well /b I need help from some of the most brutally honest people in the world. So recently (three days ago) my girlfriend of 7 months leaves me and says she needs time to herself. We never really faught or argued so it struck me as odd. I made sure to give her space like she asked. Anyway; flash foward to today about 4 hours ago. She calls telling me she wants to get back together. I think "why not" and we start asking. Eventually one thing leads to another and I ask her if she did anything with anyone while she was gone. She told me that she, sent nudes, and let a guy have sex with her. Now I'm the furthest thing from a cuck. This pissed me off to no end and I wanted to strangle the slut. But at the same time I can't help but thinking I don't have any reason to be mad since she left and we weren't together when she had sex. So basically /b I need to know what the right thing to do is. Do I leave the bitch and move on? Or do I swallow everything and move on. I really do love this girl but I just don't know what to do. Help me out /b.
Don't do it. She broke up with you to try and get with some other guy, and the only reason she wants you back is probably because the other dude wouldn't date her or dumped her. She's a skank dude. Move on, you'll be better off for it.
>>696324193 You were a cuck honestly... Taking time away means she was bored of you understanding proves you to be a cuck...
You trynna be with her shows you actually want her still but you want someone to say shes a bitch so you feel better and get more confidence keep the manly act then go on to the same droopy self then go after her and fuck up and end up worse then a cuck...
Uhm.. I guess if you really love her then stick it through.
I couldnt though. The fact that she left, fucked someone, then came back would drive me mad.
I dont know how youre going to be able to kiss and love this woman, have sex with her, cuddle her, and think about the fact that she left you, fucked another guy (within a few days period), and then came back.
She probably had been talking to the guy for a while or shes just a skank.
I would leave.
But if you got the strength to stick it through then fuck it i guess
>>696324193 Don't be a fucking pussy and broke up with her. She is a whore which broke with you to go with another guy but he was smarter than you and only fucked her because he see that she is a whore.
Op its pretty fucked up considering iy was only a three day break, its very obvious that she just want to fuck around with some guy but didn't want to feel the guilt of cheating, now technically you two where broken up but shit like that still hurts, if you think you can keep a relationship with her then do it but don't get attached, my honest opnion leave her and find someone more loyal that won't treat you like shit
The fact that you love her is the main reason to leave. You were together for 7 months. That's not a "long" time but it's certainly long enough for both of you to be invested. If you love her it means you've given her a part of yourself and spent time, money, and real effort on the relationship. If she's willing to take a 3 day "break" just to fuck someone else (and you're diluting yourself if you think that's not the only reason) she doesn't love you. There is nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone you love, and knowing they don't feel the same.
It would be best for both of you to move on. You, so that you can find someone who returns your feelings and won't skip out on you, and her so that she can find someone who either makes her feel the same about them, or doesn't mind her wandering.
She broke up with you for THREE days so she can go suck some guy's cock she has probably been talking to for MONTHS.
You said it perfectly when you wrote "I can't help but thinking I don't have any reason to be made since she left and weren't together when she had sex." Coincidentally that's exactly what she wants you to believe. Bitch wants her cake and eat it too.
You have serious issues if you 'Love' this girl. Look at what she did to you, and your dignity.
Similar thing happened to me not too long ago OP, tried to play it off all like, 'it didn't mean anything, I was thinking about you all the whole time' fuck that shit man. Kicked her to the curb, you want to deal with the fact that she's just going to go fuck some dude whenever she gets complacent?
You were separated, so it's none of your business what she did and whom she did it with. You could have fucked someone else if you'd wanted to, but you didn't. I'd tell her to get tested for STI's before putting my dick anywhere near her, though.
You weren't together. Other men are attracted to her and she's attracted to other men, whether you're in a relationship is not. Get over it.
After we went back togheter al i wanted was to forget it all. But one night she got a text saying in dutch 'als je vriend je niet kan laten komen mag je altijd appen' trans: "if your boyfriend cant get you to cum just text me"
I went absolute bezerk en took her phone. Saved his number and got downtown (where he lives) i called him saying if he had a problem he should come out and solve it. He came, had big talk and then when i lost it i broke his knee cap and ankle's.
Got arrested and well... you know i got the sentence.
>>696325325 Boohoo a person I want to own doesn't live up to my expectations, turns out she was a human with her own needs and desires separate from my own waaaaaaaaaaah literally why isn't life a photograph where everything is how I want it to be
Grow up faggot, if your woman is looking elsewhere it's because you're a shit head who would dump a girl because a bunch of virgins on the Internet told you to you spineless cunt
>>696325662 Dat was het enige juiste dat je kon doen Seriously, fuck that guy and fuck that bitch. Nothing in this world gets me as angry as disloyalty and cheaters. Hope she's having fun wheeling that asshole around in his wheelchair
>>696324193 Dude, don't fucken go back to her, she's a fucken whore and will cheat on you in a heart beat, you can fuck her and chill with her but DO NOT GET ATTACHED. DO NOT GET ATTACHED FUCKKNUCKLE YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED
>>696326079 It's not even, I genuinely feel if a woman or a man becomes disinterested in a relationship, it's not their fault. People change blah blah. You grow a pair and take control of the situation, not control of the person. Most of you are so autistic you can't comprehend that people have their own lives and inner dialogue the same as yours.
If most of you ever got a girlfriend, you'd cheat on her with a fucking anime avatar given the chance, but gurls gutta b loyal Greg hur durr
>>696324193 dude she used that 'Time to her self' BULLSHIT to go fuck another guy, not to make you feel any less hurt but to make herself feel less guilty about it, she honestly is just a ( and not to be rude to you ) basic slut.
The best way to feeling free of her is too get revenge and then move on, and I say get revenge by fucking her sister/sisters, cousin, best friend,mom etc.
Then post results to 4chan..... hehe
But honestly dude your first emotions of anger and feeling of betrayal and feeling just hurt is your 'gut feeling' and the second feeling of 'still loving her' part is just your brain wanting her back but she will never be how you used to see her.
SO ask yourself do you want this to happen again with the same girl, no, so cheat, then don't even tell her you have broken up just break all contact for 6 months and you will be as free and happy as a blade of grass in a meadow :)
>>696324193 >>696324193 >>696324193 >Three Days? she definitely planned this one out longer than three days ago either that or she's the sort of slut that will fuck anyone with a pulse on yikyak that wants a blowjob
1: Wear a condom, dude. Keep fucking her if you want but keep your emotional distance. At the next sniffle of this kind of behavior - dump her first and forever
2- Plan on dumping her, but do it right after you have a go at fucking one last time. You could string this along well into having found another girl to date and that is working well, for example.
Had quite some experience with this kind of shit. first off some childhood bullshit with my dad being a fucking cuck but too much of a coward to divorce my mom before fucking around and getting married to the coldest, hypocritical, tyrannical bitch I have ever met that abused me and my sister. I hate that bitch and I hate my dad.
Second my gf of 2 years dumping me because I snapped my fingers once when she was daydreaming. She said it was disrespectful and started throwing a huge fit in the train station. 2 days later she I found out she was fucking some guy. If I had known where that guy lived I'm pretty sure I wouldve ended up in jail as well. >tfw she got pregnant from that guy and "miscarried" a month later
In my book cheating is worse than murder
>>696326549 If you get tired of your significant other, you fucking break up with them instead of fucking around or making up bullshit loopholes like OP's ex-slut
>>696326549 You know, I would kinda understand if it would have been a bigger timespan. Like, a few months or so. But no, she gets a three day break to instantly get going with someone else. That's just ridiculous to me. Also, it makes me feel insecure about my dick, which I fucking can't stand.
>>696326549 whatever, I'll bite. Yes, other people do become disinterested. Most of us are not saying she's a bad person because of that. She's a bad person because she became disinterested, left, fucked someone else, and is not trying to return to the previous relationship. Actions have consequences. OP is a person too, and he is not REQUIRED to take his ex back after she has done something that any normal person would be hurt by. I sincerely hope you are trolling and this is bait because otherwise I worry you will never be able to have a lasting relationship.
I'll bite. Leave her dude, she broke up with you just to have guilt free sex with someone else.... You might feel like you love her and don't want to be alone, but being alone is better than being used. You'll get over her but I can tell you you'll never get over the situation. For your own sanity, kick the hoe to the curb and find someone who wants you.
>>696327047 Yes but he's clearly a malleable little bitch or he'd have done what he needs to do already.
You people and your desperate, fearful relationships. Try not putting literally all of your self worth into your fucking girlfriend and realise these monogamous, lifelong relationships are a farce born of the human need for homeostasis and the manifested fear of death
>>696327642 See you're literally an idiot, don't apologise because I told you to, don't dump her because they told you to. It's your choice dude, ain't no script or rulebook besides what you've learned from shit TV. Go with whatever feels right, just realise she's a person not YOUR girlfriend..
I may be a duck but I'm still the only one who's given you advice which isn't "duuuur dump her and find loyal Asian super lady number 1"
>>696324193 Leave her... Giving her another chance will make you live on "hope everything will be ok" but it wont... She will always ask for time etc, if she s interested in another guy. Dump her, have the upper hand by knowing "you made a choice" not living with regrets. Otherwise she will one day definitely go away and it will hurt you more, always hoping she will comes back...
It may be an accident from her, maybe she truly loves you and maybe she s the one... But even you tell her to go away, if she s the one, she will beg for months to be with you... If she just accepts the end of the relation, she doesn't deserve it!
>>696324193 Here's what you have to do.... >Have sex with her >After you're done with her, get dressed throw 10$ on bed >Say "here thx for your service that's all you're worth >Leave and never contact her again
leave her OP. She tainted her inner sanctum with the germ from another man's member. Once they go non-virgin, don't be with them. Be alpha, don't let your females touch another man. Show your strength, cuck. She's yours.
>>696328137 do it, OP. she's already stooped to the level of text message breakup, but the way she writes it she sounds just upset and not exactly serious. Kick it up a notch, make her eat her own words, and don't respond to any further communications from her.
Post results. Lets see if we can make a bitch say "pls respond"
>>696328108 If you want to know what to do, just imagine a friend coming to you and telling you : >my gf told me she wanted some time >I was ok to save our relationship >she wanted us together again >after that I learned she fucked so else and make a joke of us >what should I do?
Did she looked like she respect you and what you were building together? No! Does she regret anything? Is she acting like she want to be forgive and move forward with you (want to spend time with you all the time, want to know how you feel,..)?
If you have any doubt to say yes on the last 2, dump her! A relationship is not one way, you will suffer too much...
Did she recently go to spain, also, she will also reference the stranger sex everytime you guys bone. She will always think about how much better the other guy was than you and it will drive her to cheat. Run.
>>696327930 So to summarize >OP gets cucked because his gf wants some deep dick >Gf gets deep ducked and comes back to OP >OP appeats to grow the balls to say fuck off >OP shows /b/ that he is the cuck that his gf always knew he was You might as well take her back you dickless faggot
>>696328886 An ex ended our 8 months relationship because "she wanted time for herself, it wasn't the right time to be in a relationship", moved back with her parents (left all her furnitures at my place, will pick it up after)
I always had doubts, few weeks later I found that the day after she ended us, she was officially with a new dude. Threw immediately everything that belong to her and fuck the colleague that wanted us to fuck for months but I always refused...
Best decision ever. When the new guy dumped her, she wanted to fuck, we fucked and right after when she wanted to cuddle, told her it was fun but she had to leave now, with my cum still drying on her tits...
I think for clarification we should go over what happened:
-Beta ass OP started dating her -she sees an Alpha and plots -she asks for "space" -Alpha fucks her and leaves -she thought it would be more -she wants bf back since Alpha gone -Beta realizes he is Beta and freaks -she thanks him and finds a new Beta
>>696324193 >be OP's gf >Chad starts hitting on you >been with OP for 7 months, bored and see something new and exciting Now here's the interesting part, her train of thought went either two ways, she either dumped OP with the intention to fuck chad and then run back to OP like a slutty boomerang, or the intention to stay with Chad after she fucked him like a slutty stick, either she tried to play both of them, or Chad fucked her and left her, like what OP should do
To conclude: OP, get all your shit back off her and fuck her in her house one last time (use a Johnny, but take it off and cum on her at the end), get dressed and leave without a word, let her be the slut she so desperately wants to be
Dump her bro, you'll always think about it, or just have a cheeky one on the side but then what's the point of the relationship anyway. I take it your young, enjoy the single life and worry about that relationship stuff later
It's just sex really... I agree behavior is kinda scummy, but she's honest about it, and apparently she want's back in so she must appreciate you better. I am more confident with a girl that will make that kinda shit rather than with one that lies and cheats behind my back. If you want her back, take her back but be aware things might be different and not work out anyway.
I also think its rather dependent on the relationship she has with the guy she had sex with. If she got fucked by some guy she did not before, just wanted the dick, I am inclined to be more lenient, not like I never cheated before for meaningless sex.
If they knew each other already and there is more going on than simple sex, I don't think I can get past that.
>>696324193 >I really do love this girl Don't. Do everything you can to stop, even if you're with her (though you shouldn't be with her).
Also, if she needed to fuck other people once, she'll 100% do it again. Women are weak in character, therefore very unfaithful and untrustworthy. They think with their emotions on the spot, not with logic. Once a cheater, always a cheater, regardless of the situation or if it was officially cheating. Women don't follow rules of honor or justice. Either her leaving was a mistake caused by feelings, or her return. In both cases, you lose, since these feelings apparently can not be trusted. Sorry /b/ro
>>696324193 Op,she broke up So she could try something new, thats a shitty move, she did it So it wouldnt be "cheating", but, she a slut, everyone somedays will think about someone else, and maybe do it, and its bad, but normal, talk to her and then get YOURSELF the ANSWER from YOURSELF, GOOD LUCK
>>696324193 this has probably been said at least 14 times but i cbf reading the whole thread but just in case you need more votes.. your gf asked to go on a 'break' knowing full-well that she was gunna fuck that dude. she might have just wanted a 'break' so she could fuck him, she might have been trying to get with him and he woldn't have her, but either way she is a huge fucking bitch and she doesnt value or respect you at all. if you get back with her, she WILL do it again. i would bet money on it.
>>696324193 Most women don't leave to find more dick, they just find it whilst you're busy working. So you're lucky in the respect. Then again you've only been dating 7 months. What's to say she won't wait another 7 months and go hunting again?
Personally I'd shame her for a bit, evaluate the perks of her, realise there aren't any and just block her outta my life completely
>>696324193 Am in a relationship, more or less the same thing happened to me at one point during it. If she makes you happy stay with her, if not leave her. Also, if she does it again leave for sure. One more thing, don't come to /b/ for relationship advice everyone here is autistic.
Honestly man shes obviously a skank. And breaking up with that slut wouldnt even hurt her since she doesnt really give a fuck about you. So best thing to do is get back with her, have sex on cam, and post it here. Best way to retaliate is to post her nudes and vids here, and bros will do the rest.
The dealbreaker for me was the fact that it was a three day period. Honestly, you dont just take a three day break and bang someone else and then wanna get back together. Thats not how it goes and youre not an asshole for dumping her op. Had it been a few months..even weeks, i wouldnt have as big of a problem with it. But three days is just fishy. She obviously wasnt thinking about you or how you'd feel about it if she banged someone and then got right back together.
>>696324193 She just broke up with you so she could sleep with someone. That's pretty fucking selfish and I'm sure she planned on trying to get you back afterwards. Doesn't really seem that different from cheating if you ask me. She just did it in a way that makes it not technically cheating. She gamed the system. As much as it will suck, Don't take her back. Don't put up with games like that OP
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