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/b/ how do i get motivation to do things. I am 20 live at home

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/b/ how do i get motivation to do things. I am 20 live at home with parents, no friends, no life and no motivation.

>Lost my job because I stopped turning up
>Failing classes because stopped turning up
>Not playing soccer because i got fucked over by my team, soccer was the only reason i was happy to leave the house
>Never had gf or kissed a girl

I tried doing all that stuff because i was told it would help me be less awkward and make friends but it didn't work and I still have no one I don't know what to do

Also I do have moar
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Do psychedelics
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>>731482824
How will that help?
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>>731483132
Trust... All u need to do is a quit google research on psychedelics n depression
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Just stop being a faggot. The only person who can change your attitude is you. Motivate yourself and get off 4chan bitch.
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>>731483360
I've tried, I had a job went to university, played sport but it didn't help

>>731483242
Still not convinced
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>>731482500
you should get yourself a nice drug habit.
nothing motivates an anon to go outside more than the craving for hard drugs.
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more of her
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>>731482500
Dubs checked, and even though i can't contribute to your conversation, pls post more of this girl. Those boobs are straining to jump out of that top
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Do you feel like you really NEED those things to be happy?
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>>731483767
I wasn't happy with those things or without them, except soccer i was pretty happy when i played

>>731483728
>>731483652
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>>731482500
The best thing that can happen to you is for your folks to pitch you out on your lazy ass. There's no motivator like desperation, and you're obviously not able to generate motivation internally.
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>>731483904
Then you just need to find another sport. Maybe a more individualistic. Try some of them, forget about friends and girls until you find something that really interests you.
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>>731483132
is she missing a tooth?

also moar pls
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You need to stop trying to be a normie. Do what you want in your life ffs. Think of life as one big game. Do you want to please the npcs or follow your own path? I can't give you motivation, you need to find that yourself. Usually my best enlightenment moments are relaxing in my computer chair with some taco bell and thc gummies if that's any help.
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Go to the gym and try to feel a bit better and confident about yourself. That worked for me and since then its all been looking up.

Also, who's that girl? Im diamonds
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>>731482500
Dubs checked

Pick up your balls
Get your shit together
Do things in life that make you happy
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>>731484022
I think I agree with that i have no motivation I don't have consequences for being lazy, no bills to pay food to buy ect
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>>731482500
I'm a fat 23 year old virgin, lives at home with mom in shitty apartment, no gf. However I have money.. A job and a car
My only motivation is sex. Notice how I said I'm a virgin.
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how old that blonde bitch? 20 too? seems younger
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>>731484334
Older than you lol
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>>731484184
I am fit and descent looking people are always so shocked that I've never had a gf ect

>>731484224
Pretty much nothing does I'm always just in a meh mood
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>>731482500
>20
>no life

son ur life has just started, god i wish i was stil 20
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Not really...
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>>731484451
pic is asking for it.
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>>731484468
no life so far
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that bitch is standing there for you, invite her out
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>>731484551
I got the pics from a creep thread
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>>731484334
High school age for sure
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>>731484658
I 'd still fuck her to death. Really, in the bathrooms, whatever.
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>>731484618
>go to party
>meet drunk slut
>fuck her in the ass in garage
>profit
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>>731484861
Never been invited to one and no idea how to
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>>731483544
Then keeping feeling the way u feel.. Good luck /b/ro
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>>731482500
You're depressed, anon. Go see a doctor. That's what I've got to do, too.
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>>731484451
Find a job where lots of cute women work or something you enjoy. Work generally sucks unless its something you enjoy.

Find a new sport or hobby. Try something new you havent done before.
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You should kill yourself
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>>731483904
Maybe you need to exercise, then? Maybe it wasn't the soccer but the physical exertion. Exercise increases blood to the brain, increases seratonin, etc. It makes you happier in the long run. I got super more depressed after I stopped exercising. Mind, I only stopped exercising because of the anxiety I was dealing with. But as soon as I get that anxiety under control I'm headed back to the gym. I can't wait, really.
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>>731485167
Nice idea but idk what i enjoy or where cute women work

>>731485144
Might have to do that

>>731485251
Yeah probably but i'm not going to
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>>731484310
If your motivation is sex, then lose weight. Then you'll have sex. Also, move out of your mommy's house dude.
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>>731485400
You absolutely should. Even if the doc is just someone to talk to, or if they can get you some pills.
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>>731482500
when you reach the point where you realize that your life has no point, its not worthy to live alone, you wont be able to ever have the motivation back to do anything productive.
Work harder? For what? You got more money, great. You wont tell anyone. You wont buy gifts anyone, you wont go to a vacation with anyone.
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>>731483132
She is hot but what's up with her tooth?
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>>731485554
Yes good point

>>731485663
That's very depressing
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>>731485787
I'm waiting on more of this hot blonde.
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>>731485765
it's not there
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>>731482500
If you do not find solutions by yourself go see a psychologist
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>>731485900
Almost out

>>731485958
Sounds expensive
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>>731486040
you're suffering from too little testosterone because of all the fapping.
Pay attention, don't try to diffuse my instructions with your rationalization:
1. Stop fapping for today and tomorrow, here's how: Stand up, walk away from your screen. If you can't go outside because of the rain, walk around a Walmart.
2. Stay away from screens. Don't trust yourself around porn. For now, it's poison to you
3. Find a friend or relative. Hang out w/them and get some face time. If you can't give the real reason (too much fapping), say you're lonely.
4. Once 2 or 3 days go by like this, you'll 'start' to get back some reasoning skills in your brain.
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>>731486259
I don't even fap daily
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how do you 'get' motivation

you go to the motivation store, if you can be bothered
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>>731486259
this is all true.
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>>731486040
And faggot ? You prefer your money or your mental health?
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I have every single one of this girls pictures saved on my computer from months ago.
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>>731486592
Good for you
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Just go on Tinder you fucking autist. Eventually you'll find someone who'll fuck you
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>>731486643
DONT YOU EVER TALK TO ME LIKE THAT AGAIN YOU LITTLE FAGGOT PIECE OF SHIT

is there any more of this girl? or a name or something?
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>>731482500
Join the military.
Seriously. I was in the same boat. Couldn't keep a job, failed out of undergrad. Living with parents, etc etc.

Enlisted in the infantry. Deployed to Iraq. Used GI Bill to do two BS degrees in Economics and Finance. Used Voc Rehab to do Master's in Statistics. Received Fulbright Scholarship. Offered 120k job out of graduate school.

Feels good man.
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>>731486805
I will be joining after this year

>>731486737
No more of her so here's me
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>>731487013
O-oh shit thank you very nice. I'd like to run my hand down that flat stomach to that pussy mound and go to town with my fingers like spiderman.

Thank you for that.
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>>731487013
Front on pussy shot pls
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>>731487198
You guys are faggots
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>>731482500
realise that your happiness is no more important than anyone else's and stop being such a little bitch. U sound like a narcissistic assburgered faggot that needs to drop the attitude and grow the fuck up and get out of your parents basement at least!
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>>731482500
i have a 30 something year old friend who was a fat kissless virgin without any friends and now hes super popular because he played disk golf all day long. Get an active sport going on my dude. You will make friends by getting out and doing stuff.

also not keeping a job because you cant show up means you are retarded
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>>731482500
Sometimes I wish I was a freshmen in highschool again. Things were simple back then. Also checked.
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>>731487349
I have my own room that's not a basement, we don't even have a basement
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>>731487430
>>731487332
>>731487013
are you a trap?
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>>731487477
look at his hairy arms
of course he's a trap
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>>731485450
Actually I'm fat because of my thyroid is slow I can lose some weight (lost roughly 30lbs over 4 years at my job do to physical labor) funny to I've got asthma so physical activity kills me in a short period and I have anxiety so I'm ever more nervous around women which is why I'm a virgin
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>>731487430
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>>731484861

OP, I would actually make this your new hobby.
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>>731485924
Kek
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>>731482500
The lack of motivation can be related to ADHD. Sometimes it's the only symptom people are self - aware about.

Try getting a doc to give you amphetamines. They can give to the boat you need to get motivated. It also helps you focus on the task at hand, which can allow you to get going in the first place.
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>>731487509
girls can have hairy arms.
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>>731487477
>>731487509
>>731487521
I literally ran out of photos on my computer no it's not me yes it's a trap
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>>731487609
this is not a bad idea. Also not being able to be motivated for anything is a solid reason for a doctor to proscribe you Adderall (amphetamine) its worth a shot if you really are that big of a loser. But then again I also was a loser at 20. Its hard transitioning to adult life when it comes at you fast like that.
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>Lost my job because I stopped turning up
>Failing classes because stopped turning up

Well, that's your problem, isn't it?
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>>731487689
gross
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Yo, I was in the same predicament and researched a bit on why I felt this way. Found out I was having a testosterone depreciation. Started taking t-boosters and started feeling more up to doing things. I'm a guy though so no clue for a chick. Best of luck bra
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>>731487722
Double dubs can't lie
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>>731487734
Well yes because i have no motivation
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>>731483132
god damn ppl are animals. bitch is hideous. missing tooth. i guess she's perfect for you anon? set those standards low i guess, clearly can't go much lower
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>>731487878
Put a bag over her head and she's an 8.5.
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Hey man Im experiencing the same. Im 23.
No feelings (good or bad), dont care about anything, nothing matters.
Only when Im heavily drunk I can cry because I miss my brother, he suicided. When sober, I feel nothing.

I have an appointment in a month at a psychologist and hope it gets better from then.

Good wishes to you anon!
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>>731488000
Mother. Fucking. Dubs/Trips.
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>>731483544
500ug of LSD changed my life for the better anon. Don't be a dumbass, you should take it in micro dosages like 75ug everyday, it helps people with PTSD for fuck sake.
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>>731487878
Body like that you can see her face when you're fuckin her from behind
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>>731487840
You mean you're lazy and comfortable because mommy and daddy are taking care of you.

If you had the choice between showing up to work and starving to death in the streets, you'd show up. But that isn't your choice. It's between showing up for pocket change and spending money and sleeping in and playing video games.

You're lazy and weak. And until you admit this and resolve to do something about it, you won't change.
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>>731487819
Found more, I'm a guy those other pics were a random trap. Might be a good idea

>>731488027
Thanks you too

>>731488068
so many drug suggestions
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>>731486384
Fapping and sex aren't only good for your health, but mind aswell. You should be doing it once a day atleast at 20... im not even joking either
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>>731486384
wow. almost 30, work full time (usually way over full time), work out everyday, usually go hiking or some activity 3-4 times a week if i can.

still wake up stupid early to make sure i have time to jerk off otherwise im always late. and before i shower. and sometimes before i go to bed. try to stop, but can't. doesn't effect my sex life tho, but would still like it to calm the fuck down. god damn it penis
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>>731482500
Join the airforce, the navy, or the coastguard.

You have failed to sort yourself out and they WILL do it for you.

Do it today faggot. I fucking mean it.
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>>731482500
Hard mean my method to get out is make friends by drinking heaviely at partys and than make fix dates to meat and for example do work or something to get myselve out of bad...
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>>731488240
I was going to make a snarky comment about avoiding the hard services, but you're right. This guy would never cut it as a Soldier or Marine.
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>>731487609
You have ADHD, anon. Depression is the hot shit right now, but lack of motivation is often a result of ADHD. Your inability to think big picture and be able to really focus on the end result is fucking you up.

Try Adderall. If it doesn't work, you're no worse off than now.
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>>731488154
75ug wouldn't get you high anon...
When i started smoking cannabis it helped me lose weight and meet people. It's not like you have to do it though, the LSD I'd recommend in micro dosages highly. Plus if that pic was you, you look good, why so depressed?
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>>731488381
thank god doctor anon is here to diagnose u with shit even tho hes never met you
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>>731488154
FIRM
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>>731488154
Here's a better pic.
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>>731488154
Honestly I just buy the t-boosters from the grocery store and after about a week I felt like actually getting out of the house and doing things. I still take them and have been losing weight and my grades in school started going back up. Sex drive went up too. I buy the 8 dollar bottles from Walmart but do your thing.
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>>731488139
I pretty much already admitted that earlier it's the resolving to do something about it i have trouble with

>>731488394
Pics not me and I do look good anyway people are shocked i have never had a gf, looks have nothing to do with lack of motivation

>>731488483
Might try this
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you want the truth? its over for you buddy boyo, if you're 20 and never had a gf that means you're either ugly or autistic or both, welcome to incel life my friend, enjoy it while you can, i mean before you go insane and commit suicide
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>>731487521
You're fat because making excuses is easier than losing weight
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>>731488394
Nvm, your a guy, and I'd recommend looking up adrenal fatigue.
I have hypoglycemia from alcohol, im 3 months sober out of worst then you feel, i still feel like shit. Can't drink soda, can't smoke bud (which i grow), can't eat sweats, and i have to eat without felling like shit everyday. I just want to be normal, whats your excuse OP?
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>>731482500
OP I used to have the same problem except I had a gf through it. Youre just depressed so everything seems shitty. It starts with thinking about what you want in life. Then you have to think about why you want it. Then once you've figured that out, it can be your motivation for going and doing it. It gets better bro trust, just focus on being the best you can be. You can get a new job and re take those classes, its not the end of the world. All you needa do is not give up like a bitch
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>>731488758
>excuses
>legitimate health problems
(you)
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>>731484861
sounds like a fine plan
it helps me most of the time
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Do either of your parents work?
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>>731482500
Stop watching porn and eating shitty food. You have no testosterone.

Not saying that as an insulst but a diagnosis. I used to be the same way in high school; really your situation won't change unless you want it to, and it'll be tough in the beginning but easier as you go along. My parents didn't let me become what I was slowly becoming. It pissed me off at the time but I thank them every day for it. Get some super male vitality tbh.
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>>731489017
Both of them do
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>>731488812

>Youre just depressed so everything seems shitty
>It starts with thinking about what you want in life

most depressed people want to die so yea op u know what to do
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>>731488935
Muh nigga. Have sum tits
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>>731489064
What professions?
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OP, just keep talking about it and tell the people around you youre going through a rough phase.
Theyll be nice to you and help you understand yourself.
You cant solve shit like that on your own.
Go see a doctor just for the sake of seeing someone in private and telling the truth.
Youll be surprised with the rush energy that will be noticeble once you open up.

Keep your head up!
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>>731489095
Gay sex workers
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>>731489073
Depressed doesnt mean suicidal you dumb ass. Get your autismo shit outta here
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>>731489095
Mums an elementary teacher dads a cop
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>>731489136
Ask if you can do some work for them
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>>731488872

> be me, fatty
> get on my slow thyroid scooter
> go down to the asthma store
> buy food amounting to a calorific surplus with anxiety bucks, and eat it
> I'm fat because of my health problems
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>>731489137

yes it does you autistic fag i mean if you're actually depressed and not sad because your hamster died, why do you think people become suicidal in first place? too much happiness? fucking autist
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>>731482500
Find other cardio that is not team-based on dependent on others.
Off-road bicycle was always my favorite. Not boring. You might like jogging, my knees don't.
The physical and mental boost you get from cardio is like a snow ball down hill. It starts out small, but grows into something that is unstoppable... and that unstoppable thing is YOU
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>>731489323
you can be depressed but not suicidal...
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Make a list with everything that looks cool, then try everything on that list. Eventually you'll find something that suits you.
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Find a gross minge and fuck it
>pic relate - I've done worse in my time of need
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>>731489463

i wish lol haha i wanna die xD
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>>731489593
how will that help, I'll just get chlamydia or something
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>>731489681
just coz you are doesn't mean it's the same for everyone
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>>731482500
This is how the next ten years of life will be. The 20´s suck. Wouldn't go back to that shit if you paid me. Work hard and try to get ready for your 30's when you become a whole person.
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>>731489729

im not even depressed and i wanna die if i was depressed id have killed myself long time ago lol
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>>731488450
It's by far the most plausible solution here. Adderall would almost certainly help him. If he has any depression, it sounds secondary.
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i https://youtu.be/qXTmAkJKikI
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kys, https://youtu.be/qXTmAkJKikI
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>>731490221
Thanks might try
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>>731489184
You really want those (you)s huh
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>>731482500
Just KYS it's not hard
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>>731482500
>got fired for not showing up
>failing for not showing up
>Not playing soccer because i got fucked over by my team

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the forces responsible for the end of your soccer career are probably the same self-inflicted ones that ended your scholastic and career endeavors. Call me crazy.
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>>731491499
No soccer is the only thing i actually turned up for, I was captain but my whole team didn't get entered because of a lack of players
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>>731482500
Write down what you want. Like finding a gf for example. Make a plan to achieve your goal.
Remember, laziness is just a lack of motivation, once you are motivated (like having a plan) it goes away.
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>>731486259
Masturbation is good for you. Religious retard detected.
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>>731491930
Doesn't work for me at all I don't have any goals that have made me work
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>>731482500
-Get candles and start praying for yourself, and talk to yourself to reflect on why you're like this and motivate yourself to move.
- discipline yourself and hate yourself for doing it, but hate yourself so much that you will keep doing it.
-fuck soccer, get a gym card and go there with a 3 day workout: legs, chest, arms. This will tire you and get rid of self hate and depression. Or you could try to kill yourself by lifting too much
- never kissed a girl? Tinder (be creative and DON'T be yourself), and Omegle or some other like chatroulette, some random talking is better than no talking.
I've been where you've been. Nowadays, I go nuts if I don't work out, it really helped me boost my confidence. Work out until you die.
Good luck, and keep updating /b/
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>>731492504
I've tried tinder and yellow and it goes well until they actually talk to me I have the voice of a 15 y/o and I'm shy as fuck
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>>731482500
I love butterface threads.
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You don't count on mysterious motivation that comes out of no where to save you from yourself.

You cultivate discipline.
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>>731492997
some girls like that
If you want to roughen up your voice I'd suggest either smoking if you're lazy (risk getting addicted) or go out in the wood and shout, do that until you don't have a voice no more, and doing that will rip off your voice but it'll recover, and probably get better.
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>>731489593
w-what the fuck is wrong with you?
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>>731493148
probably get better......
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>>731493203
It's something.. or you can sit down and be lame as usual... It's by doing whatever that you become whatever
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>>731493465
very true anything is better than now
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>>731482500
Find new sport
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>>731493661
yeah i could but like so many choices and yeah
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>>731494105

What?

You will get motivated from doing a sport you actually like.
If there's too many choices it only means you like too many sports. So that's not the problem.

You lack motivation. Do something (a sport) you actually like. You will get more motivated to do it.
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>>731494661
I will try but i still had no motivation when i did play soccer
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Just end it. We're all tired of your shit. You're an unmotivated, future welfare recipient that I'll have to work extra years just so the government can support your asss. You contribute nothing to society and the human species.

Don't take pills, most of the time they don't work. GFCI will trip before the toaster does it's thing. Have the decency to off yourself outside. No mess to clean up and your poor fault won't have to live with a constant reminder your rotting body destroyed a room.
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>>731482500
I want to see this chick gang raped and buried in filth.
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>>731482500
drink rum+cola

gets me going every day. rum makes you feel good, cola gives energy boost. combination = win
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>>731492069
Fuck no do some research
The only good thing it does is lower your chances of getting prostate cancer but at the same time it fucks you up completely
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>>731495415
spoken like a true alcoholic
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>>731495415
I don't drink, maybe I should but also no money
>>
Don't forget to leave a note saying where they can find your worthless meat bag. Save the LE and searchers time. Plus your poor family won't keep hope you're alive.
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>>731495781
hehehe, i do try to keep it to minimum. mostly only thur+fri on working days (and sat in weekend). so as long i dont exceed the 21 drinks per week im no alcoholic according to definitions in my country

>>731496009
Get some cheapass cola and cheapass liquor, you can mix cola with everything. doens't have to cost much, although i only go for expensive rum. but if you go for the effect every high alc% drink is fine
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>>731496376
tbh i dont really care and im an addict myself but it has more to do with why you drink than how often
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>>731496229
Will do
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>>731482824
this
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>>731482500
you sound like me when I was 20

Dropped out of uni was doing anything for a year, decided i do something or may aswell kill myself.
I got a full time job, I started gym, got mad gain in muscle, hang in bars and the girls will be the ones who make the initial interaction.
Got my dick cut for the bitches, and for myself, that tight foreskin was an eye sore for me.

Put yourself in an new/uncomfortable position and own it because what you are in now is shit and soul depriving.

You're only 20 bro, I'm 29 now.
If you want to feel good quickly, start gym.
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>>731487878
i laughed my balls off.

i haven't read the thread past that but i am in nearly the same situation as OP.

>i can only get the same shitty seasonal job every year who hire ppl on the spot
>i didn't do that great in high school nor did i really keep any significant knowledge
>have zero friends, i live with my parents at 22, never really had a gf but done some things

although i honestly dont care about the gf part. i just want to know where to go. i really dont know what to do with myself and i have no desire to really do anything. my life is just going to be really shitty, finding one job from the next aint it. i'm asocial too
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>>731497387
I do have a membership for gym but never go. I should
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>>731498156
>I should
Do it. get serious about it. or nothings gonna change.
Gee yourself up with some motivational videos on YouTube.
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>>731498262
motivational videos on youtube lol
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>>731493125
This statement is some sage level wisdom but the comments saying to get a new sport are more helpful.
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>>731498421
Don't watch 'motivational videos.'
Just watch You Suck at Cooking.
Helped me through a deep depressive slump.
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>>731498421
>motivational videos on youtube lol

some people cant get out rut, may sound corny but hey it works for some to get your mindset out of the gutter

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nb6iN6nGSgo

whatever works for you

>>731493125
>You cultivate discipline
easier said that done
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>>731498421
>>731498262
none of that shit works. i've done a 25 minute cardio workout everyday on youtube. guy says keep going, you can do it, it's all in your head.

a week later that motivation is gone.
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>>731498776
those abs
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>>731498998
>25 minute cardio workout everyday on youtube
i paid for my first 2 weeks to work with a personal trainer, got my routine setup and meal plan

you cant expect to gain mass if youre not putting the right food in your body

after that, it was all me and dedication. its not easy. its hard. if you give up then you don't want it enough
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>>731499038
The goddess Anllela Sagra
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>>731498998
CrossFit. It will motifate the fuck out of you, if you like a challenge. Plus you meet lots of cool people.
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>>731499179
i do want it though. thats not an excuse around me. i dont need to pay for something i can get for free.

>>731499286
i dont know what that is, but if its anything like insanity, then i most likely cant do it. i have insanity and there is just no way i can keep up with that everyday.
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>>731488172
did you just make this up?
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Ask yourself the question "HOW do I want to live?" not "WHAT do I want to do?" What does your perfect day look like? Make that your reason, and do everything you can to chase after it.

Once you find that answer as yourself WHY you want to live like that. Remind yourself why every time you feel like a lazy piece of shit.
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>>731499179
i was a skinny cunt, 65 kilos, I'm 90kg now have been offered to model for my local gyms clothing line

I was surprised just how much my face changed. If you don't think youre anything special just wait till you get that muscle and that chiselled jawline

wish i wasn't such a quiet loner pussy in high school.. so many missed opportunities now that i look back.. but that's the journey
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>>731499403
Three times a week is all. It's hard, but a good CrossFit gym will customize the workout to your level.

It has changed my life. Just my $0.02.
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>>731485765
>what's up with her tooth
it's a test. If you notice the missing tooth you're a fag.
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>>731487013
Tfw op is an attractive female.

Op if you want to get fucked just go out and tell some guy you want him to fuck you 80% of guys would oblige
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>>731489593
Dude, no.
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Life is hard man. But you gotta take baby steps or you'll be fucked when your mum dies. Im 29 and spent maybe 3 years on my own. I woulda stayed on my own too but i tried to follow my dreams, got a bitch pregnant and focussed on that instead. Once that ended i found myself with no job, no friends, and no money. Moved back in with my folks and now im trying to get back out there. I drive 1.5 hours to work a shitty security job just so i can pay my phone bill.

When i finish my degree im gonna be 32 competing with 22 year olds for work.

You're going to be worse off than me man, and that should scare the fuck out of you. At least I've got 11 years of work experience.

Get off your fucking ass. Make a place for yourself in the world, then worry about making it comfortable.
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>>731499858
seconded
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>>731499972
If she looks like that, she doesn't need gym, she needs to meet new people

attend cooking classes, or karate, or start up some class

just to mingle
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>>731500120
the thing is i dont know where to start, where to go, or even if i have a desire to. is getting a degree in something what you're supposed to do? what else is there?
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>>731500312
OP are you female?
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>>731500470
no
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>>731500566
okay just wanna make sure advice is tailored to your sex
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>>731482500
>>Lost my job because I stopped turning up
>>Failing classes because stopped turning up
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>>731500566
>>731500470
he is not op but he is correct
>>
Go to /fit/
Start lifting.
Get in shape.
Practice talking to girls. Like go up a to agirl and just say "hi I think you're attractive."
It doesn't have to work the first time(it's called practice), but that line has literally gotten me laid before. Granted I'm already fit.
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