Ask a p-psychologist anything. I'm here for you, Anonymous~

Are you actually a psychologist or are you a psych major?

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Here's a bump for you, Alice!

is ok to fuck my kids if they like it

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>>721641005
No.

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>>721640833
Hi- I have a friend that likes to pretend they are a psychologist/therapist or something, and is always asking me to tell them my problems so they can psychoanalyze me. If's really annoying. How do I get them to stop?

I'm gay

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>>721641042
S-stop being their friend <4

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My co-worker is grumpy cause his dad is gonna die soon. What do?

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>>721641047
*patpat* G-good for you, Anonymous <4

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>>721641087
Be comforting and sympathetic in h-his time of need.

>>721640833
Why do blacks commit more crimes?

>>721641037
what if they beg for it any time we're alone together?

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>>721641155
T-this is psychology, not sociology.

How do I know if a girl has a rape fetish before approaching her in the car park?

Okay Mr Psychologist why am I so self destructive. I drink too much, swapped weed for booze addiction. I dont open mail and shit. I can never seem to do things on time. I periodically become afraid of the phone. Shits got worse not better as I get older. Literally fed up with life.

Is it safe to get a degree in psychology or has that field been invaded with SJWs that blame everything on white males too?

>>721641174
Children dont really tend to do that

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>>721641288
C-check her purse for pepper spray

>>721640833
Whats my problem?

>>721641316
they're 9 and 12, very horny

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>>721641299
S-sounds like you have an addiction problem dear; when d-did you start doing drugs? Below the age of 15?

>>721641303
Psychology isn't w-womens studies.

>>721641342
You are p-posting on /b/ at 8AM.

>>721641409
Its 2 PM here tho

Why do I never feel truly excited to do things that I know are fun and I find fun but the excitement is never there ahead of time?

It's my birthday today, but I always get a bit down on my birthday and don't feel like celebrating, but feel guilty for not celebrating it cause people (and the "norm") says you should be happy and celebrate it. So what's my problem eh?

>>721641152
How?

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>>721640833
Will you suck my cock?

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>>721641480
Even w-worse!

>>721641499
Could b-be anhedonia; have y-you talked to anyone?

>>721641556
...y-your problem is two fold:
1. You care about the norm and what other people think
2. You get down on your birthday.

>>721641581
T-tell him you are there for him, dummy!
Be supportive!

>>721641556
Lol

>>721641642
Yes, they are just blaming it on my bipolar type 2, but I don't think that's what this is, though. Very frustrating

>>721640833
I ant to see my gf fuck another man in front of me. whats my problem?

Who did you vote for? Or who would you have voted for?

Why do I wake up about 3-4 times a night for no apparent reason, been to the doctor and had my blood tested, only Vitamin D levels were too low (got supplements)

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>>721641749
bipolar c-can be concurrent with anhedonia, but it's q-quite hard to treat in that case...

Sorry Anonymous, I'm so so sorry....

>>721641779
You h-have a fetish and l-like to complain about it.

>>721641805
Are you tired during the day? I used to do that to, turns out I had sleep apnea

>>721641823
So what do I do? I can't feel like this forever, it's so boring and draining

>>721641823
God stutterfag you're the worst and your advice is psych underclassman tier

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>>721641805
H-have you gotten a prostate exam? It m-may be BPH. If you are male, of course.

>>721641823
>>721641642
Don't you fucking ignore me >>721641630

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>>721640833
Is there a character that could even possibly EVEN TOUCH Madara Uchiha? Let alone defeat him. And I'm not talking about Edo Tensei Uchiha Madara. I'm not talking about Gedou Rinne Tensei Uchiha Madara either. Hell, I'm not even talking about Juubi Jinchuuriki Gedou Rinne Tensei Uchiha Madara with the Eternal Mangekyou Sharingan and Rinnegan doujutsus (with the rikodou abilities and being capable of both Amateratsu and Tsukuyomi genjutsu), equipped with his Gunbai, a perfect Susano'o, control of the juubi and Gedou Mazou, with Hashirama Senju's DNA implanted in him so he has mokuton kekkei genkai and can perform yin yang release ninjutsu while being an expert in kenjutsu and taijutsu. I’m talking about Kono Yo no Kyūseishu Futarime no Rikudō Juubi Jinchuuriki Gedou Rinne Tensei Uchiha Madara with the Eternal Mangekyou Sharingan (which is capable of Enton Amaterasu, Izanagi, Izanami and the Tsyukuyomi Genjutsu), his two original Rinnegan (which grant him Chikushōdō, Shuradō, Tendō, Ningendō, Jigokudō, Gakidō, Gedō, Banshō Ten’in, Chibaku Tensei, Shinra Tensei, Tengai Shinsei and Banbutsu Sōzō) and a third Tomoe Rinnegan on his forehead, capable of using Katon, Fūton, Raiton, Doton, Suiton, Mokuton, Ranton, Inton, Yōton and even Onmyōton Jutsu, equipped with his Gunbai(capable of using Uchihagaeshi) and a Shakujō because he is a master in kenjutsu and taijutsu, a perfect Susano’o (that can use Yasaka no Magatama ), control of both the Juubi and the Gedou Mazou, with Hashirama Senju’s DNA and face implanted on his chest, his four Rinbo Hengoku Clones guarding him and nine Gudōdama floating behind him AFTER he absorbed Senjutsu from the First Hokage, entered Rikudō Senjutsu Mode, cast Mugen Tsukuyomi on everybody and used Shin: Jukai Kōtan so he can use their Chakra while they are under Genjutsu.

>>721641556
Youre an introvert and probably own a cat that harbors a secret loathing towards your general existence despite being its only source of sustainance (sp?)

>>721641805
Why are you waking up? Is it nightmares? Just waking up for no apparent reason? My go to is stress. Is this something new?

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>>721641872
I'd ask y-your doctor to consider your current mental state, and if t-they won't, get a second opinion.

>>721641935
Ugh, cat people.

I have a need to set out my goals for life as sort of a timeline for me but I still feel empty and anxious when I acomplish them. Like, I know what I want to do and can do it when I try, but I'm still not happy when I get to them. What's wrong with me?

I'm dealing with anxiety, I overthink my friendships too much in fear of being looked down on or being rejected by someone I love.

Does it get tiring dealing with people who are literally pathetic? Everything makes them depressed, they self sabotage, and enjoy ruining their life.

>>721641556
Maybe you're down on your birthday because you're getting older? Maybe something bad happened on previous bdays

All of you keep in mind that anyone giving confident answers without asking more questions in this thread is full of shit.

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>>721640833
>>721640833


it's b-been a while since i've seen your posts OP. i-it s-seems your stutter has gotten worse. what gives?

>>721641982
Okay, what are some of the treatments I could bring up to my doctor?

>>721642017
They dont "enjoy ruining their life, they are stuck in bad habits that sabotage them.

>>721641866
I sleep on my chest and discussed the possibilities with my doctor, came to the conclusion this couldn't be it

>>721641877
Haven't discussed this with my doctor, but I do not wake up to pee or something similar

>>721641976
No nightmares, just me waking up and then trying to go back to bed. Every night

>>721641642
Are you actually typing in stutters you faggot? Youre also a pretty shitty psychologist or youre just bullshitting. Im assuming the latter

>>721641982
Do you really think helping ppl on 4chan by analyzing their problems will be accurate and/or helpful?
Or are you just bored?

>>721642119
Has there been some significant change in your life recently? Are you more stressed in general when this started?

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>>721641989
That s-sounds like you have an anxiety issue (though probably not as far as an actual compulsion); have you talked to anyone about t-this issue? Do you have an idea why or when it started?

>>721642011
G-good for you, Anonymous <4 Dealing w-with it is very mature of you.

>>721642017
M-most people I deal with are n-not "literally pathetic"; they are p-people, just like you, w-who have problems and n-need help finding a solution.

>>721642070
Oh it's j-just nerves.

>>721642119
A c-check only takes ten seconds; if y-you are over 30, I'd recommend it.

But I can't think of an issue that would cause that off the top of my head...

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>>721640833
>>721641335
How are you meant to pronounce

>p-psychologist
>C-check

Because the starting letters don't automatically give the right sound surely it should be:


>psy-psychologist
>Ch-check

Do you think most people with Borderline Personality disorder ever get better. Was recently diagnosed and life is below shit tier. I've heard success stories but.. I don't trust the.

>>721640833
Hi Alice, how's your week going? Also reimu has got me onto your twitch. It's quality.

-phi

>>721642165
In some cases it's possible to give advice if the situation is not too complicated. Keep in mind stutterfag is the worst and is giving pretty underclassman advice and assessments. I personally believe I have given people useful advice here before and they were very grateful.

>>721641877
When do you wake up during the night anon?

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>>721642086
Hm. W-well, what are your current treatments? CBT, anger management, medications?

>>721642165
I d-don't think anything d-dear <4

>>721642181
V-very carefully <4

>>721642184
It's n-not common, b-but mostly because those with BPD r-rarely stick to treatment. If you do, you should experience significant relief.

>>721642190
G-good to know, I'll b-be streaming later today <4

PSA -

Most, if not all psychologists, psychotherapists, psychiatrists are inept at helping and quickly resort to prescribing SSRI medication because they treat their patents like assembly line parts. Real help would be approached by NLP or hypnotherapy.

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>>721642293
I t-tend to wake up from nightmares or f-from my dog digging into my side.

>>721642180
Are there any medications I can take or do anything to fix this adhedonia I might have concurrently with my bipolar?

>>721640833
Should I consider myself getting checked for autism? I've been looking for a "how to talk to people" guide because I'm a fukken shut in who only communicates with people on a need-to-do basis, yet I still manage to be lonely.

So I found a "survival guide to autism", and it said like a dozen things about life that now in hindsight make sense, but I never thought of them before and been doing the mistakes associated with it.

>>721642308
¿Como?

>>721642338
Or CBT. Hypnotherapy doesn't work on a significant portion of people.

>>721642169
The only Major things that changed is me changing schools and honestly, that's it and I rarely get stressed

>>721642180
I'm 18 years old, but I could bring it up to my doctor

>>721642308
I hope I get to watch you live. It's a comfy and fun time.

-phi

>>721642308
I was on lithium for a while and I am currently not taking anything for it because everything I was taking impacted my life in a negative way

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>>721642338
....only one of t-those can actually prescribe anything, b-but good work suggesting a completely disproven technique (NLP) as an alternative!

Might as well throw homeopathy on top of there too for good measure.

>>721641805
When you wake up?

>>721642342
Sorry Alice, was meant for
>>721641805

How do i get a girl to like me?

We somehow had something and now its all fucked and i dont really want to get over her but get together with her and be happy

>>721642354
There are a bunch of tests online that are legit for autism. Try those first, if you are worried, see a doctor.

>>721642397
I'd talk to a doctor man, I would have told you it's changing schools, but you don't seem to think it's a big stressor and this is an anonymous 4chan where we simply don't have the info needed to help you.

>>721641556
But also happy birthday. I think you should take a moment, however attenuated, to bring yourself into a mental framework of overriding positivety in this day and embark on a journey in appreciation for your simple existence and another lap around the sun. Realize that to experience life is inherently fleeting and wonderous, that its okay to feel small because we are and by nature should come to understand ourselves as a purposeful iteration of the universe having found a way to observe itself, and if your parents are still alive thank them in your own way. You are loved and have every right to be here; dying suns made it so.

>>721640833
All right i'll bite!

I've got some major deadlines coming up and I seem to try and forget about them by partying daily and doing drugs (especially alcohol).

How do I motivate myself to start doing the work I've got to do for uni ?

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>>721642343
Anhedonia r-responds well to SNRI's, l-like welbutrin. You c-could certainly ask y-your doctor about the risks and rewards associated with such treatment.

>>721642354
H-have you considered you might h-have social anxiety, not autism?

>>721642381
CBT is v-very effective.

>>721642397
I w-would highly recommend that dear.

>>721642413
W-whew. Lithium is a hell of a drug. I c-can understand being fearful after that, b-but less...intense classes of m-medications could be useful.

>>721642440
Usually every 2-3 hours

>>721640833
Founded my company and got self-employed.
And I totally have no motivation to do anything.

Ok lost my gf but doesnt matter there are other girls.

Advice u p-p-p-psychologist.

>>721640833
Can I trust in my university's psychologist? I am not even paying her.

>>721642180
Nope, first time I've ever told anyone or really recognized it. It was probably around my senior year of high school when my goals started feeling "meh." Like getting into to my dream college was just not a high for me.

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>>721642410
It w-will be at 6PM EST, s-so tune in!

>>721642486
W-why is it all fucked, dear?

>>721642522
What times?

>>721642578
Unfortunately I have class during that time, but I'll tune in as soon as I'm done!

-phi

>>721642527
Anhedonia, almost certainly due to losing your gf unless you're leaving out another event.

>>721642532
Yes. Yes you are paying her, just not directly.

>>721642517
My hands shake now, it's not fair, aha. I will ask my doctor about webutrin, I was also on prozac, abilify, zoloft, and even seroquil trying to treat this shit, I'm running out of options

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>>721642510
Alright, l-let's get cracking. First, motivation comes from doing things, it isn't something you do.

So, take your major deadlines, and divide them up into tiny, bitesized pieces. Things you can do in less than 4 hours. Make a big list of all the steps you need to do to complete these goals.

Now, schedule them by order of priority; I like to use Google Calenders to really fill up a day and schedule it all out. Try to put easy items first, things you can do in just an hour or so.

Now, execute on the schedule; the small tasks you complete easily will give you a burst of dopamine, motivating you to do the next items one by one.

If you can't help but party, schedule that too! Party responsibly; make sure you get your work done too. No reason you can't work and play in the same day, just be very careful about it (and don't work while hung over!)

Am I broken or something, Alice? Even if there's clearly a problem in front of me, I just don't react to it. I've been called calm, laid back, etc. because of this. People think I'm just a chill guy but I seriously don't recognize any threat. What's wrong with me, man?

>>721640833
I'm having major hallucinations again but I don't want to tell my parents because I don't want them to worry and be upset. What do I do?

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>>721642527
C-clearly it does matter, to you, dear.
Tell me about her.

>>721642532
Y-yes.

>>721642542
You s-should probably talk to someone dear <4 There are programs t-that can help you, l-like CBT!

>>721642660
Email me at [email protected]
I c-can walk you t-through all of your options with regards to medication <4

>>721642736
Literally the first advice you've given in this thread that was good.

>>721642778
Doctor asap.

>>721642765
Do you consider this a problem? That's not necessarily bad.

>>721642816
Okay, I will do right now

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>>721642778
Are y-you underage b&?

>>721642765
Sounds like you aren't very responsive to adrenaline, or aren't producing much. That's n-not necessarily a problem; you could m-merely be at the end of the bell curve <4

Do you have significant stress or impairment from this issue? If not, you aren't broken dear. It's just a part of who you are.

If so, you could seek some stress tests or an MRI to verify that your brain is producing the correct amount of adrenaline in response to things, or that your heart is acting correctly in the presence of adrenaline. If you are really worried.

>>721642820
I don't want my parents to feel like they've failed...
All they ever wanted of me was to be okay, and I can't even grant them that much.

>>721642736
That's actually great advice.. Didn't expect that on 4chan!
Thanks Doc, i'll get working on it right away!

>>721642928
I'm 19, but I live away from them. They would like me to inform them everytime I get this issue.

>>721642816
What kind of program are there that could help me?

>>721642940
It wouldn't be your parents fault or anyone really, that's not really relevant anyway. You need to see a doctor if you're having really bad hallucinations.

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>>721642940
....hallucinations are n-not a failure, you dolt. They are a misfiring of t-the neurons in your prefrontal cortex, c-caused by all kinds of things.

Go to a doctor. You would for a broken leg, but you can't fess up to a broken perception system?

>>721642985
S-so inform them and g-go to the doctor.

>>721642991
CBT, I already said that.

>>721642962
M-my name is Alice, b-but good luck! Feel f-free to email me at [email protected] if y-you need further help.

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Alright c-children, I've only g-got about ten minutes left until I n-need to leave for work.

So if you want anything last minute, ask now!

>>721640833
Wooooey, time to break out the big guns. Ok so, currently I am in a mentally abusive relationship but since she is my only outlet/vent I am too afraid of leaving her considering that I will have nobody. I don't even have a pet to be with.

She isn't downright abusive, but she discourages me being with friends claiming I focus on them too much and if I do go out of my way to hang out she generally gets moody and makes it ruin the day. When I fuck up she never lets me forget it, choosing to stay brooding over the issue until I either (A: Plead for forgiveness or B: Allow the issue to come to a head before fighting with her) case and point yesterday when I promised her I would wake up with her and send her off to work and my alarm clock didn't work. I texted her after she left apologizing and the such yet when she came home she insisted on doing the passive aggressive (I'm upset but I don't want to say anything) routine. So I guess my question is, should I leave? Even if it means I'll be alone to myself for a long time? (both from friends and family due to distance) I've become rather whipped to the point that being alone seems truly unbearable. Thank you in advance :)

>>721643042
>>721643001
It's been three days now. Every time I think I'll tell them and go to my counselor, I just cannot do it.

I know it's the right thing to do, but something keeps stopping me. I always reason my way out of it. Sometimes it's fear, sometimes it's guilt.

I'll try.

>>721642517
>H-have you considered you might h-have social anxiety, not autism?
I did, I did many times, I though that I was introverted (I'm still pretty sure I am) and with 4chan throwing around the term autism left and right, I just shrugged over it, but it got me thinking now.

I mean do people in general have to be explained that
>If someone asks how you are, they really are not wanting to know the true or literal answer. This is a way of judging another person's outlook
>Failure to respond can lead to people being scared off.
>During a conversation, people will often take turns to trade personal information in the hopes of learning more about each other
and many other things? Don't people with anxiety are only afraid of communicating, nut clueless how certain parts work?

>>721643120
>So if you want anything last minute, ask now!
One word:
>Booty

>>721643042
Oh I'm sorry, thanks Alice! Will do! You rock!

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>>721643147
Outlet/venting is n-not a good form of treatment.
http://www-personal.umich.edu/~bbushman/PSPB02.pdf

I r-recommend you leave her. She is c-clearly damaging to your health.

>>721643180
I mean so far when I've been asked "how are you", and "how do you do", I've stopped thinking "hey, really how am I? I'm not feeling any immediate emotions, what should I say?"
and then not reply for half a minute.

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>>721643177
T-that's all I can ask of you, Anonymous.

>>721643180
....social anxiety keeps you from learning the basic cues that you would have learned if you were more social. S-so, we often see such problems concurrently with social anxiety.

>>721643215
It's m-my honor, Anonymous.

>>721643205
>

>>721642578
i got intimate with her on halloween (i know quite some time ago) and afterwards we met up two times, she invited me to her birthday but as i am still unexperienced and such i didnt do anything with her, even though i could have maybe kissed her. and now i want to change it and make it better than i did. i feel rather stupid for even wanting her now after i failed to show her the affection she deserved. and it could have all worked out so perfectly.

she is a real cutie and has great tast in music and all that
but on the other hand i am not quite sure wether it would have worked out longterm but still i would have wanted to try because maybe maybe it would have.

i havent seen her for a month now but texted her yesterday. i had hoped that we would see each other on a party this weekend but she didnt come so i didnt even have a chance to talk to her personally. i texted her yesterday and it was quite appearent that she was not comfortable in texting with me

i see that i am quite an inexperienced personallity myself but i really had hoped that she would have been able to overlook my not so great aspects and would fall in love regardless


is there still a chance for love to happen at the 3rd attempt?

>>721642649
>Anhedonia, almost certainly due to losing your gf unless you're leaving out another event.

>>721642816
>C-clearly it does matter, to you, dear.
>Tell me about her.

Well.. probably.
We split after years, cause she had to move back to her home about 2000km away (european here), due to family issues.
And I couldnt go with her due to alot of reasons.

Kinda sucked. As said I'm over it but still can't find the motivation to work as I should.
In 2 months I'm broke and even though I cant start... Thats hell

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>>721643293
S-sure. If love can happen on t-the battlefield, w-who is to say it can't h-happen on a third attempt.

Once more into the breech, young man!

>>721643316
It s-sounds like you should talk to a councilor or therapist; t-this is clearly still eating away at you.

>>721642816
I emailed you.

>>721640833
is it wrong that I use kindness as a validation tool for my own existence, I crave this validation so I go out of my way to help others.

is that selfish?

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>>721643409
Replied~

>>721643441
Y-yes. Obviously. You are doing it for yourself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IX4X2I4HQ7s

why is this so goofy

>>721642522
Because certain time periods reflect internal organs strains which can be caused by emotions.

So 4-6 is lungs hiding tension which can be caused by despair.

I think 3-4 is colon...I know that can be caused by feeling abandonment dissapointment though.

I'd try getting a bit more calcium before sleep, not computers or TV before sleep and look into what is weighing you down emotionally. I hope all goes well anon.

can't stay with a girlfriend more than 2 weeks, we don't even do anything like sex because i need my time (i know, i'm a fag and blah blah). this gave me an awful reputation, help?>>721640833

>>721643471
But I'm still helping others, is it ok to be like that?

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>>721643225
Alrighty thank you. I just fell into a bad trap, I was in a pretty dark place when I met her. Felt alone badly and I figured the needy kind of girl wouldn't hurt me considering I had all the free time in the world (moved to a new area so no friends or family nearby, met her and things seemed well) but that was a year ago and I guess I see what's happening. I think since I spoiled her attention wise in the early periods of dating she expects me to be there 24/7 and I feel like she's not only exhausting me but always makes me feel like I'm in the wrong. Consistantly reminding me how "I don't think I'm asking for much here" which I have no way of telling her that it's not that this one thing is alot to ask for but it's that it's the entire lot of small things that end up being a whole lot. The thing is she acknowledges how controlling she can be and it wrecks my heart to have to do this to her when I know she doesn't like being over emotional and oppressive. Gahh I'm fucked honestly lol

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>>721643481
...h-how much time do you need?

>>721643285
10/10 Booty. Elder Gods appeased.

>>721641642
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>>721642506
Damn thanks fam for the responses and positivity

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>>721643473

>>721643395
>It s-sounds like you should talk to a councilor or therapist; t-this is clearly still eating away at you.

probably goddammit.
Will consider. Thx for answering.

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>>721643515
N-no, you simply need to leave her.

Do what is best for you, Anonymous.

>>721643512
D-depends how you help them.


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>>721643285
So what do I do with my social anxiety?

>>721643604
Thanks for everything doc.

>>721643520
don't know, i never passed 2 weeks, it's just that i don't feel like is any different from friendship and so i break up. i think i can't just find a person that i'm intrested in. this makes me sadder than it should

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>>721643608
S-see a therapist about CBT.

>>721643585
M-my pleasure <4

>>721643639
It's my honor, Anonymous.

>>721643604
thanks for the words of advice.

>>721643515
>I have no way of telling her that it's not that this one thing is alot to ask for but it's that it's the entire lot of small things that end up being a whole lot.

I mean... LITERALLY that. Compromise and Communication are important parts of ANY healthy relationship.

Also gotta be able to know when you need to walk away for your own sanity.

>>721640833

this is a serious question:

i used to have sex with my sister but we dont have sex anymore. but now when i have sex with regular women (normal relationships) i cant cum with them and just give up.

what is wrong with me?

>>721643787
not OP but what's different about fucking other women? anything else other than it not being your sister?

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Should I get fucked by a couple of black guys?

>>721643901
if you want to, go for it.
also this is why I dont like going to the beach, fucking sand gets EVERYWHERE.

>>721643852
>anything else other than it not being your sister?

nothing different. just cant cum. with sister i always had to find a way to slow down or tell her to stop so i wouldnt cum too fast.

but with normal women i can have an erection whole time and not cum and just get tired. they cum but i cant.

>>721643992
Have you considered that you solely got off on the taboo?
Maybe try getting into some kinky shit next time, see if that helps?

>>721644090
this could be it he should try some other kinks to heighten the mood.

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>>721643749
That's what gets to me the most is that I know she cares. She truly does and no this isn't some cucked dumbass feeling cause I've watched her breakdown and cry about how much she hates herself cause she understands how crazy she can get and I'm just stuck because I love her, I truly do but I feel so depressed anymore that it's truly taking its toll on me. I normally would be the cold asshole who just ends things and move on but I fell in love which has never happened and now when I think it over I end up just rolling the thought of her being alone and depressed just like me and it stops me.

>>721640833
i have anxiety on extreme levels i can't even speak about feelings and stuff with a girl or some 1 i like... i'm like a stone my mouth don't even open

>>721640833
Hey anons i need some help :(

>>721644090
>the taboo?

yes i have always thought that was the case but thought maybe it could be something else and thats why i asked.

as far as kinky stuff i am not really into anything else. just got addicted to being with her i suppose.

>>721644090
What he said, I had a similar issue (Not sex wise but the inability to cum) because I have a huge anal fetish but never found a chick into it until later in my years. Until then I generally had to jerk off cause my fetish was so strong that normal sex seemed like foreplay.

>>721644233
I understand buddy. My life is also on hold because of this.

>>721641409
I did some weed at school and I drank since I can remember. Got blackout drunk aged about 14 or 15. Am I autistic?

>>721640833
i'm slowly falling into depression because of being poor as shit , can't afford to take a girl out for a date , etc.Also , can't work because of school , my parents are working , but we are in debt.How can i stop being upset and feeling like a shit all the time?

>>721643473
kek

>>721644353
My family is in a huge debt. We are Greek so I'm sure you can understand. I'm already really deep in depression for 3 years now.

>>721644179
Well, then you have to make the decision on which will suck more.
Constant, soul sucking, gut wrenching emotions?
Terrifying, lonely, breakup?
Personally, I'd go with the option that's less forever, unless you think she WILL change. Even then, that's a hell of a trap you can fall into.

Have you considered offering up an Ultimatum? "I can't handle this. For my own sanity, I need this to not be a thing. I'll do whatever I can to help us find somewhere we can BOTH be comfortable, but if we can't, then I can't do this" or something like that. Obviously write it yourself.

>>721644285
I mean, I'm not saying it can't be. I'd need more specifics to offer up a hunch. I just gave the simplest answer from what little information I had to go on. Do you know what it specifically was that got you off then that isn't the taboo?

>>721640833
Where are your credentials from and where is your practice?

when I was 14 I sent ass pics to pedos. Is this ok?

>>721644754
only if you're not caught

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>PSYCHOLOGIST
HAHAHAHAHA
OSAKA PLS FUCKIN' NO

>>721644568
>Do you know what it specifically was that got you off then that isn't the taboo?

i dont know. i never thought about that specific stuff when it was happening. i just liked being with her a lot and really enjoyed sex with her but i never thought about why. i even used to get erections before id even see her.

i only realized it messed me up when we stopped having sex and i started looking for other women and i couldnt enjoy sex with them.

She holds the psychology textbook high, then she lies, lies, lies

Post feet

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>Alice thread
wewlad

>>721644966
Well, I mean... Do you THINK it was the emotional aspect? That's the only alternative I can see, and I don't really know what to tell you, if that IS the case.

When are you going to kill yourself

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>>721640833
I wish to understand the general (archetypical) illusion formulas (there will obviously be a margin of error due to generalization over the entire human populace) required to perform various forms of biosynthesis via conscious will in relation to local activition in various parts of the body. Im sure youre aware that self awareness, that which gives us choice, allows us to choose what we do throughout the day, and that we may choose to alter ourselves via introspective meditation.

The locations include the subvascular portion of the brain (primarily amygdala), the convergent points of the vagus nerve that line the front of the body, and, humorously enough, the sacral portion of the spinal cord.

Thank you for your assistance.

Faggot.

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>>721645327
A bit rude tbh

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Is this even Alice? Dunno, pretending to be that whore is even more sad. Anyway, if you are so desperate to take advice from a weeaboo stuttercunt you really should kill yourself.

Op what's it like to be a cross dressing homosexual with attention issues?

>>721640833 OP
I like to dress my dog up to look like my sister. I use her clothes, her shoes, her make up, her perfume and I have a wig that looks just like her hair. Once my dog is dressed up, I fuck it.
My question is, am I into incest or beastiality?

>>721645661
Yes

>>721645471
If you cant do that, anime sama, then giving me a list of the results of the molecular products of electromagnetic stimulation in those regions, not including trace animes unless youre into that.

>>721641805
Try to stop drinking anything with caffeine during the day. Too much caffeine can cause you to wake up at night like that. You may not need a fake psychologist at all.

>>721645879
The line between fake psychologists and most real ones is pretty trivial tbh. At least the ones doing active therapeautic work in the community as opposed to primarily performing research.

Hi, well, I have a problem with my ex girlfriend. For a long time we have been talking very well, but when we are in public she always makes jokes about me, and I don't know what to do, can u help me telling me what to do?

>>721641087

kill your co-worker, then he doesn't have to see his dad die

>>721641042

stop being friends with op

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o hai...

>>721642416
>NLP
>Completely disproven

Is that what your book said?

Its well known that psychology is a field that must be strictly controlled by anyone with any sense of global influence as it is capable of showing people how powerful and how capable they really are, and if you automatically reject conspiracies theories, as i assume you will, I want you to realize that there have been several old conspiracies that were declassified (declassified means they admitted it btw, read some files myself) by many organizations, and that there is close to no reason as to why they would not be happening to this day. Im not asserting deductively that conspiracies in the medical community are happening. Im asserting that there is a probable possibility that they are and closing ones mind off to possibilities like that is unreasonable. Instead of accepting just what you read in your books, you should attempt to explore the field yourself using logic (both with and without emotion to create comparisons and discover biases) and your own research. If your mind automatically rejects something out of an emotional response or because someone else said so, your mind is falling to the logical fallacies of emotion and authority, which i believe you have done quite a bit after my brief observations of you. Its best not to ignore seemingly improbable logical facts out of a sense of reason as its a very subtle way to build up psychological biases over time. Think for yourself faggot. Stop trusting shit just because you read it. Test it yourself. Hypnotherapy is good shit.

Also
>close minded psychologist

This is why our community sucks and why many people dont trust us. Half of us are full of shit.

What happens to males that grow up without fathers or male role models?

>>721647738
They suffer from an ingrained sense of unconscious/conscious abandonment which could form in a variety of ways depending on your life history. Generally it leads to longstanding issues toward authority that must be dealt with later on. However, again, it could form in many ways, another example being the bullshit that happens when a male rejects his masculinity to regain a sense of control over his life, in turn becoming a mommas boy. I believe many of the transtrender cases we have now are results of this, compounded on top of the xenoestrogens and a culture that glorifies that sort of behavior because "muh altruism".

>>721640833
Ok help me shrink.
> be me 23 y/o.
>living with mom and uncle
> Mom is literally the definition of control freak and i am completely opposite.
>Keeps pestering me endlessly, honestly some times i really hold back not to punch her in the face or slap her.
>its not even the get a job etc bullshit, i study medicine and i am a good student she is just too intrusive, wants to control every aspect of my life
> i live in a shithole so i cant fucking get a job to earn enough to move out and i REALLY want to move the fuck out.
Wat do doc? can i influence her to shut the fuck up or am i just gonna suffer until i finish studies and finally find a job to get out of this festering shithole of a home?

>>721647738
A male role model is the most important figure in any family for both a male or female child. THAT'S why they are destroying the father figure and family unit on purpose. female children with a father figure are stable and normal, veeeerry rarely turn into whores etc you see today, while male children with a father figure grow stronger and success oriented. So the father figure is the most important thing WE need to keep.

>>721650052
Its best to manipulate her for now and then restore any sort of rapport damage that occurs after youve moved out. Manipulation advice will require a profile of your mother.

>>721650279
Youre projecting slightly. Youre right, but you seem to fail to understand the importance of the mother as well. The mother brings comfort, recovery, and feminine maturity, while the father brings self control, experience of adventure, and masculine maturity. Sadly, these things only occur when both parents are mature people. Illness breeds illness.

>>721647738
>>721640833
What about males that grow up without mothers?

Why do I obcess over wanting to see my wife fucked by other guys?

>>721640833
I thought i was a sociopath for the longest time because i lack empathy and i get legitimate joy from seeing others in pain and i need stimulus in order to feel any emotion. However when i met my wife i feel empathy strongly for only her and have fallen deeply in love. She is the exact same way and this is confusing to us both

>>721640833

ok well just so happens i got something

i have a friend who believes he's god. he has schizophrenia. tried to explain to him that he's just insane and that most schizo's believe the same thing but he keeps bugging me with that retard shit. his skype ID is "john.mcniggin" he also does a lot of drugs and likes to hit his cat with his cock, no joke.

what can i do to help him?

>>721650652
ok here goes my mother's profile:
She is a control freak, she loves to work and she is jobless atm. She can't go one minute without working or worrying about something its crazy.
Since she has no work now ALL her attention is concentrated on me and she finds something wrong in everything i do. It's bringing me down and i dont want to feel like shit in my own home honestly. Specially because she's a woman and i will not have my male pride get ridiculed by a female, yeah it sounds sexist but i dont give a shit, i demand respect.

>>721650794
They tend to become attached to concepts like order to maintain a sense of safety. These individuals, if taken to extreme, become tyrannical.

Order v Chaos
Excess Order - Missing Mother
Lack of Order - Missing Father

This is a generalization over an ideal populace, so dont forget to take other extenuating factors into consideration.

Also, fagboy left a while ago because hes an attention whore who fills the hole of insecurity within himself by altering his identity to something he can tolerate/appreciate: a cross-dressing therapist with more knowledge than others. He probably has some sort of issue with his childhood and parents too.

>>721651135
i'm seriously on the edge of beating the shit out of her but i dont because i know how the law reacts to that. What everyone always fails to mention is how much MENTAL TORTURE males endure from women all the time and when we snap its suddenly our fault.

>>721640833

everytime i see an attractive girl, or a bunch of people having fun, i get furious and feel worthless. how do i get over this inferiority complex?

>>721640833
what to do with a narcissist father

>>721651135
Does she seem rather cold and unloving? Whats her history? Any trauma? Whats your genetic lineage (its not racist faggot. there are medical differences between races, like how african americans require more vitamin D, so medical history would be great compounded on this sort of thing)? What is a day with her generally like? Is there a sense of belonging and closeness between you despite any sort of negative interaction? What of the uncle? A household is an ecosystem, so the entire system should be explained for the best advice. However, that would take up too much time.

Given what I have now, i suggest diversion. Since shes very vulnerable to anxiety and order, its best to create a problem for her somewhere else that shell have to deal with to take up her time.

>>721651360
What youre probably experiencing is jealousy, and that is often cured by clearing out any sort of faulty belief that theyre better than you overall. Meditate a bit. Once youre done diggin in your mind, if you discover that theyre truly not better than you, you can move on. If you find out that you are, you have to bite the bullet, swallow your pride, and get good. Sometimes we lose man.

>>721651723
Nope she is actually overly loving, deathly afraid that something bad will happen to me. No traumas that i know of, I am White/caucasian. A day with her is i wake up, she yells the shit at me for random stuff like open your room window its stuffy in there, when i go out its like who/what/where are you going etc even though i'm 23 years old. Uncle sees it too, she verbally attacks him too but he leaves home everyday to see friends to avoid her i guess. I started doing that also but i dont have my own money yet so its really hard to maintain that lifestyle. I love my mom tbh, she raised me and cared for me, had me while she was still in college, sacrificed a lot of her young life to raise me but we simply cannot function together. My dad and i on the other hand get along fine since i am his spiting image both mentally and in looks, but he has a new wife and i cant live with him.

I love to hate. I grew up on 4chan and i can never leave. How does one leave?

I have social anxiety crippling depression, and now psychosis. How do I fix. I'm going to kill myself on saturady if hypnotherapy doesn't work

>>721641335
Why do you keep doing this- "C-check" or "T-this"?

>>721652211
Ah, the other end. Shes a helicopter parent.
You can do it the easy way, which involves saving your own hide, or the hard way, which means youll be curing her anxiety.

The easy way is the diversion tactic. Find something shes heavily attached to and covertly fuck with it. The goal is to get her mind off of you which is already difficult. Also, you might want to let her know that shes smothering you and flip it in a way that lets her know that the more she does so, the less functional youll be, the more youll continue to exhibit unsatisfactory behavior, and the more likely something bad will happen to you.

>>721652211
oh yeah one more thing to mention which really is important and the reason while i feel so distant towards her. She always used to say she wanted a girl and not a boy and whenever i got in to fights when i was little its always the: "why werent you a girl" bullshit... I see that she loves me but at the same time i see her disapointment just because i am male and because i look and act like my father , like its supposed to be bad i resemble my father? NO FUCK YOU.

>>721652627
No one can leave. Ive been here for a little less than a decade. The ride never ends faggot.

>>721652685
Shits not that simple. If you give me a simple profile, youll get a simple response. Hypnotherapy will do fine if your therapist can manage your depression. Also, whether you like it or not, youre going to have to go through some major personality restructuring, so clinging to yourself and worrying about being changed is retarded. If you have social anxiety/depression, chances are you dont like you. Use the hypnotherapy as a metamorphic tool.

>>721652717
Because hes a sperg.

>>721652744
i tried a million times to talk to her, explained my views and everything but she's a stubborn asshole. She thinks she knows absolutely everything about life even though not only me, but many people told her differently. I actually told her at one point to give up i will never change who i am or what i do with my life but she STILL doesn't give up.
So what do you mean by find something she's attached to and fuck with it?

>>721652948
What you mean by simple. I shud give symptoms or something

How do I stop being so lazy

>>721640833
Im taking alcohol counciling, so I haven't drank or smoked weed in 6 weeks. I feel autistic around people. I know everyone is supposedly on the spectrum but I didn't used to feel this awkward around people in high school and stuff.
Wat do?

I practically live in the past because that's all I think about ever
And not because i made some mistakes, but because I can't enjoy present.

I feel good only when i think about things that have already passed which in turn means im never really happy, why

>>721640833
Psychologist student-fag here.
The college got me so depressed and hopeless about the future.
Why? I did my best and the results were good at almost exams.
I have very good grades except anatomy of the brain which got me fucked up.
I want to drop out...help ?
I just cannot remember this, I can't pass this exam no matter how much I try

>>721652800
Ha, so i did pick up on something. Your mother is using her child to fill the void in her life and you know it at least unconsciously. However, you werent the perfect being she wanted you to be (which is impossible), so shes projecting her disappointment onto you to make it your fault so she doesnt have to deal with her own issues by trying to make sure youre as good as you can be in HER eyes. Its the same reason why shes a workaholic, and likely a perfectionist.

Many mothers have children to fill the void within themselves often guising it as "i want you to have the life i didnt have". These women suffer from covert narcissism. Its probably part of the reason your father left, so dont feel bad. Much of the suffering youre feeling is your mother pushing her issues onto you unconsciously even she probably means well.

You can see this sort of thing when you study cross generational transference. Fucked parents make fucked kids. Semi fucked parents make semi fucked kids. Rise above her maturely and your kids wont suffer the same fate.

>>721651245
I dont see myself as a tyrannical, safety person that cant excess order enough. i was a momma's when i grew up without doubt. its been around 5 years since she passed away. i do miss her much. But i have carried on now. Not depressed anymore. ive got alot of great friends. but i still feel like im missing something.

>>721640833
nowadays i cant keep focus on present i always have racing thoughts
whats wrong with me op

>>721653056
More data means more results. Anything you think would be useful.

>>721653138
Get into a fight, support trump in a public liberal setting etc. Do anything you wouldnt normally do that will cause a shock of stimulation because your body craves some form of excitement.

Once your system is shocked, make a habit out of exciting yourself every day. Just dont go too far or youll become manic. Once youve gotten a higher degree of baseline stimulation running in your system, you must sublimate that energy toward whatever you want.

Thats it.

>>721653247
Honestly? The best bet is to just get out there more. It seems like a fucking cliche, but a combination of experience and meditation, particularly the visual component, seems to do wonders socially. The key, i believe, for you will be to make sure to nurse your social wounds after any sort of negative event to make sure it doesnt get you down. Work on any sort of shame that will pop up with someone you can connect with that wont pass judgment on your fuck up.

>>721653312
It sounds like you have to grieve. There may be a sense of loss that you refuse to overcome because youre still attached to those events. That or escapism (or a combination of the two) as a way of not facing any fears you are currently having (those fears may be causing the depression). Thats my best bet with the little bit of information you have given me. Gotta move on.

>>721653434
Sounds like einstellung esque memory rejection due to some sort of belief youre not aware of. Youll have to introspect and root out the exact cause thats doing the blocking.

>>721640833
No motivation to do anything really after a real fucking tough few years, any ideas on how to remotivate myself?

>>721653742
As i stated, its over an ideal populace. Its nearly impossible for me to give you accurate and precise advice because there are a million or so variables that i cant even begin to perceive on your end like body language and tone inclination. Due to this, i can only really operate with inductive logic/trends in the majority of human behavior. Its makes it quite difficult for me to not project. However, im tracking most of my biases at the moment to keep them in balanced check.

Furthermore, our perception of ourselves contains only a very small portion of a an individuals psychology, so although one may see themselves one way, everyone else sees them in another. The disparity gets larger the more narcissistic/psychotic someone becomes.

However, you seem rather healthy. I dont understand why youre asking in the first place.

>>721653453
Oh i guarantee my father left because of it lol, i said to myself a million times: " no wonder father left you" but never had the heart to say it to her face, i dont want to hurt her. I think you are right she always mentions how she had a shit life and i somehow have everything now. I would never do this to my children, i actually want to make them have complete freedom because of this torture just as long as they dont hurt themselves physically. How do i cope with this though? I mean imagine waking up great and fine full of confidence just to have someone strike you down, it's really making me crazy. I actually didnt have a girlfriend until 20 years old, i had trouble with confidence and trying to be male, used to get into fights with other males all the time to "prove myself". I had to learn on my own, took my uncle as a role model and let friendships make me grow in to a person. I had a couple of gf's since then and now i am a stable and complete male lol which is exactly why i want to leave this toxic environment ASAP.

>>721654312
Alright here are my symptoms
World doesn't feel real. One morning I woke up and room started spinning and I couldn't understand what the television was. the world feels foreign to me like I'm seeing it for the first time and that I don't understand it.I cannot understand language. Thoughts not as logical. I have a mental blockage or brain fog. Thoughts are disorganized i think like I cant focus on one topic. Harder to make decisions. Feels like I cannot control my thoughts and that my mind is foreign to me. Feels like language and words are like semantic satiation.

Social Anxiety and Fear
Idk what the fk is wrong with me. I seem to be afraid of the entire world. I can't even watch scary movies or play scary video games. I repeat the same habits everyday for the past 7 years. I have no friends, no social life, and I don't leave my room unless necessary. i'm afraid of interacting with people and won't converse with people unless I have no choice. I can't even order food on the phone. I'm terrified of talking to people on the phone or text messaging them.

I have live in a 1 bedroom apartment with mom 2 siblings and her boyfriend. My father is in prison since I was born for murder. We have no money and I can't move out get a job because of my social anxiety. I'm now taking a leave of absence from school because I can't focus on shit and my life seems to be crashing and burning each second of my existence. Doctors keep telling me I'm depressed but I don't feel sadness. I'm running out of options and I don't know what to do anymore but, hypnotherapy. How much of my problems can hypnotherapy fix

Shit, this has been happening to me for a couple years now. I never used to be that fucked but I'm starting to realize what a colossal failure I am at life. Literally everything I've done, I've failed at.

>School
Dropped out of college, like, 5 times and switched majors about as many until finally completing.
>Love Life
Been cheated on by nearly every woman I've ever been with. Married twice. Both ended in divorce.
>Career
This is a big one. I trace my current state directly to it.

1. Manager at guitar store
Things were going fine until a new boss stepped in and started applying way too much pressure on us as salesmen, even though I was finishing in the Top 5 of my store more often than not. Created a very tense atmosphere and killed the party vibe. Got increasingly more uncomfortable until I quit because I thought I was going to get fired.

2. Office Manager/Paralegal - Law Firm
Worked there for several years. Did EVERYTHING for the boss. The guy was a complete scumbag. Ran the place like a mill. Didn't know anything about his clients. Sent everything to me. After 3 years, I found out he was paying the receptionist more money than me so I figured this was a dead end and quit.

3. Self-Employed - Comic Book Store
Bought into comic shop after selling my home and moving. Partner ran business into the ground and ripped me off for ~50k

4. Educator - University
Got seemingly great gig teaching creative writing at a university. Increased responsibilities with promise of raise. Promoted with promise of pay increase once a "hiring freeze" was over and new salaries could be approved. Led on for 3.5 years. Meanwhile, Department Chair got butthurt because a teacher he wanted to bone was into me. She rejected him and he fast-tracked me into 3 bullshit write-ups in as many months and terminated.

Now I'm studying for yet another career change. One that sounds absolutely dreadful and I have no doubt I'll be shitty at.

I want to kill myself, Alice. Help.

>>721654312
>>721653312
Nothing in my life would require me to escape, no fears either, only loneliness, otherwise its pretty stale

It's just that it's impossible for me to enjoy the current moment. I can spend a day doing things I don't like and in the future I look back to them and think how good it was

It's a bit like present doesn't exist for me, just slightly delayed past

>>721653453
>>721654816
oh yeah and you pinpointed the problem exactly. You are actually really good at this mate, thanks for answering.

>>721640833
Does she love me , OP? Does she really?

any suggestions on how to kill myself?

fuck off pleb

>>721640833
I have been bullied nearly half of my life, I don't have any friends irl, and I pretend that anons are my friends online. I suffer crippling depression and anxiety problems. I leave my house 3 times a month at max. I think about killing myself everyday, but Im too much pussy to do it anyway. I am sorry for my parents that their only child is degenerate brokem fuck that really should die for their sake. I have no job, no interests, no work, no skills. I have already given up and spend my life in bed watching cartoons and youtube. I am never happy, and probabl never was. I sometimes laugh, but I think its habit just like posting emotes. Its a kind of reaction, but nothing deeper to that. I was consulting 2 psychiatrists, and many other docs. I was taking pills and stuff, but nothing helped. I wanted to say that nobody deserves that, but you would probably manage to fight yout fears and problems. Just be thankful to your parents, friends, gfs and other that they are here for you, and thank the maker or whatever you believe in that you are not such a miserable cunt as me. I have already given up, because I do not have and ever had anything to fight for. I do not seek help. Just be thankful to others, and even if your face can't smile, smile with your heart, memories and dreams. Thanks for everyone who dared to read that. I probably haven't totally lost my mind because of you.

Mr. Psychologist what is the point of making this thread? What do you want to achieve?

>>721655364
what. are you a boy or a girl? how old are you? do you have any moles on your face or neck? i didnt read all of that but, before i have to go to class, respond and we can exchange some dialogue anon. stay away from psychiatrists and meds, and why dont you beat those people up? if theyve wronged you greatly enough it wouldnt even be dishonorable for you to ambush them

>>721654081
Only after weve lost everything are we free to do anything. Consider that on a smaller scale. Positive possibility brings motivation.

>>721654816
I relate to you more than you think, i believe. My mother was a covert narcissist like yours, however, mine was cold, absent, and punitive unless i did well enough.

Honestly, its best to just remove the mother label from her from time to time and see her for who she really is: A child. If youre mature enough, you should feel a sense of pathetic compassion for her which will help dispose a large portion of the irritation and frustration you experience. Its a pain in the ass because children shouldnt have to actually raise their parent, but deep down, she needs help and the only one really stopping her from getting help is herself. Its a sad predicament i personally see quite often.

Also, calling someone out isnt always a bad thing if you do it right. Shell try to project all the blame on you if you do it in an attempt to protect herself, but its probably best to break through it and shatter her by cracking open her foundations (sense of family worth and history probably). Just make sure that if you do break her, you comfort her and give her the love shes needed for decades. Otherwise, she will get FAR worse.

Also, study up on manipulation tactics. Shell attempt then.

>>721655487
he/she is probably just practicing his/her skills. Oh and giving us all free sessions which is kinda great if you think about it.

>>721655604
)memetext doesnt know who alice is

>>721655520
Just an average guy.. I'm 19 now, moles nah and the bullying stopped for the most part when i left Uni, but now i'm just a low-life fuck that cant do anything but sit in his room

>>721655014
dont be a pussy dude. treat women more assertively they clearly dont respect you?

>>721655763
youre emo then.. you just need to get high or fight somebody or do something. you probably dont feel depressed all the time, it comes and goes? sometimes you dont even remember why you felt depressed? change your life dude youre so young

>>721655562
Well thanks for everything my friend i will do the best i can! You really picked your profession well and i am glad i stumbled upon this thread. Thanks again mate!

>>721655604
>>721655487
oohhh thx for the info
so what would Mr. Psychologist say about someone with controll tichs who also not so long ago lost her mother and uses this excuse in every argument she has?
also cant be alone in the house for the night/evening?

appreciate an opinion m8s

>>721640833
How was your day, friend?

>>721655793
Clearly, but I've always been pretty assertive.

What (I think) happens with me is that I tend to project this kinda "bad boy" image but besides the fact that I used to take drugs and play in a band I'm pretty vanilla. I know that sounds fucking hilarious and everything but I used to be a good-looking hipster-type. I'm in my 40s now so well-past my glory days. But, yeah, I think I'd attract girls who were looking for a party boy, think for a minute they got one "with a heart of gold" then realize that they don't really want anything other than someone to bang.

Meanwhile, I thought I could turn a ho into a housewife. Fucking retarded logic.

The girl shit doesn't even bother me anymore. It's mainly not being financially secure. I feel like a real loser because of it.

>>721654081
Meditate

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>>721655070
Thanks. Im glad i can help. Truth is, i actually started commenting in this thread to show everyone how retarded trap psychologist is. Ive had discussions with him myself, and he refuses to acknowledge certain abstract fundamental aspects of human psychology and i dont want him hurting others to make himself feel better. It seems he fell into the absolute physical-ism trap.

>>721655046
You seem anhedonic. Excess pessimism. Listen to your animal instincts and make sure your conscience isnt overbearing. Your best bet is to do something you find exciting, and fuck everyone else, within reason. Your life seems too easy for you.

>>721654942
Oh man, psychosis. The fun region where everything becomes controversial. Okay, so, in order to deal with psychosis, youll need a logic filter to make sure your functions arent over generalizing. This will allow you to use language to maintain a connection between your world and the world everyone else perceives because our language defines how we think. Most words ARE used as a form of semantic satiation. Theyre a flawed information packaging system that your psychosis will show you more about. Ive had experience with and overcame psychosis myself, so realize that there are other beings out there like you. Our stories are all slightly different, yet we all converge at the same point, so do your best to take solace in that.

In your case, i suggest learning the physical reasons why youre experiencing all of these things, including the brainfog, and then overlaying that objective data with metaphysical abstracts to allow your mind to internalize them properly. Your mind is rejecting discrete objects for a perception of the universe with more flow: waves/continuity.

There are plenty of cures. Just know that your psychosis is trying to teach you something, and only when you learn can you truly be free of it.

-Binaural beats
-Medication
-Interoceptive Analysis
-Meditation
-Etc.

Psychosis is real, but not like Reality is.

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I am not happy with myself, psychologist.

Pic related.

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You are a sneaky avatarfag.

Sister tried to kill herself with benzos and prozac, prozac counteracted benzos and she was fine. What do we do with her?

>>721655014
Alice isnt here m8. The other guy is sort of right. It sounds like you needs to let a little of your dark slip in to balance out how much good youve done. Trust me, its not as bad as it sounds. Its really just means that you should take care of yourself over others a bit more because you keep letting the world fuck you. Youre actually not doing that bad. You just need to trim off the bit of conscience thats causing you to give the people who fuck you over some sort of leeway. Balance is key though. Dont go too far.

Without exercising your own strength, you risk the pain and suffering of yourself and those you love at the hands of someone else and if you allow that to happen after reading this, its your own fault.

>>721655254
The world is your oyster. If youre willing to die you can go out and do whatever you want because what are they going to do? Kill you?

>>721655218
Maybe but probably not. Love for others and narcissism dont go together, and were suffering from a collective narcissistic epidemic at this point in time. Tread carefully.

>>721655364
Youre not being your true self because others have abused you and thus subsequently became able to control you. Youre only a mask of who you really are in order to please those you interact with throughout your life despite how much they dont care for you (they care for the mask, the personality you put on). Your real self is probably repressed to all fuck because of your excessive self loathing, and you have to realize that buried in your unconscious is the real you, and the only way to retrieve it is to give into some degree of selfish behavior, even if it means changing yourself. Hell you already did for the sake of other so it shouldnt be too hard, unless of course you still believe that theyre right despite the fact that most if not all of them are unaware of or dont care about your suffering.

Its okay to be selfish as long as its bound by reason.

>>721655604
Im not her but i am here to practice.

>>721657993
When did I say anything about narcissism ?

>>721657993
>Alice isn't here m8
Story of my life, fam.

What you're saying resonates. I think I have somehow unwittingly posted a welcome mat on my ass along the way here. I did try to assert myself at times but when you're not in a position of power, I don't really know how to do it.

At my last employer, where the Department Chair was a sleazebag, I actually had incredible dirt on the man but was never sure how to use it as leverage.

>>721655889
Honestly, i dont have a degree. They kicked me out of college because i wasnt politically correct enough for them and i refused to acquiesce to their demands because i feel and think that their policies are what is contributing to the destruction of the psychological communities data and reputation, and subsequently society as a whole. Im glad i could help you though.

>>721656001
Control tichs? Ill need you to restructure your wording so i may understand it better.

>>721656301
Its okay. I still need to spend time running statistics on the stock market though. You guys are taking a lot of my time, but i think its worth the practice.

>>721657271
Im sorry. I wish i could give you the help and love you need.

>>721657911
Do your best to truly get to know her emotions, thoughts, dreams/desires, and personality in order to find out why she really tried to kill herself. Drugs are a temporarily solution on par with emotional suppression and repression which only causes things to get worse over the long term. Also, try to uh... you know... try not to let her commit suicide again.

>>721656393
Underrated

>>721658786


>Control tichs? Ill need you to restructure your wording so i may understand it better.

so controll ticks* she has to check if the the oven is off// she looks at all the off switches for like 10 mins then she looks at each door for 3-5 mins if they are closed aso. she lost her mother in oct. 2016 still uses that reasoning for everything and anything.

>>721658350
You didnt. I stated that probabilistically she probably doesnt love you due to the psychometrics of western and european society at the given moment. The younger generations suffer from a large degree of narcissism, so given random chance on whether someone loves you or not, probably not.

Do you feel you suffer from narcissism?

>>721658650
You may have. What youre dealing with is something a lot of us deal with i believe. The most powerful people have a tendency to be psychopathic so they WILL try to use you like that if they sense that youd accept it. They specifically put themselves in positions where people cant fuck with them so people like you can deal with the brunt of the emotional and often times other forms of damage. Given your situation and your age (i believe you were the 40 year old?), you really need practical advice because youre reacting the way a healthy person within our culture would. I think you really just need your sense of power and independence back in your life and things will get much better, and doing that is much more difficult because our socio-politico-economic system is really fucked up. Play the game until you get the power to detach and reassert yourself. Best I have for you. Im a shit.

You are so full of shit OP, that's why you didn't answer the first question in this thread. Some fucking fag taking classes in community college probably.

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>>721640833
whens the next stream

>>721659433
Well im pretty sure that she doesnt suffer from narcissism , neither do I ,so any other possibilities ?

Hello serious question here.

>be me
>broke family
>share laptop with bro
>very cheap
>aspire e 15, e5-521-64yb
>hard drive failing probably because 24 hours a day download
>now depressed as fuck
>online exam in march
>very important exam for sponsored college and guarantee job
>no laptop to use
>can't kill myself because family relies on me
>also not gonna leave my cat, dog and two fish

>>721659149
Ah. Symptoms of OCD. Anxiety. Honestly, I primarily work with cluster B/A personalities who tend not to exhibit behaviors related to extreme anxiety in that form, so my words are probably going to be sub par. She deeply desires for someone to care for her because shes terrified (either conscious or unconscious). Shes probably dealing with grief and trauma that hasnt been treated appropriately and this is her way of dealing with the excessive fear. I think shes semi aware of her problems at least, but may be outright refusing to confront them because theyre too painful and thus makes excuses like her mothers death to avoid them (although its still a valid reason). Is she the type to complain of her emotional issues and then expect someone else to deal with them?

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>>721642338
Alice tells me that my doctor prescribed me an SNRI. Turned out to be what I needed, but that it wasn't a "first defense" medication but a rather advanced one.
Was my doctor a little quick to prescribe it? Who knows.
-Koi

Hey Alice!

>>721640833
I still dream about my failed and biggest dream to attend high school in Japan.
I probably still can, but the public eye will most likely frown upon it. It's not normal that a 22 year old foreigner attends high school and hangs out with 16 year olds. And I don't disagree with it.
All I want is jut have a fun student life.
I know what I can do in the future. But I can't stop thinking about the past.
I worked on it for 5 years from when I was 16 to 21. That's when I gave up.
It sounds idiotic,cringy for most. But it was my biggest dream and I can't get over it.
Yet I'm still aware that I will move further into the adulthood even if I want it or not. But my heart and mind still haven't haven't changed since then. I want to go out and do stupid shit with people in my age. But It's kinda hard when you don't have anyone.
ah shit.

>>721641805
Do you also feel sleepy doing the day? Or is it just waking up at night?

>>721659769
How am i supposed to know when i dont know anything about anything about your situation? I have no idea who you or your lover is, so theres absolutely no way for me to accurately say anything on the matter. There are an infinite number of reasons why she may not love you and an infinite number of reasons why she may.

>>721660028
So. Whats the question?

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>>721640833
Let me ask u a question is it tie for yor medication or mine.
?

>>721654815
Neither do i man. its just one of those days where you question everything. I know you cant help me Completely, but im thankful for what you've told me so far anon.

what's the difference between social anxiety, autism and asperger's? could you give me some symptoms? whats the process for doing a diagnosis test do i just ask my gp? thanks

>>721642354
There should be a reliable empathy test to give you an indication. Definitely talk to your doctor about it.

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>>721660832
Autism and Aspergers are two very different mental disorders. I cannot describe the differences however.
Social Anxiety can be an aspect of both, it's normally being afraid of being in a social situation; amongst other people.
You could talk to your doctor, but you mightn't be taken seriously without someone else asking for you.

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>>721640833
I am Jason Tatom Op...
MIJ?

>>721660396
Youll probably run into more trouble than its worth to follow through with that, but you dont need to entirely give up on it. It would probably be best for you to sublimate those feelings into some sort of artistic passion that reveals the beauty of the dream you have in your mind. Chances are, those ideas cause you to feel a sense of love and beauty, and if we cant achieve those dreams practically, its best to perform them artistically.

Not trying to crush your dreams. Just asserting that it will give you more trouble than its worth if youre going to go the creep stigma route. Not saying youre a creep. Im saying many will think it if you do this.

>>721660219
A nervous one, eh?

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>>721661096
Nervous? Why do you claim so?
-Koi

>>721640833
Why does i always want to be alone ? I don't like people and i'm afraid of been unable to make the conversation still alive.

I mean, when i have to talk to someone (someone i know for example) i am afraid to not know what to say

>>721661063
i have no one to ask for me, if you dont mind answering another question how can i politely tell someone i just want to be left on my own and not talk? i cant hide my emotions and people seem to catch on to the fact i dont want to be in this situation and get offended /pissed off with me

>>721661065
How can I say my name on 4chan and ask peoe to shot at me on site tere are clones trying to replace me please try and kill me by shooting at me to make sure im not a clone your guns should still work on those bastards but they wont work on me if they aint working then u need to tell me so i can fix evertthing if tere is a problem...
MIJ?
Mission. Impossible Operator God Jason Westley Christopher Tatom have a nice day peace and love.

>>721661358
If other people can't get the hint, that's not on you.
They should not and can not get upset at you if you tell them to leave you alone. If they DO get upset, just avoid them in the future.

>>721661063
i wouldnt say im afraid of social situations i just really dont want to be in them and dont excel in social rules. i despise small talk and if im left alone in a room with someone will purposely not say anything and give one word answers unless theres something i can get from them

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>>721641037
I don't like your kind of psychology. I want to talk with Hillary's psychologist now.

>>721661491
ok cheers will do

>>721640833
Why do I always feel so sad?
Nothing I do cheers me up, even stuff I once loved like video games, and drawing do nothing for me anymore.

>>721659508
this

>>721659433
>where people cant fuck with them so people like you can deal with the brunt of the emotional and often times other forms of damage. Given your situation and your age (i believe you were the 40 year old?), you really need practical advice because youre reacting the way a healthy person within our culture would.
I really appreciate these words, man. I never used to perceive myself as incapable and now I just feel kinda lost. I really appreciate the perspective. Thank you.

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>>721640833
Well i dont post on reddit at all never have never will... So if someone is impersonating me please shoot them...
Jason Westley Tatom- MIJ

>>721661610
H-have you tried m-mass murder? That usually ch-cheers me up … a-and just l-look what it's done for M-Mr Trump!

>>721660690
Its no problem. I wish i could.

>>721660832
Aspergers is basically high functioning autism, although the way they argue over diagnostics is a bit of a waste of time given the time wasted in comparison with projected treatment efficacy because mental disorders arent completely objective things like viruses or bacterium. Theyre mainly just pigeonholes to help us understand the individual quickly, like short hand writing.

Aspergers is high functioning autism (its diet autism making it pretty different), social anxiety is something that is often tethered to autism but stands on its own as the social result of a temperamental disorder (fear), and autism is basically the neurological basis for autistic behavior you see on imageboards: impaired social interaction, poor verbal and non-verbal communication, and semi retarded and repetitive behavior, basically. It goes much deeper than that, but i dont specialize in autism (i should considering how long ive visited this site though).

Visit the autism speaks website.

Yes, you ask your doctor. They love diagnosing. It rakes in the funding.

>>721660957
He needs more. There are several disorders that suffer from piss poor empathy.

>>721661065
ayyy lmao

>>721661996
Stupid of me to come to 4chan for a serious answer anyways

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>>721662113
As serious as a SEAL team attack.

>>721661096
Yes that's what I think too. Even my classmates may be like ''Why do we have a 6 year older dude here?''
But my dream has already been crushed 2 years ago.
It may be possible for me to do it still (I know of a school that takes in foreigners that above the age of 15 to spend a year to prepare for the entrance exam). But to be really realistic, I most likely won't experience it and check off the first thing in my bucket list.
I know what I can do as an adult there. But my biggest dream still lingers around which still bothers me.

But thank you for replying good anon.

>>721661161
You take an SNRI. Norepinephrine and serotonin reuptake. You suffer from depression and anxiety, perhaps more.

>>721661306
You answered at least part of your own question. Youre fearful of others judgment, probably because youre insecure and think theyre better than you or at least think that they think theyre better than you, which may be a form of projection. Maybe not though. Still not enough data.

>>721661358
Its best to just directly tell them if theyre unaware of it. Blaming them secretly like the other anon said and avoiding them will not help you solve your problems. Its only a delay until you run into this same sort of problem again. I wish i knew more about your case so i could give you solid advice, but its probably best to just tell them directly. Now, if you find out that theyre continuing to harass you AFTER youve made sure that theyre aware of what theyre doing, then its best to avoid them.

>>721661610
Probably because youre not pursuing what you want to pursue. Leave your safety bubble. Again, less data in, less data out.

>>721661950
I really shouldnt be the one saying it, but sometimes its okay to be the healthy person in a sick society. Tensions have been rising for a while and its driving everyone nuts. I wish you the best of luck.

>>721661996
If only it didnt have so much blowback.

>>721662480
That dream is inspiration. Dont let it go to waste, amigo. I get a gut feeling that studying the processes of emotional sublimation will really help you. You may not achieve THAT specific dream, but theres one right behind it thats even greater and more glorious. Dont give up. Never give up on your dreams. Just recalibrate.

>>721661976
fuk ur mems fagt

>>721663150
I'll keep on trying
Thanks a million

Joined the military to find a bullet, then my family isn't sad I suicided and my wife can get medical care she needs to live for cheap. 15 years later I'm a war hero for suicidal bravery and composure under enemy fire. 8 combat tours and now I'm the top man in my battalion holding everything down while dying a little inside. Stupid wife is all fixed, stupid family is always doing nice stuff for me, and I've never felt more alone. Does this ever get better, is there a magic pill I can take. Seeing a shrink would put everyone else in a bad spot and eating a gun would do the same and add a PowerPoint slide for the monthly don't kill yourself lecture (yes quarterly requirement, monthly showing in the theater guess whose in charge, just like the sharp and asap bullshit)

when i was a kid i had repetitive nightmares of the same stuff. one lasted for about two years and involved me being shredded apart and brutally killed by my childhood cat, each dream id get a little bit more up the stairs and closer to my mother and when i finally reached her and told her what was happening i never had those dreams again. another one lasted for about 3 years and in it i was in a nightmare version of my neighbourhood where thered be vicious dogs that want to eat me roaming the place and snipers in windows trying to kill me, once i made it to my house in that dream and barricaded myself in the dreams stopped.

any explanation for this?

>>721640833
OP ok, I have a crippling fear of rejection and I can't ask a girl out I'm 25 yo.
I have a steady job and my own apartment.I feel uncomfortable in crowds, small group of ppl is OK.

What do?

>>721640833
i met a really cute guy. he says he's a cuckold and wants me to cheat on him and will never let me fuck him.

how can i make him normal? i dont want a cuck.

>>721663864
once a cuck always a cuck.
quit while youre ahead and find someone normal i say but im not some expert opinion or anything

>>721663951
fuck. i thought so. he's like, aggressively uninterested in what i want, 100% into his fetish.

>>721640833
Doctor i am ready to perform this lobotomy

>>721663752
forgot to mention even tho i was just a kid these dreams were REALLY graphic

How do I get people to feel bad for me?

>>721664116
shit, bad luck dude.
a relationship isnt gonna work out in the long run if you dont both want the same thing. imagine someone whos ready to settle down trying to be with someone who isnt ready yet and still wants to live. 9/10 its doomed

ive been feeling very sad in the last few years. I dont like doing stuff i used to like, id stay in bed all day, i dont like talking to people, and am generally sad, etc. But, I would not say im depressed, and would never think of killing myself, since i realize what an amazing thing happened to me to even get a chance to live. what is wrong with me

>>721664330
*9/10 times its doomed

>>721664333
surely those trips will make you feel better?

>>721664454
nah :(

>>721664710
i got nothing

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>>721662928
It was an Effexor XR 37.5mg.
Wasn't really nervousness, but rather a strong emotional degradation over time that allowed a simple event to overpower my emotional capacity and distract from my ability to focus on jobs at hand. In short, I got really fucking sad.
-Koi

>>721664454
tfw i was one digit from quads... now im depressed

Why is a dog not as good as cat, huh?

Why do I feel the constant need for people to like me, when I don't give two shits about other people.

>>721663665
Oooh boy are you in a semi fucked position. War trauma isnt simple or easy, and its nearly impossible to do so without a therapist that isnt fucking retarded (many are). The pills are temporary.

Shit man, im running several logic lines through my head and ultimately, almost nothing i can say will help you due to a combination of how severe your disorder is and how few variables i can truly receive on this end. You need to find someone on your level or somehow manage to go through all your unconscious problems and bring yourself to your families because hiding the core of yourself will only isolate you more causing more suffering for yourself. Its the woe of most vets that most are stuck between caring for themselves vs caring for others at a truly deep level due to the dispondency in perspectives, often causing your kind to either suffer miserably until death or go through a complete breakdown ie "going postal". Theres no easy answer, but sacrificing yourself entirely for your family isnt the best option. The goal is to be able to have your family come to know that hell you have inside you whilst simultaneously being mature enough to make sure it doesnt damage them.

Fuck man. This is tough, and unless you get therapeutic advice from a professional (even behind the scenes), chances are things wont work out well. Keep on with the struggle. I, too, suffer from PTSD albeit a different kind (child surrounded by pedo vipers). Were gonna make it.

>>721664311
Be visually attractive and sad at the same time.