In life, they like the guy that is mean to them. Is it the confidence thing? A guy having the balls to be themselves or are women insane?
Which conversation does a women like having?
>Hey Anon I'm not wearing any make up today And you shouldn't. You are beautiful naturally. The more I see you, the more amazing you seem. >thanks Or
>Hey anon, I'm not wearing any make up today >Ugh, you probably should >OMG ANON DON'T BE MEAN! ;)
Same with sex. I'll give you two personal stories to compare with the same girl
>girls birthday >buy her gifts >take her on a surprise romantic secluded place that was really fun >go to fuck her later >have to lick my fingers to get her pussy wet enough to fuck
Another time >go out with her >she does something that really pisses me off >do nothing but cuss her and tell her what a piece of shit whore she is >we fuck multiple times with her begging me to cum in her >wettest her pussy ever was in the entire year and a half we were fucking
>>654155947 They're mental. The only thing women are better at than men is looking sexy to men. But society tells them they arer the same as men. They bascialy straddle this line everyday between knowing they only exist to please men and trying to find anotgher worth in society. This makes them crazy. Being abused pushes them over that fence to the one side. No mental hoops necessary. When they're being abused, they know they only exist to be used by a man. Its comforting.
This is my situation. My now ex feels like I raped her and forced her to give me a bj. It's my bday and she wasn't in the mood. So I go down on her then go to sleep. She feels bad when I told her not to worry about it, I don't need sex but she insists anyway then claims I forced her. How is this rape when early this year she was in a relationship with a guy that used her only for sex?! She was giving it up to this guy in hopes of a relationship but he tells her that's what he just wants. So now she gave it up in exchange for one thing, only not to get it.
>>654157100 Nah this is what she told me, that's how we ended up together in the first place because she claimed she felt used and taken advantage of. She gives me a bj because she felt she had to when I was gonna hit the sack because she said she wasn't in the mood. I'm saying how confusing it is to say that I raped you and I essentially laid there and she chose to do it. Get me? I told her I was fine she didn't have to do anything but she took it upon herself to blow me.
>>654155947 Women want a man who is strong caring and a good provider. You white knights think you can just care about a girl and that's all she needs. Girls don't want a doormat they want someone who they know will keep them safe.
>>654157564 but how the fuck are you supposed to prove that? by fucking talking? That's what they look for, good communication. But good communication won't put bread on the table. Provision is a trait that most girls don't know how to look for
>>654157564 That's not always the case though, I didn't white knight my girl, I took care of everything for her and her kid. She felt powerless not having a job, car (which I got her one) and place to stay (moved in with me, as she asked), but now she feels powerless and had no control of her life because I met all of these needs that women require. Bros it's best to just not give a shit about these bitches and you are good to go
>>654157500 Well, most women are pretty stupid when it comes to their feelings, morality, logic and integrity overall. So don't get fucked by some fucked up bitch. Treat women like they are ready to do you wrong, but at the same time don't be mean, just be indifferent, you get me?
>>654158109 How the fuck is that being beta when you taking care of business as a man? The fuck you think you are supposed to do in a grown up relationship? Bitch you dumb as hell, no wonder you are still a virgin
>>654155947 They are genetically programed to be dominated. It amount of it accepted by them varies but all are turned on by power and dominance. Its true throughout the animal kingdom. I'm 52 and have been with a lot of women. And the stereotypes are true. A high powered excutive for multinational (VP level) wanted to be collared and beaten during sex. Librarian introverts are animals in bed and like commands. Suck my balls whore, etc. Little church girl in the choir? Grab her hair and tell her what to do. They are programmed to like it. Pussys can't protect them or their kids. Don't be one.
>>654158223 Wouldn't you be afraid to lose the person that provides you with food clothes car and shelter? Or does that make too much sense logically and that's why women seem to do stupid shit like willingly choose to be used...
Yeah I dunno fam. My gf seems to get the most rowdy in bed right after we've fought especially if I won the argument and made her apologize. Just yesterday she acted crazy so I made her get on her knees and beg for forgiveness, she did it after a lot of hesitation. Afterwards I had her shave her pussy and put on makeup and then we fucked like crazy. Not sure we've ever had sex that good. Sprayed a load all over her face ruining the makeup she just did. She loved it
You are confusing normal behavior with ''abuse''. >you should wear makeup This isn't fucking abuse, you retard. That's normal. Everyone knows how to respond to something like this. Perfectly normal human communication. >you shouldn't. Ur so beautiful ;) oh my god ur so amazing That's just condescending, awkward and creepy. No one knows how to respond to something like this, because it's awkward. You have to be autistic to not realize how incredibly awkward it is to start singing praises for another person and kissing the ground under their feet. It doesn't help that it's obvious that all you want is to get in their pants. Your turn what should be a normal conversation into a half assed attempt at trying to get into their pants.
>>654158700 It took a long sad time for me to figure it out because the culture won't admit it. I lost my wife after 20 years because I became a beta white night instead of the tough left tackle she married. Learned that the hard way. Now I know and its the key. The book Sperm Wars, the evolutionary logic behind sex and lust, lays it all out. Best dating guide I ever had.
>>654158902 You're an idiot. Pure and simple. You talk about how girls like to be abused, and then come up with examples that have absolutely NOTHING to do with abuse. NOTHING. Why are you so stupid? What the fuck? >i-it's j-just an example! It's a shit example that shows that you have no idea what you are talking about.
>>654159273 The examples he comes up show that this guy thinks normal conversation is somehow abusive towards women, which is fucking retarded. To me sounds like a beta faggot who thinks men who get laid are all evil or something. Not the first time I've seen one of these virgin types post.
>>654159397 I've thought a lot (obviously) about when the power shifted. When she became the decision maker in the marriage. Somewhere around the kids in middle school I 'needed' her more than she needed me. It was all downhill from there. I think my Dad dying may have been the trigger. I got scared of being left by someone else I loved and got clingy. Which resulted in exactly what I feared.
>>654159801 No one's buying your bullshit story, I know it's soon to be the weekend and your mother's letting you on the computer for an hour but jeez man, what a shit way to spend it. Lying on an anonymous image board, your a right one aren't ya kiddo.
>>654159801 I'm not exactly sure what happened in mine, all I know is that she told me that she felt powerless because she gave me all of her power. I paid the bills and I made all the decisions, so according to her she felt as she had no choice but to give me sex...as if it was some sort of exchange. I just come from a patriarchal family and that's just how I am, men take care of the business and hold everthing together. They are the ones that are looked towards for advice and protection and security. Not the other way around.
>yfw you realize that in order for a woman to have sex with a man, she has to be submissive and get fucked >yfw you realize that submission is genetically coded into women for their biological imperative to reproduce >yfw this translates to everyday life >yfw they want to dominated, not be treated cruel or harsh. >yfw being beta will never satisfy
thats it in a nutshell OP, pic related, they know how to dominate women properly
>>654160169 Not my ex gf baby daddy, that nigga literally dindu shit. Like I wrote, she was just giving this guy sex in the attempt to be back in a relationship with her. She was basically a cock sheath to him
I've noticed this too OP... In the elder mythic age, when I still had a gf; she used to drop cryptic veiled statements about wanting to be raped. Problem is, I'm not mean- I've not got a mean bone in my body. Yet because of this I've grown to hate women since they want nothing to do with me. Yet I can't help but be all "M'lady" Tips fedora shit when on rare occasion I interact with one... HELP
>>654161151 Just go see a therapist like me, I've been getting lots of help in transforming myself. It starting in the mind first then work your way to the outside and get in shape. Obtain coin always helps.
Women love to be dominated, to be the beta in a relationship. This might be counter intuitive, but women actually feel more secure at a primal level, and have better relationships, when the man is seeing 2-3 women total. When there are multiple women, each woman actually has a better individual relationship.
I've had therapists in the past; tons of them- it never helped and most did more harm than good. The last one was this ugly hag who'd sit barefoot and rant about her dyke daughter and how successful she was. Made me want to puke.
>>654161501 That's why I'm saying that's not always the case, that's what I did and she felt powerless. In all her past relationships I guess she was the dominant one, so in order to take her power back she's leaving. I'm trying to figure out how she will survive with no job or anything. I could just as easily take her car away and everything else because it's all in my name.
>>654155947 Mm... my girlfriend loves sweet and lovely sex. Usually. But sometimes she literally begs me to abuse her. BDSM, rough talk, brutal anal pounding and kinky stuff like that. She just tells me that she loves to do new things and experiment in bed sometimes.
>>654161815 Then drop her. The thing I'm talking about doesn't work if there is an imbalance where one woman has too many of the cards. They all need to have about 17 (if we're talking about a standard deck). Not all women are going to want to be the beta. Cuz muh feminazi indoctrination. Ever wonder why feminists are soooo pooper peeved? Because being the alpha is confusing, hard, and embittering at times.
>>654162072 k. So say you come home from a hard day of work, and immediately get into a fight with your monogamous partner. With the monogamy you're already behind the ball. I wouldn't even get into a fight with one, I just tell her to get the fuck out (nicely), and either stay by myself, or if I want female company, get another one to come over. I do take a serious self appraisal to see why I got or potentially would've lost my cool, and try to understand and fix the behavior. But otoh, its not always my fault, and I'm not going to put up with it. So in short, a lot of pitfalls are avoided by cycling when appropriate. By not engaging in a fight, it de-claws them. When they have no power, they want mine all the more.
Ive treated my women good in the past, and I had 3 healthy, long-term relationships.
Im not a nice guy, nor a bad guy, Im just myself, but I treat them with love and respect. Thats the key for a good relationship
It is however, not the key for getting laid often, as Ive noticed myself. My attitude towards women is great for relationships but sucks to get laid. A friend of mine is the typical 'douchebag' to women, he treats them like shit. But he fucks a different girl every week. He is, however, incapable of keeping healthy relationships.
Bottomline is, never be a 'nice guy, whiteknight, whatever', that will never work. If you want good relationships be yourself but show respect and love. If you want to get laid often, be a dick
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