anon, if I find the perfect woman, and get married will I be happy ?

I can't imagine why any man would want to get married

>>723261096
I can saw with 100% certainty that if you found a perfect woman and married her you would be happy. Sadly, a perfect woman is only slightly harder to find than a unicorn.

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>>723261096
yes

For about two years, maybe three

>>723261096
No. Circumstances cannot grant happiness. (They can grant fun, but that's not the same.) If you aren't happy - or at least content - now, a woman won't change that.
Besides, marriage only succeeds under a commitment to mutual self-sacrifice, and it doesn't sound like you're ready for that yet. Focus on becoming a perfect husband, and you may be surprised who crosses your path.

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>>723261485
wow

>>723261267
>>723261485
/thread

>>723261485
Pretty much.

>>723261096
>happy marriage
Kek

>>723261267
I would like to chime in that even then you wouldn't, at least in the long term because our brains are wired to adopt the status quo as the new normal, so you'd end up wanting more anyway.

>>723261096
true hapinness is to find a woman that can fuck like your pic.

they're plenty lazy fishes in the sea, and very few will bother to swim for you...

>>723261096
No, because happiness does not depend upon perfection. It comes from acceptance of imperfection. Find a woman who is imperfect, treat her right...then you will be happy.

>>723261096
>howtogetauti.gif

>>723261096
No. Your insecurity and neediness will destroy the relationship.
If you don't know how to be happy by yourself, you won't make the other person happy and you won't be happy either.

>>723261096
You'll be happier but I'm not sure that there's any "perfect relationships" out there
They take work/sacrifice
Also a woman will never fulfill your life entirely.. you need aspirations/accomplishments

where does this notion that marrige will make you happy come from? why would it?

>>723261267
>Someone who's never been in a healthy relationship
There are good people out there but no one shits gold.
Putting people on a pedestal shows how broken you really are.

>>723262550
truth bomb suckas

>>723261096

being married is fucking awful

old married guy here.

>>723262719
You picked the wrong woman then

>>723262883
This. Don't project your failure on to everyone else.

>>723261096
don't make anybody else responsible for your happiness

>>723262883

apparently.

she changed a lot....

>>723261096
There is no perfect woman but there are right ones. Pick one of those and she'll help you be happier but you're responsible for your own happiness.

>>723262930
Everyone does. The right ones get better over time.

>>723261096
No. No matter what you do you will never be truly happy. Suffering is the natural human condition. What you can do is lessen the depth of your suffering by surrounding yourself with things and people you like. You can enjoy short bursts of bliss but the pain will never go away for good. That's life. You can check out any time.

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been married 3 times! biggest SCAM there is besides religion

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>marriage
>happiness

>>723261096
no

>>723261096
"Hey I bet you half my shit we'll be together forever!"

That's what marriage is.

>>723261096
Waaaah! I'm not happy. Nobody's happy! Happiness comes in small doses folks. It's a cigarette butt, or a chocolate chip cookie or a five second orgasm. You come, you smoke the butt, you eat the cookie, you go to sleep wake up and go back to fucking work the next morning, THAT'S IT! End of fucking list!

>>723263410
You picked the wrong women

>>723261485


not dumb ! wtf are you doing here ?


marrage 1 , content with my lot , she fucked it up and ruined my life most completely

hollow and miserable i came across wife 2

marrage 2 continues to this day , i was in the right place in a field of pain before she popped along . Without her ability to deal with my shit until my head was straight it would never have happened . She is special , not the best looking , not the smartest , not the perfect women in anyones eyes except to me she is everything , 14 years on its still special

Until the world spins in just the right way then no , no you will not find the inner peace of a symbiotic life

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>>723261096
Yes....yes. It is true... She will be perfect. It will happen. There will be no other problems when that happens, let me tell you. Just make sure you load your house with guns to protect that fine woman. And have them loaded and out in the open. You never know when you need to spring to action.

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>>723261096

>>723261096
If you cant be happy by yourself no one can make you happy. Happiness is in you, no in others.

>>723261096
>married
>happy

pick one.
sure you might be happy for a year or two but that shit gets old FAST.
also...perfect woman? yeah good luck with that.

>>723261096
Longterm, a "successful" marriage is not love and happiness, its a sort of comfortable animosity. You know and hate everything about her, she knows and hates everything about you, but you are used to each other and you know you'd hate someone else more. So you just leave it the way it is.

>>723264802
lol

>>723262987

what is that saying? Men marry hoping she wont change & women marry hoping to change him

>>723261096
Never rely on others to be happy. That's the secret.

>>723261476
>>723261485
Both of these.

>>723266124

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>>723265963
Yeah it's bullshit. The right person won't try to change you they just want to grow with you. Everyone changes as they age. The right person will grow closer to you over time.

>>723266124
More specifically others can't make you happy that's your job

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>>723264606
I've been married over 20 years and am very happy

>>723264536
/thread

>>723261096
If she's best friend material, she will make you happy as fuck and will give you all the love you could ever ask for. It's a beautiful thing, but it will NOT make you completely happy.

Happiness comes from within. It's important to fulfill your goals in life and help her achieve hers.

It's important to take care of her and commit to her, but you will need your other friends as well. Having a strong social life is important to maintaining your relationship, because eventually everything you do will drive each other nuts

>>723261096
no

>>723261096
probably

Marriage is never the answer. Women are never the answer. Find your own happiness and let a relationship be the icing. And never, ever, eva eva eva eva rationalize to yourself that your girlfriend, wife, mistress, or ONS fuck toy is the source of your happiness. Jerk off and reassess if it gets that bad.