I'm spying on my soon to be ex GF playing Sims 4 right now.

>>716816276
I say soon to be because she's been doing things I don't like, and won't explain when I ask her about them. Things like hanging out with her exes, or lying about when she's available. It's pissing me off.

>>716816352
She also won't commit to the relationship. She's leading her exes and parents into believing she's single for some stupid reason, so I'm almost at the point where I'm just going to grant her wish.

>>716816417
But the kicker is I think she may still be sleeping with one of her exes. I just caught a brief glimpse of her facebook, and I think she had a chat open with someone called "master". If I can confirm I will break up with her on the spot.

>>716816417
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>>716816276
>>716816489
>TL;DR I'm a cuck little beta fag who can't have a real relationship cause I suck at communication

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Why don't you get yourself a real girlfriend

>>716816509
>Edgy af
Ur mom never love u did she?

>>716816509
She's the one that sucks. I tell her I dont like that she hangs out with them, that when she doesnt commit it makes me feel like she doesnt really care about me. She just shuts down and says nothing. And how is breaking up with someone for cheating being a cuck? Cuckolds get off on their SO fucking other people.

>>716816642
I will be, once I have a good reason or the balls to break up with her.

how fast can you syskey her

>>716817084
Dont even know how, im not a hacker.

Now she's made an evil version of herself and is making her fall for her ex in the sims...

>>716816276
I'm about as technically adept as the average potato. Can you use that to fire up her webcam?

>>716816836
who kills animals is a shit!

>>716817260
Isn't this some sort of red flag ?

>>716816509
>having a problem with drama

>>716817308
Im already chatting with her on skype, but through her phone not her computer.

>>716817432
There are already too many red flags on the field for this to be a surprise to me.

>>716816642
This is hilarious

I would dump her

>>716817583
I am planning on it... as I have already said.

>>716817260
>im not a hacker
wow, nigger

>windows key + R
>type syskey
>click update
>click password startup
>type password twice
>reboot

she can't start her computer without the password. You can hold her computer for ransom til she stops being a whore

>>716816836

>you tell her it seems like she doesnt care about you
>she shuts down and says nothing


Yeah, sounds like she doesn't care at all and wants to be single. sorry op.

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>>716817482
Go post a funny meme or youtube link to her facebook and be like "omg you have to see what I just shared on facebook"

She'll bring up facebook to check.
>This is when you snoop intently.

>>716817613
Why don't you do it now ? You'll be able to monitor her reactions, see which fb friend she bitches to and what she'll say to them

>>716817719
hmm good idea. I'll think of a way to do it without raising alarms. Usually I'll just send them directly through Skype.

>>716817682
I know syskey isn't a hack, I was more saying I'm an average computer user and don't know that much about windows.

>op is a sad stalker who won't really break up with her, he will just use that as a threat to try and bring her back.

It won't work. Then he will rage.

>>716817792
If she closes her laptop it's over. And why would I care once I break up with her? She can be a whore all she wants if I care once she's single.

>>716817884
No intent to threaten her, but use it to show her how terrible of a person she's been toward me to crush her soul.

>>716817856
Easy work-around, browse some facebook sites til you find an article relatively bullshit-able. Share that article and then just link her to the post.

>>716817964
Oh, she might just check on her phone. I think Ill wait for her to go to sleep or something, then hopefully she'll check facebook before closing the laptop.

Her "good" sim is visiting her house while her "bad" sim is still flirting with her ex.

>>716818143
screenshot update us

OP, let me save you a LOT of time and anger.
She is about to break off the relationship with you OR cheat on you, or she already did.

If you don't break it off soon, she will make you feel like a piece of shit.

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>>716818183
here

>>716818204
she's scared to. She took forever to break up with her last boyfriend, she was complaining about him and wanted to break up with him for a year before we started dating.

>>716818143
How old is she? Living fantasies through Sims makes her sound about 12...

>>716818472
22, almost 23

She just quit the game. hopefully she doesnt close team viewer.

>>716818524
She closed it. Well shit, I guess I'll just answer any questions about how bad of a GF she's been to me.

thank you Op; this wasn't a template thread.

>>716818582
That's super childish behaviour - and just off as hell.
Sounds like way too much drama, how you gonna confront / break up with her?

If she's searching for a 'master' and has one she's talking to, just sounds like you're a little bitch OP. Not fulfilling this sluts needs hey...

>>716818582
Post her snapchat or kik and we'll all hit on her.
If she doesn't immediately reject all offers, clearly shes looking for other fields to play on.

>>716818778
This

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>>716818778
Yeah do this

>>716818778
this

>>716818778
This OP

>>716818778
This

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>>716818778
>>716818809
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>>716818875
yea, and you'll just tell her her bf was spying on her. Like I'll fall for that.

>>716818866
double dubs confirm it OP

>>716818888
Look you quad wasting cuckboi if you didn't want our brand of help why the hell are you here

>>716818888
>QUADS!

also post nudes

>>716818888
Honestly haven't thought about that, but you're right. You cant trust us.

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>>716818888
OP we wanna put this bitch in a hilariously awkward situation of getting caught out. Post it. Just look at me? Would I lie to you.

>Pic related

>>716818706
What I want to do is try to convince her to have a new year's party at her place, then when midnight rolls around kiss her in front of everyone. If she recoils or pushes me away I would then make a scene about why she's been distant and cold to me all this time and storm out, making her out to be the villain in front of all her friends.

>>716818945
Maybe I just want to vent? /b/ is for random shit, this isn't /adv/

>>716818384
Holy shit, it's obvious she's conflicted and using Sims to try to decide which choice is better

Also, if she talked to you for a year before breaking up with her bf, HUGE red flag and she's not gf material.

>>716818888
it sounds like a poisonous relationship anyway, and you know it fella - whether she is cheating or not, at this point. you know what you need to do OP.
Quit wasting time and get rid of her. It'll suck but the sooner you're rid the sooner you can get back to enjoying YOUR life and not trying to please another who sounds like she doesn't want to be pleased by you. Sorry to break it to you bro. Next bit's the hardest but after that is a dream.

>>716819015
You make a compelling argument. Her snapchat is gofuckyourself/b/

>>716819034
>Holy shit, it's obvious she's conflicted and using Sims to try to decide which choice is better
That's pretty sad imo

>>716819033
P.s. is that worth it? What if she tries to turn it around & you guys end up airing your dirty laundry? Keep it private man - these things almost always backfire

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>>716819115
Snap wasn't found are you sure that's the right username?
>being that edgy
>>>>>/k/

>>716819034
yea, I get that.

>>716819090
I know. All my friends tell me to get out. I just haven't found the right time. I have a bad habit of building scenarios in my head and how they will play out, and waiting too long for things to happen.

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Come on, just give us the snapchat... I promise there's no pesky WK's around.

>>716819188
>I know. All my friends tell me to get out. I just haven't found the right time. I have a bad habit of building scenarios in my head and how they will play out, and waiting too long for things to happen.
Are you literally me?

>>716819213
Kek'd at pic lol

>>716819188
Them ACT. ACT now! Quit waiting. Did you confront her about the Master thing? Because even just roleplay without physical acts, she's literally given herself to somebody else... The longer you leave it the worse it will get.

>>716819226
I second this

>>716819226
Maybe. Do you think you are smarter than everyone around you yet you haven't even made it through college even though you are 26 years old?

Dude if she refuses to acknowledge that you are her boyfriend and you think you are you are a tool. Don't be pussy whipped. Fuck her move on. Sounds like she is using your naive ass. Get over her.

>>716819258
Asking her about her master would be admitting I spied and that wouldn't turn out too well. I need to find a legit way to say I saw it.

>>716819274
Not anymore. I'm close to that age (few years older), but I realized I'm not as smart as I think I was and that I don't know jack shit about how the world works after all.

has it ever occurred to you that she might wanted to leave the connection open
you cant know if she is sitting there and watch you do
maybe she wants you to spy in her
and see if she can trust you

>>716819324

Suggest kinky roleplay
"You can call me master"
Observe chaos.

>>716819251
RIP (You.) :(

>>716819422
>not using 4chanx/clover

>>716819181
>>716819033

I asked originally and I think I agree. There's no need to trick her into it, because otherwise you are just as bad. If she's not doing anything wrong at the moment and is just a bit messed up, you spying on her is worse than her doing nothing and all her/your friends will think you're an asshole and you'll lose more out of the break up than just her.
If she is 22/23 then just ask her and say that all these problems are putting too much stress on the relationship for you, and that it isn't healthy if they continue.
Obv up to you, but I always talk my way through shit or out of shit.
Trust me when I say the New Years thing might mess you up.

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>>716819466
I don't know man

>>716819530
Obviously don't tell her the master thing because it'll give her fuel to make the break up your fault.
If you are waiting for shit to happen, most people on the thread are right, make shit happen.

>>716819410
I could do that.

>>716819466
you're right, it's a bad idea.

>>716819661
that's not me.

>>716819410
fucking kek

>>716816352
>I'm a jealous piece of shit who needs to occupy 100% of my girlfriend's free time

Give her some space, man. People want their alone time, too.

>>716819794
This, stop being so clingy OP

>>716819794
People don't lie if they just want some alone time. A decent human beings just announces it to their SO.

>>716819874
Not if you're an insecure faggot who gets mad

>>716819702
Fair both comments were me.
What does she specifically do to annoy you?
Hanging out with exes one on one?

>>716819661
Be a fucking man and realize that shit ain't working and brake it off. You don't seem to happy about shit, she probably isn't either. It's not about winning or loosing it's about both of you doing what the fuck you gotta do to be happy.

>>716819874
I lie about it, usually because if I told her that I'd rather play video games all night than cuddle and have sex she'd feel bad, there's no harm in saying that I'm at a friends house or spending time with the family as a cover.

>>716819990
That's not okay, that's just having little disposition to lying..
>>716819874 is right, a normal person just asks for space when they want it - space isn't wanting to play video games, it's needing to be alone for a bit

>>716819990
You don't have to explicitly state that you'd rather play vidya than cuddle. Just tell her you need some time for yourself. Nothing wrong with that, anon.

What if she calls your friend's house or family or whatever the fucking odds are and she finds out you've been lying?

This is a train wreck. Quit being a baby back bitch and drop her.

>>716820292
She hasn't done anything wrong yet, OP is just paranoid

>>716820326
OP doesn't seem very satisfied or happy. That's reason enough. Sometime people don't do "wrong" things, just relationships don't work out sometimes.

>>716816276
You realize she knew you could see her playing Sims the whole time right?

>>716820521
Yes but that's because he's created problems in his head and attributed them all to her.
Sometimes relationships don't work out, yeah, but sometimes one person is far too invested in there being an issue that they destroy the relationship.

>>716820626
This. There is technically no reason to break up with her. If I do so now she will tell her friends I broke up because I was being paranoid or trying to push too fast and she wasn't ready, even though the real reason is she's not communicating.

>>716820545
I don't believe she did. I think she thought I ended the remote access on my own as I had done so earlier. She even showed me something on her screen through skype on her phone at one point.

As for the communication stuff here are a few examples of her not communicating properly to me.
1. She went with her ex to a theme park Christmas thing without telling me she was going or asking if I wanted to go.

2. I said we should see Rouge One together, and she said she already had plans to see it with another friend. Again, she did not ask if I was okay with that or if I wanted to do it with her.

3. I asked if she was available after work on Christmas Eve so we could hang out for a bit, and she said she needed to be home immediately after work because family was coming over, but she posts on snapchat that she went to McDonalds with some fucboi I hate right after her shift. This one was an outright lie. I have not mentioned this one yet, but I have mentioned to her I did not like the other two incidents.

>>716821282
Even further, I asked if she was available Christmas day, and she said she was going to hang out with her friends at her place. She didnt invite me until her friends told her to. Her text was "Everyone's inviting you over". I should have said never-mind, but I went over anyway.

>>716821282
You'll be better off without her. People don't change unless they really want to.

>>716821282
Op, she clearly is a "fuck you" material, leave her and live a happier life, don't attach to something just because you invested time in it, would you be with a lady if she told you that this is going to happen from the first day?

>>716821467
You are right. but refer to >>716819188

Unless something happens that makes the moment right I am unlikely to take action. I know its an issue, I'm just trying to work it out.

>>716821282
>>716821459
Seems like a shitty person m80. Nobody needs that shit.

>>716819188
I'm exactly the same, but there comes a point where you NEED to be able to overcome it. It won't be easy but you just have to.

>>716821657
Thank you for all the advice. It's pretty much what all my friends and co-workers I've talked to have said, but it's nice to know random strangers on the internet think the same way. Good night guys.

>>716821810
This is really a sincere thank you, I'm sorry if it came out sarcastic.

>>716821828
Take care anon. You can do it nigga.