My girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago, I cant seem to get

Nope. She's gone. Even if she came back to you, it would be doomed to failure.

Future you would tell you to not initiate any contact with her ever again (because every time you do you're being a little bitch), even though you really want to.

Apparantly she couldn't stand you

>>732217692
there's literally billions more

Some part of her gets smug satisfaction out of you wanting her even though she left you.

Cut her off completely. You'll thank yourself someday.

>>732217692

i'm in the same situation, just three weeks instead of one. i tried to kill myself and got drunk for like five days in a row then my doc upgraded my meds and now i just want that bitch to move out of my life. forget about her.

>>732217692
At least source bitch.

But seriously OP, do not call, text, email, message, anything.

For any reason.

I swear to god you'll feel so much better later on if you don't act like a little bitch now.

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OP here
But she gets me
I was molested as a child
and she was to, i have not told her about
my thing though
im sure that if i tell her about it
she will know why i became what i became
(a needy overprotective bf, when i heard about what had happened to her)

>maybe she is the one?
i want to fight for her

Also really tight pussy

>>732217692
shes already fucking right now... forget it cuckfaggot.

>>732217964
i hear you.
I got drunk last weekend and went to her in the middle of the night
and asked her father to drive me home and stuff
this made her block me everywhere, even phone number

>>732218428

Nope, she's gone. The time for fighting was before she left you, I promise that shit is final.

Anything you do that you think is "fighting" for her now, you'll remember in the future as you being a little bitch. She already expects you to be a little bitch about it, anything you do will just confirm it.

Don't.

Just don't. At all.

>>732218484
She's gone man, now work on yourself and finding a replacement. It'll take you like 4 months to fully get over her (emotional withdrawals plus best sex)
Getting a connection is hard dude.

>>732217813
^^This.

Take some time to yourself, date some new girls. Know what the cure for old pussy is? New pussy.

>>732217692
Are you black? Was your ex white?

>>732218484

See this guy knows now. He thought he was fighting for her, but in reality he was just being a little bitch (no offense /bro).

It's human nature to want to do it, but don't.

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>>732218579
>>732218581
>>732218592
I feel like she is my better half
ive protected her against shitskins multiple times
had her back on every corner, and she had my back
we only broke up because i was not getting
over the fact that she got molested, if i tell her my story
she might understand

>>732218635
im half shitskin, and she is white
>pic related

>>732218428

So you've identified some flaws in yourself: beign needy and overprotective). Work on those. Fix them.

Shit that happened before may have caused it, but now it's a choice to continue that behavior.

Move on, and fix your own shit.

>>732218713
What exactly does it mean to not get over the fact that she got molested?
Like what did you do because of that, that she didn't like?
Also you gotta calm the fuck down before you do anything stupid that's just gonna push her away

>>732218713
>i was not getting over the fact that she got molested, if i tell her my story she might understand
Did you molest someone or something?

>>732218756
i needed to protect her, she lives in a bad neighbourhood
Me getting in fights because of guys
catcalling her and grabbing her is
justified in my book, but she doesnt like it when i
"doesnt trust in her to handle those situations by her self" but i cant
just stand there cucked while some nigger grabs her

it's only 1 week, faggot
it took me 3 months to get over my ex-wife, now I'm living my best life ever
DO NOT try to get her back, the damage is done

>>732218713

No, stop, you're trying to justify being a little bitch.

Getting molested doesn't excuse you for being needy and overprotective. Get over yourself, and fix your shit, and accept that your previous relationship is permanently over.

You won't have a healthy relationship until you take ownership and fix your own shit.

>>732218782
I keept bringing it up, trying to find out who did it
i dont know why

>>732218822
i was molested when i was younger, no one knows about this

>>732218836

Now you're making excuses for acting like a little shit.

She was smart to leave you.

Go work on yourself.

>>732218877
Then why didn't you tell her that? Dumbass.

>>732218713
What the fuck does her being molested have anything to do with your relationship?

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>>732218918
im working on myself, been doing it for over 3 years, im exacly where i want to be in life.
the relationship just ended to abrupt, what is so bad about fighting for something that has been amazing for so long, and got shit in a matter of weeks

>her compass

Stop using the molestering to excuse yourself for shitty behavior, OP.

Everybody has shit they've been through, get over yourself.

>>732217692
>broke up with me 1 week ago
>I can't seem to get over her

Give it some time faggot.

>>732218877
how long did you guys date?
And yeah looks like you pushed something really sensitive for her

>>732219005
yes broke up 1 week ago, but going downhill for about a month

>>732218988

Your words in this thread have confirmed you're much more interested in making excuses for your behavior than changing it.

Change your behavior.

And your ex is gone, you can "fight" for her, but you'll only look back on it with regret, seeing yourself act like a little bitch.

>>732219042
a little over a year
her birthday was yesterday
had bought her the gift she wanted and everything
but nothing can change her mind


Anons, i know lost love is lost forever
but if im 100% that telling her about the my experience with molestation will make her see
why i acted the way i did, she will understand

Atleast be friends again

and calling me a bitch about is justified, but i rather be a bitch and accept fate, or take shit into my own hands and fight for the things i love

If the only quality she had was sexual then you need to kys for being a beta

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>>732219199
then just talk to her if you're so fucking set on it jesus christ cunt get off 4chan

>>732219199
Give it a week or 2, especially if she blocked you. If you're desperate as fuck then you'll only make yourself look bad and less desirable, so don't contact her. Also that shit is extremely annoying so just don't.

How would you even contact her if she blocked you? Just wait, she'll unblock you. If not, then at least you should take the hint and move on instead of hanging around the front of her house drunk like some fucking creep.

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>>732217692
>broke up with me
>could stand me

>>732217692
what the fuck is wrong with this board? My fucking God people, LOL

>>732219199

You're determined that sharing your molestering will make her understand... best case scenario is she says "oh that's why you were a shitty boyfriend" and pities you for it.

You want her attention so badly, you'll be grateful for pity... but trust me /bro, in the long run, you'll regret it.

>>732217692
if you dated her for less than 6 months then you should just give up

>>732219199

you sound like a beta faggot, no offense, plus you like niggers fucking white girls so you might even be a cuck too.

she will never, and i mean this mate, she will never return to you and that's if you even had her to begin with. goodluck beta, sort it out.

>>732219385

>uses "nigger" and "beta" non-ironically

>>retard detected

>>732219433
lol

>>732219433
>dubs confirmed for mentally challenged

>>732219577

Double dubs confirm subject in question is intellectually handicapped

>>732218428

How old is she? Show us some nude.

>>732219334
>what the fuck is wrong with this board?
What's wrong with you? You're asking life advice from a bunch of strangers, most of which aren't old enough to have a driver's license and are at least mildly autistic.

There's a direct relationship between why you have to ask strangers to help you make decisions and why she broke up with you.

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>>732217692
Anons, i called her. With
"hidden number" option and told her
what had happened to me
Response was
>positive
She basically told me that i should have told to from the start
to avoid this shitstorm, im meeting up with her today
to talk about "us"

See? hope is still there
And i thanks all you retards for giving your opinions
Maybe it wont work out, maybe it will. Perhaps i
have things i need to work on, maybe i need to get over her
But now she knows, and we might be
as happy as we where.

No nudes on her unfortunatly. maybe next time

JUST DO IT! NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE! DONT LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS!

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don't listen to these fucking retards. they're too concerned about "looking like a bitch".

if you still love her, try to get her back.

and keep trying. who gives a shit what you look like. love is love. whatever.

I'm the same boat and I'm not giving up.

>>732219903

right choice.

again, don't listen to these fucking morons. most of them don't see women as people and have never been loved by one.

>>732219932

>Not giving up

So to you're pestering your ex until they change their mind by force to try again? Yeah you're fuckin stalking her. If a cock asked to suck your dick, I'd be willing to bet you would fall in love again.

>>732217692
Make her jealous.

>>732218969
See
>>732218877

>>732219932

It's not about what you "look like," it's about not being blinded by love and pride and acting like a little bitch. Not looking like a little bitch--but actually being one. Love and pride tell you to do it, so you do....

but someday, you're going to hate that you acted this way. You'll wish you could have seen thing from a bigger perspective, and avoided making a fool of yourself.

>>732220075

Cock. You know you been on 4chinz too long when Swype turns 'chick' into 'cock'.

>>732220006

This person is a stalker, and justifies their stalking in the name of love.

>>732220162

BRUH I'M NOT STALKING I'M GOING TO CHANGE HER MIND SHE'LL REALIZE SHE LOVES MEEEEE

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>>732217692

OP, do you just want us to tell you to go get her back? Or do you want our honest opinions?

If it's the latter, she can fuck off. Worry about yourself, not her. All relationships ending hurt at first, even if it was an abusive as fuck relationship you hated, they all hurt when they're over. You'll be fine in a month's time. Get over it, move on, work on yourself.

Guys who save interracial porn to their computers are repressed homosexuals.

She could sense your faggotry, which is why she dumped you.

>>732219800
This exactly

>>732217896
>Apparantly she couldn't stand you
/thread

Op you are a being a little pussy and a over emotional cunt man the fuck up and think logically about the situation. If she left you she did for a reason and if she could do that she ain't fucking worth it, and if you left her you did so also with good reason and if you did you can't like her that much

In short stop being a pussy life goes on and just find another woman

>>732220075

>So to you're pestering your ex until they change their mind by force to try again?

yeah so?

>>732220374

By doing so you reinforce all the reasons she left you.

>>732217692
>could stand me
Nope that's why she dumped you

>>732220420
Is this really so hard for people to understand?

>>732220420
>>732220491


don't really have anything to say to that, you guys are probably right, and I might be making a huge mistake, but it's my mistake to make. forgeting her and fucking random girls would be the general way to go, but I want to be with her. I really love her. we were going through stressful shit in our lives and she thought it was my fault. but now we both have our shit in order and she believes it was all my fault.

>>732217692
try to get over dude, she's already with another dude or at least had a few one night stand

>>732218428
>being molested as a kid is now something that requires understandment

fuck off. you got a cock up your ass, you didn't end up in lucifer's cage and stay there for 5 years or so.

>>732221240
Get over her dude , you only loved her coz of the shit she was willing to do for you. There are other girls out there who can do the same for you. Everyone goes trough these relationships , get over it and get only better girls.

>>732218713
Dope tat though.

Let her be though, it's been a week, give it more time.

>>732217692
abort mission bro

>>732221666

I can't. I don't want other girls, they're basic bitches.

>>732217692
>Should i just try to get over her or try to get her back?
Let's ask Barney Stinson! To wit:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpnG044XzIo

>>732217692
if you want her back, get over her. chasing women will make you be more yourself. once she sees youre fine, shell cave and want to come over and suck her cock. trying to get her back will push her away