Going out on a third date with the first girl to ever say yes

Finger crossed she the type that fucks on the third date!!!

>>722489113
You don't want to use the blue pill. You would probably end up in the ER

>>722489194
She gave me a blowjob on our second date. It was my first.
I came in 10 seconds. I told her that I was going to cum and she said "um hum" and didn't stop until I couldn't take it any more and pushed her head away.

>>722489451
How old are you OP? What did that feel like?

She just wants to be your first. After the novelty of it wears off, she'll rapidly reach the conclusion that you aren't man enough.

>because you aren't a man yet and it's obvious.

>>722489113
you told her you were a virgin and your not even on the 3rd date wtf....
I guess don't be a massive cringelord. Make sure you keep you pent up frustrations in check and play it cool. Girls can smell desperation. If it goes bad don't be a needy wombat because that will be your grave. How old are you?

>>722489113
Best advice I can give you without overloading you is just don't worry.... about anything.

I've dated many women in my 26 years of life and I started out just like you. Had to have my heart broken and my ego bruised more than a few times to realize that I did better when i wasn't concerned with the outcome. I treated them like normal human beings and I said what I meant when I felt like saying it.

Lacking concern for any specific outcome empowers you to say and do things that normally you either wouldn't conceive or that you might over analyze anyway.

Have fun, own any awkward shit you say and pretend not.

Go have a blast anon. The world is your oyster and you deserve to have a good time with a girl that obviously likes you. Also, congrats on the weight loss.

>>722489525
I'm 19. It felt like my dick was a tongue and her saliva was sugar. It felt like that first time you ride a big roller coaster and you get that feeling in your stomach when you go down the first big hill.

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yeah you just gotta stop caring entirely because you're probably going to get cucked but enjoy the ride

>>722489776
On our second date, she directly asked me if I was a virgin after we got out of the movie theater and we were in my SUV. She asked me directly while we were making out. She was looking right into my eyes and I just decided to be honest with her.

As soon as I told her yes, she started unzipping my pants. She spit on her hand and started giving me a hand job until I got really hard (which only took like 15 seconds) and then she started sucking my dick. From the time she asked me if I was a virgin until the time I came in her mouth was less than two minutes.

>>722489820
Thanks man!

Op jerk off before y'all go out. Should keep you from busting quick. If you really are a virgin it don't matter if you bust quick cuz you will be ready again a lot faster than you think

Anybody?

I figure it's very unlikely taking Viagra would be harmful and better safe than sorry, right? I'm just afraid of having performance anxiety and not be able to get it up.

Go to your doctor, tell him you are having anxiety attacks. See if you can get him to prescribe you Citalopram. A side effect of it is that it takes forever for you to come.

>>722489820
This anon is a champ
Listen to him.

>>722489113
Forget these plebs just be yourself. She is a notch on the belt there will be others if it doesnt work out

>>722491784
One somewhat rare side effects of SSRIs is permanent anorgasmia. I haven't had an orgasm in over 6 years. I ejaculate when I fap, but the typical euphoric sensation that customarily accompanies an ejaculation just isn't there anymore. At all. As in zilch, nada. Zero pleasure.

I just do it occasionally in order to empty my prostate because my Doc said it it necessary to reduce the risk of prostate cancer.

>as in, persists even after you stop taking them.

>>722489913
how are you taking her out on dates at 19? Where's your fucking money?

>>722490658
nice.

This girl sounds like she is going to teach you a thing or two my boy.

doesn't the truth set you free?

>>722492715
LOL

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>>722492410
I have the same problem anon. It's not great. Mfw I realized this shit's a long haul problem.

>>722492629
I'm a waiter. I average about $200 a night in cash, but I only work Fridays and Saturday nights. I'm staying at my parents house until I finish community college and transfer to a 4 year university as a Jr. next spring.

>>722491523
You're young dude. Don't start on the pills yet, they're habit forming and you might become dependent. She got your cock hard just fine in the car, if you're gonna fuck next time she can get it hard again. Relax. The more you worry about performance anxiety the more it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Focus more on how this bitch turns you on and get you some ass.

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>>722492410
this. fuck lexapro

>>722492629
You didn't have a job at 19? Did you ever learn how to man up?

>>722493193
I think you misunderstand. I want to get the Viagra to help me relax. I've already built it up too much in my head and I think that if I take Viagra, I won't worry about it and I'll be able to relax and enjoy myself.

>>722492629
U serious? pls tell me you're trolling.

>pic related

How old is she?

>>722493422
She just turned 20 in December. I'll be 20 in May.

>>722493340
See but then the next time you're gonna worry if you can get a rager without the pill, take it again, rinse repeat. Trust your woman to turn you on. Trust your cock to perform. Trust yourself. And don't drink too much.

Or go to Mexico and get you some pills, idgaf.

>>722489113
How is pic related, she look like this?

>>722493719
No I won't. I just want my first time to be a good memory rather than a horrible one.

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46 year old that recently did viagra for the first time. You don't meed that shit
. man up and slay that pussy. when i was your age i could hang a towel on my dick all day and it would still point north. enjoy your youth my friend and stop worrying so much. What is with you kids these days?

>>722493873
This. Fuck the shortcuts, just go smash. Viagra is a new thing, how do you think virgins did it before?

>>722493267
nah I was in a 4 year school and in the process of moving to another country. At 20 I had one but was making nothing to take someone out on a date with

Lol, your manning up is gonna leave you poor and stupid when you're 50

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>>722493758
pic related is the girl I'm going out with Saturday. And yes, I realize that I've won the lottery.

>>722494048
alright...... show a pic of you

>>722494048
If you're worried you can't get your dick hard with this broad then you shouldn't even go on the date. Just install grinder and go fuck some dude you massive faggot.

>>722494020
false dichotomy. you can have a job and go to university simultaneously. btw, American teenagers are able to obtain a part time work permit as early as 15 with their parent's signature.

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>>722494214
Someone is jealous as fuck.
>>>/r9k/

use tor browser and use cialis instead because even a very small chance of going blind is to much for an errection

>>722494019
exactly. back in the late 80's we didn't have viagra. We had whitesnake and peach schnapps

>>722494329
Limpfag detected

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>>722494048
THAT is who you got your first blowjob from???

You idiot! Do you not realize that it's all down hill from here??? That girl is going to have you totally whipped within 10 minutes. I give it a month tops. She's going to rip your heart out, kid.

>>722494641
He gets his dick wet though. Gonna take all the pressure off for when he starts dating that fat chick he has all those deep conversations with.

>>722494641
I would prefer that happening to living my life like a coward.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICqByWbJl50

>>722494048
She got vitiligo though....

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>>722494641
You don't understand preselection. Girls are attracted to guys who are preselected by popular girls.

If he dates her for a month, that entire month he'll be introducing her to his friends and the girls he went to high school with and who attend college with him now are going to be extremely impressed by his ability to score with a girth that hot.

Hot girlfriends beget more hot girlfriends. It snowballs.

"hey anon, can I see a picture of your ex?? holy crap!"
>he must have high social value.

>>722489451
You pushed her head away? Dude, you just missed out on one of life's greatest treasures.

Unloading in a willing partner's mouth is one of God's miracles. I'll take that over pussy any day.

>>722494236
this dude's going to community college, in his country.... Do you hear yourself?

>>722494641
she gave him a bj cause he's a virgin. Must have some fetish for it or something

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>>722495191
he pushed her head away AFTER he came in her mouth. he was saying that she kept sucking his dick WHILE he was cumming and didn't stop and the "um hum" was her giving him permission to cum in her mouth.
>nutted by she still suckin

>>722495315
I don't understand what you problem is. Explain.

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>>722495506
Femanon here

Being a guy's first is a huge ego trip. He'll NEVER forget her and knowing that is a huge boost to one's self esteem.

>>722495182
This.

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>>722494853
OMG KILL YOURSELF YOU FUCKING FAGGOT

>>722495626
christ who are you

>>722495794
damn so it really never is about the sex for girls. It's about the power and implications

>>722495794
I don't remember my first time.

>>722496139
It's about status. Everything else is derivative.

Beta male providers mistakenly believe that it's about money, so they focus on figuring out how to make a good salary in order to make themselves attractive to the opposite sex.

But money is just a means for them to obtain status, i.e. designer clothes.

The very first backstreet boys video had a stadium full of screaming girls in it and yet at the time, they weren't popular yet because their first album had just came out. All of the screaming girls in that video were placed in that video solely to trigger the preselective instincts in women and transfer high social value to the boy band. After the video came out, girls who watched instantly were attracted to them because the video indicated their high status.

>high status males are generally the leaders of their community and being with a leader increases the likelihood survival and replication. >in order for a girl to mate with a high status male she too must have high status and money is a means to obtain it.

>>722496622
if this is the case, what is the game for the lone, nomadic guy who moves often? New city every 2 weeks to a month type deal?

You're not in one place long enough to build a sort of "reputation", or establish yourself as "high status" in that environment and culture, whatever high status means to that group of people...

>>722496139
It's about being vulnerable for the last three months of a pregnancy. Traditionally, once protection and provision was satisfied by an older male she married due to her parents arranging it, she could then proceed to focus on satisfying her sexual desires with a younger lover in relative safety and her husband would be there to assume fatherhood in the event her lover knocked her up. This is why sperm from two different males will fight each other when they encounter each other in the vagina.

A New York Times article reveals that 30% of men who pursue paternity tests because they suspicious of the outcome discover that their suspicions were warranted. And that's ONLY the men who were suspicious. The men who never suspect don't even bother with a paternity test. Can you imagine what would happen if paternity tests were mandatory at birth?
>http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/22/magazine/22Paternity-t.html

>>722497023
There are two types of game. Inner game and outer game.

Outer game is used by sleazeball pickup artists and is generally nothing more than memorized pick up lines and bar tricks. I don't recommend it, but you should know it so that you can recognize it when a player targets your girl
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8E-lmub6R8

Inner game is authentic. It's about understanding the social dynamics of a group situation. Its about focusing on establishing a group of about five really good solid male friends who know how to party and have a good time and using those friends to help you establish your reputation for you. Girls will fuck you to gain access to the social pool you've created.
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9i7WvCe8ko

>>722497587
you didn't read what I wrote

>>722497760
I did. The answer to your question is too complicated to discuss on an image board, so I pointed you in the right direction. Learn inner game and you'll learn how to convey high social value just by the way you carry yourself nearly instantly, every where you go.

It's about studying advanced social skills. What to do and not do in a crowded environment. Being able to walk up to a group of people in a bar and win them over in 3 minutes by identifying the alpha male of the group and gaining his acceptance, which disarms the group and lowers their guard.

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>>722498005
>someone on /b/ actually has game.

>>722489113

First and foremost. Hide the 'My Little Pony' collection. Second clear your browsers of your browse history and delete all of your saved 'trap' porn. Next put all of your fedora's deep, deep up in the closet or under the bed. Just hide them. Take down all of your waifu posters on your walls. You are gonna have to store away your anime body pillows. Do not say anything medieval like 'Milady'. Do not dress like you are from the Matrix. No not post on social media how you guy almost look like you are dating, because she will immediately post 'we're just friends' so that she knows everyone else knows the real score. Delete the loli and bestiality porn. Also take down the 'Stephanie' poster, she won't understand.

Get some hard liquor, condoms, good music (do not play the fucking "Harry Potter Soundtrack"). Preferably something with a good beat you can time your fuck rhythm with. Candles and mood lighting are a plus, just don't use your lightsaber collection for mood lighting. If you cum to quick, just remember you guys can fuck again, just give yourself 5 min to recoup 10 tops. Be kind, gentle and don't talk about weird shit (for example anything that has ever been posted or talked about here).

Good luck anon. You are going to need it.

>>722498005
I see I see, I apologize sensei. I was referring to the fact that you mentioned having 5 friends. I understand the value of this tactic, but I don't plan on having friends, or any roots at all. I want to be in and out of people's lives. I did this for 6 months, and then another time for 1 month and getting laid was hard I will admit

>>722498233
the loli porn too? You don't think she can get into it?

>>722498333

Honestly, you might have to 'ease' her into it.

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>>722498233
Sex playlist, standing by.

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>>722498419

kek

>>722498419
kek

>>722498252
>but I don't plan on having friends

Then you're planning to be unattractive to women. It's instinctive for women to be attracted to the members of the inner circle of her tribe because for thousands of years doing so dramatically increased the survival and replication rates of their offspring. If you're going to travel a lot and you want a sex life, you're going to have to get really good at identifying the caliber of male that can invite you into the inner circle of what ever tribe that is available to you in your new city and make him like you enough to want to hang out with you without making him believe that you're a faggot hitting on him. One very cool guy in a new town can open up a prolific social life for you very rapidly.

You have to understand that most of seduction understanding and manipulating subconscious instincts.

>>722495794
tits or gtfo

>>722499194
>03:43:59

>>722498780
Yeah I always thought that was lame; the girls that only go for guys in their immediate vicinity, basically anyone who they go to school with or work with, as well as brothers, brothers in law, best friends, and cousins.

Also the guys who wait around for a year for this girl in their circle to finally give him some after "carefully" nurturing this stupid relationship. And they all begin the same: he asks for a favor, then that leads to small talk about their lives, then he playfully punches her one day initiating physical contact, then they start hugging when they meet, and so on, until a year passes, or is "wasted" in my opinion.

And the guys who think they're cool because they're still living in their hometown at 27 and finally have managed to amass a "cool social circle bro", which usually consists of about 2 girls and 4 guys. So depressing.....

All I know is that life is not for me and I can't for the life of me figure out why so many people revel in it and subscribe to it. Maybe out of fear of what will happen if they don't?.....

Need to get laid though

>>722498005
>tfw no inner game

>>722499280
Do you want a girlfriend?

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>>722498005
>Being able to walk up to a group of people in a bar and win them over in 3 minutes by identifying the alpha male of the group and gaining his acceptance, which disarms the group and lowers their guard.
>3 minutes

How the fuck is that even possible?

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>>722499407
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9i7WvCe8ko

>>722499415
No I've made it clear! I don't want any long term connections or roots, for a few years at least. Still wanna bang new hotties anywhere I go, without paying either.

>>722498005
This is cool, but I feel like the people you're walking up to need to have a concept of what's going on for it to work

Otherwise they will just look at you with mouths open and drool coming out, like most plebs, no matter how charismatic you are. Not because you're not having an effect on them, but because this has literally never happened to them before and the idea that someone they "don't know" would talk to them is so beyond their imagination

>>722498233

Also bottled water in a bowl of ice is a nice touch. You are both going to need it and it's just courteous.

>>722499771
>because this has literally never happened to them before

The fuck are you talking about? Have you never been to a bar?
Strangers walk up to each other and introduce themselves all the freaking time man. I'm a bartender, I know what I'm talking about.

>hey guys, I'm from out of town and I'm looking to meet some cool people who know how to have fun. Can I buy you guys a round?
>while the bartender is making the drinks, compliment all of the ugly people in the group and neg the hot girl (establish that you're not trying to hit on her by issuing a veiled insult, which disarms the alpha male)
>when the drinks arrive, you should know who the alpha male of the group is by then and you should be talking to him about sports.
>3 minutes, everyone in the group has accepted your presence and are thanking you for the drink and you now have an opportunity to move into A2.

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>>722500228
I really need to stop lurking /r9k/. This entire post is like a foreign language to me.

>>722500228
I know that plenty of locals who go with their established friend groups may go to a bar and strike a convo up with someone from another friend group. I also know that girls can talk to anyone they want anywhere; I'm talking guys you know that right?

But a loner or a new guy doing it, I must admit I haven't seen much of that.

your example was pretty great though. Can't find much wrong with it, other than the buying drinks. But I guess that could be the minimal stake you need to show in order to have an "in".

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>>722494048
That's Johanna Herrstedt you massive autismo. She is in a relationship since way back.

>>722500634
Usually, one of the alpha male's betas will buy the next round, which provides it's own opportunity to inject your own thread into the group's conversation.

What /b/ doesn't understand is that the beta males of a group get laid. They follow the alpha male around and pick up the crumbs that fall off of his table. Even Turtle from Entourage got laid frequently.

But don't get me wrong, your target all along is the hot girl you negged, because guys who understand game are not beta. Every group has an alpha male and learning how to deal with a alpha male of a group is an extraordinary part of successful game.

>>722500634
Or you can literally just be you and fuck any bitch you want because you arent a try hard

>>722501074
>What /b/ doesn't understand is that the beta males of a group get laid.

This. what /b/ considers to be beta is actually omega.

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>>722501234
>just be yourself

>>722489113
masturbate before you go on your date, you'll last longer.

>>722501074
I gotta say though, since you're smart enough to see that this is going on in front of you- and believe me if I was watching or in the group I'd catch it as it was happening- what makes you think other people aren't? You really think negging the obviously hottest girl and buying drinks and talking to the alpha puts the group under some kind of illusion/spell? You think they don't know exactly what's going on?

Also what's the alpha gonna think about you going for the hot girl in the group? If he's the established alpha, wouldn't that have been his a looooong time ago?

>>722501305
Im a fuckin dick and i can still get girls
I bet your autistic ass can still get girls just because you arent me aka a fuckin douche

>>722501234
I wish. But that assumes that 98% of people aren't horrible plebs who just follow each other and would throw someone being themselves (not even 'out there', just extroverted and charismatic) under the bus immediately as a way of desperately grasping for social acceptance from their "group". You're not an exciting possibility/curiosity, you're the newest easiest target.

What you say assumes that we don't live in a predatory society where EVERYTHING is a competition, even the beautiful things like social interaction which shouldn't be, many centuries after we stopped needing to do that behavior. What you say assumes that people walk through their lives with an open mind, instead of following their parents' script.

>>722501418
Oh, they'll see it coming. I'm not saying they won't.

This is the part that you're not getting. Girls LIKE IT when guys run game. Especially when it's done well. They like it when a rival alpha male approaches their group and competes for their affection. It keeps their man on his toes.

There are techniques you can use to put the alpha male in a frame where if he hits you, he's insecure and threatened by you, which is reactive, which makes you higher value and him lower value, which makes you more attractive to your target. If he tries to hit you after you bought him and all of his friends a round and portrayed yourself as an entertaining and fun guy that put smiles on everyone's faces, he won't be able to use violence to make you go away without simultaneously lowering his social value.

Eventually, you'll be able to seduce her right in front of him and there will be nothing he can do about it. But I'm not saying it's easy. It takes lots of practice and the courage to get back up and keep trying every time you fail.

>>722502037
bleak picture you're painting.....

you think girls even enjoy the sensation of sex, or they just submit to whoever's the "alpha" that month?

>>722494048
Ayy lmao

>>722502372
don't hate the player, hate the game.

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>>722502037
>If he tries to hit you after you bought him and all of his friends a round and portrayed yourself as an entertaining and fun guy that put smiles on everyone's faces, he won't be able to use violence to make you go away without simultaneously lowering his social value.

God damn that's brilliant.