It's taken me 5 days to get the nerve to post about this... And after the day I've had I need some support this time unfortunately not super related to my kidneys. Last Saturday night my ex boyfriend found me at a friends house home alone. What took place after that I can only describe as a nightmare and hell on earth. After throwing me around through the house he attempted to steal my car, I made what is arguably the dumbest decision of my life when I got into the front seat to keep him from stealing the car.
For the next two hours he drove me around for 2 hours beating me, threatening to kill me and refusing to let me out of the car. I finally jumped out as he slowed down after he intentionally ran off the road, across the road into oncoming traffic and stopped literally two inches from a telephone pole.
I finally got the nerve today to go take out the warrants on him. And it's been awful. Reliving it has been awful... The charges they are taking out are serious and I'm already fighting the guilt and questioning myself and am I making a bigger deal out of it than it is? I could really really use some prayers. the officers have told me once he bonds out it is the most dangerous time. He told me if I called he would hunt me like a blood hound and I'm terrified. Not to mention in all the throwing around and blows I've been peeing blood. So I physically feel like junk. I'm heart broken... More so that I let this happen, that I didn't run before it got this bad.
The charges are pretty serious not only are there the domestic assault but they are also going after kidnapping and aggravated at that...whether it will stick I don't know yet. I've never been so stressed in my life
The best advice I was given when I was a victim of domestic abuse was to get angry. Don't get soft or feel guilty. Do what you need to do to get away and cut all ties. My ex tried to lift the restraining order and I was granted a victim witness advocate through the court who stood on my behalf in the room so I didn't even need to see him. So thankful for the advocates, maybe you can check into that? Those charges are for a reason, if they didn't feel it was necessary then they wouldn't pursue them. The judge ultimately decides regardless of what police charge him with. Hold your ground and take what help is given, you have to follow your head and not your heart for awhile, don't feel like it's your doing. If it wasn't you, it would be another woman at some point.
>>675778613 I can tell you now, he earned every single charge, they arent just givin out.. Now dont feel guilty, just imagine that you are saving all of his future relationships from what you just went through.
I really don't believe this story because it has some holes.
However... This need's to be said. Maybe female's should open their eyes. Why does the human race let history repeat itself? Don't you have the Life Time network for this kind of thing? If a guy is a cocky douche who looks like he worships himself in a mirror then maybe you should understand that if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and swims like a duck then it's most likely a duck. Or in this case an abusive control obsessed douche.
So here's a neat little trick a few girls have learned. Date a nice guy(You know the one. The one you root for in all the movies, and tv shows but the girl gets with the asshole, and you scream at her despite following her footsteps). He isn't as handsome? He's not as in shape? He's too fat? He's too skinny? He's not rich? He's too geeky? Guess what else he is bitch. Not an abusive asshole. Enjoy getting the shit kicked out of you by every guy you date just because you think you are some goddess who deserves some wannabe Taylor Laughtner. Btw. If you are telling the truth maybe try calling the cops the next time he shows up. He shouldn't have been able to get into your friends house unless you let him in. If he broke down the door you would have mentioned that. That's why your story sounds like bs.
>>675785169 Or the story is the same shit that every woman tells, and somehow we are supposed to feel bad?
If some idiot saw another idiot shock himself by putting a fork into a toaster, and then imitated it would anyone pity them? Nope. Detect yourself to some logic instead of giving some fake post a pity party for story telling.
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