Feels thread. Let it all out anon.

>>732673672
Fucking this.

We broke up almost a year ago but goddamn every week I think about her.

She went back to her ex, and ex who is pretty much more successful and better than me in every way. I always feel like shit to the point where I avoid going out most of the time because I'm worried I'll see her.

Fuck me.

>>732675358
Well she probably went back to him because she cant get over him... Probably had to forgive him in some way...
You just were a past time to her... Now is over you can go on with your life... Fuck other btches

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>me and my ex GF broke up last week
>Seen her taking another guy into her flat late last night and passed him today when leaving the building (me and the ex live in the same apartment block, can evens ee each others flats)

it fucking hurts /b/ros
>>732675358
>I always feel like shit to the point where I avoid going out most of the time because I'm worried I'll see her.

I feel you. I avoided being with my friends this past weekend because she was involved. Sat at home alone instead.

If I could go back in time and never make a move on her when we started hanging out, I would. The good times we had aren't worth this feeling, it's like getting smashed in the chest with a brick.

>>732673672
She was my best friend. She was the only thing in this world that I didn't want to lose. Ended up losing her anyway. I still think about her sometimes but I know she doesn't ever think about me anymore.

>>732675682
I wish it were that simple.

After her I went through depression and I'm still kind of working my way out of it. It isn't easy. After the break up a tonne of shit happened to me:

Friends stopped talking to me;
Starting doing worse in school;
I got run over by a fucking car

Not really fun. I still feel like even though what we had is now just history, it's still keeping me back.

After 5 years, i still feel like there is no one for me but her. FML, im gonna die alone.

>>732675358
>>732675931
Yeah you know what fuck it, I'm just gonna go shower and sleep. Night anons

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She was the first girl I really loved and note she's gone I feel like shit, I keep myself busy with anything to try to not think of her but it's seems impossible anon, how do I stop thinking of her?
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>>732675358
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>>732675358
>>732675808
>me and ex broke up 3 years ago
>still crazy in love with her
>fuck her every couple months when she's bored/lonely and hits me up
>always have an internal argument with myself about going vs not going
>always end up going because I'm weak and miss her
>always ghosts me after a short period of us talking/fucking/her using me for whatever
>always ends up with a new boyfriend
>always hits me up to fuck when they break up
>the cycle goes on

Don't become me fellas. I've hurt so many girls and missed so many opportunities for a happier future because I'm too hung up on a dumb slut that doesn't give a shit about me.

>>732676396
Why you are me? ;-;

>>732676382
Hahaha that's just hilarious, thanks anon
Pd:Note the sarcasm in my post

>>732673672

I'm done with feeling sorry for myself. Now I just feel anger.

>>732676546
Idk. She hit me up last night to come "cuddle" and I told her no....so I guess thats something.

Tell me your tale.

>>732673672
She had for past 5 years. Your point being?

>>732676279
what does his shirt say?

>>732676396
>>732676546
Good job sacrificing yourself in the name of "love"

I refuse to be second choice. You faggots need to learn how to meet new girls instead of lingering with old ones.

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>>732676591

Was in love with a girl for two years in college, dated a little bit, but when we went for it, it never worked. Shes still my best friend, in a committed relationship with a good guy, and I've been with an amazing girl for two years, but I still wish that things had worked out between her and I. I fantasize about her constantly. I have never been more in love than I was with her

>>732676880
I don't have any issues meeting new girls. I went kinda nuts a few months after my ex left and fucked 10 girls in the span of 3 months. Left me feeling kinda gross honestly but the main issue was I couldn't care less about any of them. Fucked them just out of boredom/spite. Hard to move on and give someone else a fair shot when you've still got strong feelings for someone else.

>>732676820
I guess it says big black, idk but the artist it's called chiara Bautista, she makes a lot of feelsy artworks you should check her out

>>732676396
technically you're in a very good situation, you just think you're not because you have the feels.
you CAN move on with your life and still fuck your ex from time to time. it's easier than you think, you just gotta move on. (from personal experience)

>>732677319
how do you go about doing this? My feels are strong for this girl dude. Every time I start to feel like I'm getting over her I'll hear from her/see her/fuck her and it starts all over again.

Teach me your ways.

>>732673672
good that I never had girlfriend
I am lucky one
right guys?

>>732677012
Holy fuck dude, my history is just the same but some days ago she and I have this big awful fight and I guess even our friendship is over, I've always wanted to be with her but I guess that she love just for a while and then she just get bored of me until our fight, well fuck me backwards

>>732677260
welp then you're obsessing over an illusion you've had. The grill you miss either only lived in your head, or she's not there anymore. Either way she's gone, move on. Relationships never really last more than a few years anyway, deal with it.

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>>732677472
Break contact, don't fuck her, don't let her fuck with your mind. Moron. Of course she's still going to control you if you let her.

>Make yourself sheep and you'll be eaten by the wolves.

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Ex is fucking another guy less than a week after we broke up.

I know she wasn't doing it before we split, we always stayed at each others places every night. It's just insane how quickly some people can jump onto someone else and be totally normal.

I'm a fucking mess, have absolutely no interest in talking to other girls and yet she's already taking another dick 5 days later.

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>>732677634
right, but I mean how do I continue to fuck her while also moving on...like the anon I was replying to suggested was possible.

We used to be into each other, but I was a self-loathing chickenshit, and she moved on. We're still friends, but the regret still keeps me up at night. I tried to cut her out of my life for about six months, but that just ended up making me feel even worse. I just wish I knew how to move on.

Had a girl come over last night, we didn't fuck or anything. I cut her off months ago, she begged to come see me. We caught up and talked about us and where we stand. She was flirting with me a bit and saying how much it sucks not having me around. I treated her like shit when we were cool and for some reason don't feel too bad about it, she was a bitch to me too. Confused about whether or not to make amends or just leave things the way they are.

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>>732673672
I used to feel shit guys. I used to feel alone and useless in the world. I was lonely. cripplingly lonely.
>I auditioned for a play
>met a girl
>we flirted back and forth for months, acted in the play together
>i've never had a good thing before, she's got to be in this for only friendship
>We act like friends for ages, begin cuddling a lot more.
>I ask her out.
>"Yes"
>life changed
>I'm happy, im in a loving relationship, have been for months, i'm snapchatting her as we speak

I never thought I could have something like this, and im sure a lot of you think you won't either.

"If you're willing to be there, the love of your life is too" is something i've always tried to live by.

Do your best /b/ros, hang in there, something will come you're way at some point, even if you refuse to believe it.

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She left me 1 month ago mostly because I did nothing this year (searching for a job.. sort of..) and today I found my dream job but she doesn't have feelings anymore, I have plenty
Iit sucks so much, I'm 21, we had 3 and a half year in common, the first 3 year were so fucking good and now I'm alone with a job I wanted to have in order to do cool things with her

>>732677754
She was talking to new dick weeks beforehand, if not months. Women break up in their mind well ahead of actually doing it. Also they'll never leave if they don't have a solid grip on the next branch. Stop thinking of women as virtuous creatures, their world is amoral.

>>732677773
You pick one faggot. How can you expect to get over her if you're subjecting yourself to those hormone rushes over and over again. Honestly stop doing this to yourself. Tell her to stop contacting you and ignore her from then on. Delete her from social media and remove all reminder of her, it's the only way.

>>732677525
She and I have had some big blow ups. If you're truly close, it will repair itself. Give her space, you'll both want to have each other's support and comfort again. You'll be friends. My girl and I went through much worse.

>>732678078
How does it feel to be a backup beta? Fucking pathetic how you idiots let yourselves be controlled. Pussywhipped.

>>732678256
What? Things didnt work between a girl and I. We're still friends. I was in a relationship afterwards before she was. Suck my ass nigger

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>>732678256
Only thing worse than being a backup is being the pathetic loser that women won't even bother with AMIRITE?!!!

>>732677995
The first years are always the best, it never gets better again. Now you know. Be glad you learnt at 21, some people don't even get it when they're 70.

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>>732677472
Just know that you're going to move on and get over her, so what you're feeling right now is a waste of your emotions, simple as that.
and what i mean by that is, you just gotta learn to accept the fact that one day , you're just going to have to move on without her. simple as that. meanwhile, fuck her brains out every chance you get. use her for your satisfaction and treat her like the piece of meat she is.

REMEMBER: SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU AND SHE DOESN'T DESERVE SHIT. DON'T FEEL FOR PEOPLE WHO DON'T FEEL FOR YOU. BE A MAN

>>732678367
Honestly you could prolly get a whole lot more chicks than you think. You just handicap yourself by letting yourself be emotionally drained by some succubus whore. now that's fucking stupid. Start again with a clean slate. If one woman is/was interested no doubt there are more out there. it's this mentality of scarcity that drives you to choose the "safe route" anyway.

>>732678573
Waste of time. always better to invest in new grills than going trough the trash. For your sanity.

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>>732678592
What I lack in confidence I more than make up for it in objectivity. Besides, at my age I don't want to even bother with the human trash that's out there.

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>broke up 3 days ago
>she was seeing another guy for ~ 2 weeks atleast
>i found out myself
>she dumped me and went for him
>wants to stay as friends and says that still has feelings for me
>still love her extremely much

what do /b/ros

>>732678860
So you'll just deal with the trash that's already in your life instead of cutting it out. For someone who cherishes objectivity you sure have a funny way of dealing with things.

>>732678981
Don't be friends. Don't give her the satisfaction of having you still spun around her finger as a backup. Get on with your life and don't assume she will come back. Zero contact. It's the only way, don't linger like some anons ITT or you'll only end up killing yourself inside. Because she doesn't give a fuck about you anymore, only about herself.

>>732678981
Cut her off 100%. Tell her she is human scum and go bang some hotties

>>732678981
Say idi nahui to that bitch

>>732673672
no, because she is dead

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>be me
>wife of 5 years decided to start fucking other dudes on my birthday last year
>we had two houses and on our way to owning our own business
>I found out almost immediately
>walked out on her after finding out what happened

It's been a fucked up year of dealing with all the bullshit that comes along with a divorce, but at least I was smart and had her sign a pre nup.

Here's the new kicker, I found a girl this last month. She's awesome, we love so much of the same things, I feel 100x better being around her. Her face is beautiful, but she's... larger. Much larger than my ex wife, but I'm so much more attracted to her than my cold fish ex wife. We have crazy sex. She really appreciates being with me, and that drives me even more wild.

Is being with an unhealthy woman worth it? I think so. My wife was super hot, perfect ass, but she was a dead fish in bed. New girl is not perfect at all, but she drives me crazy and is wild in bed. She'll do just about anything.

Is life better?? Yes, I think so.

>>732678078
I don't know if we are close, the thing is that my relationship with this girl is not as healthy as I want to think, it's kinda like she was treated like shit before and I'm just tryna fix her but I do it bc I want to feel needed, do you think is better for both of us just to cut contact?

>>732678981
Leave it. Ex did this to me. It's torture. She feels guilty for dicking you over and wants to keep you around to feel better about herself. Let her know what a filthy cunt she is and cut her off /b/ro, it's for the best

>>732678981

just go full no contact, basically completely ignore her. I did that with my ex it was hard the first couple of months but then it got easier and it also helped me get over her. And guess who wanted me back after 4 months? Yep, girls often work like that, i denied her though even if i still had some feelings for her.

>>732679385
That's what you get for being captain save a hoe. It's better for her if she keeps you around, just in case. But it's better for you to move on. There is nothing virtuous about one sided love. if you're a man you don't wait for her to turn around. You fix your life and live it for yourself. Women come and go man.

>>732679549
This is the only way to correctly deal with that situation, props anon.

>>732678380
Well you're right but still... hard to go on

>>732679798
It's even harder if you still try to make it work. You'll get there. Better to have seen trough the veil than be one of those beta faggots thinking life is a Disney movie or a chick flick.

>>732679689
I concur.
Bitches don't want someone easy who will do anything for them. Show em you dont need em and they crawl back

>>732677261
thanks!

>>732679623
Thanks my man, I gonna do this and I wish you luck with your girl, and maybe finally gonna get my life in track again

>>732680336
No problemo my dude

>>732680339
Don't wish me luck, I don't do relationships anymore. Just fuckbuddies until they get bored or fall in love and that's the end of that. it's a bleak solution but at least I'm free from the usual drama. Good luck anon

>go out with the girl of my dreams
>she apparently is angry at me all the time
>Leaves me , I fight for her in everyway
> I was the greatest boyfriend I could be
>After everything I would still take her back
>Mad at my self that I cant get her out of my head
>Scared to fall in love again

>>732680568
Whatever works for you my man, glad you've find your way, I'm working to find out what fits me meanwhile I just try to drink or so

>>732679235
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>>732679549
Thanks /b/ros for the kind words and advice , will do just that
>>732679333
Nice trips , and also she is indeed russian ,how'd you know

>>732680835
Guess she wasn't "the girl of my dreams" after all. But hey, at least you fucked her. Now on to the next ones. There will always be women, just don't go too deep into their world.

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im destined to be a wizard. its 5 40 am, i'm failing my bachelor and everything i do.I'm alone, and i have no purpose or love.
Ho hum.

>>732680990
I soon came to realise I didnt, also thats the thing I didnt. She didnt want to, I was prepared to wait. I respected her choice. I honestly did everything she liked and didnt do what she didnt. I didnt text even one girl while I was with here, and there she was texting her ex. But "apparently" she was trying to forget him...

I just met a girl and we are together like 2 months already had sex and seems like she likes me.
But im not an expert in this matter.

Last time she likes to talk on phone with some guy from internet what annoys me and i know deeply it wont end good.
What to do?

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How do you heal and do "no contact" when your ex is is in the same social group?

It's killing me. I cant be around her at all and function at the same time, so my only choice is to avoid socialising as shes involved 90% of the time. I feel so alone.

And at 29, I cant just "make new friends". it's really hard once your past the university age.

>>732681315
Welp never listen to a woman's words, look at her actions instead. Also never wait you moran. Waiting is for beta faggots and it's a waste of time, energy and hope.

>>732681513
Ride it out knowing it will end on her terms. Don't catch any feels or you're fucked.

>>732681690
if this waiting"mode" is going on for more than 2 years, what to do then?

>>732681816
never too late to quit being a bitches bitch

>>732681808
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>>732681795
But i like to be with her, its better than being alone.

>>732681690
I was such a beta, i tried to agree with her and try be a bf she would like. Didnt tell her not to do anything. Scared she would leave...never again will I act like i did,lesson learnt. If the next one doest like something i say she can gtfo

>>732681879
but how to get on with life? i basically gave up everything after the break up.

>>732681588
I recently joined a dancing class, really helped me connect to new people. alot of the people around in their 30's or above. took initiative, made a whatsappgroup and asked when people if people were going to social dances. once there, in between dancing I talk to them, and now I get invited to housewarming parties and such. If I can do it, so can you. I believe in you.

>>732681945
man the same shit happened to me. always focus on the woman and never on myself. it was the worst shit on planet. i hoped for cancer back then but not the "kek"-one , the real one

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>>732681052
I didn't lose my vtag until I was 23. Now I've fucked ~150 times spread over 4 girls, which isn't loads but at least I've participated.

Best part, all 4 of them were hot. Real hot.

There's still hope for you. Sorting your life out is more important than sex though. Sex is just a nice addition. Sort your education and get a solid career going first.

>>732681962
Rebuild it one day at a time. Dabble into new social prospects. For me a started going to see live bands regularly, made a lot of new friends there. Met a few chicks too. Find reasons to go outside I guess.

>>732681930
Maybe, but not as good as nutting in a fresh and eager pussy.

>>732682092
Yeah i agree,I tried my best to say stuff that she would agree with me on. Just gonna be myself from now on completely. And eventually the right one will come along

>>732682143
You know, thats actually really something anon.
thanks

>>732682291
There is no "right one". But you're getting it, be yourself and be unapologetic. Call them out on their bullshit. They like that more than having a pushover doing everything for her. Women want an emotional rollercoaster, none of this stable steady shit. Piss them off a little and learn than being called an asshole is actually a compliment if a woman says it.

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I don't pursue people, I was content going to strip clubs, frat partys and being a virgin, but their is that one girl that it just hurts that she's not with me, she's not with anyone but she's just so far away from me and all I think about is her and wish she'd just show a little affection

She's your ex. She doesn't wanna see you either. Quit being scared.

>>732682568
She's an illusion glorified in her absence. if you'd live together with her you'd be sick of her shit within the first six months.

>>732682464
Thanks anon , great advice. I will do exactly as you say. I wont be a pushover anymore or any bullshit like that, lets give em' a emotional rollercoster if they want one

>>732682464
this asshole thing is a fuckin sex trigger.

>>732673672
Yes, yes I am. And it fucking hurts. She said she loved me, but couldn't take being in a long distance relationship. Said that it was better this way. I was going to move across the world to be with her. Leave family, friends and career for her. I was going to marry her. And not even a fortnight after she dumped me she found another. I consider myself a mentally strong person but the day I found out about her seeing another I was ready to end my life.I haven't hurt that bad before or since. Not even when my grandmother, whom I was very close to, passed away. So now I'm sitting here another night, drinking and crying.

"how do I know I found the right one?" people ask. I'll answer for you: when it's too late. THEN you know it she was the one.

>>732682672
Good man, you'll be doing yourself a favour. Both of you will enjoy this more than you walking around on eggshells all the time.

>be a fuck up half my life
>finally see some light, its getting better
>get a good job
>start being social, make friends
>find courage to talk to my dream girl
>wow she interested, start dating
>fuck up everything due to no experience and anxiety

ye guess i am just not meant to be a normie.

>>732682780
10/10, manned me up

Fuck them all!

>>732682780
Manned me up as well 10/10

>>732676396
Yeah she probably just enjoys knowing that she has one person in the world who'll keep worshipping her. Hanging onto her is probably as bad for her as it is you. Let go, for her. nigger

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>>732682672
I called my GF out on her bullshit (lack of consideration/respect for me) just over a week ago

Now she's my ex and already had another guy stay over at her place. I'm broken.

>>732673672
>me when 16
>studying hard cuz asian
>cram school on weekends because asian
>mum gets diagnosed with cancer
>doesn't let me stay
>have to study when she gets chemo
>one week down, chemo gets frequent
>hardly see her anymore
>tells me she'll be fine, asks me to keep studying
>one more week down
>haven't seen her in a week
>says she'll get better in no time, don't bother to visit anymore
>continue life
>two weeks down
>come back after cram school on saturday
>dad's still not home, no phone, no neighbor
>wtf, what is she's gone
nonono.jpg
>couldn't take it anymore, decided to see her
>wanted to talk to her, hear her voice
>mfw i find dad at hospital
>mfw i see her
>groaning and rolling in pain
>tfw she's so high on drugs that she doesn't even recognise me
>tfw that was the last time I saw her face

6 years later, still can't sleep, still think about what I did to the woman who raised me

i know i should die, but that'd be too easy

>>732683207
Should have kept your self respect from the start instead of trying to reclaim it after you're in too deep.

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When you get into a relationship, just remember that no matter what she says, she isn't "yours". It's just your turn.

>>732683439
>Never yours to keep, it's only your turn
Applies to other aspect of life as well. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts, there will be more of them.

>>732673672
>first gf I really fell for is now with some prick she told me to never be like
>she called me a few weeks back explaining that I was better in every way
>when we broke up I made it clear I will not take her back
>I have stuck to this and she knows it
>still feels righteous to hear her tell me I am better even though it is over for good

Bitches are retarded, but you can account for that.

I puller her ass out the fire countless times. I'm more stable and responsible than any other man she's ever been with. Her 46yr old loser of a bf can't do anything. His family takes care of his weak, pathetic existance because he can't handle life. He's afraid to man up against his family. Where he fails as a man to take proper care of her, she calls me. He doesn't cater to his needs and clings to his "southern charm" and big dick. She will never see I wasn't trying to be a responsible "Big Brother", I was trying to show her I'm a responsible Husband. Who caters to her needs, handles priorities and doesn't make excuses. They only reason I talk to her is to fuck her silly, proving me right. He CAN'T take care of ALL her needs!!!

>>732673672
>No I'm not
>Not sure if she is dating or not
>I am, though, the second we broke up
next

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>>732683350
Actually it happened over the space of a couple days, not something that has happened before.

Some girls simply cannot accept that they're in the wrong. They will play the victim no matter what, even when they're the ones who clearly messed up. Even if it means a relationship ending.

Im sorry that she had to find out about me screwing someone behind her back - and i am even more sorry that it was my 23yo daughter

>>732683716
Lmao you're a loser

I C/C my post bc there's something else which impacts the all thing : How to do when we have the same friends in common ? She returns from a city 500km away in 2 weeks, and either I'll not be able to see my friends, either I have to see her every time
"She left me 1 month ago mostly because I did nothing this year (searching for a job.. sort of..) and today I found my dream job but she doesn't have feelings anymore, I have plenty
Iit sucks so much, I'm 21, we had 3 and a half year in common, the first 3 year were so fucking good and now I'm alone with a job I wanted to have in order to do cool things with her"

Something happened to me a few months back and I guess iv'e been trying to get a girlfriend. Not too hard but still trying.
First girl I met since moving back home seemed into me and evening went on a few dates with me kinda. Eventually she told me she wasn't ready for a boyfriend. It hurt but I understood, at least I did because she started seeing someone a fortnight later. I wish people would be more straight up and tell me the real reason why they reject you, otherwise how else will you know how to improve yourself? About a month later started talking to another girl and even met up with her in her home town. She hinted at liking me but now is seeing one of my friends. Anyways I went full turbo-cunt mode when I found out and was real mean to her. Don't regret it but it didn't satisfy me either. I don't know what's wrong with me, I'm no cuck guys, I have pride. As far as I know i'm not fucking ugly either. I just want to have a honest and loving company at a time in my life where I'm feeling very alone and don't know where to go with my future.

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>>732683776
Not some girls matey. Just people.

Sakamichi no appolon was damn good btw

>>732676876
thanks anon. thanks for this. really.

Why's it always stormy weather

>>732675931
KEKKKKKKKK!!

" Ma vie, ma vie, ma très ancienne,
Mon premier vœu mal refermé
Mon premier amour infirmé
Il a fallu que tu reviennes.


Il a fallu que je connaisse
Ce que la vie a de meilleur,
Quand deux corps jouent de leur bonheur
Et sans fin s'unissent et renaissent.


Entré en dépendance entière
Je sais le tremblement de l'être
L'hésitation à disparaître
Le soleil qui frappe en lisière


Et l'amour, où tout est facile,
Où tout est donné dans l'instant.
Il existe, au milieu du temps,
La possibilité d'une île."


Michel Houellebecq

Soon, I'll be leaving behind all of my friends and family to hitchhike across my country. When I get to my destination, I'll live out my days absorbing the greener grass that once lied on the other side. If I die before I turn 30, it was a life well suited to a failure. I'm an adventurer now, on an absurdist, pointless adventure.

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the only thing that helps with this type of mental anguish is time. trust me. and even then you will still occasionally think about her and wonder who she's fucking etc...

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>>732677982
It will end anon, it always ends.

Had 2.5 years of an amazing relationship. Just always expect shit to end whenever you least expect it.

>>732685079
your adventure anon.

>17
>haven't had a gf
>have a crush on the same girl for nearly 4 years
>last time we talked was for less than 2mins in between classes everyday for a semester
>she has a b
>they're in a 2 year relationship
>the bf ended up becoming a friend/acquaintance
>haven't actually talked talked to her in over a year
>even if she was single I'm too beta to do anything
>I'm super antisocial and can easily see myself being alone my entire life
>end me

>>732685043
this man is a great thinker, not referring to the text which i cant understand

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Everyday I'm expected to be the "funny friend", who always makes a witty remark, cracks a silly joke or two. I'm the person who s always expected to have a happy-go-lucky attitude with a smile on his face 24/7.

This facade ends once I return home and realise I am truly alone and all my friendships are superficial. The only woman I have ever loved has just become engaged to someone else. When i hook up with other women, I subconciously compare them to her, and push them way, because they're not what she was. I masturbate compulsively as its the only way I can bring myself to feel euphoria. I go to the gym 5 times a week to distract myself from the pain that is partly self-inflected and from the fact that I'm growing older and more distanced from eveyone at the same time.

I want this to stop. I don't want to be alone anymore. I want to feel happy again.

>>732685433
I understand it (frenchfag), great text indeed

>>732685043
"je suis baguettespeakfuckingenglishcroissant"
-anon
that one touches my heart

>>732685433
read the ebook, it's on TPB

full of feels.

>>732685141
Not if you don't care anymore

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>>732685833
it depends how long you've been with them too. its like take how long you've been together and double it to equal the amount of time takes to forget...

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>broke up with ex 6 days ago
>know she's already slept with a guy at her place
>remember i was the one who bought condoms and left them at hers for when we used them
>this guy will have been dicking her with condoms I bought

the crushing feel is real /b/

>>732683974
I know!!!

>>732685435
give up and die
that's what i'm gonna do

>>732686396
it would kill my parents. I can't do this to them.

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important info

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>work 2 jobs
>8k$ a month in country where 500 a month is above average
>have 8.7 average grade on university
>planing to apply for PHD next year
>have a decent girlfriend
>still feel like shit

>>732686291
thats how it goes.

For example, I'm been talking to this cute girl at work for a couple months now and I'm pretty sure she's into me too but I find myself already picturing in my head ways it'll go wrong or how quickly she'll get bored and leave/cheat etc...

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share some of that money with me, it'll make you feel better.

I'm here alone knowing my ex is with another guy right now in the same apartment block. We only split up 5 days ago.

>>732686516
nobody takes me seriously anymore

>>732686790
damn

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>>732686985
for
>>732686790

>>732673672
How weird is that. I had a dream about my 10th grade gf last night. That was 12 years ago and I've had really great gf since then.

> me at 18
> lose virginity to girl
>get feels
>2 months later go to Paraguay to visit family
>cheat on her with some whore trying to get preggo
>gf finds out
>breaks up
>no
>yes

I still think about that shit even though I'm 24 now. I've had small relationships but none that were as quite as good as her. It doesn't help that she's gotten 5x hotter since then. Shit feelsbadman. Its hard enough with Cerebral palsy getting a girl. No mate how attractive I am no girl is going to take me over someone who's normal. Life in nerql has been shit since then. Fuck

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>be me
>no friends no family no love
>depressed af
>living alone in a shitty basement
>working a shittier job
>all my dreams are crushed
>no one cares about me but my dog
>i have never seen anyone appreciate me coming back home like him
>he wakes me up everyday to go to my job i wouldn't go to my job without him
>he is the reason i haven't killed myself yet, I don't want him ending homeless in the streets or with a not caring person
(pic kinda related)

>>732685425
underage b& get out.

>>732687344
You have the love of your dog, right? Focus on that man. And I feel you about the shitty basement thing. I'm in the same boat. Barely making it.

>>732685043
I'm a baguette, will translate when done smoking mah blunt

To sum-up a bit, too much to write
> Parents splitted when I was 2
> Step-brother suicided when I was 6
> Dad is an alienating parent, basically grew up feeling guilty of everything.
> Mom died when I was 16
> Dad gave up on me a year later
> Started to sell drugs when I knew he was not financially self-sustaining anymore
> He never acknowledged me since then
> Went through depression episodes at age 14, 16, 19 and 24

Despite the fact I still managed to rule an entertaining life (worked for multiple NGO’s, travelled around for quite a bit, had my share with girls), my past just caught up on me two weeks ago and knocked me down hard. I thought I overcame all this shit, especially my affective disorder, but I just started to realize I was fighting myself way too hard to actually give me a break and build a real self-esteem.

Hardest thing is to accept you need to take time to re-open the wounds and patch yourself up accordingly. I’m finally seeing someone for the first time tomorrow.

Shoot out to you brothers and never let go, love & respect

>>732687697
Pass that shit

>>732687344
are you trying to make me cry?

Ik weet niet hoe ik je het duidelijk moet makennnnn

>>732686790
aim for a bigger goal. we can't handle being dreamless or having our dreams crushed.
or better you can help other people (it really makes me feel good)

>>732683226
that sucks anon :/

She was masturbating on FaceTime to some nigger while she was still in a relationship with me. Feelsbadman

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Post more pictures

Ok faggots, help me.
Meet new girl thanks to friends, I don't pay much heed to her until one day when we are alone. I chat her up and get her snapchat a few days later. It seems like she's into me but already has a boyfriend (who's 1 year younger than us). There's talk of her hosting a party which I'm not invited to, so I tell her to fuck off and message me when she knows she fucked up. She messages me acting all sad-like and I forgive her. She hooks up with a friend and I have to swallow sadness everytime my friends talk about her, because too much beta to confess feelings. What do b? I'm considering just ghosting her on everything since she won't confront me in real life about it.

>>732687935
But there's nothing I want any more. Never wanted anything big or fancy. All my money is either laying in the bank or being spent by family or GF (since all have access to my bank account). If I manage to get to do my PHD, I'll go about it for another 3 years and afterwards I'll be a 27 year old with no more goals in life.

>>732689547
im reading this the 50th time. man idk not op or the other guy

>>732690463

>>732689547
>>732686790

>>732690730
no goals and still feel like shit is a fuckin dilemma

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>>732691087

i miss having friends, i miss being with people so much. my best friend, the only person i felt comfortable turning to walked out on me 8 months ago. i hate my life, and everything is miserable. i try surrounding myself with others, thinking it will make it better, but the thing i've learned is that it's hard being alone, and it's harder being around people that make you feel alone. i'm with people all the time, but i'm alone. i'm so alone. please help.

>>732692131
damn feel better. find something to dedicate time too. it can be anything. after my relationship of 4 years went down the train I was pretty mentally fucked. Started working out like crazy, training in martial arts, and kept a 40hr/wk job. Now Im pretty humble, jacked, decently attractive 8/10, got some money to play with, trained to fight and feel more motivated as a better more developed person. The first 6-9 months sucked but now its been a year and its easier to deal with. Good luck. Definitely give fitness and martial arts a try. Gym buddies and dojo pals are nice people

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Ok story time.
I moves to America legally late 2011, left socialist cuck heaven Venezuela.
Was 13 at the time so i started working at a water purification factory in miami, went to school and worked almost everyday so i ended up a robot because no time for socializing.
5 years pass.
I still work at the factory however i reached partnership status and owned 30% of the factory, and im about to graduate hs, got/fit/ and met some qts, went on a 2 years lsd binge which radically changes my perspective and i became a real outgoing motherfucker, 6'2 swole af and poon left&right.
Things are going fantastic for the first time in my life, i apply for a greencard Sep 2016, i keep working doing my shit and living a real fullfilling job, get into guns and all that too.
March 1st 2017 happens
Im dating a 9/10 aryan qt, graduation is right around the corner, my life has been going better with each passing day, im waiting on my greencard and boom i get the letter that faithful day.
"Your request is denied do to the fact the company you work at has not created 10 full time employments in 5 years, you have 30 days to leave the country before being forcefully removed"
More or less it said that.
So i had two choices
1) stay,file for an asylum and basically become a government honey.
2) gtfo
I was not going to become another spic living on the niggers welfare system.
So i left to spain, said good bye to all my friends and family, left everything behind without looking back.
came to spain 2 months ago and had nothing here, i started getting depressed and began drinking a lot.
Can't work out because no identification card (its coming in the mail from spainsh embassy in Venezuela so who knows how long itlls take) gf left me for a manlet socialist slavic nigger (unironically)
Found a plug for codeine so i started taking that almost every day, had a mild overdose 2 weeks ago.
No work, no connections, living off savings.
Part 2 coming up
Pic related me and my dog at the best part of my life

>>732676396
My ex never wants to see me again

At least you have the option to hold her again you fucking whiny pathetic nigger

>>732673672
>Break up with gf
>first day feels normal
>the second day hits
>Feel like shit
>so bad I don't even want to fap
>Fall asleep after drinking
>have a weird ass dream of me and gf
>we're both naked in a giant room
>we begin dancing to my feels song
>Shostakovich Jazz Waltz no. 2
>Eyes Wide Shut kind of shit
>Song ends, and she leaves
>Wake up
>I'll never be in a relationship where I can do that
Thanks Stanley Kubrick

>>732693136
its your own fault you self-hating faggot, shouldnt been dating cracker women and leaving your country while you still could make the best of it.

also no greentext

>>732687848
fucking respect to you anon, doing it right and not letting the world get to you and thinking for yourself

>>732676382
kek

>>732693860
Ah yes ill stay in Venezuela, thanks anon.

My daughter is a lesbian, I'm in love with her girlfriend. In b4 is just lust not love, I'm not a smart man but I know what love is.

>>732693136
will the spanish govt help you get educated or trained in a new line of work? you still got all those hardworking qualities dude, youre just hitting hard times and its bullshit

>>732673672

I have been playing battlefield 1 for a couple months and I can never get the server to stay connected for more than 1 or two rounds

really makes it shitty to get in the groove

worst feels of the life

>Met that girl at a bar
>Has a bf, whatever I'm new in town need friends
>add her on Facebook
>tries to seduce me and string me along to better tell me it's not gonna possible
>don't play along, instead tell her to stop talking to me
>still alone

>>732693136

I doubt you were getting laid left and right looking like that. Although maybe a bad picture.

>>732694426
They offer 400 euros a month for immigrants with spain citizenship, i have the citizenship however i refuse to accept welfare of any kind, im getting my medical insurance tomorrow because i found a job at the airport thats willing to hire me based on my passport/english/and resume so after i get all my papers in order ill go to the interview, theyre okay with me not having an id because i showed proof im waiting for it so hopefully that will get me out of this rough patch

>>732684713
Lol, more like niel gayman

>>732694882
Florida is easy pussy dude, trust me i know i aint pretty but im also not socially retarded plus the height and gains help a lot tho

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Ive been theorizing that my gf of almost 3 years has been cheating on me. I usually deny this theory when im high as shit with my friends, and will often get really depressed and feel bad for even considering it. But something just continues to drive that thought into my head.

Ive noticed some very small things here and there, but never enough to fully get a clear answer to my theory. For instance, sometimes when i look over at her, she quickly turns her phone screen off and puts her phone down. Ive also seen some questionable guy names when I see her browsing on her Kik. It just ruins me thinking about it, and for a long time now ive always wanted an answer.

Ive contemplated participating in one of those "Test ur gf" threads, but im worried that OP is just gonna be something like "lol ur bf told me to test u xDDDDad" troll bullshit, so ive gotten away from that idea. I just want to come to peace with it. I want to know if she is cheating or not. I just have no solid proof at all.

No point in straight up asking obviously. Ive even thought about tapping her phone somehow, but im not a l33t hax0r and ill feel like shit if I just go through her phone.

Anyways, yea.

>>732677982
God please. Go fuck yourself you stupid fucking cunt.

>implying the other anons here didnt have a relationship like this yet

Sure thing bro. Have fun when you have fallen deeper into Depression than you ever have once she left you, faggot.

You bastard....

>>732695743
Hi anon, I been there and I feel you. Stop worrying, dig her phone if you feel like there is something weird.

Your instinct is telling you something and it is rarely wrong. She might not have cheated but maybe she's just looking for someone else.

Still, you gotta do something.

>>732677982
>basing all of your happiness entirely on one other person

Yes, you surely have things totally figured out and this definitely won't end badly.

ITT newfags

>>732673672
actually I'm finally over her. I admit I love her and her baby, but loving her and obsessing over her are two different things. we've both moved on... I just wish I could have told her happy mothers day with out her being mad at me... maybe next year. I love you Ida.

>>732696508
Kek'd and agreed. If there is one lesson you must remember, never rely on anyone else than yourself, even in a relationship.

>>732696508
ah man :D anti social engineer

>>732678981
Don't do it anon, I know how it feels and its not worth it cut her off now

>>732693136
That reasoning for you being forcefully removed does not seem very solid.

>>732696910
I mean that's just excessively jaded. You can absolutely rely on people you trust, but the only way to be happy long term is to be able to make yourself happy. It took me some messy breakups and depression to realize this, and I'm in a 7 year running relationship now that is much healthier than any of my past relationships, because I know if we broke up, I'd be okay. The trick is to avoid codependency without being antisocial. And never, NEVER seek a relationship to try and "fix" yourself. It won't work, it never works.

i think the worst part about lost love is the regret. i lie awake at night remembering all the happy memories, and then i remember the fights. the first one, over something so minor that felt so major. and all the ones after that. i remember the decisions i made and the words i said in anger and frustration and love, and i hate myself for them. i can pinpoint every single moment that i fucked up. that i pushed her away. eventually i hurt her too many times and she gave up on me, replaced me. i could never give up on her, despite the fact she hurt me too, but i was young and immature and didnt know how to control myself in the arguments. now she's left and i cant say "fuck that bitch" like so many people here, i look back at our old photos together and i know she's still the most amazing person i ever met. i have only myself to blame. and it fucking sucks.

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This is my ex. I stalk her like fuck on Facebook. We broke up two years ago. I never could get over her.

>>732698251
scars wth

>>732698251
She's gotten over you, anon.
Find someone else, or don't. Love isn't predetermined, there's no order to the universe.
<3

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ITT: an entire generation of boys who were misinformed
Protip: Everything you believe triggers attraction to a man within a woman doesn't.

Girls don't give a flying fuck what guys look like. Your physical appearance doesn't influence their sexual arousal.
>of course, this means it's completely your fault and not because you got dealt a lousy genetic hand by your parent

>>732698955
seconded, fate is just a cushion people use to feel more at home in a universe that couldn't be further from one.

>>732698507
>scars wth
You posted a picture of yourself in the hope someone would notice the scars and give you the attention your father didn't seem to believe you are worth.

>he was right to leave your mother. You're not worth it.

>>732673672
ugh

>>732697546
I agree with all that anon, been on that path too. Been trying to fix myself since my last relationship, I have come to the conclusion that you gotta be able to leave, to let anything go and know that you will always be happy. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's struggled with all that. Good job dude.

kek there's actual fucking nothing after we die. however, you can take solace in knowing that the universe is infinite and there is always another "you" (same traits, appearance or otherwise followed to a tee) coinciding.

>>732699753
>there's actual fucking nothing after we die
How could you possibly know that? Certainly you have proof to back up this claim?

>>732700064
Religious fag? The chances of an afterlife are so slim it's retarded.
Inb4 "kek kys fedorafag"

>>732697328
I KNOW RIGHT, ive been going through books worth of immigration law, talked to countless legal advisors yet half are convinced its a goddamn clerical error the other half say its a new law, i don't belive either so until i can prove something im making a life here until i can comeback, at least i can go for a European investor visa then greemcard however i gotta make a fuckload of money for that, so that's what im doing now

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Ha! Jokes on you I'm 33yo and never had a deep and serious relation in my life! Heh...

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>>732700335
What if life is a very sophisticated virtual reality program and the event of death triggers the creation of an ethereal manifestation of your human form to spawn in a new area where it is given unlimited health?

Wouldn't any test performed on the virtual manifestation of your "physical" brain before death be conducted by a virtual manifestation of a "psychical" piece of testing equipment incapable of detecting the program that would create the ethereal manifestation?

>>732700771
Believe me, I want this type of shit to be real. Dying is probably one of the scariest concepts to grasp, but it's wrong to tease yourself. If there is an afterlife, it'll come as a pleasant surprise.

>>732701102
You do realize that there are other religious beliefs aside from Christianity, right?

>>732701209
That was in response to an ideology completely different to Christianity dude. Try to keep up.

>>732701616
So? The question still stands.
You seem to believe that all religious believe in an afterlife.

>>732701930
No, I know the whole roster. I'm just talking about the ones that believe in an afterlife.

>>732700515
I'm 20 and i'm the same.
Fucked alot of girls but i wasn't intrested in anythhing more than that and most of them felt the same way.
Feel like shit anyways.

>>732702196
You stated emphatically that their is no afterlife.

Cite your source.

>>732702518
Yeah, I got a bit cocky. Let me rephrase.

I am nearly certain that there is no afterlife. The chances are so minuscule that it comes as a shock to me that there are routine worshipers.

>>732702778
The belief of an afterlife makes feel less stressed out about the fear to die, making you finally live your life. It's like a placebo.

>>732702911
That's fucked. Imagine not being able to feel pain. Sounds great right? No, the damage is still done and there's no indication.

Another analogy, we're all walking towards a pit. Believers of an afterlife are walking backwards towards it.

>>732673672
She said she wanted to live her life with me, start a home, be happy.

But she just used me for monetary gain like the rest of them. Now I'll never Love again.

Why go on?

>>732695743
private detective ?
that's cost a lot, but worth it if you really want to know

>>732703080
Why not go on? Post-mortem, it doesn't make a difference to anybody but you. People mourn, but they're just crying for themselves.

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>be me
>bad in english
>15 years old
>met a girl at a school trip
>gave her my number
>wrote for a while
>contact broke
>I fell in love with her
>After 1 year I wrote her again
>Said I like her
>We became friends
>Everyday on WhatsApp
iaminlovewiththatgirl.gif
>We don't meet often
>Always phoned each when it stormed outside
>Talked about life
Goes on for 3 years
>Only seen each other 3 times in that time
>Only WhatsApp and phone
>Never thought about sex with her
>I was just in pure love with her
>Talked to her about I we will become a couple
>She said no, only friends..
>She broke me
>I was destroyed
>I thought about us a long long time
>Decide its better for me to leave her
>I was 19, virgin, never had a girlfriend because I only loved her
>Said to her I need space and have to think about everything
>Big fight
>We didn't talk for a year
>In that time I can't stop thinking about her
>See her in every other girl
>Feel terrible
>After 1 year I wrote her a letter
>Should we become friends again?
>I only want to have her around me
>She is my better side
>She said yes
>We write again
>But not as before
>Something is different
>Stop texting again

Now I'm 20 still virgin, never had a gf
I'm still in love but she is not
I can't meet other girls because I only want her
What should I do?

>>732673672

>my girlfriend
>my twin
>the only woman I've ever truly loved
>the only woman who ever truly understood me

>used me to buy her a high-dollar item
>took the side of a guy who was an alcoholic perv over me
>then disappeared
>tried to blame me

I stand before God with honor over how I conducted myself.

But I'm just over it now. Over Love. Over life.

Even people you treat with 100% Unconditional Love will betray you.

That being the case, why go on?

>>732703362
The exact same usual answer, grow a pair and move on.