>>721093795 I would recommend eating ass and fingering her asshole during sex. Ask before you do either one because you aren't autistic. That was enough to really get me off with my last girlfriend that didn't like actual anal sex.
Current girlfriend is totally into it though. Don't really have any more advice, just bragging at this point. She is really submissive and gets off on pain. I get off on hurting her so it works out really well. I love not really warming her up more than just fingering her with one finger to spread around some lube. Love the way she whimpers when I really get going. This is after months of training btw. Also be aware that you can totally tear her butthole is you aren't careful enough.
Have you ever talked with her about it op? How old are the both of you? How long have you been together?
>>721095510 I am 21 and she is too. Why don't you just tell her to clean her ass before you do anal? I have never had shit dick with my girlfriend. She just has to basically shove her finger up her ass in the shower. You could also have her try an enema before hand although I feel like that would be harder to convince her to do.
The shower is nice but my favorite position for anal is having her prone on the floor or couch. Really easy to grab her hair or throat and just really get in there. The floor is good because she gets carpet burns too.
>>721093795 Seriously OP, you're going to have to lick her butt. I have never had a girlfriend that I was unable to convince into giving me that 3rd input.
>go down on her >give a good long lickaroo on her yum-yum >lick on it until she's near her gasm >then take the party downstairs >really tongue fuck her bung >use finger >use finger(s) >come on baby, you wanna try it >just a little bit? >for me? >i just wanna try it, that's all >lick that bung until she agrees >then super duper lubricate her bung with KY and then super lube your dick with KY >if she backs out in the process then stop immediately >repeat procedure in following sexual encounters and eventually she will be into it
>>721093795 It's not that great. First time I tried anal my wife got constipated and it turns out my dick caused her poop to get impacted and her rectum was in shock and didn't want to function. She also cried about the pain from the sex and no being able to poop. She wanted it at the moment but looked at me with so much disgust for like 3 weeks
>Dude she's already dating you. Just hold her down and force fuck her ass. She'll get over it if you guys are a pretty solid item, I wouldn't really consider it rape. Even if it is, who cares as long as she puts up with it.
lick her ass and rub her clit. Stick you tongue in. She will like it. Move forward from there.
try getting a well lubed finger in while licking her pussy. Just the feeling of something in her ass while getting vagina pleasure is enough to brain wash even the most prudish bitches.
Go slow. Use lube. Start in a spooning position. Rub her clit the entire time. prod her ass. she will give way. If she is tense it will not work.
I fuck my GFs ass exclusively. She is a true anal whore. Any time I want I can fuck her ass hard and deep without asking and with no preparation. When I ask her if she really likes it she says "you made me this way"
>>721093795 How does she feel about anal play in general? This is important. Is she comfortable with you touching her asshole? Putting things inside it? Has she ever taken a shit while you are around, or does she hide that behavior from you?
Women generally have two concerns when it comes to this act: 1) It is unclean and you will see her shit, be grossed out and think less of her. 2) It will be painful and she will not enjoy it. If you enjoy it, that puts her in a very vulnerable position. (note: some women refuse to participate on the grounds that the act itself is "degrading" or that it gives you "power" over her)
I can give you more specific advice if you give me more information. Also, I would like to see her ass.
>>721098124 I feel bad for you. I have my GF sit on my face whenever we shower. I could lick her sweet ass while she moans and bounces on my face for hours. Then I take her in the ass like She was meant for it. It's truly glorious.
>>721098124 Its not something sufficiently important that it should be affecting your marriage. Imagine the roles were reversed and she was wanting to fuck you with a huge strap-on but you were not at all interested - I you supposed to just submit to her wishes?
The pleasure in anal sex anyway is the domination aspect. A cunt is much better for actually fucking (until she has a few kids)
>>721098674 My gf responds to force. This isn't a good idea for every one but if my gf were to say she want comfortable with anal I would grab her hair and push her against the wall forcefully but lovingly and say "I don't care if if it's comfortable for you bitch. You will be my anal slut. Your ass is mine."
>>721098674 State your desires openly and honestly. Don't threaten or coerce her. "Hey, I know you said you weren't down for anal, and that's cool, but I'd really like to try it. Is it something you are willing to discuss with me?"
Do you know what her reservations are? Uncleanliness, pain, or degradation? I can help you with all of those, but fact is it is her body and you have to respect that.
You can evaluate the relationship in light of her willingness to roll with you, however, and there is nothing wrong with ending it if she says "Exit only. Period." Just don't give her an ultimatum. If she does it and doesn't want to, it will hirt her in ways that you can't imagine.
>>721098466 Sooner or later the conversation will come around to personal grooming and this is your chance to express a preference. If she says something like 'do you like me trimming down there?' leap in with 'I much prefer a full wax but its your body so do what you like'. She'll get the message.
>>721098854 I appreciate your honest feedback, but it ties into a larger issue of me being the kinky one and her being reserved. She does it begrudgingly and for my sake, and it is hard for me to deal with the guilt.
Homestly, it doesn't feel that great, either. But I got a late start in life sexually and take her true feelings about the act personally.
I don't know if you are married, but feelings like these are normal. Despite what most relationship advice online says, people can and do things that hurt their partner or strain their relationship and still love each other deeply.
>>721099147 Right, I wasn't necessarily recommending this. It's just from my experience. She gets off to that kind of thing. Believe it or not, forcing her int sexual situations gets her off. in fact, sometimes its the only thing that works.
touch her asshole descretely when you fuck her, see if she cares, if she does, bad luck you're fucked. if she does seem to like it try to work the idea into conversation, my gf actually was the one to bring it up because I wasn't sure about it. she said she dreamt that we had "weird" sex and it was obviously anal, then she said she'd like to try it. maybe this is something you could do too
>>721099260 That's fine as long as you have this understanding. I really wish more people were encouraged to just talk about it openly. A lot of what we consider borderline sexual assualt comes from people not having this conversation. Mattress girls partner shoved it in her ass without asking. She talked to two other girls who said he did the same thing. There's no shame in saying "I want to have anal sex with you and would like to discuss it." It's no different than any other kinky sex act.
>>721099100 Well then you will struggle. I'm usually attracted to the quiet girl next door type who is secretly a slut just waiting to be awakened. Unfortunately, most of them are really just the quiet girl next door types. I've also had a serious relationship where the girl tried to be a willing partner in my kinks (including BDSM and having threesomes) which she later admitted to hating.
Trying to bring out the kinks is a long game but if she's really not making a lot of progress you either endure, get a mistress (formally or informally) or bail.
>>721099197 Tell her that you love every part of her body, including her asshole. Tell her it would really turn you on if she were "bare" back there, like she is in the front. Acknowledge her embarassment, but explain that if she is willing to be vulnerable to you, it will bring you closer together. Explain that, when done properly, anal shouldn't hurt and you will stop if she feels pain or discomfort.
Since you already have a kink thing going, why not suggest that you explore anal through Daddy-dom play. Tell her that she is your special girl and that you are going to give her a special treat: she gets to find out what it feels like to have daddy's cock in her behind. I can suggest some videos if you want to pursue this.
>>721099779 No on bailing and fuck fucking someone else. I went through a rough patch in my marriage, and the first words out of my therapist's mouth (after he confirmed that wife doesn't want to open marriage up to other partners) was "If you cheat on your wife, your marriage is over." We work with each other, and accept that we have different tastes. That's what love is to me.
>>721099884 im seeing her tomorrow and im all for trying this. she has daddy kinks to where she calls me daddy and im pretty sure she would fuck a dad but we've only been dating for two months so we arent that comfortable yet
im all for the videos if u got them, thanks a lot man
>>721099911 I fon't really want to debate this, but what I wrote is, based on the information I have, accurate. She does have FB messages that say "fuck me in the butt!" but it's clear from context that she isn't asking for anal penetration. (It's just an expression.)
Another series worth checking out is Max Hardcore's "Cherry Poppers" series. (Just don't do everything he does--fishhooking a vagina can be painful.)
I'd recommend you tell her you want to discuss the possibility of anal and simply want to get started with watching some videos together. Get her honest reaction. If she says it is "gross" or "looks painful" then you can tell her how you feel (and be honest...if you like anal because it is degrading and you want to confront some difficult emotions you have about women...that's OK as long as you tell her).
I really like how she uses the concept of "walls" as a metaphor. You can tell your girlfriend that, no matter what happens, if she's open to including anal play, it will likely bring you closer together. But oay close attention to her true feelings. If she watches a vid and looks disgusted, then back off and enjoy what you do have. You will likely date another girl in your lifetime, anon, and when you do, you can bring up this kink earlier in the relationship and decide whether or not to move forward.
p.s. The sensation ain't that great. Paychologically, it's a 10/10 for me, though.
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