I asked a girl, who I liked quite a bit, if is she was going to an event. We know each other and interact often. She said that she was going with her friends. The next day I see her at the event with her friends. I wanted to go up and say hi so I told my friends I would see them later, but it was so crowded I waited alone for people to move out of the way. This was for about twenty minutes or so. When the crowd cleared, I got my courage to go up and tap her on the shoulder to say hi. She had the most disgusted look on her face and was doing the obvious girl thing that girls do to people they want to go away. She went back to talking to her friends and I just left without saying goodbye. As I got back to my friends I eventually realised it was incredibly weird to run into her at the event (which was huge) and then to stand around the general area for so long. Contextually, it was a show so it wasn't too weird for people to be sitting down or standing in a spot for a long time but I was doing it alone and behind her and I also ran into her despite the crown being massive. I must of looked like a major dork or worse a stalker. Now, I accept the fact my chances are finished, but I want to know how bad it was and if I should ever talk to her again, or just ignore her so she knows that I am not a freak.
Did she know you were going to be there? If so, it's not really something to be weirded out by. Even if she didn't know, just shoot her the ol' "it was good seeing you at the concert blah blah blah"
Where you fucked up is, when she said she was going, you should have said "me too, let's go together/meet up".
It sounds like you're misreading her reaction, because this doesn't seem very odd. I bump into people at events all the time and it isn't weird, it's pure coincidence.
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Yeah, so that's why I am so confused. I told her I was going and she said "oh I might see you there". The only reason I can think of why she was upset was because I took like half and hour to go talk to her and she saw me (there was this huge crowd between us at the stadium thing and I thought she couldn't see me so I didn't wave or anything), but people were in the way and everything.
half an hour I mean.