I just found out that my Fiance, her best friend and her best

>She said it was a stage of her life that's over, it was only with Tony and Sonya, and she loves me too much too share me with anyone else.

Wow thats convenient

>>722561372
just don't freak out, maybe give it a break? a few weaks without seeing her could help you feel better and let go. Whatever you do don`t turn it into constant fights.

Blatantly honest response here. She doesn't want to do it with you.... If a a person is turned on by a another and turned on to do things they will do them. She's just not turned on about doing it with you. Either drop it 100% b/c she doesn't feel that way about you, or Find someone who will satisfy the lifestyle you're looking for.

>>722561932
agreed, tell her you are now on that stage.

>>722561372
Since this happened before you were together and she says it is a part of her life that's over, you should let it go.
It sounds like you have a good relationship so enjoy it.

>>722561372

Get out of this relationship OP, its gonna bother you for the rest of your life.

Not any girl can be in a threesome, it requires a certain type of whore if she isnt the one thats in a relationship with the guy.

Get out of this while you can OP.

>>722561372

She wanted to fuck chad and if she needed to let another girl be involved. So be it.

You're her beta runner up. She does not have to exert the same level of sexual energy for a beta like you and she knows it.

Fiance? I'd really think that over anon, I really would.

>>722562312
yep! It will bother you for the rest of your life for sure. Unless she accepts doing threesome with you

so during the time she was living with her friend were you engaged? If so idk why you would stay with this girl.

If she has only done a threesome with those two I would hedge a bet it was because she wanted to do that with her friend. What was just the penis. That's why she's not in that stage anymore because it isn't an option because you can't lay the wood to her friend.

Be very upfront with her about how you feel but also don't be a dick about it. Say you need some 100% honest answers from her and ask her a few of the questions that concern you the most.

>>722562442

Even if she does a threesome with him shes the sort that is willing to be a whore for another man. Not wife material at all.

>>722561372
It's really not that big of deal, if it was before you were together. If you love her, then move on and don't make a big thing of it.

>>722561372
fuck dude, chill out. just enjoy thinking about it. do you want to go back in time and take her virginity too? people have a past. sometimes people did funner shit than you. you cant force her to have a threesome because you missed out last time! forcing that shit never works.
if you want to push it, chat to nice guy tony about it. go visit them more. make them all drink lots. see what happens. but don't be a whiny bitch

>>722561372
Just leave the bitch OR make up a similar situation by yourself. Tell you have something special going on but it's just a stage of life.

It's not worth it. They are probably still doing something. It's UNFAIR towards you and nothing will resolve it.

Think about what makes you happy. Are you happy to be a cuck in relationship or... Don't be pussy whipped, think with your own brain and just get... out.

>>722562586

This "love" will end up with her being banged up by a black dude and him filming it like a cuck.

Get out of this OP, dump this slut.

>>722561932
This.

Tell her you get a threesome with her and Sonya or its over. That is if you would fuck Sonya, if not choose another bitch. If she refuses peace the fuck out of that shit.

cut those friends off right away.

>>722561372
The answer is simple. Fuck Sonya with Tony. Sonya will want to because it'll make her friend jealous, Tony will comply as long as you play your cards well.
Then tell your whore of a fiancée it's a stage of your life that just begun.

>>722561372
She sounds like a whore and it's clearly bothering you. If it were me, I would end the relationship. Its something that would eat away at me and constantly make me question her faithfulness and commitment to me.

>>722562012
I'd have to find somewhere else to go. My fiance and I live together.

>>722562054
I don't know it it's a lifestyle that I want, but it's like "she's willing to do something for someone else but not for me." We're meant to be getting married. This sort of barrier shouldn't be there. I think. Or I feel.

>>722562312
It's hard to know that Tony has been balls deep in my fiance, that my fiance has seen Tony and probably worn her fare share of his cum in and on her. He's probably seen my fiances orgasm face... I don't know if I want to know other people that know my fiance that deeply. I know what my fiance is like in bed, and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things...

>>722562515
No, she was living alone when we met.

>>722562676
This is exactly how I should be thinking.

You have to talk exactly this to her, but with pacience and love.

Explain that, you would feel much better if you could have new experiences. Let her chose the other female and be very patience.

If you be open, patience you probably will get what you want.

>>722561372
Forcing her to have a threesome isn't going to get rid of your own feelings about the situation.

>tryin to make a ho a housewife

>>722561372
The only thing you can do, sit down and talk. Acknowledge what she said, as far as i heard you, but tell her exacrly what you feel and if possible why.

Or you can suck his dick.

>>722562889

Shes done more with Tony than you will ever see - coz youre beta in her eyes.

Get out of this OP, im sure youre a cool guy but this girl will be trouble in the future.

oh OP you textbook cuck

>>722562889
About Tony you will have to put in balance. If you really like him what you could do is try to even things, but in intelligent way. So start to have threesome with your wife, like I suggested here:>>722563021

Than, try to seduce very slowly all the three others to share the bed with you. Be confident and don't show any violence, or hate, or jelous. Be PATIENT, like a WOLF.

When you get in the act, do everything you want it with his wife. Give her pleasure. Don't bother with your wife and him (really hard - to do that, you have to remenber that they were already there). Do these things until the things inside you get some peace and you can look into Tony's eye and think ("I fucked your wife too").

>>722563301
overused word. they weren't together back when it happened you fucktard

Tell her it's a MFF threesome with you or GTFO

Whether she agrees or not, dump her ass (preferably after finding a replacement slut). Or use her strictly as a cum dumpster and see how far you can push it (ie, don't fuck her unless she brings over another woman).

Once a slut, always a slut.

>>722562889
sounds like you are not okay with it, which is fine. I don't think any sane man should be. But you are willing to let it slide, which is bullshit and the exact reason it will eat at you. The best thing you can do is tell her exactly this, your own words:
" "she's willing to do something for someone else but not for me." We're meant to be getting married. This sort of barrier shouldn't be there"

"It's hard to know that Tony has been balls deep in my fiance, that my fiance has seen Tony and probably worn her fare share of his cum in and on her. He's probably seen my fiances orgasm face... I don't know if I want to know other people that know my fiance that deeply. I know what my fiance is like in bed, and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things..."

and that doesnt sit well with you so unless shes willing to do the same for you, peace the fuck out of that relationship before you make the biggest mistake of your life. Even if she does you should probably still strongly consider peacing out imo, because even though you got yours it will still eat at you to one know she was big enough of a whore to be the 3rd, on top of that you know the couple she did it with, on top of that she hid it from you. You will never be able to let this shit go.It will always be eating away at the back of your mind every time shes out later than she said she would be. Whenever she hangs out with Sony and or Tony and you're not around etc.
Get her into a threesome if you can then get the fuck out for your own sanity and self respect.

>>722561372
tony is a cunt fight him

>>722562889
>and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things

So you gf is into anal and Tony has sodomised your gf.

Tony is most likely laughing at you behind your back.

im not trolling you. this is real advice. you need to beat the fuck out of tony for disrespecting you. keeping you in the dark gave them a secret with you as the outsider. beat his fucking ass for thinking youre okay with it. and dump her. theres plenty more awkward silences to come if you dont. but beat his fucking ass with a hammer if you need one. beat him down so bad no woman will ever fuck him again. beat him down with the hammer and then use the claw to rip his dick off. then throw his dick to some pitbulls and walk away from that group. yeah youll do a little time but at least youll be a man. and have a dick. fuck them dude. be a man here!!!!

>>722563483
Also kick Tony's ass for lying to you about it. Don't be a beta bitch.

>>722562889
Go to a hotel for a week, listen to what I`m saying.
Just take your stuff right now and go to a hotel, or else you`ll fight til you too can`t take it anymore. After you`re out the house you can start trying to feel better and forget about that. A week without her whereabouts, just you and your friends or family having some quality time, you`ll miss her, and decide what to do with this feeling with a clear head. Let me say it again, go now

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Don't marry her. A girl who slept with another man and his girl for fun but won't do it with you is a hypocrite. Once you get married you'll realise you've made a deal with the devil's child and now owe her 50% of your shit, if not more.

I won't tell you what to do in general, but don't legally marry her.

>>722561372
in my experience, its not gonna work, theres no way she can be around tony and you not have constant doubts

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LOL are you Ben Affleck

>>722561372
wow it's almost like people do different things sexually when they find the person that they want to be with the rest of their life how weird.

>>722561372
Naw dump her she is a whore man you don't wanna deal with that in the future

>>722563864
You are either a cuck or a bitch. Fuck off. the entire group disrespected him. If he accepts that he might as well accept niggers fucking her.

>>722563630
Actually solid advice. Leave for a week, no contact. Figure out your end of why this hurts, then return back and see how she did without you. How she was and did that week you were gone with no contact will be very telling.

I wouldnt even tell her, just go.

>>722563996
>I love you I don't want to share you with another woman

>but I'm gonna go take a nigger dick

You're an idiot, accept that your wife is actual wife material. I don't want anybody's hands on my wife, woman or not because she's mine. And she feels the same way, there is no issue with it.

just start treating her like shit. beat her psychologically constantly, and always go back to the fact that they had a threesome. obviously still act loving, but go batshit crazy sometimes. leave her mentally scarred for the rest of her life. sink the idea that no one will ever love her or accept her like you do.
go full sociopath on this, anon.

>>722563404
once a whore, forever a whore. real wife-tier women never even think about having fucking trios you cuck.

>>722562752
Don't listen to this guy. He's probably fapping to cuck porn and trying to turn your thread into a fantasy of his. No worries on your end OP.

Reply to this post or your mother/father/dog/cat/fish/sister/brother tonight.

>Seriously though just kill them all and leave no evidence then get on with your life

>>722561372
keep asking her about it. like at dinner tonight, ask her "what did sonyas cunt taste like with Tonys cock up your ass?"

>>722562889
>This is exactly how I should be thinking
Only if you're as big of a bitch as your fiance thinks. Not only did she used to fuck Tony, she knew you wouldn't like it and they all wanted to hide it.

>>722564395
Top fucking kek can't fucking believe I lost to that

>>722561372
You shouldn't be talking to us about this, you should be talking to her.
Don't push for a threesome, but explain how this affects you emotionally.
She should have told you about this earlier in your relationship, when you weren't so invested yet. Keeping it secret and having it come out like this is not good.

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>>722561372
Congratz, you are her safety Beta Bucks. Now that she's fucked people in all kinds of ways, she's not "willing to do that with you" means she's not as attracted to you as Tony, and this is her hamster wheel justifying it. You can do better. So do better.

>>722561372
Stop being such a worrisome filled sack of shit and realize that you will never make her as happy as she was when she was with them.

>>722561932
you're surprised people grow up?

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>>722563859
She doesn't respect you. It sucks. move on.

>>722564416
You got a point there anon.

She hid this from you, what else is she hiding.

Iv been married ten years now, i can say with absolute certainty that i know everything about my wifes past. Literally every last detail.

You cannot say the same. I think that is part of what upsets you.

>>722564597
once a whore, forever a whore you actual beta overlord

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>>722564569
This is accurate too. Move on and find someone better.

>>722564545
THIS. This anon knows what he's talking about.

>>722564667
Yeah right. That's bullshit right there.

>>722564815
Sorry you dont trust your wife and there are secrets between you two.

Iv known my wife since middle school faggot.

>>722562676
Fuck that, she doesn't deserve that kind of understanding.

>>722562380
>>722561372
The most real reply on this thread.

>>722564913
That means nothing.

>>722561372
Dump her. I mean, is there any chance this relationship doesn't end in divorce?

>>722561372
Go watch chasing amy. Seriously.

>>722562799
This.

Anything else is actually retarded. Either your cock enters Sonya's pussy while she while she watches or it's over like George Michael's life.

>>722563169
Yea I agree with this anon

If this was a "phase" in her life, she's probably done some freaky shit, and now that her freaky phase is over the only weird stuff she does in the bedroom with you is if she's in the mood/nostalgic

>>722561372

simple question...could you ever see yourself hanging around the other couple now that you know this?

its gonna eat at you. you need to tell your wife exactly what youre telling us....that you feel jealous and cheated and inscure

>>722561372
moar of this!
http://fuckmytoes.com

>>722562676
look at this cuck

>>722564999
You poor thing. I hope you find true love anon.

If Tony's dick is bigger than yours, rest assured that she misses it all the time.

holy fucking shit this is literally the plot of chasing amy lmao

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>>722563556
This guy says it well. But I don't know what fighting tony might get you. Probably just arrested. Those three kept a secret from you making you an outsider. A husband/wife couple are supposed to be a 'unit', on each other's team and willing to defend each other.

>>722563630
I like this guy's idea. Removing yourself from the situation for a while will allow you to step back, and look at the problem clearly. Take some time to think it over what the real problem is.

To me, the primary offense would be leaving you as an outsider by not disclosing her past this far into the relationship.
If shes willing to neglect disclosing this issue, what else is she willing to neglect?

The secondary offense would be the sexual past itself.

>>722564533
>Keeping it secret and having it come out like this is not good.
having it come out like this seems kinda suspicious to me. i can't really imagine tony having so little of a filter that he'd accidentally slip with something like this, even when drunk (if my understanding of him being somewhat buzzed and not full-on bent is accurate). i interpreted this as a possible sting against OP to provoke a reaction, but maybe i'm just paranoid.

>>722562889
>>722561372
Post a pic of Tony, I wanna see how this douchebag looks like

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What's wrong bro? Don't like the idea of marrying a degenerate piece of shit woman and having her worthless friends as your buddies? ...

Look at your stupidity.

You are upset that she was with this couple but now you want here to have a threesome with you and some other bitch....

Your degeneracy is beyond compare.

You deserve a shit woman like this...

If you were a moral man who had values I would recommend that you bail on this bitch. Cut ties and start over since there are many women in the world. But since you are a degenerate like this nasty whore I suggest you stay with her and celebrate future anniversaries finding out new secrets of dysfunction that she devulges.

Your life is fucked and your lack of moral compass is preventing you from seeing how shit your reality is ...

Dude, your friends and your fiance kept a secret about a sex life together, then the dude casually made reference to a spot on her thigh in front of as an inside to the two women? All three have cucked you.

Are you fucking stupid? Break it off. Break that shit the fuck off or you're in for a lot of misery.

give her the choice make it happen for you or gtfo.

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>>722565568

>>722561372
Go rape Tony. Fuck that bigger in the ass.

Have a 3some but with two other chicks. Fiance b& not allowed.

Just know that every time she hangs out with them she is imagining his bulging veiny cock pounding her senseless. I bet he even came in her a few times. If you stay with her you're a giant cuck.

>>722565476
It might be Tony being a shithead, that is true.
If they had agreed that it was over, said agreement would have entailed them not mentioning it, so it would be over.
Op answer me this, does Tony seem like the type of guy who would try to dominate people by taking them down emotionally?

>>722561372
HAHAHAH Tony fucked your wife! Might as well slice your dick off and eat a shotgun shell because that's never gonna change! Or you could be a man and fuck Tony up bad and rip his dick off then rape Sonya for good measure.

if she told you early in the relationship maybe it wouldn't of been a big deal

but she kept that from you, and you found out from an inside joke that the guy said IN FRONT OF YOU as an inside joke

leave her and find someone else.. no other person i know would put up with this kind of degenerative secrecy, deceit, and lies

remember every time she hangs out with them, she imagines his big bulging cock pounding her and most likely with a few creampie endings

>>722565264
someone stole mummys password again

>>722565476
>>722565830
>>722566021


It'd be difficult to tell because we weren't there, but it could be possible. Depending on the kind of guy Tony is, he could be a gloating douche, or a 'good' guy who is concerned about OP's well being.
But the fact that the group of them tried to recover the secret by Tony saying he was 'told' of her birthmark would piss me right the fuck off.

>>722565902
That's the logical thing. Tie up Sonya, whoop Tony, sever his cock, then fuck sonya while he watches, then leave the country quick.

>>722561372
She wasn't in a relationship so she didn't have those attachment emotions with either of them, it was just Fucking. In a relationship you got more emotions involved, including jealousy. It means she's emotionally invested in you.

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>>722561372

You felt bad enough that you came to us for legitimate relationship advice on the situation. Does that sound like a good sign to you, op?

>>722564597
I do think its convenient to grow out of things when it requires an actual effort. Im not really surprised tho, many people share this trait.

the trust is gone its over. talk her into matching tattoos of each others names if she loves you. she goes first and when its your turn you leave & everyone laughs

>>722561372
act like you're not bothered and continue to do so for a few months. don't mention it to your fiance, don't even talk about tony or sonya. keep bringing up camping to your fiance. say you want to go camping and fishing. if your fiance isn't into fishing then ask her if she would prefer just the two of you go or if you go with other people so you have somebody to fish with.

if she wants just the two if you to go camping then do so. but you tell her you want to do it again in a few weeks. let it all play out naturally, but then later invite Tony and Sonya to go camping with you guys. You can fish with Tony.

You put roofies in their drinks and let them pass out. You tie Tony to a tree and gag him. You don't want him yelling and alerting people. You tie up Sonya and your fiance - you don't want them running off. But you do want to rape them in front of Tony. Repeatedly.

From here you can do whatever you want with them. You can drill Sonya in the ass and then nut on her face, and you can do this as many times per day as your dick will allow. They'll die in 14 days if you don't give them food, and in 3 days if you don't give them water. You might want to keep the women more hydrated so their pussies don't completely dry up. Bring some moist towelettes because the women will be pissing and shitting themselves to try to turn you off. Clean them up because the rapes won't be over anytime soon.

Once you're finished you either let them die from exhaustion, starvation, or dehydration, or you torture them as you see fit. Cut them into pieces, bundle their bodies in wire mesh, and drop them into the deepest part of the lake with some cement blocks to weigh them down.

You'll be the prime suspect when the missing persons reports go out. You say that they left you there, and that you believe your fiancee, Tony, and Sonya were all having some lover's triangle.

>>722566216
If that was true then she would have told OP about it in the beginning of the relationship.
>"Oh yeah I used to mess around with those two"
There's also the widely known fact that women ALWAYS catch feels after fucking which you would know if you had ever been in a "friends with benefits" type situation.

>>722565476
Tony is creating an issue so when they break up he can fuck two girls again. Thats all. Now OP is the dickhead that is making an issue out of the past and Tony is the fun understanding guy that didnt mean any harm. Thats why i say beat his motherfucking ass. Everyones advice that he should just accept it makes me ashamed of /b/ like i have never felt before.

>>722566216
If it was just fucking and a trivial part of her past, she would've disclosed this history well before OP got engaged to her.
This whole situation is straight bullshit and shouldn't be tolerated by any self-respecting man.

>>722561372
>pushing for a threesome of our own will ruin our relationship b
just let it go. She was younger and did things and then stopped doing them and wants a mono relationship with you. Take that and run with it, and let the other shit of the past go.

Op, if you continue to be around Tony and this other woman, you're going to the cuck-wheel of the 3 some sitting in the corner jerking off and crying while Tony slams his cock balls deep into your fiance.

Ditch them or ditch your fiance.

>>722561372
You need to position it this way to her. She's let a man do stuff with her she won't allow you to. She's given another man more than you will get from her that's why it makes you feel shitty.

Try to come from that point of view and you might convince her, imagine if you had loved another woman in a way you hadn't loved her and then you refuse to give her said treatment.

>>722561372
OP, tell her to fuck off. She loved riding the cock carousel but now wants to enslave you and make sure another woman doesn't get her claws into you, so no threesomes. Tell her to hit the fucking road.

>>722566431
I'll take "Fastest way to earn the electric chair" for $500 alex.

>She said it was a stage of her life that's over,

lol at this blatant hypocrisy

OP, do not fool yourself, she is NOT marriage material

I wouldn't suggest trying to get revenge on anyone, honestly just drop it all and forget about all of them. find a new friend group and start your life all over again if needs be

do you not realize that they never had any intention of telling you this?

OP TONY DIDNT EVEN ADMIT THEY HAD SEX IN FRONT OF YOU

HE KEPT IT A SECRET AND LIED BY SAYING SHE TOLD HIM ABOUT THE BIRTHMARK

OP YOURE STUPID AS FUCK IF YOU STAY WITH HER

>>722566361
Your a mad genius annon, truly one of the best ideas I have heard since voting for Trump.

>>722566453
Lol. All women are the same hu? That's the retarded type of thinking that makes b/ a bunch of angry sexless clowns.

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>>722561372
Time for a new fist - shaped birthmark. On her left temple. Quack quack!

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>>722566508

This is grade A cuck mentality, you're a fucking faggot.

>>722566431
You are an Anon I can relate to.

your fiancee was a slut, but the world needs sluts, just ask your friend Tony
you on the other hand are a cuck, the world doesn't need cucks

>>722562380
Think it over? What's to think about... This mother fucker needs to exit right away... pack your shit and GOOOOOO NOWWWWWWWWWW...

RUNNNNNN MUTHAFUCKERRRRRRR
RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

(OK FIRST CANCEL ALL JOINT ACCOUNTS AND TAKE YOUR NAME OFF ANYTHING THAT YOU SHARE WITH HER, TAKE THE DOG AND MAKE SURE YOU HAVE HIDDEN AWAY ALL YOUR STUFF THEN FUCKING RUNNNNNNNNNNNN)

>>722563432
this

>>722566769
Here comes the roastie defense force.

Do you want kids with this woman?

If you do, do you want your kids to have a whore as a mother?

Get out of this OP. Stop being a beta fag.

>>722563395

>>722561372
Here is a thought, do you really think advice from b/ will lead anywhere but to a complete disaster for shit and giggles?

>>722565970
No, he's actually a really nice guy. I thought he was a good friend, but then he kept the secret. Then, when I think about it, when exactly do you tell someone that you've fucked their girlfriend while their girlfriend is face deep in you wifes snatch? First date? Engagement party?

>>722566012
I'm sure Tony isn't the first guy. My fiance fucked guys before I met her, and I fucked girls before I met my fiance. It's the fact that Tony got "the experience" and I didn't, and likely wont.

>>722566216
Pretty much what my fiance said... and her excuse too.

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>>722566431
tell us more stories anon, I'm hard now

>>722561372
If I was you I would suggest a forsome and have some great fun.
Try sloppy seconds with your wife or her friend, it is great
You and Tony might even get the chance to try DP if the girls are into anal

>>722567000
I've seen good advice from /b/ before. You just have to wade through the obvious crap.

Obvious crap is obvious.

Anon gives everyone the ability to give honest advice.

>>722566431
Omg...... This... Is a fucking sweet idea! Holy shit, it's perfect! OP just do this exactly and you will find peace I know it. And plus, Sonya pussy!!

>>722566275
listen to this one OP. even if you somehow believe all other posts are trying to fuck with you, you can't really argue with this one.

>>722562380
I agree 100% with this assessment. She's damaged goods.

>>722566891

Sluts can't help but to stand up for each other. Honor among thieves as they say.

>>722565893
Say what you wan't but at least I will never share my bed with a whore and go fishing with a guy who fucked my woman....

>>722567005

Tony isnt a real man, and he certainly doesnt see you as a real man but as a beta fag.

If he saw you as a real man he would have vanished the minute she got into a relationship, the fact that he is seeing her with you indicates he doesnt respect you as a man, and sees you as a beta.

You know what she's into. And she's into it, that won't change. If you like that, fucking SCORE, cause here's the thing.....that's NOT gonna change. Sure, she'll say some shit now, but 17 years and 4 kids from now...that chick at the Pic 'N Pac is gonna get her greasy in places that haven't been in a while. And THAT's when you capitalize on this shit here. You agree that it's a fantastic idea, and you rail the hot wife, the 19 yr old cashier, and live the rest of your fucking life loving the live you've lived.

Anon my blood is fucking boiling right now of how much this story pisses me off.. if i was in your shoes i would tell her either you me and the other girl have a 3way or we will no longer be friends with that other couple.. also if you want to stay friends with them then this relationship is fucking over and i would make her chose right there on the spot.. no if and or buts.. oh man i am so fucking pissed right now.. idk why this story bothered me so much.

>>722562838
Yep, if she's "open" to this, what else is she "open" for?

ask tony for pictures and video.

>>722566216
This ladies and gentlemen is the type of person popular society has created... Look at this piece of shit.

>>722567005
>when exactly do you tell someone that you've fucked their girlfriend while their girlfriend is face deep in you wifes snatch?

Probably any of the times early in the relationship when you two talked about your own pasts. All three of them kept you on the outside, and it wasn't until by chance that you caught on. Fuck them.
Who knows what else you haven't happened upon yet.

>>722567005
OP, what is there to think about? I recommend listening to the guy who said go to a hotel, and also start making plans to leave peacefully

don't get all confrontational, aggressive - just go. take your things, you don't even have to do it when she is around, you could start planning to just suddenly disappear

but i would certainly never marry a woman who did something like this. to add insult to the injury, they all tried to hide it

you're the outsider here with all these people OP, even with your own fiance. is that really someone you'd want to marry?

this is not something that you need to work on forgiving or etc, this is one of those things you just need to let go of. you know what kind of people they are now, just move on with your life. start anew and fresh

You need to constantly beg her into doing a threesome, preferably with one of her friends if possible. You want whoever the woman is to be as emotionally close to her as possible (a family member would honestly be the best). Beg non-stop if you have to, literally run the relationship into the ground and make the tension between you two so unbearably stressful that she caves. Make sure you keep reassuring her it's the "only way to save the relationship."
Then as you're fucking her and her friend/coworker/sister, right as you cum all over her face say "pack your shit and leave, we're through."
You should probably hide a camera somewhere before the fucking though to have video evidence that it wasn't rape.

>>722567005

"The experience, and I didn't, likely won't"

Oh, you will my friend. But it may not be the experience you really want.

You're gonna walk in one day after a long, shitty day of work. and everything is wrong. Everything looks fine, but something is amiss, then you hear something in the bed room, you know what that sound is deep inside but you try to rationalize you're hearing things.. You go to the door, you hear your wife moaning, then you hear her friend moaning. A knot rises in your throat, bile threatens to escape your gut as you open the door to see your friend tony fucking your wife hard, and shes enjoying it more than you'd ever seen her enjoy you..

If you're lucky she'll let you watch as he fucks her, if you're smart, you'd fuck off out of there.

>>722567005
You gotta tell your fiancé how this makes you feel, if she can't convince you to let this go and gain your trust again. I'm sorry to say, but then you probably shouldn't be together.
They should have told you early on, before you got so emotionally invested, so it wouldn't have had such an impact on you.

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>>722567338

(((Popular)))

>>722567437
>OP having to beg to get what he wants
Fuck that. Propose an ultimatum and standby it steadfast when she refuses.

>>722567356
Yup, where there's smoke there's fire. There is no way in hell this was just a one off thing. Seen it before and will see it again. You would be wasting both of your time if you stay with her. Will not end well (no it won't be different for you).

>>722567280
wow, milhouse forgot his pills

>>722567574
Popular culture... run by the Jew of course..

>>722567501
Correct.

D U M P H E R

You already got the milk, dump that cow

>>722567437
Would probably work tbh

OP will end up felching Tony's cum from his wife's asshole soon like the beta cuck faggot he knows he is.

>>722561372
why hadn't you asked your fiancé if she had a thressome before it came up?? I asked all sorts of shit to mine. Kissed a girl? how many guys? threesome/group? ever filmed it? etc etc!
They didn't tell cos you didn't ask my friend

>>722567437
>constantly beg

what a horrid idea, you're making op into a little bitch by saying that

>>722567005
OP, please, for your own good, just leave her. I can't express enough to you how I have seen people I know get burnt in life because of shitty situations like this.

Consider this: there is no possible good outcome now for this story. You either marry a literal whore who, for the rest of your life, you will know she kept secrets from you and had NO intention of telling you, or

You cut your losses now and move on with life


Which is the smarter choice OP? There is never a way you can "unlearn" this one man, you just have to leave and let this all go.
A threesome won't make you feel better, likely only worse. You'll just be deepening that hole you have in your heart now

>>722567912

they never gave him a reason to ask until that point

Sucks youll never know when they really had sex because people are fucking liers

>>722561372
FUCK HIM UP

I swear to god OP, you better beat his ass. I don't care if he's bigger and stronger than you, take a bat and break this legs. My ex cheated on me and I haven't gotten over it, its been 3 years. The shit has fucked me up, and I still plan on finding the dude and beating his ass. Do it while you still can.

>>722561372
Why is everyone saying she's a whore and such? She was fucking single at the time and didn't even know OP.
Of course it's fucking easy to get into a threesome when you're single. It's another thing when you're with someone. If anything it's Sonya who was a whore.

It's completely natural to feel shitty about it, but that's only because you know the guy and that she still talks to him. If she just said "yeah I had a threesome back then" you wouldn't give a shit, you'be be horny.

Damn right pushing for a threesome now will ruin your shit. She was single then, she never said she wanted some open relationship or something.

>>722567987
They? why hadn't he just asked HER about her past? Early days "ever had a threesome?"
"yes"
"cool! with who?"
"sonya a 9 inch tony"
"wow! thanks for telling! that will make the next fishing trip/dinner party less awkward."

>>722568082
>Liers.
This is either a typo or a clever pun on them having lain with each other.

>>722566431
That's why I'm still browsing /b/
Only logical thing to do.
So much common sense wow

>>722561372
>>722561372
Ask to fuck your fiancé's friend in a 3some. If she or your fiancé declines, break off the wedding. If they approve, break off the wedding. Ain't nobody got time for wives who do that.

>>722561372
Shit is fucked up, dump her and move on with your life, simple as that.

>>722568192
lol

Op maybe she don't want to do it with you cause she don't want to share you ? I know that won't help much but it's one way of looking at the positive .

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>>722562889
>I don't know it it's a lifestyle that I want, but it's like "she's willing to do something for someone else but not for me." We're meant to be getting married. This sort of barrier shouldn't be there. I think. Or I feel.

If you had a good guy friend for a while that had a really hot fuck buddy and he asked you if you wanted to double team her, would you do it?

If you did do it, imagine later on you got a girl you loved and was about to marry, but she found out about your past. Now she wants to get double teamed by you and your friend, would you be okay with it? Doubt it.

Basically your logic is pretty dumb here and you shouldn't worry about her past.

Other posters in here have even more retarded logic so don't listen to them. For example:
>>722562799

hard to believe this person is not underage

>>722563135
well technically ho IS in housewife, sooo....

Ugh..."tell her how you feel"..."beg for a 3sum"..."go to a hotel until you miss her"...you people are the worst faggots ever. Tony fucked his fiance. Tonys gf ate her pussy. Those 3 sit around having dinner with knowing winks about the good ol days while the poor guy says, "Tonys a nice guy".."My finace is a good woman"...ohhh you menfolk are embarrassing. The west is hopeless. Tony fucked his woman and winks about it over drinks. Tony then lied about it when he slipped up AND...AND so did she and the other girl because he said she only confessed to it later. The whole group lied to him about a sexual secret between them. I can not believe you faggots think that doesnt deserve a hammer beat down. Ive lied to women, not telling them i fucked a woman we bump into in public..."Oh we just went to school together. Not really the same circles.' Thats normal but to have the fuckers over for dinner and maintain the charade is unfuckingforgivable. OP there is no way on Gods green earth you should marry her or allow any more contact with that couple. i would beat his ass so bad but youre a pussy. At least keep her away from them if you dont have the guts to dump her ass tonight.

>>722561372
It must have been difficult for her to tell you. She must have a strong drive to want to be honest with you. Honor it. Quiet your insecurities and accept her without projecting your fears or some adolescent sense that you too are entitled to a threesome.

>>722568094
OP, this is a perfect example of what you should not do. All this will you do is get you a felony and prison time, and will genuinely ruin your life (read up on how former inmates cannot find stable employment)

>>722568117
>Why is everyone calling a duck a duck?

>>722567005
>>722561372
Op, please, I'm begging you, use your head. There are so many ways that this could go, but do recognize that there is no happy ending here. You'll never be able to have this sit right with you because you know it wasn't right.

Leave them all behind, cut contact, that is that.
Try to fight Tony? Jail time
Try to stay with your "fiance"? You'll be a literal cuck married to a whore
Try to have a threesome? You are only making it worse for yourself - two wrongs do not make a right

And again, if you didn't know this was wrong, you would not have made the thread

gtfo asap, don't even say anything because an argument will be a waste of time. just disappear

>>722568375
Feeling cheated and bad about learning this late in a relationship is legitimate though. Asking for a threesome is a bad fix I agree, but his emotions are legit.

>>722561372
Don't be a cuck.

>>722568117
It's up to OP to decide if the sexual history itself is an issue. (I would think so)
But the real problem is the hiding of the history. Those three 'friends' conspired against OP to never let him know, and allowed to let a secret get so far, that it wasn't until they were engaged that he only caught on by sheer chance.

>>722568417
Found the roastie whore.
OP's fiance should have disclosed her history early in the relationship.
He has every right to be pissed at them.

>>722568412
>it's worth going to chimp out and go to prison over some loose slut
Want to know how I can tell you're a shitskin?

>>722568117
She isnt a whore for having a 3sum, (she is). Shes a whore for lying to her man while having the couple come over as friends. that is inexcusable.

chicks that do shit like that are fucking whores, everytime. she is lying to you and manipulating you to serve HER immediate needs. YOUR immediate needs should be making sure you aren't marrying a whore, who has gone around slutting it up and gang banging then settling for whatever beta she can extract resources from and get fat then divorce to steal more assets from. your funeral bro, just remember this response in ten years if you stay with her. chicks that gang bang don't magically turn into housewives after a few years. she's a degenerate pig, so don't invest in her as if the situation is otherwise. get some more easy sex, plan your exit strategy.

>>722565513
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>>722568519
>Try to have a threesome? You are only making it worse for yourself - two wrongs do not make a right

Yeah they do. Revenge feels fucking amazing, getting a threesome and breaking up with her afterwards on the spot would be infinitely more gratifying than leaving without saying anything like a little beta.

>>722565568
I agree, baby boomers are weak little shits that ruined this nation

>>722568417
Your advice is "suppress your emotions"?
That's bad advice, he's allowed his emotions.
He shouldn't ask for a threesome I agree, but telling him disregard his emotions to make her happy is bad advice.
If she is committed to be honest and loving with him, it's her job to gain his trust again.

>>722568556
>He has every right to be pissed at them.
Maybe OP will check back with us someday and let us know the many great and wondrous things that being pissed off accomplished for him.

Grow the fuck up Chad.

>>722568117
The issue isn't that he didn't know the three of them used to fuck, it's that his fiance and his friends hid it from him. Women rarely hide things for no reason and even if she is being 100% sincere and will never ever touch another man or woman again for the rest of their lives the seed of doubt has been planted. OP now knows that she can, and absolutely will, lie to him if she thinks she can get away with it. Reddest of red flags.

OP, let's be honest, you're gonna run back to your fiance despite all this advice because that's what you want to do. You just want us to rationalise it for you. Well we can't

Here's the facts
>your gf had a 3some with her best friend and her bestie's husband
>your gf is still in constant contact with both of them
>all three of them knew and lied about it to your face
This is the equivalent of your fiance being best mates with her ex. Maybe you can deal with that, I wouldn't

It's true that people do shit in the past and carry on maturing throughout their lives, but she hasn't "moved on". She still sees both parties involved and her best friend is still her best friend. How much would it really take for her best friend to convince her to have another threesome?

Can you really go on double dates with them where they've all had sex with each other?
The problem isn't the threesome, though it's a red flag
The problem is that she's still in constant contact with them
And that she lied to you

Call off the wedding now before you have 2 kids who may or may not be yours and are in the process of divorce proceedings and her taking half your shit.
You've been warned very clearly. If you stay with her then what follows is on you

Just don't make a thread whining about it in 5 years because you wouldn't listen

>>722561372
Ok so op you invite Tony fishing again , you charter a boat tell him when you go fishing you always catch a fish when you say the " Hail Mary " then when you have the boat in the middle of no where BADA BING you BLOW HIS FUCKING BRAINS OUT . No more Tony no more jealousy

>>722567696
It wasn't one off. The three of them lived together for over a year.

>>722568094
I can't call it cheating. We weren't together at the time if you believe her. There was like 8 months seperation between them getting married and moving out and me meeting my fiance.

>>722568375
Yes, I completely understand this. It's logical, but fuck me If I can't get my head around to looking at it this way. It's all tied up with embarrassment, anger, jealousy and stuff.

>>722568828
Not a lie. She never said they didn't. She never said they did. We never spoke much about our sex lives prior to meeting each other.

>>722561372
you have a person who wants to marry you, quit being such a faggot an move on.

>>722568634
Honestly, what would even be the point of dragging anything else on?

You know, felonious assault with intent of bodily harm is not a easy charge to bear

and if you're just focusing on having revenge sex, fuck that, still just leave. there is nothing left to prove. a whore is always a whore, she already is incapable of feeling shame

>>722568412
T H I S

>>722568778
>Your advice is "suppress your emotions"?
I can see where you get that impression but really I'm saying the opposite. Anger is just a way of suppressing fear. I'm saying move past it, don't give into childish emotion and instead choose your path.
If Op decides that this is a deal breaker - I'd get that too. But what will never work is acting like a childish bitch for 3 months until she 'proves' something to him.

>>722568938
>She never said they didn't. She never said they did
Omission is the worst kind of lie

>>722568634
The only right way to do this would be to propose an ultimatum wherein you end up leaving anyway.
Doing anything other than an overt ultimatum would be tolerating of the situation longer and would make OP un-respectable cunt.

>>722568814
Discontent is the first step to improving your own situation.
He was wronged. You cannot deny this.
Therefore he is entitled to any reservation he may have about his 'fiance' and her friends.

Practicing apathy is not growing up.

>>722568938
The issue isn't the threesome, it's that she's still seeing him all the time.
Would you be okay if your fiance stll hung around the kid that took her virginity?

What if she lied about it and you only found out by chance after ringing it out of her?

Tony basically raped you, OP when he casually slipped that shit in on you in the presence of those females. It only makes sense for you to rape him for real, brah.

>>722561372
OP I have been in the reverse situation, I tag teamed a friends GF with him in college a few times.

After the experience I'd say don't ever EVER involve other people when your with someone who you want long term. If she didn't respect you she'd obviously ask for another threesome. It's very possible that you fiance has grown up since the experience and wouldn't do something like that again.

>>722569063
>Honestly, what would even be the point of dragging anything else on?
Because cumming in sluts feels good. Compounding that with dumping his slut girlfriend at the same time would honestly be a feeling better than cocaine and it's not like it makes the recovery period for OP any longer. He's in a shitty situation and is going to take months (years?) to feel better, might as well bust a nut and laugh on the way out.

>>722568938

Then yea, that was your fault. You should have probed for more information. You're both at fault for how you're feeling right now.

But are you really going to be ok with letting this slide? Even if they didn't lie to you about it, they hid it from you.

>>722568828
Best bit of prose here
Relationships are built on trust,
Lies for 3 years, are not a good base.

>>722569069
Well the adult way to react to this would probably be to get couples counseling.
Getting past these emotions also requires some effort from her.

>>722561372
Pre-cucking: confirmed.

Your fiance is a slut. 86 that slag ASAP.

>>722564545
this guy is making the most sense over in this thread, i agree with his sentiments

OP please don't be another dumbfuck who asks for advice and then ignores it.
This will eat at you. Your marriage will end badly and messy.
And you will remember this thread and realise we told you so but it'll be too late

>>722561372

Obviously it's entirely up to you, OP, but I wouldn't even consider marrying her.

Obviously her friend has no self respect in allowing her boyfriend to fuck your fiancée (even though you weren't with her at the time) right in front of her, and your fiancée has no respect for herself in agreeing to do so. They didn't just share a bed, they shared a dick.

Fuck, Ive shared a bathroom with my room mates but it didn't mean I was going to share a tooth brush with them or hop in the shower with them to save time.

She couldn't leave the room while they banged? Not like she was going to sleep anyway, but letting some dude go balls deep in her was easier and more satisfying than getting up and going for a walk around the fucking block.

Gross. Your fiancée is gross. I've had a number of threesomes and would never have even dated the girls involved in them with me, let alone a girl who was involved in one WITHOUT me.

Call it hypocritical all you want, I call it having standards.

As a young 20 year old dude, this sort of shit bothers the hell outta me. If I were in OPs shoes, regardless if the story is fake or not, I'd probably dump her. That shit would eat at me my entire life, but then again maybe I'm just insecure.

I agree with the other anon's post about how people have done funner sexual shit before they meet you, but damn, with friend's couple? Fucked up man.

You honestly believe they still aren't fucking? She's lied to you about this this entire time, what credence does she have that leads you to believe she still isn't drinking his cum while you slave away at your wagecuck job?

>>722568938
>Not a lie. She never said they didn't. She never said they did.

Neglecting a truth is as dishonest as actively lying.

>>722562380
>chad

lol

>>722562380
virgins

>>722561372
Honestly the majority of these responses are beta as fuck. The fact that you care about her getting off in the past is fucking weird. People have sex. Having a threesome at some point in ones life doesn't make them "a special kind of whore" Either the majority of you guys are delusional as fuck or are trolling. Who fucking cares. If shes a fun girl and you're happy with her than stay with her. If not than don't. Its pretty simple

>>722569097
>He was wronged. You cannot deny this.
So when do you divulge your full sexual history to a prospective mate? 1st date, 2nd date? Do you tell her about all the dick you sucked when you were twelve?

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>>722569141

Yup, the only real resolution is for you to anally fuck the guy with no lube while his wife and your fiance are watching. There would probably be no awkward moments between you four after you all had gone though something that traumatic together. Best of luck to you.

>>722561372
Can her and move on.

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>>722569289
>Well the adult way to react to this would probably be to get couples counseling.
>Getting past these emotions also requires some effort from her.
concur.exe

>>722569387
t. used up roastie.
I feel bad for whichever beta ends up having to marry your high mileage pussy havin' ass.

>>722569392
Lol for real. Bunch of insecure children. Only reason they care is because they never had their fun and are jealous. Its the fucking past, get over it and stop being a little bitch

She didn't lie to you. Honestly it's not really your business what she did before you two dated. Get over it.

>>722569387
Honest question: would you be happy if your fiance had had sex with their best guy mate? Multiple times?
Like everytime you saw him smile, you could just imagine him smiling like that when he pounded your gf. He'd have seen her orgasm and drenched her face in cum. He would've tasted every inch of her body and her him. And he'd be there at you wedding, smiling as you took his sloppy seconds down the aisle

You'd be alright with all that? Remind me who the beta is?

If you're actually bothered by it and genuinely interested in keeping a healthy relationship the two of you should go to a therapist and figure it out. Asking /b/ for specific relationship advise is a bad idea. Don't be shy about it when talking to her or the therapist, the feeling may seem irrational but so is almost every feeling at its core.

>>722569543
High mileage pussy? The insecurity is palatable lol

>>722561372
You own a gun, right? Just checking.

>>722568938
So you're just going to ignore everyone that doesn't line up with your view of the situation?

Also you directly asked Tony how he knew she had a birthmark on a part of her body he shouldn't have seen and lied straight to your face. Tony lied by telling you he was told about it, and the other two chose not to come out with it given the opportunity which is just as bad. If he's willing to make jokes like this about your fiance in front of you I'm willing to bet they all make jokes and reminisce about fucking when you're not around.

>>722568938
Abstraction of the truth
And uneasy feeling on their part
=
Lie

Drop the bitch

>download tinder
>fuck a new whore every night
>do this for 30 years
>die

>>722569387
Anon gets it

>>722569387
Exactly! Just kill them!

>>722568938
Has her behavior changed since confronting her and finding out?

you really couldn't pick it OP?? ive met guys from my wifes past and can tell straight away if theres history there. they either have a glint in their eye or they look panicky

>>722564232

>>722568575
fucking this. unforgivable. drop the bitch after you push her into a 3 way. fuck her up mentally

>>722569360
>That shit would eat at me my entire life, but then again maybe I'm just insecure.

Do you not realize that the degenerate media has indoctrinated us to the point that having normal standards is seen as being "insecure"?

There isn't a single thing wrong with what you think, its called not being a fucking faggot

OP, get out of there ASAP

>>722569330
This anon ^ is absolutely right

don't be an idiot who asks for advice then just completely blows it off

>>722569667
>Asking /b/ for specific relationship advise is a bad idea
This is a lie perpetuated by a stereotype. /b/ actually gives fantastic relationship advice; dump her

This is good because if you find yourself in a situation wherein you're so insecure that you're asking /b/ for advice, the relationship is without-a-doubt already doomed.

Things will never be the same he with Tony and his wife and you need to tell your fiancée you don't want to see them ever again , a very good friend of mine begged me to fuck his wife and after months of back and forth I went against my better judgement and we fucked her together this went on for a few months and when things started getting uncomfortable between him and us they cut off all communication with me , 20 years of friends ship gone

no way i could date a chick who one of my 'friends' has fucked. ever. fuck that

>>722569392
>So when do you divulge your full sexual history to a prospective mate?
Before either of you have told 'I love you" to each other. It is important to know who the other person is before you get so invested with them.

In OPs case, it was well past that point, so he still has every right to feel slighted against.

>Do you tell her about all the dick you sucked when you were twelve?
Don't project your gay pedo shit on me.

>>722569546
>lol female "logic"

>>722562012
>weaks

Your post is weak.

>>722569675
Yeah, high mileage pussy.
Insecure? Lol, no fucking way. I used to fuck club sluts like you all of the time. You're a dime a dozen. I would never, EVER marry a disgusting club slut though. Honestly if a girl has fucked more than 5 guys in her life she is not even close to being wife material. My current gf was a virgin when we met and although I will admit that I get bored freqeuntly and wish I could just go and fuck some random sluts at bars again the fact that she is pure wifey material is obvious in so many ways that it is a consistent reminder of how disgusting sluts are as human beings. I don't see women like you as people, you're a wet hole basically, and I promise you that most men feel the exact same way.

>>722569656
Honestly I wouldn't care. If it was before I knew her thats her choice, it didn't involve me in any way. Its not like shes cheating or lying, she was having fun before I was in her life. Just like I have done. All the sexual imagery you're describing you've also done with other women before you knew she existed.

>>722561372
Why would you EVER come to /b/ for advice

>>722562889
If you live with her and she doesnt live with you, then its to to end your fucking life

>>722569667
this

either accept that she wants to be with only you, or go to someone who can help you work out any issues

>>722562676
>people have a past.
It's not a past if she still sees them regularly.

What the fuck is wrong with all of you, and especially OP?

Don't try to be some tough guy and fight, don't try to "fix" this with counseling, don't even say a damned word to anyone, just fucking leave them all already what the hell do you not understand OP

>>722570044
More than 5 guys? Lol what planet do you live on. "pure wifey material" is just fucking weird. Healthy social adults have sex, and mentally stable people don't think in those strange terms. Pure wifey material... lol

>>722569392
She didnt give him his right to say he didnt want to be friends with a guy that fucked her. she put her friends ahead of him. fuck her. id kill her dead for that shit.

>>722570046
Yeah, but I don't constantly hang out with those other women
It's not the past that's the issue, it's the present

>>722570204
this

>>722569893

Extreme insecurity isn't necessarily the death of a relationship. Couples can work through it. You have to consider that it's a serious relationship since we're talking about his fiance. If he really likes her it'd be way too harsh to immediately break up with her without trying to work things out. Oh and btw OP, if you're planning to go through with it, look for a serious therapist with certificates. There are a lot of shitty ones out there.

>>722570274
Spoken like a true cuck.

>>722563395
This guy fucks. Let me guess, over 30?

>>722570327
If he's this insecure, he definitely shouldn't be engaged to her
The problem is that you can't slow down an engagement. So when shit like this happens, you either have to solve it fast or break up

>>722570044
Don't you love it when the roastie defense force shows up?

>(((Healthy))) (((social))) adults have sex, and mentally stable people don't think in those strange terms

>Uninhibited Promiscuity
>healthy & social

>>722570274
actual cuck

>>722570362
I almost feel sorry for you. The fact that you can't handle that people have had sex with others before you, and that that sex somehow degrades their wife value is ridiculous.

>>722570507

Not really, you can marry whenever you want when you're engaged and again, it's a serious relationship so I'd say it's more than worth the effort.

>>722561372
Real feedback from one who had a similar situation. Bottom line is this: She is with you now and chose that. Best to just move on and chalk it up to water under the bridge. It may take a while but you can learn to accept it without "liking it" and you really shouldn't perpetuate it by bringing it up or making her feel bad about it if you want your relationship to last.

>>722570566
>"omg i haven't fucked him in like 5 years silly goose! i'm just staying round his because i'm too tipsy to drive back. stop being so insecure"

>>722570634
I do feel sorry for you, this isn't even about spreading epic memes, you're an actual cuck man

>>722570566
It's a direct result of marxist mind games broadcasted via the jewish controlled media over the past 3 decades. The soviets lost the cold war but they won the cultural war. They've completely subverted traditional conservative values. Former KGB director detailed all of this years ago btw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgmg2VFX058

>>722570653
Terrible advice
>shit happens, deal with it

No, don't. Don't settle because you're scared. It's a serious issue and not something to just ignore

>>722570642
>>722570507

Do you not realize that the degenerate media has indoctrinated us to the point that having normal standards is seen as being "insecure"?

>>722570686
Then she'll flip it around and say it's all your fault she fucked him because you constantly pressure her.

OP, END OF STORY;

NUMBER 1# YOU GET MARRIED AND FIND OUT YEARS FROM NOW THAT SHE'S CHEATING ON YOU WHICH IS A POSSIBILITY SINCE SHE'S BEEN LYING TO YOU ABOUT THE NATURE OF HER FORMER RELATIONSHIP. YOU'LL REGRET THIS OPTION. YOU CAN'T TRUST HER.

NUMBER 2# YOU LISTEN TO THESE DIPSHITS HERE WHO SAY "OH, STOP BEING INSECURE AND MARRY HER" ARE TROLLING YOU IN THE HOPE OF DOOMING YOUR LIFE BECAUSE THEY'RE SOCIOPATHS.

JUST STOP, THINK AND LOOK AT THE FACTS. SHE WAS IN A THREESOME AND NEVER INTENDED ON TELLING YOU, SO WHAT ELSE IS SHE HIDING AND WHAT WILL SHE BE HIDING IN THE FUTURE?!?

YOU CAN'T TRUST HER, LEAVE NOW BECAUSE HAVING A THREESOME WITH HER ISN'T GOING TO SOLVE THINGS AND SHE'LL USE IT AS AN EXCUSE TO CHEAT ON YOU WITH TONY AND SONYA THEN BLAME YOU FOR IT AND TAKE YOU FOR HALF OF EVERYTHING YOU OWN!!!

PACK YOUR SHIT AND GET THE FUCK OUT OF THESE AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! IF YOU DON'T YOU'LL ONLY HAVE YOURSELF TO BLAME SEVERAL YEARS DOWN THE ROAD!!!

>>722570566
I honestly have no words. You are truly pathetic and sad

>>722570835

Stop spooking the shit out of this thread. We're trying to be pragmatic here, what's considered normal out of the subjective perspective of society doesn't matter. We want OP to be happy.

>>722570046
You are the definition of a cuck faggot OP. You'll end up killing them or yourself. Fucking beta.

>>722570961
>We want OP to be happy.
He's engaged to roastie, bit late for that

>>722570634
More than a few partners is not wife material and certainly does degrade the value of the woman.

There's a reason that club sluts aren't valued for anything other than a cheap fuck and aren't trusted.

>>722570754
Keep fighting the good fight brother.

>>722570919
> You are truly pathetic and sad.
Ask me how I know your a woman and a slut.

>>722571019
Hit a nerve there huh. Keep hating the woman and men who have had fun sexual encounters in their lives. I know deep down you're bitter that you can't

>>722570044
>you're a wet hole basically, and I promise you that most men feel the exact same way.

This is very true.

>>722569289
couples counseling is an expensive way for women to show that it's over. it's a way of expressing that she is no longer comfortable to speak with him alone, that's it.

>>722561372
fuck two different backpage or regular bitches to get subtle revenge

>>722570790
I didn't say ignore, I said Deal with it, but move on (though I could have worded it better).
Either way, the thing NOT to do is to bring it up or try to make her feel bad about it. It's very likely that she and the others agreed it was a mistake or at least that they wanted to move on from it.
The real question is... why on earth would you ask for marital advice on /b/?

The trio CONSPIRED against an innocent guy. she CHOSE to lie and have her fuck buddies lie so he would not have the choice to decide for himself how he feels about the situation. Another man sits in his home and watches her walk past to get more drinks and he smiles to himself about that time he had her doggystyle, then smiles in his face and calls him a friend. if she had told him from the start that they used to all fuck and he diecided it is no big deal then thats his right. THEY made the choice for him. The only reason he is feeling conflicted is hes afraid if he gives her an ultimatum she will choose them again. Guess what OP? She chose them the instant they all agreed to lie to you. Get out while you can.

>>722571142
Watching that video today is honestly really spooky. I fear what is in store for us further down the line.

>>722570919
HAHA, love it when whore defend other whores. You'll die alone, unloved and surrounded by cats while using your flaccid labia as a coat to keep the rain off you.

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>>722571462
>using your flaccid labia as a coat to keep the rain off you.

>>722571170
She's a lying whore, as are you. No man will want you and you'll end up as some niggers cum dumpster.

>>722571303
Asking outsiders about a problem can offer a specific kind of insight that only they can possess. They can propose thoughts and ideas that someone involved might not want/be able to.

Of course, this is 4chan, the obvious bullshit mixed with the good is just inherent.

>>722571462
Isn't it great when you know you're a 100% right on calling out a whore on the internet?

>>722571462
yep all people that have sex are terrible human beings who die alone. You're pathetic lol

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OP, dump her.. seriously. And get those 'friends' to fuck too. What a shit gf and a shit group of friends. This post seriously angered me hahaha

>>722571376
OR, they all decided to move on from it. That is different than conspiring against him. Now that the cat is out of the bag his girl should be 100% open and honest about it, talk it through, deal with it if you can and try to decide to move on.
I would be upset, pissed as hell and sick over it.
What you could do is post her nudes here and that will help us make a better decision.

>>722571271
Or it is getting a neutral arbiter to help them come to terms with emotions that are too sensitive for both of them. Depends on the therapist.

>>722571713
POST HER NUDES POST HER NUDES

>>722571376
Yep and just fucking watch. She'll announce that she's pregnant and OP will find out that it's Tony's kid and then the courts will tell him he has to support the child and give half his shit to the cheating whore because that's how fucked the system is.

>>722571777
trips of truth

>>722571726
no you need throw a neckbeard temper tantrum about people having sex lol

>>722571376

This.

>>722571681
holy projecting insecurities batman

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>>722561372
>WAAAHHH U DID IT WIT HIM NAO U GOTTA DO IT WIT ME
That's how you sound, you fucking beta. Fuck your bitch and appreciate the fact that she wants your tiny, pathetic cock all for herself.
Seriously, grow the fuck up.

Yeah go see a therapist so you can have two feminine viewpoints to contend with while trying to find your balls. Therapy locks people into nuerosis by constant self absorbtion. Fuck therapy. it is totally useless because it is totally feminine.

>>722571866
False. I bet he's downloading her nudes from his phone and uploading to /b/ right now.

>>722571376
>>722571777
THIS

OP where are you?

GTFO this relationship already

>>722571631
>Isn't it great when you know you're a 100% right on calling out a whore on the internet?

Feels good. She knows she's a slag but is white knighting this trash because she see's herself in OP's bitch, probably because she's been in OP's bitch up to the elbow.

>>722571655
>>722571830

You don't have an argument and it shows.
Take the opposition's argument and exaggerate it until it is absurd. Female "logic".
You're just a used whore that is only worth the value of your twat.

>>722571957
>>722571883
cucks

>>722571713
Nah m8 the exact moment he let it slip that he's seen her thighs and then they all played it off like it was nothing was the moment they silently conspired against him. That on top of the fact that he had to apparently pry the truth out of her means she knows full well that keeping it from him was wrong. Women only ever get upset when they're caught.

Is all this even real!?

>>722572050
>not wanting to fuck other people
>cuck
Do you have no idea what that word means?

So many beta responses in this thread...

1. It's not fucked up that she had a love triangle/threesome in the past

2. It's sketchy as fuck that she didn't mention it to you under the circumstances

3. It's fucked up that she isn't willing to consider a threesome with you... part of loving someone is trying to make them happy

Unless you're a total betafag, this will eat away at you forever if you ignore it and marry her. You need to have your own threesome to feel okay and fix the karmic balance of your relationship. Otherwise she'll control you for the rest of your life.

>>722572019
That statement makes zero sense. Keep being mad people are having sex without you. Whatever justifies your sad life huh

this thread is gold.

>>722564371
fuck you cuck

>>722572165
>http://www.dictionary.com/browse/cuckold?s=ts

Yes, I do

only a cuck would not have an issue with marrying a whore, and I'm not even trying to be funny

>>722572134
Ok, I can see that. My point is that it might not have been malicious. It could have been they agreed to let it die and not discuss further so when it came up, they tried not to talk about it.

>>722561372
Fuck you, Kevin Smith! Every single one of your movies suck!!! They all have a promising concept, but your hackneyed writing, shitty casting decisions and poor execution always fuck everything up!!!!!

It was in the past man, I'm in a decently similar position. It fades away. You realize that she's choosing to be with you and only you and what she did earlier really can't be changed and it's a waste of time writing about it. You're alright man.

Anyone here who is saying to drop her is very insecure in themselves. Don't be like them

>>722561372
>the year 1948+69
>not wife swapping

>>722572192
Quit fucking trolling the OP

OP, so many people are trying to screw with you here, just leave all of these faggots behind, don't say a damn word, don't fight tony, don't argue with fiance as it will get you nowhere

just leave it all. this is something that can never be fixed and you know it

>>722571830
Are you actively talking against having someone help them communicate about this and deal with it?
Ops emotions are valid, how he is reacting might be counterproductive, but asking for help in a situation like this is a mature choice.

>>722572155
Probably not but these threads are actually some of the most honest and raw you'll see on /b/. 80% of posters are people genuinely trying to give relationship advice to a fictitious OP and sharing personal stories. It's weirdly affirming.

>>722571655
Not what I'm talking about, slut. There's a difference between someone who is honest and upfront with their sexual history and someone who wanted to get married and hid shit behind someone's back.

FYI, I'm married and my wife told me everything she got up to as did I, that way there wasn't anything in the way and I still wanted to be with her. That's a fuck of a lot more different than being in a threesome relationship with people you know while all three of them CONSPIRED to keep OP in the dark. THAT is what is being discussed here, whore, and the fact that semen trashcans like you want to ride the cock carousel and then find some nice well off cuck who you intend to lure into a false sense of security about your past because you know in your heart you're trash who could never be faithful to someone.

That's why you defend OP's bitch.

>>722572192
>3. It's fucked up that she isn't willing to consider a threesome with you... part of loving someone is trying to make them happy
That's a pretty shallow view of what you are saying. Part of loving someone is also respecting the other person's boundaries and choices. If a woman said that some guy used to let her fuck him in the ass with a strap-on and was upset that I didn't want to do it, I'm still not going to do it.

Tony has to suck your dick and swallow in order for you to be the man again. If you stay with her and their friendships continue you will end being that guy that ignores his wifes cheating or as a true cuck. Tony sucks your dick or the wedding is off.

>>722561372
I have an idea. Wife swap. If not, go have your own three way with hookers.

>>722572401
Do you not realize that the degenerate media has indoctrinated us to the point that having normal standards is seen as being "insecure"?

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>>722572401
>still hangs out with guy she fucked for a year
>conspired and lied to her fiance
>"only insecure people would have a problem with this"

>>722571883
If you don't think those are shit friends and the gf is complete and utter shit then you are a completely delusional person.

OR

just a piece of shit.


Which is it?

>>722572321
I see your point and it's valid, I just think that they should've opened up about it when they were given an opportunity like that. I guarantee it would have gone better.

>>722572192
This person is very young, don't listen to them. She probably should have told you earlier.

As far as her not wanting to do threesomes anymore, it sounds like she's matured and grown up. You should be happy about that

>>722561372
>fiance

oh how i worry for your future anon

>>722571713
She should have been honest and open about it to OP FROM THE START. Instead she made him look like a cuck faggot not to mention that he doesn't know if they've been continuing this relationship behind OP's back. There is no trust there.

>>722572467
No not at all. I was responding to people degrading her based on her sexual experiences as a standalone. Now if he doesn't feel comfortable with the fact that she had sex with his friend before she knew about him, thats his choice. With that being said, neither individual is wrong for having sex with each other in the past. Hope that clarifies it. I'm just laughing at the betas that hate women for having sex with other men before them.

>>722572309
Who's denying she's a whore? I'm just saying I don't want a bitch that still acts like a whore.
Having a threesome opens the possibility of having a threesome except with another guy, which inevitably leads to the whore fucking the other dude while you're not around, because why the fuck not you were okay with it the other night, which then makes you a literal cuck.

>>722572653
>it sounds like she's matured and grown up

yeah, because its convenient for her now

cuck

Theres a Black Mirror episode about people with camera eyes. That bitch lied till she just couldnt lie anymore. Your bitch is lying to you also. Its what women do. They only confess when caught redhanded and only feel bad because they got caught.

>>722572563
No you're right. That part is pretty messed up, but you can understand why she'd be very embarrassed about that. It wasn't the right thing to keep it hidden but I understand why she did.

>>722572014
Hilarious that women only defend an idea or someone else because the criticism of the topic at hand directly transfers to themselves.
God I hate that shit.

>>722572225
>That statement makes zero sense.
How does it not? I am saying that you taking my initial argument of:

women with more than a few partners refusing to disclose their histories to a potential mate is wrong

to

lol you're just mad cuz ppl r having sex lol.

i.e. exaggeration to absurdity.

i.e. you have no real argument and resort to simplistic name calling. I can specifically and accurately say you are a cheap whore by your weak/non-existent argument.

>>722562826
This guy has the right idea

Lots of MGTOW cunts up in this bitch.

>>722561932
Just go and fuck someone else without no one knowing about it. Everything stays the same and you release the stress with some other cunt.

>>722564597
It's convenient that she decides she's a grown up and her future husband doesn't need to know he's around multiple people who have fucked his partner. Because that doesn't seem at all like something he should care about, and it doesn't look at all bad that none of them thinks what they do together is his business.

>>722572401
If you'd been paying attention you'd know that the issue was that it was knowingly withheld from him despite directly asking the people involved for the truth. It's dishonesty, not sexual experimentation, that's causing problems.

>>722572192
You are the kind of guy who would marry a woman with an STD and stay with her. I bet you think you are a high quality person. Karma is a bullshit term from Hinduism, not some new age bullshit you think it is. Someone like you shouldn't give advice. I can tell you are a low class and low quality person.

>>722572466

This chick didn't respect OP enough to tell him the truth as he got to know her friends. He can't fix that, but the best way to feel better about the situation is to fulfill his own fantasies. Marrying a whore has benefits, but who the fuck wants to marry an ex-whore?

>>722572836
cuck

>>722572676
One thing to consider is that she might regret it because she wants to be friends with them but leave behind whatever happened before. It sounds like OP and Tony have been friends and his girl likely didn't want to mess up the entire dynamic so chose not to discuss. Tough position to be in all around.
One thing for sure is OP shouldn't do anyting hastily. Think it through, work it out and talk it through with your girl. Then you decide what you want to do next. Don't feel trapped or afraid she will "go back to them" that is just anxious thinking and not reality.

>>722572797
Sorry, you virg, but your narcissistic view that people cant grow up and change unless it works out for you shows how inexperienced in life you are

OP is gone.. so this doesnt matter, and that is if it is even real/

>>722572818
It is wrong. Sexual past is you're own damn business. Caring about it shows how insecure/inexperienced you truly are. Stay mad

>>722572896
>knowingly withheald
I had a girlfriend that once handcuffed me to a radiator and then pissed on my face. She got a slap and was promptly kicked the fuck out of my place. I would knowingly withhold that information from a future bitch despite her directly asking.

>>722572192
>Unless you're a total betafag, this will eat away at you forever if you ignore it and marry her. You need to have your own threesome to feel okay

Once you're older than 25 your hormones rebalance themselves a bit and you stop thinking this way. The past is the past -- don't imagine what you don't know, and don't pressure her based solely on "karma" (which in this case is a fancy word for vengeance and will literally not solve anything). Also, 3ways are overrated and stupid unless she's *totally* into it -- like, "Hell yeah I want to eat some pussy!" -- and both of you are able to completely separate a casual sex romp with each other from "making love". Typically that takes years of sexual experimentation in a relationship.

>>722572949
>MGTOW
>cuck
pick one m8

>>722572997
this

go to a hotel for a week

>>722573018
I know you think you are some kind of badass here, but your advice would sentence OP to a lifetime of misery

A whore is a whore man, you know damn well that is what was up. She was willing to get down and dirty in a threesome, but a few years pass and she gets a beta like OP?

Now she is "mature", and "grown up"

fuck off

Do you not realize that the degenerate media has indoctrinated us to the point that having normal standards is seen as being "insecure"?

>>722573170
100% truth, give it time and mature a bit.

>>722573117
True... but when it involves your best friends it gets a little dicey and there's more to consider.

>>722573117
If you were respectable, you wouldn't have anything to hide from a potential mate.
You're just trash and are subject to most the criticism in the thread. That's why you're here.

>>722573170
Yeah I think its an age thing. I felt this way from like 16-22 or so. 29 now and realized it was just insecure immaturity and all that. Much happier now

>>722572896
>>722572857
>>722572818
>>722572797
>>722572762

I fucked this chick before my buddy started dating her. He knew. Two years in and I see him as totally non threatening simply because I know he's dipping in my sloppy seconds. She'd have been with me if I hadn't left her by the wayside.

>>722573170
its not the hormones, its the time, things get old, we forget even how it feels to be 17 and virgin looking for new sexual experiences

The women posting here, if they are women, are disgusting. Every single one should be beat with a shoe till their gums bleed and their heads are covered in knots.

>>722573170
>once you're older than 25 your hormones rebalance themselves.
Give me a source or fuck right off because you have no idea what you're talking about.

>>722573460
you heard the man bitch

>>722572723
Oh well I wasn't one of them, I just wanted to let op know not to disregard his emotions as that will fuck him over.

>>722573348
must be the lack of air in your basement

>>722573396
OP you retard, are you really going to ask for advice and not take it?

Everyone here is telling you to leave her

>>722573340
Its not hiding, its unnecessary. That was before she knew he even existed. It wasn't a direct action against him. People don't need to know everything.

>>722573396
Is that you Tony?

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>>722573396
wow you're such a badass can I have your autograph Mr.internet-tough-guy?