hey /b/, i need your opinion. >Be 20, have a 9/10 19yo girlfriend

Absolutely not.
Granted it sounds like she wants to go out and have fun but if she's gotta insist on going against your whim to have fun then she's a dumb bitch and you're only putting yourself in harms way being close to her.

Your girlfriend will resent you if you are the anchor to her fun, don't be a fucking idiot let her go have fun.

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Ya stop being a controlling cunt. She'll probably cheat on you for being an insecure faggot. Let her do what she wants, if she cheats on you then you weren't important enough/man enough for her to stay with you.

If you're going to be a controlling cunt, you're just going to cause her to end up cheating on you because she's going to be worrying about all this pressure and shit. Trust me.

>>725472502
This, people don't like being controlled. Either deal with the fact she might cheat with you or dump her.

>>725471268
Youre the Definition of a beta cuck. Also she fked one of these guys, I promise you.

OP are you me? literally the same shit happened to me just a bit less

im 19 and my gf is 18 and her hoe friends are always trying to plan shit like this but my gf knows what makes me uncomfortable when its shit like this

No one wants to date some insecure buzz kill dude. If she cheats on you so what. Get a new girl and don't be so serious.

Why are you such a pussy OP? I would cheat on you simply because you're an insecure baby man

She should run far far away from you

>>725471268
Absolutely not. Being in a relationship implies mutual respect.

By going to a nightclub with 3 guys, she didn't show any respect to you or the relationship.

>>725472839
Thank you. Exactly what i was thinking.
I wouldnt go to night club with 3 girls, without my girlfriend.

OP dont listen to these faggots talking about you being insecure since theyre clearly single

just dont push it and be too controlling but have reasonable boundaries

>>725471268
>>Be 20, have a 9/10 19yo girlfriend

That is sort of your problem there. you are both basically just children.

>I'm not okay with this
honestly? this was a dick move. but whatever.

>>725472992
Seems pretty fair.

>>725472908
Been in several fights with my own gf over stuff like this.

Just talk to her about mutual respect, remind her what others might feel or think if they saw her drinking with a stranger in a club with her girlfriends while dating you.

>>725473022
It absolutely wasn't a dick move
Some things are just unacceptable once you're in a relationship.

>>725471268
sometimes girls friends are evil
the best thing you can have in a relationship is a good girlfriend for you girlfriend
i think you were right to feel the way you did but you went about it the wrong way
i've found young men often get caught up in the bullshit "are you cheating" "I don't want you talking to any other guys" games that girls like to play
when you grow up you will be immune to this kind of crap
also when you grow up it will be harder to find people to be in relationships with so if the relationship if valuable to you bear through the shit tests and know you will grow out of small stuff like that bothering you so much

>>725472908
Like Girls would actually wanna go out with you

>>725471268
Try asking >>>/adv/ as well

girls + guys + alcohol = dicks in pussies

if yours isnt available someone else's will be supplied

you know this and this is why in serious relationships people dont go out for drinks all night without their partner

even with your partner it's likely some dude it's on your bitch and you have to have some big dramatic hassle

TLDR: if shes going out for drinks without you you arent her boyfriend

you're being an insecure little faggot, for real. I'm not even lying or trying to be mean, but you're just trying to control her. Even though we're only human, she should WANT to be loyal to you even if she's at a club. If you continue like this, it'll only be he beginning. You'll spiral into worse behavior. Let her have fun, you can't control what people will do in all actuality so if someone is going to cheat, they are going to cheat. That's all there is to it.

OP your not being insecure this is common sense shit dude, loyal people in serious relationships dont even put themselves in situations where they could possibly cheat

anytime alcohol and another dude is in the equation is obvious fucking trouble

no, he's being completely insecure, but I suppose there is some concern about there being so many guys. Acting that way is going to push her back or make her feel reserved the entire time. You can't control what someone does. And besides, you're fucking 20 years old. Get over it. You gotta get your heart broken sometime and boohoo, you may lose the 9/10. don't be a dickwad and let what happens, happen. Again, you can't control it. This is what the concept of faith is and sadly, you kiddies don't know it yet.

>>725473745
i don't think you've ever had a girlfriend
>>725473827
i think so too. Maybe i shouldn't have talked that rough, but she deserved it.
>>725473213
Trust me, there are.

If she wants to go to a club with her friends then fair enough, she's an adult and doing normal things like that should be no worry in a relationship. There are trust issues in the relationship. I really don't blame her for feeling like her night was worried because she'll have been worrying about you dumping her all night. You need to have a long talk with her about trust.

>>725474001
Trust isn't the issue, she shouldn't be putting herself in that scenario to begin with.

I agree with op on this one. Relationship+club+drink shouldn't mix.

>>725473981
>kiddies

Nice bait right there

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>>725473999

check'd, also don't feed the troll cucks, they are being retarded on purpose

>>725474126
>>725474001
He's right there are clear trust issues and while you and op do make a point the guy calling him a kiddy is too. You need to be more open and talkative in your relationship and more trustful, you can't control her but you can try to make her understand where youre coming from. Of course she shouldn't be doing certain things like you shouldn't either but what happened OP was a clear case of insecurity and lack of trust. You shouldn't let what the neckbeards and white knights on /b/ tell you how to feel or what to do. They both tend to be partially right and mostly wrong. You need to make your own decisions. And if you do act like this in a relationship then maybe youre not mature enough for one. Neither of you seem to be

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>>725474370

>let your gf hang out in nightclubs with other dudes, or else you're not mature enough

what the fuck are you talking about

>>725474370
It took me a while to understand that anon but you're right

>>725474126
>she shouldn't be putting herself in that scenario to begin with.
Are you this much in the 1950s? There's nothing wrong with her going on a night out with her friends. Any decent girlfriend would be able to control themselves and not jump onto the first dick they see.

>>725473981
Is more or less right. You're being controlling. Some people won't like being controlled. You have two options: 1. Let her do what she wants, if she cheats on you, then it was unavoidable. You are not ''stopping'' her from cheating by telling her you don't want her to go to the club. Do you know how dumb that sounds. Or 2. Hover over everything she does, and make it a very toxic relationship fueled by insecurities and trust issues.

You don't know these things because you're young. I've been in your shoes, I've had the exact same thought process as you right now, I understand why you're confused. all caveats aside, it comes down to these two things friend. Either trust her or don't.

>>725474471
That's not an issue if shes loyal. You shouldn't worry so much it shows insecurity, clinginess and weakness. She should be the jealous clingy one not the other way around

>>725471268
Dude I'm 25 and I'm saying that you should chill out. This behaviour will cause her to loose interest in you and eventually she'll burn you and badly for treating her like you own her. Your future relationships will suck as well.

Telling her what to do will cause her to dump your ass eventually (that is, if you don't decide to start hitting her or something retarded). Not all girls are sluts bud. She's texting you to tell you that she loves you and you're going to sulk at home like a little faggot? If she wasn't taking to you at all, then you could have a legit reason to be pissed off.

You reacted poorly, told her how to behave, and demanded some sort of apology after FUCKING up her night dude.

TDLR; stop being a faggot and apologize. If you don't, then it's likely your relationship is over. Don't rely on her for happiness and don't force her to rely on you for her own happiness. You rob her of fun with her friends. I'm sure she doent need to give you permission to habg with your friends.

>>725474558
/thread

>>725474623
No fuck you
>>725474370
This is /thread/ and infinitely better since I wrote it and I'm better than all of you

Dump that whore OP, she is not worth it.

You are a lucky fellow. She chose you above her gf. That means she loves you enough to leave her friends behind.
You just have to tell her how it makes you feel, and that you are sorry that she was in that postion, but only her gf was at fault for that. Not the relationship you are having.

>>725471268
guessing you don't live in US. Pubs/nightclubs are mostly 21+

OP just dump her and reevaluate your life. There will be women better than her. You should also learn to not be so controling its a huge red flag and will cause the very thing you fear

Source: I'm a femanon

>>725471268
Sounds like your girlfriend is pretty spazztastic

>>725474744
He makes a good point to but also apologize for how you reacted

>>725471268

Insecure as duck. Sort put your problems or she will leave you. I've had many friends like this. They all ended up getting dumped or left for another guy because youre too clingy and insecure and need validation that you're loved. Just stop it, if she loves you she won't do anything, if she don't love you she will. Trapping her won't change that.

>>725471268
>Am i guilty here?
Fuck no. Sounds like she did the right thing in the end, but that doesn't excuse her poor judgement before that.

Would it be great to tell her
"I know i was acting jealous. I was acting jealous so fucking hard, i couldn't think clear enough. I was literally punching the walls all through that night. I had nothing to do, but just to stress what would happen to you, and since i'm not there, i was worried about you. But, i think it wasn't ALL my fault. If you were there just to drink a few beers, why go to a nightclub, while you could go to pubs or bars instead. Night clubs are not accepted. Period. You don't even let me have a few coffees with my girl friends, but expect me to let you go to night clubs at 12 pm. Something is very wrong here, and i think you can realize that if you're not stupid."

Guys, this is literally what i want to text her. I'm not gonna apologize. Should i call or text it?

>>725474905

She's not property. What's with this idea that dudes think they can try and control girls because they're scared the girl is gonna find someone better or leave them?

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>>725472502
>>725472611
You say that, but that just isn't true. Why do you think women are so okay with Islam in the west? They want to be controlled.

Just talk to her about it, and tell her that you love her and didn't want her to go because you don't trust her friends... blame them, they are cunts that no guy wants to have a relationship with so they are trying to ruin yours and you got a bad vibe about it and sorry she got caught in the crossfire but her shitty "friends" instigated this.

You could have been all , okay babe, have fun... love you, call me if you need anything and not cared...but I think one of her shitty friends wants to fuck you, and trying to separate you and her.

Anyways, post her titties

>>725471268
nah, what you said was fine. She's either going to
A) cheat on you anyway
or
B) not cheat

so express to her that you are fine with her having fun but you are jealous and not comfortable with dumb shit like that. if she has a serious problem with you telling her that you don't like her being drunk around a bunch of dudes then she is not worth a fuck.

Put her in a similar situation.

>>725474983

No, apologise, and she will also apologise and probably never go to a nightclub without you again. Just apologise and stop being childish. Telling her you were punching walls is also gah and just make her want to leave you. Jealousy is an off put.

>>725474983
Okay no, it's obvious YOU BOTH HAVE TRUST ISSUES, and that you should both seek a counselor or break up. You're both toxic hypocrites and should kill yourselves

>>725474480
Any decent girlfriend wouldn't go to a nightclub with a group of friends who would try to encourage her to be with other men.

Raise your standards.

>>725474983
what?... cringe

don't do this

>>725471268
you were way further out of line than she was man. You should break up, you're obviously too insecure for a meaningful relationship

>>725471268
Haha I wonder if at 20 if I was this much of an insecure faggot.

Under any and all circumstances if you think your girlfriend will cheat on you, DONT BE WITH HER YOU RETARD.

holy fucking shit, you were first worried about her going to a pub and having a few drinks, how insane are you? The night club thing is pretty cringeworthy, but normal stupid insecure teenage bullshit, but a pub? Goddamn dude that's next level.

And "I dont care who's gonna fuck you tonight, just dont call me", holy shit you just can't make this stuff up.

Grow up.

>>725475074
Actually, for women their age, even faking it you have to show a little Jealousy. Even if it is just a show.

>>725475098

Nah, they're just young. But they definitely need to take a break and sort themselves out. Wouldn't go so far as to call them toxic.

>>725475025
Nah, it's because they are sjws that say minorities are right because they are minorities.

>>725474993
In a monogamous relationship, it's expected that neither person goes out with the clear intent to flirt with or fuck other people. Clearly OP expects this to be a monogamous relationship. Sure, she can disagree, that's fine, but OP also has the right to end the relationship in that case.

>>725475133
Going out to have drinks is when women cheat the most. So he had the right to be worried. You have obviously never been loyal to anyone and had that loyalty killed.

She is so young and wants to party, at that age it is normal. Having many friends and spending time with them is normal then. Also you should not control her. If the three guys were their friends then it is ok but if they were strangers then I would be pissed too. Her friends sound like total sluts when they tell her to sit next to random guys and so on knowing your gf has you. Anyway without trust a relationship is pointless. She wants you to trust her and I sugest you try to trust her. Go out with your friends as well and do fun stuff. Let her know what it feels like but don't make her jealous intentionally or something.

I guess if you listen to these cucks OP you can be the secure boyfriend that is a walking joke when everyone else in your social circle comes to the obvious conclusion your girlfriend is riding other dudes cocks

Most of the people replying are just virgins and whiteknights saying you're controlling.

While part of it is true where you need mutual respect and you should let her hang out with her friends as you did, in a relationship there need to be boundaries to these kind of things. I bet she would have reacted the exact same way if the tables were turned. If you tell her you would hang out with your male friends and suddenly there would be females in the group then she would be uncomfortable. She needs to respect your relationship and she should be able to recognize by herself what is ok to do while you're not around and what she wouldn't want you to do to her in return.

>>725475177
Then why was 50 shades of grey so popular? Even before when it was just a book.

>>725475161
Yeah maybe I went to far. But they're both clearly insecure and controlling. They should just stay as friends since its clear their relationship is going to crumble. Especially if he tries to put her in a similar situation because of his immaturity, it will just cause her to do the same or just dump him

Why didn't you go to the club with her?

>>725475224
No, I'm just not a fucking child.

And going out for drinks is not when women cheat the most. Most cheating is done sober, you're just saying what your fucktard 18-year old brain thinks sounds correct.

>>725474983
no she will think you are crazy. don't say manipulative shit like that, I've ruined multiple relationships thinking that it would get the reaction I wanted. I promise that it will not. don't be so controlling man. just say something like " I am jealous, I was being insecure and I'm sorry. You must understand why I would be uncomfortable with you being intoxicated around several other guys though, right?"

that way you have taken her one card out of her hand and forced her to talk about what you want, without coming off as the controlling sociopath you are. Believe me I'm the same guy a few years older.

>>725475290
>>725475270
Are right, they take in both sides, if you do anything listen to these two

>>725475389
Translation:
>my gf goes out for drinks without me all the time and she never rides other dicks
>if I repeat this over and over again maybe it will become true

>>725475320
She was in another city, with her friends.
>>725475281
Exactly, only if i let other guys fuck my girlfriend then i'll be the alpha guy everyone wants to be.
>>725475270
I know, she wants to party because she's 19 and she's young. I can't blame her. I don't want to control her like a muslim fag, cover her up or something. I just wasn't comfortable with her going to club with complete 3 stranger guys.

>>725471268
You're not a woman, so you're in the right

my god im never coming to this obvious virgin territory again, I bartended for years and got to work front house because I'm a chad and commonly encountered drunk bitches who wanted to "talk" for a minute after I got off shift

durr durrr people dont act more degenerate on alcohol anyone whos drank with a female knows the bitches go 0 to 60 faster than man does

if theres alcohol and other dudes and not you there is a problem

>>725475389
Meh, googled it.

First 2 pages of google didn't give an answer either way.

Maybe I am objectively insecure on the subject considering I just left a 5 year relationship to cheating.

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>>725475516

>asking for advice in /b
>getting trolled by cuck roleplayers

OP get out, ask your irl friends for advice

>>725475478
My GF of 2 years lives with me and doesn't drink, but if she was ever bitch enough to tell me I couldn't go clubbing with my guy friends I'd drop her ass in a second. I'm not a pedo, I don't fuck stupid children.

>>725475597
Or ask /adv/ too?

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>>725475624
yea, we all really hate nigger fag cuck jews here. Maybe not the best place to ask.

>>725475516
I think her friends are enablers and due to them being single, they want the same experience for your gf. I think you should talk to her about this, plus as you know 19yo girls nowadays are skanks , so no matter how trusting you are, shes probably a bit crazier inside than you think . Youre a good man to control her a bit

>>725475312

I completely agree there, bit too young and probably a bit naive for a serious relationship. They need to cut loose a little.

>>725475717
This too.

Sounds like she has shitty friends.

>>725475603
She'd have to be a retard not to at least question it. There are only two types of guys who would ask their gf to stay home when they go to a club: closet faggots and dudes looking for some strange.

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>>725475624

nah mate, only answers you're ever gonna get here is the exact opposite of each other. It's either you're an insecure young shit or a cuck.

Nobody here knows the details of your relationship, nobody here knows your/your gfs personality, background etc.

Just gtfo here, ask your irl friends, be more communicative with your gf, while you're getting trolled by cuck-roleplayers here, your gfs friends are shit talking about you to her. Go set things right OP

Just ask a couple of LAAAADYYY friends to go to the nightclub with you, without your gf ofc. Reverse psychology works like a charm.
Be sure to tell her that you love her very much over a text message.
Before you know it your gf will be shouting at you inside your home, like always. Insecure cuck.

>>725475516
OP want to let you know that she most definitely fucked at least 2 of those guys. Not because she got drunk, not because she went clubbing, but because shes dating a fucking insecure woman and probably likes dick.

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>>725472502

>>725471268
lmao faggot why cant ur gf go to club lol

It's your fault she didn't get to fuck another dude?

>>725471268
you did good anon and i tell you why in this real story
>be me 19 have bf
>tell bf and family i go to party for the weekend with girlfriends in near by city
>truth is
>i went alone
>because i saw a sex club add on the internet
>went there and let guys over 40 to fuck the shit out of me
>also eat out one guys wife and she ate me out

at that time was super horny and just wanted to be a slut went one more time few months later it was fetish party went to a room with 3 guys probably 50-60 let them tie me up to a X shape wood thing didnt like it because they did stuff i didnt agree to do so basically raped me for 2 hours
never did it again

you sound boring and dumb af OP

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>>725475717
If she had good friends, they would know that she has you and would have fun without making your gf do things with other men , or at least stop her from doing them. Kill her friends

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>>725471268
NEGATIVE ANON. protect yourself, bitches are scandalous.

>>725475772
I never said I ask her to stay home, shes always welcome to come. And like I said earlier, if you're ever with someone who you think would cheat on you under any circumstance then why are you dating them? All you retards going
>b-b-b-but alcohol bad! It make loyal girl turn into cheating girl and I have to prevent that!!
need to realize that shes probably already cheating on you if it would happen that easily. If OP is afraid of these guys literally getting her wasted just to rape her, then that's a different thing but outside of legitimate fucking rape if you think your girlfriend under the influence of alcohol lets other people stick their dick inside of her, then the real problem is you're dating a whore.

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>>725476069

>>725476099
This.

>>725471268
Yes. Trust and freedom without an insecure, jealous, possessive partner in a relationship is a beautiful thing. You fucked up. Grow some balls, let her go have a fun night with her friends.

people saying you let her do what she wants and you dont have to be insecure are right, but since you are not gonna change your mind just because some anons said so and by your answers i can tell you wrote here because you want confirmation of your thoughts listen to this:

relationships like what you want can exist, but not with her. you have to find another girl who is jealous enough to not only get along with your lines, but also she has pretty much the same lines to not croos that you have

>>725476069
>you can fuck me like a rag
>just no not from that angle
>reeeaaapp

we've almost spilled the little secret that woman who can act and pretend to not be whores 99% of the time can surprise you drunk without supervision!

>>725471268
Fuck off you faggot you have posting this every month

>>725471268

Youre kind of a dick for not letting her just live and ahe sounds faithful as fuck. Thats totally possessive and dickish of you.

But shes wrong because her friends are dumbasses and shes actually hurt by being called a pussy and excluded because she wont whore out like them. Shit friends, yo.

Anyway. Your gf sounds dope, trust her and let her go.

Although now that you were a controlling dick chances she actually would cheat just went up.

>>725476281
>>725475391
probably the best advices here. OP here guys, i'll leave here. Too many people are trolling, i need to talk to irl friends. Thanks to all who were serious.

You just need to not care ,I go out all night and do whatever and my gf bitches at me but when she goes out I say have a good night then message sometime after 1-2am to ask how her night is goin and if she texts back drunk asf I say get home now your unsafe, if not let her carry on til 4 and say hurry up. Dno if she cheats but I trust her and if she does I really dont care cause I sure do. TLDR live every day like its your last but prepare that its not.

>>725476283

its was not that i was ready for some train fuck
but i had some thing on my mouth so cant speak thye dicks where small and soft most the time and they used some big dildos and almost fisted me while being super rough when touching my pussy and tits
when told them to untie me they say that where thinking i was playing along

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>>725471268
Yup OP, you are. It's one thing to tell her to be careful and remind her you love her, it's another to blatantly accuse her of cheating because you're so fucking filled with insecurities you can't live with yourself. She'll cheat / dump ya soon enough you beta faggot. Consider suicide, OP.

ITT people who have been in an intimate relationships giving solid advice. Also ITT people who are too toxic to be in an intimate relationship. OP you guys are super young. When you're young you should party and have fun with and without each other. If you are scared she will cheat on you that says more about you than it does about her.

>>725474558
second this.

>>725476127
It isn't the alcohol, anon, it's the fact that she's choosing to go to a place where the only form of entertainment is grinding on strangers on a dance floor. No, that doesn't necessarily make her a whore, but it sure makes her look like one.

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>>725474302
fucked 'em right in the mouth

if you don't share a social circle, your relationship has a finite timespan to it. basically it was never gonna last forever unless the both of you couldn't possibly imagine doing something without the other being there, the only obvious exceptions being official work parties, or her hen night/your stag night

>>725471268

Omg you kinda sound like me when I was 20.

A girlfriend's girl friends can be your worst enemy. They effectively tried to set her up with another guy. When they failed at doing so, they shamed your girlfriend for *not* being a slut. They sound like shitty people and bad influences.

Then again, the controlling and manipulative behavior you're exhibiting makes you look like an insecure and immature little cuck. That type of shit is the most unattractive thing you can say. "I don't care who's gonna fuck you tonight, just don't call me" revealed said insecurity/immaturity and it's gonna take you a while to recover from that.

From the gist of your post, you and your gf have some hormonal codependency issues and if I'm being frank I don't think it's gonna last. Right now, you're bringing out the worst in each other and it's probably best if you break it off. It seems hard because relationships at 20y/o are intense. But it's gonna end, and if you don't end it she will. It's in your best interest to lose her. Besides, having a track record of dumping 9/10s - especially if you say it's because they got too clingy - makes you more desirable to other women.

>>725471268
Sounds like her friends are trying to force her into a situation where she'll cheat on you.

But then you're being a beta cuck about it and messaging her about it when she's out so maybe they're justified. If she's loyal she won't cheat, if she isn't loyal, it's no great loss if she does.

Be more objective

>>725476550
Do you have anymore sex stories like that or similar.

>>725471268
she's a bitch. Forget her

>>725472502
>>725472673
>>725472730
>>725472785
These fags are the prefect examples of cucks lmao, they enjoy watching their girl getting flirted with.

>you can fuck who you want just don't tell me
>but going to a club with friends is a step too far

Everyone backing OP up is a troll, right? I would hate to have to believe that society is THAT fucked

>>725477153
this is what virginity sounds like

>>725471268
She goes out you go out
You wanna keep your gf?
Here's how you get her.
Se pulls a knife, you pull a gun. She sends one of yours to the hospital, you send one of hers to the morgue!
That's the way, and that's how you get Capone!

>>725471268

Yes, you're a overly jealous sissy who makes his girlfriend anxious and afraid to spend time in normal social encounters with your insecurity.

You don't deserve a girlfriend until you grow testicles.

>>725471268
Yeah kinda. You caused a bunch of tension because you were an uncomfortable faggot aboutthe thing. Dont treat women like property. Instead treat yourself with self respect.

If she cheats on you, you're done and thats all there is to it, easy as that. Humans have free will. Trying to take that from them makes them feel trapped and more likely to lash out in an attempt to regain control. But also dont be a cuck

Long story short, her friends don't like you and don't want to tell her. Dealt with this for several years with my ex.
You reacted poorly, but at your age I don't blame you trust issues are real at that age and the pervasive culture. You didn't ruin the night her friends did.
Honestly though, it's not going to get better and honestly just have fun with it till it ends, because she has an issue with taking responsibility to begin with.

>>725471268
No but you're being a bitch for trying to not let her go to nightclub. She's 19, she wants to party stop being such a downer. Being like that is what makes a girl want to be with someone more "fun" like the dudes she's with.

>>725476627
I feel sorry for your social life if you truly believe that.

>ITT: all the retards.
>and only retards
Not a single post hasnt made me cringe.

You're both young.

Don't worry about it, with todays standards you'll be with a different woman in a year and she will be a man.

>>725477259
I'm a virgin because I don't allow my bitch to flirt with other dudes? Shut the fuck up cuck I will knock you the fuck out like the bitch you are

>>725477506
In 10 years, I want you to say hello to your wife's son for me.

>>725472483
>Your girlfriend will resent you if you are the anchor to her fun, don't be a fucking idiot let her go have fun.
Translation: Go let her cuck you

>>725477777

>>725477772
in 10 years I want you to either leave your mom's basement or rid society of yourself.

>>725477800
Exactly, the cucks on here are sad and pathetic, all the cucks who are saying OP is in the wrong, pass your bitches my way and I will fuck them in-front of uses.

>>725471268
Nope.

>>725477766
>Shut the fuck up cuck I will knock you the fuck out like the bitch you are
COME AT ME BRO. YOU WANNA GO? LETS GO. LET'S GO. (Takes shirt off)

You fucking autist.

>>725471268
>Im op i have a slutty drunken gf i cant trust, how fix pls?
Retard

>>725477955
I get that strong sense of a little 5ft9 skinny and pathetic kind of vibe from you. Keep staying beta while real niggas like me be cucking on your life

>>725477856
I'll be coming home to my own submissive little fuck toy while you're trying to convince yourself that you still love your wife and the kid she had with Jamal.

Dump her, Problem solved.

>>725471268
My GF routinely goes on nights out involving guys and girls, I do the same, neither of us ever cheats.

If you're gonna be a little bitch about it and ban her from having fun maybe she will cuck you.

Seriously bro just think back to every time you have been in a night club and how few of those nights ended in sex with a stranger

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>>725478138
>guys often don't take a stranger home from the club
>girls must not either

>>725478154
Is this a compliment or insult? Because Patrick Bateman is Alpha as fuck

>>725477153
Guys try and flirt with my gf all the time, try and buy her drinks, hit on her generally... She just shuts them down and we laugh about it.

If i cried like a little bitch because some other guy spoke to her I doubt she would respect me or the relationship

>>725471268
Well OP lets break this down a sec, the way i see there are 3 ways this situation could have ended. 1) you gave her the OK to go clubbing and when her friends told her to get friendly with a guy she would either say yes or no. If yes it would most likely lead to something to warrant breaking up. If she said no, the outcome would be the same, but she wouldnt have anybody to blame then but herself gor having such stupid ass friends. And the 3rd option is pretty much what happened.

>>725471268
Yes.

>>725471268
her friends are trying to get her to cheat on you to destroy your relationship because they're jealous

>>725478076
BRO YOU TALKIN TOUGH. WHERE YOU AT THO? (Flexes shiny internet muscles) YOU AINT COMING AY ME BRO WHY? YOU SCARED LIKE ABITCH NIGGA FAG?

Im not even the same guy you were arguing about btw. barkbark, little internet doggy. Bark as loud as you want from behind your monitor.

>>725478249
It would be super awkward if she did bring strangers home from the club, I'm quite a light sleeper...

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>>725471268

Don't listen to anyone in this thread. Your girl is not really mad at you but she has to be mad at someone. she doesnt want to lose her friends so she is gonna act bitchy to you because she knows you will eventually forgive her.

The problem is, she is not doing it on purpose. If she was aware of what she was doing she wouldnt be acting this way.

Just tell her you are proud of her for not going against something you asked her to and just give her a romantic date and fuck her brains out. ez.

>>725478276
Not the point I was getting at because you were there with her so you knew what went down, OP wasn't there with his.

>>725471268

Jesus OP.

You are a faggot.

Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. If she wants to fuck otherguys she will and you cant stop her.

All you did was hurt your relationship.
Your an immature prick.

>>725471268
her "friends" were purposefully trying to fuck up her relationship by getting her and this guy to fuck.

welcome to the wonderfull world of female friendships

>>725471268
You assumed she'd cheat on you before she even had a chance to do anything. You did ruin her fun and you showed you have no trust in her. If she had cheated on you, you could rightfully dump her, no one would blame you. But the way you did that shit, I'd dump you if I were her and move on to find a partner that actually trusts me.

You insecurity and mistrust speaks more of how you'd act in her situation than it does of her actions. I'd definitely dump your immature ass.

>>725478280
>If yes it would most likely lead to something to warrant breaking up
I would call that pretty unlikely. OP clearly isn't close with her friends. If anything happened, he probably wouldn't ever know about it unless she confessed to him. But that's the thing. The type of girl who would cheat on OP like that is the same type that could easily lie to his face about it.

Well OP I've been in this boat before. Except my girlfriend of 3 years went with what her friends told her, they all ended up at a hotel where two of her friends got fucked and she ended up blowing another guy. It's not unrealstic for these things to happen, but it is rare if there's good trust and understandable boundaries in the relationship. I'll never know why she agreed to do that shit that night, but speaking from experience, acting the way that you did (controlling her into not doing something) would only make her want to do it more. Goodluck op

>>725478370
You are though... you type exactly the same you pussy, if you are up for it we can meet up lol and throw hands or you can keep up the act

>>725471268
Dude, you shouldn't restrict your GFs movements, from my PoV. But, truly, your GF is an asshole. She knew what was happening. She accepted it. Can't whine now. Sorry, mate

>>725471268
how old are you?
>20
and maybe she is around 20
boy , you both deserve a slap on the head.
stop spamming threads on /b/ about useless things.
newfag

>>725471268
Stop being such a massive insecure faggot.

>>725471268

You can trust her if she was willing to go against her friend's word to be up-front in saying that you wouldn't want that. So you don't have to be afraid of anything for starters.

You should just straight up tell her that if her friends were baiting her into flirting with another guy or trying to set something up for disaster that they're probably just doing it for entertainment and don't give a shit about what's going to happen afterwards. Should just drop them entirely, probably the reason why they haven't talked for a year in the first place.

>>725478514
Fuck sorry to hear that bro, bitches these days.

>>725471268
you are a controlling douche and your relationship is already over. cut the poor girl loose so you can both grow a little as people.

>>725474558
/thread

Can't understand all the virgins on here acting like women have no self control. If that was the case then even they would have gotten their dick wet at some point!

>>725478587
This is the point

>>725474558
"This behaviour will cause her to loose interest"

Jesus christ, people know nothing about woman here. You think letting a person do whatever they want is gonna end up well? there are certain limits you need to have in a relationship.

He says he trusts her but he knows the guys around her are not the one to trust. So thats what he is worried about.

When i had a girlfriend she would never ever put herself in a situation where other guys could easily get to her. when she would go out she would avoid any sort of contact with guys cause she know i wouldnt like it and i never tried to get in contact with other girls either and it was a line of respect.

>>725478587
This is accurate, fuck the rest of the thread.

>>725478490
this. sorry op.

>>725474983
Aaaaaaand capped for the next cringe thread

>>725472908
you ignored all of the people telling you that you are wrong to reply to the one person agreeing with you. fuck you. guys like you are the reason women hate men and us fucking grown ups have to deal it with it.

faggot.

>>725471268
Tell her, hey. Do whatever it is your going to do, have fun. I trust you. You fuck up it's on you alone. I can forget you just like everyone else thats ever betrayed me.

>>725478827
I doubt sending such bad vibes can ever work well

>>725472502
WRONG. I gave my gf total freedom from her horrible parents. I let her use me as an excuse to get out of the house and not have her parents question everything. I trusted her too. Eventually she left me saying I was holding her back. Even though all I asked her was to tell me where she was going and be safe. Basically when they decide they want to be whores they do it.

>>725478783
Says he is a grown up proceeds to call him a faggot to insult him. Very grown up guy very grown up indeed.

>>725478587

Same person who wrote this wanting to add onto this.

Don't ruin your relationship by sounding like a fucking lunatic saying you were gonna start punching holes in the walls and apologizing for unecessary shit. Just admit that you weren't acting fair to her in terms of trust, but also start some kind of conversation about her openly doing something that she knows would probably make you uncomfortable. Have some sort of common ground, just be a man and own up to what you've said. Don't even try to apologize out of person. If you can't see her, phone call. Texting isn't good enough.

>>725474755
people in the us don't say pub dumbass

>>725478955
Yeah I agree, especially on punching walls, she will think you got anger issues my dude.

Man, I go through the same thing with mine. She goes to burlesque shows and stuff, goes out dancing, and even to bars by herself and other big social events with the intention of meeting people. I am consistently afraid that she'll meet someone who she'll end up desiring more than me :(

>>725478877
Just honesty. Do whatever you like, we all pay the piper.
And yeah that is exactly what I tell all of them when the trust issue comes up. They generally understand.
But I don't generally date women whom are swayed by peer pressure. Or are immature.

>>725479032

Wow sounds like your girlfriend enjoys being social why don't you try it out man. If you don't feel confident in yourself fix it.

>>725478517
OH SHITS GETTING REAAAL DAWG OHSHIT! NEVER HAD SOMEONE BARK THIS HARD! Come at me 5555 five road California. What you dont wanna come? You a pussyfag? You scareed bitch?

Have you nothing better to do than to make a foul of yourself online? No one is scared, no one is gonna fight, i why would i care enough about you to meet you and fight. No, lad, violence wont be able to fix this situation, only you eat8ng a big bowl of shit can do that.

>>725471268
Your 20 m8 what u need to do is pump and dump until your like 25 or so just in case the "relationship" goes to shit don't care

>>725471268
She's obviously a crack head whore drug addict going into the big city to suck some cock so she can score some coke.

>>725471268
Getthelube.com

>>725478445
But you said they enjoy watching, how could they watch if they weren't there?

>>725479054
Well, yeah, you need to learn how to pick. Can't go for a hood rat and expect her to go straight by miracle.

But without a single bit of doubt, sending bad vibes like showing your insecurities in an aggressive manner or openly showing distrust is sending a relationship to shit. Relationships are built on trust.

>>725479076
Being social leads to social diseases.

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>>725471268
OP

The problem isn't her, it's you. You're not forceful enough and dominant. Next time she tells you she says 'you can trust me-' cut her off, grab her by the collar of her shirt and say dominantly 'i'll be the judge of that' and then 'you're not fucking going anywhere'

Chances are she'll blow up and tell you to fuck off or try to bail, this is where you have to block her from leaving. As she goes to walk past grab her by the hair and twist it around back in front of you, when she's standing in front knee her as hard as you fucking can, (learn muay thai, if you point your toe to the floor as you knee it will make the knee sharper) in the guts. When she keels over kick her legs out and step on her back, go to a kneeling position, grab her hair and twist her head around to face you and say 'listen up you cunt and listen good. You're not fucking going anywhere now get the fuck out of my sight'. If she goes to leave repeat, if she goes to a room kick her in the back as she's dragging herself in there. Also tell her you'll kill her whole family if she ever tells anyone and to cover the bruises before she goes out.

Women like strong dominant dudes, trust me

>>725478658
'When I had'

>>725471268
I dont care whos going to fuck you.

Fucking beta cuck.
That bitch shouldnt even be clubbing.
Clubbs are amlost exclusively for casual sex.
Should have told her you would have to punish her if she went clubbing.

>>725479199
>grab her by the collar of her shirt and say dominantly 'i'll be the judge of that' and then 'you're not fucking going anywhere'
I cringed so hard that i pssed myself. Pls shush, underage betafag

>>725471268
You're both shitty people but you're definitely the worse of the two. You just described the most insecure beta shit, normal people don't 'control' their partners, she does seem like a basic bitch though.
She should break up with you and find a basic Bro Chad, you should be alone forever and maybe buy a pet, seems more suited to your character.

>>725479439
>is not a connoisseur of the finest pasta

>>725474558
Cuck lord level is beyond limits... What a fucking retard
>bae I am going with 5 guys who will be drunk and me too all night
>ok, I am a big boy so I will let you go:)

You are fucking stupid, OP isn't telling her not to go to the movies, or drink with her girls friends, he is telling her not to go with some dudes who want to fuck her... do you think those guys want to hang out with her just to talk about the weather? They want to put their dick inside her

And guess what every cuck and cheated guy said before they go cheated on?
>I trust her

It looks like you are not aware, but you have been cucked dozens of times, sorry to tell you

>>725474558
/thread
>inb4 OP ignores this post

No, tell her if her friends don't have enough respect for you two relationship then they aren't really friends