This isn't a fucking shota thread.
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I've only been sexually active for a year since the neck beard matured into a full viking one and I started /fit/ but can confirm from personal experience from the four choker-wearing emo girls I've fucked that all of them so far have had an annoyingly prominent choking/mild asphyxiation fetish and 3/4 have gave me unparalleled gagging sloppy blowjobs. BONUS INFO: half of them have let me put in pooper too.
It's common in the sub/dom community for women (and some men) to advertise their status via jewelry and clothing. I've noticed that it's more of a sexual role statement than a fashion statement.
I'd say under 20, they probably just think it looks cool. But over 20, they're letting people in the know see that they are sub. There are all kinds of dumb little tells that people use. 50 Shades of Grey exposed some, and unfortunately, a bunch of ugly fixing housewives to the culture.
Male dom colors are black, denim, and navy.
Female dom colors are red, black, and purple.
When i go out looking for sub women at Collette's, Google it great place, this is what i wear. Keeps everyone from wasting time/drinks.