How do you deal with loneliness /b/?

>>728824351
fuck, no one?

>>728824351
music and drugs

>>728825044
music is a good one. Drugs are degenerate

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>>728824351
it makes me want to kill myself but I'm more afraid of death than I am of spending the rest of my life alone so I just try to ignore it by spending every hour I'm not in work or asleep browsing /b/.

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>>728825172
i know this but i love them, weed and hash, lsd, molly, coke.. ugh i need money

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Find a hobby, escapism is great.

Also, use the time you have alone to learn new things, read a book, watch some documentaries.

I'm a lonely 22 year old beta male and I'm relatively content being lonely, I have come to accept it. Plus I don't even make an effort to socialise anymore

>>728824351
Lets play videos make a wonderful prosthetic social life. It's just like fapping; you have a biological impulse that you can't sate properly, so you sate it artificially.

I was bored and really feeling it one night and looked into the asmr shit and came across some roleplay stuff like links related and it helps.

https://youtu.be/MS6gAcUikmk
https://youtu.be/V2WUDbT-YoQ

It's sad as fuck tho

>>728825584
22 year old beta too! Constantly learning new things and reading, but I still wish I had a girl to cuddle with at times.

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>>728825432
I feel you bro, stoner here

>tfw no money for weed, even if I did get money; my dealer is away for 2 months

>>728825655
Don't go down this road anon. I can promise only deeper misery lies ahead. Please please trust me and find another way.

Memes. Many memes.

>>728824351
Alcohol and weed.
Talking with hot women I'm mates with when drunk and making them hate me because I come out with shit like "YOU'RE A SEXY FUCKING CUNT".

>>728825853
This sounds like there's a story behind this. Tell it Anon.

Also, it's not constant, just something to help get to sleep sometimes.

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>>728825749
We have evolved into wise sages, in a few years our powers will be too much for this physical earth. We'll naturally ascend into the 5th dimension

tv shows, video games, memes, simple nice things

when ure poor, lonely the tiniest of simple things make me happy like going to the cinema once in a while, finding a good show or a game. if i was rich and successful it would probably be much harder to find small nice things like that

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>>728826079
Alex? You're here too?

>>728825385
/thread

>>728825753
that sucks, tbh i have money for weed i'm just a self-conscious dumbass who doesn't call my friends (two of them are dealers) to hang in fear of being annoying

>>728824351
erp and tulpas

>>728826339
What's the worst that can happen?

>>728825853
Still waiting for that story, Anon.

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>have a wife so dont ever really feel lonely
>sex life gets a little boring
>we come up with the idea of bringing other people into the bedroom to spice up our sex life
>have watched her fuck about 5 different guys
>havent had a different female yet
>hardly get to sleep with my wife anymore
>feel more lonely than ever

It never really goes away

>>728826652
this.

They're friends, Anon. Not girls you want to date/fuck. Relax

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>>728826328
Been hitting the gym lately

Thoughts?

>>728826733
Well your first mistake was cucking instead of dominating her. Rope is kinkier than going full slut.

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>>728826808

>>728826733
Either speak to her about it i.e. tell her you're not comfortable with it anymore or leave her, don't let yourself be cucked

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>>728826947

>>728826733
im so sorry

why not fuck other girls?

>>728826733
WEEEEEW LAD

>>728827076
I know... I was responding to the Alex meme...

But we haven't been winning for a week now...

I'm scared.

>>728826652
you're right
>>728826788
i'm homosex, and i'm a pretty confident dude, most faggots perceive me as charming/handsome and i've never been rejected, i'm the one who rejects

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>>728827276
Stop being gay. I've seen straight guys go gay, I'm sure it could go the other way.

>>728824351
Idk but i do. Ive actually had people ask me how i do it. Then they tell me theyd probably kill themselves if they were me.

People can be real shitty sometimes.

>>728824351
I do not feel lonliness. In fact i can go without speaking to a soul in month without actualy noticing it.

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>>728827566
it's a slippery slope.

>>728827566
wish i could, most fags annoy the fuck out of me, utterly pathetic creatures, plus girls usually gravitate towards me. but then again, i love dudes, i just feel a big emotional need to be with another man, being bi would be great thinking of it. also, i wouldn't call them homosexual, they probably just have an anal fetish

>>728828055
if this were true i'd be straight / have a fetish for women, i usually masturbate to straight porn

>>728828149
Woh man... So the thing they call atirance is in fact a emotional need to be around the other sex... How does it feel? Yeah im the same fag that doesnt feel shit.

>>728828149
explain this emotional need to be with a man?

I'm going to make a straight man out of you if it kills me.

>>728828347
Humain interactions are just alien territory for me so. Explains plz. I migth learn something new about you guys....

>>728825172
Not necessarily, it's the user that degenerates, not the drug. If you have self control they don't cause problems. Think of alcohol (the second most used psychoactive substance after caffeine) many people can use it occasionally with no problems but some people abuse it too much and die from any number of causes related to its use. Anybody who thinks alcohol is ok but other drugs aren't is a hypocrite because it is actually one of the more dangerous drugs to abuse (causing death if you go into withdrawal)

>>728824351
Killing myself. You should try it, OP.
In all seriousness, get a hobby, online gaming, keeping in touch with friends and some family. Shit, working in retail helps too, since I mostly deal with regulars, and most are friendly.
You alright, bro?

>>728828784
justify it all you want, drugs are degenerate on principle.

>>728828856
I'm good in general, just really wish I had a /comfy/ gf to cuddle with sometimes.

>>728826893
Not really into the whole dom thing though.

>>728826963
>leave her

Then the lonliness will probably be worse

>talk to her about it

How do I do that without coming off as insecure and getting dumped? Which leads back to the first issue

>>728827106
I have tries, just nothing has worked out...

>>728828980
>Not really into the whole dom thing

But she is biologically programmed to be into it. Do it, she'll love it and you'll learn to like it. Trust me on this

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>>728828872
Whatever floats your boat man, that's a stupid double standard you've got there but you're entitled to your opinion

>>728828383
i just want to be with another music loving, racist, down to earth, depressed, stoner man, be affectionate towards him, fight with him, ride his back (no not sexually) shit like that. i strongly believe homosexuality is purely environment, however i believe i cannot change without some kind of professional treatment. i was molested and had a pretty lonely childhood, i was usually rejected by other boys for being more shy/different/chill, i believe these things were what caused my homosexuality
>>728828499
you shouldn't generalize homosexuals, i believe there's different types of homosexuals, my type (that feels both sexual and emotional need to be with a man) is the rarest

>>728829116
double standard?

>>728824351
>play guitar
>write songs
>formed an online band
>read books
>smoke weed
>listen to music
>exercise a little (weights, push up, crunches all that stuff I can do at home)
>think
>vidya
>masturbate (its a big one, I don't do it often, mostly when I feel like I NEED a girl, then just whack it and its good)
>watch movies/shows I've to catch up on
once you realize you have all the time in the world to do things you like, you start to realize that there isn't enough time

>>728828499
Yeah and whats a emotion.... I just kinda feel ... Meh. Around ppl.they just dont give me a strong imprestion or just make me satisfied... and i just dont feel the need to talk to them again... I dont feel wat you call a "fuzz"? And Wtf are ppl geting mad for nothing like. Are they realy feel sad? Like those feminist when they get triggered. Srxly what's the fucking matter? Im not a edglord i just say the truth and ppl get mad....

>>728824351
I go on 4chan

about 3 months ago i stopped talking to my closest friends and i have to say it probably improved my life lol
sometimes I do feel lonely tho so youtube and 4chan is my scapegoat or i'll talk with my coworkers just to have some human interaction, but most of my life is work and college. btw college students or maybe it's their age that makes a big difference on they way they conversate. My adult coworkers can get along with me but my college peers are just straight up tight ass like they're too shy or some shit ugh makes me want to smack them in the face sometimes

>>728829214
Find a girl that's understands all this and she'll work with you. Since this is just an anonymous board I can't be there to get your head on straight, but I can give you the advice of finding a girl that will work with you to turn you straight. That's my best advice right now.

Make the effort, don't just accept your faggotry.

>>728829216
Thinking alcohol and tobacco are fine but thinking other drugs are universally and inherently bad. If you are like the Mormons that don't even drink caffeine then there's no double standard, but alcohol and tobacco cause far more deaths each year than illegal drug abuse

>>728829246
This, i actually had a lot of friends and was really unhappy. There was a time were I was happy with company, but slowly became a loner. Found out that there's no better company than yourself, I used to share a lot of shit i liked with folks and they would look at me funny cause I didnt like the "normie" stuff... So long story short i just prefer being lonely. Its like being with someone you have to work your way to not look like a weirdo.

>>728829421
oh yeah, I forgot beer. a 40oz and a 25 oz every 3 or 7 days

>>728824351
going to school works for me OP despite having no real friends in their. it helps me to improve my social skills

>>728829539
I never said alcohol is fine, it's still degenerate. As for tobacco, that really depends. Cigs are degenerate as fuck, cigars are classier if you don't smoke them all the time, and the occasional pipe is god tier.

>>728829214
Well that would fiit into darwin and some social studie... You are not fit for reproduction (ape bullie you into gayness) so you turn gay and rise children of other couple who die of cant take care of their offspring. That what the gay couple are for in other spieces.

How do you deal with not being able to be alone?
well that's my problem..

>>728829216
Also may of the illegal drug deaths are caused by the lack of regulation and quality control, and the fact that many people that want to quit don't seek help because they'll most likely get arrested. Some of them are idiots who mixed drugs and in my opinion that's their own damn fault, >90% of drug related deaths have more than one agent involved

>>728829562
Its not like I'm a weirdo, but I cant restrain myself from being myself... And im like this nerdie cool guy actually but meh.. Had 4 girlfriends, fucked them hard and I already know what's sex like so... i just masturbate. Besides, 2017 is not a good year for making relationships, not even long term. Just go with the flow, have me time and enjoy my weed.

>>728829755
Find time to be alone, Anon. It can't be that hard

>>728829470
sigh.. i just want to be man rn anon, but i do intend to do that in the future, having a wife and a shit ton of kids is something that i really want. tell me about girls btw please, what it's like being straight?

>>728824351
By not being an emotional faggot and telling everyone to gtfo. If you need people yu need a razor blade to the wrists/throat

I will happily murder you if you are that pathetic

>>728829562
I do still see some friends, but they live out of town so I only go visit like twice a year and stay for a couple of days. Then its back to home and being alone, which never bothered me really.
I find that the feeling on loneliness is stronger when you know there's people around you but you're not seeing them. If you live away from everyone you know then its simple, as if it was the way it had to be.

I also like to think a lot, discover new things about myself and honestly, certain things I find I actually end up liking and that gives me more confidence than anything ever has.

One thing I wish was different was my ability to talk to girls, not that I struggle but I'm not 'exposed' to that often and whenever I am, it only lasts for a couple of weeks which for my autistic mind isn't enough to really know a girl and consider asking her out. Its complicated and weird but thats the way it is

>>728829722
see >>728829855

>>728829855
Do it as soon as you can, you'll need to maximize your time. You never know how long it's going to take to turn.

As for girls, what do you want to know? Was only physically with one girl and even then I didn't fuck because she just wasn't worth it. But I've had long distance "relationships" with girls

Learn how to use Linux.

It's extremely hard when you have a huge family
and depending on goverment to sustain.
So become independent? well then i have to work. Study to something well then i gotta deal with people.. every where i go there are monkeys. There is only one way out...

>>728829698
Well at least you're consistent, unlike many anti-drug conservatives, responsible adults should be able to make their own choices, and the burden of blame for their death lies solely on the user if the process is regulated and controlled making it safe as long as you follow the directions. if they don't follow the directions it's their fault

>>728829855
Mwell idnk last time i had sex i felt a void within myself. I was just a in out in out. I dont get ppl or how they interact with eachother.... I once had a "fuzz" around a girl but i fuck it up good... Even if... I dont get ppl so long term relationship is a no no.

>>728826733
beta cuck faggot. kill your self. pathetic cunt

>>728830068
what do you see in girls? like what do you want out of a relationship with a woman, something like what i described in >>728829214

>>728830314
At this point of my life? Just a nice girl that wants to be a "girl" and start a family. Like a light version of the 50's housewife.

As for personality, I've come to a sad realization that most girls probably don't have any real personality and just adopt whatever their bf/husband believe. But I wouldn't mind a Lauren Southern type. Strong and opinionated and not afraid to discuss things, but still wants to be the traditional "submissive" wife.

>>728829698
Also that statement inherently proves my point, they're ok as long as you practice moderation. Most drugs are very safe as long as there are no cutting agents (the main cause of most adverse health effects in illegal drugs) and you follow the directions/don't mix drugs

>>728830747
You can't compare tobacco and LSD. Maybe weed, but not anything harder than that.

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Get yo ass on OKcupid, I've had success meeting girls on there. Do it.

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>>728824351
i just do OP, sometimes it sucks sometimes its not that bad, for the last 6 years i almost never leave my house, i spend weeks without talking to anyone

>>728829971
Actually you are quite aware, wich is great. The bad thing would be if you weren't aware and throw yourself into oblivion with girls (Don try)

I had 4 girlfriends as I said before, bealive me, its not that great and hurts even more than being alone. Humans are not designed to be monogamous and its proven. (Saying because girls actually will try to find something better than you, its in their dna, (don't think that they will stay with some trash that crys for being alone) They will look for the alpha male, its in our primal dna broh. Just stay chill, be happy, dont marry and have kids. Or did you see your parents being happy? Just be happy with yourself, its a hard work but its so worth it!

>>728830924
Define "meeting"

>>728829539
>alcohol and tobacco cause far more deaths each year than illegal drug abuse
<source: my ass

>>728830685
i've been slowly realizing that about women, but i think you just cemented the red pill rn anon. lauren is a qt but i want my future wife to be feminine, gender fitting people are attractive, even if i'm not really attracted to girls but u get what i mean

>>728830840
Why not? There's no logical reason you can't unless you have a double standard, a psychoactive substance is a psychoactive substance regardless of how it mediates its effects. LSD is self limiting because your brain compensates if you use it too often, alcohol and tobacco both have major chronic diseases linked to long term use. If you compare them alcohol and tobacco it's very safe. Humans have used psychoactive substances throughout history and alcohol was the foundation of western culture as they made water safe to drink (untreated water that doesn't com from an aquifer always has pathogens in it)

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>>728824351
by becoming a nazi and have your face punched in.

>>728825172
>Drugs are degenerate
in other words; perfect for you.

>>728824351
I fap 4-6 times per day.

>>728831843
one is a relaxes and the other is hallucinogen. When is like getting a back rub on your brain, the other is pure escapism. You're running away from you're problem

>>728831883
I would already be called a nazi if I was open about my views, though I haven't been punched in the face yet.

>>728831922
kek

>>728824351
I hang out with faggots on /b/

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>>728831928
buddy...

Are you okay?

Calm down. You're literally killing yourself there.

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>>728831883
>immediately resorting to violence because you don't like their beliefs
Way to take the moral highroad assholes, not a Nazi but I believe in freedom of speech, unlike many of these SJWs

>>728832208
well, you should go and speak your mind to antifa. get the complete nazi experience.

>>728832452
Not alone. I don't have a death wish. Though I would fight them in the race war and feel no remorse for them.

>>728824631
Woulda been awesome if people were smart enough to not comment on your post, lol. That said, I go to bars. I also date womem but I'm assuming you're a pussy that won't ask women out.

>>728832410
I'm fine, bro.
Been doing it for years.
Can't stop.
The more I cum..., the harder I cum.
(Yeah..., I know I got issues.)

Dude for your own sake, do other thing.
Fapping 6 times tell us you have a lot of energy per day, wich you could be using for other things!
Read No fap benefits, im not saying go cold turkey or dont never fap again... JUST MODERATION. It's going to be better, talking from experiencie here homie, used to fap 3-2 times per day, now only once per week. Its cool

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>>728832450
>complaining about people resorting to violence
you mean like this?

btw, defending nazis is like defending isis, counter productive. give a wolf your hand and it will take your whole arm... then rape you with it, and fuck your family and burn them. they are terrorists.

>>728832998
>>728832833
Srry its was for you

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>>728832833
You uh... You want a friend?

I'm genuinely concerned about you, Anon.

>>728832568
that's because you're a psychopathic murderer.

>>728832450
Why the fuck is a quote, thats not even by fucking Voltaire, on a deep dreamed picture of a random Saving private Ryan scene?

I have absolutely no fucking words

>>728824351
sad movies or animes, alcohol, its kinda my fault cus im a piece of shit and a human waste

>>728833013
Modern Nazis only want to remove people from their own countries. They learned from WW2 and don't want to kill, they just want their own countries.

>>728833317
ma nigga

>>728833113
No, I just don't feel bad about killing people that want me, my family, and everyone like me dead

At the moment, I watch "13 reasons why"
and when i dont i remember what donnie darko said.

>>728833419
bullshit.

>>728832998
>>728833071
I do other things..., many other things.
Believe it or not, I have a really productive life.
I am well aware that it is an addiction..., I am addicted to orgasms.
But hey..., there's lots worse things I could be addicted to..., right??

>>728833857
I run in those circles.

Sure, there are some that want to kill everyone else, but most today just want their own countries.

>>728824351
I smoke weed

>>728824351
deal with loneliness with regular work schedule to the point your time off work is already planned all the time. then soend time with family if good terms with folks. then do activity which betters yoursled such as meditation yoga or body buildimg. then do and spend time starting yiur own businesses make plansnto get rich while soending little to nothing or acquire skills to make a fortune. like creating apps. etc. consider becomjng real estate broker

>>728834075
>Sure, there are some that want to kill everyone else
literally none of the circles i've ever been in have anyone promoted killing anyone. see the difference? it only seems normal to you because that's your environment.

take muslims for example, most may not want to engage in genocide, but they empower those who do. same with nazis. and in the end, nazis and isis is pretty much the same deal, just slightly different when it comes to the religious part, and nazis are better at decorating.

do you think the germans wanted to kill all jews? probably not, but they empowered the nazis who did want that, and in the end we're left with a genocide.

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>>728832110
>not realizing all drugs are a form of escapism, especially alcohol

>>728824351
Well, my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I thought we were happy, I totally missed it. Took me by surprise. So far I've been high on weed and listening to music, so I don't know.

>>728833013
I said in my post that I'm not defending Nazis, I'm more pissed of at the escalation of violence simply because you can't say you're a better person when you stoop to their level.

>>728824351
Spencer is such an obvious pillow biter.

All his little white boys in his crew sound like helium huffing manlets, and walk like faeries

>>728824351
I pretend that nothing is real. That's how I cope.

>>728833224
I'ts a commonly misattributed quote
citation:
https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Voltaire

>>728824351

FOR THE TRULY LONELY PEOPLE IN THIS THREAD, HERE IS HOW I HAVE LIVED MY LIFE THE LAST FOUR YEARS:

>worked a full-time job. sometimes talk to my colleagues
>go home and read, write, and drink
>travel alone once a year or so, usually backpacking or camping
>go to movies, concerts, and sporting events
>always sit alone
>always have a book to read
>always have liquor at hand
>visit my relatives as much as I can. they probably pity me, but they like getting visitors, especially the old ones
>find a hobby, and I don't mean video games or drawing or collectibles. get a good hobby like investing, handiwork, side-hustles, amateur theatre/comedy, story slams or poetry slams (there are so many lonely people there, you're bound to fit in), and the greatest cures to loneliness:

READING CLASSIC FICTION
and
WATCHING CLASSIC MOVIES

I can't recommend this enough.

>>728824351
See:
>>728825385
i deal with loneliness like this anon does by coming to /b/

>>728824351
1. Paint and write
2. Watch sports
3. Read
4. Shitpost

I just try to keep myself busy. Although, I've never really needed much social interaction, so it's not that big of a deal for me. In fact, it's not unusual for me to go weeks without having a conversation.