Im looking for a new gf, 3rd week of meeting this girl.
>7-8/10, cultivated, common hobbies, nice in general. She seems like a important engineer in the place where she works.
>She works all day long. From 8am to 21pm or so. There are days where they call her from the company "hey you have to come here at 4am, we have this incident" or "stay here at 6am" or even sundays.
>So at the end she is so tired she isnt able to find any space at all for a meeting. Or "Hey OP, I fell asleep, sorry for that", "I just cant go out tonight, I need to rest, my head is exploding". But at the same time she noticed Im missing interest and she tries harder to keep me around.
Should I invest time on her? If this is just the beginning of a relationship who knows how can it be in the near future. Other options are dull girls, boring or not so atractive to me.
Would you have a gf like that? Or you already have? Post your opinions.
>>724147668
Talk to her about the issue? dumbass.
>>724148794
I cant ask her about leaving her job.
>>724147668
If she tries to keep you around, don't leave her, but let her know you're concerned about how much she works. You'll get anal for it, promise.
>>724147668
pump and dump. all that shit in her face is a turnoff, plus an indication of psychobaggage. in the western world, less than 1% are worthwhile for anything other than sex.
>>724147668
Dedicated to her job even though it sucks.
You hit the jackpot op. In 3-5 years she will get a promotion and have someone else doing all those crazy hours and she will be making bank.
Being the shit newbie that has to fix everything doesn't last forever.
I dont really know, I want a gf but for seeing her more than 2 hours per week.
The other options look better in that aspect, but Im afraid this one is the kind of girl who wants more and more and only lives for the company.
At the end of the day she arrives her house and asks me how was my day
>It was ok, I was lurking /b/, watching porn and playing with ps4.
>>724150154
sounds like you need to get a life lmfao
>>724148887
Yeah, you can.
But no job forces you to work that long, she's doing it for the respect or for extra money. Tell her it's too much.
I can somewhat relate. My gf/fiancee works long hours and commutes an hour away to work said long hours. We live together though so i see her every day. even if it's only an hr or so a night. and sleep together... so not sure why I'm bitching. I'm probably just a clingy beta and should just kms.
Use proper American time and she'll want your cock. Fucking pussy.
>>724147668
Damn, that sounds amazing OP. My girl is always bitching that we don't spend enough time together. We're very different people lol
Take her, if she decides to get a new job she will be in a good position.
You can teach someone a new job but you can't teach someone to want to work. Which your girl apparently can.
Go for it!
OP again
to be honest with you, my previous relationship was on the contrary.
I love to spend time on my own, playing videogames or doing nothing, and we were only seeing each other somewhere between the weekend.
At the end, she hated that and it was part of the reason why she left me.
Now I miss that and wish I could be with her all the time. I guess we always look after what we dont have.