Married and Underfucked what do?

>>18724663
Wow asshole your wife is going through a tough time and all you can think about is sex.
You're in for the long run buddy. Things will go back to the way they used to but as soon as you asked her what's wrong with her sex drive you added some more months to her healing process.

>>18724663
She needs time, she's been through trauma. All you can do is keep trying, keep putting up effort but don't be overbearing.

It sucks but if you love her, her well-being should come first. She sounds like she's had a rough time.

Maybe go to couples therapy, suggest it as a way to help communication, don't make it sound like you're going because of her or sex. She might get defensive. But couples therapy is really good for a relationship.

>>18724663
jack off more

>>18724663
Just masturbate. Crimeny.

Is a year not enough to mourn? I mean serously i did nearly every human thing imagineable to make her feel more comfortable. I brought her blankets and tea wherever she seemd sad. I worked overteime to afford really awesome holidays so she could think about something else. I showed her some new sports so she could have a few friends and have some fun on a regular basis. Jesus the list goes on and goes on.
Yeah jacking off nearly daily for over 2 Years when married to a woman who was an awesome sexual partner is absolutly not frustating.

>>18724693
You're never done mourning, you just learn to mask it to others.

>>18724693
Get a therapist

My wife would never go to therapy. she had to a kid and fucking hate them with all her guts.
I also lost some family and friend to cancer and suicide. But goddamit Life is Pain you have to make the bests of your time. Else its wasted. So I allow myself a limited time to mourn and then continiue. I thinks thats the best you can do.

>>18724710
Then give her an ultimatum. You feel neglected and want to save the marriage. She can try therapy, make an effort, or move on.

This is literally what hookers are for. Alternatively, get a fleshlight or one of those asses you fill with hot water.

so your adivce is fuck it or cheat.
awesome!

>>18724729
No, clearly the best option is therapy, but if both parties refuse there's not much else to say. What do you want from us? We have you answer, and you're coming up with excuses to dismiss the actual good advice.

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So maybe you have an advice for how to introduce someone who donts want to see therapist to the idea that they need one without hurting their feelings? Because telling someone sorry that your still not over that shit your dragging with you is not normal time to get someone that has enough knowledge over the human brain to get this out of you. is maybe not the best idea. And she really fucking hates therapist. I dont give a shit if it helps her i will definitly go to one and tell them everthing.

>>18724762
If she wants to be a whiny little babby about everything and refuses therapy then you're fucked. She should be far over her gpas death by now, there is something under the surface here. Therapists for adults are an entirely different ballgame than going when youre a kid. If she doesnt believe that, she is a mental child and a little crybaby bitch at that. If all she wants to do is be miserable then you cant do anything to stop it.

>>18724663
Put a little romance back into your life. Take her to dinner. Go away for a romantic weekend. DO NOT make sex the obvious goal of the event. In fact a couple of romantic times together that end with just cuddling are more likely to put her in the mood than anything else. Let her find her way back to wanting you

>>18724762
Click on the post number to reply to it grandpa