>came out to father as being trans >he goes and gets his shotgun and leads me out the door >throws 5 $100 dollar bills at my feet and tells me I am dead to him >this was at 10 in the night >no shoes and just a tee shirt and pajama bottoms I walk into town >sleep on a bench in the cold until morning and then bought myself a bus ticket >went to payless and bought myself some socks and a pair of shoes >took bus to end of line 2 states over in Seattle >got out >cried >checked into gender clinic >started hormones 2 days after dad kicked me out That was 2 years ago and now I am living as a pretty happy woman, still though I want to reconnect with my father. what do?
You lost your father when you became a faggot, OP. I'm fine if you want to take dick in hour meaty vag, but he's not. Also, you need to understand that he's more than likely always going to hate you. It is what it is. Go collect father figures or something.
>>675625707 >go to primary care physician. >tell her that i'm trans. >she's very understanding and refers me to a psychiatrist who can help me further. >call to make an appointment, only have to wait a week. >tell psychiatrist how i feel/short life story. >4 sessions later (about two months time) he refers me to an endocrinologist. >call to make an appointment with endo, only have to wait 2 weeks for appointment. >tell him who referred me and asks me questions. >get hormones on my very first appointment. >all covered by my health insurance. >parents totally accept me feels good man
>>675625707 shit son, seattle is pretty close to where i used to live with my parents, still visit there as often as i can
i'm trans too, FtM, and i can say from experience that it's fucking hard to get parents to accept that sometimes. mine weren't nearly as transphobic about it as your dad was, but they definitely thought it was all a phase/attention grab up until i moved out and started T about two years ago. still took them a long time, but they eventually accepted it when they realized they were losing their only kid if they didn't.
it takes a lot of time and effort to heal those kinds of emotions, OP, sometimes the best you can do is just contact him and hope for the best, maybe explain that you miss him and that you'd like him to be a part of your life. see if he's willing to have an in depth conversation and let you explain how you felt before transitioning compared to how happy you are now.
>>675625707 Just try and reach out. If he doesn't want to deal with it then as much as it sucks it's over and it's not worth your time to try and reconnect with someone who can't deal with you doing what you have to to be happy.
>>675626914 OP is in Washington. I used to live there, currently living in Oregon, and it's literally that easy. I'm on testosterone for HRT and all I had to do was walk in and tell the doctor how long I'd been trans, got my prescription that day.
OP is not a failure. Its your life OP and you dont have to model yourself on the values of your parents like these other faggots. Make yourself happy and cut off everyone that doesnt deserve to be in your life. Your dad is just another person. Trust me.
>>675625707 If i check into a gender clinic will I also get free accommodation and food? I am not trans, but I'm a pretty decent actor and it would be nice to not have to worry about paying for a roof over my head.
>>675627562 man is a gender neutral term as far as I use it. And I know what scissoring is, like the most pointless sex position imo, just never felt good to me, haven't had any surgery yet though, nope. Are you trans with bottom surgery then?
>>675627836 You can be all for trans people and still be conservative. Being trans doesn't mean you act like a purple haired feminist. I am still for small gov, and states rights, and low taxes on job creators, and fully anti immigration. But I do realize trans girls need to be treated like humans too.
>>675628151 And all those things are not progressive. Whats your point, we should just have a mentally unstable populace mutilating their bodies because, it releases some of the pain? Get outta here with your bs
>>675628191 because it's the fault of trans people that our government doesn't give a fuck about the homeless and that the medicine field doesn't want to cure cancer when it could be making money off of it
>>675626050 You will never be anything than a cheap parody of a women.
When you had a problem and went out of touch with your body you decided to snip something off is the right choice, but it was just the easy choice. The right choice would have been to explore where that feeling was coming from and fix it. Now you have already done the damage and will probably kill yourselfe op so i wont even say it. Think about your life op
>>675627661 >Enjoy when you start growing breasts I'll just pocket the 'medication'.
>mee This sort of narcissistic behavior supports that study from John Hopkins which found that almost all male to female transsexuals were fetishists who required therapy rather than gender reassignment.
>>675626050 Just beacuse you are really stupid, you destroyed your body, everything your dad gave you. You are going against your own nature just beacuse you feel like it beacuse some artificial thought.
What made you think you were a woman trapped in a mans body? How did you know the 'odd' feeling was the lack of female reproductive organs? How do you know that you haven't made a poor assumption you are female because you like typically feminine things? Because you prefer the female form and/or are physically attracted to males? If gender is a social construct based on societal pushing of certain objects, feelings etc as one gender over another, how can you be sure your personality and how you were interpreting the world based on them was the result of you being the wrong gender? Surely you are just yourself and to conform to societal stereotypes you have changed gender? If you are on /b asking questions you in part question your choices
>>675628720 I don't see why that would matter when the problem lies with the ones in charge of medical research in the first place. Having a license to practice medicine would give me no more insider knowledge than anyone else. That's like asking any random government official if they know everything that's going on in Area 51
>>675628070 >low taxes >small gov >state rights over federal
I'm straight down the middle when it comes to politics, but the idea of a transsexual supporting these things is pretty hypocritical. You do get that your 'treatment' would cease to be free if small government, low taxes, and the dissolution of federal power were a thing right? Not only that, but the cost for this treatment would skyrocket. So you get to benefit from having this treatment free of charge/with reasonable insurance while others of your ilk would get left out in the cold if the policies you want were put in place. That's pretty selfish. There's a reason why most minority groups are left wing.
Good luck on your new job. Your going to die miserable like the rest. Pro tip- Buy shotgun point at head save yourself from whats to come of you. Oh and I would use a good heavy slug over 00buck. You are screwed.
>>675629013 And yes i could ask an accountant and they could shed a little light on the subject of area 51. Listen all you wheres the cure for cancer types are the same, and you dont understand the disease yet still think you can claim it should be easy to cure. It isnt, at all.
>>675625707 So you got $500 in your pocket and you go spend it on hormone treatment? Money well spent.
At this point I should probably give you a lecture on how much money and time growing up a child costs, and how it's assumed to be an investment of sorts. But you've made it very clear that you're an imbecille. So I'll save you from the trouble.
>>675628745 oh anon, dont you realize that these assclowns are pandering to the fruity-ass millenials that 4chan is full of that have been bombarded with faggot-ass propaganda all their lives and literally think that a fucked up sexuality is a substitute for having a personality...
>>675629186 The homeless amd terminally ill are pretty much already dead. No use throwing money at them. Trans* will live post surgery and contribute more in taxes than the state paid for their hormones.
>>675629186 most homeless people are clinically insane or would require at least SOME kind of medication to be accepted into normal society again. Being trans is considered a mental illness that requires medication to treat. I don't think that the homeless should be ignored, but generally speaking, it's much easier and cheaper to pay for some hormones every six months and a one time surgery for a person who is going to be much easier to integrate back into society than homeless Joe downtown who likes to shriek at his own reflection in the windows of businesses.
OP, you fucked up your father's life Plain and simple, your family probably looked up to you as a chance to carry on the family name with meaning He is probably distraught with this new information that his son, dosent even want to be a male, but some faggot who cant accept the harsh unfairness of life How dare you try to make his life even worse, by trying to show up in his life God, your a fucked up MAN, you don't even have my respect to call you a woman Fuck you faggot, you need to be realize life isn't about rainbows and sugar clouds, this 3rd dimension of existence is a cruel unforgiving nightmare that fantasizes about your horrible end in life Face the music, your father dosent want you
>>675625707 I think: U did well. Keep doing whatever makes you happy, your father is useless to you but the rest of your family may want to have relations with you. You could write to them, tell them that you ran off, because you and your father could not get along, no need to put him in the spot with the shotgun, see if they respond. Make sure to meet any family in public places and just keep the connection touch and go until you trust they wont kill you. ..possibly also have a lawyer keep a letter describing your eviction at gunpoint, which can be referred to at death, just in case your father goes apeshit and actually does off you. Never know.. Might be a good idea that the letter be sent to all your family members in case u die.. Wrecks your dad social life from the grave.
>>675629713 It will be doing cheap porn, drugs, then lining on the street with even less and in the end will be dead within a short amount of time. And no thought for poor old dad thats just a shell of himself now. I bet he goes before it does...
>>675629845 I would much rather my taxes went to try and help homeless Joe than further enable your identity disorder. Most people would and you know it. And what you just spouted off then was bullshit anyway.
Typically, Homeless Joe will either suffer from schizophrenia or genuine PTSD - both conditions can be managed effectively with the right treatment. There are scientists and surgeons who have great careers despite being schizophrenic, for example. Again, I would much rather pay money to help bring homeless Joe out of his waking nightmare than to support a fetish which has a 40% mortality rate.
It's very odd that the American government is so willing to foot the bill for gender reassignment.
You actually pity this monster of the homo sapien species I mean sure yeah equal rights and LGBT uprising and shit But forcing acceptance from your father is disgusting disturbing and is only seen as a cheap selfless method for being loved
>>675630527 It's going to cost way more in the long run to fix someone who is so severely mentally gone that they might as well be dead. I live in a city that's filled with homeless people, we offer them free medical care just the same as anyone else who can't afford it here, but there's only so much you can do for a guy who can't even communicate with anyone because he's so far gone. Your taxes are funding a program that is free to anyone who needs it, be it homeless Joe or transgirl Jane.
>>675625707 Yeah, well done. Please, enjoy as you walk around parading your newly assigned 'gender'. As you talk to someone new you'll say 'I'm a trans woman' and every man will instantly be repelled.
You know what? I'm not even mad. Live as you want. If you think you want your dick cut off and a hole carved into you to form a 'vagina' that's fine. But don't you fucking dare impose your beliefs on anyone else. Furthermore, don't even think of tricking another man into sleeping with you by calling yourself a woman because you are not and never will be a woman. People like you should be like sex offenders, a list of your names available to check if you've had a mutilation yet or a 'gender reassignment surgery' as you'd call it.
>>675631359 If you get a good enough doctor then guys won't even be able to tell your cunt isn't the real deal. Good luck being afraid that any pussy you come in contact with used to be a penis, anon ;)
America is fucked, it has been for a long time with debt and war But now we shall have to overcome a new threat that won't singlehandedly take out America but also she human race as a whole People who think they are special little snowflakes by playing make-believe with sexuality so they can feel loved, now not all are fake, for instance I am bisexual But all this polysexual non binary shit needs to stop, non binary isn't even English in my opinion Just some jumbled up letters for suicidally "cutting" teens use to feel like the most important person on the planet, because maybe daddy or mommy didn't love them enough as a child, or use it to make them feel oppressed because "our cis scum society dosent conform or benefit their lifestyle" I love my parents still, my parents were 50's kids so they still had to go through tough love by their parents Hell, even I had to go through with it from them up until I was 12 It was a way to teach children about the unfairness of life, rather them having to experience it first hand when they are 20,000 in debt homeless in the outskirts of Las Vegas sucking off black men for crack I went to a arts school a while back, all these stereotypical Tumblr teens, these fags believed that they were so different from everyone else, they felt like they were an extraterrestrial
>>675631585 Very true, which is why I say there should be a register for you poor sick bastards. People have the right to know if you've cut off your dick or had one sewn onto you. Please read everything before thinking of replying newfriend :)
>>675630978 >fix someone who is so severely mentally gone Again, you are making a number of assumptions here. What you are actually seeing when you come across a homeless person who is so 'far gone' that they can't communicate is an individual suffering from an untreated, acute, psychotic episode. These episodes can last for quite some time if left to fester but, believe it or not, with the right medication, people can be brought out of them within hours. You can bring someone in who is incoherent at midnight and have them at a point where they'e once again capable of communicating the next morning. These people aren't 'better off dead' (a remarkably dismissive thing for a transsexual to say by the way).
I don't want any of my tax dollars going towards funding gender reassignment because I think research shows it simply doesn't work and that there are underlying issues of personality with transsexuals that are being purposefully avoided because, as a political body, the trans community has aggressively lobbied against any sort of treatment that doesn't involve the satisfaction of their desires - ironically, they're still refusing to look into the mirror. I would rather all the money that was put into gender reassignment instead went into researching better and more effective anti psychotics and anti depressants. I think most people, given the choice, would opt out of funding gender reassignment.
>>675632154 Why don't you go volunteer at a homeless shelter or clinic then? I'm not against them getting help, but it's clear they need a lot more than what a free clinic can provide them. Nobody wants to put their money into funding more shit for the homeless when it's going to cost such a significant amount to get them sane enough to function in a job and contribute to society.
A trans person is far more likely to jump right into the job pool once they start hormones because they're going to feel way better about themselves. Hormones for a trans person are essentially the equivalent of anti depressants. I've seen enough trans people living in this liberal hippie town that I can tell you every one of the ones I know wound up kicking their depression and getting a job once they started transitioning.
>>675632154 I respect your opinion, I would rather use my tax dollars for a hungry family of 15 children, then spend it on a 14 year old fag who wants to be cool because we aren't able to understand his ways because we aren't going through a self identity crisis I would love to hear stories from those homeless people, how did you end up here, gang stories, drug dealers, crack smokers, robbing stores
>>675632816 >on a 14 year old fag who wants to be cool You people act like being trans is this brand new thing that only just appeared, when it's been around for fucking ever. I'll admit that kids are using it as a cool label way too much these days, but it's not something that just suddenly popped up out of nowhere.
>>675626050 >I pass and live as one every day I'm not trying to be a troll like others, I'm really curious. Do you always pass? Any close calls where you think someone was wondering? how far into a relationship do you tell them or do they find out? Does your pussy pass? again not trying to be mean just curious thanks.
>>675633251 I've heard the statistics, but I haven't seen it myself, and I have a lot of trans friends. Depression is higher in trans people, but transitioning helps that go away, at least in all of the cases I've seen myself.
>>675633192 You can thank tumblr for that. Fucking cesspool of transtrending kids who need a reason to fight with their parents so they can have some Cool Drama to talk about on their blogs. Being trans started to be more widely accepted and now they're all becoming wolfkin as the cool new thing. It's the same shit we saw when it was a bigger taboo to be gay or bi.
>>675633096 America is fucked, people are gonna build privilege checking machines, we will all have our sexual organs ripped off so we cant "trigger" anyone No repopulation, hunger strikes People are killed for food, Soylent Green-type shit Nuclear Holocaust, the human race is destroyed
>>675627661 I'm fine with you being tans and all, but don't call yourself a woman, you aren't and it's misleading. Male and Female are two biological genders, there is no way to change that, you will never have a puss or a womb or bear children, you can't just go "I'm a woman now" after you've been flooded with oestrogen and still have a cock or a dry wound.
>>675625707 I decided that I identify more with snakes than people. Cut my arms off last week now I'm a snake. Best decision I've ever made I just know I won't ever regret it. Inb4 mental illness Inb4 you can't change the speices you were born
>>675630527 Tbh, id prefer if trans people could set up a fundraiser for a more well done and cost effective change. If you've ever seen thos x-change things pop up on /gif/ Wouldnt it be nice, no tumblr drama, no long term drain on clinics we could use for the homeless or other. Anon wants to be a woman a) anon buys a scientific miracle pill for ($50 probly?) becomes a woman in minutes b) anon makes a tumblr account and bitches for years while acting as a drain on society c) anon compromises and becomes a sissy faggot, becoming the newest attraction to trap threads d) anon mans the fuck up >manly as fuck
>Tfw most of this thread is vocal minority. >Tfw some of this shit makes sense like this guy. >>675631788
>Tfw gender exists as a binary and tumblr+tumblrellas+most feminists are literally the scum of the earth. >tfw most of the people in this thread are factually wrong about what transsexual people are/how treatment should be done. >tfw no real mental illness exhibited >tfw being transgender shouldn't be as big an issue as it is outside of beta men like >>675631359 >and >>675632849 >attempting to protect their precious, fragile masculinity. >Tfw trans and someday going to be a Senator lording it over every single one of you manchildren. >Tfw going to ruin this country for my own selfish desires and then leave.
You can get as socially accepted as you want, get as many plastic surgeries as you want,
At the end of the day you are just a changed man who is in constant need of hormones, makeup and plastic surgeries to appear feminine.
I can respect trans, you do whatever you want to yourself, and I will tread lightly if you are overly sensitive about whatever your problem is. But don't think you will ever become a woman. It's simply not how it works
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