>tfw never had a gf, went to parties, got a car/license or

when u die

I lost my virginity before my 21st birthday by a couple weeks. It'll happen anon.

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it does`nt man.

>>715019699
hopefully soon

Depends....are you fat, unmotivated and have absolutely no goals in life?

Change your lifestyle. Work out. Even if you don't go super hard body builder mode, push yourself every day to be better than you were the day before. It'll give you more confidence and you'll respect and like yourself more.
Get goals and work to accomplish them. Nobody likes someone who's just planning on chillin in their mom's house until they die.
Stop drinking soda. Have maybe 1 a week just to curb your cravings.

Do all of this and stop looking for a girlfriend. The right chick will come along eventually. It never happens when you're trying to force it to happen.
I know it's hard, especially since you've never had a girlfriend but appreciate being single. It sucks having to devote time, money, and effort to make someone happy. Being single is fucking great.

>>715020350
I don't consume any junk food whatsoever and only drink water/milk, also been following a bodyweight exercises routine for a few months now.

It doesn't make me any happier or seemingly contribute anything to my life.

>Get goals and work to accomplish them

My only goal right now is to get a job (literally any job) and I'm getting nowhere in that department.

>>715020350
Stop being antisemitic and offensive!

>>715019882
I'm 21 and still a virgin, at this point i don't even care

>>715020632
You in the US?

>>715019699
There was a ride?

>>715020756
Aus

>>715020632
Well then you're already getting there, man. Just try to keep a positive outlook on life. If you're already doing all of that shit to better yourself, you're worth more than any lazy ass hole in your wallet slut that you'll meet. Keep that in mind and don't settle.
The unfortunate thing is that most girls your age are fucking retarded now. Seriously. The whole generation has gone to complete shit and only a small fraction of the girls are worth even thinking about. I think this contributes more to young men being single than it seems.
My gf is 20, I'm 27. I got extremely lucky that I found a chick with a good family that isn't some crazy ass feminist retard.

First things first op, gf's are over rated, instead go out and knob a hooker and that ticks one box then fuck the rest if it happens it happens if it doesn't, it doesn't at least you won't be a virgin.

>>715021300
Despite eating healthy and doing exercise I'm still well on my way to the "chilling in their mom's house until they die" thing you described before. Some days I go to a volunteering place and tinker with bicycles but most other days I just sleep all day and only get up to eat/shit.

>>715019699
Plz OP, do not finde a girl just becouse you are lonely, becouse when she leaves you, the pain will be 10times harder then the feeling of never ben loved, belive me my friend.

>>715021661
Keep positive op, ugly skanks need cock just like any other bitches. I do feel for you tho bro, hopefully shit picks up and you get some happiness nigger.

>>715021661
IDK how the economy is where you're at, but in the US it's getting more and more common for people to stay with their parents. I had to move back in with my parents a couple years ago to start saving money for school. It sucks being 27 and living here, but my gf sees that I have goals and aspirations and she understands. On the other hand, I have a twin brother that worked at a fast food place for like a year when he was in high school and hasn't had a real job yet. He just hangs out, mooches off of our parents and goes and parties all the time. Don't be like my brother. Finding a job may suck but at least you're trying.

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>>715021920
Listen to this man
>yfw you first experience heartbreak

>>715022216
He's just can't handle being cucked.

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>>715022216
>>715021920
You say this but I already feel like absolute dog shit for being so lonely. How much worse could it be

>>715021920
Everybody get their heartbroken at some point, it's pretty standard and aslong as you ain't a total faggot you man up and move onto the next one.

>>715019699
When you want it to end

-with love, kys

>>715019699
Fuck are you me?

>currently 20, also dropped out of highschool and never got a car

have had 1 gf and not virgin though

>>715019699
how many girls are you meeting a week? I don't mean how many girls are you "around" a week, I mean like literally how many girls are you actually talking to and spending time with a week? I guess zero. Now you guess what the solution to your problem is.

>>715022474
Thats true, but if you are lonely and finde love, the heartbreak will be 10times worse than it should be! Its a fact!

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>>715019699
The ride never ends for you loser.
You'll never be as cool as me, the supreme cool guy.
When I walk into rooms, people swoon.
Notice I didn't just say ladies, I said people, because everyone swoons.

That's right. Don't think I'm vain either, cause I'm not. I'm just truly the coolest lad in the universe. You can try proving me wrong, but I'm gonna let you in on a little secret pal,
>you can't

Pic related,
It's me

>>715022979
shut the fuck up, you are probably the guy to be cucked when you have a wife. and OP, you should just bang a hooker. Most men dont even have balls to bang a hooker yet you will at a good age. Hookers love people like you and find it adorable for people that have similiar situations such as yours

>>715023603
nice anon, and hookers chat with you as well so they can be nice people

Hang yourself it will help

>>715023873
ur probably a lonely ass fgt as well chill

>>715023873
you should try it !

>>715024218
I will thanks

>>715024002
I am I've tried hanging myself 5 times it helps a lot

19... still a virgin. But had loads of kisses and stuff. Never could advance further though

Phimosis is a bitch

>>715019699
Kid i got stabbed twice in the last two years. Im 26 good looking no drivers liscence didnt finish highschool was a drug addict lived in the streets always lived and been alone. Stop crying and work on yourself. Cuz it never ends. Existence never ends. Make it better yourself or ur gonna have the saddest life m8 an1 can turn around i fuckin did

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>>715019699
>20

Honestly anon im 21 have had 3 gfs (latest one is in highschool and too shy to date) only two of them i have ever put my dick inside and only one was long term. Girls aren't worth it, stick to your hand and you will save your sanity, most people dont end up in a relationship they end up in a relationshit that ruins there lives. Put off getting a girl, when your naturally confident and have money you will be ready to take it all head on.

>>715024608
I, too have phimosis and I lost my virginity at your age.
I don't feel anything if I use a rubber and it hurts if I don't use lots of lube.
Just use a shitton of lube, get her on the pill and raw dog her. Worked for me.

Have you ever had a blowjob? I've had lots but they do literally nothing for me on account of my anteater dick

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>>715024878
>21
>gf is in high school
This guy is more of a loser than OP

>>715024608
Get fuckin circumsized u cant fix problems by complaining

>>715025250
Nah.... i have also lots of emotional issues. Until now i lost all interest in my partners after about 1 month....

I heard you can stretch your foreskin. But i'd just do it once and forget about it...

i went to a private school that turned out to be a scam, got kicked out, highschool drop out working in fast food living with mom and boyfriend, mom and dad divorce, moms abusive boyfriend moves in, threatens us with violence, have to hide whenever hes there, turns out boyfriend was sleeping with my underage sister while i went to work, i try and kick him out, mom mad that i caught my sister and him, both say im lying, mom kicks me out on the street via my neighbor that hates me because shes homophobic and i thought i was bi and because i upset sister, nowhere to go, dont have a car cause failed driving test 3 times, manage to get a plane ticket to michigan because fuck texas, move in with brother wwith the clothes on my back and whatever items i could fit in my carry on on the plane.

a week being in michigan, i start driving like a pro, all anxiety gone, i get my first girlfriend and realize im lesbian, enroll in ged classes, do so well even with my 6th grade education that they skip me to tests, instant free ged, get a job as manager, im about to get my lisence. sometimes its just that youre in a toxic environment that is holding you back.

>>715025634
What kind of emotional issues?
I won't lie, I do too. Asperger's mainly. But if a raging autist like me can get laid, anyone can do it imo

>>715025722
i went from trying to kill myself to thriving in a month

Just stop jerking off 5 times a day get your testosterone and sex drive pumping. Wankers are gonna stay wankers. And it is all to obvious to a girl which are wankers and which are gonna fuck her cunt with the proper hate she deserves.fuck have you ever been with a drunk grill

>>715025917
Haven't seen a therapist yet. Shit's expensive.

Well, i'm also fat (loosing weight now though) and have ridiculous standards.

Emotional issues arise when you do nothing that makes you proud of yourself. When you emgage behaviors you lnow are bad for you. Jerking off to shit porn and feeling ashamed of yourself after?then fuckin stop. Have good emotoons arise by doing stuff youre proud about. It cant be all white or all black we live in thos fucking duality and you are blond to it. Open your eyes. Sadness is just a contrast to happyness. Love yourself more? How? By doing stuff you are proud of achieving being focused on the problem is only gobna make it bigger

>>715020632

If that's the case then you are just being a lazy cunt. Go apply places. I could start at at least 6 different places in my hometown tomorrow if I wanted. There are plenty of places that will hire anyone. If you are able bodied, being unemployed is a choice.

>>715025722
Manager where?

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>>715026116
>fat
>high standards
>>>/r9k/
But seriously dude, that's probably the main reason we have so many virgins here on 4chan.
I'm not the most handsome guy in the world, but I'm tall and in fairly good shape and most importantly I didn't punch above my weight when first starting out with girls. Figuratively speaking of course; I lost my virginity to a fat chick lol.

It's good that you're losing weight. Keep at it. Look after yourself and the rest will follow. You seem to have a decent head on your shoulders. It seems to me like most of the frustrated virgins on this site put the cart before the horse if you catch my meaning. Sulking about >tfw no gf and pining after 10/10 Stacy in math class instead of working out, improving themselves and getting some experience with 6/10 Mary first instead.

>>715027030
Well i did want to get some experience with 5/10 jasmine

Then i found out she fucked her brother

>>715026456
You'l probs only understand when you reach rock bottom. Makes it easy to win when you can't lose anything more. And little wins give you confidence and momentum to bigger wins. Its a constant battle. And losing is easier than winning. Youre gonna be down again and up again
An extreme emotion or situation also implies its opposite.problems and stuff you stressed about 10 years ago are a joke and irrelevant tou you now. Sames gonna happen in a other 10 years unless you sit there and comlplain youre gonna be the aame untill you take actikn and control who goves a fuck about your phimosis most girls looking for relationshop dont reeeealy care about the dick. Cumming for a women requires emotional stimuli. If a girl is into you enough to get there with you. Your dick wont matter to her anymore. It will for a slut without any feelings towards you but that is exactly the girl u dont want

>>715027268
Haha fuck. What kind of ass-backwards place are you from?
All I can say is, there's a fine line between lowering your standards and having self-respect. Are you in work/college? Do you meet many girls?

>>715019699

it never does. youre gonna reincarnate and its gonna happen again.

>>715027321
Seriously though. You are an american. You are in a good situation whatever it is. Youre not in africa with jiggers eating your flesh alive and flies drinking your tears.

>>715019699
Right there with you turned 20 nov 27

>>715019699

You are what you think you are.

Think differently.

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>>715026456
This is one of the wisest things I've ever read on this site. It's amazing how we have such nuggets of wisdom amongst all the porn and stupid shit here lol

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>>715027626
Switzerland... and it's the first time i heard something like that. Basically

>be guy and look like a rapist (see pic)
>be virgin
>don't want to be virgin
>Sis is dtf

Doing an apprenticeship and college afterwards.

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Stealing bread

How do you meet women as a 23yo? I'm still a kissless virgin and I'm out of college. Not many women in my field of work but I love my job. All my friends moved away or are super busy with life that I can't rely on meeting people through them. I've tried online dating but I didn't get any matches. Not that I expected anything from it, being maybe a 5/10 when I put effort into myself. I usually get the ole' normie advice to find a hobby, but nothing I try satisfies me.

>>715027789
You think youre alone? God is alone.the only thing that realy exists is consciousness and the present moment. All the rest is just a manifestation of it. And you are this consciousness. There is only one of it. It was. Is and forever will be the only thing to exist what if the only consciousness realised it was gonna be alone forever and all it can do is forget about it by comming in this dream

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>>715028190
Jesus, look at him.
I used to date a Swiss girl actually. pic related. She was pretty but she had daddy issues and was a fucking junkie lol

>>715022930
can't fuck air buddy

>>715028015
Hehe you just made me be proud of myself 1 internet for you

>>715020632
Maybe you could do some online work. Writing, programming, designing... Surely there's something you spent at least a little bit of time on and know how to do better than the average person.

>>715028590
Haha

Well, gotta go. It's back to work in 7h but my boss isn't there. Sleeping on the job, yey

Thanks for this adult conversation Anon. 4chins needs more people like you

>>715022623
Not OP but 19 no gf, how to approach a girl

>>715029096
Go up to her and press A

>>715028946
Take care, my friend

>>715029096
Tell about yourself pros cons etc then il formulate a very solid answer

>>715029096
Also your wanking frequency

>>715029096
dont fucking "approach" girls like some kinda rapist. the best way to meet girls and people in general is forced situations, such as school, work, or clubs/extracurriculars. It's really rare that you're gonna see a chick on the street, walk up to her and give her your number. Just find a hobby that's not a total sausagefest and go to clubs/gatherings that include your hobby. This gives you more than enough opportunities to meet girls and getting their number is way more natural if you have a reason.

>>715029096
How to approach?
Stop acting like it's a fucking prey, it's a normal human being like yourself who probably likes to fuck like you do. Catch for subtle signs if she's remotely in to you and than just engage.
If you're at a social place , talk , drinks , dance and than at one can even start to make sexual tension that should gradually increase ending in a kiss or even further. There's not a particual technique or a trick, this is life, every connection is different and unique...
VEry bad way to describe it would be "feel it out"
And don't be afraid to try things after all you need experience, when you gather enough things will start to fall into place.
godspeed niggers

>>715029402
A hunter with a belly full or a stash of food even if shit food is most likely not gonna be hunting until hes hungry again. Sex drive. Testosterone. Those act on your brain and how you act and project yourself. The hungrier you get the chances are youre gonna eat what you normaly wouldnt..metaphors

>>715020632
If you're literally looking for any job I really don't understand how you're struggling. In my NEET-ier days I got jobs at Burger King, and multiple factory line positions without even interviewing.

Getting a job that doesn't make you want to kill yourself, now that's the white whale.

>>715019699
There is always time to change your life, you are not talking about impossible things here.

Most men dont need emotional stimuli. Visual stimuli is enough for arousal. On the other hand most girl need an emotional stimuli to reach arousal.we produce millions of spermatozoid every few hours. We are built to fertilise as much as we can. Girls are fertile about a week per month. Therefore instinctualy will seek the best candidate.make friends with girl. And eventualy you can llay in her emotion wiring after a friendahip bond is make. It is alot easier to make a women angry than to make her aroused. But making her angry is an emotional stimuli you have more chance with a girl feeljng anger towards you than a girl whos emotional stimuli you cant reach. Its easier to turn anger into its oposite than starting with neutral and trying to stimulate positive emotion. Unless you somehow made her upset before you have no right to make her happy.

To win girls you need to be a top candidate for fertilizing her egg. How you are the best candidate. It depends what the grill is looking for. Having something other men cant give cuz they just dont have is a winner. If there is a bhnch of rich and better looking guys around this girl your best card is being more intelligent than them. Have complete confidence in your capacities. If another man is able to put doubts in you. Reach your inside. You lost m8 being able to verbal win trades in front of a girl os also a big plus

take some responsibility for your own life

nobody cares more about your future than you do, so make some fucking life changes. you can start by not being so goddamn whiny on the internet

>>715031505
Id like to thank all the fuckboys who cuckd girls and broke them. Now theyre into good guys

>>715019699
1. Get invited to parties by hanging out with your friends that party
2. If you have a big dick, go to step 6
3. Meet people, laugh and have fun
4. Meet girl that gives you her number because you are funny
5. Be known as a funny guy
6. When everyone is really drunk you pull out your cock and do the helicopter and the girls will be impressed, then act shy about it if anyone talks about the day after