are you in love? are you pretending to be in love? do you feel

>>732744949
no

Moot.

>>732744949
In love.

>>732744949
Continue, op.

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I'm empty

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>>732744949

>>732744949
I'm feeling something like love for someone. I wonder if I'll ever be convinced it is indeed love.

love isnt real. it's just a chemcial reaction

>>732745539
you aren't real

>>732744949
> yes
> no
> yes
> yes

Being in love is a shitty feeling.

>>732744949
empty and full of love to give

>>732745539
You're a chemical reaction.

>>732744949
>no
>yes
>yes
>meh

>>732744949
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love#Biological_basis

>>732744949

> I was
> no, was real
> yes but that someone never feel same way i did
> absolutely

I'm in love with 2 girls, I'm cheating my gf right now

I don't even know what love is.

>>732746425
what is love

>>732746468
baby don't hurt me

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I hate to break it to you but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed.

>>732746468
I think I know what love is

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>>732746425

For you https://youtu.be/HEXWRTEbj1I

>>732746592
and "hunger" is just a chemical reaction that compels me to eat so I don't die. But food is still delicious.

>>732746592
So do you feel like fucking your family or do you just not love them?

>>732746850
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taste

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>>732746836

This is far superior

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zD71055315c

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>>732746940
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olfaction

Faking love, no idea what it is really. Parents never showed it to me, I'm secretly ded inside.

Only rage and disgust for humanity remains. Consequences are gay...

enjoy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyMS4qJ8NXU

>>732744949
I feel broken, trying to hold myself together with all my strength, not to show the weakness that would destroy me, the death of my mother destroyed me.. it's been 7 years when will this end!

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Yeah I love my girlfriend. She makes me happy. Wildly different personalities though so I hope it lasts. Mainly I can deal with it because she is submissive. However lately she's starting to have certain assertive moments. Going to have to put my foot down if it's going to work out

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>>732744949
I'm pretending to be in love with my current girlfriend.. she is amazing, she really is, but love just isn't for me... All i want is someone i can fuck with, not a life partner.. And i can't even break up with her since we have gone too far, i don't know what I'm doing... Everyday i wake to hoping that she will break up with me (she is easily a 7/10) but she is just too loyal and loving, what am i even doing with my life

>>732744949
I love my girl of 6 months and she loves me but I know it won't last. We're going to different colleges. I already know she isn't trustworthy. I'm with her for the moment being because without her I will be alone and pussyless for a few months (until college starts, I have no friends from highschool).

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>>732747781
That sucks :/
Maybe you can get some college friends

>>732744949
Pretending, but soon I'll let myself become vulnerable aka fall in love

Lol nope.

>>732747459
I fall upon the thorns of life, I bleed

Im pretending because, why not?

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>>732744949
Felt empty for the longest time in my shit marriage...married my HE sweetheart like a giant dildo...15 years later we are FINALLY divorced and so really have VERY DEEP feelings for my current GF... secretary at work we started dating last year before the divorce was final but even though I'm not trying to hop from the frying pan into the fire I think this one is a keeper. Pic related. Side note... probably the only man ever who left his wife for his OLDER secretary kek.

>>732747719
You're a fucking loser and deserve to live a lonely life.

>>732744949
not in love, not pretending, not feeling much for anyone at the time and has been this way for at least 3-4 years.
feel empty, yes.

Are you here to offer me to join a cult?

>>732747490
What happend?

>>732744949
Yes I love my girlfriend

>>732745213
With who?

>>732745739
Pls tell me

>>732749566
Your mom

>>732747719
* I hate people like you that are not grateful but you have your reasons and what you are right now, you're totally fucked. You gotta man up and tell her or you just going be miserable all your live with her dude.

>>732746881
the later.
definitively the later.

first memory of my mom:
pushing a cushion into my face so I shut up. I was 3. Really teaches you how fucking disgusting people can be.

Also, not the previous poster.
I agree with him, tho.

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>>732747719
...until you really break up and start crying like a baby because just now you realize what you had and what you will miss now.
"my life is so bad, what do I do now she is gone, she was the love of my life"
"to want what you dont have" ...do you know that?

seriously fuck you and your stupid lowscum tier brain.
grow up or finally kill yourself.

I'm in love with a girl I know. I've told her how I feel and she feels the same. She's 7 yesrs younger than me but age doesn't seem to bother her. We talk all the time, she's shy and awkward but I think it's cute. We've been on a date which was awesome. We both had a really good time.
But she is in the party phase. I've been there so I totally understand. She came out of a toxic and abusive relationship and enjoys going out with her girlfriends.
I'm always asking her if she's free and she has plans 99% of the time.
I know I'm being an absolute beta but she is so amazing I can't help it. I'd never want her to stop seeing her friends. I just want her to make some time for me but I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a needy creep.

Any advice for a lovesick anon?

>>732747490
If you don't bend, you will break

>>732746850
"delicious" is nothing but the dopamine output you get from it. You are hardwired to enjoy it, since that is the 2nd way how your body hardcodes your psyche to persue your urges.
The first one is uncomfortableness, like hunger and pain.
With a simply reconditioning, you can ignore pain, and instead flood your system with dopamine, so you start enjoying injuring yourself.
A simplified, but practical example are Emos. They get a kick out of cutting, and are away of the pain from it only on a very downscaled extend.

>>732749960
>away
aware.
fix'd

>>732747719
hey ride the train man. Later on, when you'll want to settle down, you'll have you qtpie already.

>>732749960
... eh.
not a native english speaker.
forgive that crap that I hastily just typed up...

>>732749960
I don't think you are getting it. The point is that even if love is a chemical reaction, it is very enjoyable, and it's nice to enjoy life. I was making what's known as an analogy.

Lessee... Yes
No
Yes
No

Got left by my ex who tried to string me along and still kinda does. I left her and went to an entirely different state. Lost weight, work out, and now have several women whom I see regularly. They are aware of each other and enjoy our poly dd/bg lifestyle. I love all three of them in their own way. I finally let myself come to terms with it and stopped wrestling with old feelings over my ex. It was terrible for my girls anyways... They were hurting to see me in pain. I've known that I can love more than one girl for some time, but I just felt the need to be "loyal" to my ex which was stifling. It ruined our relationship.

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>>732750307
What fucking year is it? Go back to the 60's you free love scum.

>>732744949
No
No
No
No
Yes

>>732749934
yes.
accompany her more.
make friends with her girlfriends, and possibly their boyfriends.
either of 4 things will happen:
-she becomes jealous and paranoid that her friends might hit on you, so she stops going out that often entirely on her own.
- you actually enjoy it, and you both have a great time
- you don't actually enjoy it, but do it for the sake of your relationship anyways
- she doesn't want you to come, but goes out anyways: Huge red flag. She might cheat on you this way, usually. Confront her about the reasons why she doesn't want you to come. especially if she had a abusive relationship before, it's not uncommon for women to snap afterwards and become giant sluts to cope with the past.

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>>732750268
Oh, I know.
Doesn't change the fact that you essentially follow a primitive urge, that limits your capacity in judging the situation. Like a starving human would eat poisonous things, a human in love will easily hurt himself with otherwise untrustworthy sluts that will drain his pocket later on.

love is not "wrong".
It's just a urge that you need to recognize and control as such, much like hunger.
In the same way you can get fat by eating to much, you will increase the risk of getting hurt (psychically and economically), if you follow it blindly.

Everything in moderation.

>>732750480
So should I ask her if i can come out with her?
I'm not the one to impose on a good night out. I understand people have boundaries. We aren't dating but I'd love to be.

>>732750689
yes.
ask her.
also, I wasn't aware that you just have a crush on her.
It's entirely possible that she's simply not interested in you. Take the clues and move on, if that's the case.
Else nothing but the friend-zone awaits.

i dont know
no
yes
yes

>>732750418
You have no idea the joy you get from such an arrangement on everyone's part. I want no part of a typical vanilla relationship ever again. The joy and love and devotion involved is beyond a simple explanation from words. The submission of a person to your will lovingly and completely trusting that you will care for her and protect her forms a bond I wish you could feel. Like nothing I've ever experienced.

>>732744949

>no
>no
>no
>yes

>>732750751
>>732750689
and no, just because she tells you she feels the same, that must not necessarily be the case. Often girls will avoid conflict and lie, since they don't want to disappoint / hurt people they value otherwise.
Take the initiative, and see how far she follows trough.

>>732750881
mhm.
Hormones at work, it seems.
We talk again in 20 years, when you are trough enough trouble that derives from such a lifestyle.

>>732750881
>The submission of a person to your will lovingly and completely trusting that you will care for her and protect her forms a bond I wish you could feel.

I know that feeling well, but I am not so insecure that I need to find it amongst multiple partners at the same time. Stability is the spice of life.

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>>732744949
all of the above: yes.
which board did you think you posted this on?

>>732744949
I'm in love.

>>732750897
OK I'll give that a go.
Thanks anon.

>>732746592
>>732749960
>>732750675
"Just because it has been described scientifically it is worthless."

People like you are cancer in real life.

>>732751115
good luck, anon.
Hopefully everything turns out positive.
If not, don't miss the point of no return.
Pull out in time, before you end up in the friend-zone.
The next worthy women will meet you later in your life.

>>732744949
I'm in love with jacking off to anime tits

>>732751177
>it is worthless.
>>732750675
>love is not "wrong"
>Everything in moderation

Your reading/comprehension sucks.

I have seen through the illusion of love after having experienced it a few times. The best thing you can do is to distrust it because it'll lead you to do very regrettable and stupid stuff like getting legally married or having children at a young age (this in case you're a man).

People simply aren't made to stay with the same partner forever. Enjoy it but don't assume it'll last forever. Trust me, you don't want it to.

>>732751018
I will admit that I'm in my thirties, working out and taking prohormones which are boosting my test development by about 260 throughout the day... So I definitely have the stamina and drive to please them thoroughly and still want more. I enjoy it though... I'm also not financially obligated to them. That is something I refuse to do for any woman anymore.

Oh god am I in love OP...
Unrequited love.
We were fwb and honestly good friends and I used to talk to him every day. But when I told him how I felt, he said he only loved me as a friend.

I stopped contact with him because it hurt too much. And now here I am writing about it on /b/ because I just want to be around him...

>>732744949
i'm not sure if i've ever been in love. had a few GFs but i don't think i ever felt what others describe as love.

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>>732751341

I was dating this girl. She was everything I ever wanted. She showed me love, and affection. She didn't cheat on me like the others did. We hung out all the time. We got into the occasional fight, but we always kissed and made up. It was great. I thought everything was going okay. Then out of nowhere, two weeks ago, we're sitting in her mom's car outside of church (She's 17, I'm 20, she's homeschooled and I'm in a boy's home. we're not allowed to have cars here.) and she breaks up with me. I still don't fully understand why. It was straight up out of the blue. Like the day before we were laughing, hugging, kissing, hanging out. We were just happy. Then the next day it just all fell apart. I still love her, man. I'm just having to shove my feelings down because I get kicked out the boys home June 1st and I legit have nowhere to go. I'll be homeless if I can't find a place. This just. All of it hit so fucking hard and fast, man. God, I really want to kill myself. It'd be easier to die than deal with all this bullshit.
fuck me, man.

>>732744949
I'm falling in love, i'm going to have a drink with the girl this afternoon, i hope i won't fuck it up

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I only feel love when I daydream about what love feels like.
I'm a little socially awkward but nothing tragic in the sense.
The main reason ive never kissed a girl is that when I start to work on a girl, I hear through multiple people that she already has a boyfriend.
This has happened 100% of the time and im 19 now.
does it get better? is finding mutual love just luck?

It also hurts that my family and friends all make fun of me for it and theres nothing i can do.
Everyone says that im not really an adult if im a virgin? how do I even respond to this?

>>732751403
>I'm also not financially obligated to them. That is something I refuse to do for any woman anymore.
I take it back.
If you follow trough on that, it might work out until your body starts to become floppy from all the 'roids, kek.
No seriously, good luck with that.

>>732751420
I know that feel.
Luckily it goes away.
Biologically, the (lack of) hormones responsible for this pain go away after 6 months.
Psychologically, it doesn't take much longer than that IF you manage to shape your life around new goals. Else it takes years / possibly forever.

>>732745416
find a mirror
prize apart your cheeks
look for sticker reading diesel or petrol
drink appropriate sauce

>>732751451
Yea, that was my early life.
Then I did trust a girl enough to actually open up.
She wasn't worth it, but it improved the depth of emotions I can recognize. I still have a hard time controlling them, tho.

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>>732751458
I'm sorry, anon. I don't think I can offer you any kind of sincere encouragement that you'll find helpful. Just remember, life is our one great indulgence and death our one great abstenace. I know you're hurting. We're all hurting. But you've only got one shot at this whole existence thing. Don't punch out before your time.

>>732751608
is finding mutual love just luck?
yes.
Keep playing the game, if you eventually want to score the jackpot. And in the meantime, toughen up to endure the many disappointments that are placed randomly along that road.

>>732751458
disregard what >>732751733 just said.
Death is your private decission, so if you're coward enough to run away from the challenge life posseses, and big enough of a prick to fuck up those around you psychologically, I wish a happy flight off of the next building.

Life is tough.
Deal with it.
THEN it actually becomes infinitely rewarding.
Suicidal people piss me off.
Selfish assholes.

>>732746425
>>732746468
I wanna know what love is

>>732751504
good luck m8.
post creepshots later on.

>>732752034
see
>>732746592
have a nice life.

>>732751943
You sure told him, Dad.

>>732752129
kek.
got called "dad" by another pussy a week ago.
maybe I should actually procreate. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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>>732752191

>>732752034
I want you to show me

>>732752129
or...
wait, are you the same pussy that called me dad when he thought I had lectured a girl about having sex, when I actually lectured her on not shifting the blame on the guy she had consensual sex with?

I'm in love with the shape of you...

>no
>no
>no
>yes

>>732751177
I'm with you, just because you understand your feeliings doesn't mean you should disrespect them.
Stoicism as a way of life may have a positive image in our culture but it's about as human as a calculator

>>732751943
nice, m8
I'll just take my years of mental trauma because my mom beat me with extension cords, crobars, starved me, then i went to live with my grandma who abused me, neglected me, tried to kill me, and then having my own sister say I molested her and be charged with 30 years in prison at the age of 15 and have to be ripped away from the only people who actually supported me (i.e. my dad and no one else. legit, everyone in my family has abandoned me) and thrown into a boys home, 500 miles away from my dad where the only thing I ever get here is people looking down on me and talking to me like I'm some sort of fucking idiot and like I don't know any better because I'm in a group home, and be berated for stuff I didn't fucking do and be betrayed by my whole family and just suck it up because life is hard.

>>732752342
so, your reading comprehension sucks as well?

>>732752360
...
and now you know why she broke up.

>>732752360
Relax man. You shouldn't have even replied to his comment. People like that feed off of your attention. Don't invite his bullshit into your sphere.

>>732745539
Combustion isn't real. It's just a chemical reaction.

I feel post-infatuation dependance

>>732752444
nice trips, but I mean it tho.
This bitch blames everyone for his struggels, without realizing that he's free from here on out to write his own story.
But no, he bitches and moans, instead of using the wrongs done to him to wisen up and strife for better.

no ownder that she - or her parents broke this relationship up.
his misantrope attitude would just have dragged her down.

Unless this bitch actually realizes that the last words in his post is precisely what he should do, he's a burden for himself and those emotionally attached to him.
And his ex has realized that.

Unless he decides to be positive about the future, and lest the past rest, he may as well off himself.

>>732745539
Life isnt real, its just a chemical reaction

Fucking stupid retarded fucks trying to act smart

>>732752534
Listen, you know that happiness really boils down to ones ability to access goods and services. From what I can assertain, this dude has differential access to both. I understand why he is upset. Where's the sport in kicking someone who is already down? I get what you mean about the whole "we're masters of our own universe" thing, but how about you toss the kid a lifeline in the form of some advice instead helping him sink faster? You obviously have some insights into life that he might find applicable to what he is going through.

>>732752510

Healthy

>>732752369
I could try to xplain my point of view, but you're obviously too haughty to actually want to understand people. You'd rather prove yourself you're better than others. You're missing the fun of talkiing with strangers

>>732752473
>>732752660
samefag

>>732752689
my honest advice?
He should realize how fucked up he is, that their relationship wouldn't have turned out healthy under any circumstances, and realize - especially if he loves her - that she took the best decision for herself in leaving him.

From here on out he should seek psychologically help, forgive those who wronged him, if not in person, at least within his own mindset, and then strife for improving his life by giving it a purpose.
A economical footing, and distraction via honest work is the best medicine in that case. Once he feels healed up to a point where he can actually focus on the future, he should make first, cautious steps towards pursuing healthy relationships again, including accepting the risk of disappointment, and having developed the mental skill-set to deal with it in the future.

>>732744949
go for the relationship with girl only to see if I am capable to be in something like this. Shes fat but easy to mantain and fun to be with. But no feelings sprout sadly. The worst is she's pretty ''big love'' on her side and soon will have bariatric operation. So I stay with her for a little longer because she's not a bad person and don't have support from anyone else. I think I'm doing this because I'm happy that she show me that I am not a robot.

>>732752754
>You'd rather prove yourself you're better than others. You're missing the fun of talkiing with strangers
nice try at analyzing me, but how about you give this a try
>I could try to xplain my point of view
instead of making baseless assumptions.

>>732752360
I hope you're taking notes>>732752883

I don't know man, maybe. Like I feel like I love her 75% of the time but like 25% I don't. Either because she's being a raging cunt at me or because I think about other girls and feel ashamed because I know she'd be upset.

Honestly it's fucking hard loving someone just enough to feel like shit for wanting to leave them. And her having great kids just makes it that much fucking worse.

I just don't know.

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>>732752850
Stay btfo and mad bucko

>>732752967
Ditch her and strife for better.
perfection isn't achievable, but you can certainly end up better than this.

>>732744949
That piece of art just made me cry.
Its fking beutiful.

>>732752883
I've come to terms with all this shit, and I've searched for psychological help, but none of that shit works.
I've been on antidepressants since I was 6, and I've had counseling and therapy since I was 6, too. I've brushed this off before, but I was supportive towards her all the time and when I was depressed she helped me feel better. This girl choked herself out every time she thought she did something wrong. I still stood by her, though and helped her while helping myself.
Just all this fucking stress and worry that I'll be fucking homeless on June 1st is driving me insane and all this old past shit is just building itself up and up and up and up.
My bullshit ass problem is I don't stand up for myself. That's why my first girlfriend was able to cheat on me and I stayed with her until she got bored of me (I knew she cheated on me) and another one controlled every aspect of my life. Even what I wore all because I was looking for a love that wasn't given to me when I was a kid, and I cower and become so submissive when it comes to affection given to me by another human because it's the one thing I want most in this world. To know that people actually give a flying fuck about me because I've been abandoned all my life. I just need to stop being so submissive and so easily taken advantage of and actually fucking stand up for myself.
I'm severely fucked and I've just let people walk all over me for the past 20 fucking years.

>no
>no
>yes
>yes

life is pain

>>732751458
>I'm 20
"I'm 20 and my life is over..." you are the biggest fag of all time

>>732744949
I only feel emptiness.
But I've come to know that it's not my place to love and be loved.

And that's okay. Because such is my place. I have to be content in My limitations.

I am still in love with the girl I let go six years ago.
She's CLEARLY moved on, but I still love her.
I've had girlfriends in the meantime, but I never gave a shit about them.
They were walking pussies to me (and I believe women are ~ to men)
It's been 6 years /b/
Other bitches HAVE come along.
I can't get over her.

>>732753395
>but none of that shit works.
there is no magic behind it. YOU DECIDE if it works, by following trough on the coping strategies handed to you.

>and all this old past shit is just building itself up and up and up and up.
Because you don't let it go. You allow this anger building up in you, since you still blame your past for your future prospects.

>and I cower and become so submissive when it comes to affection given to me by another human because it's the one thing I want most in this world.
Realize that nothing comes for free. If you want to get loved in this way, express the same love, the same level of caring, the SAME LEVEL OF INITIATIVE.
Nobody needs an adult toddler. MAn the fuck up and take the initiative in your own life, by the methods described above.

>and actually fucking stand up for myself.
exactly.
And you do this the following way:
a) start to flip burgers or pack shit at a store. Bullshit work for enough money that pays your rent. All it takes is walk into the next restaurant / store and apply for this work.
b) search for a flat. You still have 2 weeks to go, and access to the internet. You don't need anything else.
c) once your first check comes in, pay for a therapist, and check for support groups in your area
d) get your mental shit over with, and THEN try to find love again. Until that your only serious goal in life should be to work and pay your rent. This will give you a stable connection with reality, and allow you to perceive it without your victim-goggles on.

Godspeed anon.

>>732751458
Briffault's law
Live and learn
She is teaching you what females are

>>732753859
focus on something else.
work, hobbies, friends, family.
Get a meaning out of something else than love.

Once it gets less obsessive for you, love from other directions will become more valuable to you.

>>732753874
thanks, man.
never thought I'd get help from a fucking anon message board.
But that's what I've gotta do.
Bless you, anon.
May your wisdom transcend you and help others.

>>732744949
I think I am, but I don't know

>>732753980
smart enough to avoid a mental case, obviously.

I'm in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, but I don't think I'll ever find anyone else so I selfishly pretend I'm happy.

>>732753395
Brother I feel you.
About 10 years ago I got tipped off my GF was with another guy at the bowling alley.
She ACTUALLY tried to stop HIM from fighting ME.
>He was way bigger than me, and I was legit scared.
>I fucking smashed him.
>Smashed him.
>He pushed my face like a cocky fuck and I hooked him in the jaw
>He was bleeding from above the eye when I leaned over him and said
>Fuck my girlfriend again, and I'll fuck you too
I broke up with her immediately, and just walked off.

>>732754019
yea, not especially religious, but thx anyways.
Just stick to what I just said, and don't crumble at the first bump on that road. Stay determined.

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>>732754135
you could need some anger-management as well

>>732754150
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.

>>732754006
I do.
I've always been a guitarfag I tried to kill it with that.
It didn't work so I taught myself to tickle the ivories.
It was great until I learned to actually play the piano.
I took up an 'engineering' job at a local machine shop and plugged a useless number into a bullshit system all day every day.
I make good money.
I have 11,000 in the bank because I don't care about shit outside of day to day living.
I could EASILY get a woman in a bar, but I don't want to use my money for that.
I love her.
Real love.
I'd drown for her (AHHHHHHHHHH DROWNING)
She doesn't feel the same.
Is it possible to have a 2 and only?

>>732754150
not necessarily meaning it in a religious way.
more just a saying than anything else, you know?

>>732754413
...
I could still recommend suicide, if that's what you want to hear. Or rape. Definitively rape.
Seriously, there is not much else that your obsession boils down to.

Don't do things to forget.
Do things you like instead.
Forgetting comes from alone.

Else, suicide.
Or rape.

>>732754347
Tried it.
It worked briefly.
Just don't piss me off, anon.
I'm really chill until you befront me.

>>732754525
K.
Faggot.

>>732744949
I feel deep love for my ex. And I feel abused and used by my partner

>>732754462
Sure.
Don't you have a bus to catch?
2 weeks to go, and you need to search for a flat and a workplace.
You should be busy as fuck right now...

>>732754611
welp, unless its nighttime at your place.

>>732754510
I want to break this
>obsession
Is it really obsession?
I don't stalk her.
We aren't social media friends.
Every year on her birthday I look her up to make sure she's still alive and wish her a happy birthday.
That's our contact now for the past several years.
I love this girl, rape is not an option.
I love her, and am ready to spend my life unhappily without her for her benefit, but I don't want to think about her anymore.

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>>732744949
>Be me
>Have a girlfriend, together for 4 years
>fall in love with best friend
>somehow lose interest with girlfriend
>bestfriend gets back with her ex and loses time with me
>screwed myself over

>>732754611
6 in the morning.
and I'm limited because I cant ride busses in the boys home. Gotta get the staff to take me, but 1st shift hasn't come in yet.

>>732754550
Yeah, you get it.

>>732754713
>Is it really obsession?
Yes.
Doing menial tasks specifically to forget something achieves quite the opposite.
"I do this to forget her" is the perfect mindset to never actually forgetting her.

How about you do what you like for the sole purpose of doing it?

And no, one does not need to be a stalker to be obsessed. Acting like you already fills all criteria needed for it.

>>732754804
sure, just make sure to press the issue, and keep behind it.

>>732744949
I don't know if I am in love with her. I think of her all day and there's so much I like in her, but also so much I don't and would like her to change.

>>732754835
I will.
Tomorrow I will play ACDC/DIO/STYX instead of Disturbed/Metallica post black/fagshit

>>732744949
what is love? honestly. im an empathic person but never felt sth like this.

i know sympathy. and i know affinity. but never feld anything else.

>>732755048
whatever that string of letter means...
unless you plan to hang yourself with it, enjoy.

WHORE!

>>732755109
that is love.
some people just don't experience very strong emotions (myself included). So the question is, does this sensation justify you taking the responsibility in sparking way deeper feelings in others? Do you trust yourself enough to honor these feelings in others?

entirely your own decision.

>>732755129
>AC/DC
Have a drink on me, whole lotta rosie, highway to hell, tnt, dirty deed, back in black, hells bells, shoot to thrill
>DIO
Egypt (the chains are on) dream evil, the last in line, holy diver, rainbow in the dark
>STYX
Grand illusion, renegade, come sail away, snowblind, lady, blue collar man, too much time on my hands,
There are so many more.
Please educate yourself.

>>732751341
You're a faggot, I'm sure you're the reason for everything that you're complaining about and if not you didn't try to help or fix anything.

Currently separated from my wife. I miss her dearly. She's the only other person I've met that I had a connection with and I fucked it up.

Now I spend my days alone and depressed. Whenever I talk to her, I can't stop myself from trying to convince her to come back.

>>732755484
Men become soft asshole after you start dating them.
You like a guy because he's big and tough?
SURPRISE he's a pussy.
Every time.

Getting married in 2 weeks. Feels good man.

I personally think there's a difference between love and the ability to be with someone long term. I've loved plenty of women in the past but that doesn't really describe how I feel about my fiance. Love doesn't include all the hard times, the compromise, the day-to-day monotony that comes with living with someone long term. Getting through that harder stuff is just as important as loving them. It's like the jump between 'I love this girl' and 'This girl is as close as family'.

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>>732744949
>are you pretending to be in love?
Yes.

I got married at 18. I'm 29 now, she's fat now and I wanna become a girl and play video games. I'm not even attracted to her anymore.

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>>732744949
>are you in love?
No, just have a crush on a straight guy that's nice to me
>are you pretending to be in love?
No, no need to
>do you feel something like love for somebody?
No, perhaps when I am daydreaming
>Do you feel empty right now?
I rarely feel empty, it fucking sucks.I feel despair and hopelessness.

>>732744949
>are you in love?
Not sure.
>are you pretending to be in love?
No.
>do you feel something like love for someone?
Maybe...
>do you feel empty right now?
Yes.

>>732745139
<3

>>732744949
Deeply in love