Why are you not as social as you used to be?

>>722324381

What's the point?

>>722324381
Social Anxiety

Drugs , I got tired of doing my drugs with other people.I like you guys,you don't do my drugs

>cave in and go to a party with friends
>be extremely fucking bored
>women hit on me
>i don't even care

I could be a Chad but I don't want to.

Im always inside watching twitch
Raid now!
twitch.tv
/silly_burns

Its too late. I'm too old to hang out at parties. And everyone my age is happily married and the last thing married people want is to hang around single people

>>722324842
relatable

>>722325102
shit :(

>>722324381
because I'm over 50yo and have had all the pussy I want. So there's no reason to impress anybody, male or female. Nobody has anything I want anymore. So no reason to socialize with them.
>most people are retards anyway.

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>implying I ever was

Nice one kiddo

>>722324381
lost interest to everything

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http://cheesespin.net/
fucked up site

because i used to be happy and talkative but then people started to fuck me over and take my hapiness and kindness for granted and started shit talking me without any reason at all, too much of this made me a negative and hostile person. And then people tell me to "open up and not be so negative about life"

Fuck me, right?

PULA MEA ! fuck you CheeseSpin.net

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>>722325102
>And everyone my age is happily married
After 3 years, no one is "happily" married. But yeah, being single when everyone else is tied up with annoying children sucks. Just wait until the first round of divorces comes around. It won't take too long.

Moved away from my home town to go to uni, then dropped out and got a job that has me working retarded hours every week so it's hard to plan things. I go out with my gf and some house mates but i miss my hometown friends sometimes

>>722324381
weed fucked my social live (and most of the other parts) I smoked daily for like 8 years.
After quitting I I realized how shitty my life was and had an awful time (anxiety and depression) but after a year I'm much better, working on fix my life.

>>722325354
I was the first to get divorced,now I'm waiting on my friends

>>722325336
Are you me?

I used to be a normie Chad, now I'm Wojak.

>>722324943
how do you look?

>>722325269
Won't help at all to worry about it.

I couldn't handle the maintaining the facade of a sociable and friendly person.

>>722325561
Probably a good looking robot.

We are the saddest models. Can't even complain about being virgins.

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>>722325544
It'll happen. Like having kids, women tend to divorce in groups. If your friends' wives hang out, it will accelerate the process.

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>>722324381
i'm to fucken fat and have mobility problems
also can't drive

>>722325658
this

>>722324381
>was very social until my mid twenties (33 now)
>had an ongoing affair with my best friends girl
>he found out
>lost friend
>alcoholism starts getting worse
>health problems start getting worse
>began to isolate myself from the rest of my friends
>no job
>social anxiety develops from years of almost complete isolation. I usually go weeks without having a conversation with anyone.
>every time I talk with someone I'm afraid I'm not making sense or saying something stupid or offensive. And after having a conversation I usually spend hours dissecting it.
>never really enjoyed being around people unless I was drunk anyway
I don't expect to reach 40

>>722325927
You sound just like me, friend.

>>722325336
Woah dude are we related

>>722324381
ive became self aware

>>722324707
same

>>722324381
I realized this was all just a game, and the winning move is not to play.

>>722324381
I graduated...

I receive no compensation for acting an unnatural role, so I choose not to engage.

>>722324381
because college sucked
and then I was an adult
and then I quit working all together

>NEET lyfe

>>722326015
The strange thing about it is that I'm relatively content -- which is why I'll undoubtedly die young. I've never wanted a family, and on top of that, I guess the pernicious aspect of nihilism has gotten to me. It's not like I spend my time moping around, feeling bad for myself, but I just can't take anything very seriously anymore. I just don't want much out of life, and in retrospect, I don't think I ever did.

I feel like I'm coming off like an angsty teen.

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>used to go to local punk/metal shows all the time
>was super social and well known
>wore a spiked vest
>years went by
>younger kids got in the scene
>started feeling weirder and weirder going to shows
>only made one or two friends outside of shows

because from the day i was born the only interactions i have ever had with anyone have been circumstantial like going to school
but since i stopped i dont because i dont know anyone in the real world

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>>722324381
Can't be assed.
Probably because of autism, anxiety, etc but I don't care why.

>>722324381
Never really was social. Only friends I have now are the ones I've had for a while so I'm not too sure how to talk to new people and keep up with them. A mistake I did make was that instead of trying to go out with others, I just went to hang out with her. But she didn't ever really care and was just using me for the attention. So now after class I just go back to my room and stay in there. Really do need a job but the anxiety and depression has build up too much to the point where I don't even get out of bed some days.

>>722324381
everyone is a phony now that they are adults. im the only one i know who isnt pretending to be mature and boring

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I've never really had to call up anyone, people just invited me to hang out/drink with them, cause i've had humour, and did funny shit drunk.
After i deemed the booze and weed was too much, and i dropped them, i was way more tense, and a huge asshole. Hurt people i didn't really want to so i just stopped going out, when i felt bad. People stopped inviting.
Also some friends got into long term relationships, with partners who didn't know me, but heard i was bad influence and generally an asshole. Stopped meeting them too, when their girlfriends would be around, but they're almost always around.
Others moved abroad.

The new people i meet wouldn't bother having the guy who only has sarcastic and cynical humour to offer.

I'm simply not the social type i guess. I just happened to be around people who were.

Social Anxiety, OCT, Depression, Self-destructive behavior, etc

>>722327238
>self diagnosing etc
I wouldn't hang out with you either, WebMD.

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>>722326950 what's that from?

>>722327366
Kek

>>722324381
Because I discovered all the people I use to hang out with are fucking losers. My social circle is small now but I rather not hang out with shit rats

I have IBS

>>722324381
im a fucking failure xD

>>722328317
elaborate on how deep and dark you are

>>722324707
>>722326536
made up bullshit

>>722324381
I don't like people in general and I never was very social. I don't even fap to humans.

>>722329417
Found the autist

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>>722329417
>I don't even fap to humans.

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>>722324381
i think it is... abused benzos for many years, got me some epilepsy, when it started i actually had to move with my family to france, could not really stay and take care of myself at that point, and so yeah. oh and video games too

I don't go outside as much

I graduated and now I don't know anyone.

>>722329700
>>722329787
No social network accounts(never made them). No instant messaging accounts. Fapping to zoo and furry porn since age 13.

>>722324381
I'm only social when I need something. Back in college there was a girl I liked. Super hot probably a 9/10. To impress her and get her attention I put effort into being funny and charming. After I fucked her I went back into my quiet self.

>>722329417
... you fap to cartoon Ponies, don't you?

>>722324842
preach!

I've never been social.

>>722324381
Because I find 99% of human interaction to be insufferably boring. Most people are incompetent dullards.

>>722330154
Them too. Also pokemon(I haven't even played any of the games, Nintendo consoles are historically not popular in my country).

>>722325354
Oh yes, what a LOVELY idea. I can be a cuck raising another guy's ungrateful brats.

i guess i wasn't as social as i use to be. my friends found new friends and a girlfriend. i got into a car accident so i was at hospitals and rehab they moved on. now i'm 29 in a wheelchair go to the gym and physical therapy.

>>722330261
Did your pillow bride tell you to post that?

>>722324381
I never was learned how to develop relationships with other people, something must have broken in me when I was like 4-5.

https://appear.in/fi

Its a long story that i cba to type out, also its been an emotional day having been at a funeral today, so even more reason im not going there. Another time maybe OP.

>>722326547
not playing is also playing. the game exists. so by definition you play. you just get to make moves. your move(the only wise move) is not to play. but unless you are unaware of the game. you a player.

I learned life is meaningless.

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>>722330928
true
and life is not what you make it, it's how you mold the world around you

also about the pursuit of happiness