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What is your biggest current problem anon? Are you hopeless?

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What is your biggest current problem anon? Are you hopeless?
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it is saturday night and my cpu cooler wont be here until monday so i cant use my pc until then which sucks
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>>722064802

Conan exiles made my 1070 gtx overheat and assplode, so now i have to wait 2 weeks for them to send me a new one, got ripped hard
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it is saturday night and my cpu cooler wont be here until monday so i cant use my pc until then which sucks
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>>722064851
I really don't understand why everyone is so drawn to that game, it seems just like any other played out survival type game (rust). Maybe you can help me understand?
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>>722064851
rest in peace sweet prince
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>>722064702
Got the flu and because of it can't sleep.
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it is saturday night and my cpu cooler wont be here until monday so i cant use my pc until then which sucks
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>>722064702
My biggest problem, personally, is finding the motivation for school work and other things i know i should be doing. Feels a bit hopeless, yes.
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>>722064967
because Conan
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I am jobless. No I'm not hopeless, but things are definitely hard right now.
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>>722064967
It's got much better looking naked people than Rust.
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>>722065043
Wow, great explanation. You changed not only my perspective but my life as well. Thank you anon.
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>>722064702
Nah I'm just a lazy faggot
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>>722065085
id play a shit game just to play as Conan
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i've made 20+ job applications last month and nothing comes out. i don't want to go back to mom's basement.
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>>722064702

>Be Australian
>Married to Polish girl
>Live in UK for the last 6 years, married for 4
>Find out wife is pregnant, 2 months
>Move back to Australia first, she goes to Poland to spend two months with family
>Can't find a job, wife is almost 5 months pregnant
>Her sister is in car accident, no insurance, the small amount of money we did have saved was used to help out her sister

Life is pretty shit, best i can hope for is to take a shitty job and then go back to Europe to see my kid born then what? Can't afford airfares and visa (8k aussie dollars)

Depression is starting to creep in
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>>722065181
we don't have basements in Australia
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well I was forced from being a hikki neet to go to school, did really bad initially in it failed some classes wanted to drop out but was forced to follow through with it anyway , got better started making As toward the end but all the beginning failing classes dragged down my gpa and even though I graduated with my low grades, no social skills and connection and no internships it really is a useless piece of 30,000$ paper and now I have to work in a warehouse scrubbing medical waste off plastic pieces to pay it off while I live with my parents since I cant afford rent.
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>>722065234
kill yourself you giant fag
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>>722065126
Then i'd say you have some serious problems, anon. But i love you anyways.
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Trying to not be the first to say I love you.
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>>722064702
I was diagnosed with BPD, mneh. Not feeling helpless. just alone
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Writing my masters thesis is creeping closer and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
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>>722065318
Bipolar or borderline?
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>>722065247
but didn't this guy get arrested for keeping sex dungeon in austrlia where he kept his daughter?
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>>722065305

Thanks mate, appreciate the help

>I just want to be a good father
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I have no purpose or meaningful reason to live
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>>722065373
fuck i'v never seen one
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It's Saturday, I have to make rent by Monday because I'm behind on it. I just got my wallet stolen and $400 after I went to the atm... I don't know anyone who can help me make 400-500 in two days. I might be fucked guys...
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>>722064702
My right shoulder fuckin hurts. Every day since 2 years. I can't do computer for fun anymore, and the pain makes me hate my job (computer scientist)...
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>>722065373
that guy was in AUSTRIA not Australia you dingus
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>>722065436
that's what you get for making poor life choices
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>>722065370
I was diagnosed as bipolar as a teenager. I was diagnosed with borderline about 4 years ago
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>>722065247
but then where do you store all your junk?
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>>722065436
>>722065436
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-diB65scQU
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>>722065525
So you have both borderline and bipolar? What is that like? Curious.
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>>722065529
in the shed or something
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>>722064702
Lost my gf of three years, have to wait before I ruin her life with fraud
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>>722065529
spare room shit like that
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>>722064702
Money.
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>>722065588
What'd she do to make you so pissed?
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>>722065234
If you want to be a depressed little faggot then thats your choice. But that kid needs a dad.As long as you are there and you try that is all that matters. I was raised by maids and sent to boarding school. Yeah money may never be a problem for me. But I would give that all up if he would just come to one soccer game. Piece of shit faggot doesn't even remember my birthday.
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>>722065623
This. And I'm not in the right world.
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>>722065885
Don't pretend you have problems like normal people you can just buy your way happy faggot fuck off
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>>722065640
She told me she didn't love me because I didn't worship her and didnt treat her like a girlfriend enough. After three years of paying all of her finances, food, house, insurance, everything and she ditches me so she can fuck random dudes every week and wear a collar n get treated like a cat. Even while this is all happening she expects me to pay her shit until she can afford it herself and live with her and be nice to her. It's bullshit man
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>>722065885

Pretty sure that poster is lamenting the fact he cant afford the ticket and visa for his wife without a job anon

>Did they not teach reading comprehension at that boarding school?
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>>722064702
Forearm/biceps tendinitis feels bad
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money
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>>722065577
I have been diagnosed with both, not sure if I have them both. They were opinions from different therapists. That is kind of a vague question. Is there anything specific that you are curious about?
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>>722066005
Shit that sucks. My ex did the same shit minus the cat part. Also won't leave me alone, keeps asking to have me back.
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>>722066005
My last ex was like that. She was so wrapped up in her own insecurities that there was literally nothing you could do to actually make her happy, regardless of the fact that you did almost everything for her. Sorry you fell too far down the hole before you realized.
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>>722065025
This

Also: be youe own motivation. You want to reach your goals
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>>722064702
Bladder leakages
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>>722066175
I know its vague, i was kind of hoping you would go into huge detail on your own. That's what i thought happened, was curious though because if you had both your life would be utter chaos... Which one do you feel is accurate? Which one is the latest diagnosis?
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>>722066204
>>722066205
Fuckin women amirite? Nah it's cool though, this all happened within this last month n it sucks but I'm learning how to cook my own meals. I'm gonna be saving more money and I'm still gonna have my home and job. I was pretty upset at first until I realized I have all of her personal information.Sadly I have to wait years before I can safely ruin her life with her personal info
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>>722066221
That's what i'm currently trying to do, just hard making that switch entirely. Some days i can do anything, some i'm the opposite.
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>>722065234
Your wife is pregnant, instead of staying with her in the UK or Poland you go back to Australia without even securing yourself a job first, now you're complaining that you have no job and that she's a bajillion miles away.

I'd be depressed too if I were that stupid.
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>>722065234
Good things come to those who are prepared. I wish you luck friend.
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>>722066005
>and wear a collar n get treated like a cat.
what?
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>>722066387
That would be petty, honestly, i see it more of her own ignorance than malice. Just make damn sure you don't make the same mistake twice and work on yourself a little bit for now.
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>>722066387
Fucking guys. My piece of shit ex was a guy.
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>>722066319
I think the borderline is more accurate because of how my emotions change quickly. If you want a longer detail, itll have to wait until after my league game. It could take about 10-20 more min
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>>722066619
>My piece of shit ex was a guy.
like this?
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>tfw no gf
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>>722066694
you can go to a hooker and ask for the girlfriend experience
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>>722066694
me too,
but the problem for me isn't me wanting a woman,
its more I can't relate to normals and their normalfags problems,
went into this thread hoping to see something intresting but as per usual its just relationship crao
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>>722066830
What's your problem
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>>722066694
Believe me, its not as magical as everyone makes it out to be. Most people just talk highly of their lives in general.
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>>722066915
I just said it
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>>722065975
money doesn't buy good friends dickhead. Keep chasing that elusive green benji. Once you get it you can then look back and see all the people you've ruined. Wtf would you know
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>>722066932
>Believe me, its not as magical as everyone makes it out to be.
it is as magical as everyone says, you just jelly
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>>722066550
Yeah she wanted me to treat her like a pet n have her call me master n shit
>>722066559
Petty but easy and fun and more rewarding than watching her destroy her life, which she inevetbly will.
>mfw we still share a bed
>mfw I pretend I still love her n want what's best
>mfw I'm holding her in bed right now
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>>722067000
I just got out of a relationship, not jelly, just being honest. It's nice, but its not what people talk it up to be.
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Not knowing the right way forward to accomplish my goals/dreams, and being overwhelmed by everything at the current moment.
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>>722067046
>Yeah she wanted me to treat her like a pet n have her call me master n shit
why didn't you?
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>>722067046
Wait, why the fuck are you still sleeping together? That sounds like hell.
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>>722067000
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>>722066694
i want someone to care for and someone to about me. i could've maybe had sex in high school, call me a cuck but i wanted more than sex. the scary part is all my friends mostly say being in a relationahip isn't all that special, and I'm scared if i finally manage it, I'll be dissapointed because I've idealized romance in my mind to the point of unrealistic fantasy. it's been a cold long wait.
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>>722067155
have you thought about trying to find the fulfillment you crave through religion?
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>>722067080
Tbh was exhausted from work, I was the main provider of our household. 8-11 hour workdays n didn't get off until 9 or 10 and then would have to do other daily life shit for the house and she'd expect me to play role play for two hours then cum n go to sleep. Could not physically or mentally handle that
>>722067110
No choice but I think it's fun to manipulate her. Let her think she's in control and that I'm in the palm of her hand when in all reality I'm just waiting to fuck her over. Plus I have to make sure I'm good to her so she won't suspect me years from now
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The fact that I'm still awake. Yeah, pretty hopeless.
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My love's ex threatened her to leave me and get together again. And i know it sounds shitty, that she shouldn't agree. She didn't want to risk. We knew for too short in her opiniom to risk a lifestyle. I suppose it was more like an adventure for her and more like a lifetime opportunity for me. Worst part? Ive got some friends and I just can't explain them why and how shitty i feel right now. I need to share this shit with /b/ros..
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>>722066319
Lets see, Ill start with the basics. I have done some research on it and the biggest thing with BPD is the anger. It has taken me years to be able to get to a point where I can manage my anger and prevent them from becoming outbursts. I have to constantly monitor my emotions and analyze where they are coming from and whether they are irrational to prevent them from overwhelming me. When I am drunk, this is a bit more difficult because they change in seconds. I can be excited one second and then angry 5 seconds later, followed by extremely depressed. If you have any questions about this information, feel free to ask
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>>722066932
exactly, I've been alone so long I've idealized being in a relationship so badly. and my fantasy won't match up with reality if the day comes. and the worst part is assuming all my sadness and loneliness will be solved by being in a relationship. which it might not be. then what?
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>>722067318
you know years ago I would have thought it ludicrous for a guy to be too tired from work for sex stuff,

but after actually to go out work for a while I I do understand now.
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>>722067335
So your borderline is what causes your anger? Sounds like my ex. It sounds like you have a very strong grasp on yourself though, so props for that.
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>>722067305
no, not really. I'm not an atheist and i think God exists, but I'm not sure. and organized religion seems like it has lots of problems. so i stay in limbo
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>>722067429
It happens but Meh I'm a grown man, why the fuck should I do what someone else is telling me I'm no chump.
I wanna relax ima relax
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>>722065487
howd that bait taste?
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>>722067392
No, it probably wont match up to reality. But if you are anything like me, you'll just be happy you got there and not really have a problem shedding those expectations. All i'll say is don't lose sight of your standards to find a girlfriend, because you will regret it.
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>>722067535
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>>722067456
Im not 100% sure about what triggers my anger. Sometimes I am able to shrug things off with no problem and others I have to seclude myself in order to calm down. What was your ex like?
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>>722065487
holy fuck.
falling for that bait and even taking the time to upload a picture.

You're truly lost m8
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>Jobseekers just got cancelled because the job centre said I didn't apply for a job when I did
>Bank account is in -£30 because a bill came off the morning my jobseekers normally goes in and they've told me they add a bank charge of £5 for every day I'm in overdraft until I settle the balance but I don't even have a penny

Kms is looking like a pretty good idea
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>>722064702
biggest current problem? Probably how to approach identifying new gene loci for interrogation in the hopes of generating a novel MLST paradigm. Almost there but still have a few hard months to traverse I reckon
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>>722064702
Trying to stay celibate.
I always thought it was fairly easy but my new boyfriend is just too fucking perfect. I want to be with him in mind and body if that makes sense. But muh premarital sex is wrong.
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I have a decent job. (program)
I have a appartment
qt girlfriend
Just a Hernia but ok now
Travelled and lived everywhere
I am 27 and so f*cking bored with life. So boorezzzzzz
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>>722067548
my problem is i have no experience. i only had STEM classes throughout highschool so it was me and 40 asian/white guys the whole 4 years. and now in CC, nobody talks to each other and i have no chances to meet or have conversations with girls. and since im not obese or even terrible looking (i am however a manlet) girls sometimes start out conversations with me in the library or while im at work (retail), but i just freak out internally and say all the wrong things and ignore them and come across as uninterested and rude. chronic spaghetti spilling everywhere.
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>>722067502
I have a cousin that was a coke head,
he then got off cocaine and went full Jesus freak,
brother likes to say he always had a predisposition toward addiction and simply switched addictions and became addicted to religion.
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>>722067783
on UC. I with you there for the feels. How old are you?? I'm 24. Thinking of getting out the country for a bit as soon as possible.
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>>722065487
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>>722067725
Bit hard to explain, but, she was just very insecure and very angry. She would flip out over the smallest things, like if i called her out on something she would get really mad and try to make me out to be the asshole. She would flip out over small things a lot and try to break up (so i would fight for her) and slam things. I know that's not entirely BPD but the way she would get angry and whatnot things is similar i suppose. She was diagnosed with bipolar, but i dont think she had it.. plus they had her on anti-depressants which makes no sense for that disorder. Idk
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>>722066005
Entitled girls like this usually end up cheating.

The problem is not that you weren't alpha enough, it that your GF, whatever her dysfunction, just can't reciprocate.

There are plenty more woman that would suck your dick for less that what you've done for this woman. And 50% of them will be better looking than your ex.

Send a text to let her know your deleting her number and ghost her. Block it. Ghost her. Move on.

Find someone that is into you. You deserve better.
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>>722067919
Yeah i was the same. Either find yourself a nice practice girlfriend (no bullshit) or someone who is not a stuck up bitch (there are plenty of them). It seems like a bigger deal than it is imo.
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>>722068001
How did the relationship end?
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>>722065397
Why do you need one
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>>722068173
We were drunk on my birthday, she tried to make everything about her. Then i got upset and she talked shit and threw me out. Good times.
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>>722064702
Objectively, im very well off in terms of material property and money. My health is good, i train 4-7 times a week and im in good shape. But im having such a hard time making and maintaining relationships, and im struggling pretty badly with insecurities and self worth.

I dont know what to do lads.
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>>722064702
My biggest problem is not having enough money to pay for the bills, so I must find a better job in a country that has high unemployment rate. So I am afraid that I will be stuck without any kind of a job if I quit this one. My computer is 8 years old and I can't afford a new one, when it dies that's it, no more intrawebz for me.
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I studied 5 years to get my law degree. And know all I have to turn in is 1 last paper of 50 pages. I have 1 week left to finish it and i've written only 10 pages the last week. More was not possible timewise. I need to pass, otherwise I've wasted 5 years of my life.
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>>722067076
Little by little bit by bit
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>>722068102
>a nice practice girlfriend (no bullshit)
not him but I did, she was black, but I figured its practice , she likes me is in my major and into the same nerdy hobbies as I am so might as well if its only temporary,
turns out I really like spending time with her , like a lot and may be developing genuine feelings for her which is a problem,
cause me parents and just about everyone from my hometown are super racist, and not the understanding kind(they kicked and completely disowned my younger brother for being gay).
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>>722068102
my problem is i can't approach girls without having an excuse or else I'll feel like a thirsty neckbeard that's bothering her. for example i can maybe ask a clasmate about the homework last night, but I'd never in a million years go up to them just for the sake of talking. I'm just not confident enough to initiate flirting with girls because i feel like they're all out of my league
>inb4 just be confident bro

on top of that i can never be sure if a girl is actually flirting back, or they're just being friendly. I'm scared since i experience so little female interaction, i misinterpret every little sign as attraction when in reality i know it's not.
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>>722064702
Be me.
Have hot wife w/ kids from her first marriage.

Put wife before self.
Kids selfish/behavioral problems 2-3 days after asshole father's weekend. Rinse. Fucking repeat. Tired of this shit.

Wife puts kids as priority. - view this as attractive trait for breeding...

Just tired of putting others first and always being the last consideration.

Feels like the Alpha thing to sacrifice for others.

Everyday feel more like r9k .
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>>722068610
Sounds like time to practice breaking up
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>>722067976
26 here. UC also but I just call it jobseekers because of habit. Wish i could leave the country, completely broke.
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>>722068798
kek
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>>722064702
I can't find my birthday certificate for my CDL license. I ordered a new Birth Certificate online but it will take too long to get here.

I'm gonna be too lazy to refund the 60$ i spent to get the replacement Birth Certificate when I find the original one in my room.
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>>722068751
>Wife puts kids as priority.
well no shit anon,
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>>722068292
Damn, that sounds tough :/.I have had similar situations in my past. One of the reasons I have to watch my alcohol or caffeine intake.
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>>722068610
Well good for you man thats awesome.
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>>722064702
I have no brain.
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>>722068842
>>722067783
whats jobseekers?
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>>722069122
You get paid to go out and look for jobs for other people. Some scheme to get people socialising around gaining employment.
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>>722068725
It sounds a bit like you're trying to hard to force it, in my opinion. Just live your life and get comfortable speaking to people in general and it will come eventually, thats been my experience.
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>>722069041
Yeah it fucked me up for a while but now i know the signs. Anyway thanks for the concern and i hope you are doing well with your issues.
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>>722065423
you made a typo or forgot. You skipped the "by" between "fucked" and "guys".
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>>722069504
why do you say it fucked you up for a while? I am managing :)
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>>722069255
well thanks anon, that's actually interesting to think about. and yeah i feel like i over think and over-plan my no gf situation. that's good advice except for one thing, I'm 19 in my second year of college and still not even close. i can't sit back and let it fall into my lap i feel. and people have always hyped up college to be THE place to easily date people. if this is as easy as it gets, then I'm in trouble. i wait another couple years and realtionships start to get serious and people start getting married, if i make it to my mid-late 20' without so much as a kiss i think it'll be over.
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>>722064702
I did very well at uni but have several months off until I work full time and am drinking a lot, I am scared I will become some drooling retard

Then on top of that I get way to fucked up and when I try to bone I can't keep it up
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My 2 year old is watching TV and playing with loud toys, my wife is in the bedroom and wants to fuck and I just want to browse in fucking peace.
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>>722069665
It fucked me up because she would try to flip shit around on me, and i tend to appreciate both sides of things so i had a bit of a crisis determine what was reality.
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>>722069239
>You get paid to go out and look for jobs for other people.
really?
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>>722068725
I once tried talking to a girl out of the blue,
she reported me to campus police as a homeless vagrant that wandered in.
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>>722070003
No you retard. Its welfare but you cant just sit on your fat ass all day getting high. You have to be looking for work. Sometimes they annoy you and you gotta do something or show a little effort until you either get a job or they stop annoying you.
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>>722069705
Yes, its never good to try to let things fall on your lap if you can help it (clearly not as effective). but i think you're vastly over-estimating when things "get serious." i've been a loner in uni for 3 years and just had my first real gf at 21. Wasn't a big deal at all either.
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>>722064702
I cannot find a publisher for my novel.

I know that the book is good, but the market in my country and region is so fucked up that you have to pay them to publish your work.

It is shit, because I want to become a famous writer, but I feel like it is just a child's dream with every passing day.
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>>722065373
Theres a difference between a basement and a sex dungeon. 100% of anyone you find west of queensland and nsw have sex and/or rape dungeons. As well as everyone in tasmania.
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>>722070120
so the other person is saying looking for work for other people,
and your post is implying looking for work for yourself
so which is it ?
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>>722070137
ok anon I'll wait at least till i transfer to my state school in a year and a half. I'll just try and be friendly to everyone and practice talking to people and try not to worry about my situation. but if i graduate and i STILL haven't had a gf it'll be unironic panic time. it seems nearly everyone in college worth taking is already taken, and that problem will be ten times worse once i join the real world workforce.
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>>722070204
Self publish. Take the punk approach. Do it cheap, do it yourself. Fuck the man. If he's not gonna do it then you fucking do it. Dont give me shit about cost or distribution. Do you want people to read it. Then give them the chance and do it yourself you faggot. You cant find a printer? Run off 100 books. You dont know bookstores? Any at all. You cant put an add out online? No imagination. Leave them in the library for fuck sake. Give them to friends and tell them to pass them on. See how it goes just once at least. Nothing comes of it? Go back to complaining but at least have that effort to stand on instead of whinging because you didn't fucking bother.
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>>722070527
Haha, man, if you are that worried about it sign up for tinder. It's the easiest way to find SOMEONE to get your feet wet.
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>>722068470

The problem is the little by little and bit by bit is non-existant because I don't know what little steps I should be taking/what direction I should be taking them. My goals are:

Short term: Working and going to school I guess


Mid term: Finish my degree (Its in comp science)


Long term: Get an apartment by myself, make video games

I have a few months off of school and then summer I will have more free time as well (since I can only take a couple of classes in summer), so I want to use this free time to its full potential.
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>>722070047
maybe don't dress like a hobo
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>>722070242
Implying
Being neet requires a little effort sometimes. Yourself you fag. Have to be looking for work to claim. All bs really coz plenty jobs. Ride it out, some excuses, welfare gets bored moves on to someone else...... or get a job. Its jobseekers. You have to be seeking a job to qualify.
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In school, taking 5 engineering upper divisions so I can get out in 4 years as this school costs obscene amounts of money, it's not some random 'for profit's but it might as well be. I'm exhausted, drowning in work, got a parking ticket on my way to pick up the parking permit I pre-ordered, they won't drop the charge (cunts), and I can't even work up the energy to jerk off right now. Not hopeless, but fuck it's like I've been at redline for 4 weeks and it just won't stop.
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>>722070997
so this is like filing for unemployment when you get laid off?
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>>722070725
kek I'm passively worried but not desperate. anyone I've ever known who uses tinder is an annoying unironic neckbeard. and even if i managed a date out of tinder, I'm not attracted to the type of people that are drawn to it. i think I'll just settle down again for the long wait
t. choosy beggar
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>>722070739
You're already doing your short and mid term goals. What other areas do you think need to improve?
More social activity? Join a club you have an interest in.
Need money? Find a part time thing doesn't impact studies
Exercise is important. Any sport? Gym? A long walk off side somewhere once a week is my thing.
Break them big goals into smaller and smaller pieces. Each will improve the other bit by bit. In 6 months you'll have a whole lot of different little things to do. The average improves in all them things. Patience though. Only see the difference when you look back 6 months from now or 2 years or twenty years. Keep improving the average bit by bit little by little
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>>722071320
Okay, NOW i understand why no one wants to date you. Good luck with that.
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>>722071147
What's laid off?
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>>722071147
Fucking hell man if you're so curious JUST GOOGLE IT.

Jobseekers is the British unemployment welfare system.

Ffs srsly
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>>722071543
It's like being fired, but normally fired has the connotation of being your fault, while laid off could simply be due to corporate recession, outsourcing, etc.
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>>722071543
maybey its just a us a thing
but its when you are let go from a job but not really fired for incompetence or behavior problems.
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>>722071633
>JUST GOOGLE IT.
I did, google search just sent me to a bunch of job boards.
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>>722071543
fired
you ignorant piece of shit
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>>722071769
you're mean
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>>722064702
I'm terrible with money and women
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this qt3.14 broke my heart
feelsbadman
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>hired at Amazon corporate
>spend years moving undocumented legacy services to India
>job's done. guess who's getting fired
you'res truely
>sends WA state lengthy excuse for firing me, says I was not productive basically
>I write one line in response
"They outsourced my job to India"
>spent next 6 months living on Amazon dollar

Thanks Amazon, needed the vacation after that bullshit.
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>>722071461
lol did i come across as a sore asshole? correct me if I'm wrong but I've got the impression tinder is for fucking no strings attached and for desperate people? I'm not saying there's no quality people on the app and i mean no offense if you've used it, but that's just the impression that it's given me. and remember i want to have a relationship with somebody not just have sex. again I'm sadly a choosy beggar.
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>>722071654
Oh right. I never had a job so thats probably why I didnt understand you fully. Well we both learned something new today. Its welfare and thats how it works. Meant to anyway but you can see yourself it doesn't. I'd suggest a purge but then Id be the first to go. Cognitave dissonance I suppose.
Welcome to /b/
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>>722066266
you are my fetish, I love diapers
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>>722071917
A bit. And aren't you a bit desperate? That's why i recommended it. Either way its not the scorn of the earth, never hurts to give it a few swipes and not take it too seriously. Just trying to help you find ways to fix your issue. Oh and no, its not full of neck beards (like they exist in real life).
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I HAVE NO FUCKING GANJA

but the gin keeps me happy, so i am fine
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>>722064702
>Lack of hair
>Immense pain in my back

First one, yes hopeless. The second, not so much, pain killers are working like a charm
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>>722072334
i don't think I'm desperate, but that may be my tunnel vision. remember i have this retarded idealized fantasy in my head of what dating a girl is like. and i guess an online dating app just really starkly contrasts with my dream. but who knows it might be more realistic. another thing is I can't really deal with rejection, so if i went out on a limb and created a profile and got shitty/no responses, it'd mess me up. or if i went on a date with a girl from there and we meet and she's dissapointed by the irl me. tinder isn't my solution. either I'll take your advice and loosen up and get over my mental block and I'll date someone late in college, or I'll be an unironic wizard. thanks for your help anon and i hope you can work through any problems you're having as well. i think every once in a while, everyone deserves to have something go their way.
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>>722071973
>implying my sorry ass will get any action off tinder
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>>722065487
oh boy
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A woman who used to voice a character for a youtube channel disappeared and I miss her a lot
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>>722073196
Alright man well i truly hope it works out for you. And thank you.
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>>722064702
school , wanting to finally start studying like a actual student not study a hour before a test , my internet is still shit so i cannot play any online games , been so long since ive been in a relationship so im getting pretty lonely..i think thats about it.
Also im just hoping everyone in my family will be happy again , my grandma hopefully heal because she had cancer and there were like a million surgeries after.I think thats it really.Thanks for asking anon , this actually kinda helped me.I hope you resolve your problems in life too.
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>>722071455

Yeah, good advice, I'll keep it in mind. I just hate being 24 already and that I won't be 26 until I get my degree. I guess I just want to fast track something so I have something to show for myself before then. So figured I could learn coding in this few month break I have..or something. I just feel like a loser and I'm sick of it, I want a reprieve..
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>>722074505
Also i somehow forgot to add , i have huge selfconfidence problems and i really want to get rid of the acne of my fucking face.I dont think im really eating fatty food but that might be a problem , i have a very addictive personality , so if i tried drugs / alcohol / cigarettes i would be instantly hooked .
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>>722064702
Waiting to hear back from law schools
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>>722074839
there are already too many lawyers anon, we dont need more
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90k in school debt, but im payying my way out. Current worry is that my corporate job is life sucking, that i was borderline suicidal. Now im on medications and therapy. So all is good...
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>>722074875
It's been my goal for a long time. I want to practice in rural Ontario, fuck city life. I had brain surgery 18 months ago which really set me back on my goals
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I'm bored and need someone to fuck.

Craigslist and tinder are no help.
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>>722074905
>90k in school debt
Land of the free
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>>722064702
Had a fight with GF and she left me three weeks ago to move to LA.

We are still "in love" apparently so she is flying up today and we're going to fuck all weekend. Problem is she wants to stay together long-distance...but I feel like she already broke our relationship. I can't really decide what to do until I see her in person. I will definitely be able to decide after we fuck.

Am I hopeless? No, but pretty sure my relationshit is dead. Maybe that means I have a new fuck buddy, but I am still somwhat uncomfortable with "my" girlfriend fucking other dudes in LA, which she surely will eventually.

I just worry that no one else will want to fuck ever again. I know that's a breakup cliche but I really feel it.
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I'm literally too ugly to get a job. I've got fired on my past jobs because people couldn't stand to look at my face
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>>722065234
Fuck that's rough. If you went to poland could you get a job there? Wish you luck anon.
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>>722067318
Y'know I had sympathy for you at first but now I think you're a piece of shit. Hope you get feline AIDS.
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>>722067877
God I hate you westerners and your failed ideologies.
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I have this constant need to improve myself. Wish i could be happy but every time i set a goal that i think would make me "happier" it seems to only keep me happy for that certain day.
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i have a massive hangover
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>>722065234

At least you know what the problem is. Times might seem like they are tough but you'll get thru them. Don't stress things because it will only you set you back.
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>>722075241
solved
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>>722075241

Thats like the shittiest thing i've ever heard.
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>>722074727
Yeah I get you. I was the same for a long time. No degree or nothing. Had a real tough couple of months and shit looked overwhelming. You can only do it for yourself. You wont wake up tomorrow and find your perfect job, win the lottery or meet some qt wife. Years from now you might feel like you have. You know coding is breaking big problems into little problem down to manageable chunks. All together the programme works when the little ones are solved. Takes a long time and some days are annoying as hell. Patience man. 4 yrs looking back Not neet, comfortable, busy. Much more to do and looking forward to it. Form the habit pal
Good luck
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>>722065234
You could hitch ride in a container ship. Just xnt forget ur papers cause they get visits from Euro customs offen.

Someone gna say yes if you say youll dok Kirchen work vor what not for 10 daYs
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Im doing shit in school
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>>722065365
Read other papers youll figure it out better. Not saying copy just get some reference, get into the idea of doing
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>>722069705
See a hooker. Sex wnt be that big problem then. After that target some mature sex partners. You'll learn the ropes and all they want is a dick
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