/b/ros, I need your help in life/love-based things. >be together with girl for more than 2y. >all good, sometimes stress but I think this is normal. Now... I'm scared that I miss something in my life, I'm 19y old. Should I break up with her? I love her but I don't want to miss something in my life...
>>600127412 some years ago I have the same doubts she was good but I felt exactly the same as you(I was 21 then) I broke up, fell bad some time and like 1 year without pussys Then I met some girls, no one worked... until I meet my actual gf and she is so fucking awesome, better than the firs as >>600127828 said, do it if you doubt.
Take it from me. I was exactly in your shoes. no shit. gf of 2 years, im in the military so pussy is easy to get. I decide that i want some pussy one night while shes over 500 miles away so i tell her i dont want to be with her anymore. well i end up fucking this 9/10 asian goddess, and not even a day later i realized how much i fucked up. if you truly love her, pussy is not worth it.
Okay: Me and my boyfriend went through this, were each others firsts for everything, total love etc. Met at fifteen Reached 18 together without any doubts, other couples around us were breaking up, influencing these thoughts into us. We started acting out, drifting apart or so it seems. Disrespecting each other and evetualy doing unforgivable things in the name of "being curious" and not wanting to be tied down and not wanting to miss out. BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER, don't do it. We broke up, fucked other people, even had relationships with others. Nobody compared... Six motnths later, we started talking again, both blurted out what a massive mistake it was, fall into each others arms etc. Best day of my life. Thought we'd never be able to look at each other again after what we had done, and none of it was remotely worth it. not as much as she/he is. Don't do it. If you love her, don't do it.You won't get another her. Our second chance was a miracle. One in a million. You may not get one when you realize
you've got to make your own mistakes unfortunately :/ Nobody's words will dissuade you from what you are or aren't going to do really are they. Just ask yourself if she's your forever girl and if she is, she'll be woman enough and respect herself enough to not forgive you if you leave her to fuck some bimbo :/
>>600127412 met my wife when I was 21, she was 20. Still together after 19 years. The last 10 years have been on and off. Most people I reckon would have split. We are both stubborn people but are diggers in. We made a choice and we stick with it. I too wonder what life would have been like with more freedom. I guess some people like teh security of having a partner and sharing life and then there are those that love themselves over others. I guess I do but the best love I can give myself is the security of a partner. Really OP I guess you know what person you are but stop thinking there is some magic ticket to happiness. Every decision you will have to make will have good and bad sides as a result. I could have left her and ended up dead. I dont regret being with her but wondered along the way, I guess thats normal. Good luck /b/ro
Now back to reality. Stop being a faggot, get a penis extender and slip it in her without giving her the reach around and as your about to cum, tell her you raped her dads dog and using its anus as a condom, pull it out and watch her jaw drop as she sees this thing on your dick. Look sweetheart (put dogs name here) is really happy, hes still wagging, do the helicopter and float right out of there. Kids today, no fucking clue.
>>600130306 if you get along with her REALLY and i mean REALLY well, other bitches might not work for you, cause some are a lot of drama. i suggest you make a pros and cons list and try to imagine yourself in the long run with her and then decide. ask yourself how one-of-a-kind she is and if her traits can be found in others. but considering that you're 19 yo, dumping and changing it up a bit can't be all that bad in the long run you still have lots of life ahead of you. never regret though, anything.
>>600130445 We had both fully accepted the fact at that point that we were never goign to be together ever again, and after months of cooling down after a bad breakup, we got awkward conversations going, and both confessed to each other that none of it was worth it. Hope OP realises a vagoo is a vagoo and even if you do get back together having had you time as a "player" or whatever, it'll just be things your partner has to fight herself daily for not to hold against you. It could all have been avoided, if only we could have been shown the future. Which we couldn't have :/ You don't listen when told.. thats the way of learning lessons.
>>600127412 >Now... I'm scared that I miss something in my life, I'm 19y old. You really aren't unless she explicitly stops you from doing anything you really want to do. >Should I break up with her? I love her but I don't want to miss something in my life... What exactly are you missing out you dense nigger?
>>600127412 i came on 4chan today for the first time in what feels like 2 months to post a similar thread
>im 19. my girl and i have been together about 1 3/4 years. >we dont argue, when we do, its just jokes. >i cant get mad at her seriously. it blows over by the next day. >we're super compatible in every way.
thing is, when im older, i want to start a family. i want to be able to proudly say when im a full grown man "thats my boy", as i want to become a father one day. not any time soon mind you. my life is a mess right now. she doesnt. theres no changing that thought. and that scares me.
shes my first gf, and so i havent gone through that whole first break up thing, but i know its tough. and beign in my situation with this semi perfect relationship, it sucks to think that THATS what going to break us up in the future. i want to spend as much time with her as i can and i enjoy her company, but then i feel like im wasting my young adult life away to be with her, when i can be fucking other bitches.
also, shes incredibly boring when it comes to sex. not outgoing, very shy, doesnt want to try new things, and it sucks. the best thing she does are handjobs, and its very hit or miss. sometimes she grips too tight, and im uncut.
tl;dr, i want to be with her, but i dont in fear that im wasting my time being with someone i know im breaking up with in the future.
>>600127412 >>600127412 you dont need to break up. you can just cheat on her. just dont be stupid at cheating. no persons she knows for example.
but also you shouldnt cheat. it is not like you are missing something. thinking that is just stupid. i have been stupid for long time. i have had 3 relationships since i was 14 with 3 girls and i cheated like 30 times. but one day she will find out and this can ruin a girl. i have seen it three times. you destroy their whole self confidence. they will have problems in trusting men and maybe become a whore.
reconsider what you are thinking about. when she is really loving you you will hurt her with breaking up. also you wont get that much pussy you've propably missed, when you are single.
>>600131659 also, while i still do it, but restrained, i cant easily flirt with other girls, or talk/ look at them the same way as i would if i were single. like, i cant act on my desires. not because shes making me, but im not the type of person to cheat, and shes not one to be cheated on
>>600132660 its kinda funny... i know a guy in the same situation. got with this girl, she was amazing, everyone loved her. then we kind of realized shes taking over his life, getting in the way of things, restraining him. it sucked for everyone else. dont day we realize he doesnt really want to be with her anymore. loves her, but wont leave her. partially in fear that he wont find anyone else, i guess, but also in fear of what she might do to him or herself, namely, suicide. they're still together, 19, 2 years.
he cheated on her too... i dont think it was really on purpose to otright cheat, but it kinda just happened. everyone told her what happened and she refused to believe them. so hes kinda fucked if he did it on purpose to have a reason to start a fight and leave her.
>>600131437 I didn't get a response so I'll just post my experience and views on the matter and hopefully it will be helpful to some of you DISCLOSURE: I'm 27 and married
>"I think I missed out because I didn't fuck about" Pussy is pussy, I've fucked 6 different girls in a fortnight (holiday travelling in US), the difference between the girls taking dick?? negligible, seriously, you have fucked one girl that isn't a hooker, a porn star or into being fisted, then you have fucked them all. Cambodian girls, Asian girls, Russian girls, Ukranian girls, Icelandic girls, English girls, American girls, aside from skin tone and body fat distribution, fucking them all was pretty similar.
>"We want different things" Compromise, you can't have everything you want, but there are alternatives I dated a girl who wanted me to move to Manchester, I wanted to live in London, I compromised and we moved to Manchester, I could still find work easily, didn't pay as much but the difference in the cost of living made it work out the same without the shittiness of london, then she wanted me to give up work so she could get pregnant and I become a house husband, I told her to fuck off, we sold the house and I went travelling.
>"Long distance relationships are hard work" Yes they are, sorry, no easy way out of it! Either stick together, stay honest and DON'T SEEK ATTENTION FROM SOMEONE ELSE, if you NEED to talk to a girl, cheat or anything, then you aren't ready for a serious relationship, break up and part ways. If he/she was doing what you are doing, and if you didn't know you would be pissed, it's a pretty good indicator of if you are doing something wrong.
>"She is crazy but fun to be about" Your funeral. Don't get involved with crazy girls or damaged goods, they may be fun now, but they will get progressively worse and try to trap you with them. Also don't get a fixer-upper, some shit you just can't fix, don't try, you won't get a QT waifu, you will get someone dependent and needy.
i've been in a relationship with my ex for 2 years and everything was perfect. she loved me more than herself and did everything for me. then she suddenly broke up with me because she was in love with an other guy. as you can imagine i went through hell. for more than 4 months i was completly destroyed and tried to build up my life without her. it was so hard. i also made out with a few girls and fucked one, but for me its not the same. a few weeks after we broke up she realized what a mistake she has done, but she thought it was all too fucked up to get together again. and after about 4 months we got in a relationship again and i promise you she won't do that again. but i also feel like op that i miss something in my life. but trust me. stay by her and love her. she will do it too
>>600127412 Holy shit anon, i've been in exact the same situation, even age is the same. Now i'm 20 and i'm so glad i broke up although it was hard as fuck to do. Single life is best life, bitches are all over me. Unfortunately i recently met a very nice virgin girl who wants to be in a relationship with me, not sure what to do now.
>>600127412 hapiness is the human feeling that has a direct relationship with freedom and your ability to constantly progress. In other words: Hapiness: 1. Your ability to grow and actual growth (in no matter which areas) 2. You moments of pure fun and release here and there.
In other words: work hard + play hard.
Keep in mind those are the general rules. No matter in which areas. Those 'areas' are supposed to be your dreams.
So as long as your GF doesn't block those 2 points, you're fine. Only you can evaluate that.
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