>go on date with qt >have a good time, she's very

>>18729554
I got two of these before but I'm also overweight. It's weird seems like we hit it off, she's not constantly on her phone, and looking at me all the time during the date, and we talk a lot but it never goes anywhere. Maybe when I'm skinnier it'll change

>>18729555
Yeah, that's what I thought, too.

Eventually you will find one. Lift and take care of yourself for you and not just to impress girls.

Well, remember, the sole reason we, as men, exist is to ejaculate into as many women's vaginas (unprotected of course) as possible.

So, you have no choice but to keep at it.

Should text back and ask

>what exactly is it about you that's a problem?

>>18729559
She said something about needing to figure stuff out about herself before she starts dating again, but that's just code for "I'm not attracted to you".

It's even worse when you've already changed your Facebook status to in a relationship

This happens to me all the time and it always really pissed me off. I also have started to assume the worst in ever girl I hit it off with.

You never know what they have going on in the background.

>>18729561
Who does that after one date?

>>18729563
Er... Not me... That's for sure

>>18729554
>You went out with me once, now you HAVE to date meeeeeee!!!
Kys OP

>>18729565
That's not what I said, and you know it. I'm just tired of disingenuous women. If you didn't have a good time and if you don't want to go out again just say so. These cliched "it's not you, it's me" lines are insulting.

>>18729554
Because you're not socially savvy enough or you're ugly

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Just don't be so desperate, fucking girls can sense that shit. Live and train for yourself, do everything for yourself first. Girls love such shit, they will follow a successful man. You need to be fully independent on your own, girls follow like puppies to a man that doesn't actually need them to survive. It's strange psychology.

That said, don't go and act completely uninterested, show them that you're interested, but show them that you don't need them to be content with yourself either.

>>18729566
It's possible she had fun but doesn't want a commitment. I went to a baseball game with some friends a month ago, and had fun, but I don't have any desire to go again. Doesn't mean I hate baseball, or my friends, or going out, I just don't feel like it. Same shit here, except she is considerate enough to let you know she doesn't want more than that. Would you rather she just dropped off the face of the earth and you spend all the time wondering what you did wrong? Just get back out there if you want a gf, don't get hung up on one girl who wanted something else

>>18729568
> Live and train for yourself, do everything for yourself first

That how I've been living for the last 2 years. Spoiler: it doesn't work if you don't have money, facial aesthetics, or game.

>>18729569
Your analogy doesn't work because we were explicitly on a date.

>>18729554
If you're under 25, don't go on 'dates' unless you met by happenstance.
You meet bitches from the internet at bars or in one of y'alls homes.
>autistically counting calories
You prolly came off as a try hard. Nothing is less attractive, despite how badly many crazy women need to be with one.
De-beta your mind.

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>>18729564
>those digits
even satan has trouble, what hope is there

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>>18729563
Playing hard to get, huh?

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>>18729554
/badfeels thread/? ok

>be me
>ex fatty
>finally got bicep vein popping
>feeling a good and looking good
>girls dont notice me at all or immediately leave the room when they do

I know we all joke about how ugly we are but we are in secret really good looking. I think i am actually just ugly or unpleasant to look at.

>>18729554
Maybe if it's frequently happening maybe it's a fault in you not in others. If something happens often that you blame others for it means there is an issue that you have to deal with. It's not your attractiveness as you went to that stage, consider your personality and if there was a girl acting like you would you enjoy being around them? Just look deep into yourself because just from this you sound like a victim who doesnt really see the perspective of others. My brother we all here are autists that find it hard to socialise but it's something that can be learnt and practiced just like training. Just realise that nothing in life is worth more than your happiness focus inwards on yourself then you will attract the outside. God speed brother may we all one day succeed

I used to laugh at 4chan sperg stories, but recently i've decided that I'm too lonely and need a gf. And today I totally loosed my spagetti in front of this chick I find very attractive.
It turns out that my social skill has degenerated as well as my physical form since I stopped going out and lift.

>>18729570
> no money
You have not made it and you are missing a vital ingredient. Get a better job.

I know because im in the same boat.

You have to try to kiss them on the first date. This is the greatest advice on first dates you will ever receive. Always try.

>>18729575
p-post face?

>>18729580
not on this evil nazi white supremacist website anon i dont want to lose my job.

>>18729554
no point. stop it.
if you're really this autistically desperate to get with a woman put all of your time and effort into making friends and talking to people
you will get infinitely more women
why do people here think working out automatically makes you attractive to women?
athletes get a lot of women, but it's not only because they are fit, it's mainly because they are good at communicating with other people

>>18729582
>it's mainly because they are good at communicating with other people
Nah, it's because they're in the highest social tier possible

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>>18729560
Yeah, it is.

>>18729554
>>18729555
Step by step, brahs. You can't expect to go from an autistic shut-in to a chad just because you worked out. Talking with chicks is a good first step, and by getting their numbers you've achieved a victory. Keep it up, keep working, and soon you'll be able to put the pressure on, do some more moves besides talking, and proceed with sexing them. It's how it goes for all of us.

>>18729554
I'm obese with a qt3.14 and low confidence so it's possible.

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>>18729575
Y-yeah, sure. We just joke about it, h-haha

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>>18729586
>Pic related

>>18729575
>house is clean
this is how i know your lyeing

>>18729575
I literally can't tell if I'm good looking or somehow ugly in a way I just can't perceive given my terrible track record with girls. I exist in like a quantum superposition of THE FUCK AM I

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>>18729555
>>18729554
You boys realize that girls actions =/= intentions?

You wanna know what a girl is thinking?
too bad.

When you're with a girl, that girl is letting you influence her world. Girls have a geocentric mindset; they don't exist in the world, the world HAPPENS to them. They are the main character of the world's story as far as anyone is concerned. This means they can't be wrong, can never be the "bad guy" and are always on the right of things.

So you still want a girl?
entice her.

Show her you're someone who will keep things interesting and are constantly changing. You basically have to sell yourself to her. You gotta make her think her life will be more fun/better with you in it.

>common interests
Oh good, so you do everything she already does

So long as you understand that women perceive the world as revolving around themselves and act according to this, women are fucking pussies with an annoying personality attached to em.

>>18729554
hahahahahha virgin.

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OP here. Woke up today to see she's unfriended me on kikebook.

What a fucking piece of shit. Why are women so fucking underhanded and dishonest?

>>18729593
Fuck it you should have unfriended her first dude, like right after the text

>>18729594
That seems very passive agressive.

>>18729591
feels like too much effort for the reward, honestly

>>18729554
> 'she was talkative'
> instead of 'we had awesome conversations'
I take it you sat there like a mumbling retard while she was bored out of her mind, trying to entertain herself

>>18729593
dude, bitches ain't shit, just ignore her and move on

>>18729593
Don't worry bro not worth being friends with bitches anyways. Just keep going out, your doing better than most, that's for sure

>>18729568
This anon knows what he's talking about

>>18729593
I was ghosted last week after what seemed like a fruitful dating relationship over the summer. Literally just stopped talking to me, I checked obituaries and missing persons. It hurts man.

Women are cunts anon. Every single one is a cunt, even your mother who undoubtedly blew off guys until your dad alpha'd her into mothering his offspring.

Just take what you can get and go in with the mindset that nothing matters.

>>18729593
It goes to show
That none of these hoes
Are worth a dime

>>18729593
Girls are sometimes just as spergy as us, it just manifests in a different way

dw brah

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>lifting for women
>not lifting for Rich
never gonna make it

>>18729598
>>18729599
>>18729601
>>18729602
>>18729603
Thanks, bros.

I had a nice workout and a post-workout fap, and I feel much better now. Screw these bitches.

>>18729604
This. Turns out I can do more push ups when I'm doing them for Rich.

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>go out to eat with friends
>they give the waitress my number cause she was our age and we had a running joke all night
>she initiates
>keeps talking about how she hasn't got any action lately, calls me cute etc.
>ask her out on a date
>text game starts on point then starts getting progressively thirstier as I get more comfortable thinking I'm finally out of the woods of years of soul-killing loneliness
>day of date, doesn't go that well, not that much chemistry, act kinda beta cause it's been so long since I've known the touch of a woman
>she still texts me after I drop her off
>give it a few days
>text her
>fuckin' ghosted

Fuck dude if you ain't feeling it you ain't feeling it but why you gotta ghost a dude like he's some punk?

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>>18729554
>What the fuck was the point of autistically counting calories, setting up short and long term goal-based programs, breaking PRs, dedicating my fucking life to this shit for years if I can't even hold the attention of one girl?
Kys, you're pathetic.

>been talking to a girl I'm into a lot and she's into me, we're meant to be going out soon
>go out last night and fuck a random slut because I got drunk
>depression kicks in full force this morning for some reason
>just never wanna talk to girls again, feel terrible for the girl I've been speaking to
I know I'm being a pussy
Fuck man I don't know how people can cheat, we're not even dating and I feel like shit

>>18729561

>Facebook status

>>18729596
my point exactly.

women are not worth it most of the time.

>>18729568
>>18729600
I don't think so. If I was desperate I wouldn't have gone 24 years now with no gf. If I was I would have found one probably.

>>18729554
She wanted you to smash. Because you were too much of a pussy to go for it, she thinks you rejected her. She tries to rationalize it away by thinking that she's actually the one who's rejecting you.

>>18729554
>What the fuck was the point of autistically counting calories, setting up short and long term goal-based programs, breaking PRs, dedicating my fucking life to this shit for years if I can't even hold the attention of one girl?

We told you not to lift for girls. Lift for sports, narcissism or your 2d waifu

>>18729609
Nigga, what? If you're so worried about her feelings when you aren't even dating you're on the path to become a clingy beta. Learn to enjoy yourself

>>18729554
This post itself shows how needy you are

>anyone in this thread being affected by a woman's actions
>wondering why women don't stick around
You're still boys, lads. You take things personally and care too much about dumb shit.

Women are literally just teenagers you can legally fuck. If you understand that, you'll understand why you're all being big fat losers.

Teenagers don't give a shit about your job. They want to see the cool grown ass man do crazy shit and excite their boring lives. They want to be along for a good ride.

>>18729614
>If you're so worried about her feelings when you aren't even dating you're on the path to become a clingy beta. Learn to enjoy yourself
Well I guess we are dating. But u right u right, gonna stop being a bitch

>>18729617
>But u right u right, gonna stop being a bitch
are you tho

are you really tho

>>18729618
Yes sir

>>18729607
>she still texts me after I drop her off
>give it a few days

Why would you do this?

>>18729616
>Women are literally just teenagers you can legally fuck

teens are legal almost everywhere except ameristan

>>18729568
because the nature of women is parasitic

a good host is a good host

>>18729621
It's state by state here in Applauseland. For example in Tennessee if you're 18 you can date a 14 year old because it's within four years as long as they parents aren't opposed to it.

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fuck you guys

how about some /good feels/

>the cutest girl in design class talked too me

its the little steps

>>18729620
I replied to her texts that night and then gave it a few days before I texted her again. Texting her the next day is thirsty af

You're probably just not funny

When I was auswitz mode I could still pull off a date because I'm hilarious.

Just work on your jokes buddy, the lamer the better.
No black people/jew jokes tho, girls don't get those

>>18729626
>No black people/jew jokes tho, girls don't get those
mfw my ex told a lot of jew jokes, randomly spouted "Nigger"
>she's white btw
then somehow she went vegan, stopped with all those jokes, went all defending if i even tried to make a joke about any minority

>>18729626
I know plenty of jokes but I suck at delivering them. You can watch a funny person say something unfunny but they MAKE it funny, how do I do that? How can I start delivering jokes to MAKe them funny?

Dear /fit/,

It's because you are boring.

>>18729629
tips on how not to be boring?

i was trying to talk to this dude and i asked him if he listens to any bands and he said he doesnt

what kinda person doesn't listen to music?

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>>18729630

>>18729630

Me.

If someone asked me this question I wouldn't know what to say. I don't like following celebrities sports teams or bands. I have a bunch of liked videos on youtube of music that I like but I couldn't list them off because it's not worth the mental energy memorizing pointless names

>>18729630
That's definitely a red flag that either he's boring or you fucked up. Always try to word things in an interesting way. For example instead of "So what kinds of music do you like?" (which the answer is usually: "Everything" or "Everything except country or rap") ask what the next song in his playlist is or the last song he listened to and whether or not he liked that.

>>18729628
Dunno if this thread is still alive but hey

Basically to make a lame joke funny you either overact, or be as dry as the sahara

Dry humor is easier because it works 90% of the time whereas you need decent timing for overacting

if the person doesn't understand you're making a joke, just make a weird face or wink

Depends on your face desu, I happen to have a face that's perfect for that sorta stuff

I feel all you guys. Just happened to me
>meet girl in summer and she's into me, gone on several dates, constantly touching me, looking and smiling at me
>text almost every day, make her laugh, meet her mom/older sisters to get vetted
>ask her out and she says no right now but if I can wait a couple years until she gets older and figures her life out first (she's 17)
>explicitly says she likes me and says so every time I ask/tell her to say her feelings for me
>go back across country for school
>calls me when I'm at gate until I take off to just talk, she feels conflicted because she likes me but her gut tells her it's not "right"
>say I'm not trying to force her into anything even though I'd like her to be mine, whatever happens happens and tell her not to overthink things
>text less and less as the days pass when we're away
>she eventually sends me a text saying that "her conscience is telling her not to pursue her feelings for me and we should just be friends"
>ask her to elaborate and she says she just has this gut feeling that it's not right and her conscience isn't at rest when she thinks of us going out
>say ok, all the best
>she keeps trying to stay in contact and talk, don't cut her out completely but reply with short curt uninterested one liners
I honestly wish I never met her. I was fine being alone, then she had to come, show me affection, then bail. Fuck her. You can bet that if I was taller or more handsome she would have ignored her conscience and jumped at the chance. Her fucking loss, I did what I could and if she can't figure her shit out that's on her.

>>18729635
>>she eventually sends me a text saying that "her conscience is telling her not to pursue her feelings for me and we should just be friends"
girl talk for "i'm too scared to commit "

>>18729636
Basically, yeah. My normie cousin said she's basically into me but she's scared of committing. I just wonder if there's anything I could have said to change or assuade her but deep down I know it's something she's gotta figure out for herself.
Also she did break up with her ex 4 months ago so that's probably why she's like this

If, and it's a huge if since I don't know what I should do, we ever meet up in December when I'm back for good I'm going to confront her and ask her what the fuck she means.

What should I do fit? Still keep in contact with her and keep being curt? She's trying to salvage the friendship but I just don't know if I should play ball and just be friends. She's a chill girl but dumb as fuck when it comes to her feelings

>>18729635
I've been in a similar situation recently, I can recall when I was selfish which would have probably turned her away from me. Can you recall anything like that? Either way I think the only solution is to move on, unless you can find a way to salvage the situation. .

>>18729637
>Also she did break up with her ex 4 months ago so that's probably why she's like this
same thing happened to me my man, give it a try but don't be too harsh on yourself if she is still comparing in her mind , yuo with her ex that is

>>18729637
if she doesnt want you, she doesnt want you, and apparently she has decided that she doesnt.

now you have the choice between either dropping her for good, or keep orbiting her like a dog.

>>18729638
Not that I can think of. I told her I wanted her to be mine and when she asked me to wait I said I would as long as she liked me. She was feeling up my callouses and I just closed my hand around hers and we held it for a while. Don't know if that counts as selfish. Maybe I should just move on.

>>18729639
I mean I don't care about that but clearly with her saying we should just be friends I can't really give it a try any more. Or did you mean give being just friends a try? It hurts still but I think I've lost my feels for her so I could give just friends a try. I just don't know if I should.

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>>18729561

>>18729641
>we should just be friends I can't really give it a try any more
bro, last year a girl told me she doesn't see a future with me, goes back to her ex and continues texting me for a whole year
we dated for 5 months this year

try it by taking it easy, meet up with her as ""friends"" but make it like a date u know, be assertive

>>18729641
she's toying with you, you moron. girls get a kick from seeing men drool and jump through hoops for them.

>>18729643
Yeah maybe. I guess it depends how our text game goes for the four months I'm gone and if it goes well we'll see what happens when I'm back. We just haven't been relying to each other as quickly as we were in the summer, might be because of school or just losing feelings.

She just shows me a pic of some class trip info sheet, I asked her if she was going, and she said nope. That was the last message of our convo which she sent yesterday, I looked at it but didn't respond since there was nothing for me to work with. Don't even know what I should say in return with our current situation

>>18729645
nothing, you live your life, if she texts answer assertive my man

>>18729635
>>18729636

Girl talk for "I fucked somebody."

>>18729643
>we dated for 5 months this year

How did that make you feel knowing she chose her ex over you? Like second best? While knowing she was texting you while in a relationship?

These are the same things I asked myself when I was in the same situation as you minus the texting/contact. It ate me up inside

>Ask her we should hang out some time.
>She says hell yes.
>Get her number.
>Text her 2 days later
Literally after two text she doesn't reply. Someone explain what I did wrong

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>>18729649
Forgot image

>>18729647
Yup. She's riding that post dick wave and is debating whether to lose it and go out with you or keep it on a regular schedule

>>18729648
>How did that make you feel knowing she chose her ex over you?
i felt devestated that she did that after dating the first time around for half a year
yes like second best but somehow relieved because that guy, poor him now that i got dumped the second time around, didn't know a thing when we were texting

don't ask me why i tried for 12 months to keep in touch with her, in the end it was love but during that time? i really can't tell for sure if it was my heart doing all the work or not

>>18729649
Dude I asked a girl the same thing, she said yes. But answered no when I asked. I guess that means no but yes, but really mans no? What the fuck is the move here?

>>18729650
You're just some to text when bored or the guy she really wants isn't giving her the attention she wants. She'll text something in the next week or two just to keep you on the hook. Maybe, maybe not and she's like "OMG SORRY I didn't answer! blah blah im retarded"

>>18729554
Chad probably sent that text to you with her phone while she was sucking him off

>>18729591
>>18729596
>>18729611
If you are already an interesting person this isn't very hard to do. People whp spend their free time on an autistic chinese weightlifting board might find it difficult though.

>>18729591
damn good advice

>guess we're don't have things in common

fuck that

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jbust act nkinda feminine but also very secure in your sexuality and make her realize she wont leave before gett ng fucked

works everytime for me

>Dyel, skelly etc

>>18729653
this>>18729654
and probably this>>18729651

ask her out again in a few days if you want, but if she's flaking on you/not answering you/not making plans with you, then save your dignity and self respect and ghost her or any woman for that matter that pulls this nonsense

go chat up other women

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>>18729654
If they are going to ignore my text I am going to cut them loose.

I really thought this could be something more unfortunately.

>>18729649
>>18729650
she is in your mind all day, makes you obsess over what she thinks of you, even makes you run to this cambodian basket weaving forum to ask for advice.
meanwhile you are less than nothing to her, she doesnt think about you at all, you are just one among dozens of random dudes she keeps on her contact list for constant validation and attention.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0m_GVG3Oxo

>>18729624
I can not remember the last time something good happened to me that wasn't a pr

>>18729660
detach yourself emotionally and mentally from women. if you have no expectations, in the beginning phases of dating/relationship, then you won't be disappointed. obviously don't be a callous robot either

if they ghost you, so what, nothing of value lost. and don't take it personally. imagine you doing the same to someone you're not attracted to

and have some self-introspection, too. make sure you're not giving off bad vibes or whatever. is your appearance good and holding yourself confidently. stuff like that, man

>>18729609
Jesus, how do you already have oneitis when you haven't even started dating her yet?

>>18729663
>if you have no expectations, in the beginning phases of dating/relationship
who hasn't

>>18729659
Yeah that confirms to what I was feeling, sometimes you just gravitate to what's convenient.

>>18729663
This is good advice

>>18729667
good advice but oh so hard to follow through if your heart has already catched on

>>18729667
>>18729668

if you guys are at Uni, in the US, go join some clubs like skydiving. it's pretty cool and takes guts. (really isn't that hard but "holy shit! you jump out of airplanes?!?!?")

it'll make you more confident for one

I used to take rejection, expectations and whatnot stupidly hard. but then I realized, why? fuck that. wasting my time and energy. go do some more useful shit and stop moping around like a sap

>>18729669
not in the us sadly, wish i were might even get a girl to stay

>>18729666
it's easy to see convience as "soul mates, so many common interests, so perfect" but really, it's just another human being crossing your path

another human being that has tits ass,pussy and hopefully a pretty face. so yeah, I understand that too

lads

>now ex-gf ghosts me after the breakup
>blocked on every channel
>tells me she'd get in touch to get her stuff
>been nearly 3 weeks now

say fuck it and throw them away? say fuck it and text her again?

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>>18729554
Im in lads
>Wake up at 10am since college is off
>play with my new 3d printer and print cool models with little sis
>play some overwatch even thought I had quit but had fun
>went to the beach at dusk and ran i nthe sand with dog and lil kid staying with us
>came home and ate tasty roast dinner
>showered and hot chocolate
>getting comfy listening to smooth shit
https://youtu.be/76a0Ok5jTp8
>ready for bed

Oh wait my day was great and worry free without a woman please ignore.

>>18729672
Chuck it, she blocked you and having it there can't be good for you

>>18729673
Sounds unreal mate, i get hung up on women too easily

>>18729674
>Chuck it, she blocked you and having it there can't be good for you
a lot of the stuff (books) i have, have some kind of value to her as i recall but sure, if she's isn't making an effort to actually get them back

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>>18729674
It aint worth it my man, spend your energy on being the type of person you want to find.

The hole will always be there and will destroy every relationship like a cancer unless you work yourself out.

>>18729672
>>now ex-gf ghosts me after the breakup

You should've done the same to her.

Put all her shit in a box and tape it shut so you don't go looking through it and reminisce about love and fleeting emotions

Put the box out of the way like in the closet. If you can't offload it to one of her/mutual friends, wait a couple months. If still no contact, drop it in the donation box

>>18729677
no mutual friends, she lives 1.5 h away..

>>18729678
hold on to it for a bit, you did share feelings/time together and would be a dick move to just trash. i keep books too

if she makes contact, either meet up or get a post address from her. use a zone B box or media mail to mail (if in the US). cost like 5 bucks. consider it a donation and goodwill/parting gesture from your life

>>18729679
ain't going to spend a dime on her anon

i'll wait until the end of the month then toss it

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>>18729554
Dating sucks senpai...

>see qt3.14 girl on university campus
>shes sitting alone, eating
>overcome my nerve, walk up and ask her for number
>great success, get number, tell her ill text her for covfefe

3 days later
>plan to meet for covfefe
>expect to meet her there and buy her drink
>shes already inside and bought food
>go in, buy covfefe, sit down with her
>shes wearing a beanie that covers her greasy scraggly hair
>mfw she keeps wiping her runny nose on her sleeve. Visible snot.
>has a minions case on her phone
>will not make eye contact with me
>at least 4 awkward silences
>date ends, havent texted her since

One of the worst dates I've been on but I had such a good feeling when I saw her. Guess I'll just keep lifting.

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>Had 3 dates lined up this week
>2 cancelled, 1 is ignoring me
>Best friend just showed me string of text messages from 2nd best friend saying how much he hates me
>4/10 who I only used as an ego boost told me she's not interested and to stop texting her

it's been a rough 24 hours...w-were all gonna make it right?

>>18729681
tfw no student tfw work 5 days a week

where the FUCK do i meet girls worthy of "wife"

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>>18729554
>going on dates

thats where you messed up, you think chad PAYS for his women?

>>18729684
Why would you pay for a date? You're just spending time together somewhere.

>>18729682
We just gotta hold it together man. Keep lifting and looking forward to tomorrow.

>>18729683
Best success I've had with girls is either by meeting them in school or meeting them at work, but I bet it depends on what your job is. If you're really out of options go to a mall and just ask some chicks for their number. What's the worst that's gonna happen?

>>18729685
>yes vaginal jewmaster I will spend $50 to eat at a restaurant I would never dine at alone

>>18729684

unless you're a chad don't worry about what chad does or doesn't do.

>>18729682
not gonna make it. rip

>>18729686
>What's the worst that's gonna happen

gets the mall cops called and a harassment charge

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>>18729688
it matters if you want to have some damn self respect

I repeat
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE WOMEN ON DATES TO FUCK THEM

YOU CAN FUCK A WOMEN WITHOUT SPENDING A DIME

A WOMAN WILL NOT REFUSE TO HANG OUT WITH YOU IF SHE'S INTERESTED

>>18729605
>post-workout fap
expect the "it's not you, it's me" text from your gains

>>18729691

are you chad? ok then don't worry about what chad does or doesn't good.

that's it baby, you don't even need to reply

if you haven't got the goods don't even speculate.

stay black.

>>18729690
It's only harassment if, when she turns you down you're a pushy prick.
>Girl: Sorry, I have a boyfriend / I'm not interested.
>You: Alright, sorry to bother you.
Then you leave her alone. Chances are she's flattered that someone asked her out and wont get mall cops unless you start acting autistic.

>>18729693
>im a beta cuck and I pay to go out for dates
>its okay since im not a chad though

>>18729593
Show her your dubs bro she'll take you back for sure

>>18729637
C-cousin?

>>18729554
You can't actually get a girl by chasing them.

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>23 years old
>never kissed a girl, never had a gf, never even been on a date

This thread has just made me feel worse about it.

>Be talking with girl for a few days or weeks
>Going well
>All of the sudden they just drop off and we stop talking
Every single time

>>18729699
hhahahahahaha
saaaad maaaaan
awwww what a saaaaaaaaaad maaaaaaaaaaaaan
lol ahahahaha tee hee hee hee hee hee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
<3 ur pic bro
pic better than cunt guaranteed

>>18729593
>>18729554
You're putting pussy on a pedestal, anon. Always have three chicks you're talking to on Tinder, hanging out with at uni, etc.

>>18729681
I was sick dude.

>>18729700
stop killing girls idiot

>>18729700
You probably delayed too much your move. If she's interested she'll get frustrated if you don't realize the opportunities she's giving you. Either that or they are playing the "ignore me a little bit" game.

>>18729635
Same deal here anon, just in my 20s instead.

>>18729554
you didn't make a move you pussy

>>18729705
I've tried it so many ways, slow, fast, well paced
I don't get it

>>18729708
try getting your penis into her puss before she even sees your face for the first time.

I have the opposite problem. I'm starting to really take off in my career, which affords me to sleep with some prime diva bimbos. They won't leave me alone, but my girlfriend isn't jealous and is cool with it.

My ex also wants a relationship again. Not sure what to say. Basically women won't leave me alone and I'm not sure how to let them down easy.

>>18729710
livin the chad life

>see former high school class mate at bus stop
>never spoke while at highschool but we recognised each other and started talking
>hit it off pretty well, ask for her phone number
>she gives it to me and says "we should go out sometime"
>text her next week
>she responds once
>ask her if she's busy nowadays
>no answer
Haven't seen her since then, and no response obvs. Why do girls do that ? She even said "we should go out sometime " .

>>18729554
99/100 times a girl is not worth taking out on a date these days, as she's giving it out for free every weekend to nightclub chad.

Why in the fuck are you wasting time and money on nasty whores? You basically friend zone yourself by taking the walking baggage trains put for dinner.

>>18729712
validation
i called a girl out on that one time and ended up getting pity sex

>>18729711
I don't like cheating or being greasy. I enjoy my girlfriend but I enjoy my ex. Bimbos ain't shit, they don't interest me much (thicc Asian bimbos are fun every few months though).

>seeing girl for about 4 months
>knew each other for about a year before we started dating, told me wanted to be with me the whole time but was dating someone else
>told me she was crazy about me, wanted to spend rest of her life with me, met her family etc.
>gradually start going out every night without me, ignoring me, posting snaps hanging out with other people till late at night while im home alone
>tells me this week its not me its her, she needs time, doesnt want to lose me but "doesnt want to drag me along with her craziness" and says I deserve better
What the fuck, its over right?

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>>18729560
That's code for she wants to sleep around before a commitment. Go to pound town my dude

>>18729568
Best way to get to the attitude fast is lower your standards and sleep with ugos then go out talking to qts

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>>18729630
i listen to nothing by japanese city-pop from the 80s but i'm telling that to other people

>>18729649

If you ask a girl for a number she's going to give it to you regardless of whether or not she's planning on meeting up with you. It's just awkward to say no to someone.

After that she'll reply to a few texts and then ghost you. It sucks but if the situations were reversed you'd probably do the same thing so don't sperg out about it too much.

>>18729716
Just say "yeah you're right. You need to figure out you and let's be honest, I'm better than to just play fuck around. Hmu when you figure it out. Actually ttyl dinner on the stove" and hang up.

She'll message you within a week about how dumb she was being.

>>18729568
>they will follow a successful man.

why should i put in the effort if women are so fickle? If i become successful and then make one mistake they dissapear as quickly as they came in to my life so why even try?

Why do women only want the end result of a man improving himself?

>>18729572
What

>be 22
>never go on a date
Count your blessings, nigger.

>>18729579
This absolutely

>>18729568
Sure, but in the end you still need solid social skills and "game".

Most girls won't throw themselves at you unless you're EXTREMELY good looking.
They will give signals that guys have to pick on. Sure, it can be easy once you know for sure that a girl is interested. But if you've been cursed with some sort of social anxiety or autism, no ammount of good looks and status will save you from the disgust in a girls face when she realizes you're an autistic fuck who can't hold a conversation longer than 5 mins

>>18729721
Shes already messaging me trying to explain why she was ignoring me. Its like she needs to hear me tell her I understand why shes doesnt want to see me anymore but I straight up told her if she wants us to end its purely on her. I dont think shes ever had a relationship end where she didnt stay friends, and right now I fucking hate her. Told her to straight up tell me if we were still together and she still hasnt responded.

>>18729554
You didn't close the deal on the first date. She knows you're a beta fag if you can't get her in bed the first time around.

>>18729703
Then cancel the date ffs.

Real talk if she just said, 'sorry I got sick over the weekend, can we try later this week?' I would've taken that over her grossing me out while I'm trying to drink my coffee.

>Girls snaps me randomly
>Cute selfie
>Know in the past this girl wanted to fuck me
>Reply back with a joke about her being hot
>Haha omg anon
>Decide fuck it, ask her what she's doing tomorrow
>Nothing, why :)
>We should go out
>Yeah I have a lot of homework to do, maybe we can go to a starbucks or something
>Sounds good, hows 5?
>Good
>4pm the next day, send her a snap asking her what starbucks she wants to go to
>Never opens it, see on her story she's out with some guy already, then later at a party
>Finally responds at fucking 11, "Sorry I got busy today"
What the fuck is wrong with women? When the fuck is this degenerate ruthlessness instilled in them?

>>18729730
you dodged a bullet anon. cut all contact.

>>18729727
Well you messed. Literally zero sense in getting angry ever. Emotional reactions don't help you whatsoever. Simply don't put up with disrespect, put the phone down, and let her figure it out. A partner is an asset to your value. If she's upsetting you, she's not really adding value. Have her prove herself.

>>18729559
he should just hammer away with this until she blocks his number

fuck it who cares, she's a hypergamous hoe bag anyways

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>>18729726
Delet this

>>18729731
I just said "No worries" and haven't talked to her since
I even saw her post on twitter "Dodge those that dodge you"
Lmao, where do women get their self centered view of life from?

>>18729730
Imagine if you had actually hooked up with that cunt. Imagine her getting pregnant. Yeah. You got lucky.

>>18729630
I like 80s power ballad and 70s rock. Not interested in contemporary pop. Try telling girls that without them looking at you like you're an old ass fogey.

>>18729737
wow, what a non-problem

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>>18729724
>calling people nigger
>never been on a date
hmm

>>18729702
Best way to get a girlfriend and be happy is to immitate the negros, brilliant advice....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0XsIwuQQ5I

Just do it again when the time comes, don't get jaded and shitty man/

>>18729689

Lol made me chuckle. Honestly it may be a case of anon shedding his shit former life, which may also mean shit friends. It sucks but we are all gonna make it bro.

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>>18729739

>>18729591
>reddit spacing
>robot mindset
>shit advice
Don't give advice lad

>>18729554
>>18729593
Maybe she noticed how obsessive and insecure you were and thought it was a good idea not to anger you while she was within strangling distance of a creepy psycho like you. Get a fucking hold of yourself, it's one girl.

>>18729727
stop texting her idiot. its over. you're gonna just look like a bitter cunt

>>18729591
>ifunny.co
perhaps you ought to go back there, or /r9k/

>>18729720
A man wouldn't give his number to a girl he doesn't like.

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>>18729591
>Show her you're someone who will keep things interesting and are constantly changing. You basically have to sell yourself to her. You gotta make her think her life will be more fun/better with you in it.
That's fucking exhausting. Fuck that. I'll just learn how to be happy by myself.

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>>18729554

Believe me, it's not them. It's you.


Women just don't have the courage to say the truth. I can almost guarantee 100% that the reason they said that, is because you fail the shit-test and probably did whatever they asked you to do like a good little puppy, instead of smacking their asses and taking control.

>>18729749
>instead of smacking their asses and taking control.
can relate
ex broke it up probably actually because i wasn't assertive any more, i got weak around her by the time i opened up emotionally to her

>>18729749
Then I'm better off. I don't need some cheap slut, I want a gf.

>>18729635
>>18729637
I've been in the same situation. I'd advise you to just cut contact and move on with life. Nothing good can come from this current situation. Also this >>18729647
Godspeed, anon.

>>18729727
That's good advice >>18729721
Move on with your life.

>meet girl at party
>give her my number
>she messages me next day
>chat for a bit then stop responding to her
>she gets salty and deletes my number

I'm not mad, but like, why?

>>18729753
Because women hate not getting attention.

>>18729554
>>>/r9k/

>>18729753
It's a balancing act at times. Show too much attention and you're a beta cuck that's desperate for her attention. Show too little attention and she thinks that you're not interested. The not interested thing can work to your advantage in that she might start chasing you because she might think you're better than her. Too much attention is always bad.

>>18729717
No, it's code of "i want to fuck, i just don't want to fuck you".

>>18729673
great taste
i love jocelyn brown's version

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>install okcupid
>use it religiously for a month
>gets around 12 matches
>almost half of them are fat
>some are just 5 to 6/10
>message them with simple hi and ask them about their life and work
>they wont reply back after 5-6 messages later


At least girls talk to you OP, you get to practice your skills with women while I can't even manage to contact one

text my now ex that i loved past tense her or write a letter to her hide it inside her stuff and hope she gets back in touch to get her stuff

>>18729554
>go clubbing with my boys
>have shit tons of fun, grinding against a little blonde babe, slipping hands under her clothes
>see a brunette chick I really wanna do, she once declined my netflix and chill ("oh I can't make it today, sorry").
>she sees me grinding with the blondie
>10 minutes later, I leave blondie with the crew and start playing the game of grab-ass with the brunette
>leave her and try to dance with the blondie again
>she politely tells me to fuck off while dancing with some guy
>fuck it, brunette it is
>30 minutes later, we're in a cab and heading to my place
>shit was cash
>next morning, get a text from blondie apologizing for telling me to fuck off
>gonna do her tomorrow

Chad or not?

Nuclear black pill: girls are flaky because you are UNATTRACTIVE

THERE IS NO RIGHT THING TO SAY OR A WAY TO ACT

ONLY

YOUR

FACE

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>>18729561
eyyy

>>18729573
LOL

>>18729761
you must be attractive atleast. If i would pull that shit i would get a fucking slap in the face

>>18729765
That's the part I still laugh about. I think they both saw me in action.

>>18729762
true

>>18729584
god I hate liberals and yuropoor so fucking much this parody image is so true.

>be a yuropoorean
>ban shit because of muh feels
What cucks.

>>18729554
Don't sweat it anon. I experienced this many times before meeting my gf. Women are generally fucking weirdos, just keep doing your thing and you'll eventually meet one that's worth the time.

>>18729682
who is the vegan cuite :) ?

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I am skinnyfat and got 8/10 girls consistently and settled with a 7.5/10 wife.

Get better genetics / face / personality

>>18729771
How about you get off /fit/, dyel?

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>>18729772
oh no are you mad your ugly face can't help you get girls?

Try dating guys instead. That is what /fit/ is for

>>18729771
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lY8rzo4Ik4M
Model male matched with 27% of swipes so im guessing you look better than a model?

Either that or you are getting girls but they are 4-5/10s but you blow their value up to make yourself feel better

its amazing that on the internet most guys are 8'' schlong having 6'4'' model tier dudes, isnt it?

>>18729607
You perfected bantz on 4chan but no real life dating skills. Protip for a date, take her to dave and busters...

Or take her to some activity based event, concert, oktoberfest, etc. Nothing passive, and make sure you hug her hello when you first see her. Smile a lot during the date. Be chill and inviting and fun (if you prefer a night in this is exhausting for you.)

Don't wait for the end to kiss her. Kiss whenever the moment is right on the date. Lot of other points but I will let other guys share. Wife just woke up and imma go fuck her

>>18729751
>I don't need some cheap slut, I want a gf.
all women are sluts inside, but you've got such a blue pill world view you'll never realize this.

>>18729554
stop being so beta

>>18729682
>4/10 who I only used as an ego boost told me
This is what I can't handle. When some 9/10 Stacy rejects me I completely understand since she's probably only looking for Chad but when its rejection by an objectively ugly girl it's fucking terrible. A 5'1 goblin that's never been within 5km of a gym thinks she can do better than my WIP natty bod.

Fucking ridiculous.

>>18729778
why even pursue them then?

>>18729604

Blessed are You, O Lord; teach me Your regimen.
The Choir of the Lifts has found the Fountain of Gains, and the Door past plateaus.
May I also find the way through repentance
I am the incel that was lost ; call me up to You, O Saviour, and save me.
Blessed are You, O Lord; teach me Your good form.

>>18729625
trying to act no thirsty is thirsty as fuck

>>18729632
lmao

off yourself dude, listening good music can be much better than sex

>>18729700
spending a few days or weeks 'talking' with a girl is your issue.

use text for logistics and nothing more.

Snapchat gets a semi-pass, if you're using it to demonstrate value and you doing cool shit.

>>18729554
Everyone has a lot of things in common, you dumb fuck

Why can women be jackasses sometimes?

>create Bumble profile
If you don't know what that is, Bumble is a tinder clone, but markets itself to put the power in women's hands, as they are FORCED to message first (the guy can't message a match first, but can message back after she messages him). If the women don't message first, the match disappears forever within 24 hours.
>match with 6 people in the span of a day, nothing special and generous with right swipes
>only one messages me
>the other 5 disappear after a day

Why even bother using this app if you're not gonna message? The guy literally cannot message you first. You can't even pay to do that.

>>18729784
I'm not a dumb fuck. You're a dumb fuck. Nobody has anything in common. Except you. You have a nice face to cum on.

>>18729774
This is crazy, never seen it before. Never realized the odds were that bad for men.

>>18729774

looking "too good" lowers your chances against non model-tier women.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7t8OjCSIjo

skip to 2:10

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkOIw7vAZCQ

>>18729788
ignore the second video, skip to 2:10 on the first one

>>18729708
In my experience, you've got to be quick and pushy. But not too pushy, just enough to where they think you're kind of a jerk. They won't actually think "wow this guy is a jerk". You have to make the moves, you make some decisions for them. Not like "she'll have the soup" shit but like holding her hand or putting your arm around her.

>>18729568
THIS IS THE TRUTH. Anyone who disagrees is a wrong or a beta failure. Women want to be treated like property.

>>18729776
>all women are sluts inside
>>/r9k/

>>18729554
Holy fuck I just had one of these too, seeing this girl for the past few weeks, texting everyday, swimming, hanging out, etc, suddenly got a text this morning apparently she doesn't have feelings for me??? I just replied "lmao". Women man, they're fucking retarded

>>18729766
They eat that shit up. I was with 2 friends one night, arms around both, dancing between them. Ended up prefering one and the other one went nuts but still hooked up with her friend. They were supposedly best friends too. Women are fucked

>>18729730
>Lame Starbucks "date" with some autistic nerd
>vs going to a party
>doesn't understand

You're retarded

>>18729554
Well suit yourself for sperging out and thinking the first damn girl that shows you some attention is the love of your life.
Do some casual dating and have a few options, you will be way more attractive when youre not desperate

>>18729554
>lifting for grills

>>18729785
lmao, how can you not get this. Most women are on dating apps for attention. They wanted to see if you swiped right on them

>>18729579
>tfw I tried that yesterday and she stopped me before, saying the same thing OP's last attempt said

>>18729799
Hey man, at least you tried. Get em next time.

man, i don't get any of you anons
being "thirsty", lusting it all out, is that really what relationships are all about these days on /adv/? pure sex and kino? what about friendship and relationship building instead of trying to dig through a girl's panties on the first god damn attempt of getting a qt 3.14

>>18729816
Because that's exactly what most girls are only interested in.

>>18729820
>most girls
then some might be your truest love, have some hope lad

>>18729705
>>18729708
Sounds like a god damn guessing game. Just roll the dice and make a move.

As someone who for the most part has never had any trouble finding a relationship I will say that the times I have fucked it up we're always with females I was interested in before we started talking. I want a relationship, I get anxious, I fuck it up royally.

Attachment to wanting a relationship (which I have to assume is immeasurably difficult to get past in a situation like yours) fucks it all up. Treat them too much like something you desire and that desire tends to make them uncomfortable. Treat them in an entirely neutral way as just another human and if they are on any level capable of being attracted to you they will be, it will grow, and it will ultimately start to leak out in everything they do around you giving you an opportunity to make the first move. Get past that hurdle and it's pretty much sealed in as a relationship. (Unless they've got attachment issues and shit is erratic from the getgo)

>>18729560
it doesnt have to be, anon
im a girl and im kinda in the same position as her, im just not sure what i want/if i want a relationship and i dont want to get into anything and be after a month like: hey, i actually dont love you
girls always overthink, give her the time she needs or she will regret her decision

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>>18729816
Yeah, and after that I am their best friend. And after that my ex-girlfriend said that she had a good fuck with driver who took her and her parents to fire show, being one hundred meters away. This guy must have surely been interested in friendship/relationship.

>Life goes on like this for years
>You never "make it" despite stuggles
>Turn 30, start getting bald, start having errection problems

Life was never meant for people like me. I just wanted a family and a wife. Look at me now, lone ass, stressed out corporate slave, making money i don't even know what to do with.
No goal, no future for the remaining years of my life.

This is the machine. Some guys are meant to become cannon fodder and when tere are no wars we end up like this instead.

As a girl, I can tell you guys how most of us are feeling. Or at least the ones with some form of brain matter: We know already and already believe that you're just in it for sex. It creeps us out. What we're looking for is an emotional connection which is bullshitty 90% of the time and you only get accepted if you're lucky and we hit it off right. And by that I mean it doesn't seem like you're just thirsty. Don't be a fucking dumbass, don't start with the same shit like hi how are you :) or whatever, show us you at least have one flake of personality. Be funny, is the best tip I can give you. Show us some fun. You really and honestly think that anyone hits it up over fucking coffee? Take her to a movie or an amusement park or some shit. Have some creativity.

these threads are always funny
so much different advice that OP just ends up in the same place

>>18731076
>We know already and already believe that you're just in it for sex.
But I'm not.
>Take her to a movie
How are you supposed to connect with someone during a movie?

>>18731167
You're sat next to each other, and you'll become more comfortable being close physically. Biological and psychological stuff at work. Also, it'll give you something in common to talk about afterwards.

>>18729590
This is me

>>18731076
>BMI over 40

>>18729658
I get the feeling that this is good advice; but I would like to see it typed out in English just to make sure.

>>18729704
Kek

>>18729712
It's normiespeech. Nobody even pays attention when they say "we should go out sometime" or "see you later" shit like that.
We're autists, we don't understand this shit. Why say "we should go out sometimes" when you don't wanna?

>>18729748
>That's fucking exhausting

This is exactly where you're fucking up. You literally just have to practice self improvement ALONG with not giving a fuck and just being happy and you're all set. Make sure you're healthy and fit and can take care of yourself financially. DONE. :^)

>but I'd rather whine about it
Don't do this. Learn to stop complaining.

>>18729558
This was not only funny but oddly inspirational

>>18729686
>meeting them in school or meeting them at work

Jesus christ that's creepy. You know what a girl respects more than anything else in a guy, that he has healthy boundaries. And you know what screams that a guy has weak boundaries? That he only tries to meet people at the places that other people are forced to be with him at (school and work).

No matter where you live, within a mile of you there are literally 100 hot chicks out in public somewhere at any given time, who would be open to meeting a guy.

Go meet them.