so i have been wanting to eat a girl out, both front and back

Dump bro fuck that shit

>>721130994
Dump

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>>721131078
thing is , we have been together for 2 years
and kinda a pussy about getting out about finding someone else

tried thinking of how that would go, and only see myself failing like fuck

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>>721131245
not to mention, no idea how to break it properly (its a small town)

talk to her about it. clarify your mutual needs. all frustration is the result of unmet needs. use "I" statements and not accusatory "you" statements, and especially avoid "you always" in favour of specificity, "the last three times I tried to initiate you have done xyz"

"I have unmet sexual needs, girlfriend of mine whom I hold very dearly. What do you think? Would you mind if I looked outside of our presumptuously monogamous relationship for my sexual satisfaction, which, left untended, will surely fester and rot?"

this skill is called "communication"

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>>721131663
like the tip

most talking have been kinda useless since xmas

>>721130994
It's either dumping, or blueballing yourself until she dumps you.

Nothing is going to happen if you stay like this i guess.

>>721131762
asexual is a valid sexuality, maybe she is ace. if ace is the case, it's even more reasonable for you to open up the relationship. monogamy is outdated anyway

just remember the difference:
Jealousy is Fear of Loss (bad, useless)
Envy is Want of Gain (good, useful)

>>721131940
"do nothing until someone else makes the decision for you" ==
"inertia is a property of matter"

>>721131663
This is the only answer. Sift through the bullshit /b/ responses and this is it. You need to tell her, not us, that having a sexual relationship is important to you.

Why not do both? Or just get some on the side. She obviously is, even if she isn't, people have needs and if you partner doesn't want to satisfy yours she can deal with the repercussions

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>>721131940
thats why im asking for tips

>>721132029
kinda envious about how good some girls look compared to mine
guess i better get talking, either its dump time, or something usefull happens

thanks

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>>721132029
Ew get out of here with that faggot shit

>>721132046
Wtf sauce? That's hot as fuck

Dude talk to her, give her 2 weeks to improve. If she doesn't then leave

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>>721132182
word
starting to communicate is the entrance to anything

>>721132246
Kinda envious how good "other girls look compared to mine". First, get the fuck over yourself. You're posting on /b/ for relationship advice, you're not a catch.

>>721130994
Source?

Had exact same situation about a month ago. And she dumped me and started seeing my friend. Also a small town. Its not easy, but be prepared.

>>721132029
How can you willing let someone else sleep with your girlfriend?

>>721132331
"modify your behaviour to suit my needs within two weeks or else"
lol good luck with that pal

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>>721132246
Fucking dum her
A lot of times not wanting to fuck is te root of other problems.
In my last 7 relationships sex was never an issue. even with a woman I was with for 5 years.
if its been a month already that means there is a huge issue.

Talk to her but know its probably going to lead to a big argument

>>721132246
guaranteed there are more girls uglier than your gf than prettier. guaranteed

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>>721132384
true
that is why im also a pussy about looking for someone else.. since i look like shit and boring as fuck

>>721132465
I have and its worked.

>>721132429
the same way she willingly lets me sleep with someone else. don't you want everyone to be happiest? If I have problems, I bring them up and we talk about them. Emotions don't go away until they're validated by talking about them.

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>>721132503
depends on the eye looking right

>>721130994
Some of these anons have good points and it's probably the right way to do things but you are in 4chan and I will give you 4chan advice because it works.

Cheat on her. Find something else. Even in a small town there's always someone else. You have a gf now so other women might see you as out of the market and therefore desirable. Use that and get what you want. Then dump you current gf. You are scum, I am scum, we all are scum. Scum passes on their genes and survive. Start acting like the scum that you are and start imposing your will.

>>721132466
"talking will lead to an argument, and argument is bad, better just never talk"
GROW. UP.

>>721132605
>don't you want everyone to be happiest?

I do, but my happiness involves my gf being faithful. I don't care how happy it would make her to be in an open relationship, I'd be so unhappy I would leave.

>>721132542
you look like shit and you're boring as fuck? No wonder your girl won't sleep with you. Make a change

>>721130994
Dump sauce on the gif m9

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>>721132677
Didnt say dont talk, said it will lead to an argument
Nice projecting faggot

she doesnt want you faggot

>>721132679
you'd be so unhappy, why?
because you'd be afraid of losing her to the other people? that's jealousy, and it is a vestigial emotion. It might have worked for better passing on your genes in the ancestral environment, but how is it useful today, when we're connected to a billion people, half a billion potential partners? it's stifling and we should work to get over it. when we can modify emotions with technology, jealousy and anger will be the first ones to go.

if your lines of communication are open, you can talk about anything any time, talk to her about what you want and she'll respond in turn. it will bring you closer together. and it's better knowing than not knowing.

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>>721132747
dude im on /b/ what did you expect?

>>721132760
sry got from /gif/ years ago

>>721131663
This, my gf was being a total fucking cunt at first and didn't want to put out. Being how I am I told her that my needs were going to be met if not by her than by someone else, we fuck like 4 or 5 times a week now.

>>721132679
of course, monogamy is fine and great for some. I've met people who swear they're 100% monogamous, and they don't desire additional relationships. but it's definitely not for me.

>>721131663
This
but leave the fedora on the shelf

>>721132785
oops, misread, my mistake. f*****t is a bad word mister

I had a girlfriend who didn't want to have sex. That didn't last very long, it didn't take much to convince her. You gotta make her want it man.
Asexuality is not a thing. I knew a girl who claimed to be asexual, I changed that really quick.
Good luck, OP. I believe in you.

>>721133110
"being a total fucking c*nt and didn't want to put out"
gosh you sound nice to be around, I'm sure it was all HER problem

>>721131663
>this skill is called "communication"

Hearty chuckle.

>>721133259
asexuality is as real as sexuality, fucking google it, don't deny other people's realities

>>721133376
just like how there are more than 2 genders right? gimme a break

>>721132246
No, you're envious of non-asexual people who are getting laid within the bounds of the relationship they're in. You want to adjust the boundaries so you can have sex with others. That doesn't mean she can, though. If she's not interested in sex with other people and you haven't learned how to cooperate with your jealousness, then it would be better to say only you can have other partners. Shouldn't be a problem for her.

>>721133284
you don't know anon, my girl is a massive bitch at times and at first she was the "oh sex isn't a big deal in relationships" type. Bet your ass I wasn't gonna stick around for some blue balling you pussy. So I made that clear and I have her a chance to marinate in what I had told her meanwhile I'm fucking my ex while she makes me "wait" look no man is gonna be my i with waiting for tail. You're only as faithful as your options.

>>721132760
>sauce
>>721133005
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1749723017

>>721133813
you sound unhappy

>>721133473
just like how someone else's brain is different from your own brain, just like how you aren't in a fucking hivemind with everyone else
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind_projection_fallacy

>>721133955
Not at all anon I love my girl very much and I got pussy on tap it's fucking great.

anon i made a thread exactly like this back in july. GF didnt want to have sex anymore and you know what? She ended up leaving me last august.

Everyone in the thread was like "dude she's getting it somewhere else" and "just break up with her"

I wasted 2 years with this bitch

>>721134298
she wasted 2 years with you too buddy get over it

>>721134172
you sound aggressive and threatening like an overfilled testosterone balloon waiting to POP someone at your next rage outburst, oh honey I promise I'll never hit you again la la la stay with me this is not abuse la la la

If your girlfriend loses interest in sex for an extended time without a very good reason (medical problem, for example) something is up.
Confront her about it.

Talking from experience.

>>721134722
I get my testosterone release on the daily so I'll be fine thanks for your concern anon

>>721134889
could be an undiagnosed issue
could be a psychosomatic pattern that keeps her lower abdominals from relaxing and recieving the blood it needs.
>>721132679
Do you ever massage her? A body must be somewhat in balance to be aroused. Take her swimming one day and massage her at home afterwards. Simply.

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>>721130994
Feels bad anon, I’m going through the same situation with my GF, Although I don’t want to leave her.
been talking to another girl, we hit it off quick. But she’s just getting into a relationship and wants to keep seeing this other person.
We both talk a lot on how much we want to fuck but can’t. Life is hard. Stay positive anon don’t let it get the better of you.

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>>721135195
>we want to fuck but can't

>>721135349
if we were in the same room hell hath no fury. But sadly we are tied by the feels of dwindling relationships.

>>721130994
>to get exactly what i want?
you wont break up.
go and whine for months or years until you finally break up.
you'll never get what you want.

>>721135569
If you live within reasonable distance of each other, go for a hike once a week, meet up halfway. Not everyone sexes in rooms. Simply.

>>721135749
well, i guess i can't argue with that

>>721132955
So how are you so okay with it?

>>721130994
Doesn't have to be sexual for her. It can be like massage. Just make sure you massage the rest of her first.

>>721135619
This annon knows. Break up now or suffer years of boring infrequent sex.

I have much experience with this same issue. You have been warned. Also don't ever get her pregnant. You will want suicide.

>>721136277
Check em.
Cant argue w/ dubs.

>>721130994
>>721130994
She's having sex, just not with you. First sign she isn't into you anymore. Not physically at least...

>>721132466
Age is a big factor to how quickly people bang, if they're 18 maybe a month is reasonable but if they're 26, it's a problem