Just found out the girl I love is marrying someone who isn't

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Derpy, yes. Weird, yes. But I caught feels, pls hlp...

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Help me /b/-wan-kenobi, you're my only hope.

>>718531723
How is he a d-bag?

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Oh man, let's just say he's the kind of man who wears a ballcap to dinner in a nice restaurant. I realize that might not seem like a hanging offence, but hell, if we can't maintain some semblance of civility what are we?

Seriously, I just want you guys to say "Nah, it's cool guy. You just have a case of oneitis. It'll clear up soon.

>>718532789
Fuck you. You could have claimed her, but you let yourself get friendzoned. Nobody is to blame here except you.

damn whos the pic
she has great rack
more please

>>718532892
You're not wrong. In fairness though, I met her after she had been with him for 5 years. If I had met her before she decided he was her man? Fuck.

A case of wrong place wrong time. Jerk off to her one last time then try to move on. Do what ever you need to do to get over her. Slowly but surly it'll stop hurting eventually.

>>718532935
She's from a weird thread a hundred years ago about some anon who ostensibly wanted to bang his sister. Meh, whatever, I thought the chick was striking looking so I saved the set. She's a reasonable facsimile to the girl I want, so...

>>718533076
You're a fucking pussy chasing after somebody else's.

Is there going to be tits or am i wasting my time?

>>718533718
Hahaha, you think I don't know that?

>>718533778
Those are the four pics of that girl that I have. They're from /b/, so maybe I didn't see the true origin. Sorry, OP does not deliver.

I'll give it to you straight faggot if he is really such a douche and you don't think he deserves her tell her that. If she thinks he's a douche too and doesn't want to be with him she will get the idea there is help out of that shit.
If she has willingly and happily dated him for five years, doesn't complain about his douchery, isn't getting beaten physically or emotionally then you back the fuck off like the beta you are and find another tree to bark up.

>>718531723
this post made me lolz.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KlT4YXyNGA

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>>718534689
FUCK. He's not a bad guy. In other circumstances we could be friends. He just...takes her for granted. I realize that's a marginal difference, at best. But, so what? He doesn't beat her up? That isn't the baseline metric.

Kind of in same boat. Had a very flirty relationship with a girl over the past 7 years. Timing was always off. She would be single, I would have gf. I would be single, she would have bf. Now I have a gf(kinda of on a break tho), she's engaged to marry in May. We just started banging a few months ago behind our significant others backs. It's easier because we keep it a secret because we both have something to lose. But more than ever, I want her to marry me instead of him.

>>718531723
Damn dude, who is that lady?
She has become my new 10/10 standard.

>>718535105
Fucking pro-tip: tell her how you feel. You stand to lose nothing except possibly face. So long as you aren't japanese, face is nothing.

>>718532432
Sooooooo.... what you're saying is, he's probably got more game than you and you're some autistic shitlord who is sitting here on 4chins fucking crying his balls out cause some "d-bag" came in and stole some chick who was probably a million years out of your league anyway?

Literally set your computer on fire and kill yourself, or accept your situation as a horrendous waste of oxygen and try to make something better of yourself and try for someone more realistic.

/thread

>>718531723
Love is two directional, what you feel is a unilateral obsession that has nothing to do with her, and everything with what you want her to be to you

You are torturing yourself with that naive delusion

>>718535293
Oh she knows, and I know how she feels. We're currently stuck in this weird soul-mate-wrong-timing dilemma. I can see a life long relationship with her way more than my current gf. It's hard.

>>718535497
That's an excuse. "Soul mate" shit is a woman's cuck way of trying to string you along nigger.

Try harder or go find something more worth your time.

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>>718532432
More of her and I'll give you a professional's advice.

>>718535497
Yeah, you're a fucking idiot.

Oh it's not. It's truth. And I really think if this wedding wasn't already 100% paid for I could convince her otherwise. Still might have a very small chance. She talks about how others would act if we got together. It's not unrealistic

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>>718535715
Then why are we banging after 6 years of nothing more than a drunken kiss? Nothing but talking behind our bf/gfs back. I think she is scared of what family and friends would say about her.

>>718535762
Because the cost of the wedding is the important thing here?

God damn, how did you survive birth?

>>718535581
See >>718535762
Sorry I'm mainly a lurker

>>718535872
I think fucking around on your significant others is hardly a metric for success in a relationship, you sorry son of a bitch.

>>718535886
Fuck, man. I'm not that guy, but I totally understand how shit like that SEEMS important.

The truth of the matter is she found someone she's willing to marry. That means she's either A: really dumb and rash and you don't want that in your life anyway, or B: genuinely happy with this guy.

In either circumstance, you had your chance and you lost it. You probably are only truly upset because you're seeing all these regrets of opportunities missed flashing by.

If you really wanted her, you wouldn't be with your "current gf" you would have been trying to win this chick over.

>>718535886
Yeah it is. Do you realize how much weddings cost? People aren't looking to throw away thousands of dollars. We aren't well off by any means

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>>718536036
Pretty much that dude.

Are you sure you're not "making it up?" Like some power trip fantasy?

>>718535962
You do crazy shit when you think it is truly the ONE. I'm not proud of it

>>718536043
Cont.

Do yourself a favor and use all these pent up emotions to break up with your girlfriend who deserves better than someone who is so far emotionally gone from the relationship that he posts "boohoo's" on 4chan and use the opportunity to work on yourself and find something for YOU that works.

>>718536043
I know, right? I'm not this asshole, I'm OP, but dude, if you don't see a future for yourself and your current gf then ditch her and chase the dream.

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>>718531723

This WHOLE thread is you in the mirror. She's nowhere to be seen. That fact that you're here looking for solace says a lot. Start tomorrow my friend.

Fuck her dude! There is some cunt out there just go get some! I've fucked 96 hoes so far and basically they're all stupid and self centered. Just go out and have fun while you can!

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>>718536272
Shit gets different when you're older. Family and society likes to put these time constraints on you for when you should settle down and marry.

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>>718536623
Don't give me the "older" bullshit.
That's a pisspoor excuse and you know it.

>>718531723

show us the damn tits

>>718536759
Seeing them silhouetted through the top is soo much hotter than any nude.

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>>718536706
Lol it's not. if I could choose I'd never grow up. I'd stay single, party, and bang college chicks all day. But when the parents start to harp on you more and more about settling down and finding someone, you know it's expected and anything else would be a failure

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>>718537096
"When the parents start to harp"
Yeah, you're either way younger than me or too immature to be thinking about marriage material on your own if you're that dominated by what your parents think.

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>>718537188
Lol how old are you? And yes I respect my parents immensely and care how they feel and think about me.

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>>718537308
Old enough to take charge of my own life and not live my personal life around other people's expectations.

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>>718537371
Lol they will love me no mater what. And I'm probably older than you then. And they would be just as happy for me with my current gf as they would if I were to steal away the love of my life.

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>>718537571
Problem is regardless of your age, you are clearly not emotionally mature enough for a woman who is clearly wanting to get married.

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>>718537631

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>>718537667
If we were both single we'd be the ones getting married, Without a doubt and she says it too. I'm plenty mature. Sadly were the longest relationship each other has had, even though it's been kept secret the whole time.

>>718537887
Naw. If you had your shit together you wouldn't be with your current girlfriend while pining after this other woman.

And kudos to whoever keeps posting hot naked chicks between all my mtv-esque drama

>>718537887
So fucking do it you coward. Tell your sidebitch "ey, marry me or whatever,"

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>>718537951
Why not? Instead I should be single the whole time while she is engaged and will most likely inevitably cut if off in the near future?

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>>718538169
last pic. time to go around again.

>>718538274
Yes. You should not be with your current GF. That should not even be in question.

>>718538006
Maybe I will......but in a little more romantic way

>>718538329
You've never loved more than one person at a time?

>>718538416
Yes, I have. That's not the point.
The point is you're so enamored with this other woman that it's clear your current relationship is pointless. Either break up with her or get over the one who is getting married.

It's not healthy for you or your girlfriend.

>>718538274
Dude, I swear to fucking whatever. I'm 30 goddamned years old and I've been in love 4 times. Four times in 30 years. That's not a real common occurrence. If this girl is the one for you then burn yourself to ash trying to be with her, There's no other answer.

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>>718531723
>picture this bitch, because she's close enough

don't tell me what to do

>>718538527
For clarity's sake: 3/4 are married with children now. The last is merely in a long term relationship.

>>718538525
It's pointless until the engaged girl cuts every communication off. Which is what I worry about. No is throwing away a relationship that might be just as great

>>718538780
How does your girlfriend feel about being your backup, then?
And if your answer is "she doesn't know" then you have all the answer you need about your emotional maturity.

>>718538527
Im more with you on this. I may have to give it my all to convince her I'm the one. And don't give a fuck what society or friends and family will think and say. All that matter is that you make yourself happy.

>>718538917
Because I'm not willing to risk everything to have a chance at my absolute dream girl, albeit a small one, makes me emotionally immature? It's not like I would carry on two "relationships" forever