What is your excuse to not be at any new years party ?
Im supposed to go to some rich guys house with 6 of my friends, entry 20$, around 100ish people and free drinks, however my license was taken away and it would take me an hour with trams and buses since I live kinda far so yea...
>Planned to go to gf's house and party with her family
>Her brother asks if he can invite his girlfriend who he has been dating for 5 days
>Mom says no
>Says "Now i can't let anon come because if i do it will be unfair to your brother"
>Even though i've been dating my gf for 18 months
I'm so pissed
Collapsed in June from neglecting food
Have been experiencing constant panic/anxiety attacks since then :D
>drunken drama queens
>venues will charge to get in and will probably be at least 4 deep at the bar
>yay! Fake people wishing you a happy new year, only to be a dick to you later on
Your question seems to imply that lurking on /b/ or waiting for happenings on /pol/ while drinking whisky and listening to metal is a bad thing OP
>going to bars that make you pay admission
cause i'd rather kill myself than being around a bunch of people I barely know or even care about talking about how this year will be better than the last one when we all know it's gonna be complete and utterly shit.
I enjoy my solitude, and I hate being out during holidays due to the increased drunken morons roaming the streets and driving unsafely.
New Years and St Patrick's Day are the top 2 most avoided holidays. They don't really serve a purpose other than to hang around with people and get trashed. A day to change a calender and the other...to pretend we're all irish? I don't fucking know.
There will be rapes, there will be murders and brawls. The easiest thing to do is drink in the comfort of my own home and not worry about the toddlers who don't know their drinking limits and idiots crashing into each other. It's not worth the risk, and the holiday itself is ridiculous.
Yep, seriously. Even local pubs, otherwise staff wont work because of the new year party shit.
Unlike The US, employers actually have to pay bar staff properly instead of this tipping shit they rely on
>not drinking in a party designed to get proper adults drunk
Why even go? Seriously, unless there's a hot chick involved and you're trying to get laid I don't see the actual appeal for you to go.
>needs coke and hash to attend a party
No, you're just a drug addict who is finding an excuse to get lit. You're not fooling anyone. If it's that painful for you to go, then simply don't go? Ever think about that?
I think he's saying that the guy claimed to have a psychotic breakdown and lost all his friends to us, wanting attention on the fact he was being stupid and everyone wants to stay away from him because he's not psychotic, he's just a moron.
I personally find it hard to believe someone lost ALL their friends over a single point of time. Which is bullshit, unless all his friends were gathered together and he came running at them with a machete or some shit. I find the statement unbelievable.
I simply want to stay at home alone, that's actually pretty nice.
Actually at a party with some couples and their kids. I'm divorced and my kids is with mom. Felling a little depressed.
>at a party where there are kids
That's not a party anon.
>Feeling a little depressed
Then drink, the whole point of this calender-changing holiday is to say goodbye to the old year and start off fresh. With goals, and ambition and whatever else nonsense people make themselves believe.
Lemme boil it down, I'm a semi-whipped man, who has a clean criminal record and is addicted to nicotine and cannabis, and sometimes likes to indulge in other narcotics
if you're trying to make me feel bad about my lifestyle its not working
>3 weeks sober
whoopie doo, what's the point of being sober if you can't have a drink? What's even the point of being sober in the first place? Isn't a holiday the best time to have a drink that is socially acceptable?
So just spend it alone? I mean, you already said you didn't want to go...so just don't go. I mean I wouldn't trust a bunch of drunken guys around someone who I consider my girlfriend/best friend but that's really not your problem.
Frankly I'm tired of them. The ones downtown are always full of idiots or trucks of peace. The local pub gets full of stupid drunks anytime after 11pm. That and I'm low on ammo.
>addicted to nicotine and cannabis, and sometimes likes to indulge in other narcotics
You could of just said you're a junkie who likes to smoke, would of saved you a lot of space.
>if you're trying to make me feel bad about my lifestyle its not working
Make you feel bad? No, you're misunderstanding I like to see people who are more pathetic than I am. It makes ME feel better knowing I'm a non whipped free man who isn't reliant on narcotics. This is giving me a sense of accomplishment, superiority and I can say with confidence "Atleast I'm not THAT guy, jesus christ what a wreck"
I'd have to disagree. I enjoy my solitude and have no desire on wasting money on blow with a woman who is more than likely going to leave me within a certain time frame.
Being in solitude let's me do what I want, within the comforts of my own home.
I had a fever a few days ago and now I got a cold.
I still wouldn't go out had I been fit. Got no friends to celebrate NYE with.
What are you going on about? I choose not to have friends, a relationship. And my family loves me, or so they tell me. So that's something.
Some people are social, others thrive on not being social and rather keep to themselves.
I'm the only girl left in my group of friends thats single and they're all celebrating with their families. No one invited me to any party, so I'm watching back to the future in my christmas pajamas. Feels bad.
I don't go to parties, they're pointless.
>I'm a girl
Way to derail this entire thread. Let me ask you something, WHY did you feel the need to tell us your gender if it wasn't for attention? There was no point in your entire entry that needed it to be known.
How is choosing not to have things that are a waste of time and resources considered autism to you? Or are you throwing that term around and don't actually know what it means?
Don't really feel like it. Usually go to a friends house but two of the guys I messaged drink trying to start a convo (I get chatty sometimes when I drink) and they never messaged back so want to wait a while to let the awkwardness subside.
Work, pizza hut.. Please kill me.
no shit wasn't hiding the fact I was googling it, it's the fact that the official definition describes exactly what you've been saying
im bout to go live my "junkie" lifestyle
happy new faggot
No normal person is on a new years party
In my Country its Normal to be with the family
Well i could go alone into some club and join the other people that also dont stay with their family, but going to a club alone sucks
I went to new years parties past 3 years and really wanted to light some fireworks and be with my parents. Parties at nye SUCK IMO
There's really no "fighting" loneliness. You're alone, you just need to accept that.
People are always alone, no one is ever truly with you. People hang around each other to fill their own void of boredom and loneliness. We do things to forget that everyone you know in this current day and time will eventually leave and be gone forever.
People only lie to themselves by attending things they think have meaning. I mean, look at New Years: A day we change our calenders. We had to make it a bigger deal by throwing in lies like "celebrating" absolutely fucking nothing.
Most of us hate our lives, we work 9-5 jobs and barely have time to even do the things we want to do. So why are we celebrating the end of the year? Because we're told to, we hype it up, we even have to throw in alcohol into the mix just to get people to buy taxed alcohol. It's just a marketing ploy to get people to spend money, go out, and buy new calenders.
You're depressed because you know your own little value. We all have little value. No life is worth more than the other. We just give people like celebrities attention because we're fucking stupid and have nothing else to do.
Be happy for what you have now and stop comparing yourself to everyone else.
be kind anon, it is new years eve.
He can't help it he doesn't have any friends
i dunno, i dont have that much friends, but, im feeling nice here, so i guess i manage
ah ye, so thats my excuse, actually my few friends that i had, all gone living in another city , or country even, so thats that
well and im also depressed or i guess i am, not a psychologist, all in all its nice, i dont like to drink that much anyway, i can take some, but i dont like it,
i have food and drink, all i need would be even more money
>I am a psychopath
I think you meant to say "I'm unable to control anything in my brain because I'm stupid so I'll label myself a psychopath so people would think I'm cool"
No therapist would outright label you a psychopath, you're just an edgy emotional moron.
I guess you're on the right track. dubs of truth, anon.
i told a group of friends that wanted me to party that i already had another party with another group of friends and i told this another group of friends i was already at a party with the first group of friends, lets hope they dont talk to each other kek
why ? because fuck em all i m enjoying my weed
so? you had friends before, but you just decided not to anymore?
or you never had a friend, cause for some random reason, you just decided you dont need any,, eventho you never got any kind of relationship..
I drink and smoke weed and cigarettes all by myself and im not sad.
so far so good.
I'm 31, I've obviously have had friends and relationships within the time span of my existence.
But after the friends go away/move on and relationships fizzle out and leave you questioning why you were with them. You start to really question the weight and value of everything.
There are people who want to get to know me, there are also some who have invited me to either work-related social gatherings or personal events. I simply make an excuse and carry on with myself.
why? is it some shit bar or something?
i mean, you are like in the middle of the party.. ye sure you have to work, but you are still there
and if you really work as a bartender [cause you know, maybe its just artistic fiction] then i guess you at least look decent, so maybe some girl will talk to you
You could always, I don't know, NOT talk to people? I mean talking to me has done nothing for you. You gained nothing besides whittling down some time.
Maybe you need a new hobby, maybe deep down you don't like people and just don't know what to do with yourself?
lets just all agree that even if any of us did go to party, while being there we'd all want nothing more then just being at home.
Yet if we stay home we want to go to a party and socialize.
Dont have money, last time i went to party i crashed my car, i already had 3 traffic tickets to pay off.
My boss cut my pay twice in the 3 months i had the job(i left my,previous job for this promised more pay)
I also play Ark: Survival evolved. I want a damn giga
>paying for overpriced beer and "free peanuts" just to sit next to old people
Boy you sure are showing me the error of my antisocial lifestyle. You're living the god damn dream.
Afew months ago my sister let me fuck her for my birthday because she didn't have enough money to buy me a present.
Past Sunday (Christmas) she let me do it again and let me cum inside her.
She said she want to do it again on new years night because she wants an excuse to not have to go to one of those parties. I hope she let's me cum inside her again.
Well fuck i rather sitting at a bar alone, drinkin beer and learn to know new people than sitting with gf at a party where everyone is "not your kind of type" and TRYING to fit in... also im drunk sooo... happu new year and fuck you guys