>grade 6 >friend bet me money that i wouldn't ask the girl next to me to be gf >4/10 girl, but 5 dollars is 5 dollars >"Hey do you want to go out with me" >EWWW!! NO >everyone in class turn around and looks at us >my friend didn't give me any money because he said we didnt shake on it >mfw
>>559181804 Your post reminded me of something. After typing this I realise it isn't even similar but I already typed it.
>In love (long distance, different countries, but I felt she was worth it) with a qt grill. >Roughly two years have gone by, things not going as well as at first. >I've fucked up. >She's fucked up. >I strongly feel I've fucked up most. >Depression, anxiety, hate myself for my treatment of her. >Still deeply in love, talk every day. >Have to stop talking most days, feel I'm just annoying her and let her be. >Try again next day, repeat. >About three months ago went a week or so without speaking. >Try again to keep contact, she forgets she's talking to me. >Message next day "Oh my God I'm so sorry I was playing GTA!" >"It's okay" and keep trying to just have normal conversation. >She forgets me again. >"I'm so sorry Anon it happened again" >"It's okay." >Again. >"I really don't mean to do this to you" >"It's okay."
A full month of this goes by. Every single day I was forgotten, sometimes for very good reasons like trying to help a friend or going through her own troubles. Mostly just because she's playing games though.
>I'm sorry Anon, I really don't mean to do this, I love you and I know you want us to keep trying. >"It's okay."
At the end of the second month of this kind of crap I felt I was finally starting to get things back together and treat her well. She was clearly over me though. Still forgot me constantly but told me she loves me and would keep trying. A few days pass. >Sorry Anon, I love you I'm just not... In love with you, you know? And I'm kinda' sorta' seeing someone.
It wouldn't have hurt so much if she hadn't keep saying she loved me, like I still had a place in her world. Fuck people, /b/.
interesting question. i honestly cant think of anything a girl has said to me genuinely mean. Hurtful, of course, but like... out of malice, nothing that sticks out.
lol i guess I'm lucky. im really trying to think of something but really, the best I can come up with would be in 7th grade when kara marsh, who was quite pretty, told me I was annoying when i thought I was being funny.
>Sorry, I just don't think I really love you After I flew all the way across the US to visit her and she didn't show up to meet me and I waited 4 hours. We had been talking every day about when we'd see each other again since I had moved. When I spent hundreds on airplane tickets and had a date set up by a lake and I was actively looking for business trips near her. That's all she said. Not before I spent the money, not before I took my vacation days, not before I wasted my time. It wasn't really mean I guess, just hurtful.
Shitty thing for me is my girlfriend seems to be losing interest in me. She seems distant. Always wanting to sleep when we're together. Just doesn't want to do anything but watch Netflix when we're together.
Naturally I'm losing interest in her and it seems she's doing the same, but she will talk to me about how she's crazy about me and is going through a rough patch in her life due to certain things.
Makes me wonder what's going on with her. She just doesn't seem happy to be with me anymore.
>>559183996 the worst part is that she left me for a completely other dude. I found out about the guy she was cheating with about a week later. That severely fucked me up and i havent attempted a relationship since
>>559183896 i don't want to make your situation worse or anything anon, but the same thing happened with a girl i was crazy about. i noticed her being distant, not telling me how much she cared about me like she used to, stopped saying i love you even in response to me saying the same.
when i pressed her on it, she would sweetly say "you're overthinking it," or "don't read into it so much" and i believed her because i really do overthink things.
a week later she disappeared for three weeks, then told me through a mutual friend (he was my best friend) that she couldn't be with me any more. a few days after that they were together.
be wary anon, press her. try to get her to talk to you, it just might save you guys. good luck
"I just asked for your number..I never said I was gonna text you."
she was gf of 4 months. she disappeared one day..just stopped talking to me. randomly saw her a week later and she told me she got a new number and asks for mine. days go by and nothing. I see her AGAIN a few days later and that's when I asked why she hasn't text me. women are evil b/ros
>>559184785 I mean, what is there to say anon? I feel crazy in love with this girl in New York. The distance wasn't even far, I could make a day trip there if I had the time. I was a Junior in Highschool, and I loved her, but there was a girl on the homefront that wanted me, so I went for her, the sex and that shit. It was great in the moment, but then she found out through a mutual friend, and all hell broke loose. She detested me, was devastated, I sat on the phone and listened to her cry for so long, It felt like days. I used the girl here for the sex to get my mind off of all of it, then she broke up with me later, leaving me alone. I deserved what I got, but I've always regretted cheating on her. She was absolutely 100% perfect. Now I'm getting the feels fuck. I'm sorry, Renee.
Kind of related, but still a burn after sex. >Heavily fucking girl in the pussy. >She cums after a couple of minutes >Not a complete who but still pretty slutty. > I turn to her and say after a couple minutes of heavy breathing. "I think I'm gay." >Pick up clothes and walk out of room. >Everyone make fun of her because she helped a gay guy realize who he is.
>Dating girl >Says she wants to take a break (personal issues, twas legit) >still keep in touch because we both want to stay together >Tells me she's dating other guys to get them to pay for meals since she has no money
Really? like wtf? I told her I was done, and she went all psycho for a while. Was three years ago. Honestly don't give a shit anymore.
>>559185409 It's still pretty hard for me to understand that a person could do what she did to me, even though it happened to me, so I'm inclined to say you can get through it.
Honestly, communicate. If I had known there was no future it would have been such an easier ride for me.
"No Anon, I'm honestly over you, I can't help it" = I understand and agree. "Yeah Anon I still love you, we might work out" = Two months of sadness and panic attacks about a girl I loved not caring about me and about an hour of me sobbing at the end.
Press her for the truth. Let her know you need to understand how she feels about you for your sake.
If she lies just complain about it to 4chan like I did.
>>559178830 "What, you want to kill yourself? Do it I don't care!" My current girlfriend told me this after I confronted her about how she got angry at me form not being able to see for on fucking day because I had to watch my cousins. I wasnt even sad, and I in no way wanted to an hero. She was just going crazy.
Told me I was gay for being a professional Ballet dancer. While telling me that began complaining I spent my day with hotter women than her and was convinced I was fucking everyone I worked with. Asked her how I could be "gay" and fuck the women I work with? She couldnt tell me in a way that made sense. She also worked in marketing for a year at my company so the whole gay thing was unnecessary. Still hurt though she was fucking hot but a fucking mess too
one time this girl liked me in grade 8 a lot but i was so beta i just avoided it all and i now that im 20 i feel so bad because i never realized how much it hurt her feelings. she was actually cute
one time this girl who looked like a boy kept asking me if i liked her and i just told her in caps in msn to leave me alone and that i dont like her at all. we were kinda friends but after that we never talked again. its weird because at the time i never even thought of it but now i feel like fuckin shit. i was such a stupid kid
I was hanging out with my best friend one day, outside of school, and he was with a really cute girl. So I said "Hi, I'm anon. Nice to meet you." And put my hand out for a hand shake, and she said "eww" and moved back a little bit.
>fucked up, said some mean shit (was in response to a bitchy comment in my defense) >apologizing next day, trying to make it up to her >"Well anon, I hope you don't make that same mistake with the next girl" Ugh what a bitch lol. She was awesome I loved her.
>Be at a party >Chick I'm crushing on shows up > We've hung out a couple times before >We both get pretty shitty >She decides she wants to come back to my place >Live 3/4 mile from party, we walk >Give chick sweater it's raining >Hold hands, have seemingly meaningful convo >Get back to apartment >we both take off our wet clothes >Try to escalate things a bit, she shoots me down says shes too tired and falls asleep. >I say fuck it and go back to party. Let the bitch sleep. >Drink more, have fun, forget about it >She leaves before anyone else gets up >She tells everyone I tried to rape her >MFW I gave that bitch a great night, and respected the fuck out of the situation, and she was a nigger about it
ALRIGHT /b/! LETS GO ON A MAGICAL FUCKING JOURNEY THAT IS MY LOVE LIFE! ALL A FUCKING BOARD
>be me >16 >have friend who I met in shitty art class >has a friend on xbox >she's a grill >talk a lot >she's in COD clan >I only ever played BF:Bad company, but me, her, and friend would all be in a party >one day her and friend had big argument (she would cut and he got mad at her for cutting) >They had feeling for each other but constantly would hurt each other >Finally he tells her to go kill herself >silence in the party and she leaves >i had her friended on fb and went to go talk to her >while talking to her I found out she had a gun pointed to her head was contemplating pulling the trigger
>>559189465 impossible man, she is insane and I dont mean in the sense she did crazy shit to me and im pissied. She needs help I told her that in the break up but she is fucked up. There isn't a doubt in my mind she was fucking around another reason it's best she's out of my life forever.
>>559182545 except every /b/ro on here makes fun of girls for getting raped, saying their liars, they deserved it, etc., and that's all fine and dandy... but when a dude gets raped? all of /b/ sheds a tear.
>>559189562 >"anon, im gonna do it... I don't care anymore, he's right, im good for nothing..." >"please don't!" >"why? would should you care?" >"I do care! I care a lot actually, i've had feelings for you for the longest time..." >fast forward 24 hours >I talked her out of suicide. >Tell her if she feels the need to cut I'd talk her out of that too (for background reference she'd been to the E.R. 4 other times fro trying to kill herself. once by cutting deep, 2 times by pills, and once by jumping off her roof. been in metal word multiple times and was on anti-deps and consoling) >She asks me out that Saturday night. May 06, 2011. >Her and I are happy, find out we live 40miles from each other >2months go by, we are mad in love. >However, its june and she has a special moving up party from Jr. High to Highschool, some party thing at the school. >She went there, and ended up grinding on guy all around there, one dude asked her out and she said yes. Totally disregarding me and my existence.
>>559178830 "I made the mistake of being with you, it was not the best for both of us, you disappointed me very much, I thought you were better than you proved, I hope you stop loving me soon, because I just don't want nothing from you, also, I never told you, but I once I kissed another guy, so call me a bitch or a slut, do whatever you want"
We were supposed to be friends, then I asked why did she picked such ugly dude to replace me and she said that.
>>559190496 Fuck that, start lifting, stop jacking off for a month. They do that cause they know it's your weakness. Fucking take that card away! Be happy with yourself and give them nothing to take away!
>>559181450 move to meet her or she moved and you went with?
was talking to a girl a year ago i met online, i never met in person cos she lives an hour or so away in a place i grew up so i wasnt that bothered about putting the effort in. Some other guy moved from like 12 hours away to be with her. She was unemployed and like a 5/10...i do not understand such desperation
>>559190620 >Tells me this 2days after the dance thing with no contact >turns out guy did it on a dare >Have to talk her out of suicide again, this time from a huge knife on her wrist >end up taking her back, see her IRL for the first time, everything is magical >fast forward 2years >May 9th, 2014 >shes now 17 >im 18 >takes to mariners game in seattle for anniversary gift >tells me there that she no longer loves me >what? >we go to get in her car >tell her im leaving >insists on driving me home for some reason >says we can still be friends >don't want her fucking friendship >leave and take metro all the way home >get home at 2am >apparently she drove by my house and told folks I was suicidal. >long fucking ordeal with cops
I don't get it /b/. In all I talked her out of suicide 3 times, got her off her anti-deps, off of cutting and loved her unconditionally for 3 years. How do you just stop loving someone after they do all that for you?
>be me >be from Serbia >serve in military >come to America because parents say it's good >meet nice woman >date for a month >day before breakup she starts pawning all my shit >when I push her away she yells rape >when court case is done she comes to me and says " thanks for your stuff" >mfw I get deported back to Serbia and my parents found out
"I'm disappointed in the human being you've turned into." -My Mother
She basically told me this because I chose to move out of the house and go to college instead of staying at home and letting her control my life forever.
Gf hated and still hates her guts. She broke into her email to fuck with her shortly after that and it was filled with messages to family and friends talking about how I was thinking with my dick, and that when I was done fucking up my life "he can't come crawling back to me."
It's been five years. Haven't felt the need to crawl anywhere yet. She doesn't know I know about all that shit she said. Some of it was pretty brutal. I just use it to remind myself why she can't be trusted.
>>559191520 Started out long distance for eight months but I knew her in person as she was a childhood friend of mine. I decided I loved this girl so there was no way I was going to let this be a failed long distance relationship. Sent all my SAT scores to colleges in Michigan to see her. When I got up there things were going good for the first two weeks getting hot and heavy and stuff.
Two weeks later I got in an argument with her because she was texting boys while we were out on a date. Ever since that argument things fell to shit and she eventually told me she was no longer interested.
In a way I still have to thank her though. If it wasn't for checkingMichigan colleges I wouldn't have gotten a full ride.
>>559191663 By assuming that love is just about one thing or another, rather than a lot of different factors.
For example: my grandmother bailed me out of being 1/4 of the way around the world with no money, no anything, and got me a month of rent back at a place near hers. Which was cool and all, but I don't even like her at all, can't stand her entire deal.
>I met a girl at 16 years old through a friend at a school dance 2001 maybe >Turns out she was his date, was more into me. >made out that night with friend driving us around in my car >realize my friend was way into her and ended it. >stay barely friends for years until she gets married around 2004 >randomly facebooked me in 2008 no contact >she's miserable, she ends up cheating on her husband with me >try to have somewhat of relationship and help her for over a year >loved the hell out of her, but didn't want to be stuck as the other guy and ended it. > about 2010 she contacts me, getting divorced wants to be friends. >stay friends until a few months after divorce goes through >we start dating, going great i thought. she lives about an hour away >a few months go by, mainly seeins her on the weekends >comes over one weekend. we get hot and heavy >she stops in the middle of it. anon i'm pregnant >oh shit.jpg >its my ex husbands. i got drunk a couple months ago before we started up again i'm three months prego >what the actual fuck. >kick her out intending to never talk to her again >years go by. 2013 now. >she calls me. wants to talk. >get together for lunch. end up back at mine crazy sex. >no feelings was the intention. start hanging again as a fuck buddies >becomes more. >3 weeks into it. find out she's texting my room mate wanting to fuck him >lesson learned. >her ex husband still has no idea what a cheating cunt she is. >i want to tell him so he can win a court battle and fuck her life up. >she got literally everything in divorce. >still won't make the hurt any better. >I'm nearly over it and ready to start a new relationship >i'm tellin you /b/ros. they never change. find a good one and keep her forever.
we broke up things didnt go well, me and her are sad about it. next day i text her and confront her with the fact that she is seeing someone, she said: "that doesnt concern you" lel now she hates me for no reason,and im the one who should hate her but i dont give a fuck anymore
Met up with ex one night and had sex with her again. About two months after we broke up. I had taken her virginity. After sex she said "You're still the best at that." Those feels. Even though I was good just knowing that there had been someone else (actually three guys, slut) hurt like fuck. Been three years and still fucks with me sometimes. I loved that girl, /b/.
>be me >be 17, out of school since I was 16, doing my own shit >grill I've known forever, but haven't seen in a while because she OD'd on some pills while I was on the phone with her starts hanging around me and my band I was in >always had a crush on her >one night me and the band get super wasted with her and a couple other grills >make out with her furiously >next morning act like nothing happened
Fast forward a few weeks
>Find out she was raped previously by singer in band, and that >trust her immediately and quit band >move to new state >she was supposed to come with and be my roommate but that never happened >Fast forward a year or so, and out of the blue starts talking to me >I cut to the chase and just blerb that I love her >she wants to move in with me >meanwhile singer in new band who is like a 5'2 hairy manlet friends her on Facedouche >starts openly hitting on her, and she seems to be okay with it >call her on her bullshit >"fuck you anon go to hell"
>be many years ago in hs around prom >she said, "are you going to be crowned King of the Uglies?" >stupidest insult I've ever heard >hurt so fucking bad because I was in love with her for years >if I ever look in the mirror and wonder if I look ok that's what I remember
>>559194215 DUDE I WAS IN THE SAME FUCKING BOAT I fucked my ex about a month after we broke up. Both of our first times. Except she loved me way more than I loved her...
It's been about 2 years since then. We just recently started talking.... And fucking.... I've been with one other girl since then. She's been with five other guys. Didn't bother me, really. I'm seriously close with this girl, and we always fuck for hours, so I know she isn't lying when she says I'm the best. And the biggest. So that's cool.
>>559178830 "Maybe if you were taller you might have a shot with me"
>mfw this was in sixth grade and I ended up being a few inches taller than her Amazonian ass in high school. >mfw I dodged a kiss from her and pulled the whole "you're just not my type" spiel once she started to take an interest in me
now all of my friends have fucked her and I'm just sitting here thinking that if I wasn't such a spiteful prick, I could have been the first of us to plant my flag in hippieslut mountain..
I also have an ex girlfriend form Serbia She was a real cunt but had titties that were amazing to fuck. After I left for military she waited for me but she fucked 20 or 30 guys in my apartment because she was a dirty slut. When I left her , she kept asking for money for drugs. I feel nothing because the entire time I was gone she treated my parents like shit constantly telling them they will die soon. She was a real fucking cunt.
idunno I once moved to idaho when I was young in jr high, have class with girl I liked a lot and some asshole who was always fucking with me. forget what we were even talking about but I said something insulting to him and she busted in and was all like "well at least he can get a woman" not even that bad,
>>559195819 Well hey, at least you're still the best. Not gonna lie, when she told me about the other guys, it kind of hurt. Not sure why, but it did. I just made sure I fucked her harder than every dude she's slept with
>Be me, 6'1, 140 pound 18 year old >legitimately diagnosed with social anxiety disorder >can't order food at restaurants, can't talk on the phone with people, barely leave my house >try flirting with girl in my AP English class >"You're Pathetic" >mfw
>>559194374 im guessing you are saying what did you do? Short version
a girl ive known since 1st grade is in the same college as me we meet up and we hit it off my friend gets me into deepshit and I almost get arrested I was pissed at him she is talking to me and touching me to say something to her I yell I DONT WANT TO FUCKING TALK TO YOU! shes hurt. i get busted anyways(only college suspension) come back and I say im sorry ya da ya da, please let me make it up to you, ya da ya da.
two weeks of her doing that. and then tells me that and thats it.
>>559198197 Idk what else I'm good at. I've talked 5 different girls out of killing themselves on 8 separate occasions. 6 of those 8 being in actual positions to end it all. Idk what it is but.. .damn.
>>559182756 I would say "Yeah, THAT'S why you haven't slept with a girl in 2.5 years" But I totally fucking get your shit man. Shit like that happened to a buddy of mine back in high school. His life is in ruins even now.
>>559197995 Just your basic bullshit. Accused me of making "rude comments" about her interests which I never made. Her friends are your typical tumblr folk. They convinced her that i need to be thrown away like the garbage that i am. They dont even know her.
>>559178830 "I dont wanna be in a group with chubby ugly anon"
Now I have a femdom humiliation fetish. Best thing to happen to me ever. Although I had it before that letting fucking zelda and peach beat me up in melee and getting hard as a child. What the fuck is wrong with me.
>>559190486 I don't know who the fuck actually thinks that. You're just saying shit. What people on here call bullshit is when a slut gets drunk and fucks, then cries rape because she was under the influence.
>>559199928 Fuck, right? I just want someone who I don't need to keep a constant eye on. But I always gravitate (or in some cases they gravitate) towards me. I don't get it. Coincidence? Act of God? Who knows?
>Middle school. >Always super confident around everyone. >Could make a girl melt with a smile. >A new kid moves into the neighborhood that I click with. >Never noticed he had a sister for a few weeks. >She's 3 years my senior. >First person to make me weak in the knees she was so charming. >Didn't know what to do, I've never been in this position. >Go full retarded 12-year-old and write her a poem. >Actually pretty fucking decent, and not just for my age. >She reads it, hands it back and laughs in my face. >Puts on an angry look and just says, "Ew." >Lose confidence drastically.
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