anon, how does one acquire confidence ?

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this is now an anzu thread

Stop caring, realize youll die one day. And no1 cares in the end.

Get in better shape. That is all it takes.

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>>725632443
No, fuck off
I want to know as well how to acquire confidence so i can talk to my crush

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>>725632567
you either have confidence or you don't. if you're asking on /b/, your only solution is to an hero

>>725632320
leave /b/

>>725632320
Getthelube.com

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>>725633222
trips confirm for anzu thread

>>725632320
Well, honestly just talk with people in a casual setting.

Experiment and make jokes.

On that note also, porn lowers your confidence.

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>>725633426
>porn lowers your confidence
>being this retarded

>>725632320
Fake it till you make it. It doesn't matter if you don't have confidence at this time, what matters is that you're perceived as confident, you'll eventually acquire it. You won't notice when it happens.

>also get in shape if not already

>>725632465
Yeah, half of confidence is realizing no one actually cares about what you do or notices. It's a liberating realization.

>>725633503
Please share how you would fuck Anzu? She's so qt.

>>725632320
Fake it for now.

Do everything you can to acquire attributes that will give you good reason to be confident. Become better and you won't be able to help but exude it.

Remember. Everyone has those feelings and those thoughts at times. Even the most outwardly confident.

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>>725633718
she's too qt to resist. no question in my mind, would rape and impregnate/10

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>>725633836

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>>725632640
>you either have confidence or you don't
That's wrong
You can get confidence from achievieng stuff and recieving appreciation
You can also loose confidence from failing and getting rejected

>your only solution is to an hero
And how do i do this?

Also contributing

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>>725634110
thx for contribution
>how to an hero
literally kill yourself
gaining confidence through accomplishment doesn't mean much when she rejects you and you lose double the confidence

>>725632320
don't, become a woman for the real men who enjoy it.

Experience. You're not going to win every time, but you'll sure as hell learn something that you can use for the next time.

>>725632320
Pay two whores $200/hr to come over and film with you. Also, lose some weight.

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>>725632443
YEAH... he is my favorite tranny

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>>725634261
>>how to an hero
>literally kill yourself
The anon i replied to made that up

>gaining confidence through accomplishment doesn't mean much when she rejects you and you lose double the confidence
Yeah, i agree with this but i just want to have enough confidence to talk to my crush

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>>725634550
that pic turns me on, anon

>>725632320

fake it.

eventually youll realise that you arent faking it any more and you actually are confident.

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>>725634631
>just want enough confidence to talk to my crush
that's just it, anon. fucking talk to her - now. there is no good time. there is no magic trick. walk up and talk to her. that "mental bridge" you have to cross never gets any smaller. you just have to do it.

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>>725632320
Alcohol.

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>>725634868
this is also an acceptable answer

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>>725633960
That thing needs to be shot.

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>>725635014
>not loving anzu unconditionally

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Faking it until you make it. Seriously.

Every habit can become habitual. It takes 3 very difficult days of trying very hard, 2 weeks of maintenance, and about 2 months until you have rewired your brain.

These aren't exact figures, every brain is different. There are certain drugs and habits that you can use/perform that will increase neuroplasticity. Positive feedback is probably the best.

>>725635503
i'm willing to stop posting anzu if you post moar of her

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>>725634868
/thread

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>>725634806
Thanks anon
Sadly i put girls in general on a pedestal and i have a rather shy, introverted personality
I wish it would be easy for me to just talk to her
But i can't and that's why i need other people to tell me nice things and compliments so i can develop a healthy amount of confidence
I started to workout regularly 6 half a year ago and i'm starting to see some results

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>>725635804
>shy/introverted
me too, anon. that's how i know it doesn't really get easier - ever... i'm 40 and it never got easier. the only exception is when i know she thinks i'm hot before talking to her. if i don't already know she likes me, i'm sheepish, and that dries up a lot of pussies that could otherwise be wet

Don't give a shit what anybody thinks to a certain extent, don't come off as arrogant but don't be afraid to speak out. Get a job that requires you to talk to strangers a lot, helped me a lot in my youth to build confidence.

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>>725632320
fake it til you make it fam

>>725635804
also, it's important to ignore any advice you get from niggers. they don't understand. when "muh dik" is the height of civilization, it's a pretty low bar to have lots of confidence

>>725632320

Fake it til you make it. It's really as simple as that.

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>>725635592
keep posting anzu nigga idgaf

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>>725632320


Fapping is like a drugs, every time you do it you get a high.
This high overshadows normal joys in life.
You are a addict.
You dont like anything else because you get high so much on fapping nothing else matches it or is enjoyable.
stop fapping so dam much.
Just start cutting back.
it takes time to readjust your mind and body.
Your prostate is still geared to spilling load after load this needs tho slow down or you get risks at prostate cancers (so avoid/block arousals that kick the prostate in higher gear).
Now they say sometimes that fapping is good for this reason.
But you need to stop the problem and not the side effects.
This guy nails it https://youtu.be/hbIaP6dZzDA when it comes to the psychological effects you get from excessive porn and fap habits.
You clearly suffer from the beta observant complex.

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>>725636639

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>>725636010
>if i don't already know she likes me, i'm sheepish, and that dries up a lot of pussies that could otherwise be wet
Same goes for me
I need to find out if she is interested in me as well or at least doesn't find me weird or something
I hope she doesn't have a bf as well
This would brake my heart

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>>725636849
new pic. thanks, anon

>>725632320
Series of small victories. Set attainable goals, and reach them. Momentum

>>725632443
>>725632567
>>725632640
>>725634110
>>725634261
>>725634631
>>725634806
>>725635804
>>725636010
>>725636849
>>725637006
Anzu is hot

>>725636639
She's hotter than Anzu

>>725633620
Can confirm

>>725637279
actual good advice in a sea of some cunt trying to be ~animu~

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>>725632320
Grow a pair faggot

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>>725637334
>tfw best way to talk to a girl is by not giving a shit if you talk to her - negating the entire reason you wanted to talk to her in the first place

By putting his face in the dirt

An hero

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>>725632567
Jesus.. just talk to her.
Ok I realize it is hard, I was a shy guy-turned-best alpha. I was wondering a lot back then how to approach. So let me try to give you advice to my best ability.I will try to imagine how you feel.

Try this - a day before do A LOT of very heavy lifting.
Preferrably in gym, but if not - like find something heavy, about the weight of yourself and deadlift it (keep your spine straight whatever you do) till you are exhausted.
Sleep it off with good 9 hour sleep.
After such heavy work your testosterone will boil in your weins for good 2-3 days and you will feel like a wolverine on cocaine.
That is exactly the moment to talk.

You can combine it with no-fap. .. actually wait, I'll draw a graph.
Nigger we will set you up in notime.

>look at graph
Do exactly as told.

Now I know how weird it was to talk to crush.
Literally write something like "Hi, I am doing this and that Friday/Sathurday. you can join." (have assertive tone as if she already is missing her chance for fun)

then meet her and talk.
Also don't be a wanker and do not pussy out at two cruical moments
1. hug her when you meet her
2. at the end, when you feel it is kissy time, but your gut is being afraid as fuck, say, ok, hug her, hold the hug for just tad few seconds more. Kiss her on the cheek exactly for 3 seconds and slowly go back. things will either start or she will think about you for a loooong time.

Very important psychological note - at the beginning of any meeting/date whatver - make normal simple sexual inuendo. then drop thesex subject.
I have consciously tried this a lot of times - drop small cracker. Women will remember it and think about your peener. And later it will lead to sexy times.
Imagine yourself - if a girl gave you hints you would love it. Gorls love when guys make hints to them.

I ahve had the most terrible mutual relationships mended just by giving women something to think about.

ok I am high and I feel I am losing my train of

Fuck an ugly, easy to get chick. Then progressively upgrade. The more u do that, the faster confidence comes. And also realize that nobody really gives a fuck except for you.

>>725632564

While this is semi correct it is not the whole deal. I've been doing the gym thing for 3 years down to 190Ibs and look pretty tone but would still say I'm socially awkward.

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>>725637767
Also read this. He speeks absolute truth.

What if your crush doesn't like you at all? If she is lesbian, for example, you will spend tons of time wondering how to approach, instead of being turned down quickly, so you can move the fuck on and learn from your experience.

http://www.gq.com/story/unexpected-steven-tyler

>>725637767
this advice is fucking gay

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>>725637539

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>>725637767
>just talk to her.
First be sure it is a her... In today's world you can not be sure...you can try pulling a Trump and grab it by the pussy... but unless you are a famous billionaire I do not recommend this. Just talk to her as you would your cousin.

>>725638118
OP sounds like a very young and completely inexperienced guy.
I wrote what I think he can actually use.

naturally you can go
- pff, just lift and get big and fuck bitches. Go to her and jsut crack a joke and she will be yours. and have excellent dance moves and just surprise her like noone else.

Yeah, you can write that, but can it be applied to real life by someone who FUCKING ASKS CONFIDENCE ADVICE ON 4CHAN? Doubt so. Hence the overexplained version.

>>725638385
>Just talk to her as you would your cousin.
No.

you want her pussy. You don't want a new best friend or cousin.

as for your faggot friends - sorry, mental ilness is none of our concern.

>>725638385
Stop seeing traps everywhere, they are a ver(y very tiny part of the population, as long as you do'nt go for weirdoes and psychos, you should be ok

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>>725637006
No problem anon

>>725637767
>>725637994
Wow thanks guys
I really appreciate this
I already do workout but it doesn't seem to motivate me or something
Maybe i have a low testosterone level by nature
But thanks again, i will consider your advice

>>725638439
Thst troll is a cuck. You gave 100% legit advice. Kek will bless you.

>>725637767
>Preferrably in gym, but if not - like find something heavy, about the weight of yourself and deadlift it (keep your spine straight whatever you do) till you are exhausted.
cannot stress how much you need to do REALLY bring you to your limits and once you go over and push with teth clenched - that is when magic happend in your body.

like buy those 1 week-free or likewise gym subscriptions.
I had all my confidence whenever I wanted just thanks to physical workout. (Before I read a shitton of info about enhancing brain activity and did lots of experiments. Plain physical effort works best)