What insurmountable personal difficulty are you facing fam?

>>719466400
Seeing this thread.

>>719466607
OWNED

>>719466400
Phamcicle listen to me. just go inside, as your mum to make you some chicken tendies and then go take a shower and brush your teeth, and off to bed. and don't come back here until you're 25 years old.

>>719466400
>>719466607
>>719466688

ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
GOT HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM


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My gf has brain cancer and is gonna take like anywhere from 5 to 15 years to kill her slowly and we've only been dating a little while and i can't leave because of guilt but i don't want to stay. Fucked

well i'm $700~ in debt, I don't want to have to worry about my taxes, I'm so stupid that I'm having a hard time finding the will power to put in a change of address, I'm constantly feeling like I disappoint everyone, I work at a shitty fast-food restaurant, and my left eye is going blind due to some reason even professionals don't know the cause of. I have to get shots in my fucking eye every month to keep it from spreading to my whole field of vision.

I don't know, I'm just tired of working. I'm addicted to cigarettes, I barely have a dollar to my name, and all while I work for money I won't even get to keep while trying to keep everyone happy.

Infinite wanking but fear of intimacy, body fluids and disgust over own body

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>>719466607

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Turning 21 next month
Cant get laid

All I want is to fuck someones brains out, but I can never get past second. Im always left as second best, and all these ugly fucks have girls
All over the place.
God damn fuck me, im Gonna blow my brains out.

>>719466974
Apply to one new job a week. Fix one of your problems and then move to the next.

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>>719466607
BOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMM

>>719466400
money.

>>719466866
1. Shave your head.
2. Tell her that you want to be with her, but your planet needs you.
3. Moonwalk out of the room.
4. Cut all contact with her.
5. ???
6. Sell coconuts for profit.

>>719467375
It's just terrible finding the willpower. I've been applying to other places, parks and recs, postal office, a local pet store, even another food job that isn't as soul-sucking as where I am. It's a college town so it's really hard to find any work once students come into town, and school JUST got back into session. Thanks for the solid advice though anon

>>719466607
funny cause is true

>>719467207
When there is a girl in my school is is offering sex for money. And based on appearance she might charge 100 bucks to 200. I have to say. Even with a condom on she sucks dick so well. And she moves soo fast it's hard not to bust a nut.

>>719466400
>wife leaving me in 2 weeks for a year
>quit job in october over illegal shit
>unemployed with mba
>over qualified or under qualified

Went on an interview today and was told that im a great person but not right for the position. About to be by myself, broke, with no friends.

>>719467207
I had more of a rough time turning 21. then I did 18.. turning 23 in 4 days.

you just have to be bold, and put yourself out there. ask girls out. the only reason butt ugly dudes got girls is because they ask. but believe me when I say, if a hotter guy comes around, those butt ugly dudes are GONE.

>>719468060
I don't understand how someone is over qualified? what the fuck does that even mean?

>>719468177
Means that they wont give me an entry level job because im too skilled but dont have enough experience to be upper management

>>719466974
do you chill in bed in the dark lookin at ur phone with one eye covered by pillow

>>719468177
From the inverviewers position, I think they primarily want someone who will stay in their position for years. If they hire someone who has the education for a better job, they might be out the door again in some months.

Even though I want to do something, in the end I always lack the initiative and motivation to finish, or proceed with such thing.

>>719466866
You be the best friend she has ever had, and explain how you feel in all its entirety

Simple as that man, good luck!

>>719468384
but how are you too skilled? do you see where that literally makes no fucking sense?

A: can they do the job? Yes? move to C no move to B
B: not hired
C: hired.

>>719468177
Basically means that you could up and leave for a better job whenever, regardless of your situation

>>719468550
Yep, graduate degrees are a double edged sword

>>719468550
that logic is flawed big time, still makes no fucking sense.

if someone is over qualified means they will pick up the job easy, with very little training, even if they leave in a year, you put almost ZERO effort into training them, so them leaving in a year literally means dick.

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fam treating me like shit.. work for my dad but dont talk to him anymore.. asked for me and wife to stay at there house till we can find another home.. mom say fuck no.. then alows little sis n her husband to stay and build house across the street from them. Im mentally fucked. taking meds. hating life. thank god for my wife. or i would have ended it

>>719468611
You clearly don't have much experience in the job world

>>719466400
Wife has stopped wanting to do anything intimate with me. Even a hug is out of the question.

I'm fucking devastated. She doesn't even think it's a problem.

>>719468955
That picture is deep

>>719468802
Learning a job is more than the technical skill though, especially in a big company - there are administrative routines and getting to know the other people and their roles before you become efficient as well

>>719468611
Doesn't work that way friend. Wish it did. Not worth the risk of training someone for a job then have them quit a month later and have the cost of hiring and training another individual.
To be fair, i was offered a decent salary at a job but declined bc the company was restructuring and after being flown down and meeting the people currently in that position, felt that it wouldnt exsist in 2-3 months. Im not moving to a new place for that

>>719469152
its true. death is comming up. nothing material matters in this life. its all shit

Recently had a bad reaction with an anti depressant. I had a prolonged manic episode where I flipped out, punched the walls until I broke my hand, and nearly lost my wife and kids. Now my diagnosis is bipolar.

I've had a permanent negative change in my brain chemistry. I now have to take mood stabilizers, but it's a slow process to get the dosing right so I still have bad days where I have to stop myself from being violent and other days where I have to stop myself from killing myself.

So this is what the rabbit hole looks like from the bottom...

Still, could be worse. Could be schizophrenia.

Just have a hard time finding the motivation to do what I need to do in school. I'm a hard worker but I can't progress my life any further without the willpower to finish school. It makes me so depressed. And I know you're not supposed to just get all sad from this shit. You're supposed to fix these things but I don't know how to not feel like sub-human shit all the time.

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>>719466400
Social anxiety and weight loss. I mean yeah, 45 pounds down already and 50 more to go, but I don't have shit for confidence and can't make friends

A gas leak in my apartment fucked me up real good. Pretty sure my brains are permanently fried.

Crohns disease

>>719469573
same here.. they got me on depakote.. idk if its working or not... but what u said about a permanent brain change toward the negative is sooo true.. i was drinking beer with xannax.. doc said to stop

I wanna blow people up in the name of Allah, but I'm too stupid to make a bomb.Other cell members are making fun of me.

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>>719469000
Wow broad and generalized statements... you don't have much experience on this website. didn't you see the 18+ warning when you entered?

>>719469172
All of my nopes.gif still doesn't make sense to not hire someone based off them being "over qualified"

>>719469200
Works that way in every place I've ever worked, friend have worked, family as worked. and even works that way in my own business now..

I don't have to hire a guy to run the tablesaws, and 2 chads walk in, chad A goes "I have no skills and don't even know what a table saw is." and chad B goes "I worked for another company for 5 years and operated a tablesaw" I'm gonna hire chad B because he knows what the fuck hes doing with my tools.. simple little training to make sure he wears safety glasses, and knows how to stand out of the way of kick back, and feeding procedures. and there's not much more to have him do but to start cutting...

why would anyone hire Chad A? lmao so stupid.

I'm pretty sure I have OCD and I just can't go on like this anymore

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Fucked myself hard, basically failed too many classes in my dumbass Associates degree program because too distracted with being young and on my own and booze, brought my GPA so low that I'm no longer eligible for financial aid.

what's fucked up is that I took a break from school, I had just started on my own and decided I wasn't ready and I needed to grow up more. I worked on my general work ethic and drive at a 9-5 job as a painter and figured myself out a little more. I finally decide I'm serious ready to attack this bullshit degree with unrelenting focus so I can move on to a 4 year college and bigger better things. I then find out I can't really come back unless I start paying for my classes on my own, which yea it's community college but I'm living paycheck to paycheck as it is. most classes are on average $300 and I need 2 semesters of full course loads.

I'm broke and I know I can get my life on track with school but already squandered my opportunity

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>>719468064
Randomly asking people doesnt work though.

You get shot down or called a creep.

>>719469891
Hahahahah. Birdbrain!

>>719466400
I cannot stand the fact women have it way easier than me.
I cannot stand the fact many men deal with many things easier than me
I cannot stand the fact many school mates make more money than me
I cannot stand the fact my gf became way more ugly since she got cancer, chemo and a mastectomy
I cannot stand the fact my gf must take hormones in order to cope with cancer leaving her sterile and prone to an early menopause
I cannot stand the fact I'm tied to this kind of life where everyone else have it better and smoother than me.
I cannot stand the fact a few men have access to tons of human doll pussies while I do not even want to have that wasted aging pussy of my gf because few money, no friends and tons of debt commitments.
I cannot stand the fact that any quest for better achievements is blocked by the law because I'm an ex-con
I cannot stand the fact I'm just another anonymous citizen of a shithole country.

>>719469739
Congrats on your weight loss man. As you loose more you will gain confidence. Just don't become a skinny bitch, bulk up too

>>719470078
depends where you live, who you're asking, and what the cultures like..

you can ask Indians/Middle eastern girls out on dates like right after you meet them.

Brazilians you best become her best friend before asking for a relationship.

American girls, want to be courted and treated nice, then a good ol' fuckin. then asked for a more serious relationship

Landwhales, say yes to even anal...

>>719470079
I'm not retarded just forgetful and maybe a little uncoordinated. Feels like I'm dazed all the time.

I'm Trans and sick of people who say it's "okay", bitch it's not okay shut the fuck up

>>719466400
>insurmountable personal difficulty
There Are No Unlockable Doors
There Are No Unwinnable Wars
There Are No Unrightable Wrongs
Or Unsingable Songs

There Are No Unbeatable Odds
There Are No Believable Gods
There Are No Unnameable Names,
Shall I Say It Again? Yeah

>>719470295
Yeah thats the plan. My anxiety prevents me from going anywhere near the weights at the gym though, cramped with huge guys who look like they could fuck me up

I'm thinking of finding another gym which might not be so crowded

>>719470010
The difference seems to be that you run a quite small company with little need of education or experience - come back all offended if you want to, but the qualifications needed in your case, are so low, you wouldn't have been in trouble if just Chad A applied.

>>719470522
What? In what context are they saying "it's okay? "

>>719469891
>my brains are permanently fried.
How many do you have?

>>719470444
Hahahahah. Birdbrain!

>>719466400

im afraid of women

>>719470734
3/4

>>719470010
No, you don't get it. You wouldn't hire Chad A because he's under qualified, but you would hire Chad B because he is qualified. Say if a Chad C were to come in and say. "Hi, I have 5 years experience in table saw shit. But I also have lots of other qualifications that make me wanted in other fields". You would still hire Chad B because he is less likely to get other job interviews but Chad C could leave at any moment

>>719469688
This was my exact situation anon. I had a 3.7 GPA going into my senior year and just couldn't handle school any more. Became very depressed. Stopped going to classes. Stopped going to my shitty retail job. Everything seemed like shit. Had to withdraw from school two semesters. Finally got it done. Best advice is to talk, talk, talk. When you leave shit in your head it boils over. Use your resources. Go to the school counselor.

>>719470731
I mean when people say it's just a natural thing, that it's not a mental illness, that trans people are happy, bla bla bla
I mean of course you can be happy despite being trans but its definitely not a thing you want to be

>>719466400
deciding whether or not to cuck your dad tonight

>>719466400
I loved her, but she didn't love me. I ended it before I found who she was cheating on me with. Didn't want to know, just ended it and cut all contact with her. And I know I will never trust anyone enough again to love

>>719469939
>depakote

That's what I'm taking too. The dosage is based on serum levels. I assume your doc is having you do blood tests? Also, how's the heartburn? I had to get a heartburn medication just to stay on that stuff.

I'm also easing on to lamotrigine. If you don't ease onto that stuff it can give you a fucking fatal skin rash. Crazy.

As for the cause. I started on a new anti depressant. Mirtazipine. Apparently I'm part of a very select minority of people that lose their shit on that.

I usually stay in bed from 11pm-1or2pm then get out, play video games until 11pm. Rinse and repeat. I live a sad life.

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>>719470726
do you realize you're making excuses with zero information to actually back up your claims? you're making blind insults, while saying

>"oh but don't get mad that I keep telling you, you're absolutely wrong at everything you're saying. You're company is too small to matter and you can just hire chad A because loleasywork"

when clearly you've never seen a 6hp tablesaw, launch a 6x6" through a sheet metal door. or a 9hp planer throw a 1x16" board across the shop floor. Whilst my work seems "Easy" to you, my work will literally kill you for being stupid and careless. unlike some bullshit paper pushing college degree needed firm job. where a mistake is merely someone loses money, boohoo.

>>719470646
Honestly, most people at the gym are nice folk. Who, actually probably feel proud of you because they will have seen your weight loss. You could probably make a few friends there

Addicted to porn, overweight, and autistic

i've been stuck on the same girl for a few months and i'm having a hard time moving past her, we had something going on for a few weeks then we just completely shut off from each other. next thing i know she has a bf, never really got to tell her a lot. i'm not sure when (or if) i should tell her how i truly feel bout her. sounds like middle school relationship problems but that's pretty much whats goin down :/

>>719466400
Nothing is insurmountable, but the aristocracy is very entrenched. I may not have the lifespan required to dismantle it entirely.

>>719470010
Yeah chad b is qualified.

>MBA
>have experience managing 50-100 individuals
>was directly responsible for 20mil in assets
>ran financials

You don't hire me to run your table saw. Even though i have a full shop and years of experience.
>remodeling my house

>>719471325
salty pleb detected

>>719471519
4chan in a nutshell

>>719470943
No I would hire Chad C still, work is easy to find, lots of people need work. if they want to work, and do their job as I need them too, I don't care if they fuck off in 6 months...

>>719470959
Thanks, anon. I definitely dont talk to many people. I do let my problems stay in my head too. I think I've already fucked up. 2018 is my year for sure jk but I might have to drop this winter class and come back next semester. I hate myself.

>>719470010
Chad b is not overqualified in your scenario. Overqualified is someone who can design parts, like an engineer, who takes a job building parts. For example.

None really. Just mortality. Life in general.

Stuff is pretty sweet! I survived a civil war and a genocide, so unless things get really bad nothing is insurmountable.

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>>719466400

I grew up with 0 guidance, my father abandoned me and my mother is a narcissist who played dress up with me my whole life.

I have a seriously deficient sense of judgement and self awareness which has led me to many difficulties in life.

Although much information is available on how to improve yourself without the psychological means to apply it to myself I wander aimlessly through life learning only from my mistakes.

>>719471966
t. bosniak

>>719471689
I sometimes will choose someone with previous production experience for the sheer fact, that they know what the fuck the difference is between a 1hp contractor saw, and a 6hp cabinet saw.

so I'd still hire the first guy over you, because of production experience. sometimes tho it comes down to personality, if someone looks like the type of fuck that needs a smoke break every hour, then I might choose the person who don't smoke..

>>719471670
If you think you can wait it out, maybe just let them date and keep the image of them fucking out of your head, if you're worried about her being gone forever, I'd straight up tell her one day. All's fair in love and war, anon. Just don't kill anyone, for us.

>>719471971

fuckign same, havent seen my schizoid fathersince i was 6

learning everything the hard way sometimes more than once

>>719472172
Haha as a matter of fact i chain smoke like a mother fucker. Stress bro. Went from 3 packs a day to 1 after i quit

>>719471783
So, you would rather have to go through the process of hiring a new employee every 6 months. Rather than having an employee that will work hard and stay loyal because he knows that this job is keeping him alive? I honestly hope for your sake that you don't get a Chad C employee

>>719472160
Yes, but I say yugoslav still.

>>719471325
thats a bad ass hat.

>>719468559
Seconded

>>719466400
Nothing is insurmountable, anons.
Remember, this too shall pass.

>>719466400
My best friend killed himself on Dec 21st. Now I'm spending a lot of time with his Widow and two kids. It's so hard watching them all suffer.

>>719472599
Oh go fuck yourself. This isn't reddit, you feelgood faggot.

>>719470993
Hmmm well I mean if you're already transitioned and it was of your own doing, and you're happy that you transitioned I don't see a problem unless people hassle you about it or you're not happy with the decision. Biologically speaking, I mean I don't think it's normal but what is normal in a world where people live? People are fucking weird. You just do what you think would make you happy and ignore what others think of you.

>>719472400
haha as long as you didn't take extra breaks to smoke, and used your given break times, I wouldn't give two fucks, but had guys that would leave shop, walk down the block, to have a smoke while on the clock. fired them VERY quickly I don't put up with that shit.

>>719472424
you find the employee that will want to stay eventually. like I said before. just because someone is over qualified for the job I'm looking to hire them for. I know they probably need a job just to pay the bills, as long as they fucking do the work right, they get paid, meaning I get paid.

>>719472458
Corn makes best hats.

>>719472679
Went through the same deal a few years ago, except it wasn't a suicide. Your presence keeps them at peace and reminds them of him. Don't stay there too long, then you replace him and your leaving will be almost as bad.