Get advice for some relationship trouble? I have literally no

>>724083638
Dude you're probably just feeling insecure or jealous because you're not talking to your girlfriend about your issues.
Why don't you try and discuss that shit in a productive manner?

What are you depressed about?

>>724084287

Well it's not something that I haven't tried doing. Every time I bring it up she says she isn't a hoe and wouldn't do that kind of stuff to me, but then she does certain things or my friends say some things are going on, and seeing as how both have lied to me one way or another I don't know who to trust anymore. It's kinda killing me right now.

>>724084287
>>724084545
It also doesn't help that I haven't seen her in 2 weeks in person. Texting doesn't help because it doesn't feel real, it just feels like I'm talking to one of you guys or something, yknow it's not gonna have an effect on me no matter what I do when texting, only real life is what matters.

>>724084545
>You don't have to date someone if you fully expect them to break your heart,
>and friends you can't trust aren't friends at all.

That said, you can always figure out if your friends are trustable.

I don't think asking her if she's cheating(especially without a really good reason) is gonna help.
Have you asked yourself why you think she would cheat on you?

>>724084801
There's still someone on the other end of that phone.

>>724084937
I mean I know why she would. I'm super paranoid because I spend 5 days at a time completely alone, unable to really talk to others because of my distaste to texting and wanting to talk face-to-face instead, and not compromising on that. This always ends up in me becoming so paranoid that I start texting her, going into her personal life and thinking that everything she tells me are lies. I know how unhealthy it is but my job is literally killing me and I can't do anything about it for now because I'm doing it for my family.

I also keep the friends that I can't trust because they're all I have. I live in a place where you need a car to get anywhere social and since I don't have one they're the only outlets I have.

>>724085006
I can't change how I think so easily, man.
It's not like I like that feeling.

>>724085575
1.What's the worst case scenario?[what are you worried about
2.Accept what would happen if the worst were to happen
3.improve on the worst, do what you can to improve the worst possible outcome.

>>724085643
Yeah, I getcha.

I hope you figure things out with your girlfriend.

Do you have any friends that would be good to talk to about this? Or, [alternatively] skype threads are good for commiseration and companionship :P

I got through highschool thanks to /soc/ skype threads.

>>724083638
How's the rest of your life going? Is anything else bothering you?

>>724086113
Alright I've been trying to do the list but all I can think of is if the worst happen I'd fall into a drinking habit again and lose more people. I'll try to dwell on it a little bit more to see what else I can come up with so it won't hit me too hard. I'll also check out that skype call stuff. Maybe venting a little more will solve it I dunno.

>>724086220
No, no friends. The friends I do have are connected to her in a way that I'm worried shes trying to get with one of them and they're all closer friends to him than I am to any of them. I've had a lot of chances taken by him so I'm trying to distance myself, but again, it's hard when him and his friends are all I got. Other than that and being socially isolated, I don't have any other problems.

Thanks, y'all might've helped me out a little bit more. I'll give it time.

>>724087018
That's maybe a concern but that'd be your choice.
Worst case would be like she is cheating on you and lying to you.
If you can't trust someone not to do that to you though you should seriously consider if it's worth it to be with them.

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When someone offers you help you don't say "why didn't you help me more?"
Unless you're ungrateful.

>>724087018
OH also, never forget the value of being positive.
eg. thinking "how could this work out well, what would be a good outcome that I could move towards" etc.
Anyways, good luck.