I have a long distant relationship with someone for 4 months and our next step is to live with each other to make it work. I'm having doubts because we already had our ups and downs. I love her but don't know if it's a smart move to move in with someone unless your going to get married with the person.
>>18730149
going from a LDR to moving in together? Get fukd?
>>18730149
This is how you find out if this other person is someone you want to marry. Make relationship mistakes before you settle down for the long term.
This will help you build maturity, gain experience and ultimately become a better partner once you do settle down.
Beware LDR conducted online is very hard to turn into a regular relationship under the same roof. No more spending hours sending messages and cruising websites or posting on reddit, Insta, 4chan, farcebook. Real people require real interaction. You can't just eat, fuck and retreat to you own space every day.
>>18730327
Well we we're with each other 4 months before it turn long distance. I ended up moving to another state and we still ended up keeping in touch.she came down two times and I went down to her place two times since being long distance. We've known each other a total of 8 me months now. I would probably have to pay decent portion of rent before she got a job and up and rolling.