Statistics steadily show that women have been getting more and more unhappy since the 1940's.
Why is it that women do not realize that as they encroach on men's territory and get further and further away from the kitchen (not intended as an insult, just mean homemaker) they get less happy, and most of the time are unhappy.
And now you have "Sugar babes" giving and taking seminars on how to be "Sugar babes", but the funny thing is the group that fills this category is women who have graduated college/university, and are trying to pay off their student loans and do nothing with the rest of their lives despite the fact they worked so hard to achieve something at school.
Also you now have ugly ass women thinking they're hot shit because of the whole "My body is beautiful at any shape/size" movement, and won't go for guys unless they're literally 9-10/10 and have a 100k+ a year salary.
I think all of this shows women are fucking bat shit crazy, and need to take a step back and look at themselves in the mirror and ask themselves "What the fuck am I even doing!?"
>>718422286 Would you say this could possibly be related to the fact that societies role models have changed from people that actually deserve respect and instill good qualities to those who aspire, to celebrities and people of wealth who are of questionable character?
With the age of computer technology and photographs can the age of egotistical assholes you've lost touch with things bigger than themselves. Whether those things be advancement of themselves comma culture comma or religious devotion, etcetera, it's definitely not always a good thing.
>>718422448 Absolutely, well said. Massive de education over those intervening decades also means more people become living mouth-breathing dunning-Kruger's and can't even begin questing down a path of inquiry which would help them find happiness and personal satisfaction that is independent and wholly of their own making and meaning.
>>718421075 Probably because more women started taking surveys. Are you fucking joking with your third party variable bullshit?
You know why unhappy women didn't get polled in the 40's? BECAUSE THEY WERE IN THE KITCHEN and left all that "science jazz" to the men of the house?
Try harder holy shit. Of course more women are unhappy now because we are polling everyone except for the ones that had the time and ability to go out and do shit because their husbands made enough for them to enjoy life.
>>718422810 How does modern society fix this? I've thought about this a lot, and it almost seems impossible. It's almost as if there are too many systems in place that cause this to systematically root out exactly what needs to change and implement these changes to fix this at a level which would properly effect everyone it needs to.
Busy people working on their own stuff tend to not get "unhappy". When a woman (or man for that matter) isn't helping some dipshit get even richer on a dead end soul crushing job, she's at home with her cat and hugbox internet places bawwwing and raging, how can someone be happy that way.
By working on her stuff, improving her family and raising her kids she'd be making her mark on the world and her life would make more sense.
It makes all the sense in the world people in the 40's were happier, they had harder lives but they weren't bio-bots.
>>718423726 Fine, whatever, there's plenty more like it all over the internet, but if you don't want to be here or discuss even the possibility or idea of it then leave.
>>718423667 Perhaps that in itself is one of the only ways it can fix itself, by the people doing what they can when they can and instilling those values unto the next generation, and anyone willing to hear them.
>>718423496 Using drugs is not the same as achieving happiness. Eventually you might lose control and as a result it breaks your life down and makes you self-pity yourself. If you want to be like that be my guest.
You know just as well as i do that i'm talking long-term happiness that's not damaging to you. Drugs is short-term happiness with a whiplash if you try to extend that happiness.
>>718421075 its because since the 1940s theyve had to step up and do the same things men have, thus making them depressed. men have it worse in almost any statistic, there is no wage gap(in the developed western world at least), and women can;t get away with that "oh i'm just a girl, buy me things, i can never do anything wrong' narrarive
>>718421075 Women basically have two options -house slave/ sex toy -independent free woman who must work as a secretary with an electrical engineer diploma With both of them having significant pros and cons
The problem starts with the fact that men are too stupid or stubborn to realize that technically we have 2 choices as well: -daddy / moneybag -partner / you'll have sex her way
Most women expect to be sex toys while being independent and free meaning they want to ditch the responsibilities to work either around the house or at a workplace. Same goes for us men, we want a sex toy who does the work around the house and earns money at the same time just to ditch the responsibilities of taking the role of the fund provider of the family, make compromises to her favour and to avoid doing work around the house. These two expectations collide all the time and while men are more suited to live alone, women are very sociable and require company. One would believe that they find comfort in their numerous friends but it becomes very uncomfortable when everyone else has a BF or a hubby except her. She could say that some of her friends have chosen their partner hastily and their guy is a total douche who is using them, but then she would risk losing her friends too. In this case she either takes up one of the responsibilities, becomes forever alone or becomes a feminist fuck and blogs some utter bullshit like this asshole: http://thoughtcatalog.com/anne-gus/2014/06/when-he-says-no-denying-a-woman-sex-is-rape/
All of the choices leading to disappointment that results in unhappiness.
Women going for a diploma and wanting to become whores is a smart choice on their side. They leave doors open for both choices. If they can't find a guy who would keep them like pets, or the guy BTFO them, they will still have a diploma and a chance to get a job to live on their own.
>>718424057 The "wage gap" is an interesting topic, not because it has any semblance to any real phenomena, all economists know this and never take a "wage gap" into consideration because it doesn't exist.
But because it's one of many things that women have held on too as a form of self pity, along the same lines of that "oh I'm just a girl, buy me things, I can never do anything wrong" and that there just has to exist some patriarchy that's out to get them, when really women graduate uni/collage at a 2-1 rate higher than men, have advantages in the job market, various other things, and also have men still buying them things and treating them like princesses in many cases.
>>718423878 Mate, what the hell? Just because I disagree with the root cause does not mean I can't discuss it.
The OP argued that this was a womens issue and I disagree.
Many of the cited causes of increased misery affect both men and women, coupled with different reporting of emotional wellbeing between genders and I just don't think that this is a issue of sex but rather an issue of economics.
>>718424363 I think you need to do more research, and when statistics are literally thrown in front of you instead of looking at them and "deciding" for yourself they're false, you should take them at face value.
So you don't like the source? Then look into the same subject at a different source. This is something reported by many different outlets.
You're right, you can discuss, but at least be informed, or what's the point?
Males are spineless spaghetti spewing fuckups. Women are just uptight shells of what used to be good wives and honest people. It's prevelent in our media as well. News doesn't have to be news and people repeat it like it's fact. Movies are all reboots and she bullshit (The Force Awakens). I see hoards of retards pouring time and money into microtransaction mobile games. Popular culture has successfully vilified patriotism, masculinity, deep/critical thinking, and true creativity without boundaries. Shit makes me sick to my stomach. It's definitely why depression and suicides have been on the rise lately. The best part is Donald Trump can't change that culture and it's going to take a war or natural disaster and a few million deaths before anything really changes. We're fucked kids.
You're not going to write a whole book because you know I'm right. Your level of reasoning is that of a 7th grade fat liberal girl
>"Who cares just do you xD"
Its like you sound like one of those hippies who has done acid and suddenly feels like "Doing what you love" is the meaning of love Fucking faggot. Different people have different tastes when it comes to doing what they love and some of them are plain destructive or perverted. What? Do you unironically believe that "le there are le good in every person" meme? There is a reason why laws exists and if we lived by the motto "Just do what makes you happy", we would be in an anarchy state. Of course, you're simply too stupid to understand that.
>If by any means this is how you would achieve happiness then that tells more about you, in a bad sense, than it does to my reasoning. >Obviously too retarded to know what an example is
You know as someone who lost their wife over finical issues I get it. I don't get why people put so much stock in material things. Love is what makes a home not stuff. I'd rather live in a cardboard box under a bridge then a mansion without you Sam
The reason young people (both genders) are so unhappy is because of one thing. Modern women ONLY want men that don't want them. This creates a situation where the guys playing the indifference/jealousy games are cornering the market and a quarter of the guys are getting like 3/4 of the women. The rest of the women are *still* unsuccessfully shooting for that quarter that acts like they *brazenly* don't want them. The guys who actually act interested and sweet are quickly friendzoned or ditched altogether. This creates a situation where BOTH genders are going lonely and any dating is highly dysfuctional.
I was wondering WHY modern women do this and previous generations did not, part of it has to do with the sexual revolution and part of it has to do with economics. EVERY woman is most attracted to a provider, a man with a good income and some nice things (and nearly all mammals do this as well, the men that are the best hunters, that have the largest territory; win the women).
Since incomes have been virtually stagnant since the 90s and costs have went up four-fold, not very men (except older ones) have anything in life at all. In the old days you could buy a home and potential women would come flocking. Now no one owns shit and women are flocking to the few guys that do (who usually play the field and treat them apathetically).
Source? Life experience and I also used to play the indifference apathy games. And it worked, I had 4 fuckbuddies for a while. Then I fell in love. And she bolted. Everything women *say* they want is 180 degrees false, they WANT a man that doesn't care, that treats them indifferently, that waits days before responding to a text and it's just a one word answer, a guy who throws other women in her face.... and obviously a man with some wealth and power.
>>718426244 Focusing on the part about throwing other women in their face - that part is very important. Women become stagnant with no competition on the field, you can even experiment with this if you have a partner. If another woman flirts with you in the presence of your partner, she will get jealous and later feel the need to 'mark her territory' so to speak - she will fuck your brains out, almost guaranteed.
>>718426451 Yup, something I realized very early on. If a woman is pulling away or beginning to treat you like shit. THE LAST THING YOU DO IS TRY TO BE NICER OR SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU CARE. You simply start hanging out with different women, and you let her find out casually (without making it seem like you're doing it on purpose). They'll come back on their knees extremely remorseful and doing their best to show you that THEY CARE.
Women are slimy.
The last thing you do is tell a woman that you only have eyes for her or that you want no one else....
Women think any many of value must be chased a bit, if you show her that you're just hers, she'll be done with you within a week (and likely within days).
I used to play those type of games.... but truth is that I'm an honest caring guy who WANTS a woman I can be loving towards. The end result? I went from 4 fuckbuddies at the same time to no women at all in 3 years.
Women don't want honest, don't want genuine, don't want nice, don't want faithful.... they just want an apathetic guy who always makes it obvious how many other women are interested....
It's fucking ridiculous. No wonder everyone's dating life isn't happy.
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