Willpower. Set small goals at first then work your way up like anything else. Try not fapping for a week and see how you feel. Exercise helps keep your mind off it, plus you'll get benefits from running/walking/whatever you decide to do.
If you want to stop fapping, quit watching porn. That's really the hard part, actually. Modern internet porn is addictive because it's infinitely varied. If you manage to stop watching porn, you'll automatically fap far less. You won't stop fapping, but you'll fap a normal, healthy amount.
Its been a downward spiral for me, as nothing gets me hard anymore apart from things you shouldnt look at, Ie Siberian M etc. I didnt like that stuff before coming to 4chan. Now i cant stop. Good luck op. You gonna need it.
>>719716231 I'd argue this last two years I've become more addicted to it than ever. Actually damaged some capillaries from years of edging and figuring out that standing up/laying on my side greatly increases bloodflow and pleasure
You ever get porn brain anon? I think that hypersexuality is the right term for it. That shit still happens to me if I let myself perv out. Probably a good sign?
>>719716993 That's nuts dude, I can feel a very noticeable difference. It almost hurts I can feel so much more blood flowing in.. always more pleasurable when I cum too. I shoot way farther when I do it too.
>>719717097 See, this just doesn't get me off that much any more. It might be cus I'm longer than most (7") and it just takes more work to get the blood up there?
The fuck is wrong with you retards? Just fucking fap and stop being a beta fag piece of shit. I've got a wife, kids have sex and fap all the time. It's not unhealthy you stupid shits. Where the fuck did the dumb no-fap cult shit come from?
>>719719272 I've got some fucked up un-diagnosable issue with my ribs that's forced me to sleep on my back for the last 5 years. Get this aching pain that lasts for hours if I put too much pressure on them for any amount of time. Days if I accidentally fall asleep on them and god damn it really is the only comfortable position sometimes.
You're still better off than me man, at least you can move around at night.
>>719719006 >You spend practically the whole day on your pc too? Yes, actually no practically about it, I simply DO. Many years ago, I visited several doctors, but eventually gave up; because they constantly wrote it off as "nerve problems" or "anxiety". And, when mental health got involved, I really got scared off and I never returned to hospitals.Also, similar, or maybe even exactly like you, I have to sleep awkwardly for circulatory reasons, and poor blood flow causes me to have to reposition my limbs as well. What other problems has masturbation caused you?
i had something where now my unlar nervs on my arms will fall asleep if the forearm is too tightly compressed so i used to sleep on my face, now i have to legit make a less-than-90deg bend to avoid that
also i used to sleep on my left side but my hip falls sleep fast and 99% sure i have siatica there, so i sleep on my right without issue mostly now
also i straight up cant function without a recliner chair with my feet up
infact i like the raised wedges when sleeping but hate sleeping direclty on my back
>>719719869 Yeah, I said "practically" to give you an out lol.
Man you know what, you sound just like me. Same with the mental health shit too.. haven't brought the schizoaffective symptoms to any doctors yet out of fear. I do indeed have to lay with my arms exactly at my sides at night.
Are you secretly me? What in the fuck is happening right now?
A month before I moved out figured it'd be harder to fap in private so just stopped. Also stopped b- my source for porn, which helped and I've seen suggested before. Except for finishing up a wet dream a few months later I quit for nearly the whole year till a female came in my life and left me blueballed as fuck so painful. Even after that must have only Fapped 10times/ 2years, after being an erry day thing for 10+years. Seems to me every time I'm left blueballed I start masturbating again. And after some sex finally I'm content with not, yet would be fine with my hand, as it isn't bat shit crazy- and free.
>>719720270 We definitely share this exact problem with the exact same consequences to it. I'm going to post snakes ( I chose this at random) so you can identify me from now on. The problem with seeking groups and counseling, is that they come from a moral or religious standpoint, whereas my reasons are for purely medical and physiological reasons. Are you the same?
>>719721643 Will you remember this image of this snake? I could create a thread with it as my OP pic, after all I am the OP of this thread. Could there be an exact time on /b/ that you look out for me?
>>719713030 Relocate your physical ip address using a vpn to avoid any restrictions your government may or has already slammed down on your internet usage. Also avoid being spied on by your government.
A VPN keeps you anonymous on the internet. It bypasses any school, home, office or country blockers. It keeps you un-banned from any website. It keeps the government from monitoring your online activity, and disables any country enabled firewalls allowing you to browse the internet freely and anonymously. It allows you to view region locked content from anywhere in the world. It makes it look like you are located in a different country.
If you like your freedom, I suggest you get a VPN http://anonyourself.club
>>719722167 So do I, we could communicate both ways. But sometimes I think /b/ is the best chatroom, and when there is constant responses, threads are forced to go until the bump limit of 310. How could we arrange away for you to easily find me on /b/?
>>719723167 If you have a reaction folder you could uniquely name your pics to something I could identify you by, kind of like my progressing categorical names for mine. That's pretty much our best bet.
>>719723607 Cool. Tomorrow I could post a "how could one quit fapping" thread, and have a snake in the OP pic; and you could come in the thread and post your image back here >>719719006 again. And, we could be 99.999 pecent sure were communicating again, haha.
no its mostly due to my fucked up upper back and years working in assembly line work with repetative motions
mostly why my right wrist flairs up if i use the mouse too much
my entire back is all fucked up, i fantasize about having one of those gravity benches or something more sadistic like sometype of implant cage that would perfectly seperate each disc the fraction of a milimeter to make them decompress 24/7
>>719725009 And just so you know as someone who suffers from anxiety you don't have to worry about shit with me. Don't gotta apologize, don't gotta correct yourself, etc. I understand it like a science.
>>719725419 Yeah, I realized it and thought about correcting it but thought you were gone by now
>>719725243 No problem, I'll create Venusz171000, as I know that will be original, and if not, I'll create one almost exactly the same as that. You will know it's me through my writing style, among other things. Our main goal is to hold ourselves accountable, and help each other overcome compulsive masturbation, do you agree?
Read all the responses. I'm reaffirmed that I'm enslaved to porn and consistent masturbation like the Rock of Gibraltar. I'm type 2 bipolar, so an abnormally high sex drive is obvious, and my psychiatrist keeps me on the same meds despite mood fluctuations including my sex drive and desire to masturbate at the moment of thought.
No one can help me. I will live a shorter life-span. All I can do is accept this and masturbate when I'm done making this post. For the record:
>>719725887 >>719726034 And it all may be related, who knows. I've never particularly linked these things to masturbation, but then again I've never succesfully went more than 4 or 5 days without fapping. Maybe knowing I'm not doing it alone will make it possible.
>>719726396 Ending compulsive masturbation... I haven't mentioned it but I suffer from it too.
I don't think there's any way I could stop entirely, but I'd very much like to commit to a nofap and work from there. Ultimate goal is probably to limit myself to once every 4-5 days or maybe even more. I can feel very noticeable differences in my testosterone and drive when I've taken breaks before.
>>719725419 Bro, I wanted to ask you. Have you ever made any progress in managing the sciatic pain? Because I can't find a comfortable position to lie, sleep or sit anymore. It all started when I pinched a muscle in my lower back, it was stuck for three years after that I managed to release it but now I'm stuck with this sciatic pain 24/7. The only way it doesn't hurt is when I'm standing.
>>719727275 No you can't, but to be honest I've been struggling with this for years, and would kind of like to think big about this. This thread is about to reach the limit and get pruned. I could recreate this thread the way I described before an hour from now, and we could talk for at least 10 more minutes, if you're down with that. We could talk about triggers and what sets us off with this.
>>719727989 Well.. I guess things are about to get a little weird.
It's all over the fucking place. I'm strongly strongly bicurious, and I'd say I'm at my worst when I'm living out submissive fantasies online or exploring taboos. I've got a twink's body and a decent sized dick so the attention I get when I post myself here is absolutely insane, I get flooded with messages and attention and it's hard to let that go. It's very much a role shift as I'm extremely domineering in general
But then again, I've been working to shift myself back to females for the last 4 or 5 days and today I jerked off 3 times to girls I saw in porn webm threads/general porn threads.
>>719728654 I'm totally straight but hate females, tbh, and really don't like to deal with them. Those girls I posted in my OP pic are exactly my type, in fact I probably shouldn't have looked at them with this problem I'm trying to overcome.
>>719728269 Maybe, maybe not. This anon's >>719728724 comment made me hard but I'm working to suppress it right now.. I've successfully shifted myself back to women though and won't get erections if I see a trap thread etc. If I watch a movie before I sleep tonight like I regularly do and there's a pair of tits shown from girl who hasn't undressed immediately at the start it always triggers me. Something about getting to know them a little before they take their clothes off drives me wild.
>>719728986 We both suffer form a bit of misogyny too I think. The youthful look is hard to sway from and I completely understand that feel.
>>719728986 To elaborate a little on the misogyny, I'm just sick of stuck up girls. I feel like the overwhelming majority of them manipulate until they get what they want, and will take it to ABSOLUTE extremes. Without dropping any bombs, I basically had my future screwed by manipulation. An anon pointed this out to me probably three weeks ago (the manipulation) and it planted a seed in my brain that I haven't been able to shake. I always wrote it off until now.
>>719729362 I am triggered by tits like almost everybody, but also by women's legs, feet, soles, etc, as revealed in my OP pic. But as I already said, I really don't desire female company outside of sex. P.S. I've forgotten, the last couple posts, to post snake pics.
>>719729880 Yup, I watched "Amadeus" last night and seeing Mozart's wife's tits sent me into frenzy. I'm also a footfag, girls in stockings and dirty socks and soles and the whole nine yards. There were a bunch of Karen Gillan posts earlier and after all the leg service from Doctor Who every time I see her legs it sets me off.
>>719729880 >>719730126 I can't really say I'm exactly the same with women though. As stupid as it sounds I kind of want a girl to take care of me until I'm back at my peak so I can give her the world. My dream girl just got engaged and kind of shattered my reality two weeks ago though, sort of questioning my desire for them outside of sex again.
>>719729550 You're tryin too hard now faggot. I'm back on the female side of this bicuriosity/bisexuality.
you are looking for one genre, and then a really good pic is part of a set reblogged from another tumblr... and the rabbit hole never ends!
i go through archives and if i find something i like i save that tumblr for later, now i have too many really really good sources of porn that just seem endless
there is more porn than one can consume in their lifetime, but i still manage to be productive, if your life is a mess you need to put your time towards more productive things like finishing college and getting a career
>>719730627 Well, don't misinterpret me. I haven't seeked a relationship in over 4 years, (again, trying not to drop any bombs) but the last girl I was with passed of an overdose and it really messed me up. I just don't feel the desire to show off my prowess any more, especially given my living circumstances there's no way I'd be able to pick women up even if I wanted to. Can't exactly take them to your mom's, kek
>>719713030 > Have sex with a hooker > Realise it's 10 times better than fapping > Reasile how dumb you were all this time watching other people enjoying themselves in pornos > Get a real fuckgirl/gf , it's easy
>>719730627 >>719730943 And especially now with the manipulation seed planted it's just making me want them less. There just doesn't seem to be any non manipulative stuck up ones that are good looking enough for me. I hold impossibly high standards for myself (getting known as the guy who pulled above his rank has always got me more girls above my rank) so it's either take someone who will lower my standards and how women view me, or get with one that's stuck up and going to use me somehow.
>>719730943 No, I read what you were saying in its full context, and I understand what you're saying. The difference is, you're just not as extreme about it. But perhaps even that could change, right, haha.
>>719731166 Manipulation is second nature to them, and you can never fully relax around them. And as for appearance, women in real life don't even compare to our fantasies of them, and they are more often than not, even unattractive. P.S. I hate posting these stupid snake pics, but it's the only way to avoid confusion.
>>719731728 That's the thing, I always just wrote it off as the way things were. I've done my fair share of manipulation to get pussy when I was younger but I can just see through it all now and it's left me jaded.
The thing is though man, I'd say I'm a 7 on a good day. And I've gotten 9's.. And they were every bit as good as my fantasies.
It's all good if you don't believe me, but I swear on my grandfather's grave at my last job (also 4 years ago) I was dating my 9/10 supervisor. She was a suicidegirl (again, I swear on my fucking grandfather's grave). I was king of the fuckin office. People asked her "why him".
>>719731394 Yes, I see. I just wish, for myself, that I could overcome lusting after them, even if it's only through pornography and masturbation; either way, it puts you in bondage, and makes you dependent on them, and in the long run, vulnerable. People are at their dumbest when they're horny.
>>719732053 Just to brag a little bit more, I was fucking the girl I wanted for years before I got my head on my shoulders while I was dating the supervisor. The one I was fucking was dating this dude I HATED (Jay). She was gonna marry the guy. I probably played a role in her intentional overdose, which is why I haven't bothered seeking women since. It really messed with my brain. Bad. Still does.
>>719732718 Isolation I'd say. It's what sparked my bicuriosity too. I have heavy social anxiety and it's like, while I could probably go out and just meet a random girl and smoke her out and fuck her... I just don't have the desire to show off the prowess any more, like I said earlier.
Feelin a bit like damaged goods myself, feelin strongly like I could damage them.
>>719732642 Although I have never experienced what you're talking about, I can some how understand, or at least I think I can. I never had a girl I care about, let alone one dying like that. I can somehow empathize.
>>719733005 It's the first and only ex of mine that has passed.. but let me tell you man, I really doubt you can wrap your head around playing a significant role in someone's intentional overdose. Especially someone you cared about deeply.
I've got a fishbone pipe she bought in Mexico for me sitting right next to me. It has her name carved on the bottom of it. Man.
>>719733947 Don't really know. I kind of did a two for one too, Jay he started doing meth after Margot split with him. I hated the guy but he didn't deserve the life he leads now.
He never found out about me and her either.. He'd have probably killed himself too if he knew I was with her while she was still dating him. (after he murdered me, which he would have absolutely fucking 100% done/tried)
>>719734349 I still remember running into him at Circle K down the street from my old house. He was spun as fuck, wide eyed jumpy and was friendly to me because he didn't know. Never felt like telling someone they should knock me out before that day.
Actually scratch that, I took my friend's girl from him too. Damn, I'm a piece of shit dude. You don't really have to comment on this, just sort of venting. I don't think I've ever talked to anybody about this before.
>>719735002 My best friend fucked my ex while we were still dating, so I told his girl about it she then fucked me. When he found out he tried to break in my house one night while she was there, he had a huge bowie knife. I called to cops on his ass, and when the cops found him they told me he admitted he was going to try and kill us. Fucking crazy shit man.
>>719722999 a kill is a kill be it with bayonet or at 300 meters. if the goal is to fuck a woman then you got it right, all these virgins excluding easy kills for the ideal kill, that they will never get to happen--like that elliot rogers supreme gentleman guy that had that relationship advice youtube show
>>719735002 No man, I'm listening, it's interesting. I've had pretty awkward, and even dangerous, social experiences before; but these were many years ago. The truth is I don't know how I slipped into this compulsive jerking off bit.
Masturbation is perfectly normal and you won't be any better without it. Suppressing your libido will only make you irritable. The only way that I see it as an issue is if you do it more so often that it disrupts your daily life. In that case I'd seek a professional opinion from a psychiatrist or gynecologist.
>>719735177 Yeah, the guy was exactly the type that would do that kind of thing. ESPECIALLY since he was so into G. I'm lucky to be alive dude I'm not fuckin with you. That must have been the sweetest pussy you've ever had though
>>719735289 Thanks for letting me rant man. I've been in more than one life threatening social situation, when I was a teenager I was pretty heavy into experimenting with drugs and I surrounded myself with some really fucked up people.
I could tell you about the crip Miguel and how I tried to outdrink him.. my sister saved my life that night. 100%.
>>719735770 Heh well, Miguel was about 6'6 and scary as fuck but he was the fatherly type. You know, the kind gang members flock to because they don't have it in their life.. Come to think of it I believe this was intention for recruitment
But anyways. I was new to the neighborhood and we had a pretty consistent group of crips who hung out at the neighborhood park. I happened to know some jackasses who were friends with him so one night we decided to go drink with them
For whatever reason Miguel was protective of me. Probably because I am so fucking tiny and there isn't shit I could do to defend myself but anyways, I was the only one invited back to his place for the afterparty. I'm gonna say right now it was dumb as fuck to follow him to his house.
For the first half of the night, his friends were lauding over me and threatening me physically. Every time they did Miguel would shut them down. It got so rowdy I watched two of them beat one of their friends bloody by the side of his house, that kind of situation if you know what I mean.
Anyways, about halfway through the night I felt the need to prove myself to Miguel for all he had done for me. Now don't forget this dude was 6'6 250 lbs, a fuckin monster who probably drink a fifth or better of rum every day. I started taking shot, after shot, after shot with him.. and by the end of the night, I was completely incoherent. I was pissing my pants, I couldn't walk, nothing.
I was carried home (thank fuck for being tiny) and when I got in bed I started puking uncontrollably.. except I was so drunk and tired I fell asleep anyways. I was so drunk I was puking in my sleep. Turns out this kills people all the time, they'll lay on their back, puke, and then drown in their own vomit. My sister saw what I was doing, and kept me on my side the entire night. She sat by my bed until I woke up, despite her drinking too and being exhausted. She saved my life that night and I'll be forever grateful to her because of it.
>>719736707 I'm texting her right now to tell her I love her. And yeah, I don't know what it was that made me and Miguel get along so well. I was a sheep in a pack of wolves and if it weren't for him I'd have ended up bloodied by the side of his house instead of his friend.
I've never drank that much since, and I never will again.
>>719737028 It's strange, I nearly died from alcohol several years ago, but in my case it was from organ problems associated with it. But I recovered, and now I totally abstain, and have not touched a drop in many years.
>>719737114 In a sense I guess I get what you mean. My sister is one of only two people in my family whom I still share that deep family bond with. Her and my Aunt Julie.
I refuse to throw family away like they've done to me. If I ever build a home, have a wife I love and god forbid have children, they'll live with the most loving compassionate father you could imagine. I wouldn't be able to put them through what I was put through. I want to teach someone to love the way I was taught how things should be.
>>719737377 Unfortunately alcoholism runs in my family and I've had many bouts with it since that night. Silver lining is I've got a weak ass stomach and could never become a true alcoholic because of the pain associated with drinking way too fucking much
>>719737632 You wouldn't want a wife who loves you like a brother, but I get what you mean, that unbreakable bond.
I'm sure there's someone out there for us both who can and will give us just that.
>>719738012 Yeah, the off the walls stomach pain. Like, excruciating unbearable stomach pain. Then puking up bile in the morning, having so many stomach acids in your puke that your throat closes up. Man, fuck booze.
>>719713030 As bad as it sounds, but actually not visiting 4chan at all helps a lot. Even on the NSFW boards, randomly there still are threads with pornwebms and hell, this gets me triggered if I'm for example two or three days without fapping. Without visiting especially /b/ I can go a whole week without fapping. But with visiting /b/ daily, I also fap daily.
>>719726164 he forces you to take pills? Take some hold of your own fucking life you degenerate pussy.
type 2 bipolar.. type 10 pussy ass is what it is. These modern 'diseases' or 'conditions' are easily prevented if kids today would recieve some backhand slapping now and then. Man the fuck up you childish low life loser.
>>719738520 I know the feeling but in a different way. I suffer from kidneystones and they always get caught traveling from my kidney to my bladder. It basically feels like I'm being stabbed in the back for 6-10 hours, it always puts me in the emergency room due to pain. Like extreme 10/10 pain, shaking can't think can't function kind of pain.
>>719738661 I knew a person that was afflicted with that condition, and lived a painful life. Kidney stones were in fact, what they first suspected with my organ problem; but then again, doctors always suspect kidney stones with any painful ailment, these days.
>>719739000 Yep, i'm 26 and have had to visit the ER three times now because of it. I suspect I'll have to go many many more times. What fucking scares me is if I'm somehow isolated when one hits.. you'll do anything to stop that kind of pain. Anything. You'll jump off a fuckin bridge. If I can't get to an ER I don't know what I'd do.
>>719739104 Nigga, I ain't forgetting. This is super important to me, it's why I keep reminding you lol.
>>719739272 There's quite the story in these comments anon, read it from the beginning. You'll see why
>>719739534 I dunno. If you like talking on /b/ cus of the delay and time to think it's not like we can't just treat kik the same way. I know how instant messengers can change the feeling of the conversation. I think the only benefit is hearing other anons opinions and their triggers, but I think you've probably found the best possible person to talk to about this already
>>719713030 Im in the army. On deployment right now. Goinnback in a few months or so. Planning on nofap febuary hopin that will break me of my fap addiction. When i get back to my wife idc i will randomly start fucking her when we are home. Regardless of what she is doing. Reading a book or doing your knitting on the coutch? Ok take off her psnts and panties and start going down on her then start fucking her. Just woke up? Ok i got morning wood stsrt going doen on her then fuck her after she cumms. Going to bed? Ok strip her panties off go down on her make her cum then fuck her. Every day or whenever i pop a boner i will fuck her. Eventually she will get the idea that this is the way things are now and will start wesring a skirt with no panties for easy access. The sex will be awesome if she just ignores me while i fuck her or while im going down on her unless she orgasms then goes bsck to what she was doing while i impregnate her.
>>719739783 If you want to talk here because you're worried of talking about things you shouldn't, just refer to it as "taboo". I'll catch your drift. The emails are important to the physical/mental health side of this. I ain't putting that shit out for /b/ to pick apart and fuck with me over.
To be frank I can't believe I haven't had someone fucking with me for what I've already said. I've mentioned Margot before on /b/ (not by name though) and had some guy go out of his way to tell me it was my fault and that I should kill myself too.
>>719740171 I figured. It was pretty much the only reason I could come up with... This gives me insight into your goals. If you're really worried, post the snake in an email, and I'll know to look here for a thread to talk about it in.
I just found this thread, kinda scary that so many things sound familiar
My main problem is the lack of spontainous erections, and the fact that I can get hard only to porn. Literally, it happened like 3 times so far that I ended in a bed with a girl and just couldn't get it hard, now I am scared to even try again and it got into my brain somehow... I have no idea how to change that now
>>719713030 Don't know. Been married for 20 years. Fuck about 2 times a week still and I still jerk off. In the first several years of our relationship we fucked damn near every day and I still jerked off.
It's just and easy way to blow off stress. I wake up and don't want to go to work so I rub one out and then I'm OK with it.
You're stressing yourself out over whether you can get erect, and are therefore unable to relax around your sexual partner(s). You need to be comfortable before your dick is just going to get hard in a situation like that. Think of it like some sort of instinct thing, where you aren't really meant to fuck when you're in a situation that's stressful.
In general, being comfortable is the biggest thing for anyone else worried about it.
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