>>585512301 No. It's my impression that girls DO NOT like honesty. In my past I've always been very honest about everything from the get go. I think it's best to just be honest and if there is something someone doesn't like then jsut move on right? Pretty simple.
But every woman I tried this with would be like "yeah thats great!" and then end up being a lying bitch.
>>585510959 My boyfriend is a genuinely nice guy. I knew right away he was attracted to me, but I thought he was a huge goober and had no interest at first, but we started talking and he grew on me. I realized he had my best interest in mind and as we talked the annoying/goober bit fell away and I could see he was more my type and attractive. Now we've been together for a few months now and we're pretty happy. We laugh about how I used to think id never like him. And I can say he's the best guy I've ever been with. Basically, if you like a girl just remember your polite boundaries. I'm the kind of girl who knows what I like, and I bet a lot of girls are the same. It might take some patience to get through that initial wall. But you have to also keep in mind that some people can never be attracted to some people. If you're yourself and don't get desperate you'll find someone someday. Desperate guys are terribly unattractive and all you'll find are desperate girls.
>>585510959 Girls love nice guys. I'm super kind and polite and have never had a problem with women. But i'm also athletic, have real non video game hobbies, and am not a raging faggot.
If your idea of being a non cringey nice guy still involves telling her how beautiful she is 6 times per day, telling her you couldnt live without her daily, and asking 'for cuddles'. You are still doing it wrong.
I tell my girl I love her occasionally. She knows I care about her by my actions, not by my smothering behavior. You guys are well adjusted to laugh at cringe threads, yet you'll do the same things to a lesser extent and wonder what is wrong.
If you are at work or in class put the fucking phone away. You have shit to do. Sending a heart emoticon randomly during the workday is a great way to show you care, do it about once a month. Theres no better way to proclaim 'im beta and think only of you 24\7' than texting her hourly
>>585516471 OP Here, I don't have any social media because I can't stand it. Fucking retards on there.
>>585516207 This is also some genuine advice I think. I mean, I definitely know some dudes who need to pump the god damn brakes on shit like this. I think it's hard though if you haven't been told you are smothering someone before.
>>585510959 It's a fair question with a dense psychological answer. I am a serial monogamist but I have three close friends who are the polar opposite. They bring a new woman to hang out with us sometimes every other day and I talk to them about various subjects, including this. Because I am unlikely to see them again, I can be very blunt and I have gleaned the following information from these interviews: >>Young women want a challenge, nice men are not challenging. They seem much more likely to sleep with a man if that man has fostered in them some kind of need, often for approval. >>Being nice is often a ploy, even on an unconscious level and most women can see through this. >>Nice is generally places the control over a situation on the woman. Most of the women I've met do not want that control, it actually feels imposing to them. Put simply, the whole stereotype of the woman saying "I don't care" when asked what restaurant she wants to go to. (you get the idea) >>You are likely being more cringy than you realize. No one wakes up in the morning saying "How can I get cringes on 4chan?" All cringe-worthy betas think that they are different. They are not. Women respond, not to being treated poorly, but being treated as equals. Being nice to it because it has a pussy won't get you anywhere. Be honest, disagree with them and don't go out of your way because that just imposes on them. In essence, don't try so hard.
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