.

If you were meant to be so-to-speak, things will work out. Otherwise you're headed for eventual disaster. If you don't already see a way to avoid that, then I think you need to be ready to throw in the towel.

Best of luck with your mental health.
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>>734030972
/Thread
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I feel like someone needs to show Craig this post
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>>734030313
wanting other people is normal. being disgusting whore isnt.
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This bitch is a fucking piece of disgusting shit

Please die
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Well you can still explore together, have you talked about being swigers or having threesomes ? I suggest doing that before diving in for a divorce
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>>734030313
leave this cuck faggot, he'll be the end of you
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Tits or gtfo
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