Feels thread.

go feel youself somewhere else motherfucker

Because i lke men, i am a huge flaming homesexual.

My wife won't let me

i like having my:

>money
>time
>able to just hang out with my friends
>actually like masturbating

bitches be trippin i need a break from the insanity

happy living my life without having to share it with anyone.

Plus I haven't got the faintest idea where a girlfriend would fit in. I'm busy nearly all the time.

>>728229569
just like OP

Failed, got one.

Because the wife wouldn't agree to it

>>728228571
Because I have a boyfriend and bitches be crazy.

I'm saving myself for marriage

i have a few girlfriends

>Too lazy to put myself out there
>Don't care, happy alone
>Don't even look at 3D any more. I'm slowly becoming a wizard
>Also nobody would ever want me

>>728228571
Because i'm poor as fuck , and can't work because of school

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>>728228571
Too pathetic and busy.
Also I'm incredibly selfish.

Who needs 5 mins?

Because I don't want one.

I'm a beta fucktard

>>728228571
About that,

I thought I'd make a separate thread but I'm gonna post it here anyways:
I'm currently in a 1.5 y/o relationship with a wonderful girl who loves me a lot, but from whom I've lost my feelings in time, mainly because we've got close to nothing in common and can't relate to each other. Should I stay because of how great she is or get out and look for someone else?

>>728228571
Five words:

My. Wife. Won't. Let. Me.

>>728230587
for* whom I've lost my feelings

I'm a sex addict and my dick was too big for her, so she left.

I asked her and she wasn't interested.

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>>728228571
I did, she left me though. But I did get trips this morning so hoping she will checkem and come back

"my wife wont let me"
WELL IT IMPLIES THAT YOUR WIFE IS A FUCKING " GF " U CUCKLORDS

I have no gf because I cant talk to my crush, only to females that I am around long time

>>728230587
I think you should let her go.
If you've really got nothing in common and can't relate to each other, staying with her is just leading her on.
Most girls want to get married at some point, and it won't last if you're not good friends as well as good lovers.

>>728229722
i came into this thread to say that i don't have a gf because i'm a fat, poor introvert with no general goals or direction, but your post is actually way more pathetic. thank you

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because my last one was a fucking prude and i'm antisocial as fuck

>>728231037
Antisocial as in "You're a real prick" or antisocial as in "Why are you so quiet, anon?"

>>728229900
Trip dubs checked

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Because I'm a bottom boi

>>728228571
Got Aspergers, somewhat ugly, rather skinny and really shy

>>728228571
because I have a fiancee

>>728228571
Cuz I'm really quirky and fickle and I do more drugs than any rockstar who has ever existed.

>>728228571
cause i have a wife

>>728231467
No op but y cant it be both... im both

>>728228637
Nice boi

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>>728231562
Same, what do...

>>728230899
thanks. that's what I've also been thinking. nice dubs, by the way

>>728228571
Because I am married

I had in my opinion th most beautiful, smart and good girl. It was the happiest year of my life. One day she told me how much she loves me, how we should go to a vacation to Hungary soon, how beautiful it would be. 2 days after she broke up with me, saying she doesnt love me anymore. Out of nowhere. We go to the same colelge, see each other every day. She still talks to all of my male friends, never to me. We used to talk for several hours a day, now she even wouldnt look at me. Every goddamn day when i see her I want to commit seppuku. Can't even imagine looking at other women now.

She's 17 and I'm 30 we have to keep it under wraps

>>728232197
She fucked someone else and was just too much of a pussy to admit it.

My grandmother's dog just died, i loved that dog, lived for 12 years, happiest dog i've ever seen

>F

>>728228571
Because I'm pathetic and I don't have the balls to talk or approach girls and I hate myself for not being able to do it.

I have a decent physique,I am tall and have an average face, I have a bit of acne and not the best jawline but I don't have anything terrible that just repels woman.

Uglier,shorter or out of shape guys I know have decent gfs and I can't and it's my fault and I hate myself.

>>728228571
I fall hard for people and when they reject me it takes a bit to move on :/.
Gotta do it though, don't want to be some loser posting on 4chan about how much he hates women cause one didn't fuck him.

>>728228571
because im miserable

>>728232335
I dont know.. She is the last person on earth who I think could do such a thing.

Just broke up with mine 4 months ago and I don't plan on being in another relationship.

>>728228571
I'm a fat introverted neet (unless I get a call back from some stores).

Pretty much have accepted that I'm not going to get a girl anytime soon or ever.

>>728232795
Either that or some kind of trauma, as you would reject the other possibility of her leading you on for over a year because she is such a nice person.

Because Im not good seducing girls, im not ugly just i dont know how to talk with them.

>>728228571
I had a nervous breakdown 5 years ago, only got to the point where I felt like boyfriend material again one year ago. I haven't met the right girl yet though.

>>728230431
Are you me?

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>>728228571
me from the last social event I attended

>>728228571
I cannot afford a girlfriend.

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>>728233248
Life sucks.
Hope you do well, man.

>>728229722
> actually like masturbating

woah. its almost as if we've known each other for years...

>>728232995
Look I'm not gonna pretend I'm good with relationships, because Í'm not. I've had a total of 2 gf's. But.. I don't know she always seemed like she was the one who was more attached than I was. She would call me more often, want to see each other almost evey time we are separated, tell me she loved me more often (not that I didnt).. And I mean when she broke up with me it just seemed so off-character. Like not the person I've known for so much time. So I guess really something drastic had to have happened. I'm just angry/sad because I couldnt understand what.

>>728233396
I'm doing pretty actually, I got a bunch of help and am currently interning at a landscaping company.
The fresh air, exercise and sunlight is doing wonders for me.
Thank you for the sentiment though. And I hope the same for you anon.

>>728230973
i now see why you dont have a gf

>>728233588
Have one of your friends inform her that you're hurting because of a lack of closure.
She doesn't have to get back with you or anything, but the decent thing would be her giving you a reason.

>>728233377
Awesome gets.
Amazing camel toe.

>>728233331
nice quints- oh wait SYKE NIGGA TWO OFF JUST LIKE YOUR VASECTOMY

>>728233635
pretty well*

just found out that I can't join the military because of my ADHD/bipolar disorder. I'm a fucking failure, destine for nothing

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>>728233928
>>728233333

>>728234036
That is not true, you just need help with dealing with your psychological situation. Plenty of people live full lives with those disorders.

>>728233829
As a matter of fact I thought this through. And it seems very reasonable. Have never considered it with anyone, cause i thiught it would look desperate because I kind of put that facade of not giving a fuck about her. But now that another person tells me the exact same thing I might as well just do that.

>>728234184
At least you have let her know how you feel, even if it is by proxy.
How she reacts is up to her, if she doesn't want to be responsible and tell you, she wasn't worth your time anyway.

>>728234361
Ty. anon it was good talking to someone. 4chan is the 1st place where I've shared my feels lol. Didnt exactly expect a good advice here but hey whatdyaknow

>>728234361
what he said

I rarely leave the house except for mandatory reasons, never go out to socialise, spend all my free time working towards personal goals/browsing /b/

>>728234721
You're welcome, I know how much it sucks to be broken up with, without getting a reason.
I hope you get your answer.

I have one and I try her like shit cause she's stupid.

>>728234157
sure anon, where would I start?

Too lazy to give attention. From my experience girls want to text all the time, I cant open facebook without having to text back, 100 missed calls on my phone, always want to go out etc. I want to stay home and play games and browse 4chan and when I had a gf I didnt have time for myself.

>>728235820
With your doctor.
He/she can give you a referral to a good psychologist or psychiatrist.

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>>728228571
>be me
>be 19
>be suffering of social anxiety
>hair is falling out (alopecia areata) like in pic
>feeling insecure everywhere and all the time

thats why i dont have a girlfriend

I had a girl basically on the verge of dating me a couple of weeks ago but I just couldn't do it, I have too much of a crush on another girl and it's getting to the point where I just don't find other girls attractive enough to start a futile relationship that's going to die within the year because I'm moving to another fucking country


I hate having feelings /b/ros, I don't want feelings, I want to be rational

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>>728230917

>>728236556
Shave your head and have your doctor refer you to a cognitive behavioral therapist.

>>728228571
Because I lost interest in women, men, and sexual desire of any kind. Occasionally I will feel the urge once again, but it goes away fairly quick. Not sure how much I should be concerned about this kind of mentality, but I like to think that everything will work out in the end.

>>728236662
Tell the chick you are crushing on how you feel anon.

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>>728228571
I honestly just like being by myself. I wouldn't even be that upset if I didn't have any friends.

in the process of getting one.
Date night in a few days :D

>>728230917
have your (you) and be done with it.

>>728228571
because putting yourself into any sort of semi-permanent or permanent commitment is foolish

/thread

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Just wanted to share minecraft music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dg0IjOzopYU
Hit me quite hard right now, the days I had playing with my old classmates and friends in our world, the new friends I made in the servers, the houses built, creepers killed... All gone..

>>728236747
i have to shave my head soon but i dont want it im not that type of guy that fits a bald head

>>728237212
ouch..

Severe autism.

>>728237293
It beats a bald patch though. You'll grow to accept your bald head with time anon.
It doesn't diminish your worth one bit. You can't help having alopecia, it's just something that happened.

>>728236822
I did, she turned me down

I don't really know if she just isn't attracted to me or what, because I have very reliable info that she's scared of relationships but I also have been told by someone I trust that she had feelings for me at first, but then stopped

I'm pretty fucked, specially because even if I managed to deatach myself from her it's hard to find women I can see myself with

>>728228571
she cheated on me with a 23 yr old after 2 years of going out.. were both 18

>>728237658
Well being hooked on a girl does hamper your perspective on other girls. I know this might be a bit harsh, but once you detach from this girl, other girls will be much easier to see yourself with.
Give yourself a set time to grieve what wasn't and then work on moving on.

>>728237826
Relationships at that age rarely lasts, it sucks that you hurt anon, but with time you'll move on and find another woman to love.

>>728237975
That's my problem, I suck at moving on, I tried to give myself some time away from her but my group of friends is very tight and she's in it, so I got it double hard.

Also there are a few reasons it's hard af for me to find right girls, I can't stand drunken people and unambitious people, which kind of makes me dislike most chicks

Relationships are dumb, Id rsther beat off and hook up with guys on occasion. Also a faggot.

20 year old kissless virgin here, you know the story but something's changed. I've met a cute girl and fuck me she actually likes me... I'm so scared I'm going to fuck this up.

>>728238921
Just try to relax and take things as they come, does she know you haven't been with anyone before?
>>728238720
Well those are some very specific criteria, how come you feel like that?

>>728239141
Yes she knows. Doesn't seem to mind, we've gone out a few times and we can just talk for hours about the dumbest of stuff. It's the first time in my life experiencing this. It's a nice feeling.

>>728239405
If she knows and is fine with it, you should be golden anon. Just relax man, sounds like you found a good one.

>>728230788
Don't hurt anyone please

>>728233848
I'm from Canada , here we call it a moose knuckle

>>728239141
Had a shit childhood and shittier early teens, big brother used to hit me when he was drunk, I grew up hating alcohol and being around drunk people makes me revert back to panic mode

About unambitious people... I just can't stand it, most of my teens I was depressed, ever since I was 11yo, the only thing that kept me going was the idea of actually achieving great things, that's what my life is about and I'm not interested in relationships with people that I can't share that life with, specially at this moment because I'm moving to the US next year so I'm leaving behind almost everyone

>>728239996
Well then, try to get past this girl and I'm guessing you're going to the U.S. to study?
Meet someone with similar preferences there then.

>>728240228
Yeah, I'm doing SAT next month and hopefully I'll get into MIT, CalTech or GIT for next year

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I've felt a "connection" to only a few people I've ever met. Don't get me wrong, I do get along with people and I'm not a misanthrope or anything. I just feel like most of the time there's some invisible social wall between me and the other person. This wall makes me feel like the ideas, thoughts, or feelings I try to communicate, don't translate to the other person. They just hit the wall, then the ground, and shrivel away.

But like I said, a few times in my life I've managed to meet someone who I feel communicates the same way I do and can empathize with me. And it feels amazing. It's just about the only thing that doesn't make me feel like an alien walking through a dream.

One of these people was a girl whom I immediately fell for pretty hard a couple of years back. She didn't feel the same way at all, and I can't really blame her, sometimes things just don't work out like that. She later on moved to another country. I don't see her anymore. I'd like to keep in touch but I have no idea what to say to her. It's been a while.

After I met her, I haven't come across anyone new who makes me feel like a human being by just talking to me. Sometimes I'm scared I've lost the ability to meet new people like that and I'm trapped inside my head if I ever happen to lose the ones that I know already. But I hope that's not the case.

Anyway, I think I just needed to vent. Hope you all anons have a good weekend ahead of you.

>>728228571
>mental illness
>criminal record
>ugly

>>728240491
You're bound to meet likeminded people there.
You're young and there is no rush to find the right person.

>>728240732
Thanks for the advice /b/ro

>>728239550
Guess so man. Thanks for your word dude. I appreciate it.

>>728228571
She's married

Because after 3 years she left me for someone else

Because im married


/thread

>>728240841
You're welcome, I know how it feels to think things are hopeless. They usually aren't though, it's just a fear of what the future might bring.
The best you can do is put yourself in a position where good things can happen, that means staying optimistic and open to change.
>>728240931
You're welcome mate, I was a bit of a late bloomer myself, so I know how you feel. I had someone else pep talk me like I did you and it helped.

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>>728228571
I've been cucked enough times to conclude that I'm too jaded by and wary of women.
In turns that made me into a loner with an abrasive personality, or undateable, if you will.

>>728230587
I had a girlfriend that nothing in common we had. I had wish to go hardcore rave with her n next day wear elegant dress for finest rich people dinner.

>>728228571
Because I am happy with my tulpa

still not over same girl lol

>>728228571
I'm Anti-Social(Idespisetrendfags), lack of sleep, and not muscular(still good looking). I also haven't been in a "serious" relationship since the 7th grade. There were several chances were I could've had a gril in high school, but their parents wouldn't let them date(literally happened 3 times). I just graduated, I feel likes there's no hope to meet a soul mate. Can anyone relate? Should I just kms?

I'm intensely uncomfortable with the idea of being physically intimate with someone I don't know well and trust. So far I've had great female friendships, nothing else.

>>728232197
U have to look other girl. But no more bicthes like her

Why are you all so mopey? You don't need girlfriends.

Don't get brainwashed by society into monogamy.

Nothing lasts forever, especially love.

Cause girls are mostly stupid and i don't like sex since i was abused when young. Why have a girlfriend for any other reason than sex? kek

>>728230579
this + socially awkward

>>728241654
You're still young, giving up now would be a waste.

>>728228571
My hand gives good handjobs.

>>728241822
no matter how red-pilled or ''Alpha'' you think you are, every human needs things like friendship, loyalty, love, companionship etc.

it's not society brainwashing people, it's basic human instinct.

>>728241438
dude your English is terrible

>>728236556
How work your social anxiety? Maybe is same as mine. N shave ur head

Because most relationships end in disaster. People hook up because they're sexually attracted to each other, but sex by itself doesn't act as a glue to hold people together.

You can have sex with ANYONE. But to be in love, that takes hard fucking work which many people are too lazy or whatever to do. It's hard to find people who are mutually interested in the same things and who you can do things with outside of fuck each others brains out.

Best off luck to all of you lads. There's plenty of awesome ladies out there, but again, compatibility is hard.

>>728231562
Pretty similar here my friend, but dont shy away. From my personal experience when I tried to get closer to a girl I liked (and failed ofcourse, bitch had a bf apparently and lied to me...) it is worse to keep it inside than share it.

Autism
Depression
Introversion

Basically my fault, but in my defense there's nobody out there.

>>728242432
>hard fucking work
You sound like a 9gagger

>>728238720
No all girls like this isn't it. Not like this in lot of place

>>728232197
Dont commit sepukku anon. Commit murder.

>>728228571
A-social personality and MDD. Don't feel like dragging someone down when I hit my lows every year.

>still at parents
>taking care of sick mom
>no car
>nightwolf
>yellow fever

>>728242645
Dafuq? S P E E K E N G L I S H

>>728237658
U are me

>>728242858

Englisch ist verwirrend genug.

>>728228571
I don't want one.

>>728243013
Try writing english by reversing how you would structure your sentence in german, it should make you easier to understand.

>>728228571
She broke up with me 3 days ago with just 2 sentences after 7 years of relationship

>I think, you see yourself that we kinda not feeling that much anymore.. So lets go different ways again.

>>728228571
I'm skinny af , my weight is 50kg , feelsbadman

>>728243077
oldest excuse in the book
sad little anon

Not a people person.

>>728237212
I miss my minecraft days too :( Looking through old screenshots/booting up old servers and remenising over the how happy I was playing with my friends at the time.

>>728230251
Be? I think "are" is the word your after. Fucking cunt.

>>728228571

Because I cheated on her.

Well that happened. I spoke to a girl I am interested in Sunday. But what's odd is how she seemed interested in the conversation but suddenly she dropped from it. Probably just had something come up suddenly?

And then this happened Monday

I was talking to this other girl. We hit it off (I mean she stayed up late keeping me company while I was heading to VA, and then spoke for like 10 hrs straight the following day about everything.) and we kinda agreed to try an LDR but mid conversation she deleted her account on the site without explanation. And I tried to reach her on another site, but she instantly deleted her account when I messaged her

So one girl stops replying randomly and then the next day this other girl cuts all contact all together at random

It's funny how I met girl two though. I asked her for advice on the the first girl, and she gave some good input. Then we started talking about other shit. She stayed up with me till 4 AM talking about politics, and other stuff. Up till she passed out. Monday I messaged her and we spoke a little about the first girl. Then I gradually hinted that I may be interested in her. She caught on by the end, and we agreed to try an LDR. Then an hour later she deleted the account.

3 Options I considered

A) She realized that we'll probably never meet, so to prevent her from really falling for me she cut contact.

B} She told me about a guy she like who asked her for nudes. So I told her that he was probably just using her for that. Maybe she feared that I would do the same?

C) She saw that I really didn't think I was good enough for that other girl, so she told me I was cute and all that. Then cut contact so I didn't become too attached to her and abandon the first girl (Who girl 2 thought liked me with 99.99% certainty)

>>728228571
I've been crazy busy for so long getting my career going. Now I finally have time to try again, and it almost feels like I don't even remember how to initiate a potential relationship. meh. It'll buff out.

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>>728228571

2 years into a dry spell, self esteem is at a record low-- I hate myself, I'm 135lbs @ 5'10, 23 yr old uni dropout, I have a meme tier job, and I have a baby face. You know that little voice in the back of your head that says mean, negative things? It's gotten really fucking loud and hard to function normally around. I lost the ability to reciprocate a smile around 6 months ago.. weirdest fucking thing man.

>>728228571
Because i have a wife. Bitch would nag if she finds out i have a lover.

>>728230788
almost trips again dude

>>728228571
I turned my girlfriend into my wife. She was 19, I was 38. We've been married for 7 years and she's still hot as fuck. I'm old and I get very nice tight 20: something year old pussy.

I am a pretty lucky guy.

>>728228571
Indeed I have, but not as great as you think. Some weeks ago we started like a no-sex period to se how much we could hold on. I did agree. she used it as "extorsion"(if u don't do this we will prologn the no-sex), and as a way of putting herself in control (if you behave well maybe I shorten the period).
The thing is that I didn't fall for the extorsion neither accept the rewards of "good behave", as a man that I am I couldn't accept it that she controls me. Now the game is over by her demand and I really want to have sex, but any time we are in the mood now I remember that doing it will put her in power and make me her bitch turns me totally off. 4 months have gone by and I miss sex but I will not sucumb. Feels bad that the person I love taught it could control me over fucking sex

Sorry for my english

>>728244175
Go look up cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness meditation.
I have that shitty voice too, but nowadays he spends his time at the back of my mind, chained up with a dirty sock in his mouth.

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> Ugly, both inside and outside.
> Anti-social.
> Not enough emotional capacity to actually hold such a relationship.
> Poor and depressed.
> Enough problems of my own to deal with right now.
Meh, at least I don't blame women for not throwing themselves into my arms.

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>>728244353
How'd you pull that off? Live in the midwest?

>>728232197
FTB

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This is a good read

>>728242234
Yeah, but you don't need to attach yourself to some bitch for life. It's unrealistic.

If you want friendship, loyalty, and companionship, get a dog.

>>728228571
She dumped me when I thought it was all going great

>ugly as fuck
>Autistic.jpeg

>>728228571
Women are not my forte. I am a gentlemen for unique and exquisite taste. Women, unfortunately, do not my share my unique style in the finer things of life.

>>728228571
cause i married her :D

>>728236556
yeah dude shave your head. its fucking pathetic when men are going bald and they are trying to fight it knowing they won't succeed. rol with a bald head.

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The girl I loved left me. After a few good serious relationships, I met a girl who trapped my brain in her depths, then left.

Now, 6 years later, I'm just some 29 year old aberration from realty. Nothing feels true; nothing feels real, and I have no idea what I could ever value again.

When you've got an ass like that in front of you, and an infectious mind attached to it, you can never see an alternative, as a perfectionist.

>>728244728
you sound like a connoisseur of exotic dogfarts.

>>728228571
i don't talk much

>>728244728
I'm a guy.
Want to marry me so I get to leech all your monies? I can suck your dick every now and then, so it's probably a better deal than marrying a woman.

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>be 22 this month
>have trap body, but 100% straight
>suffer from micropenis
>cucked from birth

>>728244653
holy fucking shit.

>>728228571
Too selfish. Not willing to invest any time in a gf.

>>728244505
as in see a therapist? I've been thinking about it more and more and I think my insurance makes it so I only need to pay $25 per visit but still that adds up fast and I'm trying to save up to move out. Living at home makes me feel like a parasite you know?

Looking into meditation now. Seems pretty easy tbh.

>>728228571
I have one. She's on the phone with her mom atm.

The only girl I got myself to put effort in lead me on for 3 years, used me to cuck her boyfriend and when I needed her most she ignored me because I wasn't good enough.

>>728228571
fat autistic neckbeard

>>728244860
I actually prefer making pottery, international politics, and ethical dilemmas surrounding the cisgender male community.

>>728245108
Your parents probably wishes the best for you, talk to them about this. They'll probably support you and let you live with them for a bit longer, if it helps raise your chances of a happier life.
So yes, as in see a therapist.
Besides, being on your own when you feel like this is a bad idea, having someone to support you while you work on your issues heightens your chances of positive change.

>>728244932
I feel that any sexual contact would result in marred circumstances in our marriage. We must stay pure to fully enjoy all of life's other pleasures.

>>728245369
As in die cis scum or in the sense that they are demonized/criticized way beyond what would be considered reasonable?

>>728245623
The demonization of the modern cisgendered white male, I believe, has led to a cultural inequality of psychological circumstances that is very real yet very unacknowledged and, in fact, mocked by the media and just about all who remain under the sun.

>>728244133
Are maybe they are stupid hoes who don't know what they want and they cut contact with you cause they are fucking stupid like most girl without any fucking logical reason?

>>728228571
joke's on you I have a GF
>I wish I wouldn't tho

>>728246228
Ah okay, we're on the same page then. I got confused when you referred to them as cis men instead of heterosexual men.
I tend to connect people who say cis with extreme left wing authoritarians.

>>728229704
/thread

>>728228571
Fat. Have a very small dick.
Years of rejection has made it so i don't ask girls out anymore. Didn't need 5 minutes to say all that.

>>728246677
I find it kind of funny that "left wing authoritarians" are called liberals in America, and even funnier is the fact that those bitches aren't even properly leftist

>>728245444
Not all parents are good parents, you know? Some just want you to leave and don't call ever again

>>728247231
I used to be one, but then I got tired of hating myself and apologizing for behavior that wasn't even part of my personality traits. Now I'm a liberal left wing person instead.
>>728247334
Yeah some parents are like that, is that the case in this situation?
Because if it is, I'm gonna reverse my advice and tell you to get away from them as soon as you can.
Family can also be people you choose.

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Not too hard to get one

>>728229900
SOS <- This!

I actually like being single.

Imma an asshole wit no life

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>>728228571
Women generally don't like black men, unless they're thugs, athletes, or these yuppie-fuccbois who may or may not be gay, but moderately wealthy.

Be an average Joe and/or weeb? Forget about it. I haven't had a gf since 2005.
>although now, she's a single mother of 2, 300 lbs, and has a GED.

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>cause I asked her to marry me
She said yes

>>728245444
I've thought about it several times. My parents are very supportive, just worried about my plans for the future (or lack thereof), since I'm too burnt out of uni to bother trying again. My main worry about a therapist is finding a good one who won't push some agenda or bullshit advice on me. I'm not sure how much of a problem this really is.

I wouldn't be alone, I'd be moving in with one of my closest friends. Does that still make it a bad idea or will the added hardship of responsibilities make it worse?

Also check'd.

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>>728228571
I've been too busy polishing my $20 katana so I can come over and fuk yo bitch

>>728248616
Share these concerns with your parents, what it comes down to is what you'd feel best with doing, having a sense of independence can boost your self esteem as well.
Since you'd not be alone and with a friend, there is less of a risk of you feeling all alone and deteriorating.
A cognitive behavioral therapist should be pretty good as they work differently than other therapists.
A good way of doing it is asking for a consult with a therapist and figuring out if you're a good fit personality wise.

>>728228571
I have 0 social skills, hell I dont even know how to keep up with a conversation. Tips?

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This

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Because I am brave.

she broke up with me today... that was quick

>>728228571
Because I'm fucking married

>>728249054
Thank you for your time and helpful advice friendly anon. I'll try my best to not become a bitter, withered shell of a man.

>>728249505
Good on you anon, I hope things work out for you.

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At my age, I have the choice of either remaining single or becoming a step-dad.

Guess which one I'm going with.

Just broke up with someone i've been with for over 2 years, realized towards the end that i don't feel any different having her around and her being gone.

>>728246464
I know girl 1 is just heavily school focused. Girl 2 is probably a little crazy. But still liked her

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>>728228571
Because I don't need one, as a matter of fact I don't need nobody.

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>>728250932
>don't need nobody

>>728228571
I do though.

>>728228571
I have my dog

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>>728251006

I like to tell myself things like

>I like to be independent, free and be able to hang out with my frends
>having a relationship is more an annoyance then else
>I actually don't care about sex, masturbation is more practical

truth is, I'm an random "not cute enough" guy with astronomically high standards who has spent too meny years single to eventually forget what buth being in a relationship an having sex feel like. I'm a random ugly-ish guy who only attracts girls as ugly-ish as him, but I think too highly of myself to accept their affection so I accept being depressed and knowing i'll probably die alone rather than accapting the way my face looks like and accapting love over looks.

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>>728251427
Is this the new copypasta ?

I really don't want one. I don't even like giving someone handshakes/hugs and feel absolutely disgusted to the point where I shower myself in hand sanitizer after. I don't like animals/pets either.

>>728251427
Looks fade anyway, I'd much rather be with someone with a sexy brain, than someone pretty with no personality to show for it.

Because aside from fucking a lot more frequently, for a lot less effort. Having a girlfriend:

1.) Costs a fuck-load
2.) Leads to stupid arguments about shit I don't care about
3) Results in bitchy, fat friends who hate you
4) You can't fuck whomever, you want
5) You can't fuck off and get drunk playing video games for a whole off-day, shit money away on stuff you don't need (that aren't fucking Ikea chairs), or hangout with all of your friends (specifically the ones she inevitably hates), without causing a big bitch-fit that results in not getting laid for days and pointless resentment.

I dumped my ex recently for a bunch of more serious reasons, but having a Gf is not as fucking fun as one expects.

No self esteem. I always find out later "that girl was totally into you". At the time I think they're just being polite and don't want to hurt my feelings.

Its happened enough times I should have fixed it by now but I think at this point I'm incapable.

>>728228571
Is a uni student a good reason ???

>>728232197
Don't commit murder

>>728242675
he doesn't need to commit anything

>>728228571
how do you know if people spent more than 5 minutes?

>>728252151
Do what I did, ask people to tell you explicitly if they're into you like that.
Nothing removes doubt like being told "I want you".

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Cuz I'm fuckin ugly and non-interesting looking m8
>pic is me

>>728252515
You're not as bad as you think, also being interesting takes having interests you are passionate about.
Do something about your self esteem anon.

How do I stop being suicidal?
It stops me from being motivated to do anything. I have depression, but even when I feel "normal", I still want to die. This makes it really hard to continue being "normal", because I feel bad for doing nothing at all every day.

I was considering seeing a psychologist last week, but then I started feeling so good right after I called (they didn't answer), so I thought I'd just see what happens with my new normal feelings.

Not the first time has happened... the normal feeling is just so ... realistic.

>>728228637
true dat

Because my last three relationships were one disaster to another each one turning into a worse shit show than the last. Only so much torture I can take.

>>728228571
no time for a gf. since i graduated high school i'm not interested in a relationship anymore. i got used to the fact that i'm alone and that's it. i'll probably be single forever but the way girls are these days, it's more of a good thing.

>>728252749
oh and btw I'm not diagnosed, forgot to say that.
I have no idea if it's some other mental illness, but I'm fairly sure my state of mind the past 5 years is not normal...

>>728252749
That good feeling came from you actually trying to ask for help. Imagine how it could be if you actually got that help

>>728253129
It took me almost two hours to make the call. Then they didn't answer. (I assume they had lunch as it was around 12).

At the moment I feel like there is no point in doing much since I don't know how long I'll live. So even getting help seems pointless, but I'll try to call tomorrow.

>>728251995
that's utter bullshit. I have had relationships with both hot but dumb and really smart/funny ugly-ish girls. Sure, personality wins it in the long run, but to be realistic, even in the long run, you'd beclooking for a 50-50 cute and smart kind of person. Most ugly people are either very smart or ver funny, still, people would rather chose looks over brains

>>728231467
the second one

>>728252515
He's 12 and what is this?

I'm looking for someone who I like and they like me back. The feeling I had with my first crush. All the girls that like me now I hate. May kek help us all.

I do not posses the required social skills to charm and court a lady.

>>728253534
Don't get me wrong, getting out of suicidal thoughts isn't easy. I had to go through a bunch of shit at the age of 11 to get away from them, but it is possible.
>>728253596
It's just a personal preference, I hold no illusions about being normal in this regard. I've been with girls who I didn't find attractive at a first glance, but once we got talking I started relating their personality with their looks and they suddenly looked beautiful to me.

>>728252250
nah man, uni is where most relationships are born. you got it twisted

Kissless Virgin
No Job
Live in parent's basement
No vehicle
No money
No free time -> school

>>728228571
I'm too much of a pussy. The times I did tell the girl that I'd like to be more than friends, they rejected me. It feels pretty awful so I don't even try to pursue it a lot anymore

also i like a girl who is a fucking knockout and i'm maybe average looking at best

>>728228571
Because I'm in jail for Murdering my last one.....that Fucking BITCH

>>728228571
Fuck, with all this dating/meeting apps and no drive to fuck more than once a month, its just not worth the hassle. One of my best friends has a serious gf for two years now and he is monster cucked and monster on a leash. Just not worth this kind of deal, really.

>>728228571
Lethargy

I do. I just left her apartment like 3 hours ago.

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>>728228571
>you have five minutes to explain why you don't want a ll the problems of another person be your problems
wtf would i want that?

>>728254483
Don't kill people then

Because i probably have aspbergers

>>728254483
Don't kill people

Shes my best friend and she gets fucked by another guy that isnt me. Yet, i persist to believe i may one day have a chance. Im the biggest idiot i know, even if she was single, i wouldnt stand a chance. I didnt have a head start in life the way he did, she materialistic and wants a "man." Apparently a man is someone who has money and muscles. I had plenty of chance to screw other girls, but i instead waited on her.

>>728254984
Find a chick with aspergers to be with then.
They're delightfully no nonsense.

I have, small newfag

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Feels?

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Posting this today as well as we still got some room for more lovely bros and femanons.

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>>728228571
too ugly