Hey /b/, how do I convince my gf to try anal sex?

>>721093795
Convince? Just stick it in and say you missed.

Also interested in advice

>>721093795
anal sex is boring and gets loose after the first 5 minutes

>>721093795

Finger her butthole a little.

>>721094215
sorry to hear that my ass stays relatively tight for like 30mins tops so ur girl might just be used to it

Need the whole one

U don't big bitch

Sure love shit

>>721093795
Just order something, and when you open the box with the strap-on pretend they've sent you the wrong thing, but that it looks interesting and ask her if she'd try to put it on.

>>721094215
well that issue wont haappen when u only last 2 mins ):

>>721094215
Sounds like your girl's ass has had a few tours of action before she met you

>>721093795
by killing yourself, of course

>>721093795
I would recommend eating ass and fingering her asshole during sex. Ask before you do either one because you aren't autistic. That was enough to really get me off with my last girlfriend that didn't like actual anal sex.

Current girlfriend is totally into it though.
Don't really have any more advice, just bragging at this point. She is really submissive and gets off on pain. I get off on hurting her so it works out really well. I love not really warming her up more than just fingering her with one finger to spread around some lube. Love the way she whimpers when I really get going. This is after months of training btw. Also be aware that you can totally tear her butthole is you aren't careful enough.

Have you ever talked with her about it op? How old are the both of you? How long have you been together?

fuck you

kys fag

be a dirty jew

o wait u already are

LUL

>3/10

>>721094970
28 and she's 30. Never have brought it up but I been curiously lately and don't know how to bring it up

Get a gf first?
No but, take her out to eat an buy her something. Then shell be up for anything

>>721093795
just show her porn webms with anal sex

it's a video, should be enough proof

>>721093795
kys

tell her you tried it and liked it, so she should too

OP of thread below... Don't do it

>>721091249

>>721094970
I'm 26 and my gf is 30, she loves it. We only do it in the shower, partly bc it's already lube-ish, and the occasional unfortunate but inevitable shit dick

you cant

>>721095152
"Hey how do you feel about butt stuff? Can I toss your salad? Have you ever had anything in your ass?"

I am surprised you are as old as you are and don't know how to communicate with your girlfriend.

>>721093795
Fuck

F this im goin to sleep

>>721095510
I am 21 and she is too. Why don't you just tell her to clean her ass before you do anal? I have never had shit dick with my girlfriend. She just has to basically shove her finger up her ass in the shower. You could also have her try an enema before hand although I feel like that would be harder to convince her to do.

The shower is nice but my favorite position for anal is having her prone on the floor or couch. Really easy to grab her hair or throat and just really get in there. The floor is good because she gets carpet burns too.

>>721093795
start venturing there with finger/during oral- thank me later

>>721095620
In my defense, I am autistic

>>721093795
Seriously OP, you're going to have to lick her butt.
I have never had a girlfriend that I was unable to convince into giving me that 3rd input.

>go down on her
>give a good long lickaroo on her yum-yum
>lick on it until she's near her gasm
>then take the party downstairs
>really tongue fuck her bung
>use finger
>use finger(s)
>come on baby, you wanna try it
>just a little bit?
>for me?
>i just wanna try it, that's all
>lick that bung until she agrees
>then super duper lubricate her bung with KY and then super lube your dick with KY
>if she backs out in the process then stop immediately
>repeat procedure in following sexual encounters and eventually she will be into it

Rub your dick in her asshole and see if she likes it

fuck

>>721093795
It's not that great. First time I tried anal my wife got constipated and it turns out my dick caused her poop to get impacted and her rectum was in shock and didn't want to function. She also cried about the pain from the sex and no being able to poop. She wanted it at the moment but looked at me with so much disgust for like 3 weeks

I turned my GF into a total anal whore. Ask me anything.

how

>>721096157
>ask advice about women
>on 4chan
>on b

I believe you

dont do eet

>Dude she's already dating you. Just hold her down and force fuck her ass. She'll get over it if you guys are a pretty solid item, I wouldn't really consider it rape. Even if it is, who cares as long as she puts up with it.

>>721093795
just fucking tell her you want anal.
If she says no.
Then ask if its ok to find some other girl for anal.
If she says no again then find a new girl or forget about anal.

fug

>>721093795
You can't "convince" her. You can state your desires plainly "I would like to experience anal sex." and listen to her response.

lick her ass and rub her clit. Stick you tongue in. She will like it. Move forward from there.

try getting a well lubed finger in while licking her pussy. Just the feeling of something in her ass while getting vagina pleasure is enough to brain wash even the most prudish bitches.

Go slow. Use lube. Start in a spooning position. Rub her clit the entire time. prod her ass. she will give way. If she is tense it will not work.

I fuck my GFs ass exclusively. She is a true anal whore. Any time I want I can fuck her ass hard and deep without asking and with no preparation. When I ask her if she really likes it she says "you made me this way"

Put the thumb in too

>>721093795
How does she feel about anal play in general? This is important. Is she comfortable with you touching her asshole? Putting things inside it? Has she ever taken a shit while you are around, or does she hide that behavior from you?

Women generally have two concerns when it comes to this act:
1) It is unclean and you will see her shit, be grossed out and think less of her.
2) It will be painful and she will not enjoy it. If you enjoy it, that puts her in a very vulnerable position.
(note: some women refuse to participate on the grounds that the act itself is "degrading" or that it gives you "power" over her)

I can give you more specific advice if you give me more information. Also, I would like to see her ass.

Fuck

>>721096534
My wife hates anal, too. It is an issue that is affecting our marriage, anon.

>>721093795
reee

Ease her into it. Toss salad, then use fingers. Then she'll be down eventually

>>721093795
You're a fucking idiot. Hope you die irl today.

>>721093795
not today

Have you brought up the topic and if so how does she react?

Can we see her ass?

>>721098124
I feel bad for you. I have my GF sit on my face whenever we shower. I could lick her sweet ass while she moans and bounces on my face for hours. Then I take her in the ass like She was meant for it. It's truly glorious.

my gf doesnt shave her ass crack how do i tell her to shave without it being weird and douchey

i mean i dont shave my ass crack but its different right?

>>721093795
Tell her you want to try something special, tie her up, blindfold her and go to town.

meh

>>721098466
I ask her if she wants me to shave. It will make her think that maybe you might want that for her as well.

I actually shave it for her. I tell her I want to lick her ass and that I will shave her for her and my pleasure. It's kind of intimate.

op is a faggot

>>721093795
not being a dickhead....tell her that is somthing pleasing and reassure her that you'll stop as soon as she tells you

>>721093795
name of original video?

>>721093795
fuck

>>721093795
replied

>>721098523
i kind of did the same and hinted at it but didnt hint at her ass crack hairs in general but she figured it was for her pussy and i basically said how i hate hair but it didnt really work

she tells me how she not down for anal and i havent even asked yet. both anal virgins me being 19 and shes 18

>>721098124
Its not something sufficiently important that it should be affecting your marriage. Imagine the roles were reversed and she was wanting to fuck you with a huge strap-on but you were not at all interested - I you supposed to just submit to her wishes?

The pleasure in anal sex anyway is the domination aspect. A cunt is much better for actually fucking (until she has a few kids)

>>721098674
My gf responds to force. This isn't a good idea for every one but if my gf were to say she want comfortable with anal I would grab her hair and push her against the wall forcefully but lovingly and say "I don't care if if it's comfortable for you bitch. You will be my anal slut. Your ass is mine."

again, this only works for certain girls.

>>721098674
State your desires openly and honestly. Don't threaten or coerce her. "Hey, I know you said you weren't down for anal, and that's cool, but I'd really like to try it. Is it something you are willing to discuss with me?"

Do you know what her reservations are? Uncleanliness, pain, or degradation? I can help you with all of those, but fact is it is her body and you have to respect that.

You can evaluate the relationship in light of her willingness to roll with you, however, and there is nothing wrong with ending it if she says "Exit only. Period." Just don't give her an ultimatum. If she does it and doesn't want to, it will hirt her in ways that you can't imagine.

>>721098466
Sooner or later the conversation will come around to personal grooming and this is your chance to express a preference. If she says something like 'do you like me trimming down there?' leap in with 'I much prefer a full wax but its your body so do what you like'. She'll get the message.

>>721098854
I appreciate your honest feedback, but it ties into a larger issue of me being the kinky one and her being reserved. She does it begrudgingly and for my sake, and it is hard for me to deal with the guilt.

Homestly, it doesn't feel that great, either. But I got a late start in life sexually and take her true feelings about the act personally.

I don't know if you are married, but feelings like these are normal. Despite what most relationship advice online says, people can and do things that hurt their partner or strain their relationship and still love each other deeply.

>>721098908
Don't do this, anon. If she doesn't want it, it will hirt like hell. If you want to "take" her, tell her and plan it out. Her asshole needs to be ready for you.

>>721098908
yea she would break up with me in a heartbeat if i did this, shes into daddy kinks and i choke her thats about it!

>>721098935
probably uncleanliness since her ass crack is gross but shes a solid 9/10 thick white girl so the only hair on her besides on her head is her ass crack and its nasty

also pain she says itll probably hurt since im 7in but i dont have a huge girth since im a skinny guy.

is anal even worth all of this trouble? i figured a tight pussy was enough

>>721099074
how do i subtly say "i like my women without ass hairs" ive done it with her pubes and i made subtle hints that she got and started shaving but this seems more difficult

if i offered to shave myself i feel like thats pushing the douche barrier

>>721099147
Right, I wasn't necessarily recommending this. It's just from my experience. She gets off to that kind of thing. Believe it or not, forcing her int sexual situations gets her off. in fact, sometimes its the only thing that works.

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>>721098935
Cuck

>>721093795
damn

touch her asshole descretely when you fuck her, see if she cares, if she does, bad luck you're fucked. if she does seem to like it try to work the idea into conversation, my gf actually was the one to bring it up because I wasn't sure about it. she said she dreamt that we had "weird" sex and it was obviously anal, then she said she'd like to try it. maybe this is something you could do too

>>721093795 read this thread before proceeding
>>721091249 and always wear protection

>>721093795
Go fuck your dad in the ass, pull out and then jerk your dick off all over your moms face you fucking piece of shit.

>>721099318
I have never used a condom and I fuck my gf in the ass a coupe times a week

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Yeah... But can it do this?!

>>721099372
Your dick is doomed

>>721099260
That's fine as long as you have this understanding. I really wish more people were encouraged to just talk about it openly. A lot of what we consider borderline sexual assualt comes from people not having this conversation. Mattress girls partner shoved it in her ass without asking. She talked to two other girls who said he did the same thing. There's no shame in saying "I want to have anal sex with you and would like to discuss it." It's no different than any other kinky sex act.

>>721099429
if by doomed you mean in heaven then yes. been doing it for years. She tells me if it is safe and 99% of the time she is right. It's glorious and she loves it.

>>721099281
A cuckold is someone whose partner is fucking someone else without his knowledge. Next time, just call me a "faggot," ok?

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Don't do the same mistake as this faggot.

>>721094589

Lol OP this

>>721099649
Don't wear a condom faggot. There is no point. Take a piss afterwards and make she she clears before hand. Dont be a disgusting faggot and you can do bareback anal all you want.

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>>721099558
>not getting the definition right

>>721099100
Well then you will struggle. I'm usually attracted to the quiet girl next door type who is secretly a slut just waiting to be awakened. Unfortunately, most of them are really just the quiet girl next door types. I've also had a serious relationship where the girl tried to be a willing partner in my kinks (including BDSM and having threesomes) which she later admitted to hating.

Trying to bring out the kinks is a long game but if she's really not making a lot of progress you either endure, get a mistress (formally or informally) or bail.

>>721093795
fuck

>>721099197
Tell her that you love every part of her body, including her asshole. Tell her it would really turn you on if she were "bare" back there, like she is in the front. Acknowledge her embarassment, but explain that if she is willing to be vulnerable to you, it will bring you closer together. Explain that, when done properly, anal shouldn't hurt and you will stop if she feels pain or discomfort.

Since you already have a kink thing going, why not suggest that you explore anal through Daddy-dom play. Tell her that she is your special girl and that you are going to give her a special treat: she gets to find out what it feels like to have daddy's cock in her behind. I can suggest some videos if you want to pursue this.

Rub her anus with fingers while you fuck her. It worked for me

>>721099500
That's a lie. There's even text messages where she begs for it in the ass.

Mattress Girl is filled with lies.

>>721099902
This! Get her to ride you, and as she kisses you, rub her asshole with your moist finger, it will drive her mental when she cums!

Every chick I've been with hates anal, but loves it when I do this. If you've ever played with your asshole while cuming, you'll see what I mean.

Tell her it's how your uncle taught you to do it

>>721099779
No on bailing and fuck fucking someone else. I went through a rough patch in my marriage, and the first words out of my therapist's mouth (after he confirmed that wife doesn't want to open marriage up to other partners) was "If you cheat on your wife, your marriage is over." We work with each other, and accept that we have different tastes. That's what love is to me.

>>721099884
im seeing her tomorrow and im all for trying this. she has daddy kinks to where she calls me daddy and im pretty sure she would fuck a dad but we've only been dating for two months so we arent that comfortable yet

im all for the videos if u got them, thanks a lot man

>>721099911
I fon't really want to debate this, but what I wrote is, based on the information I have, accurate. She does have FB messages that say "fuck me in the butt!" but it's clear from context that she isn't asking for anal penetration. (It's just an expression.)

>>721099986
It's true. They love that while cumming. After that they request for anal

>>721093795
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>>721093795
Tucker. Here's your reply.

>>721093795
ree

>>721099765
yeah how hard is it to wash your dick after anal, thats like the only thing i would care about post climax

>>721100130
This one contains the classic line "But I poop from there!" with the even-more-classic rejoinder "Not right now you don't!"

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1640640666

Another series worth checking out is Max Hardcore's "Cherry Poppers" series. (Just don't do everything he does--fishhooking a vagina can be painful.)

I'd recommend you tell her you want to discuss the possibility of anal and simply want to get started with watching some videos together. Get her honest reaction. If she says it is "gross" or "looks painful" then you can tell her how you feel (and be honest...if you like anal because it is degrading and you want to confront some difficult emotions you have about women...that's OK as long as you tell her).

Does she have a big ass?

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>>721100501
We already watch porn together so this wouldnt be a problem. I dont hate or like anal since ive never done it before and im still unsure if i would even try it.

you tell me

>>721100786
If that's her ass, then it's really nice!

Best advice is to talk about your desires and ask if she's open to exploring via roleplay, then tell her "I could tell you, but it would be easier to show you."

Here is an excellent guide to the act itself, written from the perspective of a woman who had issues with anal, but decided to confront them:

https://www.manyvids.com/Article/1420/All-About-ANAL/

I really like how she uses the concept of "walls" as a metaphor. You can tell your girlfriend that, no matter what happens, if she's open to including anal play, it will likely bring you closer together. But oay close attention to her true feelings. If she watches a vid and looks disgusted, then back off and enjoy what you do have. You will likely date another girl in your lifetime, anon, and when you do, you can bring up this kink earlier in the relationship and decide whether or not to move forward.

p.s. The sensation ain't that great. Paychologically, it's a 10/10 for me, though.

p.p.s. Oh shit, almost forgot:

https://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-Lager-Realistic-Masturbator-Ounce/dp/B003TQQ72M

This fleshlight does a pretty good job of simulating what anal feels like if she says "no" and you are still curious.

>>721093795
Easy peasey.. lube your ass hole up good then hand her the strap on

>>721101440
Zozzle

>>721093795
It's like Beavis and Butthead took over the thread

>>721093795
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dam you

kys

JUST TELL HER YOURE GAY FAG